James - "I'm not doing anything unless I can see you. Someone could get hurt." - This guy is a friend anyone would be lucky to have. His head is on straight and his heart is enormous.
Elsa. You are entirely correct and should clean your worksite as you go. It’s called organization. Makes for an easier job for everyone concerned. You go girl!
James and Doreen are absolute treasures of people!!! omg I could listen to their stories and knowledge for hours and days and omg they need a youtube channel!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank you again for bringing us along on this incredible journey!!! I cannot believe it has been 5 years or more of watching your lives. jfc that is creepy isnt it. LOL love from Oregon!!!!!!!
My dad is almost 93, and like James, he always "knew a guy" who could fix something or lend us tools. Recently, I had to tell him that all the guys he knew are dead and their sons are retired, and we have to hire someone to make repairs or rent the tools. Thanks for sharing your incredible journey.
I live with my grandpa, who just turned 90 - this year he built a shed, multiple decks, made me an office and repaired half the house he just bought (which started by him renovating a garage into a workshop). These dudes are legends
I'm one of those people who always knew a guy. Unfortunately, they are all gone now. My dad wasn't around and a legend of a human took me under his wing and taught me to ride motorcycles and drive a dump truck, and so much more . He just passed this last Christmas eve of dementia. I don't wish that on anyone. I'm so blessed to have had this man in my life. I still know a guy. He's my husband and he just built out a van for us to travel on the cheap. It's awesome! I hope your dad never suffers and never forgets who you are. Blessings.
I’ll be honest with you, this is one of the coolest builds I’ve ever seen by a homeowner. The coolest being the “My Self Reliance” style basically all manual log homes, but boy y’all are doing such an Amazing build and style. Super impressed, and yes I also do some building myself.
Absolutely amazing! I could feel the stress...and wanted to cry with you, Elsa. By the way, tears are a sign of strength, not weakness. Tears show how beautifully vulnerable we are in every situation...we just choose with whom we share that kind of strength. Thank you for being authentic in this vast world of people you don't know personally. The beams are gorgeous, and what a testament to all the hard work you've all done.
I really love your friendship with James and Doreen. And the story about the wedding gifts has given me inspiration for a wedding ceremony I'm writing to officiate my niece's wedding in December. The gift isn't the "thing," it's the people who show up. The stuff helps you, but the people sustain you. My best "grown up" advice, as a 56 yr old, has always been to collect people, not things. You've done that and it's lovely to see.
I will be honest. I was holding my breath while the beams were being seated. The next 2 beams i did a fast forward... I FELT STRESSED!!! Someone told me once that if a marriage can survive a home being built... IT CAN SURVIVE ANYTHING. I THINK THERE'S SOMETHING TO THAT... GREAT JOB GUYS!!!
Lots of behind-the-scenes. Stress. Anxiety. Excitement. Anticipation. Joy. Friendship. Educational opportunities. Hang in there Elsa, Baron & all. U R all doing an amazing job!
“James knows a guy” needs to be the title of something. Yay for Doreen being in the video! I loved the wedding story and the “receipts” of the scratched pan bottom. Elsa, I am sure I’d cry too, it’s so emotional and stressful. I’m not sure your “Baron and I have little to no experience” disclaimer is entirely accurate at this point, what an amazing learning experience you are having. The beams are beautiful! Thank you so much for taking the time and putting forth the considerable effort to film all this for us. Take care.
You’re also building memories that will inspire and fascinate everyone in the future stories told. “Do you remember when we installed those massive timbers? And no one was injured in the process…mostly because James was leading the build”. Savor every moment. In a couple blinks, you’ll be living in the new house and planning the next project. We continue to love watching what you guys share. ❤️
Hard to imagine the level of love and connection you are going to have with your home once completed- you two literally built it with your bare hands (with a little help from your friends and you too, Kamp!)
Your Neighbor is such a gem! He seams like so much fun to be around. The house is looking fantastic!!!! When you added the oil to the beams they just popped!! I love how all the natural parts of the log stood out. Cant wait to see it fully done. :)
Elsa, crying is a sign of strength, not weakness. It takes a lot of strength to just feel your feelings instead of pressing them down. Crying is how our bodies balance stress and anxiety. It’s totally normal and healthy to cry when you’re doing something new and scary.
What a major accomplishment! I’m in awe of every single person in your group working to provide you with a home! One you can walk around in, stand up in and live. Like really live. Learning and doing. These people will be your everything………. Will you have a large soaking tub ?? I hope the lady of the house has one!! A wedding would be nice once completed. Agree?? 💝❤🎉🙏🎈
Crying is a release, and you have a lot happening! It’s stressful, intimidating, exciting, and many more emotions you might not be able to put into words. Let yourself cry! 👏🏼
I love how authentic all your videos are. Many creators lose their authenticity as their channel grows. Both of you have stayed humble and kept your channel real. Your home is going to be amazing and will be filled with a lifetime of memories.
One of the top 5 stressors in life is _moving_ ! Can't imagine how high "building your own house without any real personal knowledge of how to complete such a task, hoping that it doesn't end up terrible, falling apart, someone getting hurt, the clock ticking toward Winter," etc, etc,... would rank. I'd be doing _exactly_ what you do, girl. *Hide and cry for a bit* (or sometimes driving for a bit and listening to tunes.) Then blow your nose ten times, look in the mirror, hope your nose isn't too red, and go back to stress-camp! We love ya, Elsa. You are one tough, beautiful, talented, _real_ woman. ❤
Elsa, you amazing, fierce person. My Mama bear instinct kicked in and I wanted to give you a big hug as I cried with you. In that moment that is what you needed. Crying isn't a weakness, crying when you are stressed is good for your overall well-being. Apparently Barron's stress relief is dancing.
When you have 'clutter' or 'work materials' all around, it creates chaos in my mind. So YES Elsa, you did a great job of clean-up before the next phase begins! Congratulations on getting those huge, huge logs up-wow!
Great job you guys! I'm so happy you all crossed paths with James and Doreen. It was truly meant to be. Your friendship will always be that family kind. Stay safe, can hardly wait for the next one. You earned that cry Elsa, go ahead anytime.
Elsa dont worry, I think some of us are crying along with you. I was literally gripping the edge of my breakfast table while watching that first beam go in. Thank you for sharing the good, bad and ugly of this process. I hope to be doing the same in a few years. Much live from Alabama.
Elsa you rock. So proud of you for being vulnerable. We all need to be more vulnerable and raw. Crying is so so so good for you. It resets your chakra system and it's just helpful for releasing energy. I can't imagine how hectic it would be to build a house. It's stressful even when you're not the builder so I hear. The thing is to always keep crying, keep growing, and keeping learning about yourself and others. Love y'all. The house looks so great. Y'all are so cool. Can't wait to meet you both one day! 💗😎
Man, I felt for you in that moment Elsa. I been there but when you see the end result after all the literal sweat and tears, it’s the most monumental and profound feeling of your entire existence. You only go through building your First house once so try to enjoy the little triumphs along the way no matter how minuscule. AND FYI you are far from wimpy. Geesh the amount of hats you wear and talents you possess inspires me daily. I come to this page to get my happy fix so that moment reminded me,1. Elsa is human and has true emotions like the rest of us 2. You gotta check on those strong lil soldiers like Elsa Rae. Keep going boo. You got this
And dear Elsa, you are so so so strong! Thank you for showing the vulnerability of tears, You are very good at balancing mental and physical self-care! Anyone would lose it every now and then Building a house for the first time in the middle of the mountains where it takes many large vehicles and many large trucks I’ve never seen besides Tonka toys :-)thank you for sharing!
WOW! It has been a bit since I checked in on your home... it is absolutely stunning so far! I love the rawness of the wood & the warm tones. You are both amazing. Elsa, always love your honesty and realness. Big hug to you all!
When this process is finally done and you have a full completed house I’ll bet the both of you might have a well deserved cry. The tears will be of pride in what you’ve accomplished, a realization that the stress factor is mostly gone. You will look at that house and say, look what we did!
Elsa, I cried with you and just wanted to wrap you in a hug! Everything is coming together so beautifully and y’all continue to be a great inspiration. Thank you for being vulnerable, you and sharing your lives! ❤️
I LOVE the look of wood and block. How exciting to see your home come together. Soon there will be a warm fire 🔥 and the aroma of dinner cooking while you admire what you and your friends have done. All cherished memories to last a lifetime and beyond. Thanks for sharing. I’m crying with you Elsa, tears of happiness.
It looks amazing. It is very emotional watching your house come up. I can imagine how you feel Elsa. I would be crying too if it was mine. You're very proud and scared something will happen at the same time. It's going to be a fabulous house. Your neighbors are such wonderful people. I'm so glad y'all are such good friends. I enjoyed this video see y'all in the next one
We love James and Doreen. They are such amazing people!!! You guys are so blessed to have them in your life. I can't wait for your home to be done!! It is going to be EPIC!!!
I'm litterly holding my breath while you guys are putting those logs into place. Elsa, I can well understand how you have to remove yourself for a few minutes to let all that tension out! This is so incredible to watch, I check every day to see the latest upgrade, just fascinating!
building a home is stressful and you all are doing an amazing job working together. I enjoy watching the process very much. Makes me appreciate my builder husband that much more. I don't know if you have reflected on it but it seems in the process of buying your land and building your home you have acquired a small and wonderful community.
I agree. I hope by showing them to the world that people become inspired to live with similar generosity and kindness that that hold. I plan to do a legitimate documentary on them and their fascinating story as soon as we have a little bit more time.
Awww Elsa don’t you fret about things. This is a huge learning experience for both of you. Crying is our bodies releasing stress. It’s a daily event with me & my energy returns when I’m done. The house is looking awesome. Those beams after the linseed oil-yowza wowza!!! Hugs and love to you guys ❤️❤️
As someone who has been a woman on construction sites with mostly men, Elsa, I want to commend your resilience and determination here. I can see all these little micro-aggressions happening (I'm not saying anyone here is a horrible person) and on top of the stress of what's going on that's really challenging to bear. Barron, you're doing a great job navigating all of this too. It's amazing to have experienced leaders to help you out, that is really special, but yeah, sometimes there are ego obstacles (from everyone involved) that can make it that much harder. I think you both are very graceful, gracious, lucky and deserving all at once.
If you saw any ego or "micro aggressions" then I suggest there is something wrong with your perception. All I saw was a bunch of terrific people working hard and overcoming building/personal challenges.
@@JohnSmith-ev1sm I'm not saying they aren't terrific people or that they have intended any ill will. When I say micro-aggression this is what I mean: "indirect, subtle, or unintentional discrimination against members of a marginalized group". It's easy to miss and it doesn't mean I think there are any bad people here. As a woman who has worked in construction and experienced similar things I know it's rough. I didn't mean this as a dig on anyone but rather to offer emotional support to Elsa or anyone else who might resonate. I think it's important for people to be able to reflect on how their actions or behaviors impact others, and I can imagine why you might feel protective of some of the people in this video and I appreciate your standing up for them. That being said, I stand by my original statement.
@@leighannenight I'm not feeling protective. I'm suggesting "micro aggression" is something akin to wanting to feel victimized for everything under the sun. I saw one woman in there who was swinging beams around, clearly comfortable with the work she was doing and her husband and the friends she was helping out. I saw another woman admitting being stressed out, but not due to "micro aggression" but simply due to the building process and feeling insecure due to her lack of knowledge, while also feeling exhilarated and happy with the process and her ever increasing skills and knowledge. In short, you'll probably be much happier in life if you stop looking for "micro agressions" and signs of being victimized and marginalized. You can choose to be upset by every tiny insignificant detail in life, or you can choose to live happy. I'm not suggesting you didn't have a bad experience, I'm saying in this video I saw no such thing.
@@JohnSmith-ev1sm In the video there is a tense scene where they're trying to lay a beam down. What they are doing is highly dangerous both to their physical being and to the project but it's a necessary step. Several people are yelling at each other and there is a point where Barron has tell everyone to stop and take a second to breath. Then James is shown explaining that he will not do an action without being able to see what he is doing (which is totally reasonable), but there is an implication that there was an expectation there which was not communicated. A little later, Elsa refers to the last video that they published in which she omitted a scene of her crying. If you watched that video, you will see James picking at Elsa as she tries to complete a task. He is giving her reasonable advice but there is a palpable adversarial tone there, questioning her ability to do a seemingly simple task. With all that context in place, it is not unreasonable or incorrect to perceive micro-aggressions taking place. This statement that you made, "In short, you'll probably be much happier in life if you stop looking for "micro agressions" and signs of being victimized and marginalized. You can choose to be upset by every tiny insignificant detail in life, or you can choose to live happy." can be viewed as a micro-aggression. "every tiny insignificant detail"? If it made someone have to go cry alone in a car than it's not insignificant. By saying this: "I'm suggesting "micro aggression" is something akin to wanting to feel victimized for everything under the sun." You have implied that I (the person you are responding to) is seeking to feel victimized despite the fact that you don't know me at all. That is another example of a micro-aggression. It doesn't mean you're a bad person it just means that maybe you just don't get where I am coming from which is okay. (and yes, that last statement that I made there could also be viewed as a micro-aggression if you like.) I'm commenting on this because you directly challenged me and I would like to clarify my point. Why are you so hyper-focused on the fact that I, a complete stranger, used the term micro-aggression? By definition the word applies whether you personally see it or not. Why does it matter to you if I acknowledge that I may have had a similar experience with micro-aggressions? I reiterate that my original comment was for other people who see it and can relate (and by the fact that other people have liked my comment I take that to mean some people do, which in my eyes makes it a worthwhile comment.
I want to also note that I am not trying to speak for Elsa here. I don't know if she perceives this in the way I do, but I do really appreciate that she is showing us vulnerability. Additionally, I want to add that, in regards to the situations I describe in some of my other comments, that all parties seemed to have recovered and handled the these situations gracefully. That goes for Elsa, Barron and also James.
Wow, you guys. This is intense! Elsa, you have every right to break down once in a while. You guys are doing an extraordinary job, and it's so great you have such incredible support and help!
Cleaning up a worksite is VERY IMPORTANT. Good going, Elsa. The hoisting of logs and heavy machinery is sexy, but everyone's safety depends on that cleaning up.
Elsa, You rock! Your can do attitude, vigorous cleanup of site were inspiring. I wanted to cry with you when those real log beams were finally in place.
I've been a silent follower sin e you guys first got this land it feels like this has been everything for you guys and seeing you two build and grow on the land is amazing and inspiring ! You guys are so proud of yourself and its so good to watch 🙏✌️ good luck and peace with the rest of your venture
I appreciate your transparency! One of the main reasons I love this channel, you two are always real with the viewers and that’s hard to find. The build looks beautiful and I’m so excited for you two to have your dream home.
I cry too when I'm stressed! I tend to get numb when the stress is happening so I often will spend 30min watching videos of soldiers returning home to their pets and the Too Cute TV show from Animal planet as those tend to make me happy cry and it helps a ton. If you don't have time for a full cry, I recommend finding a song that really makes you want to dance and spending the entire time moving your body like a crazy person. I always use Dancing Queen by Abba and it helps a ton.
Ah Elsa your sharing the stress you are going thru with the construction of your home...omw I felt for you when you shared how you would go into the Van and cry....let it out girl....the tears will soon be tears of great joy....and your very kind neighbors are always there to lend a hand...it's going to be a job well done by the team....take care be safe on site ...till the next phase..across the miles from.S.A.
I cried too, but tears of happiness for you!! These videos have always been a treat for me every week, but especially so since you started building your house. It's great to see the beams come in! Thank you for sharing!
Very good idea to do cleanup, Elsa. It's essential for maintaining organization. The beams looked nice with the linseed oil. Lifting them with the lifter and placing them on top was very intense for sure. It looked like the one log was cracking along the notched end. Hope I'm wrong. James and Doreen are a blessing. Great help and advice.
It's looking amazing guys! What wonderful friends you have made in James and Doreen! They are awesome people. I am so excited for you all building your home .I hope to have that experience one day. I want a tiny home..that's all I would need or want. I am 59 ..my children are grown .I live with my daughter and her family. I have leukemia so not really able to do a lot. I have been living vicariously through you all and all of my other UA-cam friends for a few years now. I can't wait until you finish your home and decorate it..it will be fantastic I know.. I can see it now. Love you guys very much
Sometimes all you need is a good cry. I've never built a house so I can't imagine how stressful it must be for you guys, but when you look at your completed house you can say we did it, we built our home 💪😊 Sending love and hugs to you both ❤️🤗
Wow! Just wow!! Elsa I could cry with you. It’s amazing watching your home build step by step. Y’all, James, Doreen and crew are so knowledgeable and know exactly how to work with the logs. The logs and their notches reminded me of Lincoln Log building toys my son had. This is going to be one fabulous home and thank you for taking us along with videos. These videos will mean so much to you and Barron in years to come.I know you have so much going on editing and building …. great big thank you. So look forward to your next video.
So exciting! You two are beasts! You lift things those of us who are lesser humans, strength-wise, could never do! Wow! Great progress! So excited for the next installment!
It is just surreal that you and Barron' ended up picking a property that unknowingly to both of you at the time had exactly the right neighbors you needed, with exactly the right experience, knowlwdge.skills and resources whi were willing to share. Just an amazing community, as you all help each other out in so many ways. Need more of that in the world today.
I'm so impresses with all your progress. James is an awesome resource of other resources you need for your home build. This build must exceed all your dreams of a home in the rockies.😊
Wow ! Love seeing the progress you are making on the house. James and Doreen so cool to be sharing their knowledge with you. Suck up all that knowledge and pass it on to others - that is what makes this world a great place.
Every time I watch you all add more to your new home, its seems larger and larger. I’m sure you’ve envisioned yourself living here, but all this space has to feel super exciting and a little overwhelming? It’s been inspiring watching this unfold for you all!
Elsa, thank you for sharing that you have crying moments when things get to be a lot. It helps me feel less alone in how I sometimes react to projects I’m doing!
All of the stress and the highs and lows, comes along with doing things like this. Trying to build it correct, perfect, is just an easy stress building factor, perhaps you guys need a weekend away to recharge! Don’t ever feel bad for feeling. Much love
When you're all moved in, you could print off and hang some pictures or video stills of the house's progress as it was being built. It would be such a cool conversation piece to have in your house!
I related to this on a spiritual level. Back last winter when I set the Trusses for my steel house, I was a nervous wreck. I SHOULD have rented a telehandler, but instead thought I could manage with the front end loader on my tractor. It was very terrifying, and quite dangerous. A miscommunication between me and the guy operating actually twisted one of the beams out of square, but i was able to get it bent back mostly where it needed to be. Stressful, but worth it !
So blessed you are.. I have loved seeing your progress.. from living in the scamp and traveling around to finally having your own place to plant roots. 💕
I love the way you guys all work together the teamwork is what makes the dream work for sure thank you James and Doreen for helping these kids realize their dream
I don't blame you for the tears. This is a huge undertaking and it's exhausting but rewarding work. Watching your home develop has been inspiring and educational for me.
This is such a fun process to watch, but I can absolutely understand the emotions and stress you’re experiencing. One day you’ll look back with a sense of awe that … YOU did this!!! Congratulations on progress made. 👏👏👏
Things are coming along very nicely. I am so happy for the both of you. It’s so great that James and Doreen are so very nice to help you. I know your going to end up with a beautiful home.
I understand the tears when such an important process is underway and you really don’t know exactly what to do….enjoy the process as best as you can, you have a great asset having your neighbor, ( who was a contractor) which is huge. It’s looking so good. enjoy!
*That was amazing* I literally held my breath pretty much the whole time! I too would be crying Elsa. I'm so excited for you both. Thanks for sharing the real journey. :) Can't wait for the next video.
Doreen and James are your incredible guardian neighbors, if I were religious I’d say angels, love the playfulness, wisdom and respect for safety! Linseed oil will need to be reapplied every few years but the natural scent makes the home a bit cozy in its own way! I used to sing a made up ditty to the kiddos ‘it’s okay to cry when you’re happy, cry when you’re sad, cry when you’re scared and cry when you’re mad, let it go, let it go, let all the tears flow until you find peace in your soul’. May this journey continue to be filled with the vastness of all that is good about living on this planet!
James - "I'm not doing anything unless I can see you. Someone could get hurt." - This guy is a friend anyone would be lucky to have. His head is on straight and his heart is enormous.
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Elsa. You are entirely correct and should clean your worksite as you go. It’s called organization. Makes for an easier job for everyone concerned. You go girl!
it also greatly reduces the potential for accidents= falling down from an ill placed item
My husband has always had a “clean as you go” work routine as the mess makes him totally lose focus!
@@earnierosenow9834 Yes, I was going to mention that aspect as well. One less random piece of debris is one less opportunity for short unhappy trip.
And look at all that fire wood off cuts.
She made everything easier for everyone by cleaning. What a girl she is.
James and Doreen are absolute treasures of people!!! omg I could listen to their stories and knowledge for hours and days and omg they need a youtube channel!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank you again for bringing us along on this incredible journey!!! I cannot believe it has been 5 years or more of watching your lives. jfc that is creepy isnt it. LOL love from Oregon!!!!!!!
My dad is almost 93, and like James, he always "knew a guy" who could fix something or lend us tools. Recently, I had to tell him that all the guys he knew are dead and their sons are retired, and we have to hire someone to make repairs or rent the tools. Thanks for sharing your incredible journey.
I live with my grandpa, who just turned 90 - this year he built a shed, multiple decks, made me an office and repaired half the house he just bought (which started by him renovating a garage into a workshop). These dudes are legends
@@XusernamegoeshereX Good for him. My dad is still doing most of his own home repairs and his hobby is driving his tractor.
I'm one of those people who always knew a guy. Unfortunately, they are all gone now. My dad wasn't around and a legend of a human took me under his wing and taught me to ride motorcycles and drive a dump truck, and so much more . He just passed this last Christmas eve of dementia. I don't wish that on anyone. I'm so blessed to have had this man in my life. I still know a guy. He's my husband and he just built out a van for us to travel on the cheap. It's awesome! I hope your dad never suffers and never forgets who you are. Blessings.
I’ll be honest with you, this is one of the coolest builds I’ve ever seen by a homeowner. The coolest being the “My Self Reliance” style basically all manual log homes, but boy y’all are doing such an Amazing build and style. Super impressed, and yes I also do some building myself.
I love My Self Reliance too!!
Absolutely amazing! I could feel the stress...and wanted to cry with you, Elsa. By the way, tears are a sign of strength, not weakness. Tears show how beautifully vulnerable we are in every situation...we just choose with whom we share that kind of strength. Thank you for being authentic in this vast world of people you don't know personally. The beams are gorgeous, and what a testament to all the hard work you've all done.
Baron’s stress relief is a little dance & hug James. So adorable. I’m with Elsa. Tears are very clearing. 🥰
Those beams are GORGEOUS!!! Looks sooooo badass, loving the vibe of your home already!!!
Thanks babe!!! 🤍🤍🤍
YeS, so RaD!
I really love your friendship with James and Doreen. And the story about the wedding gifts has given me inspiration for a wedding ceremony I'm writing to officiate my niece's wedding in December. The gift isn't the "thing," it's the people who show up. The stuff helps you, but the people sustain you. My best "grown up" advice, as a 56 yr old, has always been to collect people, not things. You've done that and it's lovely to see.
I will be honest. I was holding my breath while the beams were being seated. The next 2 beams i did a fast forward... I FELT STRESSED!!! Someone told me once that if a marriage can survive a home being built... IT CAN SURVIVE ANYTHING. I THINK THERE'S SOMETHING TO THAT... GREAT JOB GUYS!!!
What a gift to have James & Doreen's wealth of knowledge, tools, experience and genius techniques! The true value of having community and friends
Lots of behind-the-scenes. Stress. Anxiety. Excitement. Anticipation. Joy. Friendship. Educational opportunities.
Hang in there Elsa, Baron & all. U R all doing an amazing job!
“James knows a guy” needs to be the title of something. Yay for Doreen being in the video! I loved the wedding story and the “receipts” of the scratched pan bottom. Elsa, I am sure I’d cry too, it’s so emotional and stressful. I’m not sure your “Baron and I have little to no experience” disclaimer is entirely accurate at this point, what an amazing learning experience you are having. The beams are beautiful! Thank you so much for taking the time and putting forth the considerable effort to film all this for us. Take care.
I loved that too
Awwww, I don’t like seeing Elsa cry, kinda broke my heart. Stay strong Elsa! You got this!!!💪🏼
You’re also building memories that will inspire and fascinate everyone in the future stories told. “Do you remember when we installed those massive timbers? And no one was injured in the process…mostly because James was leading the build”. Savor every moment. In a couple blinks, you’ll be living in the new house and planning the next project. We continue to love watching what you guys share. ❤️
Hard to imagine the level of love and connection you are going to have with your home once completed- you two literally built it with your bare hands (with a little help from your friends and you too, Kamp!)
Your Neighbor is such a gem! He seams like so much fun to be around. The house is looking fantastic!!!! When you added the oil to the beams they just popped!! I love how all the natural parts of the log stood out. Cant wait to see it fully done. :)
Elsa, crying is a sign of strength, not weakness. It takes a lot of strength to just feel your feelings instead of pressing them down. Crying is how our bodies balance stress and anxiety. It’s totally normal and healthy to cry when you’re doing something new and scary.
What a major accomplishment! I’m in awe of every single person in your group working to provide you with a home! One you can walk around in, stand up in and live. Like really live. Learning and doing. These people will be your everything………. Will you have a large soaking tub ?? I hope the lady of the house has one!! A wedding would be nice once completed. Agree?? 💝❤🎉🙏🎈
Crying is a release, and you have a lot happening! It’s stressful, intimidating, exciting, and many more emotions you might not be able to put into words. Let yourself cry! 👏🏼
I love how authentic all your videos are. Many creators lose their authenticity as their channel grows. Both of you have stayed humble and kept your channel real. Your home is going to be amazing and will be filled with a lifetime of memories.
Forever the biggest fan of the bromance that is Baron × James.
They can tease each other but also have an obvious respect for each other.
One of the top 5 stressors in life is _moving_ ! Can't imagine how high "building your own house without any real personal knowledge of how to complete such a task, hoping that it doesn't end up terrible, falling apart, someone getting hurt, the clock ticking toward Winter," etc, etc,... would rank. I'd be doing _exactly_ what you do, girl. *Hide and cry for a bit* (or sometimes driving for a bit and listening to tunes.) Then blow your nose ten times, look in the mirror, hope your nose isn't too red, and go back to stress-camp! We love ya, Elsa. You are one tough, beautiful, talented, _real_ woman. ❤
Elsa, you amazing, fierce person. My Mama bear instinct kicked in and I wanted to give you a big hug as I cried with you. In that moment that is what you needed. Crying isn't a weakness, crying when you are stressed is good for your overall well-being. Apparently Barron's stress relief is dancing.
When you have 'clutter' or 'work materials' all around, it creates chaos in my mind. So YES Elsa, you did a great job of clean-up before the next phase begins! Congratulations on getting those huge, huge logs up-wow!
Your videos are such a joy to watch. And James is a treasure.
Great job you guys! I'm so happy you all crossed paths with James and Doreen. It was truly meant to be. Your friendship will always be that family kind. Stay safe, can hardly wait for the next one. You earned that cry Elsa, go ahead anytime.
Elsa dont worry, I think some of us are crying along with you. I was literally gripping the edge of my breakfast table while watching that first beam go in. Thank you for sharing the good, bad and ugly of this process. I hope to be doing the same in a few years. Much live from Alabama.
Elsa you rock. So proud of you for being vulnerable. We all need to be more vulnerable and raw. Crying is so so so good for you. It resets your chakra system and it's just helpful for releasing energy. I can't imagine how hectic it would be to build a house. It's stressful even when you're not the builder so I hear. The thing is to always keep crying, keep growing, and keeping learning about yourself and others. Love y'all. The house looks so great. Y'all are so cool. Can't wait to meet you both one day! 💗😎
Man, I felt for you in that moment Elsa. I been there but when you see the end result after all the literal sweat and tears, it’s the most monumental and profound feeling of your entire existence. You only go through building your First house once so try to enjoy the little triumphs along the way no matter how minuscule. AND FYI you are far from wimpy. Geesh the amount of hats you wear and talents you possess inspires me daily. I come to this page to get my happy fix so that moment reminded me,1. Elsa is human and has true emotions like the rest of us 2. You gotta check on those strong lil soldiers like Elsa Rae. Keep going boo. You got this
And dear Elsa, you are so so so strong! Thank you for showing the vulnerability of tears, You are very good at balancing mental and physical self-care! Anyone would lose it every now and then Building a house for the first time in the middle of the mountains where it takes many large vehicles and many large trucks I’ve never seen besides Tonka toys :-)thank you for sharing!
WOW! It has been a bit since I checked in on your home... it is absolutely stunning so far! I love the rawness of the wood & the warm tones. You are both amazing. Elsa, always love your honesty and realness. Big hug to you all!
Thanks girl ☺️☺️
When this process is finally done and you have a full completed house I’ll bet the both of you might have a well deserved cry. The tears will be of pride in what you’ve accomplished, a realization that the stress factor is mostly gone. You will look at that house and say, look what we did!
Elsa, I cried with you and just wanted to wrap you in a hug! Everything is coming together so beautifully and y’all continue to be a great inspiration. Thank you for being vulnerable, you and sharing your lives! ❤️
James has the kind of wisdom I want to hug.
We give him LOTS of hugs!!! I'll give him one for you too!
I LOVE the look of wood and block. How exciting to see your home come together. Soon there will be a warm fire 🔥 and the aroma of dinner cooking while you admire what you and your friends have done. All cherished memories to last a lifetime and beyond. Thanks for sharing. I’m crying with you Elsa, tears of happiness.
Crying is just an emotion, I wish people weren’t so uncomfortable with tears. Feel it, and let it out! Love these videos! ❤
It looks amazing. It is very emotional watching your house come up. I can imagine how you feel Elsa. I would be crying too if it was mine. You're very proud and scared something will happen at the same time. It's going to be a fabulous house. Your neighbors are such wonderful people. I'm so glad y'all are such good friends. I enjoyed this video see y'all in the next one
We love James and Doreen. They are such amazing people!!! You guys are so blessed to have them in your life. I can't wait for your home to be done!! It is going to be EPIC!!!
I'm litterly holding my breath while you guys are putting those logs into place. Elsa, I can well understand how you have to remove yourself for a few minutes to let all that tension out! This is so incredible to watch, I check every day to see the latest upgrade, just fascinating!
Starting to look like a home. I hope you're all really proud of the work you're doing! Great job.
It’s so freakin rad!!!
Those beams stressed me out just to watch on the video.
Crying is such a healthy release! Thanks for being so raw.
building a home is stressful and you all are doing an amazing job working together. I enjoy watching the process very much. Makes me appreciate my builder husband that much more. I don't know if you have reflected on it but it seems in the process of buying your land and building your home you have acquired a small and wonderful community.
There needs to be more people in this world like James and his wife. They are amazing to invest in the next generation.
I agree. I hope by showing them to the world that people become inspired to live with similar generosity and kindness that that hold. I plan to do a legitimate documentary on them and their fascinating story as soon as we have a little bit more time.
Awww Elsa don’t you fret about things. This is a huge learning experience for both of you. Crying is our bodies releasing stress. It’s a daily event with me & my energy returns when I’m done. The house is looking awesome. Those beams after the linseed oil-yowza wowza!!! Hugs and love to you guys ❤️❤️
Love these construction videos. Lots of good memories for y’all are in the making here.
As someone who has been a woman on construction sites with mostly men, Elsa, I want to commend your resilience and determination here. I can see all these little micro-aggressions happening (I'm not saying anyone here is a horrible person) and on top of the stress of what's going on that's really challenging to bear. Barron, you're doing a great job navigating all of this too. It's amazing to have experienced leaders to help you out, that is really special, but yeah, sometimes there are ego obstacles (from everyone involved) that can make it that much harder. I think you both are very graceful, gracious, lucky and deserving all at once.
If you saw any ego or "micro aggressions" then I suggest there is something wrong with your perception. All I saw was a bunch of terrific people working hard and overcoming building/personal challenges.
@@JohnSmith-ev1sm I'm not saying they aren't terrific people or that they have intended any ill will. When I say micro-aggression this is what I mean: "indirect, subtle, or unintentional discrimination against members of a marginalized group". It's easy to miss and it doesn't mean I think there are any bad people here. As a woman who has worked in construction and experienced similar things I know it's rough. I didn't mean this as a dig on anyone but rather to offer emotional support to Elsa or anyone else who might resonate.
I think it's important for people to be able to reflect on how their actions or behaviors impact others, and I can imagine why you might feel protective of some of the people in this video and I appreciate your standing up for them. That being said, I stand by my original statement.
@@leighannenight I'm not feeling protective. I'm suggesting "micro aggression" is something akin to wanting to feel victimized for everything under the sun. I saw one woman in there who was swinging beams around, clearly comfortable with the work she was doing and her husband and the friends she was helping out. I saw another woman admitting being stressed out, but not due to "micro aggression" but simply due to the building process and feeling insecure due to her lack of knowledge, while also feeling exhilarated and happy with the process and her ever increasing skills and knowledge.
In short, you'll probably be much happier in life if you stop looking for "micro agressions" and signs of being victimized and marginalized. You can choose to be upset by every tiny insignificant detail in life, or you can choose to live happy.
I'm not suggesting you didn't have a bad experience, I'm saying in this video I saw no such thing.
@@JohnSmith-ev1sm In the video there is a tense scene where they're trying to lay a beam down. What they are doing is highly dangerous both to their physical being and to the project but it's a necessary step. Several people are yelling at each other and there is a point where Barron has tell everyone to stop and take a second to breath. Then James is shown explaining that he will not do an action without being able to see what he is doing (which is totally reasonable), but there is an implication that there was an expectation there which was not communicated. A little later, Elsa refers to the last video that they published in which she omitted a scene of her crying. If you watched that video, you will see James picking at Elsa as she tries to complete a task. He is giving her reasonable advice but there is a palpable adversarial tone there, questioning her ability to do a seemingly simple task. With all that context in place, it is not unreasonable or incorrect to perceive micro-aggressions taking place.
This statement that you made, "In short, you'll probably be much happier in life if you stop looking for "micro agressions" and signs of being victimized and marginalized. You can choose to be upset by every tiny insignificant detail in life, or you can choose to live happy." can be viewed as a micro-aggression. "every tiny insignificant detail"? If it made someone have to go cry alone in a car than it's not insignificant. By saying this: "I'm suggesting "micro aggression" is something akin to wanting to feel victimized for everything under the sun." You have implied that I (the person you are responding to) is seeking to feel victimized despite the fact that you don't know me at all. That is another example of a micro-aggression. It doesn't mean you're a bad person it just means that maybe you just don't get where I am coming from which is okay. (and yes, that last statement that I made there could also be viewed as a micro-aggression if you like.)
I'm commenting on this because you directly challenged me and I would like to clarify my point. Why are you so hyper-focused on the fact that I, a complete stranger, used the term micro-aggression? By definition the word applies whether you personally see it or not. Why does it matter to you if I acknowledge that I may have had a similar experience with micro-aggressions?
I reiterate that my original comment was for other people who see it and can relate (and by the fact that other people have liked my comment I take that to mean some people do, which in my eyes makes it a worthwhile comment.
I want to also note that I am not trying to speak for Elsa here. I don't know if she perceives this in the way I do, but I do really appreciate that she is showing us vulnerability.
Additionally, I want to add that, in regards to the situations I describe in some of my other comments, that all parties seemed to have recovered and handled the these situations gracefully. That goes for Elsa, Barron and also James.
Wow, you guys. This is intense! Elsa, you have every right to break down once in a while. You guys are doing an extraordinary job, and it's so great you have such incredible support and help!
Having a clean work space is one of the most important steps as it helps to keep injuries down and helps with the flow of work. Great job!
There is no amount of money that can replace this love and friendships!!!
Things are looking great . Your all such hard workers and your so lucky to have James! Your so smart to keep the job site clean!
Cleaning up a worksite is VERY IMPORTANT. Good going, Elsa. The hoisting of logs and heavy machinery is sexy, but everyone's safety depends on that cleaning up.
Elsa,
You rock!
Your can do attitude, vigorous cleanup of site were inspiring. I wanted to cry with you when those real log beams were finally in place.
I've been a silent follower sin e you guys first got this land it feels like this has been everything for you guys and seeing you two build and grow on the land is amazing and inspiring ! You guys are so proud of yourself and its so good to watch 🙏✌️ good luck and peace with the rest of your venture
Every video I watch I think you both are so lucky to have James and Doreen! What incredible mentors.
I appreciate your transparency! One of the main reasons I love this channel, you two are always real with the viewers and that’s hard to find. The build looks beautiful and I’m so excited for you two to have your dream home.
You go Girl! That's handling chaos and stress like a champ in my book!
ya'll are doing amazing work, no doubt it's stressful ! Elsa you cleaned up the site real nice!
I cry too when I'm stressed! I tend to get numb when the stress is happening so I often will spend 30min watching videos of soldiers returning home to their pets and the Too Cute TV show from Animal planet as those tend to make me happy cry and it helps a ton. If you don't have time for a full cry, I recommend finding a song that really makes you want to dance and spending the entire time moving your body like a crazy person. I always use Dancing Queen by Abba and it helps a ton.
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More, more, more... we want more!
It's amazing watching your house come together. I'm so excited for you guys.
Looking good! Incorporating the wood beams really looks beautiful! Good job guys!
Ah Elsa your sharing the stress you are going thru with the construction of your home...omw I felt for you when you shared how you would go into the Van and cry....let it out girl....the tears will soon be tears of great joy....and your very kind neighbors are always there to lend a hand...it's going to be a job well done by the team....take care be safe on site ...till the next phase..across the miles from.S.A.
I cried too, but tears of happiness for you!! These videos have always been a treat for me every week, but especially so since you started building your house. It's great to see the beams come in! Thank you for sharing!
Very good idea to do cleanup, Elsa. It's essential for maintaining organization. The beams looked nice with the linseed oil. Lifting them with the lifter and placing them on top was very intense for sure. It looked like the one log was cracking along the notched end. Hope I'm wrong. James and Doreen are a blessing. Great help and advice.
It's looking amazing guys! What wonderful friends you have made in James and Doreen! They are awesome people. I am so excited for you all building your home .I hope to have that experience one day. I want a tiny home..that's all I would need or want. I am 59 ..my children are grown .I live with my daughter and her family. I have leukemia so not really able to do a lot. I have been living vicariously through you all and all of my other UA-cam friends for a few years now. I can't wait until you finish your home and decorate it..it will be fantastic I know.. I can see it now. Love you guys very much
I look forward to your videos. Thank God for James, Doreen and all the helpers that have assisted you. The progress is looking great. Love you both.
Sometimes all you need is a good cry. I've never built a house so I can't imagine how stressful it must be for you guys, but when you look at your completed house you can say we did it, we built our home 💪😊 Sending love and hugs to you both ❤️🤗
Wow! Just wow!! Elsa I could cry with you. It’s amazing watching your home build step by step. Y’all, James, Doreen and crew are so knowledgeable and know exactly how to work with the logs. The logs and their notches reminded me of Lincoln Log building toys my son had. This is going to be one fabulous home and thank you for taking us along with videos. These videos will mean so much to you and Barron in years to come.I know you have so much going on editing and building …. great big thank you. So look forward to your next video.
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So exciting! You two are beasts! You lift things those of us who are lesser humans, strength-wise, could never do! Wow! Great progress! So excited for the next installment!
Hey Elsa Rhae! Tears are they body's way of releasing stress Im glad you included those shots 😃 maybe we can normalize them!
It is just surreal that you and Barron' ended up picking a property that unknowingly to both of you at the time had exactly the right neighbors you needed, with exactly the right experience, knowlwdge.skills and resources whi were willing to share. Just an amazing community, as you all help each other out in so many ways. Need more of that in the world today.
It is so serendipitous that it feels divine and connected, like all the rest of our lives had led up to this point.🤍
I'm so impresses with all your progress. James is an awesome resource of other resources you need for your home build. This build must exceed all your dreams of a home in the rockies.😊
Thank you for sharing your build process with us, AND for being REAL about your emotions. What a WONDERFUL community of good folks 💓! !!
Wow ! Love seeing the progress you are making on the house. James and Doreen so cool to be sharing their knowledge with you. Suck up all that knowledge and pass it on to others - that is what makes this world a great place.
Every time I watch you all add more to your new home, its seems larger and larger. I’m sure you’ve envisioned yourself living here, but all this space has to feel super exciting and a little overwhelming? It’s been inspiring watching this unfold for you all!
Elsa, thank you for sharing that you have crying moments when things get to be a lot. It helps me feel less alone in how I sometimes react to projects I’m doing!
All of the stress and the highs and lows, comes along with doing things like this. Trying to build it correct, perfect, is just an easy stress building factor, perhaps you guys need a weekend away to recharge! Don’t ever feel bad for feeling. Much love
When you're all moved in, you could print off and hang some pictures or video stills of the house's progress as it was being built. It would be such a cool conversation piece to have in your house!
Love this idea!!!
This house is going to be amazing!!Can't wait to see it done with decor and all!
James and Doreen are precious. What a blessing to have such wonderful mentors and friends!
I related to this on a spiritual level. Back last winter when I set the Trusses for my steel house, I was a nervous wreck. I SHOULD have rented a telehandler, but instead thought I could manage with the front end loader on my tractor. It was very terrifying, and quite dangerous. A miscommunication between me and the guy operating actually twisted one of the beams out of square, but i was able to get it bent back mostly where it needed to be. Stressful, but worth it !
So blessed you are.. I have loved seeing your progress.. from living in the scamp and traveling around to finally having your own place to plant roots. 💕
I just rewatched this episode. I cried with you! So amazing knowing you're in your home now.
we all reach the "mess limit" and restoring order helps with the mental health while the process continues. great team effort!
I love the way you guys all work together the teamwork is what makes the dream work for sure thank you James and Doreen for helping these kids realize their dream
Your house is really taking shape, it looks amazing!!🇨🇦
Wow!!! Brilliant!!!!! So excited for this! The tension is palpable!!!!!!! Bless James for his experience and caring!
I don't blame you for the tears. This is a huge undertaking and it's exhausting but rewarding work. Watching your home develop has been inspiring and educational for me.
This is such a fun process to watch, but I can absolutely understand the emotions and stress you’re experiencing. One day you’ll look back with a sense of awe that … YOU did this!!! Congratulations on progress made. 👏👏👏
James is a legend. Love the progress you guys are making. House looks great
Hey, crying is a perfectly wonderful way to release excess emotion! Looks amazing and wow do y'all have some true friends!
Things are coming along very nicely. I am so happy for the both of you. It’s so great that James and Doreen are so very nice to help you. I know your going to end up with a beautiful home.
I understand the tears when such an important process is underway and you really don’t know exactly what to do….enjoy the process as best as you can, you have a great asset having your neighbor, ( who was a contractor) which is huge. It’s looking so good. enjoy!
*That was amazing* I literally held my breath pretty much the whole time! I too would be crying Elsa. I'm so excited for you both. Thanks for sharing the real journey. :) Can't wait for the next video.
GIRL i'll be crying from stress every. single. day. No shame!! You're doing unbelievable things
Doreen and James are your incredible guardian neighbors, if I were religious I’d say angels, love the playfulness, wisdom and respect for safety! Linseed oil will need to be reapplied every few years but the natural scent makes the home a bit cozy in its own way! I used to sing a made up ditty to the kiddos ‘it’s okay to cry when you’re happy, cry when you’re sad, cry when you’re scared and cry when you’re mad, let it go, let it go, let all the tears flow until you find peace in your soul’. May this journey continue to be filled with the vastness of all that is good about living on this planet!
Thank you for sharing your story. This is just the coolest thing to be watching. How blessed you are to be living it!!
No need for you to cry. You’re badass! Absolutely love the way the house is coming together.
I can not wait until it’s done! I know it will be awhile. So excited for you two! It will be gorgeous ❤️
Been watching you guys for 3 years and you guys have made a life experience, started from a scamp to building a home, amazing