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Mother disciplines daughter by chopping off her hair in viral video
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- Опубліковано 14 гру 2022
- Is a parent's impromptu due to her child's bad grades too harsh?
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In school I was bullied relentlessly. However, home was worse. One day my mom sent me to school with my hair half braided for a punishment. I didn't even remember what I did. It was a setup. That day the girl that had bullied me for over 7 years asked if she could finish my hair. Out of options, I agreed. She braided it nicely, hugged me and never bullied me again. The bullying continued at home, not at school anymore.
Wow!So sorry for that.
So, did you grow up to become a successful person? It appears that you did by your perfect grammar. Would you be in the same situation if your mother ignored you when you screwed-up and let you roam the streets at night completely undisciplined?
@@lizard944 you’re weird for trying to make it seem like what she did was normal.
@@lizard944 You people will try to do anything to condone these types of behaviours.
@@lizard944 I’m going to assume you were probably disciplined that way too, and you're just now coping by trying to defend this type of disgusting so-called "discipline."
The hair will grow back...the relationship will never be the same.
I hope she heals from this humiliation.
Actually, hair doesn't always "grow back." Some women have trouble with growing hair!!! This was all a ploy for views on social media!@!! Not real at ALL!!
Hair will now grow differently
@@t.j.7789 oh was the girl in on it!?
@@t.j.7789 even worse if the hair doesn't grow back and the relationship is still ruined...but it would be even more sad if this was all for views and the girl was in on it
She may hate her mother for life after this🤦🏽♀️ She thinks she’s teaching her the right way, but this can create deeper insecurities. As a parent I get exhausted with repeating myself HOWEVER, I can’t scare my kids for life.
"I told you to stop being prettier than me", is what she really meant.
That Part
Nothing but FACTS !!!
She’s jealous of her
Nope
*yep
My mom humiliated me as a teen. She slapped me in front of all of my friends and classmates, because I walked my cousin home after a party. I was in the 7th grade. I still hate her for that this day, and I’m 49.
I’m sorry u had to go through that
Heal.
*You should be ashamed of yourself!!!!!* Your mother hit you bcz she loves & worried about you!!! At the time you didn't understand the danger you put yourself in!!! These streets will est you alive. You need to forgive your mother & apologize!!! Life is too short for you to be focus on that!!!
Girl heal.. me too. Had a bad mother. But u can heal
You probably deserved it!
Child,I did allot when I was younger and my momma got me straight.
Psh,now that I'm older I'm grateful my momma put me in my place .
My mom did this to me when I was 13. My hair was always long and down my back until then. She cut it into a tiny afro. I didn't understand why then. I have a much better picture now. But yeah, that's jealousy disguised as discipline yet really abuse!
Teachers lie too don't take everything for the gospel and the truth this is such a shame this mother has cut off all her daughter here and humiliated her like this to be blessed to carry a child nine months in the womb and then destroy her mentally there's no telling what this young lady may do to her when she's older or she may just cut her mother lose but this is very heartbreaking everybody make mistakes like the man just saying this is what kids do they make mistakes adults make mistakes and we learn from the mistakes that we make when we're older even the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13
11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. THIS IS HORRIBLE AND SAD ON SO MANY LEVELS I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THIS YOUNG LADY WE DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED BEHIND CLOSED DOORS IN SCHOOLS AND DON'T KNOW THE TEACHERS WERE HONESTLY TELLING THE TRUTH OR THE MOTHER JUST SAID THAT WE DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON SOME OTHERS ARE JEALOUS OF THEIR CHILDREN IT SEEM LIKE IT THESE DAYS BUT THE BIBLE DID SAY Luke 12:53
53 The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
AND WE SEE IT ALL THE TIME THESE TEACHERS SOME OF THEM ARE OUT OF CONTROL TOO SHE MAY HAVE BEEN DOING HER WORK SIT DOWN AND TALK TO YOUR KIDS AND SEE WHAT WHAT'S GOING ON IN THE CLASSROOM AND WHAT'S GOING ON
BUT IT'S SAD WE JUST GOT TO WATCH AS WELL AS PRAYING KEEP GOD FIRST OF ALL THINGS SO NOTHING IN THIS WORLD MATTERS BUT GOD KEEP HIM FIRST AND UNDERSTAND AND KNOW THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING OR WHY THE CHILDREN YOU GOT IN YOUR CUSTODY OF CARE THAT YOU THE GUARDIAN OF THEY ARE TRULY YOUR BLESSING DON'T TAKE YOUR BLESSING FOR GRANTED
My mother did the same to me when I was about 8. It still affects me till now. She was jealous of all her daughters.
Straight envy! I pray for her daughter to be rescued from her insecure ass momma! My gay brother did this to me when we were children and my mom whooped his ass!
😮 my mom took me to a “babysitter” of whom she & her daughter had short hair & my mom claimed that upon her return to pick me up the sitter had cut off all of my hair. I was too young; only months old; too remember. However, I do know that mom has always had waist-length hair & most likely; my intuition tells me; that she paid her to do it because she KNEW MY FATHER WOULD PROTECT/ Defend ME.Seeing me as a threat because everyone said we looked just alike; until recently & she was fearful of losing her throne position, in her mind 🤦🏽♀️ I am sorry that you experienced that abuse. Be Blessed and in good spirits, like myself 🙏🏽 💜🙌🏼
Sorry that happened to you 😢
Humiliating your child is never okay
I hope this mother goes to jail or is charged with some sort of crime. Kids should have rights too! And this is a LATINA WOMAN NOT BLACK‼️‼️‼️‼️
Never!
Peer group humiliation can be a very powerful tool to subdue an unruly child.
The lie is that it's inherently wrong. But I dare someone to explain why, and by what standard are they judging wrong.
A child needs boundaries and discipline. Most discipline doesn't include humiliation. However, if peer group acceptance is causing them to act up, then the threat of peer group humiliation will cause them to pipe down. This absolutely kept me and my six siblings in check.
So I'm not taking it off the table, regardless of what the "status quo" says.
@@janepatton8100 It can also cause a child to commit suicide . If she do that for the world to see I can't imagine what she do at home.
@@kimberlywilson422
Imagine that, chopping off hair that will grow back can cause someone to commit (sui- cide)... smh.
This generation is in trouble.
The mom is a narcissist. She raged because her daughter wasn’t being the perfect reflection of her. My mom was like this too. I hope the girl is okay. ❤
Wrong! The mother is the other being jealous of her daughter. The mother was once the cute one and now that the daughter is getting attention, she subconsciously resents her daughter and tries to destroy her daughters beauty
My mom was narcissistic too. Couldn't please her even If I tried
@@AnAdorableWombatnot everything is about jealousy. How can a mother be jealous of her own daughter. Women. Every cause of a problem has to be jealousy.
The mother is simply what the comment above said she is. A narcissist
Shut up dude. You sound like you cry about every little inconvenience. Literal tears when something you don’t like happens.
A good mom would NEVER do something like this. What a beautiful girl. How traumatic, very traumatic for a teen to go through this. Narcissist Mothers, please seek counseling, your child DESERVES more.
How about taking time to study with her instead of humiliating her?
Bingo !!💯💯💯 Thanks Dear♥️♥️♥️
Exactly help her with her homework.
Exactly, children and teens are interested in what you seeds you sow interest in them.i sat with my children since babies and toddlers drawing coloring reading and even taught to sing.now they draw and sing better than me, the fruits show eventually they can try but they not going to be perfect.
She could have confiscated her makeup and taken away some other privilege until her grades improved. The mom didn't have to post that online, but she is thirsty for attention and wanting to go viral.
You’re likely right about the mom wanting attention. It’s just so hard to disciple some kids though. I see it at the store. The kids really have the parents in a chokehold. It kind of sucks but I kind of get the hair getting cut off. They used to make women cut their hair, albeit not all the way, in the military back in the day. More lenient now. My aunt had her hair chopped off and then forced to keep it shoulder length when she was in the military. Then when her kids would act up she would sometimes chop off their hair. Forces a certain compliance when it comes to certain problems. All kids need to be disciplined differently. My mom would yell at me and she would break my things… not a way for a parent to act but it forced me to comply. Love my mom but I don’t like her till this day. But it shows that as a parent you need to stay on top of your kids in terms of expectations when they are young. When they are older it won’t be much of a problem because they had a good foundation.
Take the phone away @@angelinimartini
This is how children learn how to use evil deeds to settle disputes. It's taught by parents.
The act was uncalled for.
Don’t be surprised if the daughter goes low contact or no contact with her mom once she turns 18.
Her daughter will never forget what her mother did to her..especially on live for millions to see.
Nor should she. The woman has no excuse.
Disgusting clout chasing pos
Good. She needs to respect her Mom.
Well, mom has no one to blame by herself, and she’s never allowed to meet her grandkids and ends up in the worst nursing home.
@@sayhello5377 heck yeah
Mom in a nursing home :"why doesn't my daughter talk to me any more?"
Straight up CHILD ABUSE . Disgusting made me sick to my stomach to watch that! As a hair stylist with a daughter the same age I know how important it is to a teenager to feel they look good ! what the mother did hear is emotional abuse! The worst kind! Although this beauties hair will grow back the pts will stay with her forever! 😢
This happened to a girl I went to high school with. She came to school with a scarf and one of the other kids snatched it off. She was sent to the guidance counselor office and Cps was called and they removed her from her family. It’s abuse for anybody agreeing with the mom.
CPS is also taking kids away from families that refuse to use their made-up pronouns. So that's no indicator of whether or not this was right or wrong.
Will it create the outcome that the mother wants? That's the question. Hair can grow back, but an unruly child got one life to lose.
But that's hard to explain to a generation that worships hair.
@@janepatton8100 If you agree with the mom just say that.🙄 It’s abuse plain and simple take your rant to another comment.
@@iamabundant618
Lol... that's exactly what I said.
@@janepatton8100 K.
@Iamabundant I don't believe in public shaming, but a parent can choose to cut their children's hair. What bothers me about the whole situation is the amount of people that act like the girl is no longer pretty with short hair. I am more worried about the vanity and limited foresight of the call CPS generation. Mom probably should have been encouraged to get her a decent cut to help her adjust to the change. Kids usually adapt quickly if you don't make it an issue.
It's the mom that needs to be punished.
Mom is normal
Immediately...🤨
I wish I can give her a makeover because she is in need of it. Her face is not attractive versus her daughters. I am pretty sure she will get a lot of backlash on this one.
its a painless punishment that won't soon be forgotten. if there was proper warning, and she hadn't taken video and posted it online, its not unreasonable.
I heard the kid got taken away and cps was involved
If that a child ends up pregnant and bringing in another child into the world. It’s because she felt like she was alone, had no one to talk to, nobody on her side and nobody to protect her. Disgusting. Should not call herself a mother. You’re a horrible human being. You scared that child for life. I hope you go to jail ma’am
My grandmother did this to me when I was 13 for no good reason. Yeah, the hair grew back and she never touched my hair again after that, but I will never forget what she did or how she ignored me when I went back to my room and cried.
My paternal grandmother used to humiliate me for the simple fact that she hated my mother . Calling me names like poor $girl, not having class for my moms side not having $, she was so evil, when she died I didn’t bother to travel for her funeral.
"No good reason". For sure
The therapist nailed it talking about this behavior acting as a pipeline to abusive relationships. My mother was similar to this, she didn’t do this exact thing, but LOVED to humiliate me, was abusive, would giggle and sing songs about my sadness while I cried (as a child!), and I found myself in abusive relationships into my mid twenties. We accept the “love” we think we deserve.
Hope that poor girl gets some therapy
Haley G sad to hear you went through that. Curious, are you and your mom close now?
I know how you feel. I’m in my twenties now and I still get made fun of by my mom and brother for being very depressed. I listen to music to keep myself calm and my mom and brother still laugh at me for it.
Says "Being cute ain't shh" With a filter on the video. She is jealous of her daughter. And she needs to be watched closely by cps
Yes
That was the most bizarre part. I was delighted that my kids were better looking than me. And their father regularly said "We did make beautiful babies. The sum is greater than the parts."
She is very jealous of her daughters beauty. So sad your still beautiful baby girl
He daughter needs to be taken away now
Agree
The way she just let her cut it off and was complacent makes my heart hurt, girl no one should ever touch you like that, not even your mamma. And momma, please learn YOUR lesson, this was abuse, and not ok, learn and move on, take care of your baby.
Child needs to be removed from the home. Period.
I was in an abusive relationship and after sometime I would just surrender like she did. She is used to being treated like this.
@@aracelivaldez9941 TRUTH
Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid
These types of parents are pathetic..
They be the ones setting rules and standards for their kids that they can’t even abide by themselves…
If your child isn’t doing well in school, as a f**king parent it’s your obligation to help that child receive special care and attention versus just saying, “you better get your grades up or else!”
Uugghh some people should never have kids!
They’re lacking in emotional intelligence and can’t understand providing a solution,instead they think everything should work out with sheer desire!
Yes because all they're doing is instilling fear. We need compassion not power trips
Well said x
These are not parents.
She us a Narcistic Ahole.
That woman is a narcissist! She wants to be only pretty one. She’s bothered that her daughter is trying to explore her social environment and physical attractiveness.
Social media is the biggest curse of modern society.
If it were not for SM, this would have happened in private and no one would know that Jezebel is a monster.
@@KingofgraceSARA wait so who's side arev you on???? Thats a fuckin child!!!
100% kids, adolescents, adult all need attention just sad
Only because we know more about how the world actually is! If social media existed in the past they would have been saying and doing awful things in there. The world just got smaller and we can see what’s actually been happening. The world hasn’t gotten worse, you just know more about what’s actually happening.
Yes and no, it’s a blessing AND a curse.
People who are going through this same situation that this young girl is going through....YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! YOU ARE LOVED!!! And most certainly.....YOU MATTER!!!!!
I might’ve posted this before but that girl is one of prettiest girls I have ever seen. She doesn’t even need hair.
She's not into physical abuse but proceeds to physically cut off that poor girls crown. How she thinks that was normal or ok is beyond me?
Then pushes her face into the camera!!!😡😡😡😡
Right the physical will heal but this is even more traumatic. She need parenting skills. This is NOT cute
She doesn't have a crown. That's something only people of color have. Yep I said what I said! She has hair on her head that's it.😏
@@klarabess4995 she is of color...are you blind?
Then yanks her head down
So basically the daughter is popular in school and people find her attractive… the therapist literally said the mom said “you’re at school thinking you’re cute” so the mom was jealous that her daughter was beautiful? And to punish her is to cut off her hair to tarnish her beauty so she can make herself look better then her daughter… which was considered a competition in the moms eyes
TRUTH💯💯💯💯
Supposedly because she has a beautiful face. Can't take her beauty away!
💯😤 I really wanna square up with the mom bruh
Her mother wasn't jealous of her damn daughter. She wanted her to focus on her education not her beauty. But she did this "lesson teaching" the wrong way. She is the one who need therapy and parenting skills.💯 Where is her dad??? And isn't these the women Black men say are the better women and better moms, ie.. the cooperative Latinas and Whyte women?🤔 Well thanks to social media, we see that is NOT the truth‼️💯💯🤦🏾
@@jaeeluv Me to.
The mother could've found out why she got bad grades and got her a tutor public humiliation is terrible
Agreed she should have gotten her a tutor...are see if the school had assistance for one
The girl is probably getting bad grades because she seems to be getting mentally abused at home.
Absolutely 100%! Assessments to see if she had a learning difficulty, otherwise get her a tutor.
Fear and humiliation work... My son brought home crap grades, I told him I was going to school dressed as Jed Clampet to help him with his school work... He brought home all A's and one B and was apologizing for the B... Because he was CERTAIN I would do it LOL. I mean what I say and I have no shame ha ha. They were pretty good kids and are good hard working adults now. This little girl is exceptionally cute and is even cuter with it cut... I think it backfired. There are better ways to embarrass your kids into compliance.
@@KlodFathermy mother has the same way as that and I dont agree with you at all, he may have fixed those mistakes but it was out of fear, and it is also a way to make a kid feel threaten and humilated there are better ways to handle it.
And i always hated it how she says those things and she still does with my sibling, and it does not help at all and it hurts alot even tho they dont show it, but remember it alot of it.
I really like this therapist, a lot!! Thank you for letting people know that public humiliation is NOT a good thing...ever!!
Omg, do you guys even know the story? If not don’t assume, the daughter had it coming to her the mom told the daughter that if she continued to do what she did then she would cut her hair off and record it and post it. so the daughter knew this was coming she just wanted to test her mother. And if you guys wanna argue with me go ahead I don’t care just don’t assume next time, next time make sure you know what is going on and what the reason was. The mother only said that her daughter was on some apps that she should not have been on and she was skipping classes and the mother told her daughter that for 3 MONTHS!! But the daughter didn’t care she keep getting a new account after her mother found her old ones. The mother did not let her daughter go to school like how she is now she let her daughter wear a wig so she wants embarrassed. The daughter said that she had it coming for her and she said it was okay and that she learned her lesson. It’s not like the mother hit her or anything like that you have to understand that backstory before assuming things!
Abuse ! She's still beautiful even without braids.
That mom is attention seeking. You don't broadcast your punishment of your kid online unless it's constructive and this was not constructive. If she was really concerned with her education her punishment should have been a book report or doing hours of math problems. Her hair had nothing to do with teaching your child.
Constructive or not why put it online! Keep it at home!
@@iTranscendx agreed but some parents share with others parents. I don't agree with it in most cases but there might be a handful of cases that don't involve the parent's ego.
Looks fake to me and the daughter is checking out her new look. She
Seems to be in fake lashes
And make up and ready for the so called punishment . What don’t believe it
@@lisanewton8237 makes sense!
Right my mom used to have us do something similar to that. Had to do Math problems, written sentences, we had no phone. But this right here is just upsetting 🥺
Genuine question - why does the daughter just stand there and allow it? I’m a mother of 3 beautiful, polite and respectful, well disciplined teen girls (who often struggle to prioritise the things they should like getting schoolwork done, so normal teens) and I can guarantee if I tried anything like this they would yell and scream at me and physically try to stop me. She doesn’t even put up a fight. Is she in shock? Is she too afraid to stand up for herself because of past experience/abuse? This just strikes me as a really odd response. I at least expected her to pull away and say “mama no! Please no!”
The little girl tryed stopping her mom at first but then she gave up. It is a shock response and also an unhealthy fear response of her mother because the daughter does go through other types of abuse from her mom as well. I can tell by the video the daughter deals with this type of behavior from her mom all the time.
It’s so angering when the perpetrators try to “smooth things over” by not taking any kind of accountability for their actions and placing it solely on the victim.
Glad this made the news. This woman is crazy and needs to be criticized in every where possible. And yes, she did traumatize her daughter, that girl was in shock and disbelief
Definitely crazy
@@diamontedaswan645 abusive and cruel. I hope the girl hates her for the rest of her miserable life.
Yes, she was clearly stunned.
This person so call mother is crazy to do this hateful act of abuse to her daughter , Is this her daughter is she adopted regardless this is a cruel and an unusual punishment shame, shame on you what did your mother do to you that was so bad , did she on purpose put you up for sale because you were acting to pretty because I just can't get my mind around this , but that you are evil
@@yolandataylor267 - SO what would you do? Have a talk with her? Really? Yea right. Completely ineffective. When they ignore you and defy you... its time to take more drastic approaches. Delete their social accounts. Take phones and computers. Nuke their social sphere. And the sky is the limit. I am a father and Eddie Murphy said it best. THis is my house... and if you don't like it, get the F out. I am not kicking out the kids... But I will make it a living hell for non compliance. No Fun. No treats. No TV. No internet. School, Work, Sleep, Eat, Study. And NO FUN of any kind till it gets straightened out. You are all too soft then you wonder why the jail house is full. Full of kids with no consequences.
That is just messed up, you are a HORRIBLE MOTHER! A ladies hair is very valuable, but what's even more valuable is your counseling, love and RESPECT! 😡✝️
😱That woman is not going to change!!! She needs to face legal consequences!!!!
Some people don't deserve to be parents.
Boom you hit the nail on the head. People having children that’s broken themselves. Haven’t healed themselves this young Queen now gonna have to deal. With her’s and her mom’s brokenness at the same time. Mother this ain’t the way especially to get to the matter. Why is the daughter doing what she’s doing anyways mother ask yourself that. Before going cutting her hair off this really takes the cake. Women and Men heal before bringing a life into this world. Or the cycles is gonna keep on repeating itself.
Right
Yep
Right!
Not some. Most. Good parents are in movies most of the time.
The daughter may look like the father so much that her mother takes her anger for him out on her.
That is one reason my Momma abused and let others abuse me like she did, was because I looked like my sperm donor and because I wasn’t a boy!! SMH 😢
@@SharonStainer I'm so sorry that happened to you 💔😢 Sending a virtual hug 🫂
@@SharonStainer you're not alone. My mother did the same with me
Not always women can be incredibly cruel to other women (even their own daughter). Happens more than you think.
The father should punch the mother in the mouth for embarrassing and traumatizing his daughter. She would be missing teeth if that was my daughter.
She should be charge with hate crime smh. Spreeing their hate onto children calling it discipline
Poor gal was shocked. She’s so disgusting and feel rage watching this. Nothing but hate in her heart
That was not discipline. That was jealousy. It's hard to watch.
Yes that mother is a whole mess the daughter was still beautiful after her was cut. Beautiful face, jaw line, eyes all that.
... face, jaw lone.... 😆
*sow
Sew is what you do to repair a piece of clothing.
@@sarcasticallyrearranged sow what? Who are you talking to and what are you talking about? Lol
Beauty has nothing to do with it... What if she wasn't as " easy on the eyes" ? How would we respond? Abuse is abuse....
This so called "mother" is definitely envious of her daughter's beauty.
My mother was abusive and she used to threaten humiliation I’m still damaged from it. Can’t imagine if she had had access to the internet. That mom is abusive. I remember a father doing this to his son years ago. And the therapist is RIGHT as an adult I got into abusive relationships because it felt “normal” I’m all for discipline but it shouldn’t be scarring abuse. It should be a lesson that teaches them something productive. What did that teach her? If someone don’t do what she wants she can do something to them.
When i was at a young age my mom did a pony tail and send me to sleep i believe now she gave me something cause i didn't recall till i woke up the pony tail was not there anymore..Then in middle school i was shaving my legs she cought me and she finished doing it rough shaving taking part of my skin with it and send me to school in skirt...but whatevere cause the teacher there i cant say nothing,if u interrupt the class the teacher with the pen poke on top of my hair till she reach my scalp..it was a tough growing up process...
Im a woman but using different phone i just wanted other woman to know u r not alone in this...just make me more tough..im most defensive.
@@RicardoMartinez-ib5kv sorry you went through that and yes I completely understand. Some ppl shouldn’t be parents. Why I never wanted nor will have children. I never wanted that level of responsibility one but also I do not want to put a human being through what my parents put me through and then expect them one day to be functioning adults that can take care of themselves. I feel bad for this girl also the little boy I saw his father do this on a FB post awhile ago. It’s like a whole other level of humiliation that’s on the internet forever. Bad enough she did it but to record and post it for likes and views is sick! I hope that’s the extend of her abuse towards her daughter but I HIGHLY doubt it where there is smoke there is fire and this is what she’ll willingly post on the internet. My mother would beat us in public and nobody did anything and she was FAR worse behind closed doors. She posted it as control not to teach her any actual valuable lesson. It’s sick. I hope CPS doesn’t get involved but I mean they can be pretty useless too.
Actually being cute is more important than education if she wants a good husband when she grows up... What's even more important is being polite and respectful.
Ocean Mergirl I totally agree with you on this one. This really ain't teaching her a thing besides being humiliated on a screen where millions of people can see. I learned talking to a child, teen and mostly an adult just takes a little bit of talking to. People can relate when you talk to them being calm not escalating the situation. The mother is triflin and looks like a clown. Why cut her hair, why not take her laptop away? or taking her cell phone away, or even telling her to stay in her room without any activities or a week. The mother could of had her daughter write a letter of how important it is to change her behavior. There are so many other ways of discipline. No, this clown taken the most precious thing from her and that is her hair. Well the good thing is hair grows, the bad is these actions will always be within her daughter that will make the situation worst when it comes to communicating. Bad home to grow up in. I can only imagine. The mother is suffering herself. Maybe counseling for the family. It's never too late.
She not only traumatized that girl she broke her own child spirit in front of millions of people. They need to take her out of that home. Something is wrong with that mother to do something like that. Wow.😮
I feel so bad, but even though her hair got chopped, she still looks STUNNING! ❤️ praying for her🙏🙏🙏
My mother did this to me about age 12,it wasn't discipline,I had long beautiful hair,she took me in and got a pixie haircut,I was devastated.What's really bizarre is she kept my long ponytail in a drawer for decades.And this was in the 1960s.I still think about it.This mom has a beautiful daughter, I hope she heals from this trauma.
I watched a dear friend of mine mother do this to her and I was disgusted but as a 12 year old there was nothing I could do to help my bestie. She grew up to become a very violent adult and I think that day was the day that the switch clicked. She cried for weeks and we hid out in the middle school bathroom for the first 2 weeks because we couldn’t beat every person that decided to bully her.
@@1_star_reviews yeah reminds me of my cousin she’s being abused now cuz my dad’s dad was abusive and it wound up making his brother abusive
She kept it as a trophy.
Honestly my twin cousins dad did this to them when we were in high school. I was scarred for life by this. The fact he had to do this twice with two twins was mentally traumatizing. Not to mention they both came to a small community high school the next day looking like they were butchered … I never forgave my uncle
Please forgive him now! For you…
🤔... If you never forgave your uncle over a haircut, you got some issues unrelated to hair.
It wasn't your hair.🤔
@@janepatton8100 imagine him holding not one but TWO beautiful sisters down and humiliating them in front of our entire small high school… no IM SORRY you have issues and think that’s ok…
@@Failureisnotanoptionever imagine him holding not one but TWO beautiful sisters down and humiliating them in front of our entire small high school… no IM SORRY you have issues and think that’s ok…
There relationship will never be the same again
U know a parent is a controlling freak when they say “u don’t do what ur SUPPOSED to”
When mothers destroy how their daughter look it makes it seem like maybe she was jealous of her.
Yes! I agree
She's definitely envious of her daughter's beauty.
Or the child was unruly and unwilling to listen like she said.
Not maybe, definitely!
@@janepatton8100 That doesn't warrant this horrible abuse. There are many effective ways to discipline a teenage girl. The "mother" is clearly envious of her daughter's beauty.
My mom did this to me as punishment “bet that boy ain’t gone like you no more” and my step dad held me down while she cut.. definitely not a punishment
By the looks of your picture, your .mom was probably jealous of you and didn't want step daddy looking at you . Sad but most likely true . Its not fair you had to suffer like that. I had a mother, which is jealous of me, and it is very painful . Normal things you want to share with your mom you can't because it will be met with negative remarks . Hugs sweety 😘 ❤️
That is disgusting
Heartbreaking😢virtual hug🤗
Sorry 😞 you had to experience that
No, it's a brutal crime, scissors and all.
The mother violated her daughter’s RIGHTS.
No one has Any Right to Cut her hair OFF.
She is GROWN, Not a baby. Her daughter is Grown Enough to Decide how she likes to wear her Hair.
You can discipline your child, but recording a posting it online is just ego play
I feel so bad for that poor baby 😢😢
😢😢Me too!!!!😢😩😢
Same here! 😢
@@perfectpitchmeow7470 Same she looked so shocked the other videos were worse it showed her daughter with a wig and she was literally gaslighting the daughter and you can just tell the mom was forcing her to answer these questions making it seem like the daughter was in the wrong and that just made me even more pissed off but all i gotta say is even without barely any hair that child is still very beautiful her mom really thought she was gonna take her beauty away by chopping off her hair
And you wonder why these kids are killing their parents because behind closed doors or maybe in the public it's on social media they embarrassing their child. children don't know how to deal with that kind of stuff especially from their parents ...
I do but I don't .... Sry....I think the daughter probably kept pushing her and the daughter didn't think she was serious when she warned her with this prior. Do I feel bad? 50/50. I say that bcuz the 2nd video made it seem like it was a whole joke with them laughing and hugging each other.
The look on the child’s face is sad, the child is in shock😢 praying for their family. Love/care from a parent should not be associated with shame.
I wander will it create the desired outcome.
@@janepatton8100 i highly doubt it, if anything it may make it worse, beauty is not visualized just by hair!
You don't know what the daughter is guilty of! I support the Mom because this could save the girl's life; online dangers from men are serious. The jails are FILLED with people whose parents thought discipline was unnecessary. The graveyards are full of young girls obsessed with attention from men. Pedos always tell the girls how attractive they are.
This is heartbreaking. She did not deserve this.
From the looks of it, the mother allowed her to be "cute."
Her daughter won't be the same after this.
Sad.
God bless you, lil sis. I pray you have a beautiful life moving forward, in Jesus mighty name.
Amen
Mom is jealous of her child. Unfortunately… daughter still beautiful af!
Mom is normal
@@user-hv9vn4fi4w ....and thats scary
@@user-hv9vn4fi4w you must be her. No that's was sad and pathetic. Hope daughter doesn't accept abuse later on
Look like mom
The mother isn't jealous!! She wanted her to focus on her education and stop being bad but she did this the wrong way!💯 She can rot in h*ll. And this is a LATINA WOMAN NOT BLACK !!
Disgraceful. She just completely traumatized her daughter for life and she will never forget this. If there’s one thing girls get insecure about is there hair, so for her to do some sh*t like that on top for the world to see is disgusting. My daughter tries to hide her hair in school when she feels it don’t look good enough, I could NEVER do such thing. That’s horrible! This pissed me off!
The hair will grow back but the trust and respect is totally gone
This was hard to watch. My parents used traditional discipline, and it was done in private, as opposed to this new age nonsense of chastising your kid on social media for likes and views. It doesn’t even matter whether that was her real hair or not, the way she went about “punishing” her is wrong. All she did was display her bad parenting skills. It’s a wonder this stupidity is still trending. I hope DCFS gets involved because this could escalate into something more.
The daughter may go along with her mother’s actions now as an adolescent but when she turns 18, sadly this will be at the height of a discussion the minute the mom and daughter has a disagreement about something. No matter how much the mother tries to make up for this, the daughter will instinctively react from the emotional abuse. The mother won’t realize what’s happening at first but eventually, she’ll start feeling it and by then, the damage to their relationship is already done.
I see that happening too, but only because most on social media are framing this as abuse. It's a freakin haircut... I promise you it'll grow back.
@@janepatton8100public humiliation
@@janepatton8100 it's not about it growing back, it's about her humiliating her.
That made me cry. I feel bad for that girl. Sending prayers to her 🙏 ❤️
The shock on this child’s face!!! I cannot & will not EVER in life do this to my child or anyone else’s!!! This is just awful & heartbreaking & this child will NEVER be the same!
She will get over it and will be OK. This is a minor bump in the road compared to failing a grade or a run-in with the law. This little girl needs to learn to OBEY her mother 100%... and as a father I would tell her, You do what your mother says. No exceptions. You have a complaint? You raise it to me respectfully and I will explain it and deal with it if there is a problem. That is how it should be done. But trust me that girl will be OK. This situation between these two probably would not have happened if there was a dad in the home.
@@KlodFatheri doubt she will just get over it. she's cut her head right upto her head and she for YEARS will struggle with her hair whilst remembering what her mother did. i am telling you this because it happened to me when i was 13. and i never forgot it.
@@MayaLVL - I agree with you that it is traumatic, but I also assure you that as a 13 year old boy who loves girls like this one, I would have been very pleased to see her and have her as GF. She is really cute with her braids and would be equally as beautiful if her head was completely clean... I know because my on friend, her mother buzzed her bald the same way... And I loved putting kisses on it. The girl hated her bald head but would giggle that I loved kissing it and hugging her. I hope this girl has some support system other than crazy karen mom. I wish I knew where my friend was today. I pray she is happy and well. (I know I am a stupid sentimental simp sometimes)
Girly is not a child. Don’t get it twisted. She is just about adult status. If she wants to act adult then accept adult responsibility or punishments.
This goes further than what we see.
This is outrageous! As a parent, yes, you can discipline your child, but why would she do this on a video? Now, this poor baby will have to go to school to be bullied. I think CPS should intervene there's probably some deeper issues going on in the house. This is not how you discipline a child!
So true if a man came in the house and did that to the mother he would definitely go to jail on that abuse
And then shove her head into the camera. Her mom has some mental issues in my opinion. Ground the daughter. Take her favorite things away. Get her help on her schoolwork.
@@sonialawton4010💀⁉️
That Mom is just a nasty person! She was wrong totally. To humiliate your child on the internet can have drastic effects. This was terrible. 😭
That’s not discipline, that’s jealousy…
The mom’s boyfriend probably kept telling her how pretty her daughter was.
My mom did this to me … it’s traumatizing! I’m not healed from it years and years later
I’m so sorry u had to go through this hugs 🫂
I’m a strict parent, a child of strict parents. But they weren’t cruel. That was not a good move Mom. Expect long enduring emotional repercussions. Pray your daughter doesn’t hold grudges long term and in later years does not seek to wreak revenge. Hope you can afford family counseling. That was ugly. The kicker is that your daughter’s beauty is even more apparent.
But still bad as heck, not that it matters. Apparently, in this Society Beauty trump's character.
@@janepatton8100 whats ur obsession with hair and beauty geez storming every comment copy and pasting the same thing
@@plumpbird.
You actually read all of those.... weird much.
This is pure jealousy. Mother sees the daughter getting attention. The mother was once the hood bike now she's older, sloppier, and not as cute. So she tries to destroy her daughters beauty so the attention can be placed back on her.
I'm gonna be the voice of dissent. I went to school with a girl who TERRORIZED everybody in school. Dad was a lawyer. The school was afraid of him. The police were afraid of her. She nearly drove more than one person to suicide. No one ever stopped her. She ended up in jail some years down the road. She could have been spared a jail sentence. All the people she terrorized could have been spared the lifelong physical and psychological damn. But this girl's attention was not gonna be gotten without drastic measures. And dad couldn't get her off when the law finally caught up with her as an adult. She should have been beat down by somebody, anybody, when she could still have been saved.
I was a strict parent but I would of never cut my kids hair.
The Mom was wrong on many levels but the biggest no no was she did it in public, there was no reason to shame her daughter like that as you can tell the daughter is a sweet young lady! Bad Mothering! 😩😩😩
Mom is normal.
@@user-hv9vn4fi4w No she isn’t and obviously you aren’t either.
And people wonder why suicide rates are extremely high!!! Duh, because of stuff like this & etc.
we cant tell that from the video. the daughter does not say anything. we don't have the context for this. did the mom issue warnings? was the grades slipping over a prolonged period of time or just a short term drop? were there other discipline issues?
@Kevin Boudreaux there were and I suspect she spent more time on her hair than her schoolwork.
That mother is so wrong for cutting her daughter's hair and what makes it so bad she did it on social media. #Abuse@it'sfinest #jealousmom
This mother definitely needs to be turned in you don't humiliate your child on social media where the world can see!!!! Who does that.... what caring mother does that???!!!!!!!!
If only I had grown up in these times. My mother would've not known how the heck to act. I was abused physically and mentally for 10 years. One day I had had enough, and ran away. I went to the nicest house I could find, and told my tale. I had hoped that this tactic woulld bring an end to the abuse. WRONG!! All the people did was call the cops. They picked me up and drove me right back into her lair. She acted so very concerned about me. After the cops left, she beat me with her 70's avacado green flyswatter, and made me stand in the middle of the livingroom for hours. Fast forward to my next cry for help. This time I set a fire in her bedroom while she was at the store. It was obvious to the fire cheif that the fire was not an accident. Somehow he convinced me that it would be ok to tell her I had done it. He stood next to me as I told her. He left. She made me lie down on what was left of her bed. I fell asleep. I woke up to my stepfather's heartbreaking waill when he came home. She had shot herself. She knew the jig was up, and couldn't face the crapstorm that was about to fall on her. She passed sometime the next day. As soon as my stepfather told me the news, all I heard in my head was "Ding dong the witch is dead, the wicked witch is dead. I was actually reliieved. The curse of child abuse stopped with me. I broke the cycle when I never treated my children to that horror. These days every move is being noted and surveyed.I don't hate on parents, having to do everything under scrutiny. It has to be difficult as hell to parent in this day and age. If all my mother had done was cutoff my hair, I think it woulld've been so much better for me.
She killed herself? Jeez.
@@evirareid1500 Yes, she did.
Never discipline your child when you’re angry !!!
Right that’s my rule of thumb.
I got discipline when my mom was angry. My mom had hit me because of my cousin I was a teenager at the time.
True but that's hard
Never ever!
I don’t think you got the message.
That girl is sooooo pretty that even with a short cut, she’s gonna turn heads. ☺️
Yes she is 💙💙💙💙this went to far awwwww man
This is traumatizing. It was done to me when I was 9yrs. I was traumatized to the core and bullied at school as a result. That is child abuse!
Y’all the daughter was talking to way older guys and sending nudes to older men and the mom caught her and told her to stop or she’ll cut her hair off. She waited a year and the daughter didn’t stop so she cut her hair off like she said
I can't imagine what else she's done or will do to that child...abuse
Don't overplay
EXACTLY
a mother should not want to break her baby’s spirit. she’s beautiful regardless of her hair. in my culture your hair is your strength, a connection to your ancestors. my heart is broken. baby girl you are pretty, mom get some help!
This so called "mother" is definitely envious of her daughter's beauty.
😤That Brought Back Memories Of My Own Narcissistic Mother And Her Emotional Abuse Towards Me At Times 😒💅🏽🤦🏽♀️🙏🏽Lord Protect These Kids In These Last Days We Live In…
This woman needs to be investigated. That is abuse. That child will never be the same and that child is going to treat her children the same without counseling.Where is the child’s father?
Please stop disciplining your kids on social media or any other public platform!!!! Just stop!!!!
I saw this earlier in the week on another platform, it made me angry and so upset. What that mother did was cruel and wicked and there was no reason for going to that extreme. She said she doesn't believe in physical violence but what she did is physical as well as psychologically violent. There are so many other ways the child could have been punished, for example take way her phone, her privileges, ground her, perhaps confiscate some of her favorite outfits for a while. I felt so sorry for the daughter, she looked helpless and vulnerable, imagine what that has done to her confidence as a young girl. How would the mother like someone to chop off all her hair and post the video on Social Media for the whole world to see?!!
That Is So WRONG
That Mom Is So
Evil Her Daughter
Will Never Forget
What She Did
To Her In Front
Of The Whole
World OMG
THAT POOR YOUNG LADY
I JUST CAN'T IMAGINE
WHAT HER SCHOOL
CLASS MATES WILL
CLOWN ON HER
AND HER MOTHER
KIDS ARE SO COLD
BLOODED WHEN
THEY WANT TO BE
MEAN OMG SO SAD
Absolutely!!
I seriously doubt the girl did anything wrong. With a narcissist parent you are programmed to walk on eggshells. Narcissists give impossible standards, probably used anything as an excuse for punishment. Mother did this out of jealousy.
This is a terrible mother. You never disrespect your child on a video. I’m glad she isn’t my mother.
She totally Humiliated her chid. Apparently the mom was mishandled in her life and now abusive to her beautiful daughter. That chid will never forget that moment. She just as worst than a slave owner on Roots. You call that S love. Please! A mother will never degrade her child and she did just that.
Don't cut her hair. Just throw all her make up away if she is too focused on her looks over her education.
That is an excellent question. Where is Dad? A Father could have intervened in that situation. It’s amazing how mothers are looked at as the sole protector and provider for their children. Mom is jealous of the attention her daughter is getting from men. Mom is probably intimidated because she is single. That statement about her being pretty definitely pointed out what was in her heart. That was not parental discipline. That was mean girl and bullying behavior.
This so called "mother" is definitely envious of her daughter's beauty.
The child's father is probably an absent parent!
@@jt7354 She could also be taking out her life's frustrations out on her daughter just for that alone. She may even resemble the dad. So many deep issues with the mom
Today this is the ONLY way “kids” will learn. I am totally on board with mom. This was NOT abuse. This was hilarious!! This girl is what? 17? She isn’t a child. Stop acting like she’s 6
This wasn’t even discipline, this was Jealousy!!! She’s jealous of her daughter!! She got fake eye lashes, fake hair color, hair done, eyebrows done, every filter under the damn sun!! This is ridiculous!
Isnt that abuse?
This nothing but child abuse. The woman in this video that calls her self a mother, should be arrested ASAP!!!!!!!!!
Wellness check.
Remove the child from the home. She's unfit.
Mother in the wrong. Not a very good reason at all. Bad grades is something you take away electronics for. Not chopping their hair off. Chopping hair is something you do if your child is bullying or something worse.