How To Build A Relationship With A Horse

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  • @carminaromero8603
    @carminaromero8603 Рік тому +63

    My horse was not very fond of me and only listened to my dad, but I did the things in this video and he no longer wanted my dad to ride him but me! Thank you so much!

  • @b3autx547
    @b3autx547 2 роки тому +48

    I take lessons at a farm with 14 horses but my favorite horse, Trooper was always bullied by the other horses, never got the right nutrients because of the feed and because the other horses were stealing his food. He is skinny, and always a kind of sad horse. My family is buying him soon and we have a good friend with 3 very healthy horses and she offered to keep him at her farm and will feed and take care of him. ❤️❤️

    • @sidilicious11
      @sidilicious11 6 місяців тому +6

      I hope his new home has been good for him.

    • @angelmagickcosplay4162
      @angelmagickcosplay4162 14 днів тому

      I've always been taught that if you need to give hard feed to a herd, you should always spread them out on a circle (ideally) and to have more bowls with feed in than horses. That way, if they're bullied off one feed, there should always be a spare bowl. It's not fail proof, but it helps. I prefer to just tie up, or put them in the stables to give horses hard feed, so they don't have to worry about others driving them off food. I'm glad he's ay another yard and yours now. You'll have fun learning with them ❤❤

  • @Schmusan
    @Schmusan Рік тому +9

    Tucker said, keep brushing please😂😂❤❤

  • @cuquitina30
    @cuquitina30 2 роки тому +17

    Thank you for all your interesting and helpful videos. In my case, all of my horses are “just” pets, I hang out with them, spoil them… they are rescued horses and some have trust issues.

  • @sanne7164
    @sanne7164 2 роки тому +31

    Tucker is such an impressive horse. So good-natured. It's wonderful to see the level of trust between you two. And, even though looks aren't everything, it is worth mentioning that when he patiently stands beside you and looks to the side with his ears pointed forward staring into the distance, he's all picture perfect grace. 4:13 and 4:26

  • @ElleEm11
    @ElleEm11 Рік тому +3

    I love your videos; after 40 years of wanting a horse that is about to happen and your videos have been really helpful ! I am super excited but also a bit panicky but you have helped to dispel many of my ‘silly’ fears and self doubts. The main thing I have taken from you is to relax, don’t rush it but most of all to enjoy the amazing experience of owning a horse 😁

  • @zoeg6646
    @zoeg6646 2 роки тому +8

    I love tucker’s bang/roached mane combo 😭

  • @Monroe_LANI
    @Monroe_LANI 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for this video!!❤ I just bought my first horse and I loved this video

  • @SC-ye7vl
    @SC-ye7vl 2 роки тому +22

    Your videos are amazing.
    Happy New Year to you!!!
    I started volunteering at a dressage stable last month because I wanted to learn about horsemanship before taking lessons to be comfortable around horses and bond with them. Next year I plan on taking lessons and part board a horse. For the first month, I just want to do ground work and getting to know the horse and bond.
    Your videos are seriously a goldmine for beginners like me 🤍
    Thank you 🌹

    • @Oceaxn_
      @Oceaxn_ 2 роки тому +1

      Nkflblj I don’t understand your chitychat sorry?

  • @emilylevitt7171
    @emilylevitt7171 2 роки тому +13

    I’m getting my first horse tomorrow!
    I’m really excited!!!

    • @lenavandongen135
      @lenavandongen135 2 роки тому +2

      Congratulations!! How is it going?

    • @emilylevitt7171
      @emilylevitt7171 2 роки тому +1

      Soo I didn’t get her yet bc she was really stressed, I think I will get her tomorrow I hope.
      Her name is Pixie

    • @emilylevitt7171
      @emilylevitt7171 2 роки тому

      I didn’t get her ☹️☹️☹️

    • @emilylevitt7171
      @emilylevitt7171 2 роки тому

      She was too much for me ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

    • @habsaali6087
      @habsaali6087 2 роки тому

      Aww that's sad

  • @jolujo5842
    @jolujo5842 Рік тому +4

    🤣so your husband is well trained like your horse? 💕 good work 👍

  • @Kay1sConfused
    @Kay1sConfused 2 роки тому +16

    Thanks for this! I just got a new horse and I am working on building a bond with her, this was really helpful!

    • @Bryn.Thunder
      @Bryn.Thunder 2 роки тому

      Good luck! Hope you have fun with your new horse.and happy new year!

    • @Kay1sConfused
      @Kay1sConfused 2 роки тому

      @@Bryn.Thunder Thank you!

    • @Bryn.Thunder
      @Bryn.Thunder 2 роки тому +1

      @KayceePlays2
      You are welcome

    • @luna_cooper4851
      @luna_cooper4851 2 роки тому +2

      I just got a horse too. I barrel race.

    • @Kay1sConfused
      @Kay1sConfused 2 роки тому +2

      @@luna_cooper4851 I barrel race also! Along with other western games and I also compete in performance.

  • @ЕкатеринаГокова-щ9й
    @ЕкатеринаГокова-щ9й 6 місяців тому +1

    "That's the lady who has food"😆

  • @todiann27
    @todiann27 Рік тому

    I lesson every other day, MWF. Tuesday and Thursdays I groom him and we go for a walk on his lead. We see all the beautiful things around the farm together, then he gets a massage and some treats. On training days, he gets groomed and we do ground work, but he does enjoy his days off ❤❤

  • @Horselover-eu2tp
    @Horselover-eu2tp 2 роки тому +9

    Great video! Tucker is so lucky to have you!😄Happy New Year!😄🎉✨

  • @Horsexx.Rse223
    @Horsexx.Rse223 2 роки тому +18

    3:25 the cat.

    • @jalaniz9204
      @jalaniz9204 Місяць тому

      😂 that cat always pops up in her videos

  • @ahbarrelracing338
    @ahbarrelracing338 2 роки тому +5

    I love ❤️ your videos!!! They help me so much and your the best UA-camr ever!!!!!

  • @Horselover-eu2tp
    @Horselover-eu2tp 2 роки тому +5

    The cat is so beautiful at 3:25.

  • @denisetimpani8065
    @denisetimpani8065 2 роки тому +3

    Love this video. Tucker is so awesome i will check ✔ it out thank you. Happy new year 🎉 ✨

  • @thisisooogustilovehim5975
    @thisisooogustilovehim5975 2 роки тому +1

    We can all agree Tucker is the cutest pony ever

  • @rosiemacquarrie1705
    @rosiemacquarrie1705 8 місяців тому +1

    My horse picked me, but I’m struggling to find motivation to hang out and bond with her.

  • @mobstercrow7515
    @mobstercrow7515 Рік тому +2

    I plan on getting my first horse sometime next year. Is it safe for them to eat grass while I'm riding them? I don't want them to strain any muscles and I want to make sure it's 100% safe. I know a lot of people don't like it when their horses eat grass but I feel like they should be allowed to. The horses work very hard and they deserve grass and love as payments. I'm planning on adopting a horse that is at least 17hh and weighs at least 1300 pounds. I'm 5'5 and I only weigh 122 pounds, I'm 18 so I won't get any taller sadly. I want a taller horse that weighs a lot so I know that my weight won't cause a lot of health problems in the future.
    I plan on riding bitless, never using crops or whips, never hurting my horse an any way, never kicking them or using spurs. I want my horse to see me as family, not as a teacher. I want to do very basic dressage just for fun and for bonding with my horse so I plan on buying a dressage saddle and using it even when I go on trail rides. I've done some research and it says they are made for correcting your posture and they are more comfortable than other saddles. I have fibromyalgia and I'm anemic so I'm very weak and I'll probably need that.

  • @azmathahmed2476
    @azmathahmed2476 6 місяців тому +2

    He is so innocent and he knows that you are talking about him😂😂😂

  • @jadechieh-yusu8932
    @jadechieh-yusu8932 2 роки тому +1

    My horse Savvy is a horse that gets really annoyed over the littlest things and after watching this video it really helped me to bond with my pony and I go there four times a week now because I love horses a lot I grew up with her she’s 11 now and she still has the same attitude but I am working on her

  • @SouthwestBarrels
    @SouthwestBarrels 2 роки тому +1

    Some really good tips! I shared your video on our forum.

  • @RS54321
    @RS54321 6 місяців тому

    4:13 what a great pose-such a beautiful horse!

  • @raajsarthak2245
    @raajsarthak2245 2 роки тому +3

    Great content. With love from India.🐴

  • @heathercooke1708
    @heathercooke1708 Рік тому +1

    Can you make a video on training a new horse to ride?love this video!👍🏻

  • @jorgequinones991
    @jorgequinones991 2 роки тому +2

    Nice video. Happy new year.

  • @roshaekhtiari1691
    @roshaekhtiari1691 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much we are going to a trip and there it have alot of horses and the last time they didn't really liked me so now they are going to like me !

  • @joebarton2055
    @joebarton2055 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks so much 🐴🐎

  • @vandanzl
    @vandanzl Рік тому

    great video, going to try some of this later today. Thank you ❤

  • @freedommeow
    @freedommeow 2 роки тому

    Horse experience is life experience! Your a boss Carmella!

  • @pestilence654
    @pestilence654 2 роки тому +5

    I let myself get to involved with being a good rider and doing what I want that I've strained the relationship between me and my horse. Especially in Winter since in Wisconsin it's so cold and being just outside with them isn't really possible. I feel horrible about it.

    • @dianesamp9102
      @dianesamp9102 2 роки тому

      IM IN WI TOO & DON'T KNOW WHY I STAY....I HATE THE COLD MORE EVERY YEAR!! I STILL HAVE HORSES I WILL SEE EVERY WEEK & BRING TREATS & BRUSH OR MESSAGE ON THE WARMER DAYS ESPECIALLY...& TALK TO THEM ALWAYS. I BRING WATER & A BUCKET SO IT'S WARMER THAN WHAT THEY DRINK AND IT'S JUST A BONDING FUN TRUST THING. THE BUCKET WAS A CURIOSITY AT FIRST, NOW FUN FOR THEM TO GET A DRINK I'M HOLDING. ONE HAD 3 GALLONS 😂. BUT I FEEL SO BAD FOR THEM OUTSIDE.

  • @briellespiano16
    @briellespiano16 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video. Very helpful and informative. Love your channel and Tucker.

  • @allic8571
    @allic8571 2 роки тому +2

    Wonderful advice!! Thank you!

  • @Sip_ley
    @Sip_ley 2 роки тому +5

    Spirit, a horse at my horse therapy place, loves me to cuddle his head, he lays his head in my arms so I rub it, he likes that more as a treat after work then a snack. He enjoys it a lot.

  • @shelbyadkins3594
    @shelbyadkins3594 2 роки тому +7

    I have a question. What is the difference between hay and haylage and what are the different benefits to both? Is sage grass poisonous to horses and will they eat it if they have enough grass and hay? Last question, is the saying giving a horse alfalfa hay will make them hot true?

    • @Tayl0r_J0hns
      @Tayl0r_J0hns 2 роки тому +1

      So I'm not an expert on the difference between hay and haylage, but if I'm not mistaken haylage is fermented. Horses can eat small amounts of sage, but not large amounts. Generally they don't eat stuff like that if the have enough hay and grass. Alfalfa is quite good for horses. It's a good source of quality protein, is good for gut health (can help prevent ulcers as it coats the stomache lining), and is more nutrient dense. It's usually grains that are high in sugar and carbs that cause them to get hot (and are horrendous for their stomaches), not alfalfa. A lot of horses are fed alfalfa and grain, and the alfalfa gets blamed. It usually doesn't cause them to get hot as long as they have enough turnout time:)

    • @shelbyadkins3594
      @shelbyadkins3594 2 роки тому

      @@Tayl0r_J0hns thank you so much! Do you have any advice on how to make a move less stressful on a horse?

    • @Tayl0r_J0hns
      @Tayl0r_J0hns 2 роки тому +1

      @@shelbyadkins3594 fill a hay bag with alfalfa and grass hay, (or your main crude forage), give a tube of ulcer guard depending on the length (like a move to a new home or long trailer ride), and make the trailer and where you're going a positive place:)

    • @shelbyadkins3594
      @shelbyadkins3594 2 роки тому

      @@Tayl0r_J0hns thank you!

    • @BabyGirl-cw6uj
      @BabyGirl-cw6uj 2 роки тому

      @@shelbyadkins3594 how'd the move go? 😃

  • @carolynhorine6609
    @carolynhorine6609 4 місяці тому

    3:25 the random cat- 😭😭💀

  • @jadedesynadinos2816
    @jadedesynadinos2816 6 місяців тому

    Your videos are my favorite. You're always my go to! We just got a new horse and I'm definitely interested in your course. Is there somewhere I can message you?

  • @blueskies7538
    @blueskies7538 2 роки тому

    WHY IS YOUR HORSE SOO CUTE?!

  • @lenurbatalov6445
    @lenurbatalov6445 Рік тому

    So interesting listening to you. You’re amazing

  • @RiverRidingFree
    @RiverRidingFree 2 роки тому +2

    I love this!! I'm learning to ride and sharing my love for horses on my channel. Join me on my horsey adventure!

  • @cobiehitchcock4536
    @cobiehitchcock4536 2 роки тому

    Happy new year!❤️ Love your videos soo much!! Love from South Africa! Hope you have a great 2022 and cant wait for more awesome videos!

  • @nicolejones9403
    @nicolejones9403 2 роки тому

    Thanks for the advice I’m starting to ride

  • @lydiahilliard1922
    @lydiahilliard1922 2 роки тому

    Your horse and the cat in the background are cute

  • @dog1161
    @dog1161 2 роки тому +1

    Hi love your vids❤️❤️❤️

  • @Trump-ze2xb
    @Trump-ze2xb 2 роки тому

    Great video, I really liked it! What kind of clip is that and what does it mean?

  • @jennystormcloud6111
    @jennystormcloud6111 2 роки тому +2

    Yay new video!

  • @justmeandprancer140
    @justmeandprancer140 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks💕💖

  • @mako2984
    @mako2984 2 роки тому +1

    Can you make a video about making a new horse do the spinning thing for groundwork

  • @blackout_j2482
    @blackout_j2482 5 місяців тому

    3:22 Ooooo raccoon….. or is that a cat? 😆

  • @karolinekemp397
    @karolinekemp397 2 роки тому

    Lovley video.! My horse used to buck me off on jumps but now they all love meh!

  • @DanielaSofiaaa
    @DanielaSofiaaa Рік тому +1

    Can you help my mare doesn’t like when I groom her she will try to bite weather I’m brushing her or picking her hoofs

  • @KingsMom831
    @KingsMom831 2 роки тому

    Happy New Year Tucker!!

  • @ThatOttbBrucey
    @ThatOttbBrucey 2 роки тому

    Tucker is such a good boy also happy new year

  • @T1nyHurricane
    @T1nyHurricane Рік тому

    I have had my pony for 6 years, he was 4 months old when i had hhim. Before i had him i lost the best mare in the world Jan 2016, lost a pony who destroyed my confidence in June 2017 and lost my first pony September 2017. I got my foal September 2017, mentally I was very unwell at the time. I have only ridden him around 20 times max. He has allergies and asthma I spent so much time researching, treating and preventing flare ups that we never connected. He now associates me with negative things 😢 his inhaler, previous experience vet inhalers, me being stressed trying to help him.
    I have lead him around the roads, played games with him, groomed him, long lined him, clipped him, plaitted him, bathed him, sat in the shelter with him. Theres just nothing there between us, hes a cheeky pony who gets up to mischief, I just don't feel any connection. When i try to ride him he rears, bucks, runs backwards, when a friend rode him he was calm, quiet and didn't do anything naughty at all, he didn't even get spooked by things 😊.
    I will never sell him as hes got illnesses, I would love to bond with him.

  • @Aero_BC
    @Aero_BC 2 роки тому +1

    Love your vids

  • @lisamustain6967
    @lisamustain6967 2 роки тому +1

    How big is your round pen? I have 10 foot long panels and I need to get more. Just curious what the dimensions of your round pen are. Thanks.

  • @willowlin2862
    @willowlin2862 2 роки тому +1

    I love your vids

  • @amandamiller5735
    @amandamiller5735 2 роки тому

    Loved the video sooooo much.

  • @Kynzzie
    @Kynzzie 2 місяці тому

    I know this vid was a little bit ago, but do you think it’s wrong of me to go out into her pasture and go up to her and just love on her? Or should I give her personal space since that’s her space to feel comfortable and it’s her place away from me?

  • @Exxard
    @Exxard 2 роки тому

    helpful tips p.c. he is so cute!

  • @salomeabugaian5969
    @salomeabugaian5969 Рік тому

    Thank you very much!

  • @rival_star_horse_racing9259
    @rival_star_horse_racing9259 2 роки тому

    Hi I love your videos you helped me by getting my pony to trust me but 5 days after Christmas she had to be put down because of Cushing disease and liver disease and colic so I’ll miss her lots😢😢😭😭😣😣😖😖

  • @Xsh755
    @Xsh755 2 місяці тому

    I think Tucker agrees with you - did he write the script for the video?🎉❤😊

  • @avaarriola8758
    @avaarriola8758 2 роки тому

    I’m a new sub but UR MARIED!!!

  • @Ifi_Mp3367
    @Ifi_Mp3367 12 годин тому

    Question, what if i try to get her but she doesnt rlly want me close. Do i give her treats everytime she sees me or smt? Pls explain, i love her more than anything and i wanna try for us and her not to be sad.

  • @xNEWOx
    @xNEWOx Рік тому

    I don't have a horse neither does any one I know, it's just good to know incase I run into one later in my life.

  • @KittraKittra
    @KittraKittra 2 роки тому

    Thank You.

  • @anneogcaro5422
    @anneogcaro5422 2 роки тому

    Im Helping a Nice lady with her hore rn and we have a great Bond but i have never ridden him before, we have only done ground work🦄

  • @Myworld45835
    @Myworld45835 4 місяці тому

    I love horse🥰🥰🥰

  • @Dustyphoto915
    @Dustyphoto915 2 роки тому

    An Appaloosa with a mohawk. 😍

  • @Ergela.sutalo
    @Ergela.sutalo Рік тому

    Great video.

  • @svenbruxx
    @svenbruxx 2 роки тому

    Okay, I think ( I hope not) I need help. Im going to go on a horse tour for 2 days. I have never sat on a horse before. Any tips?

  • @catpurrsonalities2487
    @catpurrsonalities2487 2 роки тому

    Yessssssss bonding ❤❤

  • @Itsimrana
    @Itsimrana Рік тому

    3:24 is that a racoon 😂

  • @onyxth3ripper
    @onyxth3ripper 2 роки тому

    My barn teaches how to do this, and I think all should

  • @ZeroDarknezz
    @ZeroDarknezz 7 місяців тому +1

    That's a nice cat

  • @Luna_eq_Ruby_Zora
    @Luna_eq_Ruby_Zora 7 місяців тому

    i groomed my pony for 2 hours yesterday and she fell asleep and she comes and cuddles

  • @M_Ak332
    @M_Ak332 2 роки тому

    The fact that I did all of this before I even watched this vid

  • @Seamonk08
    @Seamonk08 Рік тому

    I’m about to start my first job at a horse ranch with ZERO experience. Any tips or terminology anyone would be willing to share?

  • @maci6564
    @maci6564 2 роки тому

    Great video can you make a video teaching me how to bond with a moody quarter horse
    mare please my mare is so moody please help

  • @TKontent
    @TKontent Рік тому +3

    1:48 I accidentally married my horse, what do I do now?

  • @theovollant6607
    @theovollant6607 Рік тому

    Was that a raccoon in the back 😂😂 3:24mins on the right

  • @harishkashyap8710
    @harishkashyap8710 2 роки тому

    Nice 👍

  • @timbarnett3898
    @timbarnett3898 2 місяці тому

    You might be facing wrong way with apple, when you're facing horse. Horse is a herd animal an needs acceptance. Sit on ground, always turning to face away from him, with bucket of grain an apples, etc. shake grain in bucket an pretend to eat it. Make all kinds of Mmmmm sounds! When horse has enough, he turn into you, then give him loving and grain an share apple.

  • @kciskc
    @kciskc 4 місяці тому

    How do you tell what your horse likes? 😮

  • @LayllasLocker
    @LayllasLocker 2 роки тому

    Cute zebra ♥ :P

  • @miaxxbr
    @miaxxbr 2 роки тому

    Im having problems with my green pony because when my sister rides her she goes perfectly but then for me she messes and misbehaves

  • @albertocespedes4303
    @albertocespedes4303 2 роки тому +2

    You: "When I first met my husband, I spent a lot of time with him before he became my husband".
    Me: ahhh, I see, I see 🤔

  • @neumagellan4519
    @neumagellan4519 6 місяців тому

    This should have CC enabled.

  • @AnnJo24224
    @AnnJo24224 Рік тому

    Spending time with horses to gain trust only make sense if you understand their thinking, behaving and needs so you can respond the way that they will see you as leader. Otherwise ...good luck

  • @equinemark
    @equinemark Рік тому

    Mine has separation anxiety

  • @Dave.Thompson
    @Dave.Thompson 2 роки тому

    Why is Tucker’s chest shaved?

  • @gerrycoleman7290
    @gerrycoleman7290 Рік тому

    Horses do not want your love. They want you to be a fair strong leader that can keep them safe and comfortable.

    • @angeldivine408
      @angeldivine408 Рік тому +2

      You’re mistaken

    • @gerrycoleman7290
      @gerrycoleman7290 Рік тому

      @@angeldivine408 Wrong answer. Try again.

    • @angeldivine408
      @angeldivine408 Рік тому +2

      @@gerrycoleman7290 actually, Gerry, horses want direction and to be loved and understood. A lot of people taking the approach you speak of end up getting very hurt because they square up with a 600 kg animal. Horses want direction and love, look into natural horsemanship and liberty training. These people are much more connected with their horses than the like of older generation horse trainers who dominated horses into submission

    • @gerrycoleman7290
      @gerrycoleman7290 Рік тому +1

      @@angeldivine408 I am talking from the natural horsemanship point of view. Finesse, not fear. Mutual trust and respect. I said fair and trusted leader, not a harsh leader that controls a horse through pain, fear, and intimidation.

  • @Gemmaormond
    @Gemmaormond 2 роки тому

    Early!!!! Hi

  • @ΧριστίναΜέλλιου-υ3ν

    💖💖💖🐴🐴🐴

  • @8sour8
    @8sour8 2 роки тому +1

    Early! Subscribe to her ❤️ 🐎 🐴

  • @docstockandbarrel
    @docstockandbarrel 2 роки тому

    👍🏻