Letting go of our exes

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  • Опубліковано 3 гру 2024

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  • @cecerenavarro9507
    @cecerenavarro9507 4 роки тому +44

    My biggest highlight of this episode is without a doubt the moment when megan communicated to mikael to lessen how he speaks about his past. I think this definitely helps the person (Mikael) process his own feelings about his past relationship. Given that in Mik's part he was just letting whatever he was feelings towards his ex flow and eventually telling it to his current (Megan). Because if it happened that Megan did not speak about how she was feeling about this specific process... It might've ended up for her to be annoyed by it and can lead to an argument.

  • @paulineliwanag6194
    @paulineliwanag6194 4 роки тому +16

    When it comes to material things, it's not hard for me to throw it away even if it's a gift from someone I loved. I agree with Mikael, if it's really an important memory, why do you need something to be reminded of that memory? That's why I prefer going out or spending quality time with my family, friends or boyfriend rather than giving them gifts. These certain memories will not get old, stolen and devalued. Experiences not possessions are the stuff of memories. 😊

  • @audreycanoza9233
    @audreycanoza9233 4 роки тому +49

    not yet in a relationship but your podcasts are already preparing me for it!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @machotravis
    @machotravis 4 роки тому +8

    re-gifting promotes sustainability! yes to re-gifting!

  • @momshielp453
    @momshielp453 4 роки тому +5

    can I just say, Mik looks 3 years younger with this kind of haircut!!! looking forward to another topic this Sunday. Your podcast is already a part of my Sunday habit. Thank you.

  • @fatimahblaiselumangco9423
    @fatimahblaiselumangco9423 4 роки тому +2

    Talking about your past relationship with your current is okay up to a certain point. It really helps if you kind of know how to read your partner's movement and yeah, just being honest with how you feel. Because the more you try to just say, "It's fine.", the more it gets crazy.

  • @daineombao6822
    @daineombao6822 4 роки тому +2

    I just finished listening to the podcast and as much as I want to connect or apply the "Why Not?" advice of Mikael's uncle, I can't. I also lost my dad when I was a teenager, specifically 14 years old, it was really a tough time for me because I was just starting to make sense of everything that is happening around me. During the burial, a lot of people, even strangers, told me that "Everything is going to be okay, he's in a better place" though I share their sentiments, I just can't get a hold of that statement. How could they say that he's in a better place? The best place he could ever be is with us, his family, and his loved ones. 6 years after, I know that I haven't moved on yet, that I am still in the process of grieving and I still ask that question over and over again. Maybe when I moved on or get over this grieving phase I could go back to this podcast and finally say "I made it"

  • @aprilferolino6578
    @aprilferolino6578 4 роки тому +2

    My new hobby is to listen on your podcast every vacant of my online classes. Thank you for this. Keep on uploading!

  • @rosemariebaston5035
    @rosemariebaston5035 4 роки тому +1

    WHATCHING MEGAN AND MIKAEL PODCAST ONE WILL GROW AS A PERSON . ITS EDUCATIONAL.,THERES AUTHENTICITY AND SIMPLICITY AND ETC ...GOD BLESS YOU BOTH AND YOUR PET DOG .

  • @juliebeedette
    @juliebeedette 4 роки тому +5

    As much as I want to listen to this episode as soon as it was posted, I have to save it for tomorrow while I work. I grew tired of listening to my playlist on Spotify over and over and I stumbled upon your podcast and I couldn't stop listening. I listened to all your episodes for a week that I had to listen to some of them twice already because I just couldn't stop listening to you both! I hope you could upload multiple times a week 🤭🤭

    • @MeganMikaelPodcast
      @MeganMikaelPodcast  4 роки тому +3

      Yay!!! Hopefully we can do more uploads soon!!

    • @juliebeedette
      @juliebeedette 4 роки тому +1

      @@MeganMikaelPodcast yes, yes please! We would very much love that. ❤️😊 Can I also just say.. Oh my gosh! I cannot believe you replied to meeee! I'm so kilig! Keep it up, Bonez and Fofo! 😊😊

    • @GEORGINA1013
      @GEORGINA1013 4 роки тому

      @@juliebeedette truth! ❤❤❤ they're both awesome!!!

  • @titacruz4368
    @titacruz4368 4 роки тому +2

    Congrats Soba...Mr. Paw's got you..artista ka na cutie Soba.

  •  4 роки тому +2

    I really love this couple.... 😍
    Really a relationship goal.

  • @leusxmiie
    @leusxmiie 4 роки тому +1

    I relate of what mikael said. Kase yung isang ex ko is barakda ko sya edi syempre meron pa ding connections before, but now he had a gf so i respected it 😊

  • @ruedigergrosch8651
    @ruedigergrosch8651 4 роки тому

    Bagay na bagay talaga silang dalawa, ang hahaba ng mga biyas 😳can't wait... Sana magkaroon na sila ng mga babies 🤗🙏💖

  • @leinakristel
    @leinakristel 4 роки тому +3

    Love this couple so much!

  • @kaye1334
    @kaye1334 4 роки тому

    Time really works magic in helping you forget, but there still should be a constant choice to do so as well because you could easily distract yourself to not forget things or emotions as you held onto them. I think, that’s fine, but don’t let it last for a long time. You still gotta face it and go through the process of letting go.

  • @nicclrssa7459
    @nicclrssa7459 4 роки тому

    Inarguably, there's no greater pain than losing a family. Having to let go when you're unready and when you really don't want to is excruciating.
    As per my experience, there's a huge downside of hoarding material things. I tell you, someone who has a lot also has a lot to lose. That's why I couldn't agree more to what Mikael said in 21:50 - 21:55 . Things that are there but aren't useful at all or maybe let's say, worthless is-- like what Megan said on the previous episode-- "just a waste of space." Honestly, the first thing that came to my mind when Mikael said those words were my piled up reviewers, lit and reading books, academic papers, lecture notes, trials hahaha. I'm obviously done with them but I still spare them from letting go. Maybe for future use? Idk😁
    Lastly, take time in observing yourself for Hoarding Disorder exists. Too much will never do you any good.

  • @jamaelavera8776
    @jamaelavera8776 4 роки тому +1

    Looking forward to more "minimalism" podcasts 😉
    Thank you for this video. ❣️

  • @magzjapson227
    @magzjapson227 4 роки тому +3

    How about topic on doing household chores? Just curious how do you manage doing these in this pandemic 😊 Thanks.

  • @titacruz4368
    @titacruz4368 4 роки тому +1

    So excited...can't wait!

  • @fatimahblaiselumangco9423
    @fatimahblaiselumangco9423 4 роки тому

    Soba is such a mood!!! Ang cuuuute!!!! 🥰

  • @kaedellosa619
    @kaedellosa619 4 роки тому +1

    Yassss ❤ kala ko walang episode today

  • @momshielp453
    @momshielp453 4 роки тому +1

    Salute to Megan for handling well the issue on Mikael's ex gf. Kung ako yon baka mamatay na ko sa selos or maski mahal ko yong bf ko, I will break up with him. It's okay to be friends with ex but not to the extent na you'll discuss with him or her your problem with your current.

    • @momshielp453
      @momshielp453 4 роки тому +1

      napakalawak ng pangunawa ni Megan, props to you...remember the #KwentongJollibee episode when Mikael said that he had an amazing relationship with his ex. OMG! Megan really loves Mikael that much!!!!

  • @tinvaldez7466
    @tinvaldez7466 4 роки тому +1

    Nice. I’ve watched minimalist videos from last year, it helped me to let go of my clothes. 6mos that you still keep it, and yet you have’nt use it, it’s time to let go.
    And I can totally relate from Mik’s experience about totally letting go from your ex. You just have to be open to give it a shot with your new partner, and i think it helped because my boyfriend also told me what Megan said to Mik, that I should stop mentioning my ex, the stories, memories and all. I felt instantly that I really need to stop it. It helped me to face and embrace the Now VS the Past ♥️
    more of topic like this please.
    How bout letting go of work, the job you had for almost a decade ♥️
    Thank you so much..

  • @fatimahblaiselumangco9423
    @fatimahblaiselumangco9423 4 роки тому

    I rarely talk to my exes but I am friends with them. But this was before. My current boyf is uneasy with the thought that I still get to talk with my exes once in a while. I thought it was quite over the boundary but then I realized that if I am in his shoes, I'll be upset too. So then, I made a decision to never talk to my exes again unless of course under unexpected circumstances. And also, I really appreciate my boyf's move to talk to me and open up to me his feelings with that action of mine. Communication and being honest with your feelings are really something to hold on to.

  • @asleyasarosung5867
    @asleyasarosung5867 4 роки тому +2

    I love you both so much!!!! Your podcast is such a blessing! Take care you love birds. All love from Poonabayabao, Lanao del Sur! ❤🖤🤍

  • @pmjespiritu1012
    @pmjespiritu1012 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Mikael and Megan. Na-hook na ako manood ng videos nyo.

  • @leylahsawal32
    @leylahsawal32 4 роки тому +2

    Luv you both! Stay safe & happy forever.❤️🙏❤️🙏🇨🇦

  • @marthmendoza3463
    @marthmendoza3463 4 роки тому +1

    I like listening to your podcasts though I haven’t been living in the philippines for a really long time now your talks makes me feel so nostalgic and entertained while I work. I appreciate you both. #relationshipgoals

  • @emlatorre9213
    @emlatorre9213 4 роки тому +1

    Oh no, I'm late! 😅 Will just watch full video (no longer live huhu)

  • @bellaebarle4006
    @bellaebarle4006 4 роки тому

    I love you both. Learned a lot ❤️

  • @emlatorre9213
    @emlatorre9213 4 роки тому +5

    Soba is sooo comfy sleeping 🥰🥰🥰

  • @CheskaMalabanan_
    @CheskaMalabanan_ 4 роки тому

    to make so many memories kiligggg me!

  • @tugbangiv
    @tugbangiv 4 роки тому

    There must be some items that if it is not important to like have or touch and what you are cherishing are the memories, I would suggest that you take a picture and save it digitally. It would not be the same and should not be considered always but it will serve as a trigger to remember the memories. Just like if you have lots of magnets on your fridge from countries that you visited, you would not talk about your experiences frequently but when you see the magnet, memories would just come back rushing.

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA1013 4 роки тому

    this is an emotional episode after your wedding!

  • @kimchiunatics
    @kimchiunatics 4 роки тому +4

    Basically, friendster was the social media account that my family could look into and all the Barkada gimiks that can’t be tagged in friendster would be posted on multiply 😅

  • @kimberlycabiles2656
    @kimberlycabiles2656 4 роки тому +3

    I keep listening to your podcast , I think I'm learning too much even Im single 😂😂

  • @alohalaventa6280
    @alohalaventa6280 4 роки тому +1

    Waiting here ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @monikamagar8238
    @monikamagar8238 4 роки тому +2

    Awwww.... soba looks so cute!😍😍

  • @imcibi7428
    @imcibi7428 4 роки тому +1

    It reminds me of my childhood days and my old self, so relatable. I miss those days, now I can't let go of the memories 😆..

  • @arlynnapenas2367
    @arlynnapenas2367 4 роки тому +2

    I wonder where they got their shoes hmm

  • @leipal8136
    @leipal8136 4 роки тому

    wow congratulations Soba! you are so cute

  • @TheAngeLinExperience
    @TheAngeLinExperience 3 роки тому

    When it comes to material things, im very sentimental. I have this pillow that my dad bought me when I was 9 years old and my dad worked a lot overseas from age 7-15 years old. That pillow, I couldn’t seem to let it go that even tho we migrated abroad I brought it with me. Im now 26 and I can’t sleep, travel and go somewhere without that spongebob pillow from Dakki if someone here is familiar with Dakki they are magic pillows. I even tried looking for the same design when I went back back to Mnl and even asked my bestfriend to even lookout for the same pillow as mine in DXB 😂

  • @zmaeramirez7477
    @zmaeramirez7477 4 роки тому +1

    1st loaded question:
    the same with them, I DONT TALK TO ANY OF MY EXES. hahahaha di sa bitter2 or whatever, di ko talaga bet, respect sa new gf nila and respect sa current bf ko.

    • @zmaeramirez7477
      @zmaeramirez7477 4 роки тому

      im not friends with any of them also hahaha civil lang baaaa. chill LOL hahahaha

  • @sarahfebrinaharmaini726
    @sarahfebrinaharmaini726 3 роки тому

    wow fofo is so handsome

  • @CheskaMalabanan_
    @CheskaMalabanan_ 4 роки тому

    relate ako sa books, keychains, magazines, boxes! Hahaha!

  • @chartisticpineda1731
    @chartisticpineda1731 4 роки тому

    OMG NEOPETS the throwback on this is real HAHAHAH!!!!

    • @MeganMikaelPodcast
      @MeganMikaelPodcast  4 роки тому +1

      I KNOW RIGHT! anddddd!!! They're coming out with a mobile version daw 😱

  • @Audrey-mc4zp
    @Audrey-mc4zp 4 роки тому

    do make a podcast on diet and exercise!

  • @mercelineadhiambo6661
    @mercelineadhiambo6661 4 роки тому

    My answer is NO. That can affect your current relationship.

  • @jissaaadiaries
    @jissaaadiaries 4 роки тому

    I really love you both!! Bought nintendo switch because of you guys and want to buy a poodle soon because of Soba!! 😍😍💛💛

  • @baeloui.e
    @baeloui.e 4 роки тому

    Not even had an ex but why I'm here? Haha. I just love them.

  • @lazyblackmanoban6108
    @lazyblackmanoban6108 4 роки тому

    The title of the podcast change?

  • @emlatorre9213
    @emlatorre9213 4 роки тому +2

    Friendster and Multiply. Wooow, I'm old, I was always looking at "testi" or "testimonials" back then! Hahaha!

    • @kimchiunatics
      @kimchiunatics 4 роки тому +1

      me too. I remember during HS days we would ask our classmates for “testi” on Friendster.

    • @emlatorre9213
      @emlatorre9213 4 роки тому +1

      @@kimchiunatics yeah in hindsight asking for "testi" from my highschool friends was just a way for my young self to get validation from others. Lol it was a good thing we grew up and learned that our value is not dictated by those "testi". 😊

  • @MicahEdem
    @MicahEdem 4 роки тому +1

    ang pogi ni mikael

  • @Volley636
    @Volley636 4 роки тому +1

    I so miss our dog who is so clingy just like soba.She died few weeks ago.😭😭She just love to sit on our lap or sleeps in my mom's or dad's chest

  • @kimchiunatics
    @kimchiunatics 4 роки тому +5

    There are also some people who are afraid to let go of their significant other even if the relationship is already “dead” just because they feel that “sayang” yung memories and years nila together, which is kinda sad.

    • @syrilljoenentrada6690
      @syrilljoenentrada6690 4 роки тому

      Sad :(

    • @angelicaleano4656
      @angelicaleano4656 4 роки тому +1

      Same with me :(( ganyan na ganyan situation ko noon with my ex of 4 yrs, it's really sad though because di ko talaga ma let go yung taon dahil sayang yung tinagal namin. Pero that's in the past na :) happy na with my new boyfriend, 6 months and counting ☺

  • @arianne97
    @arianne97 4 роки тому

    soba!!! 😍😍😍

  • @zmaeramirez7477
    @zmaeramirez7477 4 роки тому

    hahaha super naka relate with ate megan about gray shirts

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA1013 4 роки тому

    ❤❤❤❤ the art of letting go ❤

  • @SK-gf4oi
    @SK-gf4oi 4 роки тому

    This yellow show looks like a cushion

  • @lougonzales3708
    @lougonzales3708 4 роки тому +1

    From Dubai Hello ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Cetions
    @Cetions 4 роки тому

    I check my neopets account every now and then as well 🤣

  • @mayflorcanales2774
    @mayflorcanales2774 4 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rosellemendoza5700
    @rosellemendoza5700 4 роки тому +1

    😘😘😘😘

  • @bonn4888
    @bonn4888 4 роки тому

    May pagsiko 😂

  • @hazzlegracehorne8956
    @hazzlegracehorne8956 4 роки тому +1

    ♡♡♡

  • @cjespanola7491
    @cjespanola7491 4 роки тому

    :D ...

  • @milaeugenio4614
    @milaeugenio4614 4 роки тому

    Act adult people, you're not playing bahay bahalang, have you look at self in front of the mirror. What are those slippers, grow up naman, find a serious job and not make a career of vlogging.

  • @Shiera143
    @Shiera143 4 роки тому

    💖💖💖

  • @mariatheresanicanor7442
    @mariatheresanicanor7442 3 роки тому

    ♥️♥️♥️