ADHD overlaps with ASD. I know quite a few of people that are on the spectrum that have ADHD, including my own. Try getting squeeker shoes for him. They helped with my son's toe walking. They were annoying at first, but PT said it was the best thing because the sound is what they want to here and it's fun and exciting.
Emily... you have an unbelievable amount on your plate. Know you are doing the very best you can do. You are such a sweet, caring & loving Mom. One day at a time. You will get the boys all the help that is available. Pls be proud of all the sacrifices you have made for your family. God Bless you all 🙏🏻💗
I have a 17 year old son with Autism.. But also some mental issues and Add and Adhd. All you video is my son. Except he is diagnosed MMR. He does not have the smarts. He was 12 when he was fully trained. But still has accidents at times. My son flaps instead of spinning. He toe walked for years and now he does not put his whole foot on the ground.. Keep going momma you are doing all he needs and wants.. Its hard their were days I wanted to give up.. But they are special in their own way and there are days u just sit and cry because you can't do any thing to please them.. Love your vlogs.. Keep your head up momma it will get better...
A lot of the things they told you in NY are very similar to what they told my mom 36 years ago. Beck then, they weren't looking for autism in girls. They to my mom that I was just quiet, shy, an introvert, clumsy, and too sensitive. At 3 years old, I stopped talking as much, but didn't lose my vocabulary or language skills. My being too sensitive was due to Sensory Processing Disorder. I am predominantly sensory avoidant, not sensory seeking. My spatial awareness and hand-eye coordination suck. I can fall over while standing still. I am a fall risk, so my mom bought me a smart watch with a hard fall detector and an SOS function. I went my entire life not understanding why I am the way I am and doing my best to hide anything that didn't match what I saw. I was diagnosed 2 years ago with autism. Because of my particular combination of challenges associated with my autism and my other health issues, I am disabled and can't live a fully independent life. My brother bought a house for him, our mom, and me. My mom is my primary caregiver. She acts as my chauffeur and personal assistant. I am the primary cook during the week and my brother cooks on the weekends. My brother is ADHD, but not autistic. He was diagnosed at the age of 4, which was the youngest clinical diagnosis of ADHD at that time. My mom took him in for a hearing evaluation and the audiologist told my mom that it wasn't his hearing, but neurological. He took longer to potty train than I did, but when he was ready it clicked.
All the thing's you say about the start of his life is the same as my Great grandson. He said mum dad and got to just over year it stopped. He was diagnosed just under 2 years of age as my Granddaughter has worked with special needs children since she was 17. He sometimes spins as well and at the start he didn't like loud noises but not as bad now. He loves numbers he knows the 24 hour clock and gets frustrated at school as he is so ahead. Your lucky he eats well its only since he started school he will try different foods but will eat blueberries everyday. I hope you get all the help you need. xxxx
Thanks for sharing again. I've been on most of their journeys so far but still amazed to hear it from beginning to end. As in every day I say prayers for you, Will, and each of the kids. Colorado sure looks good on you! Nice seeing you all have room to spread out! I love doing life with You and Will. Love and Hugs, Grandma Kelley of 7
This is amazing to hear! Thank you for sharing the ftory of your son and how you as his mother are trying to fight for him. I have a cousin who is autistic and one of my youngest brothers is high functioning autistic and ADD. When I haven't had to deal with everything you have with Sawyer, I am able to see similarities between my brother and your son that is validating to me. My brother is also very smart and comes off as emotionless or robotic. He is always in his phone or the computer and wears noise canceling headphones outside of the house. Seeing the fights that my family has fought to get him to where he is at at almost 19 and how you and Will are fighting as well, gives me hope for your family and your son. I thank you again and send prayers, vibes and the like towards you and your family. You may claim you are a 'weak woman', but you are one of the strongest I have seen and it is going to lead to a better future for your son. I promise the view at the top of the mountain makes the harsh climb worthwhile. ❤❤❤
Warm blanket from the dryer when he starts escalating. Feingold diet, you will be amazed what he has to say. Its a old book that I used for our son in 1987. It has helped hundreds of children with many disabilities.
You and your husband are doing such an amazing with all your beautiful children but with your twins you two are exceptional thank you for sharing and sheading light nothing but prayers and helpfulness for Sawyer's progression you are wonderful Emily 💜
You are an amazing mom! As a mom who is going through trying to get my 2 year old nonverbal son therapy and diagnosis I truly appreciate how real and matter of fact you speak about the struggle with a special needs child. We are blessed to be able to have early intervention but honestly because of covid we are only doing televisits. They are not working very well. But we have hope for the future. Thankyou for speaking honestly about the frustration the parents feel.
Your children are beautiful as a mumma of also 2 children with special needs and a large family mumma (11) children in our family I’ve watched you guys since the twins was born you are a beautiful loving family some times are hard but you get through them on the worst days tomorrow the sun will still shine ♥️
I admire you so much Emily. You are doing a great job. If you want to look into getting Sawyer ABA Therapy. ABA Therapy will help with tantrums, making eye contact, teaching him to follow through with direction, and even potty training. Most kids that do ABA Therapy also do OT, PT, and Speech just like what he’s doing now. Again you are doing great! Stick with it, it will get better. Just a suggestion if you would want to look into it for more help :)
The ABA therapy sounds great!!! I just hope she reads this!! I hardly ever see where she comments after other people’s comments! So I’m worried she won’t see this!!! I hope that someone who knows her will see your comment and tell her about it!!!
Emily my daughter started Early Childhood Intervention at 18 months. I can give you every story about it how long it took for us to get it because she wasn't even talking at 18 months. She has ADHD and moderate learning disability.
My daughter I’ve tried to get speech therapy for so long; and they kept saying she was fine but finally she’s 20 months and I took her in and she isn’t talking and they agreed time dor speech therapy. She understands, and she listens for the most part but cannot talk. She definitely throws major fits when she’s upset, but I don’t know if it’s because she’s almost 2 years old or what. I’m just glad she’s going to finally start some speech therapy soon!
👋🏻 Hey amazing momma. Found your channel thanks to stephanie from our landing crew. Sawyer's story is very similar to my sons who just got diagnosed at age 5. He has had the toe walking and speech delay but other than that avoiding eye contact & very little stimminng just came about when he entered prek last year before covid hit. I'm in Florida btw. I'm planning on speaking about my sons story on my channel soon because I also want to help others and just be more involved in the community. Thanks for sharing . & always remember no matter what or how overwhelmed you may get YOU GOT THIS 🤗🤗
This video reminds me so much of my son when he was that age. He is 7 now. I don't have any other children and I didn't know what was normal and what wasn't, but I've always known that my son is in some ways autistic. He has always been very emotional, and before he could talk much he would get so frustrated and hit me and throw things everyday. It was overwhelming! He also used to do the one word sentences but since being in elementary school and having extra help(speech, pt, ot) he is now maybe 6 months to a year behind his classmates speech wise. He is now understanding more, but like you said he responds to things people ask with things he knows he is supposed to say instead of thinking about the question and his real answer. He is great at math, and numbers, but he sometimes writes things without thinking instead of doing the actual work. He has been diagnosed with ADHD and we are still working on getting the correct medication. He still gets very angry at simple things and its hard to reason with him. I have to let him calm down on his own and tell him when he has gone too far(which usually makes it worse cause it makes him feel bad I think). He is the sweetest boy ever most of the time.(He is always wanting to help people. His teacher told me that every morning he helps a classmate in a wheelchair unpack her bag and gets her anything she needs without anyone telling him to do so.) You are inspirational to me. I could never do what you do, and I only know how hard it is with just one child. Your sons will grow up to be just fine because they have a mother who does so much to give them the best tools possible to be great men.
Glad things are working out for Griffin and Sawyer they deserve the help. I am glad your in a state which looks after your special needs kids. We are lucky in England that we have our NHS which is free to everyone even now in this pandemic. If we cannot get an appointment with NHS I have been sent to see someone at a private hospital which is great. We only pay for our prescriptions well adults do kids dont and people over 60 dont pay at all for them. Our country has been well supported with our Covid-19 vaccinations and treatments. We used to take our NHS staff for granted but not now this country has realised how much they are amazing people. Good luck for the future. Keep up the good work and loving your vlogs xx You are amazing parents keep smiling
I have Cerebral Palsy and I was the same way . I have ataxic CP which in a way is sort of the opposite of what you may think CP is. Most people with CP have spastic which means their muscles are tight but I has more floppy as a baby so my muscles and such were too loose.
I have a son with autism he is 3 and non verbal. Just a idea. Start with just taking him in the mornings when he wakes up and you or your husband use the restroom while he goes.
As someone who works with special needs kiddos/individuals, keep in mind that many (but not all) individuals with autism and/or other disabilities do not have the ability to understand the concept of cause & effect. It all depends on the disability/disabilities, and how it or they impact the individual's cognition. Some individuals are able to learn the cause & effect concept, with the rate that they "grasp" that concept again being dependent on the disability…some learn it after YEARS of repetition, while some learn it at the rate neuro-typical kiddos do; while others are not able to grasp that concept (by no fault of their own). My cousin was EXACTLY like Sawyer with numbers/math when he was little…he was doing square roots and other complex problems in his head when he was a preschooler (no one taught him this yet obviously). He was diagnosed with autism too. My cousin is slightly better about eye contact and some social skills (conversation), but he is still very much in his own universe. Hang in there Emily…you are a great "mama bear" to all of 6 of your kiddos. And keep up the awesome advocating that you are doing for the twins!!!! It will make a huge difference in their lives.
I know-couldn’t believe my ears when she said that!!! Is this the first time on any vlog that she’s mentioned it?? I found this channel when the boys were around 5 mo’s old. But I’m pretty sure I’ve watched all the ones prior.
Oh I can totally relate with the potty training! We tried and tried and tried, and like your son, mine didn't care either 😂🤦🏻♀️ but just to encourage you, he finally got it once his little sister started going and he was pushing 5 and now he is 100% potty training 😁
You should look into some books and activities on computer programming and coding aimed at really young children! With how well he understands numbers, I think it would be a great opportunity to challenge his brain. Computer programming is also a great field of work for those who aren't the best at person-to-person communication (though obviously he is still very young and the world is his oyster.)
My autistic kiddo got into potty training when we got her a flashlight. She would take the flashlight into the bathroom (we would keep the lights off) and she would sit and go potty and wave the flashlight. We are also waiting on a SPD diagnosis. Might be worth a try ❤️.
I have heard that some people like my sister who has a two year old(his name is Eli) and Eli also has autism. She tried the three day method. Some parents who try the three day method are successful and the kid gets it day and night on day one. Others who’s kid is like my sister’s kid or Sawyer it would just be a good kick start to potty training if it even works. Where Sawyer is at now with his communication and his (most of the time) following instructions, I would say the three day method would be a good jump start but will be a wake up call that says”it will take years so get ready”
It's crazy they wouldn't do an MRI in NY. It only takes 4 minutes without oxygen to cause brain damage. It could have affected a part that is a cognitive area and he wouldn't necessarily have a physical issue.
ive been here since video of you almost had Posey im the car! ive watched the twins birth vlog and man it was intense but had no idea Sawyer wasnt akive when born so sorry but hes thriving!!!!
Your truly amazing my friends son is non verbal autistic and didn’t potty train until he went to school. My 20 month old has Cerebral palsy. It took me 17 months of fighting for answers and I refused to back down. I knew something wasn’t right we did the genetic testing eeg and more which showed nothing it wasn’t until I pushed for a mri that we actually found the answers and even now there is issues and still searching for answers for further info.
My son has austim level 3, ADD, OCD, ODD and ANXIETY.and has feet problems so we have $2000 worth of inserts to help him walk correctly and not toe walking. He rubs hands through his hair. Everyone kept telling me he's not this and that cause he has perfect speech. But he can't read ECT. He hates school. My son is a loner, lives in his room. Turning 14 this year but a young minded 14 year old. I say he'll live to at home forever. I still struggle everyday. Life is hard .I don't understand my son. I feel more like a career giver then a mum
Hi Emily,,you know it has been said for sooooooo long that Mother knows there children after everything you an Will notice about Sawyer doctors just kept like they knew more,, Y'all have done the Best to move to Colorado,,so they both can get the help they deserve and need. I just know with everything you put out on your videos this WILL help others who are going threw the same thing,,I just hope & pray that there are doctors watching your videos learn that when a Mother explain something to them take note an do there jobs an listen,,what is being said too them, an take time out an run test an instead of waiting years to do nothing. The out come may have been alot different for Sawyer if Doctors would have just listen to your & Will concerns an acted then instead of later,,Thanks The Lord up above that you & your family is getting the help for your little Cutie Pies,,it ashamed you had to move to Colorado to get it but aleast now they have a fighting chance. God Bless you all keeping you all in our 🙏❤️
I was a school psych in GA. Special ed law states that identified children MUST be served or be out of compliance with federal law. It is called Early Intervention. Not serving Sawyer for 10 months after evaluation and qualifying for an IEP was illegal.
Sawyers story makes me wonder if your OB/GYN was really paying attention to their fluid level in the placenta, etc. I’m not A OB specialist but we’re there signals in utero the DR didn’t see. Anyway good job Mommy❤️
OMG mumma bear u have every right to be upset the New York health system let your family down so badly. I am so so shocked how broken the American healthcare system is to it's people and it's future.I bet when it's a politicians child they would be getting mountains moved for them but won't do a dam thing for there people.Makes me so angry im Australian with a 21 serverly autistic non verbal cousin. Our country has it's issue BUT we have free healthcare for non workers America should follow suit for sure.
Emily I have two special needs children and one of them has some Autistic but not enough to do anything about it I. My other child has a growth hormone deficiency and he has to have a shot everyday that I have to give him. He is very small little boy and he is 10 years old he also has adhd two and now i have to do it by my self because my husband passed last may
ABA was a big help with my son. I know not everyone agrees with it, but it's been a blessing for us. They helped with potty training too.
You’re doing a great job, Emily.
Your a good parent with your twin children Sawyer and Griffin your a good parent ever and God blesses you and your children 🥰♥️♥️
ADHD overlaps with ASD. I know quite a few of people that are on the spectrum that have ADHD, including my own. Try getting squeeker shoes for him. They helped with my son's toe walking. They were annoying at first, but PT said it was the best thing because the sound is what they want to here and it's fun and exciting.
I have ADHD
Emily... you have an unbelievable amount on your plate. Know you are doing the very best you can do. You are such a sweet, caring & loving Mom. One day at a time. You will get the boys all the help that is available. Pls be proud of all the sacrifices you have made for your family. God Bless you all 🙏🏻💗
You and Will are great parents. You love you kids for who they are. Sawyer will find a place where he will be functional in his way.
I have a 17 year old son with Autism.. But also some mental issues and Add and Adhd. All you video is my son. Except he is diagnosed MMR. He does not have the smarts. He was 12 when he was fully trained. But still has accidents at times. My son flaps instead of spinning. He toe walked for years and now he does not put his whole foot on the ground.. Keep going momma you are doing all he needs and wants.. Its hard their were days I wanted to give up.. But they are special in their own way and there are days u just sit and cry because you can't do any thing to please them.. Love your vlogs.. Keep your head up momma it will get better...
I'm so, sooooooo glad you chose Colorado instead of Florida which you were considering way back. Great decision!!!
I’m so happy that you are getting the care the boys need. It’s really wonderful!!
A lot of the things they told you in NY are very similar to what they told my mom 36 years ago. Beck then, they weren't looking for autism in girls. They to my mom that I was just quiet, shy, an introvert, clumsy, and too sensitive. At 3 years old, I stopped talking as much, but didn't lose my vocabulary or language skills. My being too sensitive was due to Sensory Processing Disorder. I am predominantly sensory avoidant, not sensory seeking. My spatial awareness and hand-eye coordination suck. I can fall over while standing still. I am a fall risk, so my mom bought me a smart watch with a hard fall detector and an SOS function. I went my entire life not understanding why I am the way I am and doing my best to hide anything that didn't match what I saw. I was diagnosed 2 years ago with autism. Because of my particular combination of challenges associated with my autism and my other health issues, I am disabled and can't live a fully independent life. My brother bought a house for him, our mom, and me. My mom is my primary caregiver. She acts as my chauffeur and personal assistant. I am the primary cook during the week and my brother cooks on the weekends.
My brother is ADHD, but not autistic. He was diagnosed at the age of 4, which was the youngest clinical diagnosis of ADHD at that time. My mom took him in for a hearing evaluation and the audiologist told my mom that it wasn't his hearing, but neurological. He took longer to potty train than I did, but when he was ready it clicked.
Bless you, Honey. Thanks for sharing. ❤️🙏
All the thing's you say about the start of his life is the same as my Great grandson. He said mum dad and got to just over year it stopped. He was diagnosed just under 2 years of age as my Granddaughter has worked with special needs children since she was 17. He sometimes spins as well and at the start he didn't like loud noises but not as bad now. He loves numbers he knows the 24 hour clock and gets frustrated at school as he is so ahead. Your lucky he eats well its only since he started school he will try different foods but will eat blueberries everyday. I hope you get all the help you need. xxxx
You're an amazing mom! Our one and only child was diagnosed at 17 months. Aba is the very best thing we ever did for him. Highly recommend!
You are amazing dealing with so many balls in the air at one time. Bless your heart. Will is a great husband and dad too.
Love how your strength and positivity shines brightly regarding your Children’s well-being Emily. You are indeed a wonderful Mother. Xxx💖💙
Praying for you and your family. Remember, YOUR WONDERFUL. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Thanks for sharing again. I've been on most of their journeys so far but still amazed to hear it from beginning to end. As in every day I say prayers for you, Will, and each of the kids. Colorado sure looks good on you! Nice seeing you all have room to spread out! I love doing life with You and Will.
Love and Hugs,
Grandma Kelley of 7
This is amazing to hear! Thank you for sharing the ftory of your son and how you as his mother are trying to fight for him. I have a cousin who is autistic and one of my youngest brothers is high functioning autistic and ADD. When I haven't had to deal with everything you have with Sawyer, I am able to see similarities between my brother and your son that is validating to me. My brother is also very smart and comes off as emotionless or robotic. He is always in his phone or the computer and wears noise canceling headphones outside of the house. Seeing the fights that my family has fought to get him to where he is at at almost 19 and how you and Will are fighting as well, gives me hope for your family and your son. I thank you again and send prayers, vibes and the like towards you and your family. You may claim you are a 'weak woman', but you are one of the strongest I have seen and it is going to lead to a better future for your son. I promise the view at the top of the mountain makes the harsh climb worthwhile. ❤❤❤
I have twins as well one is developmentally disabled I kind of know your struggles. Your doing a good job my twins are 32 now
Warm blanket from the dryer when he starts escalating. Feingold diet, you will be amazed what he has to say. Its a old book that I used for our son in 1987. It has helped hundreds of children with many disabilities.
You and your husband are doing such an amazing with all your beautiful children but with your twins you two are exceptional thank you for sharing and sheading light nothing but prayers and helpfulness for Sawyer's progression you are wonderful Emily 💜
You are an amazing mom! As a mom who is going through trying to get my 2 year old nonverbal son therapy and diagnosis I truly appreciate how real and matter of fact you speak about the struggle with a special needs child. We are blessed to be able to have early intervention but honestly because of covid we are only doing televisits. They are not working very well. But we have hope for the future. Thankyou for speaking honestly about the frustration the parents feel.
Much love to you all! Sawyer is a beautiful little boy.
I so enjoy watching you and your lovely family.
Your children are beautiful as a mumma of also 2 children with special needs and a large family mumma (11) children in our family I’ve watched you guys since the twins was born you are a beautiful loving family some times are hard but you get through them on the worst days tomorrow the sun will still shine ♥️
Stay strong , he will get there. He is very smart. One day at a time.
I admire you so much Emily. You are doing a great job. If you want to look into getting Sawyer ABA Therapy. ABA Therapy will help with tantrums, making eye contact, teaching him to follow through with direction, and even potty training. Most kids that do ABA Therapy also do OT, PT, and Speech just like what he’s doing now. Again you are doing great! Stick with it, it will get better. Just a suggestion if you would want to look into it for more help :)
The ABA therapy sounds great!!! I just hope she reads this!! I hardly ever see where she comments after other people’s comments! So I’m worried she won’t see this!!! I hope that someone who knows her will see your comment and tell her about it!!!
Emily my daughter started Early Childhood Intervention at 18 months. I can give you every story about it how long it took for us to get it because she wasn't even talking at 18 months. She has ADHD and moderate learning disability.
My daughter I’ve tried to get speech therapy for so long; and they kept saying she was fine but finally she’s 20 months and I took her in and she isn’t talking and they agreed time dor speech therapy. She understands, and she listens for the most part but cannot talk. She definitely throws major fits when she’s upset, but I don’t know if it’s because she’s almost 2 years old or what. I’m just glad she’s going to finally start some speech therapy soon!
👋🏻 Hey amazing momma. Found your channel thanks to stephanie from our landing crew.
Sawyer's story is very similar to my sons who just got diagnosed at age 5. He has had the toe walking and speech delay but other than that avoiding eye contact & very little stimminng just came about when he entered prek last year before covid hit. I'm in Florida btw. I'm planning on speaking about my sons story on my channel soon because I also want to help others and just be more involved in the community. Thanks for sharing . & always remember no matter what or how overwhelmed you may get YOU GOT THIS 🤗🤗
i love your story. i love learning about different disables.
This video reminds me so much of my son when he was that age. He is 7 now. I don't have any other children and I didn't know what was normal and what wasn't, but I've always known that my son is in some ways autistic. He has always been very emotional, and before he could talk much he would get so frustrated and hit me and throw things everyday. It was overwhelming! He also used to do the one word sentences but since being in elementary school and having extra help(speech, pt, ot) he is now maybe 6 months to a year behind his classmates speech wise. He is now understanding more, but like you said he responds to things people ask with things he knows he is supposed to say instead of thinking about the question and his real answer. He is great at math, and numbers, but he sometimes writes things without thinking instead of doing the actual work. He has been diagnosed with ADHD and we are still working on getting the correct medication. He still gets very angry at simple things and its hard to reason with him. I have to let him calm down on his own and tell him when he has gone too far(which usually makes it worse cause it makes him feel bad I think). He is the sweetest boy ever most of the time.(He is always wanting to help people. His teacher told me that every morning he helps a classmate in a wheelchair unpack her bag and gets her anything she needs without anyone telling him to do so.) You are inspirational to me. I could never do what you do, and I only know how hard it is with just one child. Your sons will grow up to be just fine because they have a mother who does so much to give them the best tools possible to be great men.
Glad you were able to move to CO and get more help for your sons!
Your doing amazing. Your a strong momma. Keep your head up.
You and Will do so so good when Sawyer has a meltdown
Glad things are working out for Griffin and Sawyer they deserve the help. I am glad your in a state which looks after your special needs kids. We are lucky in England that we have our NHS which is free to everyone even now in this pandemic. If we cannot get an appointment with NHS I have been sent to see someone at a private hospital which is great. We only pay for our prescriptions well adults do kids dont and people over 60 dont pay at all for them. Our country has been well supported with our Covid-19 vaccinations and treatments. We used to take our NHS staff for granted but not now this country has realised how much they are amazing people. Good luck for the future. Keep up the good work and loving your vlogs xx You are amazing parents keep smiling
I have Cerebral Palsy and I was the same way . I have ataxic CP which in a way is sort of the opposite of what you may think CP is. Most people with CP have spastic which means their muscles are tight but I has more floppy as a baby so my muscles and such were too loose.
You're an amazing mama!! Also...I think you should write a book about your Twins 💜💜
I have a son with autism he is 3 and non verbal. Just a idea. Start with just taking him in the mornings when he wakes up and you or your husband use the restroom while he goes.
Have you tried the weighted blanket with Sawyer? Sometimes that helps them.
i have a weight blanket and it works a lot for me while i have autism of high function.
My granddaughter is 14 with autism and my daughter is still fighting for every test that she needs
As someone who works with special needs kiddos/individuals, keep in mind that many (but not all) individuals with autism and/or other disabilities do not have the ability to understand the concept of cause & effect. It all depends on the disability/disabilities, and how it or they impact the individual's cognition. Some individuals are able to learn the cause & effect concept, with the rate that they "grasp" that concept again being dependent on the disability…some learn it after YEARS of repetition, while some learn it at the rate neuro-typical kiddos do; while others are not able to grasp that concept (by no fault of their own).
My cousin was EXACTLY like Sawyer with numbers/math when he was little…he was doing square roots and other complex problems in his head when he was a preschooler (no one taught him this yet obviously). He was diagnosed with autism too. My cousin is slightly better about eye contact and some social skills (conversation), but he is still very much in his own universe.
Hang in there Emily…you are a great "mama bear" to all of 6 of your kiddos. And keep up the awesome advocating that you are doing for the twins!!!! It will make a huge difference in their lives.
Never knew sawyer was born dead ! How scary!
Prefer Emily’s description, “not born alive”, so much more gentle. Xx
I know-couldn’t believe my ears when she said that!!! Is this the first time on any vlog that she’s mentioned it?? I found this channel when the boys were around 5 mo’s old. But I’m pretty sure I’ve watched all the ones prior.
New subscriber here from Take it or leave it . Love your family!
Thank you I love Meredith and Tiffany’s podcast they truly get motherhood :-)
You and Will are awesome parents
Oh I can totally relate with the potty training! We tried and tried and tried, and like your son, mine didn't care either 😂🤦🏻♀️ but just to encourage you, he finally got it once his little sister started going and he was pushing 5 and now he is 100% potty training 😁
You should look into some books and activities on computer programming and coding aimed at really young children! With how well he understands numbers, I think it would be a great opportunity to challenge his brain. Computer programming is also a great field of work for those who aren't the best at person-to-person communication (though obviously he is still very young and the world is his oyster.)
I love Soya and Griffin
My autistic kiddo got into potty training when we got her a flashlight. She would take the flashlight into the bathroom (we would keep the lights off) and she would sit and go potty and wave the flashlight. We are also waiting on a SPD diagnosis. Might be worth a try ❤️.
That is a great idea I will try it
@@ItsOurWonderfulLife you know sawyer 2 sisters UA-cam video
You are an amazing Mom and Lady.
I have heard that some people like my sister who has a two year old(his name is Eli) and Eli also has autism. She tried the three day method. Some parents who try the three day method are successful and the kid gets it day and night on day one. Others who’s kid is like my sister’s kid or Sawyer it would just be a good kick start to potty training if it even works. Where Sawyer is at now with his communication and his (most of the time) following instructions, I would say the three day method would be a good jump start but will be a wake up call that says”it will take years so get ready”
You are a great mum. ❤️😘
It's crazy they wouldn't do an MRI in NY. It only takes 4 minutes without oxygen to cause brain damage. It could have affected a part that is a cognitive area and he wouldn't necessarily have a physical issue.
So happy for you can tell your soo happy with the move!! hugs00
ive been here since video of you almost had Posey im the car! ive watched the twins birth vlog and man it was intense but had no idea Sawyer wasnt akive when born so sorry but hes thriving!!!!
Both of your twins will be function people. They just function in there own way.
Your truly amazing my friends son is non verbal autistic and didn’t potty train until he went to school. My 20 month old has Cerebral palsy. It took me 17 months of fighting for answers and I refused to back down. I knew something wasn’t right we did the genetic testing eeg and more which showed nothing it wasn’t until I pushed for a mri that we actually found the answers and even now there is issues and still searching for answers for further info.
My son has austim level 3, ADD, OCD, ODD and ANXIETY.and has feet problems so we have $2000 worth of inserts to help him walk correctly and not toe walking. He rubs hands through his hair. Everyone kept telling me he's not this and that cause he has perfect speech. But he can't read ECT. He hates school. My son is a loner, lives in his room. Turning 14 this year but a young minded 14 year old. I say he'll live to at home forever. I still struggle everyday. Life is hard .I don't understand my son. I feel more like a career giver then a mum
Hi Emily,,you know it has been said for sooooooo long that Mother knows there children after everything you an Will notice about Sawyer doctors just kept like they knew more,, Y'all have done the Best to move to Colorado,,so they both can get the help they deserve and need. I just know with everything you put out on your videos this WILL help others who are going threw the same thing,,I just hope & pray that there are doctors watching your videos learn that when a Mother explain something to them take note an do there jobs an listen,,what is being said too them, an take time out an run test an instead of waiting years to do nothing. The out come may have been alot different for Sawyer if Doctors would have just listen to your & Will concerns an acted then instead of later,,Thanks The Lord up above that you & your family is getting the help for your little Cutie Pies,,it ashamed you had to move to Colorado to get it but aleast now they have a fighting chance. God Bless you all keeping you all in our 🙏❤️
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I’m curious what school district you guys are attending...I taught in the Springs for many years
I’m so sorry that you went through this with the speech therapist
Nice to meet you and your family I came over from our landing crew channel.
Look like you to have your hands full
I wonder if he has a sensory problem contributing to not realizing about needing to go to the bathroom.
You are such an involved loving parent, you're doing GREAT! Are you still trying to find a nanny/care worker in your area?
I was a school psych in GA. Special ed law states that identified children MUST be served or be out of compliance with federal law. It is called Early Intervention. Not serving Sawyer for 10 months after evaluation and qualifying for an IEP was illegal.
Sawyers story makes me wonder if your OB/GYN was really paying attention to their fluid level in the placenta, etc. I’m not A OB specialist but we’re there signals in utero the DR didn’t see.
Anyway good job Mommy❤️
Really sounds like ashburgers syndrome which is in the same class as autism. I know doctors that have that. They are super smart
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Emily. You are the strongest woman ever.
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OMG mumma bear u have every right to be upset the New York health system let your family down so badly. I am so so shocked how broken the American healthcare system is to it's people and it's future.I bet when it's a politicians child they would be getting mountains moved for them but won't do a dam thing for there people.Makes me so angry im Australian with a 21 serverly autistic non verbal cousin. Our country has it's issue BUT we have free healthcare for non workers America should follow suit for sure.
Emily I have two special needs children and one of them has some Autistic but not enough to do anything about it I.
My other child has a growth hormone deficiency and he has to have a shot everyday that I have to give him. He is very small little boy and he is 10 years old he also has adhd two and now i have to do it by my self because my husband passed last may
Autism can mimics brain damage dealing w this w my lil miss sounds very much the same
Idc
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