How do I know if I should return to an ex or not? | @GodlyDating101

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  • @frencesdiaries5149
    @frencesdiaries5149 5 років тому +75

    "now here we are. we're married. she's pregnant. God is good." 😂😭🙌
    you guys are a blessing! seriously!

  • @celinepristine8333
    @celinepristine8333 5 років тому +124

    Thank you so much for this.. I got into a relationship with someone back then and a lot of things led to the break up, we were really young and not mature mentally and spiritually, he was also into women but few years down the lane we both grew and we are back together. It took lots of prayer. Thank you so much.

    • @Justmythoughts___
      @Justmythoughts___ 4 роки тому +12

      Amazing thank God. Who approached the conversation of getting back together if you don't mind me asking?

  • @heatherdoyle9417
    @heatherdoyle9417 5 років тому +29

    I know the enemy is tricky I'm aware but the greatest testimony I ever heard Is this lady is a drug addict she was a backslider and after she recommit to God she went back for the drug dealer she use to date now he's the pastor of her church if we could all bring a sinner to God

  • @_iamabraham_
    @_iamabraham_ 2 роки тому +8

    What you think is a NO in a relationship is probably a not Now … ima hold that to heart

  • @frankieclo9841
    @frankieclo9841 6 років тому +54

    It can be two believers but they are still unequally yoked.
    Great advice! Congrats to you guys! I follow you on facebook, love your page!

  • @brandoncolbert
    @brandoncolbert 4 роки тому +16

    “I will join a choir if I know you like guys that sing”😂😂 Funny but true, the people need this

  • @calvindthao95
    @calvindthao95 Рік тому +2

    Wow. This a breath of fresh air. Simple idea, we are constantly tryng to pick and choose how the bible applies to only some parts of our dating life, when god in his plans, desires for us to have courtships full of integrity and accountability to protect and build a foundation for marraige. Just let the scriptures do the guiding and help us follow suit so is my prayer. This video was very insightful. Thank yall

  • @crystalflores8537
    @crystalflores8537 5 років тому +34

    I have even MORE peace in my heart after watching this video. God bless :)

  • @nanaosei9784
    @nanaosei9784 6 років тому +16

    I was literally JUST talking to God about this and saw your post on ig. God is so faithful! thank you all ❤

  • @bomoniyi
    @bomoniyi 5 років тому +5

    Thanks you got me after the first one! Lord knows how hard this was. But I put it in His hands alone because His plans are better than mine.

  • @beingroxy
    @beingroxy 6 років тому +28

    Wooow thank you !!! I love that “don’t force relationships or try to make it work let it flow” ! 🤦🏾‍♀️ so simple and true and I loved what she said it’s “not really a no but just a not now !” Thank you again for your transparency guys !

  • @alyssatorianna
    @alyssatorianna 2 роки тому +5

    4 years later and still such great wisdom! This was so needed today and I’m so glad God dropped it on my timeline 🙏🏾 Thank you 💗

  • @shanto0613
    @shanto0613 4 роки тому +9

    I just broke with my boyfriend of 2 years 2 weeks ago. We were going to get married early next year. That was his plan. I used to be Muslim, I got saved by Jesus and wanted and still want my marriage to be one that honours and glorifies God. Everything about my life is around God. We suddenly grew apart when he said he expects me to wash his clothing, be home before him when we get married and other stuff. He was rude about it and decided that if I didnt want to do all that stuff then he didnt want me anymore. All i wanted was some respect and a polite way of discussing these things. I asked him to pray about our union and he said it wasnt enough then he just ghosted me. Everything was fine until that talk. I've been heartbroken however a good thing came out of my misery, I've sought God in this period and I still want a Godly marriage

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

      Contact him on what's app for help
      👄👄👄

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

      +2348077751695
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    • @tanniebee
      @tanniebee 3 роки тому +7

      I'm glad you learned this about him before you got married

    • @mbithikimanzi715
      @mbithikimanzi715 2 роки тому

      But that bullshit that your role and you know that. You want to be married and not submissive. That the reality marriage roles not roses... Think beyond religion and get the answers right. Be like your mother...shit

    • @shanto0613
      @shanto0613 Рік тому

      @@mbithikimanzi715 you just wrote bullshit acting like you know me. You could have skipped the comment since you're bitter about yourself

  • @traviswilson9925
    @traviswilson9925 4 роки тому +4

    So true! It is really awesome to see a couple doing ministry together, God Bless you guys!

  • @Arkyark672
    @Arkyark672 6 років тому +9

    This was so great. I thank God for your IG page and now I’ve got you on UA-cam. Y’all are So on point. . I love the idea of just waiting on God. I’ve grown much more patient but sometimes I do have a desire for a deep relationship. I can wait though😁

  • @yvonnietaylor4354
    @yvonnietaylor4354 2 роки тому +1

    You both are speaking into my life!! I am so inspired to make better choices. Thankyou for blessing me with this wisdom and knowledge. Truth hurts but it will set you free!! God Bless you Both!! 🙌

  • @theedailyshannon
    @theedailyshannon 5 років тому +1

    wow the truth hurts but it’ll set you free. appreciative of you guys for being obedient and helping others. God bless you.

  • @jacintobriceno1775
    @jacintobriceno1775 6 років тому +7

    Congratulations! Great advice at a perfect time in my life!

  • @jesseverything603
    @jesseverything603 6 років тому +22

    Wow..this was much needed. My boyfriend and i of 2 years just decided to go separate ways due to minor rules my parents had in place, i.e. not being able to talk passed a certain time etc. but, we feel as though we can get back together after we finish school. I’m praying to God for clarity on everything. Nevertheless, I’ve learned a ton from you two !

    • @katieg.16
      @katieg.16 3 роки тому +2

      How are you doing now?

    • @missjesstalks2222
      @missjesstalks2222 3 роки тому +4

      @@katieg.16 im doing well, it’s been almost 3 years since we’ve broken up. Thanks for asking 💕

    • @ickyvicky433
      @ickyvicky433 2 роки тому

      Did y'all ever talk again?

    • @jesseverything603
      @jesseverything603 2 роки тому +3

      @@ickyvicky433 we haven’t spoken in over two years. I’m now in a healthy committed relationship with a man that meets more than what i could’ve ever prayed for. It’s crazy to read my comment and to see what i wanted isn’t what God wanted for me. I’m so grateful that i waited for Him to show me who He wanted!

    • @aizenosaimafidon1119
      @aizenosaimafidon1119 2 роки тому +2

      @@jesseverything603 wow this is so timely 😭

  • @tanyciagrace9556
    @tanyciagrace9556 5 років тому +7

    A much needed message. Thank you to both of you!

  • @ashleykirby3227
    @ashleykirby3227 6 років тому +5

    This is really great for me. I'll be going off to college in a few months. Thanks 😊

  • @tyasiawalker97
    @tyasiawalker97 6 років тому +5

    right on time... thank y'all!!! and congrats!

  • @kleetie12
    @kleetie12 6 років тому +2

    Thank you for that. I am going thru that right now and I think GOD is saying not right now. I really needed to hear that.

  • @iszy2102
    @iszy2102 4 роки тому +2

    Thank God for this edifying message. Really fed my soul

  • @cloyettegrant1733
    @cloyettegrant1733 6 років тому +2

    Great advice. Congrats on the baby. God's richest blessings.

  • @ZebbieC
    @ZebbieC 6 років тому +5

    This is so good thank you for sharing your wisdom God bless you both! 💕

  • @mauriceglass2854
    @mauriceglass2854 6 років тому +6

    This was awesome you guys and please keep on spreading the truth of God's Word. Don't ever let anything or anybody stop you from speaking and living the Word. But if you can could you make a video consisting of modern day Gospel music and trying to get more young people in the church? Because I'm a bit concerned about how the church is going about trying to compromise so much of the world with the church and God's Word just to get more people in the church without really teaching or preaching about salvation and living for God. Also one more question what can Christians do for fun?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  6 років тому +2

      maurice glass we will definitely get into those as soon as we can :)

    • @mauriceglass2854
      @mauriceglass2854 6 років тому +1

      GodlyDating101 thanks you guys. You both are true examples of what it means to live Holy, be young and on fire for God. Hope that baby will be blessed and healthy as well. Also this video is what I really needed I was in that time of trying to figure out if I should let go of a relationship or just wait. Thank you guys so much.

    • @mauriceglass2854
      @mauriceglass2854 6 років тому +1

      Thank you Jesus for these 2 vessels

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ 5 років тому +36

    The one dislike is probably from my atheist ex-bf. ;)

  • @diannataylor555
    @diannataylor555 6 років тому +6

    Love you guys too. This was right on time for me! I really needed this! You two are extremely disciplined and wise! Thanks

  • @onkemetsetlape285
    @onkemetsetlape285 5 років тому +4

    Hey guys. Can you do a video explaining what a courtship is and how it works out? Thanks.
    Sending love from South Africa! 😍❤😙

  • @move1071
    @move1071 5 років тому +3

    Great video guys! How did you know, that after all this time apart God is leading you back to each other?

  • @lexidohmen8843
    @lexidohmen8843 6 років тому +2

    thank you so much!! 🙌🏽 this was much needed

  • @oliviascardigan
    @oliviascardigan Рік тому +1

    Can I have some advice???
    I’ve been a Christian all my life and I met the boy of my dreams really young (like first year of high school) he’s a Christian my faith wasn’t really that strong neither was his we had a lot of traumas and stuff ruining the relashonship but we dated for 8 months we were both in bad places but we was the most amazing boy I’ve ever met in my entire life and I just wanted nothing more then for us to work out anyways after 8 months he went to bible camp for a week and came back and he broke up with me he said told him it wasn’t right and he needed to focus on God and that left me in complete heartbreak I could barely function I’d see him at school and just started sobbing anyways I started to get closer with God and take this time to work on myself it’s been a month and he texted me saying he wasn’t sure he made the right decision he does want to put God first but he said he misses me and wants me back but only when we are ready and have worked in ourselves with God so our relationship can be centred on God and that is what I want to. So he said we can decide on a date in the future just so we’re not rushing into things so we can take our time to focus on God. I really want him back but I’m ready to put God first this time in our relationship. But I am also extremely heartbroken. Do I take him back??? I still love him. I’ve been praying about it but God is silent right now.

  • @antonette5127
    @antonette5127 6 років тому +2

    So grateful for this video ! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @jilljames861
    @jilljames861 3 роки тому

    Wow, I stumbled across this and needed to hear it!!! Thank you so much 😊

  • @avaolivas8669
    @avaolivas8669 4 роки тому +2

    Love this video, I needed this 💗God bless you guys

    • @MaryJane-uv6yr
      @MaryJane-uv6yr 4 роки тому

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    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

      Ava Olivas I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems
      👄👄👄

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

      Contact him on what's app for help
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      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

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  • @dilkertoquendo3083
    @dilkertoquendo3083 Рік тому

    Thank you 👍 so much, God speaking through you 🙏

  • @feliciabanks2586
    @feliciabanks2586 5 років тому +2

    Amen amen amen 100 timessss🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯This is amazing wisdom! Ty

  • @Lightlytoasted_2
    @Lightlytoasted_2 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you!!! Definitely needed to hear this! Congratulations to you both! You are a rockstar couple! Keep spreading God’s love & light ❤️❤️

  • @SeaWorthy2
    @SeaWorthy2 4 роки тому

    Keep it going! It’s a challenge everyday!

  • @Apostylicpoet
    @Apostylicpoet 5 років тому

    So much wisdom. Thank you man and woman of God!

  • @carterhage9807
    @carterhage9807 6 років тому +6

    I really needed to hear this!! Thank you!

  • @alexisbellinger24
    @alexisbellinger24 6 років тому +1

    Thank You For Uploading. God Bless You!

  • @TheLove2share
    @TheLove2share 4 роки тому +13

    You two are so young & lovely. As a woman in my 50s I listen to some of the advice & smile because I know your messages come from a good place. Your audience are people your age & younger. People like me with more life/ relationship/ marriage experience can’t relate. You don’t know yet, what you haven’t experienced. The Bible is one thing. But reality & Biblical application is entirely different.

  • @DJDuhrel
    @DJDuhrel 6 років тому +1

    God bless you, I needed this.

  • @velorathomas4324
    @velorathomas4324 4 роки тому

    Love this!! Sound biblical advice!

  • @peleleiataua719
    @peleleiataua719 4 роки тому +1

    Such a blessing keep growing

  • @joostbakker
    @joostbakker 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for giving me hope! Lord thanks!

  • @shareyourstorypodcast7437
    @shareyourstorypodcast7437 6 років тому +1

    Love you guys 🙏🏾

  • @walkinginlightwithmelrufar4691
    @walkinginlightwithmelrufar4691 3 роки тому +1

    I want my ex back. We are meant for each other.

  • @ChristinaCarraway20
    @ChristinaCarraway20 6 років тому +1

    This Was Awesome I Really Needed This

  • @emploridel
    @emploridel 4 роки тому

    I love those lines, sometimes no is not a no but not yet

    • @MaryJane-uv6yr
      @MaryJane-uv6yr 4 роки тому

      I know of a sorcerer who can help you regain your love ... He also helped me attract my ex partner back after the breakup ... Contact him at +2348086892323🌺🌺🌺🌺

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

      Florever Grateful I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems
      👄👄👄

    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

      Contact him via what's app
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    • @harrymarkson7971
      @harrymarkson7971 4 роки тому

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  • @hopeemilysmith2094
    @hopeemilysmith2094 Рік тому

    Needed this - thank you x

  • @ibannongkhlaw
    @ibannongkhlaw 4 роки тому

    Just what i needed. Thank you so much ❤

  • @deborahakintola5246
    @deborahakintola5246 6 років тому +4

    😍😍😍 she's beautiful

  • @sammykins7778
    @sammykins7778 6 років тому +1

    You guys are so godly!

  • @yungsavs2858
    @yungsavs2858 9 місяців тому

    this video really helped me thank you!

  • @dancingwithfatherhood5043
    @dancingwithfatherhood5043 4 роки тому

    Thank you for your insight. Much need.

  • @tiffanysegree6435
    @tiffanysegree6435 6 років тому +1

    Loved this & love y'all! 💕

  • @amaawoye5235
    @amaawoye5235 6 років тому +2

    Can you guys talk about parents and marriages? I mean for example what to do if parents don't like the family of your partner but they don't have nothing agaist the partner in self but because of the family they don't agree to the marriage....or if parents think that a specific person should be your spose while you don't feel like that and seem that are putting you into bondange/limitation (referring to the scripture that says that we should listen to our parent) so kind of restricting your view and choice...and other things that can arise through future marriages and families members..Could be God or not?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  6 років тому +1

      jessica arko definitely!

    • @tribeofbenjamin6
      @tribeofbenjamin6 4 роки тому +1

      Yes please!
      In-laws (or future in-laws) can be a huge concern and hard to navigate..

  • @FirexHive
    @FirexHive 4 роки тому +1

    thank you two so much.

    • @sarahmitchell6632
      @sarahmitchell6632 4 роки тому

      Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back ..

    • @sarahmitchell6632
      @sarahmitchell6632 4 роки тому

      Whatsaap
      +234-905-978-27-93

  • @roshondablackmon6322
    @roshondablackmon6322 6 років тому +1

    Loved this video, needed this! Congrats to the both of you! #newsubsciber

  • @prettyquoiamix278
    @prettyquoiamix278 3 роки тому +1

    Thankyou for this ❤️❤️

  • @nikhatpathan
    @nikhatpathan 5 років тому +4

    What if the leaders are more rational then Spirit-led?

  • @beverlyannecabagui8362
    @beverlyannecabagui8362 5 років тому +3

    He cheated on me twice and found out more than 3 girls on the side. He said he was sorry and wanted to fix our relationship. Should I forgive him, or give him a chance or should I stay away?

    • @jr881997
      @jr881997 5 років тому +2

      Stay away

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  5 років тому +15

      Forgive him and stay away.

    • @beverlyannecabagui8362
      @beverlyannecabagui8362 5 років тому

      Even if he wanted to fix our relationship, I should just stay away?

    • @GodlyDating101
      @GodlyDating101  5 років тому +7

      Beverly Cabagui I can only give my opinion sis. If you were married, I’d encourage you two to work through it. However, he’s just your bf and living a double life. Leaving is wiser than settling for that.

    • @beverlyannecabagui8362
      @beverlyannecabagui8362 5 років тому +2

      Thank you guys. I will continue to pray about my situation. I do agree with you, I should be more wiser and let God rule and decide on what’s best for me. And yes, we are only bf/gf and we’re not married

  • @simonheathcote4173
    @simonheathcote4173 6 років тому +1

    Wonderful! thank you from England

  • @amoyabowerbank9984
    @amoyabowerbank9984 5 років тому +1

    Amen 🙏🏾 and amen
    I endorse every word said

  • @fashakinbanke3671
    @fashakinbanke3671 5 років тому +1

    So much wisdom

  • @rachellowens1901
    @rachellowens1901 4 роки тому

    Very sound counseling!

  • @cornellgrasty3537
    @cornellgrasty3537 4 роки тому +1

    My BFF says “ when you get pregnant I will get a job and make money when your get pregnant I will go strait to rehab” I’m like
    Start now please we’ve been together like 6 yrs

  • @brownnyko977
    @brownnyko977 6 років тому +2

    Can you guys talk about relationship status please.. Like is Labbels important?

  • @candyramoswaana3543
    @candyramoswaana3543 4 роки тому

    Still relevant,thank you

  • @susiepeters8154
    @susiepeters8154 6 років тому +1

    I love your videos!! ☺

  • @rogelynluciano6338
    @rogelynluciano6338 5 років тому +1

    Hello..
    My ex boyfriend is a Catholic..
    He said he just want to handle our differences and be together.
    He will respect my belief and same as to him..
    I still love him.
    Do you think I need to return to him?

  • @nesha50421
    @nesha50421 4 роки тому +3

    I really didn’t get a clear answer on whether I should take my ex back or not after watching this video unfortunately 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @funnyvideoslol2540
      @funnyvideoslol2540 4 роки тому +10

      Turn to prayer and the Word. God will reveal it. Don’t depend on man.

    • @msshay421
      @msshay421 4 роки тому

      I’m in the same boat and I’m thinkin probably not for me 😔

    • @savymark1670
      @savymark1670 2 роки тому

      I’ve been BEGGING god to
      Show me
      Signs if she’s the one for me
      But it’s been 3 months and nothing …
      Why can’t he answer me

    • @nesha50421
      @nesha50421 2 роки тому

      @@savymark1670 I can relate so much. I keep praying and asking God.. I even went on a fast & then I keep watching different videos on UA-cam to try n get answers & im still conflicted & I still do not know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @nesha50421
      @nesha50421 2 роки тому

      @@savymark1670 I even ask God to show me in a dream or a vision or somegthing to let me know if he’s the one or not because I DONT want to waste anymore of my time or his time if he isn’t the one that God wants me to be with

  • @withiunile
    @withiunile 5 років тому

    I'm blessed, thank you so much

  • @amywaters3281
    @amywaters3281 24 дні тому

    Where can I see your testimony ?

  • @rjayspeaks
    @rjayspeaks 2 роки тому

    You have such a pretty wife!

  • @autumnwinds8636
    @autumnwinds8636 5 років тому

    Thank you for posting this topic. May God bless you for it. :)

  • @ellietormozov9333
    @ellietormozov9333 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing!

  • @KayKudiwa
    @KayKudiwa 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much!

  • @marthafrans
    @marthafrans 6 років тому +2

    this was amazing🙏🙏🙏God bless you

  • @tenenciapinya2854
    @tenenciapinya2854 3 роки тому +1

    Your pastor could never be your shepherd only father God is your shepherd

    • @nancyledesma9398
      @nancyledesma9398 3 роки тому

      +2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.

  • @theconversation5574
    @theconversation5574 2 роки тому +1

    Beautifully explained.

  • @fashakinbanke3671
    @fashakinbanke3671 5 років тому

    Thanks for this video

  • @kelebohile5479
    @kelebohile5479 6 років тому +1

    Thank you 🔥🔥

  • @cornellgrasty3537
    @cornellgrasty3537 4 роки тому

    How to handle the man dominated home In a relationship ? What to do when the male thinks the bible says men dominate women. pls make a video

  • @lovethelordalwaysz6622
    @lovethelordalwaysz6622 5 років тому

    How do you forgive yourself if God does when you lose virginity before marriage?

  • @masegomoruakgomo9033
    @masegomoruakgomo9033 4 роки тому

    What if they married and divorced?

  • @starrynight9999
    @starrynight9999 2 роки тому

    I feel so broken😔❤️‍🩹

  • @way2girly
    @way2girly 2 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @emmanuelcarter7784
    @emmanuelcarter7784 6 років тому

    Do you keep Torah?

  • @breefullerton9418
    @breefullerton9418 6 років тому

    New subscriber

  • @terry-anngray9185
    @terry-anngray9185 6 років тому

    new sub xx