If we can encourage you even half as much as you encourage us, Lo, that’d be wonderful. You’ve taken care of us, so from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I love you friend
This day is very hard for me. My dad has basically been an absent father, coming into my life only when it's convenient for him and giving my children and I gifts just so he can flaunt to the world how "great" he is. My grandfather died 2 years ago and since then I don't really recognize this day as a thing. It just makes me sad. This video really hit me and I thank you for making it.
You are very thoughtful and deep and inspiring person. Anyone who is around you probably feels very your intense and intellectual being. You’re very sweet person and I hope you find what you’re looking for in this crazy journey we call life.
I have to be honest. Your thoughts are so amazing and it’s so refreshing and I enjoy your content. You are so incredibly intelligent. It’s like food for thought. Thank you for putting words for the thoughts that some people can’t. Thanks lo ❤️
Thank you young lady. I am a father as well as a daddy. I too did not have the best of relationships with my father. So to add to what you said, happy Father's Day to all the Daddies out there, whether a father or not. Anyone who has been there in a time of need, to support, physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, someone who needed it, they have all been Daddies. Blessings and happiness young lady.
I dont think that you understand how much you are helping us and how much you mean to us and to me, you mean everything to me and you deserve the world, and im sorry if your father didnt give you it but we are here to show you what you deserve, and thats everything!
My dad passed away when I was 3 so I grew up without him. I barely remember him but I miss what I do remember. Father's Day has always been really shitty for me bc of this, even moreso when my grandfather died when I was 13 and now, even moreso again bc over Christmas, my uncle died and he was the last remaining connection I had to my dad, other than my half-brother. I don't know anybody else on that side. I'm really feeling bad today and was dreading watching this video and being reminded that it's Father's Day yet again but I was actually pleasantly surprised. Thank you. I like this take of days like this being for people who care for you in general, rather than just parents. I love your channel and just want you to know that you're far from alone in not having an actual father to celebrate. All of us, whether through shitty dads, dead dads, or otherwise, stand in solidarity here. ♥️ Love you.
We must protect this precious human being. Why are they so adorable and genuine. It's so hard to find people that are beautiful on the outside and inside. But milkwebs you are one of them.
Thankyou Lo. My dad took his life in2008, and i don't know what i feel anymore because he put me through so much abuse...it ruined my life but I'm building it up again. You are a beautiful and kind spirit in the world. ♡♡♡
Lo, thank you. You dont get enough thanks. Thank you so much. You are worth celebrating. You mean so much to me and I'm sure all of your other loyal subscribers. You make me so happy and feel so good inside. You've taught me that it's okay to be a little without a caregiver and I can be a little no matter what I look like ect. You're amazing and have taught me so much and I cannot thank you enough.
Thank you for broadening the appreciation of protective figures on "father's day" beyond the familial circle. Even if my father remains a nice person worthy of appreciation.
Back up kiddo you're an awesome being of light and shine for the world to see because you truly worth it. PS I know you probably heard me say this before but I say it because I feel everybody needs to hear that they're amazing beings and that they're beautiful in their own ways and what we define beauty as is wrong, within the society because it only allows for one way to exist and that way is totally unhealthy and Ron the begin with LOL so cheers to you and may you have a great rest of your life on the face of this Earth and don't sweat it kiddo you're awesome gust the way u are
I absolutely love your videos, you are so adorable, and thoughtful and just amazing, not long ago after the way I was done by my little I wanted to give up the lifestyle, I didn't want to be a daddy anymore, through your videos you helped me to not throw away the best part of me and I thank you for that. Any me you have a lifelong fan and I'm always looking forward to your content keep up the great work
Oh my goodness thank you so much for making this video. Father’s Day as always left me feeling sad; and to be quite honest maybe a little resentful. But they way you put it as a celebration of those who take care of us made today a million times better. Love you 💕
You help take care of me thank you. This is a lot to be thankful for. I know I've been toxic and lately especially hard but thank you for loving video's. Thank you to your other fam and for them supporting you to support us and create a network of openness genuine sharing and love and for you soft soul and fluffy silliness and vulnerability by example.
Thank for making this video. I’m currently feeling a lot like what you are feeling. Trigger warning: Last Father’s Day my dad beat my mom and physically attacked me as well in a drugged up rage. It’s a long and complicated story but what hurt the most is that everyone forgave him like nothing had happened including my own mother and when I refused to forgive him they all backlashed at me. They were angrier at me for not forgiving my dad than they were at my dad for what he had done. I felt helpless and empty. More alone than I have my entire life. They didn’t even try to understand what I was feeling and no matter what I said, they saw me as the issue. Today is the 1 year anniversary of that night. Idk I just feel a bit down when I see all these fathers day posts on my insta feed. And a bit jealous too not gonna lie. This video made me feel not so alone though so thank you for being honest. I feel slightly better now lol
I don't know if my experience is similar, but I think I can relate. The first few fathers days after my dad passed were not fun :( I hope you're doing okay, friend
Fathers day is a very hard day for me, because as you said before, I've never thought my biological father was worth celebrating, especially when he hurt me so much. I am grateful for my stepfather, but its still very hard. But I do agree, we should celebrate those who take care of us, who are there for us, and for those who love us. I love you and I hope you had a good night❤🌈🌞
So sorry for your bad experience with your biological parent obviously I want call him a father I had the same he was a severe alcoholic his whole life I swore to never be like that and have five children with a great relationship and have worked hard to be the opposite of mine alright you got me in tears now your an inspiration to me many people including me an old man thank you
I wish there was a way to love react to this, not just a thumbs up. Thank you Lo for always managing to put a beautifully insightful and positive spin on even the hardest topics 💕
You are literally one of my favourite people on the internets. Every video hits me in the gut, and I love it. Thanks for YOU! I wrote you an e-mail, i think it got lost in e-mail-verse WOMP.
fathers day has always been very weird for me to and 1 time the teachers insisted on us making a fathers day card and I gave it to my friend Chad and Valentine's day to because I've never really had anyone because they didn't want me just because of my looks and also how I struggled with my weight because I have always used food to help cope with my trauma and after seeing how our mom and dad and her other boyfriends treated us I'm not sure if I ever want to be in a serious relationship again because I fear that I'm just going to go through that trauma all over again although I would still want to be in a relationship to have someone nurture me to make me feel safe and special but I'm unsure
Wow, I really love what you said, thank you so much for sharing it with us, it really has a big and wonderful impact ❤️ And for me, what you said it also applies to mother's day. We are totally free to choose to live those days the way we want and that feels the best for us ♡ Good luck to you too, I wish you the best for this day and after, and send you very positive vibes 😊 Thank you very much again, from France ♡💐
Maybe I should stop writing so much idk. I kind of became my own parental figure in some ways. I did seek examples for dealing with issues and for goals when younger, but I completely scratched that and was a bit frantic and intense before adulthood. Some deadlines were there and I was to change myself for complex resilience. Some issues were complicated and intense and I was absolutely alone and hidden, so different functions, needs and such were contrasted a lot. It's not worth trying to think more about it. On this day I'd probably put a certain necklace on and validate my self protection, my self management, my self analysis, my self care, my regulations, etc. and maybe buy some gift wrapped thing or some treat/dessert and walk in the woods for awhile. It's more conflicting since the last crisis, but I'll find something. It sounds more self centered than it means to me, it feels completely separate from both sides for me. In any case, things were a bit more stable when he went away. I still may feel a bond for my grandmother, but I wasn't supposed to have anyone in my life during adulthood. I stressfully don't feel like myself around someone and I'd rather stay away now. Not feeling like covering the subjects. I don't know if this annoys. My tablet crashed first time writing and I got sad (my head even burned haha I've become emotional for venting), so I rewrote and posted. Anyways, I hope everyone has a nice day and use it the way they want. Symbolic generalized days don't need to be associated with their source; they can have great use regardless of it. Layers and a bird's eye make mental gymnastics only a ressourceful function for acts that are beneficial, if you're fussy about control, clarity, authenticity and such.
Lo, you are a very sweet person, but sometimes you seem very sad about things that you dont share with us, I do not need to know those things, but I want to reach out to you when you are down but dont know how or if I should do that as I only know what you tell us on the internet and cannot say I know you being as I am on the other side of the planet. But I wish to be kind to you and others I follow, i can only be a human who you can talk to should you so.wish. you be kind to you, love and hugs xx 🇬🇧❤🐾⚘🧓😊
dinosaur fun thank you! I’m sad sometimes for sure, like any human! But I’m never really hiding any of it. (: I’m pretty transparent about feelings and thoughts. 💕 you’re very kind and I appreciate you.
I don't think there's anything wrong with celebrating fathers; most fathers are worthy of celebration once a year. I, like you, had terrible fathers (3 of them, all terrible) - but I know lots of people who've had wonderful, enriching experiences with their fathers. I am sorry you didn't though :-( Hopefully, you'll find enrichment you missed from your father through other avenues :-)
She literally explained her father wasn’t a man to be celebrated. She literally thanked people it was about her pain. it was about people who have loved and supported her through pain
If we can encourage you even half as much as you encourage us, Lo, that’d be wonderful. You’ve taken care of us, so from the bottom of my heart, thank you. I love you friend
Yes!
This day is very hard for me. My dad has basically been an absent father, coming into my life only when it's convenient for him and giving my children and I gifts just so he can flaunt to the world how "great" he is. My grandfather died 2 years ago and since then I don't really recognize this day as a thing. It just makes me sad. This video really hit me and I thank you for making it.
You are very thoughtful and deep and inspiring person. Anyone who is around you probably feels very your intense and intellectual being. You’re very sweet person and I hope you find what you’re looking for in this crazy journey we call life.
I have to be honest. Your thoughts are so amazing and it’s so refreshing and I enjoy your content. You are so incredibly intelligent. It’s like food for thought. Thank you for putting words for the thoughts that some people can’t. Thanks lo ❤️
Thank you for this. I was kind of convinced I was the only one that found the day to be this lonely. You’re an incredible human.
My dad died two years back, father's day feels so lonely today :(
Elva Light hi. I love you. I’m sorry you’re feeling lonely, friend. I’d love to hug you if I could.
@@milkwebs Thanks, it means it a lot
Thank you young lady. I am a father as well as a daddy. I too did not have the best of relationships with my father. So to add to what you said, happy Father's Day to all the Daddies out there, whether a father or not. Anyone who has been there in a time of need, to support, physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, someone who needed it, they have all been Daddies. Blessings and happiness young lady.
I dont think that you understand how much you are helping us and how much you mean to us and to me, you mean everything to me and you deserve the world, and im sorry if your father didnt give you it but we are here to show you what you deserve, and thats everything!
My father passed away 13 years ago so it has felt very weird on this day for a while. Thank you for making it easier this year.
I'm sad, I wish there was more of you in the world. I am talking about your kindness and that's it. Smh I'm just wishing.
My dad passed away when I was 3 so I grew up without him. I barely remember him but I miss what I do remember. Father's Day has always been really shitty for me bc of this, even moreso when my grandfather died when I was 13 and now, even moreso again bc over Christmas, my uncle died and he was the last remaining connection I had to my dad, other than my half-brother. I don't know anybody else on that side. I'm really feeling bad today and was dreading watching this video and being reminded that it's Father's Day yet again but I was actually pleasantly surprised. Thank you. I like this take of days like this being for people who care for you in general, rather than just parents. I love your channel and just want you to know that you're far from alone in not having an actual father to celebrate. All of us, whether through shitty dads, dead dads, or otherwise, stand in solidarity here. ♥️ Love you.
We all love you very much!
Happy fathers day to you,
Because youre videos have been a huge help in my life.
I love you Lo!
I was having a hard time today.
Thank you for this.
You are the sweetest person, and you have such a pure heart 💖💖
Thank you and we love you to princess
Love you Lo ❤️ happy Father's Day to you
Thank you Lo for taking care of me! You’ve helped me a lot since I first started watching your videos and following your social media. 💕💕💕
Sending love and positive vibes your way, Lo. Thank you so much for this video, you are a wonderful, thoughtful human and I hope you're doing good x
We must protect this precious human being. Why are they so adorable and genuine.
It's so hard to find people that are beautiful on the outside and inside. But milkwebs you are one of them.
Thankyou Lo. My dad took his life in2008, and i don't know what i feel anymore because he put me through so much abuse...it ruined my life but I'm building it up again. You are a beautiful and kind spirit in the world. ♡♡♡
You are so incredibly needed in this world. What a fabulous example you are 🍭
Lo, thank you. You dont get enough thanks. Thank you so much. You are worth celebrating. You mean so much to me and I'm sure all of your other loyal subscribers. You make me so happy and feel so good inside. You've taught me that it's okay to be a little without a caregiver and I can be a little no matter what I look like ect. You're amazing and have taught me so much and I cannot thank you enough.
Thank you for broadening the appreciation of protective figures on "father's day" beyond the familial circle.
Even if my father remains a nice person worthy of appreciation.
❤️Thank you for bringing this to the light.
Daddy issues too lol. It never rains but it pours.
Back up kiddo you're an awesome being of light and shine for the world to see because you truly worth it. PS I know you probably heard me say this before but I say it because I feel everybody needs to hear that they're amazing beings and that they're beautiful in their own ways and what we define beauty as is wrong, within the society because it only allows for one way to exist and that way is totally unhealthy and Ron the begin with LOL so cheers to you and may you have a great rest of your life on the face of this Earth and don't sweat it kiddo you're awesome gust the way u are
I absolutely love your videos, you are so adorable, and thoughtful and just amazing, not long ago after the way I was done by my little I wanted to give up the lifestyle, I didn't want to be a daddy anymore, through your videos you helped me to not throw away the best part of me and I thank you for that. Any me you have a lifelong fan and I'm always looking forward to your content keep up the great work
Father's Day is always hard for me too. Thankfully, for the first time, I got to celebrate Daddy Day this Friday with my Daddy.
You are so freaking brave for posting this, and we all could not be more proud. 💗💞🎨
Oh my goodness thank you so much for making this video. Father’s Day as always left me feeling sad; and to be quite honest maybe a little resentful. But they way you put it as a celebration of those who take care of us made today a million times better. Love you 💕
You help take care of me thank you. This is a lot to be thankful for. I know I've been toxic and lately especially hard but thank you for loving video's. Thank you to your other fam and for them supporting you to support us and create a network of openness genuine sharing and love and for you soft soul and fluffy silliness and vulnerability by example.
You are an amazing human being lo. I’m so sorry you have been hurt by so many people. I just want to pick you you up and give you lots of hugs 😘💜💜
much love, I'm sorry for the things in your life that have been less than you deserve. I wish you well
Love you Lo! 🖤
Thank for making this video. I’m currently feeling a lot like what you are feeling. Trigger warning: Last Father’s Day my dad beat my mom and physically attacked me as well in a drugged up rage. It’s a long and complicated story but what hurt the most is that everyone forgave him like nothing had happened including my own mother and when I refused to forgive him they all backlashed at me. They were angrier at me for not forgiving my dad than they were at my dad for what he had done. I felt helpless and empty. More alone than I have my entire life. They didn’t even try to understand what I was feeling and no matter what I said, they saw me as the issue. Today is the 1 year anniversary of that night. Idk I just feel a bit down when I see all these fathers day posts on my insta feed. And a bit jealous too not gonna lie. This video made me feel not so alone though so thank you for being honest. I feel slightly better now lol
Love you, Lola
this video is very appreciated thank you for this 🖤
I don't know if my experience is similar, but I think I can relate.
The first few fathers days after my dad passed were not fun :(
I hope you're doing okay, friend
Fathers day is a very hard day for me, because as you said before, I've never thought my biological father was worth celebrating, especially when he hurt me so much. I am grateful for my stepfather, but its still very hard. But I do agree, we should celebrate those who take care of us, who are there for us, and for those who love us. I love you and I hope you had a good night❤🌈🌞
So sorry for your bad experience with your biological parent obviously I want call him a father I had the same he was a severe alcoholic his whole life I swore to never be like that and have five children with a great relationship and have worked hard to be the opposite of mine alright you got me in tears now your an inspiration to me many people including me an old man thank you
I wish there was a way to love react to this, not just a thumbs up. Thank you Lo for always managing to put a beautifully insightful and positive spin on even the hardest topics 💕
Yes!
Thank You ... you're so sweet
You are literally one of my favourite people on the internets. Every video hits me in the gut, and I love it. Thanks for YOU! I wrote you an e-mail, i think it got lost in e-mail-verse WOMP.
This is my first Father’s Day without my dad, he passed from cancer in April. Love you & your videos❤️
You're awesome thank you for being you , hope you had a good day
Te amo
fathers day has always been very weird for me to and 1 time the teachers insisted on us making a fathers day card and I gave it to my friend Chad and Valentine's day to because I've never really had anyone because they didn't want me just because of my looks and also how I struggled with my weight because I have always used food to help cope with my trauma and after seeing how our mom and dad and her other boyfriends treated us I'm not sure if I ever want to be in a serious relationship again because I fear that I'm just going to go through that trauma all over again although I would still want to be in a relationship to have someone nurture me to make me feel safe and special but I'm unsure
Wow, I really love what you said, thank you so much for sharing it with us, it really has a big and wonderful impact ❤️ And for me, what you said it also applies to mother's day. We are totally free to choose to live those days the way we want and that feels the best for us ♡
Good luck to you too, I wish you the best for this day and after, and send you very positive vibes 😊
Thank you very much again, from France ♡💐
I feel this so hard. 💙💙💙
💞
UGH SAME
Maybe I should stop writing so much idk. I kind of became my own parental figure in some ways. I did seek examples for dealing with issues and for goals when younger, but I completely scratched that and was a bit frantic and intense before adulthood. Some deadlines were there and I was to change myself for complex resilience. Some issues were complicated and intense and I was absolutely alone and hidden, so different functions, needs and such were contrasted a lot. It's not worth trying to think more about it.
On this day I'd probably put a certain necklace on and validate my self protection, my self management, my self analysis, my self care, my regulations, etc. and maybe buy some gift wrapped thing or some treat/dessert and walk in the woods for awhile. It's more conflicting since the last crisis, but I'll find something. It sounds more self centered than it means to me, it feels completely separate from both sides for me.
In any case, things were a bit more stable when he went away. I still may feel a bond for my grandmother, but I wasn't supposed to have anyone in my life during adulthood. I stressfully don't feel like myself around someone and I'd rather stay away now. Not feeling like covering the subjects.
I don't know if this annoys. My tablet crashed first time writing and I got sad (my head even burned haha I've become emotional for venting), so I rewrote and posted.
Anyways, I hope everyone has a nice day and use it the way they want. Symbolic generalized days don't need to be associated with their source; they can have great use regardless of it. Layers and a bird's eye make mental gymnastics only a ressourceful function for acts that are beneficial, if you're fussy about control, clarity, authenticity and such.
Didn't know it was today, well I'm never going to be a dad so meh.
I love you Lo, this was beautiful. You're beautiful (:
Dude
Excellent, that is excellent dude.
Awww heres a hi*hugs you throw the screen*
Thank you :-)
Lola you have helped me so much…..our opinions are very similar….I am also a fellow little ❤️
I'm sorry kiddo.
Je te comprend, bonne fêtes :*
excellent transisition there are at the end. Thank you for giving me brain food for some time now and I hope you having a cool day
This was amazing.
I don't know your beliefs, and this is not a demand but an announcement: God loves you too.
🥰💗💛🐢🍼
Awwww! 😍💋
I. Love. You.
💞im love you💞
Fathers day should be called dads day.
I have had a shitty Father's Day. My kids are to young to celebrate and I'm divorced now.
Will you owe me Father's Day thing I find it kind of dumb personally but I grew up not knowing my father
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I don’t have a dad either
Milk
Wow smart
Bubbles
Lo, you are a very sweet person, but sometimes you seem very sad about things that you dont share with us, I do not need to know those things, but I want to reach out to you when you are down but dont know how or if I should do that as I only know what you tell us on the internet and cannot say I know you being as I am on the other side of the planet. But I wish to be kind to you and others I follow, i can only be a human who you can talk to should you so.wish. you be kind to you, love and hugs xx 🇬🇧❤🐾⚘🧓😊
dinosaur fun thank you! I’m sad sometimes for sure, like any human! But I’m never really hiding any of it. (: I’m pretty transparent about feelings and thoughts. 💕 you’re very kind and I appreciate you.
so beautiful so exsquiset
Cuando en solo baby doll
I don't think there's anything wrong with celebrating fathers; most fathers are worthy of celebration once a year. I, like you, had terrible fathers (3 of them, all terrible) - but I know lots of people who've had wonderful, enriching experiences with their fathers.
I am sorry you didn't though :-(
Hopefully, you'll find enrichment you missed from your father through other avenues :-)
Leave it to a woman to make Father's day about themselves
She literally explained her father wasn’t a man to be celebrated. She literally thanked people it was about her pain. it was about people who have loved and supported her through pain
I want to take care of you and be your daddy