'skip the small talk, go straight to the questions'. LADbible, she's Dutch. This is totally normal in The Netherlands, while the opposite 'being polite' is very British. Probably a big reason why she's more comfortable asking these questions than the UK guy
When I was in my teens and early twenties I really tip-toed around trying to be polite to girls and avoided any serious talk. Now in my 30s, I'm married, but if I were to ever date again I would ask those tough questions right off the bat. Believe me, you'll be much happier finding someone who has the same personality and maybe dark humor as you. Don't waste your time chasing the hottest chick and small talking with them. Be yourself and you'll find someone who is pretty and fun to be around 100% of the time
My wife and i have been married for 15 years and together for 20. when we got together we had both had enough of the dating scene so independent of one another had decided to dispense wit all the small talk and mild deception that usually accompanied dating. had all the hard talks about about all the deal breakers kids housing money work sex and the like. We were honest with each other and more importantly honest with ourselves about what we wanted and needed. We still have problems just like anyone else but they tend to be much less volatile and easier to overcome even as our life together and needs have changed over the long years. this guy is still lying to himself and she is to concerned with her own emotion to be a match for anyone let alone each other
a guy with a reasonable body count 10 or so must be persuasive and presentable and comptent with girls so it is a plus. A girl can have a body count of 25 almost at will so it is not nearly as good a barometer of her desireability
Well to be fair, what if you worked hard and earned money. Would you want that money to go to your child? Or their partner that you might barely know? Or is abusive? Or is going to take the money and have nothing else to do in your child’s life? You would want the money you earn to stay with your loved ones.
@@kotmlind2 or maybe your children are successful on their own and there are people in REAL need of help. Regardless if you agree, you can't argue that the statement is presumptuous.
I think prenups are terrible!!! Just cos one has brought in money, one could’ve brought in more emotional wise and stability wise. A divorce is only measured in money but a marriage is way more than a financial thing so should it all go tits up, someone suddenly brings money into it? It’s such an American thing that sucks romance out of a relationship.
My ex Gf told me she'd been with 5 people previously. I didn't realise she meant at once
She’s a sket😂
Skeet skeet skeet
sounds like a wife material 😂🤣
Lol
😂😂😂😂😂 amazing
He wasn’t being honest. He danced around the answers so much. She was straight up with hers.
'skip the small talk, go straight to the questions'. LADbible, she's Dutch. This is totally normal in The Netherlands, while the opposite 'being polite' is very British. Probably a big reason why she's more comfortable asking these questions than the UK guy
@@bigsteve6729 Prima tjappie, wil je in mijn taal stoer lopen doen op het internet?
@@bigsteve6729 Ik kon hen prima verstaan, biefstuk. Je bent ook een vraagteken vergeten.
@@MRTN13 Hahahaha, deze man. Zeg ‘t hem Gappie!
Girl is comfortable and confident with who she is and what she stands for, didn't get that same vibe from the guy.
She's Dutch and these questions aren't totally out of place on a first date over there but that's not the case in ze U.K.
Dude wanted to ask her body count then not answer in return? Obvs the number is lower as well lool
When I was in my teens and early twenties I really tip-toed around trying to be polite to girls and avoided any serious talk. Now in my 30s, I'm married, but if I were to ever date again I would ask those tough questions right off the bat. Believe me, you'll be much happier finding someone who has the same personality and maybe dark humor as you. Don't waste your time chasing the hottest chick and small talking with them. Be yourself and you'll find someone who is pretty and fun to be around 100% of the time
I want that.
The mic setup vanishing was clean
My god i had to watch-it like 3 or 4 times cause it's almost sexy lmao
He's being polite - he's not actually interested :) rewatch it xox
my thoughts exactly
I feel like the guy wasn't being honest
@@johnfiftos7953 dude wtf 😂
@@johnfiftos7953 bruh what tf
Guy is really uncomfortable lol
@@johnfiftos7953 You seem like a stable guy to spend time with.
@@johnfiftos7953 how bad must your life be to have to come and insult people in various places of Ladbible’s comment section
Interesting name
He's so awkward 😂😂
Awkwardness can be a sign of past difficulties, for example being bullied or lacking appropriate socialisation
This guy is squirming with every question 🤣
"First Daters Reveal Body Count"
me: 32
someone else: 32!!!!???
me: yeah, i've killed 32 people
someone else: what?
me: what?
Takes guts to do this live on cam! Much love to this guy💪🏼
a girl with a body count of 8?? Objection Hearsay
Omg, GIRL!! RUN!!! Why on earth would she say yes to seeing this awkward dude again? He's also super inauthentic and fearful with everything smh
am i the only one who thinks she resembles billie eilish?
Best way to make prenups irrelevant : just don't get married in the first place. Heheh.
Totally don’t see these two together.
My wife and i have been married for 15 years and together for 20. when we got together we had both had enough of the dating scene so independent of one another had decided to dispense wit all the small talk and mild deception that usually accompanied dating. had all the hard talks about about all the deal breakers kids housing money work sex and the like. We were honest with each other and more importantly honest with ourselves about what we wanted and needed. We still have problems just like anyone else but they tend to be much less volatile and easier to overcome even as our life together and needs have changed over the long years. this guy is still lying to himself and she is to concerned with her own emotion to be a match for anyone let alone each other
a guy with a reasonable body count 10 or so must be persuasive and presentable and comptent with girls so it is a plus. A girl can have a body count of 25 almost at will so it is not nearly as good a barometer of her desireability
Yes it is... a body count in double figures is a yellow flag, and potentially a red.
@@robw7676why tho?
@Qasim Sonson because high body counts correlate with failing at long-term relationships
I find this conversation very sad and cold..
The guy reminds me of Ali a and I can't figure out why 😂
Should have been a politician!
Want a small update on these two actually!
Wire in there, son 🤙
i'd like to see how the "Yes - No"s and the "No - No"s went tbh
Wtf😂UA-cam never fails to surprise me‼️
Blokes just say whatever the girls wanna hear in all the videos I've seen of this series
Am looking forward to have a caring and lovely partner.
Top bloke
That was super cute ^__^
odd guy
anyone noticed the fly in the background 🤷♂️
Yep, a date between an insecure cagey dude, and an uptight girl is really going to end in success.
In what way is she uptight?
What's my worst quality?
I would have given a completely off the wall answer like, My homicidal tendencies and taste for human flesh. 😂😂
"I'm entitled to that money" wwwoooowwww.... this has to be the worst date ever.
rich kids for you
Well to be fair, what if you worked hard and earned money. Would you want that money to go to your child? Or their partner that you might barely know? Or is abusive? Or is going to take the money and have nothing else to do in your child’s life? You would want the money you earn to stay with your loved ones.
@@kotmlind2 or maybe your children are successful on their own and there are people in REAL need of help. Regardless if you agree, you can't argue that the statement is presumptuous.
I wonder why they delete comments constantly here?
The guy in uncomfortable because of her height. She is larger than him.
Big mamma
do people think 8 is a lot???
Why are his lips kinda moving like waves as he talks
For me personality and persona appeal.
For me it’s their face and body.
Emilia Clark? is that u?
I'd have gotten my coat when she admitted to being a good girl.
🤣🤣🤣
Somehow you've managed to pick the two most boring people I've ever watched!
I liked her
More than one you are done!
7.7
Hi
I think prenups are terrible!!! Just cos one has brought in money, one could’ve brought in more emotional wise and stability wise. A divorce is only measured in money but a marriage is way more than a financial thing so should it all go tits up, someone suddenly brings money into it? It’s such an American thing that sucks romance out of a relationship.
Clearly you don’t have material generational financial wealth to think about if you type that comment
Clearly you have nothing, so of course you think that. Theiving prat
He's insecure.
they look weird asf
shes a 3 at best
Thirsty guys will nail anything though.
LOOOL
@@richardneave1222 I don't think it's thirst....if she's throwing herself at you why not 🤷🏿♂️
FIRSTT!!
No, I was
Definitely can sense the anxiety and nervousness here, her body language is quite defensive throughout the whole thing
i am Early
Yhh same🤣
they are not hot at all 👎🏻