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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2022
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  • @alpha_male_s
    @alpha_male_s  Рік тому +19

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    • @TwPpopcorn
      @TwPpopcorn Рік тому

      Would like to review ya books and link them n my next amazon affiliate products video do u have a video covering them while i wait on delivery

    • @TwPpopcorn
      @TwPpopcorn Рік тому

      Would like to review ya books and link them n my next amazon affiliate products video do u have a video covering them while i wait on delivery

    • @reggienhappiness8851
      @reggienhappiness8851 Рік тому

      For it to be a secret do they have to tell you not to tell anyone?

    • @Carlos-Freeze-Tha_Hated
      @Carlos-Freeze-Tha_Hated Рік тому

      Yo AMS, how about a video on going 50/50 on the bills. Alot of women, especially black women stay shaming men on social media who refuse to pay all the bills while they live in the same house and she has a whole job. What's your take on this?

    • @daylaquankelly1850
      @daylaquankelly1850 Рік тому

      Keep up the good work pimp been watching you since the beginning

  • @KRO0KEDSMiLERamb0
    @KRO0KEDSMiLERamb0 Рік тому +545

    Don’t blame your distractions , Improve your focus 💯

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 Рік тому +7

      I hear ya! Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth!
      So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness.
      But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy!
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.
      -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Рік тому +19

      Remove distractions

    • @brightolofinsao285
      @brightolofinsao285 Рік тому +7

      Just exactly what I needed to hear right now 💯❤️

    • @MarcoHuncho
      @MarcoHuncho Рік тому

      Thats a solid quote for me my guy. I'm gonna gladly use that one...🤝🏾

    • @connyslayer4661
      @connyslayer4661 Рік тому

      Absolutely agreed, its such a great mindset and people keep complaining and blaming their distractions but the main power comes from Improving your focus and working towards your goals.

  • @kawanparker4618
    @kawanparker4618 Рік тому +220

    Very underrated topic. Friendships, relationships and interpersonal interactions are very important especially when it comes to becoming a high value man with a solid network around him. Appreciate it.

    • @chiragpatel849
      @chiragpatel849 Рік тому +7

      always want to surround yourself with high value people no one wanna be around bums

    • @connyslayer4661
      @connyslayer4661 Рік тому +2

      Agreed, Very underrated topic indeed. This is one of the most important and strongest topics that need to be discussed and realized overall. In order to be positive and great , you need to be positive and great but also surround yourself with similar people like that. High value people are around high value people and should motivate each other for that. Interpersonal interactions and connections should be genuine and strong.

    • @connyslayer4661
      @connyslayer4661 Рік тому +1

      @@chiragpatel849 That is right and that is a great mentality overall. You are supposed to be around people who have a high value personality that want to better themselves and motivate you as well while you do the same for them.

    • @7_philk
      @7_philk Рік тому +1

      I just don’t want to have people around me who aren’t rude or die at all yeah talk to em but never more then that.

    • @b3at2
      @b3at2 Рік тому +1

      Many dudes are pillow-talking too..telling all your business to his lady because he is insecure in his own relationship and thinks exposing your business makes him look better... simps boy.

  • @kc270352
    @kc270352 Рік тому +67

    a wise man once told me:
    "Trust no one, Suspect Everyone"

  • @finessegod2
    @finessegod2 Рік тому +73

    I have a "friend" who blurts shit out for no damn reason I tell him in confidence. I used to make excuses for him like "That's just him." This video has me considering stepping back on that friendship.

    • @jasonhare9434
      @jasonhare9434 Рік тому +3

      Damn what he be saying

    • @YoungYahtz94
      @YoungYahtz94 Рік тому +18

      Yea think that one over homie. He sound like the type of dude to start tryna put you on blast or lowkey embarrass you when y’all around company

    • @BEFORETHEMHYPEBEASTS
      @BEFORETHEMHYPEBEASTS Рік тому +2

      best give away is having a common close friend and knowing dirty laundry about him.

    • @DauntlessDeonte5991
      @DauntlessDeonte5991 Рік тому +5

      Considering? You better stop answering that phone call tomorrow.

    • @7_philk
      @7_philk Рік тому

      @@YoungYahtz94 yeah not a friend came across alott of them and now I just always never get comfortable with people easy to cut anyone off.

  • @rrangel1968
    @rrangel1968 Рік тому +167

    Keep up the great work AMS! When I was young, my Grandmother used to always tell me, "Friends come, a dime a dozen" and I always never understood that, and it felt like it was coming from a negative mean place. But she always followed up with, "But the good few ones that stick around when times get rough, well, those aren't your friends anymore. They become family."

    • @Luka9m
      @Luka9m Рік тому +11

      You had a smart grandmother those words are 100% true. These days grandma's are on TikTok acting as rediculous as their granddaughters.

    • @pocoloco8120
      @pocoloco8120 Рік тому

      Well said

  • @increasedinfaith
    @increasedinfaith Рік тому +50

    Lost a lot of friends because they crossed these same boundaries appreciate this message.

  • @FashionFramez
    @FashionFramez Рік тому +33

    At the end of the day, only person who got your back is yourself. Bless up 🐐🐐🐐🐐

  • @the4thElement88
    @the4thElement88 Рік тому +70

    The title alone is pure factz, the number one person you should invest in is the person you see in the mirror 🪞and your loved ones 💪🏾

  • @olalekangbamila
    @olalekangbamila Рік тому +157

    This is one of the few Legends holding holding it down for men while K.S is gone RIP and also good work as always AMS 💪🏾

    • @benjaminsnyder5878
      @benjaminsnyder5878 Рік тому +10

      True, AMS's November 2018 business video inspired me to start my own LLC entertainment business. Which has nothing to do with women

    • @christiangottsacker6932
      @christiangottsacker6932 Рік тому

      I got worried reading KRS1 died... i need to slow down when i read

    • @madams989
      @madams989 Рік тому +4

      Yeah he’s by far the realest

    • @thetruth3454
      @thetruth3454 Рік тому +1

      @@christiangottsacker6932 lol

  • @mikem9958
    @mikem9958 Рік тому +43

    My guard is up high for everyone. I don't trust my family, my friends, my neighbors, my dog, ...*looks in mirror*... I don't even trust myself.

    • @Futurekid1996
      @Futurekid1996 Рік тому +8

      You really paranoid

    • @SOLIDJR2000
      @SOLIDJR2000 Рік тому +1

      😂😂

    • @fouinylantigua5701
      @fouinylantigua5701 Рік тому

      U fucked up brother😂😂gotta consult yourself

    • @darkpersona962
      @darkpersona962 Рік тому +11

      Trust your dog, man. They are more loyal creatures than humans.

    • @burgundyskinned
      @burgundyskinned Рік тому +4

      Your dog is probably the most trustworthy individual on that list…..

  • @Kisensei
    @Kisensei Рік тому +65

    Mann that hodgetwins move got me dying lmao 💀💀💀😂

  • @babystrokessr
    @babystrokessr Рік тому +12

    Uncomfortable truth: 80% of your friends will violate bro code

    • @chuckyyes
      @chuckyyes Рік тому

      @The American Mercenary it gets worse when you live in a capitalist society

  • @mosescola4174
    @mosescola4174 Рік тому +6

    It is best not to trust anyone because the more you try and empathize and share your struggles with people the more your giving them fuel in order to use what information you told them against you. At times it is best to remain mute and stoic.

  • @Ishfaqw731
    @Ishfaqw731 Рік тому +42

    Exactly one year ago I came here heartbroken, dejected and lost. One year later, thanks to you my life has changed. From being unbelievably emotional, to being told I'm so cold hearted and not emotionally available. I'm very very very Blunt now, these aren't always good things however they have helped me realise who and what I am. I've found my purpose finally! Before id look for my ex in any female that I spoke to or saw, now females won't leave me alone because I don't show them any affection. You were right about being the odd male who doesn't act all needy. I'm still healing and not perfect in any sense, but by healing in my emotions and love, I've also healed in life. Great job now, body language is great and I'm having a great time. You are more than just a guy on youtube, you're like the older brother I never had.

    • @DavidSmith-qf3sm
      @DavidSmith-qf3sm Рік тому

      Giving good looking women attention in a club or anywhere doesn’t work, I’ve been fat, thin and now muscular and I got attention in all states but I didn’t believe in myself when I was weak minded and overweight. So your doing the right thing. I recently got attention at a rock gig from ignoring the hottest woman in there. They came to me, I didn’t approach them.

  • @KROOKEDSMILEUL
    @KROOKEDSMILEUL Рік тому +113

    Whoever reading this
    Your skin isn’t paper don’t cut it
    Your body isn’t a book cover don’t judge it
    Your heart isn’t a door don’t lock it
    Your life isn’t a move don’t end it
    Your soul is beautiful
    Be you , stay safe
    One love ❤️

  • @supremedollars8351
    @supremedollars8351 Рік тому +14

    Man Damn the clap set the tone

  • @GoofBonJovi
    @GoofBonJovi Рік тому +16

    I needed this. I had to walk away from a friend group of over 15 years because I learned I was being gaslighted and the persons who said I was their brother would keep me around just to make themselves look better in front of other people. I am not perfect but now I know my loyalty was not worth the disrespect I had to endure.

    • @Tiznado
      @Tiznado Рік тому +5

      Same exact thing happened to me. People like that are narcissist. Best we can do is learn from this and keep our heads up and work on ourselves and move onto bigger and better things in life.

  • @stevenc8717
    @stevenc8717 Рік тому +18

    Small thing mentioned in the video, only give advice/opinion when asked for it. Works well in all relationships, but really well with women when you don’t know if they’re venting or looking for a 2nd opinion

  • @digitaldew
    @digitaldew Рік тому +54

    Always maintain your integrity. If you give someone your word you need to follow thru on that. Never be late, my best friends (who I can count on one hand) know if I'm late there is a problem. Be respectful of others time. Have a wonderful day Gentlemen!

  • @GigaChad-yu4sh
    @GigaChad-yu4sh Рік тому +11

    I trust 3 people; me, myself and I.

  • @SirDoee
    @SirDoee Рік тому +14

    R.I.P to the clap intro.
    It's going to go down as a Hall of Famer for us day one subscribers on UA-cam. This was great content and a great sidestep from guys wanting to know about female nature.
    I honestly would say honor in friendship is the first principle in the development of a man before entering relationships with the opposite sex.
    If you can't build a solid foundation with your fellow man what makes you think you can run a consistent interaction with the opposite sex? Just something to think about gentlemen.

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw Рік тому +10

    The best way to find out if someone is your friend is to be nice to them. A person that is not your friend will take your kindness as a weakness and not reciprocate

    • @7_philk
      @7_philk Рік тому +3

      Facts and as soon as you catch on and get in they ass they don’t like you anymore lol

    • @sowhat616
      @sowhat616 Рік тому +3

      @@7_philk that's why I rather be with my own blood relatives than non blood relatives

    • @7_philk
      @7_philk Рік тому

      @@sowhat616 same here I learned to enjoy my own company I spend most my time going out with close family don’t have to deal with all that .

  • @beastlaser9611
    @beastlaser9611 Рік тому +11

    Faxxx , I don't trust anyone not even my own woman ! I mean I hear them out but I ain't no fool !

  • @chiragpatel849
    @chiragpatel849 Рік тому +20

    I been watching AMS since 2017 I remember when AMS had 7k subscribers and been watching since then. This guy changed my life for the better. Always on my purpose and valuing myself. Taught me how to have emotional and social intelligence when interacting with people in general. Always giving good life lessons. I like watching videos like these more than the women videos. Now AMS at half a million congratulations.

  • @ahmednacer1506
    @ahmednacer1506 Рік тому +12

    Man, the joy i feel when i get the notification that AMS just dropped another video

  • @KarimKarim-xy9py
    @KarimKarim-xy9py Рік тому +18

    Just seeing your number of subscribers, congrats bro. Your success makes be happy man. It’s possible for most of us fellows. City boys going up,

  • @koban4max
    @koban4max Рік тому +31

    Big bro thanks for all your hard work

  • @ag-nd5hd
    @ag-nd5hd Рік тому +4

    Much appreciated AMS- very understated topic - incredible content as always

  • @pleasenotmyname
    @pleasenotmyname Рік тому +4

    Man i found myself tearing up after hearing you retiring the clap , we came a long way fellas!

  • @sef9512
    @sef9512 Рік тому +3

    AMS helped me tremendously over the years. Have been dating a girl for the past 2 years now and I realized I was getting comfortable so going back through these videos now

  • @MrUsername1712
    @MrUsername1712 Рік тому +24

    Half a mil soon. Congrats bro 🍾

  • @leebone4860
    @leebone4860 Рік тому

    This one of the best and pure videos AMS has put out we need more topics along these grounds.

  • @kennethwebb7759
    @kennethwebb7759 Рік тому +1

    Great message AMS. Have integrity and live by a code. Thanks for this video

  • @hoosmyster
    @hoosmyster Рік тому +13

    The only few worth trusting are those who walk the walk. Leave the ones who talk the talk.

  • @Rondo312
    @Rondo312 Рік тому +9

    Only disagreement, a good friend is not only non-judgement but will tell you when we’re wrong or unreasonable. If you’re willing to tell someone something, be ready for their opinion sometimes. Not just a silent listener and yes-man 💯

  • @oraleofficial9398
    @oraleofficial9398 Рік тому +2

    Appreciate you OG! 💪🏾🔥

  • @jasonnelson460
    @jasonnelson460 Рік тому +4

    I stumbled upon AMS about a week ago and he is all I have been listening to. I'm 45 and didn't know half the info he has!!!

  • @RandoSnaps
    @RandoSnaps Рік тому +1

    Dropped MAADDD gems in this one hefe💯💎💎💎

  • @dayinthegrind688
    @dayinthegrind688 Рік тому +10

    Congratulations to 500k!!! You’ve changed so many mens lives including myself. Thank you AMS

  • @zee2941
    @zee2941 Рік тому +2

    Congrats on 500k AMS 👑

  • @josephtall799
    @josephtall799 Рік тому +15

    Message on point brother! Keep those around you that actually lift you up and wish the best for you. Focus only - 2022 here we go fam 🔥✊️

  • @cwaydagr8994
    @cwaydagr8994 Рік тому +1

    That Jordan and pippin analogy was pure gold stay blessed forever OGEE

  • @ConnerRust
    @ConnerRust Рік тому +13

    You can’t retire the clap

  • @shylonyahweh2485
    @shylonyahweh2485 Рік тому +2

    Thanks Ams this Video just made me a better person.

  • @Flex4LX
    @Flex4LX Рік тому +1

    AMS is on 🔥 again! After F&F, other collabs, live phone calls, and relevant videos!!! He a true OG.

  • @MERLIN_313
    @MERLIN_313 Рік тому +1

    Awesome growth retirement of the hand clap... love your style Bro

  • @b9479
    @b9479 Рік тому +5

    Great video ams, real friends are HARD to come by, you're lucky if you have 2 real friends in life, I've only had one really close friend that was like a brother suddenly pass and I'm still hurt behind that

  • @Tyranjonesjr
    @Tyranjonesjr Рік тому +10

    I trust yo words AMS 💪🏾

  • @sherwyn390
    @sherwyn390 Рік тому +1

    We up
    EDIT THANKS FOR THE LIKE BRO BEEN WATCHING FOR THE PAST FEW MONTHS YOU FITX AN THE GUYS OPENED MY EYES MUCH LOVE

  • @Chris-ms7ed
    @Chris-ms7ed Рік тому +27

    I feel you ams on the constructive criticism part, but I just can’t be friends with someone who can’t take criticism. It’s just frustrating. I had to stop being friends with someone I knew since 2018 because of that and honestly I don’t feel bad.

    • @rickde2709
      @rickde2709 Рік тому

      By criticize do you mean straight up negative? maybe dudes just standing up for themselves lol

  • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
    @carlosverde-datingtips7001 Рік тому +48

    Great Content! What you might need to do sometimes - is eliminate all the “negative people” from your life - like right now, if you haven’t done so already.
    If someone is not “adding value” to your life, meaning - bringing anything to the table, you need to cut them off!
    And surround yourself with people - who will help you get to where you want to be, and grow as an individual!
    Anyway, that’s my two cents.
    -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

  • @ClassicMan33
    @ClassicMan33 Рік тому +3

    You know you're the goat when you drop 3 other known UA-camrs into your hypothetical story, and it actually could go down like that with the same exact people mentioned. 💀

  • @stoodstood
    @stoodstood Рік тому +2

    it ain’t time to move on Bring back that clap ! Great topic like always

  • @dopeyqedamawi5945
    @dopeyqedamawi5945 Рік тому

    Give this man a million subs. Facts for days.

  • @gocpng4699
    @gocpng4699 Рік тому

    Great Work AMS 👍🏿

  • @phemomashiqa1474
    @phemomashiqa1474 Рік тому +1

    Ams 500k congrats!!!

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 Рік тому

    Speaking facts Ams 💯💯

  • @upactive1365
    @upactive1365 Рік тому +1

    The goat 🙌🏽 another banger

  • @ElcockDane
    @ElcockDane Рік тому +3

    It's the HodgeTwins impersation for me. Spot on!!!!

  • @dujuanjohnson5025
    @dujuanjohnson5025 Рік тому +11

    I have to disagree on one thing. A TRUE friend is gonna tell you about yourself and hold you accountable. Not be your YES man. Yea it comes off as judge-mental but it’s really constructive criticism. You have to take it with a grain of salt.

  • @Jontfs300
    @Jontfs300 Рік тому +3

    I love how I don’t feel bad after hearing the same stuff I am about hanging out with guys.

  • @AnonymousBS_X
    @AnonymousBS_X 10 місяців тому +1

    A secret outside of 1 person is no longer a secret.

  • @edelcrz
    @edelcrz Рік тому +1

    Congrats on the 500k

  • @Tyranjonesjr
    @Tyranjonesjr Рік тому +3

    Almost @ half a million 💪🏾🔥💯

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 Рік тому

    Great vid AMS💯

  • @TJAYEEE
    @TJAYEEE Рік тому +8

    I would have never thought this day would come where Ams retired the clap and the hand rub

  • @Louie4894
    @Louie4894 Рік тому +2

    RIP to the clap. Still love the videos AMS!

  • @birdmanfancy9627
    @birdmanfancy9627 Рік тому

    New energy from my guy ‼️

  • @TheShinyDwarf1
    @TheShinyDwarf1 Рік тому +5

    I had a friend that broke all of these RULES!!!

  • @brandonofla
    @brandonofla Рік тому +1

    that needy part of the video hit the spot,
    i got a few bros like that in my life.
    it's the kind that's not doing the self improvement but want results still.
    that can bring a good player down over time. i wanna shake that up off me.

  • @princekaponde577
    @princekaponde577 Рік тому +4

    Yeah man. I don’t even trust Ams 💪🏾. Great video again

  • @kylstreet3092
    @kylstreet3092 Рік тому

    Appreciate you retiring the clap intro big Dawg

  • @benchristopher9802
    @benchristopher9802 Рік тому +1

    Funny when ams says hope this video won't be too long... OG we wouldn't mind a 2h video homie

  • @matchhunter7012
    @matchhunter7012 Рік тому

    Underestimated this video based on the title. Good all round information. One thing i do NOT do anymore is be friends with TAKERS !

  • @youngmarcy7087
    @youngmarcy7087 Рік тому

    RIP THE CLAP but great video big dawg !!

  • @ayokerv1972
    @ayokerv1972 Рік тому +5

    Let’s gooo, AMS the best dating coach out there

  • @Houston_Realtor
    @Houston_Realtor Рік тому +3

    Hodge twins!! Damn, that’s a throwback!

  • @Reaper54
    @Reaper54 Рік тому

    Not the clap that was the best part of ya content that was the brand big homie

  • @DrAAbid-dh4us
    @DrAAbid-dh4us Рік тому +1

    You are a smart man. I hope you all the happiness in the world.

  • @papachulisimo910
    @papachulisimo910 Рік тому

    Right... From start to end. Thx

  • @qcfgaminginc5427
    @qcfgaminginc5427 Рік тому +1

    Shout out to the OG 💯

  • @zackkan4412
    @zackkan4412 Рік тому

    Very intetesting. Thank you

  • @mapledip3806
    @mapledip3806 Рік тому +3

    this boutta be an instant classic

  • @TH3ROCKSTAR
    @TH3ROCKSTAR Рік тому +2

    I got a good laugh from him mimicking hodge twins! 😅

  • @nate4524
    @nate4524 Рік тому +1

    An underrated topic that was essential to be discussed. You want to become a positive influence in your friendships and romantic relationships, but you also want to be around high-value people who you want to emulate in life. If someone is not adding any value into your life as it is transactional then you need to remove him out of your life. Thank you AMS for this advice! I appreciate you brother!

  • @hulohose2876
    @hulohose2876 Рік тому

    AMS i love you. Thanks for all u do G

  • @brianbaptiste4666
    @brianbaptiste4666 Рік тому

    The intro might’ve changed but you never have AMS. Keep sharpening us.

  • @lilredtharapper88
    @lilredtharapper88 Рік тому +3

    I learned that the hard way yesterday

  • @Dram305
    @Dram305 Рік тому +2

    Clap👏🏿 whats good fellas ain't gonna lie... gonna miss that.

  • @gabrielgiron4273
    @gabrielgiron4273 Рік тому +1

    Noooo! RIP to the Clap 👏🏻 😭
    That shit is so iconic, my boy and I always joke about it! Quintessential AMS lmao sad to see it go

  • @norm1815
    @norm1815 Рік тому

    17:31 PREACH that is straight up facts and then when they get dumped they be up in your phone trying to go out.

  • @omg1820
    @omg1820 Рік тому +1

    The legend drop it again 💥BooM

  • @renleekartum4207
    @renleekartum4207 Рік тому

    500k subs! AMS!

  • @rythmn2818
    @rythmn2818 Рік тому

    Not the clap AMS🤣 that shit is part of the experience

  • @bwayne8274
    @bwayne8274 Рік тому

    AMS we need the clap!! 👏🏾

  • @nirvana3327
    @nirvana3327 Рік тому

    500K Soon 🔥🔥🔥

  • @MrDatniccalazy
    @MrDatniccalazy Рік тому +4

    Don’t be judgmental you’re right !

  • @callmesire8457
    @callmesire8457 Рік тому

    From S Carolina keep rockin AMS

  • @go2zzzpm889
    @go2zzzpm889 Рік тому +2

    Great men don't trust nobody... but Is trustworthy