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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024

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  • @NEMOTHEMORMON
    @NEMOTHEMORMON 3 дні тому +20

    Great to spend some time in person with Sam and Jared, thanks for giving me a place to chat about the emotional side of excommunication.
    Just because I want to be transparent, as a full-timer on UA-cam, my arrangement for charitable giving instead of tithing has not been a straight 10% for 10% swap. I should've corrected Sam properly at the time, but I wasn't sure how, but I certainly don''t want anyone leaving with the impression I'm giving a full 10% to charity.
    Cheers folks, Merry Christmas!

    • @ZelphOntheShelf
      @ZelphOntheShelf  3 дні тому +2

      Either way you’re a king and we love you sm 😘🥰💗

  • @filamhalohalo
    @filamhalohalo 4 дні тому +22

    Thank you Samantha for having Nemo on for an unscripted chat. Nemo my heart goes out to you for what you are going through. You didn't deserve it happening just for being honest. In my experience having a faith crisis is brutal & has a lot of painful emotions that others don't often understand. Having a forced exit from the church adds a deeper element. Take good care of yourself. We'll keep watching Zelph & Nemo content. ❤

  • @32flavorss
    @32flavorss 4 дні тому +16

    Your tapir shirt is INCREDIBLE!

  • @proffernot5485
    @proffernot5485 4 дні тому +13

    Commenting now so I can be the first one. Quite the pairing of two insightful and intelligent individuals here. You are dearly loved and revered. Will continue to watch, listen, and learn for as long as I'm alive and as long as you're there. ❤

  • @nyssalynn5216
    @nyssalynn5216 4 дні тому +13

    My heart breaks for you Nemo. I remember when i wasnt allowed to take the sacrament bc i was self harming, and just that made church feels alien and isolating. It was part of why I left, they didnt tell me what i needed to do to take sacrament and i iust felt horribly sinful.
    Nemo, regardless of if the church accepts you, you being a mormon or not a mormon is all on you 💛 be proud of yourself. If anything, you can see yourself as more holy bc youre worshipping in quiet ways rather than being super obvious and whatnot like folks that go to church militantly

  • @JohnLindsey-gn6vz
    @JohnLindsey-gn6vz День тому +2

    Happy Holidays! It's so good to see you both.

  • @andradanielleparrott
    @andradanielleparrott 4 дні тому +11

    Love the tapir sweater!

  • @bees4839
    @bees4839 4 дні тому +6

    Is that shirt for sale? It's amazing with the foyer couch florals behind the tapir

  • @ritaconley9544
    @ritaconley9544 4 дні тому +5

    Glad you had fun in London.❤

  • @erinclarke2715
    @erinclarke2715 3 дні тому +3

    Visiting the UK at the moment so this is a timely release!

  • @roccijay1
    @roccijay1 2 дні тому +2

    I guess it’s difficult to have to change your whole purpose and identity now. You’re still YOU and that’s a good thing!

  • @plporter
    @plporter 4 дні тому +6

    Love your shirt and Nemo!

  • @99blackbirds
    @99blackbirds 4 дні тому +7

    Nemo helps me STAY IN! I choose the 3rd path. I stay active and BURN in the middle!! I do not wear garments or pay tithing. I love the people/saints and going to church/community. I serve!! My family and kids are in too deep so I help them! I hold up two middle fingers to the leaders, especially Elder OAKS! SUCK-it Brethren!!! (Elder Uchtdorf Gets it he is good) Merry CHRIST-mas to all!🎄🎄

    • @Geoplanetjane
      @Geoplanetjane 4 дні тому +3

      Uchtdorf the silver fox, in fact rocks

    • @99blackbirds
      @99blackbirds 4 дні тому

      @@Geoplanetjane Silver Fox! LOL! yes thats awesome. He is a good looking guy. thats why they hired him! But he doesnt talk about "the Covenant path" and "OBEY". And I think growing up in Germany during world war II, he kinda understands life and the world better than all the Utards born in Brigham Youngs strict SLC UTAH! It makes you think!

    • @tararose5136
      @tararose5136 4 дні тому

      Is burning fun? Is being fake with fake ppl fun for you lmao

  • @PinkDolphinLaughing
    @PinkDolphinLaughing 4 дні тому +6

    Nemo - you don’t have to go to any ward/branch assigned to your address anymore. Now you’re a visitor (visitors welcome) so you should be welcome at any one. ;)

  • @othersheep5491
    @othersheep5491 4 дні тому +5

    Nice Shirt!!! Appeal to popularity notwithstanding, denial is the issue. They are above God’s laws. Matt G is a big sweety, and helps others at THRIVE events I’ve attended. Apostates are some of the finest people I know. Nice seeing y’all doing the real work

  • @davidc8694
    @davidc8694 2 дні тому +1

    NemoTheExMo! Fun to see you two together in one video.

  • @ZelphOntheShelf
    @ZelphOntheShelf  3 дні тому +2

    Absolutely heinous blurry bar after I moved the light so sorry

  • @serith-e7d
    @serith-e7d 4 дні тому +5

    Sam, do you think you and Tanner would have been excommunicated by now if you hadn’t left voluntarily??

  • @Britbec
    @Britbec 4 дні тому +3

    I have avoided Thrive events, honestly not even sure why. Felt a bit too raw perhaps. However, I’ve been out of the church since Summer 2019, so 5 and a bit years and since Nemo is going to be at the St. George Thrive, I think I might have to drag myself down there lol. If he promises to bring me some Tesco yeast extract, it’s a done deal. Really enjoyed you two lovelies! ❤

  • @Kristopher2022
    @Kristopher2022 4 дні тому +2

    They didn't get a chance to excommunicate me I left when I was 15 I can't imagine what it would feel like

  • @raindance1962
    @raindance1962 2 години тому

    You left with honour Nemo . It’s just another chapter of your life waiting for you.

  • @ritaconley9544
    @ritaconley9544 4 дні тому +1

    I haven’t been able to load this onto my TV. Maybe this did not render correctly. Glad to see you on my phone though.

  • @FirstNameBunchANumbers
    @FirstNameBunchANumbers 2 дні тому +2

    When you say excommunicated members can't pray in meetings, does that mean praying out loud for others? Or are they trying to keep excommunicated Mormons from praying quietly to themselves?

  • @diamonddavemctv
    @diamonddavemctv 4 дні тому +2

    I always miss the lives...

  • @markridgway8469
    @markridgway8469 4 дні тому +5

    That's a nice 'horse' on your sweatshirt, Nemo! ;)

  • @maureenjamieson9730
    @maureenjamieson9730 14 годин тому

    The audio cut out a few times. At my place around the Christmas dinner table, a few people were saying how much they liked the movie Paddington 2. 😊

  • @saegemehlfee
    @saegemehlfee 2 дні тому +1

    Nemo and Jared should get matching tattoos 😂

  • @Taslaw
    @Taslaw 13 годин тому

    Nemo/Doug I hope your commitment to your channel doesn't cause you to hold back on finding your Ex-mo identity. I'm certain you'll still have huge support so long as you continue to be honest and informative.
    Wishing you and Sam both a superb 2025🎉🥂🎆

  • @generobbins8714
    @generobbins8714 3 години тому

    00:38 what work is occurring on vacation?

  • @Themanyfacesofego
    @Themanyfacesofego День тому

    The Protestant Liberties of England I will maintain.

  • @timnewman1172
    @timnewman1172 4 дні тому

    @Nemo the Mormon, I was referring to the "Weekend at Tanner's" reference... Hope alls good with you & all your family!!!

  • @kentthalman4459
    @kentthalman4459 2 дні тому

    Are the locals empowered to state the line?

  • @plporter
    @plporter 4 дні тому +3

    Nemo that is not a rosé. 😅

  • @JanPeterson-k9k
    @JanPeterson-k9k 4 дні тому

    Tay-peer vs. tay-pee-yur just one more example of Yanks and Brits being separated by a common language . . .you are BOTH correct! 😄

  • @mrb4750
    @mrb4750 4 дні тому +1

    Shouldn’t you put a saddle on that tapir?

  • @jake8882
    @jake8882 2 дні тому

    Lol. Couldn't use the priesthood. So funny. That is bonkers

  • @uab371
    @uab371 4 дні тому +1

    Tapirs rule !

  • @unicorntamer2207
    @unicorntamer2207 4 дні тому +1

    Nemo is right about the tapir. Sorry, Sam.

  • @jennasorscia9044
    @jennasorscia9044 3 дні тому

    Not blaming you but the orientation has been showing up a lot and I can't broadcast it to my TV wo distortion. So annoying. Carry on lol.

  • @sallyostling
    @sallyostling 3 дні тому

    Sam, you look great! Your lips are very luscious.

  • @jake8882
    @jake8882 2 дні тому

    Try ethica underwear. Very comfortable, Nemo. I'll send you some.

  • @Geoplanetjane
    @Geoplanetjane 4 дні тому

    Gassho