MY CANCER JOURNEY: Storytime / Sophie Shohet
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Never judge a book by its cover, eh. Before watching this video I saw you as a beautiful, fashionable woman. Now you are a beautiful, fashionable woman with depth, humanity, real personal challenges and hard-earned victories. On top of all that, you care to share your experiences for the benefit of others. It is an honor to see the beauty of who you are on the inside too.
You are so kind to me, thank you so much for the love my friend 🙏 This was an awkward video to film…it wasn’t until I tried to make it that I realised. I appreciate you watching and taking the time out to comment, thank you 🙏xx❤️
@@SophieShohetOfficial Heart-warming! You are so kind too. 💕 It makes the world go round.
I wasn’t sure how to comment in a way that captured what I’m feeling as I listen to Sophie’s story-and there you are with the perfect words.
Thank you for sharing your story Sophie-much love to you. ❤❤❤
Couldn’t have said it better. I am glad I watched this video and read your comment.
@@rebeccawheeler6026 ~ Warm Thanks❣️💝
God, I almost had an heart attack seeing this video. Thank god it was in the past and not going on right now. Take care!
Hello my friend, I thank God that it’s in the past that’s for sure 🙏 thank you so much for the love ❤️ hugs to you xx
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ My 13 year old daughter is battling Leukemia right now and all the chemotherapy, procedures and hospital admissions are heartbreaking. We are 1 year into treatment and have another year and a half left. I love hearing stories that remind me there can be a light at the end of the tunnel!
Sending hugs your family’s way❤ 🙏🏾
So happy to hear your story. David is a very wise man and truly your biggest supporter. I love that.
Hello my friend, I am so lucky to have him ❤️ Thank you so much for watching and for the love 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️xx
@@SophieShohetOfficial Am so happy you have such a Loveing husband in Daved and you have met your everything in him .Am still very emotional listening to your story .l think because l also have been through it .big huggssss 💖🙏💖
❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏😘your a survivor!
So very true, soul mates❤❤
I’m a surgeon AND I went through cancer in 2017, I always emphasize how awful is the postop recovery process to change their minds which most patients find it weird but not that many ppl have that “David” to open their eyes. Sophie my love, it’s hard for me to believe u have self conscious about ur gorgeous body it’s all about ur HUGE HEART. Hopefully as time goes by you’ll understand bunch of scars r nothing compared to who u r and how amazing u r. I didnt have any family or friends when I went through my cancer so u should be extremely thankful to ur pRents for fighting with u. I’m glad u r cancer free Nd hopefully u stay this way. I’m beyond glad u didn’t that plastic surgery we do these to kids and imagine whT kinda disaster we put them through becuz the parents think these scars matter a lot!!! They r just bunch of scars, at the end it’s about the person’s heart and humanity… u r an amazing person and I truly hope u know that. I will be disappointed otherwise…!❤❤❤❤
Hello lovely, I had no idea that you were a surgeon or had been through this horrible disease 😞 I am SO glad you’re ok now ❤️🙏 yes, I’m glad I didn’t have the surgery on the scar. And you have really cemented this decision based on your comment and your work ❤️ thank you for taking the time to write this and share your story. Big hugs to you my friend!xx❤️❤️
@@SophieShohetOfficial you are like a model my love, but I am sure you know this! Also a great role model as a wife as a fashion lover etc. but we all know this:)
(2) Can you imagine being that cosmetic surgeon realising it's cancer? Here's this literal *child* who has been referred to him because the GP is being impossible and he expected it to be a case of fixing up some weird bumpy skin but he realises it's this rare and complicated form of cancer and that he *has* to do it because your GP is being impossible and he might be the one shot you have? And he calls up this expert in Australia and they just *do their best*. What and absolute legend!
A beautiful story of survival ❣️ I had breast cancer in my 20's. I caught it early so all okay now.
I’m so glad you’re ok 🙏❤️xx
Well done in beating breast cancer! Cheers to you!
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It is something how hard medical professionals try so hard to downplay concerns and like it’s not as bad as things are. That happened to me with my tumor. It first started as just a lump I noticed by my knee. Got told it was likely a cyst and not bother with it if it didn’t hurt.
Fast forward a few years and the lump had grown and I didn’t want it there anymore. Plus, I had the sneaking suspicion that it was something. I literally told my pcp “I want to check this thing isn’t trying to kill me.” That was April 2021. Got sent to orthopedic surgeon who first meeting was laughing how “no one ever goes to get prettier legs.” He ordered the MRI to humor me because I insisted that my vanity would not allow me to keep this lump on my knee. His tune changed a week later when my mri results were in.
My orthopedic oncologist now says my vanity saved me. First surgery was to remove lump. Initial biopsy showed benign during surgery. But that was a false result. So, I had to go back for a resection as a second surgery barely healed from the first since they had to wait for inflammation to go down. Looked like a shark bite out of my knee.
About to have my year and a half scans. Currently no evidence of disease but there is always the possibility of metastization. My type of cancer requires monitoring for 7 years. It is more likely to return years down the line rather than early on, so that keeps it scary. My hope is that, when I get cleared, to tattoo a tribute on my scar.
Sharing our cancer stories are important. Cancer does not mean it is a death sentence. But it does mean that you have to advocate for yourself and stay vigilant.
The unfathomable ignorance and arrogance it takes to see your case and call it cosmetic makes me angry 🙃As someone who’s also been dismissed by medical professionals I feel it. Disappointing that the doctors and nurses that saw you when you were first delivered didn’t have training to spot that sort of thing, could’ve saved you a lot of hassle! But thank you so much for sharing ❤ and I’m so glad you’re cancer free. I’m currently caring for someone with cancer right now. It’s crazy how many people have been impacted by it.
Thank you so much for watching and for the love 🙏 yes, I think if I’d seen a proper cancer specialist in the first place it would have prevented a second operation potentially 🙁 I’m VERY grateful to be healthy and well now though, it’s taught me not to take health for granted ❤️ Hugs to you my friend xx💗
@@SophieShohetOfficial I am curious why your parents didn't take you to cancer Dr themselves. Or a different pediatric dr.
remember to take some rest and share the responsibility for the person you are taking care of so you can both come through this together.
Right? I find it very cruel towards the child (in terms of comfort/quality of life) and the parents (stressing for years and years over something that medical professionals refuse to take seriously). I’m happy you’re cancer-free now, Sophie ❤
@@jentillas5529 It’s a good question. In the U.K. we have the nhs and you basically have to go via your GP for everything. They really did try but they were fighting against the system 🙁xx
I'm so glad to hear you are cancer free. David is right - those are your battle scars, proving you are a warrior. My husband's grandfather went through the same as you. He had a lump, but his GP fobbed it off, and it got bigger. Finally, after years, they referred him, but it was too late. He died 6 months later. xx
I’m SO sorry to hear about your husband’s grandfather - that must have been awful 😞 Yes, I do look at my scar differently now, I wouldn’t be without it. Hugs to you xx❤️
So sorry for your loss xx
This is so upsetting. How can a doctor not investigate a health issue? Don’t they have conscience and think about what are the sick person and his loved ones going through? I am sorry for your loss.
It was not depressing. It was full of strength and miraculous events. And it is so amazing that your husband was there to give you that love. Than you for sharing.
I feel for you! I had cervical cancer last year and had to have a hysterectomy (now cancer free, yay!). I’ve also had two back surgeries and aside from the extreme pain herniated discs can get to, the scars feel like somebody scooped out a chunk and never really seem to go back to normal. My oldest step daughter had back surgery 2 months after my last one for spondylolisthesis, she said she thinks her scar is cool, but also wants to cover hers up with a tattoo like I did one day. Sending big hugs ❤
This was so engrossing and remarkable. I had a life threatening illness in 2013 and a huge chunk of flesh had to be cut out of me (25cm diameter and 10cm deep). It was so wide and deep that my nurses could place their whole hand inside the cavity. Took 6 months to heal while I was bedridden. The daily unpacking and repacking of the wound was torture. I had to have silver nitrate wiped on it every second day to burn off any hypergranulation. Hearing your story gave me the horrors and took me back to that experience. But the good news is that we're now both healthy and I'm so grateful. It all just seems like a surreal dream to me now.
So glad you‘re cancer-free Sophie! Even if the journey was absolutely draining mentally because of the operations 🖤
I think this video is an important reminder to go to the doctor regularly for check-ups. Another thing I want to point out: Especially men above 25! Besides the fact men go to the doctor far less than women, they‘re very prone to rare cancers.
I remember when I was back in school my sports teacher sat all of us down to tell all of the boys: Please go to the doctor if you get older, even if you don‘t feel sick. He was diagnosed with testicle cancer, but luckily they were able to remove it!
Hello Alexander, thank you so much for sharing this - you are absolutely right xx❤️
Dear Sophie, it’s been a while since I’ve been on youtube and I went straight to this video when I saw the title! I am so happy you are healthy now! You have wonderful parents and a wonderful husband!
I am very grateful to be healthy and to have a healthy baby girl and a healthy family. We had some challenges, but we conquered them. Your scar is your trophy, wear it with pride. Sending you lots of love
I had colon cancer in 2020 and it has now spread to my lungs and bones. The second week of January was my first chance to go 6 months between checkups.
My CAT scan showed spots on my lungs and my cancer markers were up 100 points in the 6 months. Two weeks later they were up another 30 points. The doctor ordered a PET scan which showed that I also have bone cancer in my lower spine.
Last Tuesday I had a lung biopsy and Wednesday I had my first chemo treatment.
I will be on treatment as long as feasible or I say that I am done.
I am 75, and am okay with everything. God is good ❤
Wishing you the best and send thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for sharing this experience with your audience. When my husband was 22yo, he was diagnosed with Stage 5 Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma. As a result his lungs collapsed & he had to get an emergency tracheotomy, which left a pretty wicked scar at the base of his throat. He went through years of chemo & radiation- but he has been in remission for 13 years. We recently met a surgeon at a party, who pointed out my husband's trach scar, & said he could revise it, if he was interested- but my husband told him that he appreciates the daily reminder that he can survive almost any hardship. It's incredibly inspiring to me, when people can survive something so life-altering & still have a positive outlook on the situation.
As a recent cancer survivor, I thank you for sharing your story.
no wonder you married him!! praise God for a support like him!! Bless you Sophie!
My darling Sophie I first handily know what you and your parents went through…my son was diagnosed with cancer at 26…only to go into remission for 7 years then it was back the second time within 2 years he had a massive tumour in his lung..3rd time…the doctors removed 60% off his lung..he was in his 5th year off being cancer free had all his tests done but unfortunately my son passed from a heart attack 2 weeks prior his 40th birthday…the doctors believe his heart attack was caused by intense
chemo &radio that would have damaged his heart… as we don’t have any heart problems in our family…my darling please do not worry about your scar you are beautiful…and thank god you are here every day to tell us all about your beautiful bags…that’s one thing that keeps me going my love for fashion as that is what I did as a career for 34 years..stay beautiful because that’s what you are ❤❤love from Australia❤
The doctors there sounds HORRIBLE!!! I hope there was some way to report their incompetence! Glad your here with us cancer free!❤️
Such an inspiring story , so glad you are cancer free . I will never forget the day , hour and minute that the doctor seat my husband and I down and told us that he has cancer . We were preparing to celebrate his 50 birthday, I was devastated we new eachothers for 32 years and I couldn't imagine going on without him . I jumped up from the chair and I told them : we will beat this together so please tell us what is the next step ....and we beat it,he is cancer free for 11 years now . We were really lucky.
Sophie,you are the first person which had same cancer as my son had Dermatofibrosarcoma prociubrens the only difference was that he was diagnosed in 2018 even though so many years later but still misdiagnosed by sarcoma unit in Manchester Infirmary,if not my persistence to get biopsy with other consultant probably I would feel massive regret.People do not know that this type of cancer grows very slowly and the one and best way to get rid of it is surgery,if it grows and spreads no chemo and radiation will help unfortunately.I have found small lump on my son's leg and from me going to gp was quick purley by me putting my foot down and demanding answers.
I'm happy that you are cancer free♥️
Oh Sophie I had no idea. Awesome you are now cancer free. ❤❤ thank you for sharing.
It was a harder story to tell than I thought it was going to be! Thank you so much for the love my friend 🙏❤️xx
I was diagnosed with a very rare type of tripple negative breast cancer during the pandemic in 2020. I went through surgery, chemo, more surgery then radiation. Chemo is the worst thing a person can go through, absolutely horrible. I am grateful to be cancer free right now but I still go for regular check-ups. Thank you so much for sharing your story Sophie, it's not easy at all. ❤️❤️
Thank you for your story. My mum got diagnosed and this guves me home. So glad ur cancer free
@@indimist390 Thank you for you kind words. Sending prayers to your mum! Take care of yourself as well during this journey.
I too had triple negative breast cancer and lucky to find it early. I’m 5 years this year cancer free. Chemo changed my body so much! You fight so hard to get through the treatment that almost kills you and then years of healing from it.
I’m so happy to see another survivor ❤
Hi all I’m too a TNBC survivor! Caught early in March 2020. Absolutely brutal year but we got this ladies ❤ stay strong x
Just had goosebumps reading your story - i was also diagnosed with triple negative bc in 2020. Hope you are fine now! ❤
What an awesome story. You are the 3rd luxury influencer I’ve seen talk about a cancer journey. Since you’ve already captured such a large audience, this is putting your attention to good use. Thanks for sharing your story. Cancer seems to be so common nowadays. A ton of ppl are will benefit from your story. Perhaps find peace, reassurance, or at least worry less about their own diagnosis/ scare after hearing about your journey.
If you don't mind me asking...who are the other two?
Thank you for sharing your story. I can relate with you. I'm also a Sarcoma survivor. (for my arm though) I'm glad that you are cancer free now. Love your positivity. 💪💓
Oh Sophie, what an ordeal. I’ve never heard of children having cancer at birth - so good that you’re raising awareness. Wonderful that you have the love and support of David too. I can see why you have a zest and drive for life ❤
Yes unfortunately there are all sorts of difficulties that children go through and because they're not common unfortunately missed by general physicians. This was a blessed case that for 7 years it was stable. I believe in a lot of spiritual things and I also believe we're here for a reason. All of us but specially those who seem to miraculously be here. Again I understand as a doctor the odds of sperm and eggs making babies and babies surviving and becoming into adults all truly is magical. Even though new babies and the cycle of life seem like an every day thing if we knew the odds of our parents meeting and producing life and all of that we'd appreciate the miraculousness of everyone being here but even further with cases like this. Even less likely... Sophie seems like a wonderful woman who brings value and love into the lives of the people that surround her. She truly has a special purpose in this world. Big hugs
Hi Sophie! What a brave video. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I had melanoma. I barely caught it in time. I have my scar and it reminds me every day how lucky I am to still be here.
You are a beautiful woman on the outside for sure. I've watched you for years and you're beautiful on the inside too. No scar will ever take that beauty from you. Thank you for the video!
Been an ER nurse for 25 years, one of the first things I learned was listen to the parents! I’m so sorry for your family and you the treatment and utter frustration of having to continually try to be heard. How traumatic
Your video made me cry and realised how strong you are, I'm so glad that you are now healthy and thriving xx ❤
I am cancer free too thank God. I had the total protocole with chemo and radio therapies. Not an easy journey! I also did not have any plastic reconstruction. Did think it was important at the time. I hope that there will affordable cure so that no one would have to go through this.
As someone who has gone through cancer - that title scared me and I went oh no, Sophie!!!! Sorry to hear you went through it but happy it's in the past. loads of love.
Thank you for sharing your journey. You’re right, wear the scar with pride, you went through the worst and now you are here! Sorry for my bad English, but I really wanted to comment this time and say thank you for sharing your story
I’m so happy for you, Sophie. Thank you for sharing your story. Cancer touched my life twice. My mother was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer in 2009 & passed 2 months later. My husband was diagnosed with stage 2 colon cancer in 2017. The surgeon removed his entire colon because he had been suffering with ulcerative colitis for 30 years. He has been cancer free for 5.5 years. Anyone reading 5his who is suffering with ulcerative colitis, GET YOUR COLONOSCOPIES frequently. My husbands doctor wanted him to have yearly tests. When he called the office, the girls answering 5he phone did not review his file, and said he didn’t need another test right away if he was feeling well. He had forgotten he was told the annual check up had become necessary, because the doctor wanted to remove his colon before cancer developed.
Anyone suffering from cancer, or helping someone with cancer I’m sending hugs and prayers.
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Oh my word Sophie you’re a beautiful lady with battle scars. I can’t begin to imagine the physical pain you suffered when only a child nor the emotional pain your parents contended with. Thank God, although it is now history, your gruelling experience still stands as a beacon of hope to others. David was like an angel sent from Heaven to spare you from further physical pain.
Glad to hear you are free of it- you’re a warrior
Dearest Sophie,
Yours is the first cancer story video I’ve been able to watch since my thymic carcinoma diagnosis in 2020. Your approach is thoughtful, and your experience heartwarming. I feel for your childhood self. Be Well!🤗🧡
Thank you so much for this video. It made me very emotional, not sure why. I think just imagining this little girl and her parents with an undiagnosed cancer for all those years, and then the surgeries. You told your experience so well. Agree with other comments, you are beautiful inside and out.
I'm so happy your parents advocated on your behalf, and David has such an amazing heart for supporting you! Sophie, you are so beautiful, inside and out. ❤ Thank you for sharing your story😊
David is a angel in disguise……❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story. Cancer runs rampant through my family. It's very scary. You are a cancer survivor and warrior. ❤️
THANK YOU FOR SHARING...I AM 15 YRS. CANCER FREE OF NON- HODGKINS LYMPHOMA
Sophie I know that sharing your cancer story was difficult, but I believe that you have helped someone who is going through having cancer by hearing yours. Thank you for sharing.
Not depressing at all. You have no idea dear Sophie, how much this means to me. ❤
Sophie you are the most honest down to earth UA-camr on you tube.
Thank you for sharing your story! 🙏
From one cancer survivor to another, we ARE bad asses and our scars are proof. Thank you for sharing your story.
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Not depressing at all, it is courageous, happy you are fine now and you talk about it in a positive way , awesome as always
Thank you for sharing this ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you sharing your story. What stretches the skin are called Tissue Expanders. I used to work for the company that invented them in here in the states. They are amazing and also help burn victims. And David is so wise. What a blessing you two found each other.
That's absolutely insane. Shame on the Dr for not listening to your parents. So happy you are okay and sorry you and your family went through that xx
Hey Sophie, What an amazing and harrowing story. A few years ago my husband went through similar with advanced melanoma. Multiple massive surgeries/operations and a giant shark-bite sized scar...year of drug treatment and awful side effects. Truly awful experience as we'd only been married one year. So good to hear you talk about your cancer like this. I want to give the little kid Sophie a huge hug. You must've been so scared!
Hello my friend, I’m so sorry to hear about your husband, his story sounds similar to mine. I hope he’s well and recovered now - thank you so much for sharing, it’s so appreciated 🙏❤️xx
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Well done Sophie. 🥰
Thank you Sophie for sharing your story ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your journey ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
My friend lost his younger brother to cancer because of the incompetence of doctors. He had done an MRI for something else and the tumor was visible on the picture, but they just didn't look that way. My father went for a check up just days before he passed away, when he already had pneumonia, and the doctor didn't think anything was wrong. I just don't understand why you'd become a doctor if your sole purpose is to check off boxes on a piece of paper and not even look at the patient, if you don't care about people at all.
Thank for your courage to share such a private matter with us ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your inspiring and powerful story Sophie. I work as a pharmacist in a clinic for kids with cancer and see stories like yours everyday. So often their diagnosis are made based on chance and it is terrifying. These families need all the support they can have and hearing more stories like this will definitely give them hope during the most difficult times of their lives. So glad you’re cancer free and to hear your story 💕
Thank you for this video. All the best with your future. ❤️
So glad you're cancer free. I feel the upset regarding scarring. As a cleft lip patient and having a scar in the middle of my face made my childhood hell. Even at 44 I still try different techniques and treatments to get rid of it, unsuccessfully. I tell myself it's made me stronger but it doesn't always feel that way
Sending hugs and positivity. Thank you for sharing 💜💜💜
Thanks for sharing your story Sophie.
Thank you for sharing your story 🥰💞
Thank you for sharing your story,Sophie - such an amazing thing to share with others - glad to hear that you are well now. 💕
Sophie- You have handled this beautifully.
Thank you for sharing. Hugs!
So glad you chose to share this story, my aunt had cancer and it was such a stressful time in our lives because she lives in another country, and it was very difficult seeing my mom constantly worrying about her sister and not being able to physically be there for her all of the time. Thankfully, she has beaten it and has been cancer free for a few years now, so I truly wish anyone going through this a successful outcome, just keep a positive mind and offer as much support as you can🖤
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Wow. You had quite a journey. Thank you for sharing. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. Very inspirational!❤️
Thank you for sharing your personal experiences with all of us. 💗
lovely to hear your story sophie, we're lucky to have you share this with us! much love
Such an important experience to share, Sophie, thank you. This will undoubtedly help someone who may be struggling. I'm so glad that you're cancer-free AND proud of your scar now, it's part of you, your life story, and a physical embodiment of your strength. Aww David's a gem, when you meet someone and you know, you know. GPs can be the worst, fobbing you off when you know something's wrong. 💕
Thanks for sharing Sophie! So brave and inspiring :)
I am so glad that you got through that awful time and that you are well now. David has so much compassion and wisdom. You make a great team.
You are so brave to share such personal story here. Thanks for trusting us 💗🙏
I’m so glad you’re OK. Thank you for being strong enough to share your story.
thank you for sharing your story! I am really glad in the end you came out of it with a positive mindset :)
I’m sorry that you had to go through that but I’m happy that you’re ok now. Thank you for sharing your story! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you for sharing! What a brilliant telling of your story! xx
Thank you for sharing, Sophie. We love you and are so happy David and your life turned out the way it has!
Thank you for being brave and telling your story, love S
Thank you for sharing. Many blessings to you!
Thanks so much for sharing your story - it‘s not depressing at all, it gives hope! 💕
Hello Sweet Sophie! Had NO idea what you have gone through. Happy to hear its all in the past. Thank you for sharing your story, big hugs to you!
Thank you for sharing!
Utérine cancer 3.5 years ago. I felt alone. I feel less alone right now.m
I’m so glad you are ok. ❤
Sorry about that happened to you Sophie but at the same time happy to know you're free now. Big love!
Thank you for opening up about this. You are incredibly strong and never once shown otherwise. Beautiful! Love David for his support from so young in your relationship. Happy you are free. ❤
Sophie thank you so much for making this video 💞❤️
Sophie, what a wonderful video! You never know a person's struggles and it's easy to look at a person as beautiful as you are and think they've had everything easy. As a person with massive scars too, thank you for championing them! His performance at that appointments marks him as a keeper!!
Such an inspiring story Sophie and so brave and big of you to share 💞
❤thank you for sharing your journey
I have pre cancer cells of the breast. I’m on tamoxifen …annual MRI/sono/mammo. Life long annual monitoring…
Thank you for offering this - it does give hope and you have shared your story with uncommon sensitivity - thank you
Thanks so much for sharing your story Sophie. Wishing you continued good health. ❤
Wow Sophie, that is such a hard thing to go through, even more so for a child. It's beautiful to see you now so gracious and kind. Your scar is a story of victory, nothing to be ashamed of 🍀💕.
Gosh, my eyes are full of tears.. poor girl. You are a fighter Sophie..
Thank you very much for sharing this to us. This is very supportive to anyone in needed. David is just like an angel for you.
Thank you for sharing such a personal journey with us. Happy to hear you're cancer free. 💖