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- What does the Bible actually say about unequally yoked relationships?
Are they as bad as people make it seem?
Here are 4 things every believer needs to keep in mind if they are in or considering an unequally yoked relationship.
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Just got out of an unequally yoked relationship.... it’s still fresh and so it’s still hard to completely let it go in my mind. The struggle is real. Please keep me in your prayers. GOD is able 😭🙌
Same here!
Pray to God in Jesus name that His will shall be done. Then pray out loud that all bonds that are not according to His will, shall be broken. Matthew 18:18 For He is almighty so He can do all things, but you need to humble yourself and understand that we all need him. He loves you so much! Prayers for both of you go out to God. He is worthy and great. Thank God!! May God bless you
I think this would be very helpful if your still struggling with letting go of that relationship
aandbcounseling.com/soul-mate-soul-tie-break-return-heart-god-2/
Soul ties are definitely real
How are you doing am in that place n i don't know what to do
@@Jerusha.b_creations thank you
This is so true! I've been in a couple relationships and have been deceived. They pretend to know God, go to church, claim they love Him, but as time went by their lives showed the total opposite one even being a pastor's son (no excuse). After those experiences Ive realized I just need to be patient and wait on the Lord. Being in pointless relationships is very stressful! and I realize I was losing myself and my values. Thanks for this video!
Fonda Smith am glad you wrote that because I was in them too
There are those who are just church goers and those who are godly man/woman
Yes i agree with you! I was with somebody that didn't respect my values and wait for marriage i couldn't deal with that and never wanted to go to church so bye boy god has so much better!
Me too
This Truly Bless me today... I am so Happy to seeing A couple doing The right Way..
I completely agree. I am in disobedience to Gods word and have fallen into one of these unequally yoked relationships. Plz pray for me
Isaac Negrete I'm praying for you Isaac, we've all fallen into sin, but the fact that you've felt guilt and conviction then you're on the path to restoration. Keep seeking God for forgiveness, guidance and strength. God bless you.
Praying for you, hope you’re doing okay.
I'm in a relationship with someone who comes from a Christian family whosbis an unbeliever but I didn't know at the time but now I do and it's been eating away at me more and more as time goes by. If possible I could use some prayer as well.
Me too! I need prayers. I have fallen so deep in sin and very unhappy! I just want out of this relationship but I don't know how to tell this lunatic
If you're still having trouble with a unequally yoked relationship you could also break the soul tie you have with this person.
aandbcounseling.com/soul-mate-soul-tie-break-return-heart-god-2/
Hopefully this helps 💕
I was engaged for 2 years with a woman who hated God for her son's accidental death. I thought I could change her and prayed for her everyday (still do) . I really thought I could change her...I had an opportunity to be on my churches worship team and come back to church regularly. I asked her if she wanted to go to church with me and she said "I don't want to have anything to do with Him" .Shortly thereafter I broke off the engagement. My heart is still broken a year and a half later It still hurts when I see her around town or with her new boyfriend. I know God has His plan for me. I have to be still and let GOD.
How are u holding up now king ?
I'm guilty of not listening and still got married to a Atheist. Now I'm divorced and wish I listened.
Glamrocs Makeup Christians divorce ALL of the time. Stats show more than others. Don't beat yourself up. Christian men aren't the key to a fail proof marriage.
Dev M the whole truth!!
It’s better to divorce than to not be doing the will of God. That may sound contradictory but it is okay you divorced. He’s not mad at you. Many people think that you’ll lose your salvation or something over it and that is not the case. This man you were married to could have caused your life to end earlier if you chose him over God your whole life. God is so happy you’re back in a relationship with just Him and no one else. Every sin is the same to God although it may not feel like it because some hold greater worldly repercussions than others. But if you realize what you’ve done wrong they’re just bumps to get over and get you on that straight and narrow path He’s called you on. Thank God you realized that sooner rather than later
Glamrocs Makeup - The word of God says not to divorce if you are already married to an unbeliever. If you are the woman, you can win him over to Christ through your submission to the Lord and obedience to the husband as long as his leadership stands on the word of God.
If divorced, you can remarry him. It is only in death that you two are truly separated.
If either of you marry someone else it is still adultery, so please be careful.
Hope everything worked out. Praying for you and him.
itsMOCA but you don't know their situation. It could have be been divorce due to adultery. Which warrants divorce. You can't walk in death if you're in Christ. Please don't spread false information. And last I checked God forgives all sins but blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. So even if she divorced for a different reason, when she repents, she is a new person. You don't know her, I don't think you should be choosing to give advice in that way especially not knowing her situation.
The biggest mistake we make as woman is thinking we can change someone who isn't where we are rather that be he is unsaved or a non believer . I KNOW I have not only dated a man 29 years older then me but he was a atheist. God had convicted of going through with it early on , however I choose not to listen. Instead of him converting to Godly ways I converted into his worldly ways. We had our ups and downs but it was times where it really got toxic. he didn't value my values when it came to church, he didn't read the bible with me, no church, He dissed God and said he was God himself. talking about confusion, frustrating and sexual corruption. he had no desire to walk with me on my journey of pleasing God. I MADE A IDOL OF THAT MAN AND that still wasn't good enough. he was very jealous and made death threats towards me. I now have a sence of peace ...however I was very broken then the stage I was entering this one year relationship. SOUL TIES ARE real as well.
Not just women Brittney. I made this fatal mistake and have paid a hefty price for it. Be blessed sister.
Late but yes, I agree. I tried changing a woman myself when she herself was once a follower of God but led astray because she could not understand why God did certain things. Instead she would follow and idolize her friends who she tried to please and follow their every command and her favorite music bands. I thank the lord for saving me away from impregnating her to this day.
“I made an idol of that man and still wasn’t good enough.”
I felt so guilty leaving because I really wanted this relationship to work but I was not at peace and I still felt unhappy😪 I kept praying for it and we disagreed constantly... Now I understand he's a good person but what shall it profit me to gain the world but lose my soul💗💗💗
Same here Heather! Literally every word you typed was me. Just let a guy go I was dealing with for a few months and letting go was the hardest decision but at this point 95% of me knows it was the right decision. No more going back and forth to something destroying my sanity and peace 🙏🏿
Same here
Proud of you and encouraged by your strength and obedience.
O man I had to do this a few years ago your peace is so important
Super proud of you , hope you doing well 🥺
Before you form a relationship with another human one must first form one with God. Trust me, this will save you a LOT of heartache, I had to learn the hard way and God taught me a painful lesson for it. Now I know better, do not let the sin of lust deceive you all.
Yes PAINFUL!
This i totally agree with you
I am dealing with a very broken heart after God clearly showed me that my relationship was not glorifying Him. One we are living together and we have a child, not married. We were both in the world when the relationship started but I got born again last year and God changed me radically. I’m even moving out with my son through the grace of God who is supplying for all our needs🙌🏾😭 it’s a hard thing to go through and my sons dad has already moved on to other women while I’m still in the house. God is just showing me exactly why I shouldn’t have been here to begin with 😭😭 it’s heartbreaking but I’d rather have my heart break while following the Lords will than to have it break serving a man, who was hurting me regardless of whether I was serving him or not.
Amen sis. Proud of you, God will keep you.
I'm in a similar situation. I was saved in my last relationship with 2 children. Unmarried. He has no interest in following me in the faith so I ended it. It's still painful and I just want my family back together but I trust God. He comes first.
@@Nadiahope7 thanks for sharing Nadia, it’s been about 8 months since I left and I’m still battling with thoughts of wanting my family back plus being a single mom is not easy☹️ how are you managing with two kids? Are you okay?
@@ntsikimkhwanazi9274 you've summed up exactly how I've been feeling. But the Lord literally yesterday showed me to completely let go of my ex, I can't control this situation and need to give it to Jesus so he can help. We're looking at this world instead of fixing our eyes on the bigger picture. It's so hard being a single mum but we're glorifying God. We're showing him he comes first. Yes it's heart breaking. But we know it's heartbreaking trying to be unequally yoked or in something that just won't work long term. I'm praying for you my beautiful sister. 🙏🙏
@@Nadiahope7 i hear ppl say unequally yoke but what does it really means ….jm 23 been a renew spirit since dec 31,2022 been trying to understand the words clearly to imply them in my life
I had this guy friend who confessed his feelings for me two weeks ago. And I told him no. They were too many red flags about him that I saw very, very earlier when we first met. I do pray for him a lot, I want God to change his life. Of course, he got upset and started saying that I "hurt him a lot" and that I will "never understand what it's like to be in a relationship because I guard my heart too much". He doesn't know that I am RELIEVED that God showed me who that boy was since Day 1. I just hope he won't stay semi upset at me for turning him down.
Muriel Melly Thanks for sharing your story Muriel. Some decisions are hard to make. In the end, we will be glad we made them. Trust God always.
Muriel Melly He will understand & appreciate it one day
I literally just left an unequally yoked relationship and staying it for as long as I did was the worst choice I ever made. I promise you did the right thing. My relationship lasted 4 years and it should’ve lasted 0. He pulled me into so much sin, lies from the devil of self hatred, he physically and verbally abused me, and I got into a lot of drugs. It is so much more worth it to go with God and no one else, so praise God that his plan for you was to choose the right thing
You did the right thing sister! Good on you for avoiding counterfeits, they can and WILL ruin your life...
Good discernment. Amen sister. Praise God. You saved yourself a heart ache.
I am in the process of getting out of an unequally yoked relationship of 6 years... It is very difficult but i am getting out because of God.
JoeMilano9 , did you get out ?
aandbcounseling.com/soul-mate-soul-tie-break-return-heart-god-2/
I hope this is helpful if you're still having trouble!
God is dealing with me, I know I'm unevenly yoked? And I know what God wants me to. I messed up, but I'm there now I married. I know I messed up. Help me I need some advice. It was a moment of weakness... Now what am I going to do?
We married 11 years. I back lid, 4 years. And we were never evenly yoked. But now I understand. Now what I'm supposed to now?
I'm the one that made the mess. I didn't listen to God. 😭
@@angelapickerell3007 dont divorce.. love Him and be a testimony to Him. pray and fast for him and get the church to pray too
Wow! This is confirmation! I was in a relationship with someone who loved God to please me, not for God. I never had peace & ended the relationship. He was more good than Godly! His goodness confused me! My desire to glorify God is what kept me from settling! Thank you for this video! This has given me peace!!!
Ma'am, your quiet/respectful demeanor toward your husband is beautiful ✨.....not loud, interrupting your husband.....giving him a generous space to lead, express his thoughts......without the stress of coping with a self-willed, talkative wife, your husband will excel ✨.....he won't be backed down into the passive condition seen on many of these couple channels.....honoring God's counsel for a godly wife is showcasing your womanhood.....the way God intended.....an exemplary example for other women, especially for the younger wives, as you mature and come into your own, as a couple......you will be ever so grateful , as the years pass and you continue to walk together thru the challenging seasons in the life of your marriage....i've seen men like your husband cultivate a countenance of wisdom......strength......excellence.....this is a virtuous woman's reward......who gives God full reign in the life of her husband.....💜✝💜
So true
Thank you for speaking the truth. I wish I had followed this advice earlier in life. I married an unbeliever that got saved for me. Ten years later and three kids she commits adultery. Now we are no longer together. If only I would have listened. If God allows next time I will.
wow
🙏🏿🙏🏿
Thank you for this, I desire to be with a passionate God fearing man! I have to keep a watchful eye to the tricks of the enemy even if they seem innocent. I’m committed to be equally yoked and nothing is going to change that!!
Agreed
Am i the only one who feels like the background music throws it all off?
Nikki ChaveZ no. This music is the worst.
Kinda lol
Jamine Aponte are we here to listen to the music?or the admonition smh
No you’re not the only one. I thought I was tripping like another app was playing it or something 😂😂
😂😩😩
Great Explanation: However even equally yolked believers get divorced.
They may, but should they scripturally? That's a whole other topic.
My parents have been married for 27 years this year, and have never even considered a divorce. But that's because they really really love God, and they prayed and asked God if they were right for each other before they decided to get married. It's not always easy, but it's worth it. My mother's aunt has been married to her husband for probably 50 years or so, and she and her husband are such a beautiful couple ❤️ my grandma and grandpa (in Christ) have been married for about 60 years (give or take) and you can see they have the Holy Spirit in them and that they really truly know Jesus ❤️ I'm not saying that divorced Christians should feel condemned, but I truly believe that if both parties love God equally, and seeks to live out His Word together, that divorce will never be an option for them ❤️ God bless 🙏❤️
Scripturally should they?
Than they were just yoked in public eyes. Colossians 2:9
They can be church goers but if they don't have that personal intimate relationship with God they can't stay in the marriage
Thanks! We can’t disobey God and expect him to bless us. Being in a relationship with an unbeliever is rebellion to God and His words says that ‘rebellion is like the sin of witchcraft. I will obey God’s words and I will never renter a relationship with an unbeliever again! It
I totally agree with what y’all said. Thanks so much, because I needed this help. I’m in a relationship with a man that is not a Christian, so I am getting ready to end it. Me as a Christian woman don’t want to be unequally yoked.
Although it's painful as I'm going through the process right now, I finally listened to our God and went our separate ways, I can see why now we always argued and why we wouldnt workout, it's because we are unequally yoked.
So true!! Fell into the unequally yolked relationship as well and I was more like a therapist to him and he depended on me for emotional support rather than both of us walking in Gods path for both of us. Y’all are amazing!
In the scriptures that's called edification not the world term therapist, so you also were a little off! Also 1 Corinthians 7:14!!
Same here right now
I didn't listen and I was in a relationship with someone who had no respect for God and I was trying so hard to get him to come to church. He was a morman who was once a Christian. I found myself changing and losing my faith and relying on him for my happiness and sense of fulfillment. I think I realized we were on two different pages. He was so insecure. sad it ended but glad because I realized a lot about myself. I actually realized I was running away from my own reality escaping it by being with someone. I don't think I ever been single for past 7 years
This is great! I needed this. To many time guys say they know God or a "Christian" but don't have a relationship with him. Like my last relationship, I was with a guy who only goes to church to pray and didn't feel the need to pray with me or go to my church, different denomination. There was a lack of spiritual connection but I stayed because I didn't want to be alone and thought well he believes in God so that's good enough. It's not for me. Im glad that I'm taking this time to build my relationship with God and He will provide everything I need.
chantell benjamin yess I love this. I don’t want to fall into a relationship where they just believe in God but don’t serve Him or put Him first and have a relationship. I did that once and that was really just a sinful relationship and now he has moved on with a new person as he doesn’t even believe in God. Forget a relationship if my God isn’t the center of everything.
Sounds like a woman who wants to lead
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I just ended my unequally yoked relationship 2 days ago and I've been feeling so confused. Thank you for mentioning the points of agreeing on Biblical principles. My ex was Catholic and we kept butting heads. I now know that I must trust in the Lord because He has the perfect man for me. I didn't realize I was disrespecting God for choosing my will instead of His. Thank you for the video. God bless.
This is so inspiring, how are you holding up?
Recently I got out of an unequally yoked situation. Shacking up with my girlfriend when I was basically homeless. It was a trap and I knew it. At first I tried to refrain from sex ( silly to even put myself in that situation). Obviously we had sex and of course I felt convicted but was to weak to stop. The thing is I felt it was wrong but she didn't. She said that having sex before marriage because we're in a relationship is ok. I decided to turn my back on the bisexual lifestyle. I no longer participate in abominations.
I made a Facebook post about my experience and somehow she didn't see it (hard to believe). Then she was saying she had to learn to accept it, but since we already had sex and she was in love she wanted to continue. So-called lust not love and her emotions drove her and I didn't help by fornicating with her. She met my family and she met mine but the fact is that path is not for me. It's the way of the world and it's not for me I got tested and I'm disease free but lust is still an obstacle. I'm deciding to strictly follow the Lord's wisdom. I repented for resisting the Spirit's wisdom.
I don't need relationship now. I feel it it doesn't work. I wAnt to learn about God first.
🙋🙋 I too
You are wise
You're on the Right Path Glory to God. Seek ye first and all things shall be added unto you including potential spouses. Continue to focus on God and know that he's working it out even though you may not see it just yet. Remember one of his promises is to never leave you nor forsake you. Amen.
May God continue to bless you on your journey 🙏❤️🙏
That’s true!! I need to continue to work on myself! It’s a journey!!
First seek the Kingdom of God and all shall be awarded unto you .
I am trying to step away from the person who is not a believer, but it is so hard. Please pray for me !
Stepped away?
Such a great explanation (and example) of the bigger picture on marriage. It’s very tempting to use relationships for salvation or an emotional hole, but that’s God’s role in our lives. Also, the point about not trying to be someone’s saviour… yeah… again, it’s God’s role in their life.
I find that it’s really important for each person to have a solid relationship with God independent of other people so that their faith can’t be rocked if anything happens with other people. God has been walking me through that lesson for a few months now, showing me that other people are great, but they can’t provide security and rest.
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
Matthew 11:28-29 NKJV
"If you love ME,
Obey My commandments. "
Thank you for this message.
I had reltlationship recently with a guy which is a Buddhist believer. I just thought that one day he could be a believer of Christ. But when I ask him can you be a christian? He said, He cannot do it. So O decided to broke up with him yesterday. I like him because he is so good but he does not have Christ in his life. I miss him but what can I do? Christ is important to me, His words are very important.
How are you now?
I think there's more to being unequally yoked than we acknowledge. Yes, it's true God says this but its also true that God tells us we can be in a relationship with someone who doesnt believe what we believe so long as they are willing to remain around and live with us. We are directed to pray for out spouses even if they are unbelievers in our own belief. The issue is more of a. are they willing to submit despite differences, and b. can the two of you still love together given these differences. I'm sure there's a ton more to this but please pay attention to more than just one verse regarding this matter before someone who sincerely follows you misses out on something God has stored up for them. I would ALWAYS advise listeners to seek the truth for themselves and use their bibles to discover what we youtubers may miss or omit.
God bless you both for pouring into your brethren.
My in-laws are Muslim & Christian, both dedicated and they've found their balance and way to both honor God and one another. Almost 40 years strong. God works in ways that are so astonishingly beautiful ❤
Please understand that this is God's Word that they are referring to of what can result from unequally yoked relationships. It is shared with the hope that those listening will take into consideration before entering into a covenant of marriage with someone. The scriptures that you are referring to, ie 1 Corinthians 7:12-13 is what God has to say in reference to those who are already married. Yes once a covenant is made then God desires for us to uphold the agreement we made with Him and our spouse so under those circumstances then what you are speaking of would apply. However, it is important for us to understand that the possible results still apply and affect the union and children that could come out of that marriage. I also know of a union between a Christian and Muslim who have been married for 40+ years happily. So I understand your point, I also know how it has affected the faith of their children and created confusion. So the advice that they are sharing is absolutely correct. I totally agree with you that we should all study the Word for ourselves to fully understand and receive 2 Timothy 2:15. I do believe that they would agree with that as well.
I am a christain lady with my own Ministry and a muslim man is in love with me and wants me to be his wife.. he is willing to abandon his family in India to move to my country to be with me.. he said he will go to church with me and our kids can grow up Christian. What shall i do? A part is telling me yes.. a part is saying HELL NO
Ivy Smith Say no. He has a family. Block him and let it alone.
@@ivysmith2794 Listen to that part of you that's saying HELL NO! First of all he has a family and you would be committing adultery with him and contributing to his abandoning his family. You two are unequally yoked, I understand that he is willing to convert, but for the wrong reasons. It altogether sounds like a bad idea. Don't step out of God's will and protection for your flesh.
@@ivysmith2794 He's just trying to get a green card.
I believe God has a perfect will for everybody. Somebody whose giftings, talents and vission match perfectly to yours. Why wouldn't God plan it that way? That just explains why the other relationships didn't work. God has a perfect will for you and you need to learn how to wait. He will reveal that person to you.
I have been in an unequally yolked relationship for a while now, and I have just came to realize today how bad of a thing it is . And it has completely torn me and my future apart 😭 I don't know how to end things with this person, and I have prayed and I just don't know exactly what to do.
Dominique Moore I strongly believe that if you prayed God definitely showed you what to do but because you're so tied up to that guy you really feel like you'll be miserable after the break up, just do what God is telling you and then get into a new, waay much better relationship with Christ and you'll enjoy it. It won't be an easy journey to start but with time Christ in you will just make everything fall into place, this is actually my testimony, I was also in an unequally yoked relationship and I thought I'd be miserable and worthless if we broke up but I listened to the Holy spirit when he told me what to do and today I'm working on my relationship with God and I couldn't be happier, I believe you'll get there too with time. I hope this helps :-)
I know this is so long ago but just in case you happen to find yourself in a unequally yoked relationship or unhealthy relationship again make sure you break the soul tie with this person.
aandbcounseling.com/soul-mate-soul-tie-break-return-heart-god-2/
M going for same case man
Been there. Pray to God with all your heart to show you his true colors. God kept showing me how actually NOT good he is and THAT made me disconnect from him more and more with time and it was easier to run back to the Lord. Believe me, you will see that he is not worth settling for, so not worth your relationship with God and your eternity. We are called to glorify Him and serve Him, by continuing your relationship, the devil is holding you back from doing amazing things for the Lord and YOUR blessing and true Godly relationship.
This video spoke to me on so many levels. Praise God I needed this!!!
It’s a blessing to be so rooted in God and His word and to be “equally yoked” with a marriage partner who is equally yoked to God as well.
Blessing to you both.
I absolutely love your videos and insight, they've helped me a lot. Keep doing what you guys are doing because God is using you guys in an amazing way.
I love the message here, and especially appreciate the fact you keep your points scripturally sound. So much of this boils down to keeping God first, prayer, and being obedient.
Keep it up guys, you will save Christians a lot of headaches down the road by taking the time to make this video. My niece asked me this question recently and I gave her advice through the word of God and sent her your video. God bless you
This is speaking to my life. Wow
Married to a man that pretended to be Christian and after a year realized he was no where interested in the things of God. 😭😢😥 I'm in misery.
Thanks for sharing. I'm also considering what I shud do with my bf of almost 5years coz he said he accepts christ but still does rituals from other religion. He didnt make a stand. I dont want to bring kids into the world with confusion. I prayed for him accept Christ but at this point I'm letting go.
You guys are seriously fulfilling what God has called you to :) this is amazing! Keep it up
Wow! Confirmation from Yah here too. I need to be Patient. Love you guys keep em coming!
Thank you for the reminder to be filled and satisfied with the lord and not everyone else
Really needed this topic thank you! I just got out of an unequally yoked relationship and it's no coincidence I'm getting closer to God now
Wow incredible... I love the way you two allowed the holy spirit to flow during this video!
Great insight. Great advice. Very sound and true. Amen. Thanks for sharing. I just always feel like I'm crazy or extreme when I express myself in the way you guys have. I want someone who desires to run hard after God. He's out there. God has promised it. I feel so much joy because now I know I'm really not buggin'! ❤
This was so good! Thank you for this! A simple thing my pastor said that helps me with this that you both convey, is that as Believers we are to affect people - when we yoke ourselves with an unbeliever they infect us. Sounds harsh but its true.
Wow! It’s very clear and accurate! Thanks Godlydating101 for this wisdom. I pray for all Christians out there who are struggling to trust God in this area. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Such wisdom coming from young people. I love it. God bless you both.
I always believed in like minded. My relationship is unequally yoked and I know that I'm out of the will of GOD. I just pray for forgiveness so I can cleanse myself for my future husband.
I'm sorry about your relationship, guess you never really know how much pain a person has to deal with everyday. I'm sure things will work out and God will see you through.
Along with that make sure you break the soul tie
aandbcounseling.com/soul-mate-soul-tie-break-return-heart-god-2/
THIS IS SUCH GOOD ADVICE. It's also so important to remember that it's much easier to pull someone down than up. And unfortunately a lot of time that means you will give up your 'good' ways to match theirs.
way to go! I had to listen to the end a few times to get it but this message packs a punch and breaks 2 Cor. 6 down really well.
This was awesome. This was Real, Biblical, and True. Keep spreading the Gospel and showing what true love in Christ is.
Wow! After years of following you on other social media i found you here. Keep up the good work and be blessed in the Lord ❤
I love this video. It really changed my views on what a relationship should be based on. A goldly relationship is all about finding someone who will help you serve and grow spiritual ❤🌹. Loved it
I found this to be very interesting because my parents didn’t explain this to me early on when I had gotten into unequally yoked relationships in the past. Thank you!
That helped me! I’m so thankful for God’s absolute truth on this!♥️
Thank you for sharing on this sensitive and compelling topic. I have been blessed. Keep the videos coming....
Great information, 5 years later is still very powerful & relevant. Re-enforced what I already knew & believe about relationships and being unequally yoked in any aspect.
This is such a great video !! Puts a lot of clarity in my current situation. Thank you for this!!
Wonderful Video! Thank you very much!
I live as a bible believing man in a majority catholic nation.
It is truly hard to find any person who sees the Bible as the highest authority, much less someine of my age.
Some time ago I have been in a freindship with one girl and it ended abruptly, which hurt me a lot but it took me quite some time to realise that god ended it so that I may not be yoked with someone of a different denomination. Now I know that I should only be in a relationship with fellow Christians of my denominations and I will not compromise that ever again! Thak you god for showing me the truth!
How awesome to see God working in this generation. Blessings to you!
I've been in a relationship like you described for some time now. And have realised we have been on two different paths. He faught me so hard when I wanted to stop "doing things" that dishonored God. I wanted God to be the center of our relationship but he said God was already there. He was totally against the idea of praying with me, reading the bible with me and establishing a time where we would seek the Lord as a couple before marriage. He ssaid since we go to the same church we are seeking God together. And for him that seemed to be quite enough. It was not enough then nor is it enough for me now. Don't be like me!!! Please take heade!!! We are not God!
Wow, this is so insightful as this video answered my questions to the point cos I am in such a situation right now. Thank you for availing for God's work.
I Just broke up( while pregnant) with my man after 4 years. I love him so deeply, but all these years i felt a heavy energie around him. I wanted to live with god, he did not. I want to pray, hè doesn't. I want to worship, hè doesn't. Every goal we had fir the futures, it did not come to pass, i feel stagnation. Its like i cant go forward because of his energy around him. I pray to God that God Will give me strenght not to go back. Im deeply in love with him, and pregnant. But i want to grow, i cannot grow around him i feel like .
It's well with you dear.. Just know that God is for you. My prayers for you is that God will surround you with people that will help you in all aspect especially in your spiritual walk with Him. Be strong dear. It will end in praise 💕
@@sandraokonmah thank you sis 🙏💜
Wow, this video was created 4 years ago, but it was right on time for me today. God bless y’all.
Great pointers and reminders...I needed this!!!
Ask Questions!!! That's right. My mother always taught us about that. It's very important. I love the story of the woman at the well. So many things to learn from that passage. Great points. God bless you both ✨
Thanks so much for doing this video which we shared with our daughter. We pray that God will use this video to turn her back to God.
The music is not needed and kind of distracting. You guy’s message is more than enough to keep me interested! 💓
Thank you. This is so good! This message is really anointed.
This was onpoint! You both have been such a blessing in my life. I follow you on Facebook also, thank you for your obedience God Bless❤
lovely and timely. our young Christians and even the older ones must listen and obey the simple commandment. 'do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.'
Love this and the way you explained it !! God bless
Good evening. This is one of my first times watching your UA-cam channel because I thought you guys were mainly on another social media site. But besides what I thought, I like yall video. You guys speak so well on the subjects, that I see a gift of teaching. Sunday school teachers...
I love how you two bounce off of each other so effortlessly, look equally yoked to me! 😍
Thank you for sharing this. I believe God led me to this video to hear exactly what I need right now. God bless you!
Y’all better tell it. Me and my last boyfriend both grew up in the same church (Apostolic belief) and you would never guessed it. We both got saved at very young ages but he strayed away from the apostolic faith and was only coming to church because of me and now that we have broken up he no longer attends our church. We were very unequally yoked so still be careful and ask God for direction because he treated me worse than the unbelievers. I love you guys please continue to bless us with your wisdom.
Amen! Preach brother! PREACH! This Is Man Of God Married to a Woman of God I am happy for them.
Excellent!!!! Nailed it!!! Shared Shared SHARE!!!!
This was awesome. Loved it guys!
Obedience is the key to living a successful Godly life when we do the opposite there is serious consequences (destruction)
Great video! So true and needed. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you, just ended a four year relationship, we’re both Christians but not on the same journey. I’m very attracted to another person but she knows nothing about God, so I am going to try and lead her to Christ but I will have to walk away before I get involved. This really helps. Thank you.
Amen. I needed to hear this today. Thank you
I use to think I could bring him to Christ, but more recently I have notice it is not my job. I also see that church to me is a big deal but to him is irrelevant, if he has time or if ask him to go. Truth is I want an equally yoke relationship. This was recently revealed to me during prayer. God doesn't want me in this relationship not because he is a bad man but because he is not bringing me to Christ he is not a leader in faith. Thank you!! So much for this and being so raw and open
Thanks for this... was in a similar situation ...just ended it and it hurts...But i am relying on God for comfort and strength
This is Great! Thanks Brother and Sister!
🔥 great message! I needed to hear this
That is an awesome video and well explanatory.
This is so powerful & helpful, thank you so much for sharing❤
This was a great video, thank you for posting!!!
I really like how you went in on this topic!
This gave me goosebumps. Im listening to this while im working. God bless you both❤️ you explained my life. Its so hard to leave with my daughter in the mix😞
Great video! Subscribed! Also recognized the background music :) used it in one of my UA-cam videos !
Can you all speak on unequally yoked friendships?
Lakeitha Dixon PLEASE!
Sani Paps I'm Christian and I think that mindset is sickening. I've have super Christian friends who have back away from the faith for various reason and I've had non Christian friends who later became Christian. My point is people change and grow as time goes on. I've also found that as people get older they become more balanced when it comes to how they view people outside their faith. I believe there is more to a person than their spiritual beliefs.
Dev M I don't think that is the point being made. It's perfectly okay to have friends and acquaintances that are not christian. But there is no reason why you should be best of friends with people who do not know Christ. Bad company corrupts good character. It's just the truth of the matter. Your close friends are the people you run to when you need help, when you need advice, when you need encouragement. Why would you want an inner circle that cannot intercede on your behalf in prayer or give you godly advice? No one is saying do not associate with non Christians, as a matter of fact some level of association is needed so they can be pointed to Christ themselves, but you need to be honest with yourself in discerning how much pull your "inner circle" has on your life. Sometimes we love our 'day ones ' even more than we love God, and will be led into sin just so we can maintain those friendships.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 beautifully written. I needed this. Thank you
langsteen, you are a dangerously ignorant dumbfuck. my fiancee is a christian. it would be a sad day if she didn't come to me for advice in her greatest need. of course she does. i have christian friends. i have medical power of attorney for some of them. i am an atheist. i debate christians regularly. i have helped many people leave christianity. dev is the only reasonable person here. what matters is what kind of a person they are. you are a horrible person, a large sack of steaming pile of shit.
I totally agree. Huge shot out to Godly dating 101 and Redefined TV💖
Love all your videos! God bless you!
Thank you for sharing uncompromising truth!!!
Oh my...I would have loved for my parents to teach me this. I am in an unequally yoked marriage and it has been devastating. Yet the joy in this trial is praying for my daughters' future husband.
I just got out of an unequally yoked relationship about 3 months ago. Both saved but believed two different things. It took God to use my friend to tell me it was unequal and we were engaged I broke up with him because of realizing we were unequally yoked. Can I say I feel so much more content, a lot of people say I’m glowing and look so much happier than I did when in the relationship!
100% agree! Excellent message! Thank you ❤
Very very true. There was this guy who I liked but it's like he was only interested in sex and we had one encounter one time but then I decided to give my life over to Jesus. And I guess he didn't like it and told me to take care and decided to cut it off. So oh well I'm sorry but I feel like what I did was the best thing I had ever did. I been through so much and I was like no I can't do this. Make God the top and everything will fall into place
That truly blessed and encouraged me! Thank you for sharing!! God bless you abundantly!!🙌🏻