@@ZAMSKY1000 all women here in India are not housewives lol. Dont blame the community when she could have looked for a family with a progressive mindset. And with that attitude I dont think she can adjust with ANYONE.
@AyatoIsACat Definitely, she would have trouble in any family. Argumentative and over dramatic. I know their are many high Achieving women in india. In the USA where I'm from 3 of my specialist Doctor are of Indian heritage, one is a woman.
@@tymac9127 Who is y'all? I don't like neither their attitudes but they were both delusional from the beginning. I come from a conservative foreign background and she will never live up to their expectations. They are too traditional and won't compromise. A woman like her should consider being relationship and settle down with a liberal westernized man.
The thing is, [edit: many parts of] Indian society _is_ very patriarchal and has a lot of misogyny. That’s true. However, you can’t come in as a foreigner demanding to be an exception to the rules. That’s not how this works. Social changes need to come organically from within the culture, and even if she’s right about the unjust expectations of women in India, she just comes off as entitled and unprepared. TJ, for his part, is incredibly scummy for not informing her of the cultural expectations BEFORE she touched down in India.
Exactly! 👏👏👏 I know I could never put up with that kind of treatment, so I don't ever plan of moving to a country that is misogynistic and marry a someone there. This girl wants to do that and get mad when a family who's had this traditions for generations won't change their ways for her
One of the things about cultures like this is that women have power, just not in the ways that Americans would like or understand. You'll see that in the house the women have a lot of control and when it comes to the children they have even more. I think its a little misguided to see things in such a flat or simplistic way (not you, just generally in our society). If its not the way we see it, then it must therefore be bad or wrong. That's not a good way to engage with people from other cultures, as it comes off as western culture is better, and no one will accept that. Nor is it necessarily true. I had to make this adjustment myself, and while I don't like or agree with the way things were done in my non US family, I understood it. I adopted the parts that worked for me and was flexible with the family when I wasn't going to do something, but didn't want them to think I thought I was better than them. Just different.
@@rileys6182 exactly. The way Kimberly scuffs at Yash for trying to explain their ideas is what's really rubbing him the wrong way. She comes into someone's country, culture and home and demands to be treated in a way they are not used to.
Not entirely true. Some parts of Indian society are matriarchal. Nonetheless one is expected to respect their elders and family members. Usually a daughter in law to be is expected to be polite and respectful. They’re really letting Kimberly get away with a lot of her bad behaviour because she’s foreign. Had an Indian girl spoken to the brother like that they wedding would have been called off then and there. It’s really baffling how entitled these Americans are.
She acted very differently when she was in front of Tj , she acted so innocent and made the brother look like he was the one with the problem, I don’t agree with the brother either , but she showed how shady she can be , I guess that’s what she meant when she told the brother that he doesn’t know who he’s dealing with 😂
Tj will regret taking her side later down the line. She will continue to be insufferable and hopefully TJ will send her packing. Nothing good can come from being with such a negative person
@@Vrazzo1490i would not say evil … emotionally unstable and has unresolved child trauma . Definitely! Evil ? Nope ! If that considered evil and manipulative than Tj is just as evil for manipulating his parents and acting like a broken hearted child because she is just saying the house is not what she is use to
She's definitely giving Karen vibes... she's not gonna last in India. I'll give her 6 months, if that... that's definitely her plan to drive a wedge between his family.. since she doesn't have a sense of family, so she doesn't want TJ to have any either.
This could have been avoided if TJ was straight up with her from jump..as he is seeing waiting to tell her isnt working out in his favor..his idea of ole i will tell her after we are married
The American women on this show are always trying to traffick the men from their cultures and families. It’s amusing but mostly soooooooo creepy and it’s not engaged with enough. The America men on the other hand always seem more open to assimilating or somewhat integrating … I assume it’s because of the benefits of those cultures as men vs for women it imposes more restrictions to their “unbridled” freedom which is often just rudeness/disrespect and a woeful inability / unwillingness to read the room and temper your expectations accordingly or go the F home.
I don't think Kimberly has any idea how long the rest of her life might be. I don't think she will be in India with TJ for the rest of the year. This is obviously not going to work. TJ needs to be honest with her and Kimberly needs to realize that she will not be able to have her own private U.S. in an Indian household. She is way too immature and selfish to make this work. TJ is in for a world of hurt. She will not let him wear the pants and that is going to be a problem. She picked the wrong guy in the wrong country to live in.
Like others on this show in hercstubborn little brain, she thinks if she keeps up the chaos, her and TJ can just move to an apt of their own. Like the Sumit and his older gf jenny did. But TJ doesn't want to give up his family.
They each think that they are right. This argument will never be settled. Both of them are "right fighters". Kimberly is not happy in India. I believe that she was really disappointed with the apartment and it's just snowballed from there.
Kimberly is obviously a narcissist with a big ego and shits on India 🇮🇳 and other cultures who doesn’t fits her narrative world. She is a typical women who have it better living her life in America and possibly get some therapy for her demanding, narcissistic personalities. I have no sympathy what so ever for her!
I am just amazed ! 😂 Kimberly girl there are so many men in india, good looking, good jobs and men with a global mindset but she's gonna fall in love with someone who is so different just boggles my mind. All that clairvoyance and she couldn't see how this is going to play out. 😅
@@nancyelmon4544 well we all like different people. I am an Indian too. This joke is not on her fiance, joke's on her. She is finding it hard to adjust and yet she chose this man.
@@nancyelmon4544 he’s a child who runs to his family to complain, he’s your typical misogynist indian man. he’s a liar, has no respect for women & sleeps with his mother. kim can 100% do better.
I was born in India and spent my entire childhood, teenage years and early adult life in India but after living in the United States now I can't live in India and deal with all things that come along, I am not sure how Kimberly can ever be truly happy there even for a day.
Thank you for being honest! We ae not compatible with Indian culture and the uncleanness of the country. The smells etc. THE SCAMMING! Americans should stay away. We are not going to be happy there.
Your opinion. Kimberly is in India and she needs to pipe down. She s not in the US. US people are so entitled and disrespectful to other people's culture and country. Go home and find a useless American man.
Every, country is misogynistic, but some countries, are extremely more so. In some countries, if the woman isn’t subservient, then she’s seen as damaged. Where will she go if he abuses her? No one will do anything to help her there. If I were her, I’d pack my bags and never return. I really, don’t understand what she sees in this man child.
She needs a lawyer ASAP to give her a check of reality and her possibilities or making her own life in the country. This marriage will not last longer.
Tj thinks hes won the lottery with a western woman, what he doesn’t realise is that these american and british women are bottom of the barrel for anything serious, they are for fun only… these indians didnt get the memo
How can this possibly go right? She thinks a dream led her straight to her "DM Requests", and he thinks he manifested her into existence. She expects the same life in India as she had in Alabama, and he (et al) expect her to trade in her entire identity and come out a native-born Indian woman. This is why reality TV exists; it's always funner watching these people try to futilely push a round peg into a square hole, than it is to try it yourself. Tip: When you're researching a new country/culture you want to move to and start over in, your research shouldn't end with pseudo-spiritual Instagram influencers who visited India for two weeks.... That may work for a trip to Joshua Tree or a weekend at Coachella, but cultures - especially in India - are as vastly unique as they are deep.
Yash is incredibly disrespectful and disgusting behavior. So she is not alllowed to be rude to him but he is allowed to say those things? she is a guest and a new part of the family. Just goes to show how women are treated in that society. So hateful and misogynistic. Why should she be polite to that. Also his attachment and control over "the family’’ and his brothers marriage is extremely concerning. He definitely will beat his wife in the future.
yes! he literally talks to her like she’s lesser than because she wants to be treated like an equal human. hash doesn’t see her this way and neither does TJ. this family is disgusting, typical indian family
Nobody forced her to get married in India.... If westerners did their research they would know that Asian countries and African countries are very misogynistic. It's her fault for not doing her research into her husband's culture and it's also TJ's fault for failing to teach her.
I don’t like the argumentative and rude way of her communication. I’m sure she’s a nice person but she thinks the louder and nastier she speaks the more respected and independent she becomes.
She arrived there, yelled at him for the apartment not being perfect despite him going into debt to build it.. and then called his whole culture backwards. Think of the most annoying upper-middle class, Elizabeth Warren supporting, liberal white woman you know x100.. and that's her.
This relationship will never work, the family will want her to change and shes not willing to, she shouldn’t have to, but if you live in another country and marry into a family whose culture is so different from your own , you either accept this or end the relationship
I just wanna say i watch a LOT of 90 review channels, and this is by far the best and most comprehensive one. Next best thing to actually watching the episode, and the commentary is always spot on!!!
I honestly have no sympathy for TJs family. They genuinely feel they’re doing Kimberly a favor by putting a roof over her head but her standards aren’t low. TJs brother is so bothered by a women talking to him. No women would be okay with this.
Tj’s brother may be sexist and a stuck in his ways but Kimberly WAS DEFINITELY RUDE to him. She always has to make people agree to her or it’s a serious problem for her. The brother was initially trying to say how they live and what may be best for them. But Kimberly started getting all “I MADE ALLLL THE SACRIFICE LISTEN MEEEEE”
All she had to do was research India and it's culture, it's not that hard.Oh silly me, I forgot she probably already knew that bc she's a clairvoyant. 😂 Whatever she's full of crap.
I can’t believe how many people are against her. He came at her aggressively first and she defended herself as she should have. She is in a foreign country and uncomfortable. She deserved a little grace. Also for her being quiet when the boyfriend was around… who cares? She didn’t need to say anything. The boyfriend did what he should have done… defended her.
it’s a trend with these people, she’s a bitch or crazy because she’s upset after being lied to and IS STILL being lied to. does nobody remember what TJ said about what her role is going to be? it’s straight up misogyny. a woman doesn’t want to be treated like shit & suddenly she’s crazy & a karen.
She hid her fangs when TJ came through. Yash said some things that made sense and Kim refused to actually communicate answers to those questions. Her reaction was disproportionate to what Yash was saying. Yash escalated as she escalated.
She Americanly thinks it’s just about her and TJ and doesn’t realize that approval from the family, especially the eldest brother, can make or break them. You can’t just arrive and gun for the eldest son in a traditional culture. That title and position holds so much power. She’s a totally unhinged loose cannon someone help her 🤣
Wait till the new sister-in-law comes, if Kimberley lasts that long. If she's Indian, she's going to show Kimberley up for all her shortcomings where this culture is concerned.
As an Indian man, I feel really bad for Kimberly. TJ manipulated her because he was not honest at all with her. People like TJ like to justify themselves by saying it's traditional, cultured, for the family etc. I see that as total bullshit. Regressive cultural practices should not hold any value in my opinion. Marriage is indeed a partnership. Yash's response to Kimberly's assertion that marriage is a partnership is not a great response. He is supposedly trying to take a moral and cultural high ground by claiming to be more cultured. And the supposed contrast with the West is also silly. I am sure people in the West break still have contact with their families after marriage right? Everywhere your family members are there for you in the good and the bad right? Sure there might be different boundaries but surely family support (unless there are obvious tensions and issues to resolve) is still very much present. Sure Kimberly could have appreciated some things about the apartment but I still feel the meltdown was justified. Change is scary and it can be easy to crack under it. I am currently in a foreign country and thought I would crack coz I am afraid. I did not and am settling in. Kimberly however is going for marriage!!!!. That's a whole different league. I would have been surprised if she did not crack. TJ should have shown her that she is loved and cared for and everything will be fine. That's what it means to be a spouse, isn't it? That is what he signed up for. I think it also would have been nice if Kimberly's parents could have stayed in a nearby hotel, especially since the wedding was close. That way she has people to comfort her and be in her corner. I wish I could say that this is not representative of the entirety of Indian males and Indian culture. Now since India has a huge population you cannot really generalise. You will find conservative and progressive people. However, this attitude is still quite prevalent from my own experience. I would like to think my parents have taught and raised me to be good when it comes to relationships today but I am sure I would fall short in many areas as well. I hope Kimberly realises she does not owe anyone anything by staying in India and does not have to prove anything. She should leave for better pastures.
if my future brother in law says get out of our house, then I'LL BE OUT. GIRL YOU SHOULD have saved money first so that you and your husband can afford you OWN apartment. AS THEY SAY YOUR HOME YOUR RULE. Although kimberly is hateful too but man TJ's brother should know where and when to stop.
She should of just google the Indian culture. Then she would know they don't move out of their family's house & wifey has to cook and clean for eveyone in the house.Not just her husband.😂 .
Kim is disrespectful, demanding and rude! She has no clue about Indian culture. She should have researched it before she moved there. TJ-run,run,run! I love TJ's brother. He is the GOAT lol
@@crystalbee9706 Wow! (was that racist?) I'm not from India, but my parents taught me respect. Kim clearly doesn't know anything about Indian culture or else she wouldn't act the way she does. BTW-Kim is not positive is she?
The truth of Indian culture being misogynist is nowhere in the middle. They are. Women are raised to shut their mouths and basically be slaves. Kimberly and TJ are equally idiotic for even getting together. They both expect each other to change the core of who they are. If you want that person to change everything about themselves, why bother? Tj's bro was disrespectful and he needs to mind his business. If Kimberly stays there, they need to move out. Otherwise after the cameras stop rolling, it will become abusive.
I live in India and my parents and my relatives are not like this at all im little ithink this is conservative family I live in south India so may be idont know much about
Tbh his brother crossed a big line by disrespecting her. I think this caused her to over react. Ngl though, my brother calling my fiancee stupid like this would have been a massive problem for me. If your future brother in law is talking to you like this and your husband isn't stepping up for you do not marry him. You will always be last and everyone else will come first before you. Yes, they are right, American culture is quite vulgar when compared to others but their behavior was so much worse. Calling your future brother's fiancee stupid is wild to me.
3:49 she's weird though. Sure was heck of rude when her and the brother were fussing, but when the three of them sat down she's pretended to be all calm!
Omg a narcissist creating drama and turning family against each other? never. neverrr. She honestly thinks she is so smart the whole world won't see through her manipulative personality. Can't hide behind that paper guitar forever lol
Kimberley is only experiencing what most Indian women face day by day. We were asked to compromise and adjust for the sake of the family and now that this is on tv, both TJ, his family AND kim are in the wrong. Kim just go please 😂
@@ajheartsong exactly, even the equivalent of a modern Indian woman, they expect her to change overnight. I just wish men and their families like TJ’s find women who are comfortable with this arrangement and not force her to adapt and change. Sure Kim should have done her prior research but TJ should not have hid this from her and promised his family that she’s going to take on the house. It happens more often than we hear of.
Yeah. I'm dating a guy from the Northeast. It's nothing like what they keep portraying though.. and there are still so many other ways people live there
But you cannot act as if this doesn't exist lol she majority of Indian families do live this way and it's not even that bad, it's just not made for an American girl.
I don't think anyone was saying that it doesn't exist. There is going to be a larger number of families that live like this in certain areas of India, but that is not the sum of India. 1.4 billion people live there, so 17% of the entire world's population. There is bound to be diversity. The original poster is just pointing out that TLC is stuck in portraying India that way because it fits the idea Americans have in their head about India. I have had to have so many conversations about this with people when I say I am dating someone from India. As for whether this lifestyle is meant for an American woman or not.. that's completely up to the woman. Individualism in America is going to shape how we feel and think about things, just like how Collectivism is going to shape how Indians view things. Until Kimberly and TJ realize they see the world from two totally different perspectives, it's going to be a struggle. You can find middle ground, but you have to have a lot of conversations about life and you have to be transparent with each other. TJ should have been upfront about his expectations of Kimberly as a wife. She should have been allowed to choose if she was okay with that before marriage since she wasn't brought up in the culture. Hiding it until after they are married is going to cause horrible fights. Kimberly is not realizing that family is everything to TJ and that while he might take her side right now with his brother, that man will never be completely comfortable and happy again so long as he is against his family. That is a huge mistake. They need to do a lot of work on themselves and with each other if they have any hope for this relationship to survive.
@@katrinam6359 I'm a northeastern and you're absolutely right. Our families have more of a modern approach to marriage and all my aunts and uncles moved OIT of their family homes to start their independent families. We also have love marriages here in North east prevailing over arranged marriages. That way, i love my culture.. the rest of India's? Not so much.
TJS brothers atitide is despicable. He's expecting her to be a made and puts his hand in front of her when he talks. If i was her, I'd wake up and choose violence.
@@marciestoddard730way to show your western superiority. People have their own individual culture and beliefs. Just because you believe yours are superior and more evolved. Doesn’t mean they are
She has more tantrums than a toddler. Grow up! There are still ways in which you can stand your ground and still be respectful. Have some class, you are lucky they are welcoming you into their home with open arms given how strict their culture is with tradition. Give them and yourself Grace.
I can relate to her not taking people to be disrespectful towards her but then again she is rude herself to her future husband! She doesn't want to be in India then she needs to find a man from the states why in the heck is she putting up with that culture. People that want someone from a different culture they need to do their research it's entirely different from the states.
The family wasnt disrespectful. He was trying to explain to her why they do things a certain way in his own country and for that unforgiveable sin he met the dark side of western civilization face to face.
TJs BROTHER WILL ALWAYS LIVE WITH HIM. this relationship is doomed for so many reasons. There is absolutely no way she will be happy there. Honestly I can’t imagine many western women who would be in that kind of living condition …
As an Indian, i can never imagine myself with someone like TJ because they are a middle class traditional people, although they are trying not to, still not trying enough. Most guys i know are pretty modern and treat women as their equal, not even an ounce of patriarchy. Kimberly comes from a different world and has chosen very desi orthodox family to get married into. Ofcourse it will be difficult, they will not change their ways (even the toxic ones, though i am sure they must be thinking that they did A LOT for Kimberly, going out of their way), and Kimberly will never be "desi" enough to be happily accepted hence this union will never be a peaceful one. It's opposite worlds, doing yoga, wearing desi clothes and crystals is not enough, its only a pretence, people change, but she's comes across as too critical,
There's nothing good about Kimberly. I think he heard her yelling at his brother and now knows she acts like entitled american teenage brat.👎 She's definitely the instigator & aggressor of the situation.
His family has yet to respect her traditions and customs, but they want her to respect theirs. Ain't no way that is happening if things aren't equal. They don't allow her to cook her traditional foods or do her religious customs. Everything has to be their way. Then they allow his brother to shit on her. Horrible family, and I don't believe this is the norm all over India.
She’s in HIS country why on earth do they need to conform to her “traditions”. America as a country has no true tradition. America is filled with diverse people from DIFFERENT customs and traditions that’s the difference between America and other countries from different continents.
Indians are not backward Indian women are not submissive , we are very opinionated and we are taught that “give respect , get respect and if respect is missing - leave “ She isn’t opinionated, she is narrow minded , impatient and self righteous.
sorry tj brother is definitely an abusive person and it’s ridiculous the way he’s speaking to her. kimberly needs to leave immediately before she ends up abused by this family.
@@Vrazzo1490 how evil is that? why is she a bitch and he’s not? he shows the same disregard for respect that she does, they’re basically almost the same person yet you’re convinced she’s the only problem. typical 90 day fiancé fans the woman is always the idiot, bitch or gold digger and these loser ass men are always sensitive, kind, nice guys.
Im not a kimberly fan either but why is everyone forgetting that TJ lit said "shes gonna be a housewife and do everything however i wont tell her until AFTER we are married"
The brother says the family respects her traditions and she should respect theirs, which yes she should BUT they don't acknowledge her Italian background and how garlic is a staple in their cooking. This is a bad clash of worlds that isn't good it seems
Why don’t people just find themselves someone in their on country or state . Because how many people actually last when they get someone in another country . U have to understand the rules and religion and etc. is strict and most American women are not going g to live their life the way other countries expect women to submit to their husbands. Get yourself back home and find u someone in your on state or another and forget that mess . Gee why live that way it’s not going to work . And women r suppose to be submissive to their husbands however, that doesn’t mean men don’t be submissive to us as well or we as women are suppose to allow a man who is not living for GOD to rule us or be abusive to us cause it doesn’t work that way . Live for God and a man and woman will have an awesome relationship with God leading their way . Otherwise u r just going have a headache cause I know I lived it before and thank my God today for an awesome man he put in my life finally !
I agree and disagree with you. The reasons why passport women search for men outside is because they believe foreign men are better providers and husbands than American men. That's really the fault of our society. So many American men refuse to be mature, responsible adults, capable of equal workload and caring for children. My generation and the younger have so many men expecting women to financially support them, emotionally support them, bare their kids without expecting the man to care for the kid. As for passport bros, well they are those type of men. They seek women who are submissive and meek, the opposite of what western women are. Passport bros and passport women get a rude awakening every time; the passport women realize the foreign man has ancient gender views and passport bros realize that the foreign women aren't as meek as they thought. They are women full of anger and opportunity, ready to divorce and shit on them once they reach the west where they can finally be heard.
Especially if your not going to conform to their way of life. Then the yelling and talking down to these people, these American woman are always so aggressive toward the foreign men.
I agree, what right does anyone the brother have to say his country is better than hers? Anyone would become defensive, that’s not even pointing out the fact that her husband sent his brother to fight his battles. Very disrespectful
I am an Indian girl who can vouch that women here are not as timid as Americans might think, but yes we don't curse or use derogatory language. Women are mostly the decision makers of the family, maybe professionally women still have a long way to go but mothers are treated as Queens, everyone listens to them. It is also true women take on more household responsibilities than American women but that's how we have preserved out familial structure and culture. Kids are protected, fed and not left with nannies or daycare (complete strangers). Men go and earn and women raise families, it is not an ancient practise, it is the practise that works for us. And for those women who choose to go to work, their in laws take care of the children. It is a supportive environment.
@@ho-leesheet5923 nope, I’m only judging TJ and his brother, and that’s based on them sleeping in the same bed with their mother for the last 20 years while their father sleeps on the living room floor. And I saw that on the tv show, I guess you haven’t actually watched it. My comment was a sarcastic rhetorical question for the original poster who was defending TJ’s family by saying “this is the practice that works for us,” because of course the answer is no.
In my whole life living in India, I have only seen parents sleep together and kids sleep separately. This TJ sleeping arrangement is one of a kind, wonder if the producers of the show had something to do with it, because they love to propagate strange cultural stereotypes to make it all entertaining for the western audience. To answer your question, nope, grown men don't sleep with their mothers. There is a lot of boundaries between men and women in Indian families. This is inappropriate and strange.
Tj’s brother for the win! He chewed her up and spit her out. He didn’t tell no lies. I’m so glad that he went tit for tat with her. Someone needs to tell her about herself. Tj is blinded by what he thinks is love. I hope he sends her packing. His life would be miserable with her because she is so miserable
Im sorry, but his brother is a complete jerk! He had NO right to touch her or tell her to leave. She is his brothers wife to be, not his. In honesty, they have VERY little respect for women & that needs to change bc shea not gonna deal w that. And i cant take their voices seriously.
i like how everybody is like brushing over the fact that he touched her. regardless of what kind of touch it was he has no right. definite signs of an abuser. kimberly needs to RUN.
I being an Indian woman finds hard to deal with TJs family and their expectations. Indian woman are expected to baby their husbands and take care of the household and this is the harsh reality but not all families are like that. I work and my husband has the same responsibilties in the household. I guess the issue arises when familiies are involved as husbands are supposed to be taken care like a baby by their wives
This relationship is 100% not going to make it.
Are you clairvoyant?
I am too 😅😅😅ohmyghost nope she's going to get run over by 🐫 are some thing 😅
I don't see it going nowhere.
@@scottking6481no she's one of the other Claires.
I know, right? I love TJ’s optimism though…asking his brother if he wants these problems 50 years down the road…LMAO
It's Kimberly's smirk for me, it rubs me wrong. The complete 180 degrees change in attitude she did when TJ came told me she is manipulative.
My exact thoughts!!
Ppl that do that "smirking" crap are showing you, they're pure evil.
Oh heck yeah, she faked her quiet attitude when TJ was around 😮
lol all 3 of them are the exact same. her Tj and the bro
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India is deep in culture and family living together. Kimberly, since she is clairvoyant should see that this is not going to work.
lol!
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And she doesn't even know. She's going to be the housewife for them all. I don't see her doing it. Can you say annulment.
@@ZAMSKY1000 all women here in India are not housewives lol. Dont blame the community when she could have looked for a family with a progressive mindset. And with that attitude I dont think she can adjust with ANYONE.
@AyatoIsACat Definitely, she would have trouble in any family. Argumentative and over dramatic. I know their are many high Achieving women in india. In the USA where I'm from 3 of my specialist Doctor are of Indian heritage, one is a woman.
Kim, JUST GO HOME! This won't work.
Respectfully! I’m not living in a country and then have the majority of the family hates me.
She making y'all look bad fr😂
What is she thinking yelling at Tj with his entire family under the same roof? Its too late they already know she's a "d-bag".
@@tymac9127 Who is y'all? I don't like neither their attitudes but they were both delusional from the beginning. I come from a conservative foreign background and she will never live up to their expectations. They are too traditional and won't compromise. A woman like her should consider being relationship and settle down with a liberal westernized man.
Yeah, go back to hell kim...
The thing is, [edit: many parts of] Indian society _is_ very patriarchal and has a lot of misogyny. That’s true. However, you can’t come in as a foreigner demanding to be an exception to the rules. That’s not how this works. Social changes need to come organically from within the culture, and even if she’s right about the unjust expectations of women in India, she just comes off as entitled and unprepared.
TJ, for his part, is incredibly scummy for not informing her of the cultural expectations BEFORE she touched down in India.
Couldn't have said it better!
Exactly! 👏👏👏
I know I could never put up with that kind of treatment, so I don't ever plan of moving to a country that is misogynistic and marry a someone there.
This girl wants to do that and get mad when a family who's had this traditions for generations won't change their ways for her
One of the things about cultures like this is that women have power, just not in the ways that Americans would like or understand. You'll see that in the house the women have a lot of control and when it comes to the children they have even more. I think its a little misguided to see things in such a flat or simplistic way (not you, just generally in our society). If its not the way we see it, then it must therefore be bad or wrong. That's not a good way to engage with people from other cultures, as it comes off as western culture is better, and no one will accept that. Nor is it necessarily true. I had to make this adjustment myself, and while I don't like or agree with the way things were done in my non US family, I understood it. I adopted the parts that worked for me and was flexible with the family when I wasn't going to do something, but didn't want them to think I thought I was better than them. Just different.
@@rileys6182 exactly. The way Kimberly scuffs at Yash for trying to explain their ideas is what's really rubbing him the wrong way. She comes into someone's country, culture and home and demands to be treated in a way they are not used to.
Not entirely true. Some parts of Indian society are matriarchal. Nonetheless one is expected to respect their elders and family members. Usually a daughter in law to be is expected to be polite and respectful. They’re really letting Kimberly get away with a lot of her bad behaviour because she’s foreign. Had an Indian girl spoken to the brother like that they wedding would have been called off then and there.
It’s really baffling how entitled these Americans are.
She acted very differently when she was in front of Tj , she acted so innocent and made the brother look like he was the one with the problem, I don’t agree with the brother either , but she showed how shady she can be , I guess that’s what she meant when she told the brother that he doesn’t know who he’s dealing with 😂
She's just evil.
She has two faces she is mentally not good tell u
Tj will regret taking her side later down the line. She will continue to be insufferable and hopefully TJ will send her packing. Nothing good can come from being with such a negative person
@@Vrazzo1490i would not say evil … emotionally unstable and has unresolved child trauma . Definitely! Evil ? Nope ! If that considered evil and manipulative than Tj is just as evil for manipulating his parents and acting like a broken hearted child because she is just saying the house is not what she is use to
She's definitely giving Karen vibes... she's not gonna last in India. I'll give her 6 months, if that... that's definitely her plan to drive a wedge between his family.. since she doesn't have a sense of family, so she doesn't want TJ to have any either.
This could have been avoided if TJ was straight up with her from jump..as he is seeing waiting to tell her isnt working out in his favor..his idea of ole i will tell her after we are married
And then act like she's the victim in a situation she created
The American women on this show are always trying to traffick the men from their cultures and families. It’s amusing but mostly soooooooo creepy and it’s not engaged with enough. The America men on the other hand always seem more open to assimilating or somewhat integrating … I assume it’s because of the benefits of those cultures as men vs for women it imposes more restrictions to their “unbridled” freedom which is often just rudeness/disrespect and a woeful inability / unwillingness to read the room and temper your expectations accordingly or go the F home.
I don't think Kimberly has any idea how long the rest of her life might be. I don't think she will be in India with TJ for the rest of the year. This is obviously not going to work. TJ needs to be honest with her and Kimberly needs to realize that she will not be able to have her own private U.S. in an Indian household. She is way too immature and selfish to make this work. TJ is in for a world of hurt. She will not let him wear the pants and that is going to be a problem. She picked the wrong guy in the wrong country to live in.
Exactly
Does anyone know how long the rest of their life is 🤷🏾♀️ I think you’re saying she doesn’t know how miserable she’ll be the rest of her life
Like others on this show in hercstubborn little brain, she thinks if she keeps up the chaos, her and TJ can just move to an apt of their own. Like the Sumit and his older gf jenny did. But TJ doesn't want to give up his family.
They each think that they are right. This argument will never be settled. Both of them are "right fighters". Kimberly is not happy in India. I believe that she was really disappointed with the apartment and it's just snowballed from there.
Marriage to Kimberly will be a lifetime of misery.
Kimberly is obviously a narcissist with a big ego and shits on India 🇮🇳 and other cultures who doesn’t fits her narrative world. She is a typical women who have it better living her life in America and possibly get some therapy for her demanding, narcissistic personalities. I have no sympathy what so ever for her!
No one will stay married to this monster.
Marrying the typical Indian man would be the same.
TJ is a mama's boy.
What is wrong with this woman? Why is she even there??
She's a psycho
She is a good actor ...
Those people lived in harmony before and than came the witch...and everything went wrong and they almost hate each ohther😢
I am just amazed ! 😂 Kimberly girl there are so many men in india, good looking, good jobs and men with a global mindset but she's gonna fall in love with someone who is so different just boggles my mind. All that clairvoyance and she couldn't see how this is going to play out. 😅
and who don’t sleep with their mother 😭🤭
Sorry there is nothing wrong with her fiance I don't think she can do better than him.
@@nancyelmon4544 well we all like different people. I am an Indian too. This joke is not on her fiance, joke's on her. She is finding it hard to adjust and yet she chose this man.
@@njalvarez9964 Next to her, but not with her. Changes the meaning totally. 😂😂
@@nancyelmon4544 he’s a child who runs to his family to complain, he’s your typical misogynist indian man. he’s a liar, has no respect for women & sleeps with his mother. kim can 100% do better.
I was born in India and spent my entire childhood, teenage years and early adult life in India but after living in the United States now I can't live in India and deal with all things that come along, I am not sure how Kimberly can ever be truly happy there even for a day.
Thank you for being honest! We ae not compatible with Indian culture and the uncleanness of the country. The smells etc. THE SCAMMING! Americans should stay away. We are not going to be happy there.
It takes strength to say what you said. Good on you.
Good riddance. Thank God for that. Coconut for a reason lol
Your opinion. Kimberly is in India and she needs to pipe down. She s not in the US. US people are so entitled and disrespectful to other people's culture and country. Go home and find a useless American man.
Please enlighten us. I heard that family drama is like a 24/7 thing.
He said “okay so you Einstein?” I’m really ctfu🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 took me out
Every, country is misogynistic, but some countries, are extremely more so. In some countries, if the woman isn’t subservient, then she’s seen as damaged. Where will she go if he abuses her? No one will do anything to help her there. If I were her, I’d pack my bags and never return. I really, don’t understand what she sees in this man child.
It's not even going far. This marriage will never work.
She needs a lawyer ASAP to give her a check of reality and her possibilities or making her own life in the country. This marriage will not last longer.
Tj thinks hes won the lottery with a western woman, what he doesn’t realise is that these american and british women are bottom of the barrel for anything serious, they are for fun only… these indians didnt get the memo
She probably listened to the voices in her head.
Western women are extremely delusional. No one can tell them anything and everything should revolve around them😂
How can this possibly go right? She thinks a dream led her straight to her "DM Requests", and he thinks he manifested her into existence. She expects the same life in India as she had in Alabama, and he (et al) expect her to trade in her entire identity and come out a native-born Indian woman. This is why reality TV exists; it's always funner watching these people try to futilely push a round peg into a square hole, than it is to try it yourself. Tip: When you're researching a new country/culture you want to move to and start over in, your research shouldn't end with pseudo-spiritual Instagram influencers who visited India for two weeks.... That may work for a trip to Joshua Tree or a weekend at Coachella, but cultures - especially in India - are as vastly unique as they are deep.
Kimberly is a space cadet who likes to argue. Herein lies the problem. This will never work.
I don’t blame her. The brother went way too far
Yash is incredibly disrespectful and disgusting behavior. So she is not alllowed to be rude to him but he is allowed to say those things? she is a guest and a new part of the family. Just goes to show how women are treated in that society. So hateful and misogynistic. Why should she be polite to that. Also his attachment and control over "the family’’ and his brothers marriage is extremely concerning. He definitely will beat his wife in the future.
yes! he literally talks to her like she’s lesser than because she wants to be treated like an equal human. hash doesn’t see her this way and neither does TJ. this family is disgusting, typical indian family
Nobody forced her to get married in India.... If westerners did their research they would know that Asian countries and African countries are very misogynistic. It's her fault for not doing her research into her husband's culture and it's also TJ's fault for failing to teach her.
The girl and the brother are both ridiculous lol.
They should have married each other 😂😂
I don't think she's submissive enough to make it there😂😂
I think she has too much free thought to live there 🤣🤣
Damn oh how i wish that was Angela sitting talking to him... lmao..
@@sukashi7234 OMG Angela would have that a$$!! 😂😂
I think she's not submissive at all 😅
I don’t like the argumentative and rude way of her communication. I’m sure she’s a nice person but she thinks the louder and nastier she speaks the more respected and independent she becomes.
I'm not so sure she is a nice person.
Now did what you just describe sound like a "nice person"? Stop giving obviously shitty people the benefit of the doubt.
She is DEFINITELY NOT a nice person.
She arrived there, yelled at him for the apartment not being perfect despite him going into debt to build it.. and then called his whole culture backwards. Think of the most annoying upper-middle class, Elizabeth Warren supporting, liberal white woman you know x100.. and that's her.
She showed us her true colors and it wasnt pretty.👎 She even "smirked" at the brother she definetly has a "dark" side.
This relationship will never work, the family will want her to change and shes not willing to, she shouldn’t have to, but if you live in another country and marry into a family whose culture is so different from your own , you either accept this or end the relationship
👏👏👏👏well said 👏👏
I just wanna say i watch a LOT of 90 review channels, and this is by far the best and most comprehensive one. Next best thing to actually watching the episode, and the commentary is always spot on!!!
I honestly have no sympathy for TJs family. They genuinely feel they’re doing Kimberly a favor by putting a roof over her head but her standards aren’t low. TJs brother is so bothered by a women talking to him. No women would be okay with this.
Yea honestly in this one instance I back Kimberly standing up for herself. Nobody should live like a servant
@@marciestoddard730they can’t promote something that is not there. If abuse wasn’t prevalent they wouldn’t show it.
@@marciestoddard730and that goes for everyone
@@steveurkel9097 selection bias
TJ is from RAJASTHAN(STATE) : society there is more inclined towards patriarchal mindset , that explain behaviour of YASH.
AN INDIAN
Tj’s brother may be sexist and a stuck in his ways but Kimberly WAS DEFINITELY RUDE to him. She always has to make people agree to her or it’s a serious problem for her.
The brother was initially trying to say how they live and what may be best for them. But Kimberly started getting all “I MADE ALLLL THE SACRIFICE LISTEN MEEEEE”
Remember Kimberly is going to culture also the lack of space and privacy is insane
All she had to do was research India and it's culture, it's not that hard.Oh silly me, I forgot she probably already knew that bc she's a clairvoyant. 😂 Whatever she's full of crap.
Yeah she’s definitely not helping the situation
I'm wondering why she didn't do her homework on what a wife has to do when married. I ain't buying this.story.
She doesn't have to she already knows ,she's psychic. Yeah right. "NOT" I call B.S. bigtimes!!!
She expect herself to be the exception cos she’s not Indian
@@marciestoddard730come to northeastern or southern states they are the opposite of northern india
Kim needs to move on. Tj is not worth any stress. Bc she will be always the bad guy. No matter what. The family will always back tj.
4 people have compromised for her . She's awful.
I can’t believe how many people are against her. He came at her aggressively first and she defended herself as she should have. She is in a foreign country and uncomfortable. She deserved a little grace. Also for her being quiet when the boyfriend was around… who cares? She didn’t need to say anything. The boyfriend did what he should have done… defended her.
it’s a trend with these people, she’s a bitch or crazy because she’s upset after being lied to and IS STILL being lied to. does nobody remember what TJ said about what her role is going to be? it’s straight up misogyny. a woman doesn’t want to be treated like shit & suddenly she’s crazy & a karen.
She hid her fangs when TJ came through. Yash said some things that made sense and Kim refused to actually communicate answers to those questions. Her reaction was disproportionate to what Yash was saying. Yash escalated as she escalated.
She Americanly thinks it’s just about her and TJ and doesn’t realize that approval from the family, especially the eldest brother, can make or break them. You can’t just arrive and gun for the eldest son in a traditional culture. That title and position holds so much power. She’s a totally unhinged loose cannon someone help her 🤣
She needs to move back to the USA and become a full-time Karen.
She has no clue about Indian culture and/or just doesn't give shite. She shits allover the family and the culture every chance she gets
Wait till the new sister-in-law comes, if Kimberley lasts that long. If she's Indian, she's going to show Kimberley up for all her shortcomings where this culture is concerned.
As an Indian man, I feel really bad for Kimberly. TJ manipulated her because he was not honest at all with her. People like TJ like to justify themselves by saying it's traditional, cultured, for the family etc. I see that as total bullshit. Regressive cultural practices should not hold any value in my opinion. Marriage is indeed a partnership. Yash's response to Kimberly's assertion that marriage is a partnership is not a great response. He is supposedly trying to take a moral and cultural high ground by claiming to be more cultured. And the supposed contrast with the West is also silly. I am sure people in the West break still have contact with their families after marriage right? Everywhere your family members are there for you in the good and the bad right? Sure there might be different boundaries but surely family support (unless there are obvious tensions and issues to resolve) is still very much present. Sure Kimberly could have appreciated some things about the apartment but I still feel the meltdown was justified. Change is scary and it can be easy to crack under it. I am currently in a foreign country and thought I would crack coz I am afraid. I did not and am settling in. Kimberly however is going for marriage!!!!. That's a whole different league. I would have been surprised if she did not crack. TJ should have shown her that she is loved and cared for and everything will be fine. That's what it means to be a spouse, isn't it? That is what he signed up for. I think it also would have been nice if Kimberly's parents could have stayed in a nearby hotel, especially since the wedding was close. That way she has people to comfort her and be in her corner. I wish I could say that this is not representative of the entirety of Indian males and Indian culture. Now since India has a huge population you cannot really generalise. You will find conservative and progressive people. However, this attitude is still quite prevalent from my own experience. I would like to think my parents have taught and raised me to be good when it comes to relationships today but I am sure I would fall short in many areas as well. I hope Kimberly realises she does not owe anyone anything by staying in India and does not have to prove anything. She should leave for better pastures.
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if my future brother in law says get out of our house, then I'LL BE OUT. GIRL YOU SHOULD have saved money first so that you and your husband can afford you OWN apartment. AS THEY SAY YOUR HOME YOUR RULE. Although kimberly is hateful too but man TJ's brother should know where and when to stop.
She should of just google the Indian culture. Then she would know they don't move out of their family's house & wifey has to cook and clean for eveyone in the house.Not just her husband.😂 .
@@Vrazzo1490Right
She cannot buy land as she is not citizen of India. It is not only the cost of the plot and building the house same as happen with Brandon and Mary.
Sp tired of hearing the phrase my truth. There is no my truth, your truth theres THE TRUTH
Kim is disrespectful, demanding and rude! She has no clue about Indian culture. She should have researched it before she moved there. TJ-run,run,run! I love TJ's brother. He is the GOAT lol
Seriously this narrator is Joke. Kimberly is AWFUL. An entitled, arrogant and ignorant person.
U must be from India
All these yt american chicks on the show act clueless and entitled smh
@@crystalbee9706 Wow! (was that racist?)
I'm not from India, but my parents taught me respect. Kim clearly doesn't know anything about Indian culture or else she wouldn't act the way she does. BTW-Kim is not positive is she?
She lived there prior to this, that’s how she knows her man. But she had her own apartment….something she should have done again.
communication is important! Kim doesn't communicate what she does is yell and wants the highest word.
Kimberley dont like India but moved there permanently 😂😂😂
The truth of Indian culture being misogynist is nowhere in the middle. They are. Women are raised to shut their mouths and basically be slaves. Kimberly and TJ are equally idiotic for even getting together. They both expect each other to change the core of who they are. If you want that person to change everything about themselves, why bother? Tj's bro was disrespectful and he needs to mind his business. If Kimberly stays there, they need to move out. Otherwise after the cameras stop rolling, it will become abusive.
I live in India and my parents and my relatives are not like this at all im little ithink this is conservative family I live in south India so may be idont know much about
Tbh his brother crossed a big line by disrespecting her. I think this caused her to over react.
Ngl though, my brother calling my fiancee stupid like this would have been a massive problem for me. If your future brother in law is talking to you like this and your husband isn't stepping up for you do not marry him. You will always be last and everyone else will come first before you.
Yes, they are right, American culture is quite vulgar when compared to others but their behavior was so much worse. Calling your future brother's fiancee stupid is wild to me.
3:49 she's weird though. Sure was heck of rude when her and the brother were fussing, but when the three of them sat down she's pretended to be all calm!
Omg a narcissist creating drama and turning family against each other? never. neverrr. She honestly thinks she is so smart the whole world won't see through her manipulative personality. Can't hide behind that paper guitar forever lol
Crystals don’t come from India. They come from the earth :/
Smashing well done !
Dude she has a real problem with herself
Kimberley is only experiencing what most Indian women face day by day. We were asked to compromise and adjust for the sake of the family and now that this is on tv, both TJ, his family AND kim are in the wrong. Kim just go please 😂
But Kim isn’t an Indian woman, it’s ridiculous to expect her to become one overnight
@@ajheartsong exactly, even the equivalent of a modern Indian woman, they expect her to change overnight. I just wish men and their families like TJ’s find women who are comfortable with this arrangement and not force her to adapt and change. Sure Kim should have done her prior research but TJ should not have hid this from her and promised his family that she’s going to take on the house. It happens more often than we hear of.
So she can call her fiancé DICK but cannot accept a person calling her stupid? She is such a pre teenager!
👏 THANK YOU! That's right!!!
She’s not in a relationship with the brother? He’s definitely overstepping
TLC will always show india as conservative society , we do have modern , nuclear families . country is extremely diverse .
Yeah. I'm dating a guy from the Northeast. It's nothing like what they keep portraying though.. and there are still so many other ways people live there
But you cannot act as if this doesn't exist lol she majority of Indian families do live this way and it's not even that bad, it's just not made for an American girl.
I don't think anyone was saying that it doesn't exist. There is going to be a larger number of families that live like this in certain areas of India, but that is not the sum of India. 1.4 billion people live there, so 17% of the entire world's population. There is bound to be diversity. The original poster is just pointing out that TLC is stuck in portraying India that way because it fits the idea Americans have in their head about India. I have had to have so many conversations about this with people when I say I am dating someone from India.
As for whether this lifestyle is meant for an American woman or not.. that's completely up to the woman. Individualism in America is going to shape how we feel and think about things, just like how Collectivism is going to shape how Indians view things. Until Kimberly and TJ realize they see the world from two totally different perspectives, it's going to be a struggle. You can find middle ground, but you have to have a lot of conversations about life and you have to be transparent with each other.
TJ should have been upfront about his expectations of Kimberly as a wife. She should have been allowed to choose if she was okay with that before marriage since she wasn't brought up in the culture. Hiding it until after they are married is going to cause horrible fights.
Kimberly is not realizing that family is everything to TJ and that while he might take her side right now with his brother, that man will never be completely comfortable and happy again so long as he is against his family. That is a huge mistake.
They need to do a lot of work on themselves and with each other if they have any hope for this relationship to survive.
@@katrinam6359 I'm a northeastern and you're absolutely right. Our families have more of a modern approach to marriage and all my aunts and uncles moved OIT of their family homes to start their independent families. We also have love marriages here in North east prevailing over arranged marriages. That way, i love my culture.. the rest of India's? Not so much.
TJS brothers atitide is despicable. He's expecting her to be a made and puts his hand in front of her when he talks. If i was her, I'd wake up and choose violence.
@@marciestoddard730 he's bothered because his brother is having some and he's not.
People go to other countries and then are mad it isn't like America.
@@marciestoddard730way to show your western superiority. People have their own individual culture and beliefs. Just because you believe yours are superior and more evolved. Doesn’t mean they are
Omg, if she marries into that family,they will make her life a living hell. She is making a BIG mistake.
She has more tantrums than a toddler. Grow up! There are still ways in which you can stand your ground and still be respectful. Have some class, you are lucky they are welcoming you into their home with open arms given how strict their culture is with tradition. Give them and yourself Grace.
I can relate to her not taking people to be disrespectful towards her but then again she is rude herself to her future husband! She doesn't want to be in India then she needs to find a man from the states why in the heck is she putting up with that culture. People that want someone from a different culture they need to do their research it's entirely different from the states.
They are reacting towards her. She was rude from the moment she entered their home and disrespected their country.
The family wasnt disrespectful. He was trying to explain to her why they do things a certain way in his own country and for that unforgiveable sin he met the dark side of western civilization face to face.
Oh no! I was just watching the new video and Discovery has found out!😢😢😢
Yeaaaaaa I don’t see this union lasting long at all
TJs BROTHER WILL ALWAYS LIVE WITH HIM.
this relationship is doomed for so many reasons. There is absolutely no way she will be happy there. Honestly I can’t imagine many western women who would be in that kind of living condition …
They should get a room. They are litterally sexually attracted to eachother.😂❤
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Exactly
As an Indian, i can never imagine myself with someone like TJ because they are a middle class traditional people, although they are trying not to, still not trying enough. Most guys i know are pretty modern and treat women as their equal, not even an ounce of patriarchy.
Kimberly comes from a different world and has chosen very desi orthodox family to get married into. Ofcourse it will be difficult, they will not change their ways (even the toxic ones, though i am sure they must be thinking that they did A LOT for Kimberly, going out of their way), and Kimberly will never be "desi" enough to be happily accepted hence this union will never be a peaceful one.
It's opposite worlds, doing yoga, wearing desi clothes and crystals is not enough, its only a pretence, people change, but she's comes across as too critical,
Best comment so far
Commenting like u have husband better then TJ
@@bipinbisht7827 definitely have a better husband than your wife does
@@bipinbisht7827 Also, it's "than" not "then"
@@mytraveltapes3090 *then
India is a very nationalistic country. She should just leave if she hates it at this point.
I actually argue that the brother is jealous he sees what his brother has in Kimberly and is jealous he can’t do the same
You think Kimberly is an asset to have?🤨
No way. In inda the female has to obey. Kimberly is a wack job.
There's nothing good about Kimberly. I think he heard her yelling at his brother and now knows she acts like entitled american teenage brat.👎 She's definitely the instigator & aggressor of the situation.
And it's not even her damn house. The nerve of this "B".
Nah of course not! 🙄 TJ bro wants a submissive yes yes gal. He detest Kimberly
His family has yet to respect her traditions and customs, but they want her to respect theirs. Ain't no way that is happening if things aren't equal. They don't allow her to cook her traditional foods or do her religious customs. Everything has to be their way. Then they allow his brother to shit on her. Horrible family, and I don't believe this is the norm all over India.
She’s in HIS country why on earth do they need to conform to her “traditions”. America as a country has no true tradition. America is filled with diverse people from DIFFERENT customs and traditions that’s the difference between America and other countries from different continents.
@@amiii1296🎯
Indians are not backward
Indian women are not submissive , we are very opinionated and we are taught that “give respect , get respect and if respect is missing - leave “
She isn’t opinionated, she is narrow minded , impatient and self righteous.
You're taught to compromise coated with respect
This girl is delulu
How?
I think they both suck. This shouldn’t work. They will be miserable together.
sorry tj brother is definitely an abusive person and it’s ridiculous the way he’s speaking to her. kimberly needs to leave immediately before she ends up abused by this family.
I guess ,were warching différent shows. Bc i saw all that disrespect coming out of her & its not even her house to act like that. 👎
I mean the "B" even smirked when she was going on .How evil is that?
@@Vrazzo1490 how evil is that? why is she a bitch and he’s not? he shows the same disregard for respect that she does, they’re basically almost the same person yet you’re convinced she’s the only problem. typical 90 day fiancé fans the woman is always the idiot, bitch or gold digger and these loser ass men are always sensitive, kind, nice guys.
@@Vrazzo1490 it IS her house it is the home that TJ “built” for her needs.
Aparently her clares don't do compromise . She's a mess .
She’s just a joke; just a big sad joke she gotta grow up
TJ is Toxic Positivity
Im not a kimberly fan either but why is everyone forgetting that TJ lit said "shes gonna be a housewife and do everything however i wont tell her until AFTER we are married"
she disrespected his culture and country in one breath, she lived there for a year she should know how it is
"with more tears, more tears" 🤣🤣
The brother says the family respects her traditions and she should respect theirs, which yes she should BUT they don't acknowledge her Italian background and how garlic is a staple in their cooking. This is a bad clash of worlds that isn't good it seems
Why don’t people just find themselves someone in their on country or state . Because how many people actually last when they get someone in another country . U have to understand the rules and religion and etc. is strict and most American women are not going g to live their life the way other countries expect women to submit to their husbands. Get yourself back home and find u someone in your on state or another and forget that mess . Gee why live that way it’s not going to work . And women r suppose to be submissive to their husbands however, that doesn’t mean men don’t be submissive to us as well or we as women are suppose to allow a man who is not living for GOD to rule us or be abusive to us cause it doesn’t work that way . Live for God and a man and woman will have an awesome relationship with God leading their way . Otherwise u r just going have a headache cause I know I lived it before and thank my God today for an awesome man he put in my life finally !
I agree and disagree with you. The reasons why passport women search for men outside is because they believe foreign men are better providers and husbands than American men. That's really the fault of our society. So many American men refuse to be mature, responsible adults, capable of equal workload and caring for children. My generation and the younger have so many men expecting women to financially support them, emotionally support them, bare their kids without expecting the man to care for the kid.
As for passport bros, well they are those type of men. They seek women who are submissive and meek, the opposite of what western women are.
Passport bros and passport women get a rude awakening every time; the passport women realize the foreign man has ancient gender views and passport bros realize that the foreign women aren't as meek as they thought. They are women full of anger and opportunity, ready to divorce and shit on them once they reach the west where they can finally be heard.
Especially if your not going to conform to their way of life. Then the yelling and talking down to these people, these American woman are always so aggressive toward the foreign men.
I disagree with you. I think his brother is way out of line! The way he talks to her was completely wrong, rude and bullying behavior!
It's not that kind of society. The woman marries the whole family..so she has to show him respect as well. Not really like america
I agree, what right does anyone the brother have to say his country is better than hers? Anyone would become defensive, that’s not even pointing out the fact that her husband sent his brother to fight his battles. Very disrespectful
He's calling them both obnoxious.
I don't care for her no more .She showed me who she really is. I believe her .👎
@@guttenaug947TJ sleeping in his mom's bed and hiding behind his brother's legs. Ew. This y'all man?
they aren't compatible. love is not enough.
Suddenly Yash becomes the hero in letting the 2 see that both of them are not compatible
Kimberley needs to heal, she's projecting her insecurities on TJ and Yash.
Have they slept together yet, or does TJ have to wait till marriage?
I feel like secretly she wants to drive a wedge between TJ and his family so he’ll agree to follow her back to her country eventually.
She ruined it for herself
You can’t be starting shhh with your in laws
You cannot live in a place you hate. No matter if you love someone there.
In India they will always pick family first. So goodluck on that lmao.
if you don’t respect, get out of our house! tell her lol
I am an Indian girl who can vouch that women here are not as timid as Americans might think, but yes we don't curse or use derogatory language. Women are mostly the decision makers of the family, maybe professionally women still have a long way to go but mothers are treated as Queens, everyone listens to them. It is also true women take on more household responsibilities than American women but that's how we have preserved out familial structure and culture. Kids are protected, fed and not left with nannies or daycare (complete strangers). Men go and earn and women raise families, it is not an ancient practise, it is the practise that works for us. And for those women who choose to go to work, their in laws take care of the children. It is a supportive environment.
You know these show takes people from northern India i really want to see more cast from southern India and northeastern states
Is it also the practice for grown Indian men to sleep in the same bed as their mommy while daddy sleeps in another room on the floor?
@@akaLaBrujaRoja no it's not have you based your entire judgement from what you saw in the internet huh?
@@ho-leesheet5923 nope, I’m only judging TJ and his brother, and that’s based on them sleeping in the same bed with their mother for the last 20 years while their father sleeps on the living room floor. And I saw that on the tv show, I guess you haven’t actually watched it. My comment was a sarcastic rhetorical question for the original poster who was defending TJ’s family by saying “this is the practice that works for us,” because of course the answer is no.
In my whole life living in India, I have only seen parents sleep together and kids sleep separately. This TJ sleeping arrangement is one of a kind, wonder if the producers of the show had something to do with it, because they love to propagate strange cultural stereotypes to make it all entertaining for the western audience.
To answer your question, nope, grown men don't sleep with their mothers. There is a lot of boundaries between men and women in Indian families. This is inappropriate and strange.
She gets on my nerves but I actually like TJ
Also Yash is annoying as fuck. Poor TJ stuck in the middle
Tj’s brother for the win! He chewed her up and spit her out. He didn’t tell no lies. I’m so glad that he went tit for tat with her. Someone needs to tell her about herself. Tj is blinded by what he thinks is love. I hope he sends her packing. His life would be miserable with her because she is so miserable
Right! I cheered him on! She's gross!
😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Not a fan of the self proclaimed clairvoyant ...
Kimberly you cannot change India and its way of life instead you change yourself and leave!!!!
Im sorry, but his brother is a complete jerk! He had NO right to touch her or tell her to leave. She is his brothers wife to be, not his. In honesty, they have VERY little respect for women & that needs to change bc shea not gonna deal w that. And i cant take their voices seriously.
I'm a 100 % sure he did not want to touch her . She's repulsive.
i like how everybody is like brushing over the fact that he touched her. regardless of what kind of touch it was he has no right. definite signs of an abuser. kimberly needs to RUN.
in a relationship is cooperation and listening to each other. problems in a relationship is has 2 sides to the story
I being an Indian woman finds hard to deal with TJs family and their expectations.
Indian woman are expected to baby their husbands and take care of the household and this is the harsh reality but not all families are like that.
I work and my husband has the same responsibilties in the household. I guess the issue arises when familiies are involved as husbands are supposed to be taken care like a baby by their wives
Isn’t her voice so smoothing and calming…or “positivity”👀
I think yash wants to hit it.
Naw ,he'd only hit her with a brick on her head. That's about it. 😂
I agree. He comes off as jealous
Yup
I think Yash is coming from a position of leading his family. He’s not 100% right but culturally, I get where he’s coming from.
That woman is a narcissist or maybe sociopath
Yep!
Go home!! Does she not get it!
Clairvoyant my azz
If you can sue them i would 😂
The brother should get a life.
Fake girl thinking thé other one needs to adapt to her. She is far away of intégration and tolerance She is so american
So CAUCASIAN American 🤷🏿♀️
@@Grannysbaby81 yes excuse me but the pictures of american ladies given on this kind of program is so bad generaly