Am I the ONLY one who's parents never gave them the talk. 🤨 I learned everything from my friends and the internet. Sex just wasnt talked about in my house
Nah, my parents never talked to me about sex either. Everything I learned came from my middle school sex ed class, the internet, and later on my own experience.
True, which is why you as the parent must arm them with knowledge first. So they will know what is true and untrue. Starting an open dialogue so that when they hear new information or misinformation from kids at school, they might come to you with it and you can set them straight.
This is why alot of people get molested and their families dont know until they are full grown.... teach your 3 year old abt their "NO NO AREA" they are at day cares AWAY FROM PARENTS where they can NOT defend themselves . Dont be selfish
My mom did the same thing! She drilled it into me from a very young age. When I got older she ended up telling me that she was molested as a child by a stranger, made sense why she made sure to make it a point of discussion.
@@alexjames2510you cant stop them there are too many crazy people out there but it helps you know thats whats happened since you know what sex is and you can explain where the person touched you using the proper terms etc .
There are different levels 9f the sex talk. Originally my child knew babies grow in mom's belly. Then, talked about appropriate touching and respecting your body. Then, menstrual cycle with a follow up. Then talk about appropriate relationships between boys and girls or even same sex couples. So it's always an ongoing thing.
I know for me... I never got the sex talk ! I ended up learning about it in about 6th grade.... not from a teacher , not from my parents... but from FRIENDS... and tbh... I never understood why parents have to sugarcoat important information and try to pretty it up instead of being straight forward and honest with their kid ! If your child is old enough to ask questions and decipher a penis from a vagina then they are old enough to know about consent and about sex ( do you need to go into detail ? Not necessarily ) but just be honest
Yes! Educate your children. They have a right to know about their own bodies and how a man and a woman become one. Sex(with intamacy) is beautiful, the body is beautiful, and it shouldn't be deemed as inappropriate as long as its absolutely consensual, responsible, and between two adults.
sex education should be a progressive learning topic not something you sit down and discuss just once. Start off with small children by just labelling the body parts with the correct terminology as the child grows introduce new topics, example when they start pre-school/ kindergarten discuss getting consent for touching like hugs. Its should be a conversation that meets the childs needs not just one ocassion include consent, physical changes, positive relationships gender ect.
These parents need to get over it. Parents need to do their jobs and stop leaving it to the schools. Leaving the raising of kids to the schools is why we have so many nut jobs running around!
My 4 year old daughter and her 2 year old daughter know the medical terms for their private parts. My daughter is very smart and she knows what a period is. She has been in the restroom with me and had asked so I explained. People, including my family get super shocked when she randomly asks me if we will get a baby after my period is over! It's super funny to see their faces !! I won't have the sex talk until I think she needs to hear it but she knows what's a period and why we get them. Kids are very smart and the more we talk to them, the more questions they'll have, and the stronger the bond. ❤
Sandra Bahena this is beautiful, honestly what I am going to do with my children. I’m form England and my mum was the only parent in my whole year group who said that my twin brother and I couldn’t take part in sex Ed. So while everyone was learning about it my brother and I had to sit on beanbags in year three (2nd grade) classrooms. I was only allowed in for the period talk but by then I had already started my period so it wasn’t very informative. It’s fair to say the school changed the regulations and made sex Ed mandatory for the next year groups 😅😂
My mom never gave me "the talk" conversation. I learned this stuff through books that contained sex parts and through my cousins who were more than willing to share their thoughts 😅
I have found that you answer questions as they arise, bit by bit. When they have heard enough they will stop asking, when they want to know more you can answer more. My daughter was 5 or 6 when she asked how the Dr was going to get her baby sister out of my tummy, I responded with "when you have things in your tummy like food or drink, how does it come out?" I told her it was the same general area and she was content with that answer without scarring her. No sugar coating like "the stork" or " my belly button".
I wasn't the type of kid who would just start asking questions. So it's not always the best idea to wait until they ask you. I wholeheartedly agree with Adrienne about leading by example and talking about the uncomfortable topics. If you make sex taboo, your child may not come to you with their own questions or concerns.
The only talk I had was when I left for college, I remember my Mom saying “men are only after one thing, protect yourself and don’t get pregnant”. Like that. I was also a late bloomer, and I had very primitive knowledge about contraceptives, intimacy, consent, romance, love, etc. This is why it’s soo important for parents to communicate to their kids as early as possible and teach them the importance about consent, intimacy and feeling comfortable with their own body, so they can then fully understand when being taught about sex. You don’t want your kid to “throw themselves in the lion’s den” and experience things on their own so when they make a mistake the parent is getting mad, when they were not doing what they’re supposed to do as a parent.
My mom gave me a book that explained everything and was an age appropriate book and then she filled in all the blanks. Not awkward at all. No issues. And now, I can talk about sex openly with both parents - to a certain, RESPECTABLE and healthy extent. 👌🏽
Loni and I are about the same age. My mom was a librarian. She brought me a very detailed book that was FOR girls. She told me to come to her if I had questions to ask. I NEVER asked though. My GRANDMOTHER was the one who gave me the garter belt with the pad you had to attach. I couldn't figure it out and once I DID it was so uncomfortable. Ugh.
Who else sex Talk was “keep your legs closed and your bible open” 😑 grew up with a religious Jamaican mom, I’m a virgin, never tasted alcohol or been to a club but not because of religion more of lack of desire like guys around me these days are ..... well and alcohol I just don’t think I’ll like it & clubs is no cause I don’t like loud places 😂 but learning about sex at school is ok like you learn every disease, Ways to prevent pregnancy about periods and more
That's why I talked to my girls about body parts and what should and should not happen. They are 4 and 6. We have a 2 month old as well so when the time comes she will know. I will have the talk about sex before age 10 cause kids in schools now could hear it from the wrong person. My girls are academically advanced so i can't keep it from them cause eventually they are gonna read about it.
I was that stupid friend When I was 10 my mum taught me about periods she didn’t go in depth she just say we bleed every month and if I kiss a boy I could become pregnant (I obviously found out she was lying a few months later when I had the proper talk in school ) So I thought this was legit information that my friends needed to know so I told them And them and their big mouths told the whole class So I kind of cause segregation between boys and girls for like a month (until we learnt in school) Oops 🤣
My dad gave me the talk. . . TWICE. It was awkward as all hell. The first time was when I was going into a school that was when I got my period at she 11 and the other was when I was about to be 13th when I started a school that went from 7th to 12th grade
my mom talked about sex with me and my sister's when we were like 6 or 8 and I'm glad she did. Now I have a little sister who's 11 and we talk so openly about sex, periods, love, Crimes etc etc. I think that it is super important to talk to children about everything in life!
Our Kindergarten teacher told all of us bc I was the first to ask her where do babies come from one day after recess when both of my parents and grandparents refused to answer. So she made it a teachable moment for all of us so we could ask whatever questions. She showed us a medical book and whatnot and we learned the terms for everything. Yes we thought it was gross, but that was the point to not be so interested in what it did but know that everything on us had names. Most of us were speechless lol. Then we had health class in Junior high where we went into the male/female reproductive health, preventable diseases, birth control etc. I wanted to be informed so I was always inquisitive. Knowing the physical journey of pregnancy and then watching tlc mommy journey docs was *all* I needed. Years went by before I even saw a penis and first word I muttered was "condom" after biting his ear so I'm grateful for knowing what the tick tock was and I've never been scared to speak on that with my children. Because it's the unknown that makes it appealing so if you make it as mundane and natural as possible, children don't tend to really find it that fascinating. Just my experience. 🤷🏿♀️
Yeah I never got the talk, I grew up in a strict religious household that it was no sex before marriage so I didnt need to know. Freshman year of high school I transferred to a public school for the first time and wooow. I learned everything from school
I think people freak out about teaching kids about sex around 4 and 5 because of the term used- sex. Yet, the good touch and bad touch is actually a sex talk. Parents please, please talk to your child about sex as soon as they can talk in full sentences 3-5. You have to have that good touch and bad touch to protect them, do not wait until the girl gets her first period.
So what if Tamera isn't there to give her advice. That doesn't mean she's an expert on parenting. That doesn't mean these ladies here can't give their opinion. Just because Tamera is a mother that doesn't mean she has all the answers or anything. Yes, she has more parenting experience but that doesn't mean these ladies here don't have a right to share their opinion at all. You don't have to be a parent in order to give your opinion on this. Everybody has a right to express their opinion no matter if they're a parent or not. If you think you have to be a parent to give and have an opinion on this then your sadly mistaken. Again, just because someone is a parent, that doesn't mean they're an expert on everything(even parenting). Same for these ladies here. They aren't experts on this issue but they still have a right to give their opinion just like someone who is a parent. That couple that offered someone $3500 to have the sex talk with their kid(s) is a good example as to why parents aren't experts either when it comes to dealing with stuff like this.
I agree with Loni. I was very smart in HS school and took AP bio, genetics, human physiology and anatomy. So I learned A LOT and even more from my bio degree in college. I think kids need more sex talk in their health classes in school.
Aww love Adrienne mom's talk style I didn't get one my childhood was a tad unconventional. Closest was high school when teaching about periods and birth control. Sex part if they talked about it I wasnt listening tbh I came across youporn while looking for UA-cam in high school that was my sex talk 🤣
I do presentations from preschool to senior high school with the sexual abuse center. Younger ages we talk about safe touches and unsafe touches. We talk about consent and what it means and we gear it towards their ages. The reason why they bring an outside source in is to help the children feel comfortable. God forbid how bout that teacher has been molesting them, they are more likely to tell us. We can help and give then the resources needed. I think adults need to remember what it's like when they were a kid and be that adult they needed as a kid. Consent is not hard to teach and sex isnt either. It's necessary info and if you're not teaching this to your child, you're doing them a disservice in my opinion.
My mum talked to me about these topics since I was young. She would always asked me about my feelings and if somebody had tried to do something that made me feel uncomfortable. She would tell me when she was on her period. I live in Spain and it is very common to give your children condoms as soon as they can understand what sex is. So I had condoms since I was 12, not to encourage me to have sex but to make me understand how tedious it is to be sexually active and responsible. And it worked because I never wanted to have that responsibility before I was grown
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I think Kids, nowadays need the talk as soon as they get a smart phone or as soon as they are able to google stuff or when they may come across a tv commercial for sexually open tv shows or as soon as they start having friends bc they learn terms, etc from friends
I never had a conversation with my patents about sex but by the time we actually discussed about sex in school i know a lot of things about sex in a medical perspective and shortly after i was exposed to porn but found it stupid so i was very thankful when i encountered a really good novel about good bdsm behavior and i prioritize that in any sexual encounter. Consent is everything. If i don't like it i will definitely never allow anything to even point that way.
My elementary school gave the talk. And I missed it because I was sick. They talked about period and sex and my classmates were shocked at some of the things that they didnt want to share the info with me.
There isn't ONE talk. You explain things little by little as time goes by, as your child matures and can understand more complex issues. Sex education is a matter of public health & safety, so it is also a matter of public concern. Schools should also give comprehensive, extensive sex education. Places where there is no sex ed or the only sex ed given is abstinence usually have more cases of teen pregnancy and STDs. Also, sex talk isn't just about intercourse, it's about consent, sexuality, intimacy, mental and physical health. We need to teach kids about HPV vaccines and how they help prevent cervical cancer, for example.
I never got “the talk”, learned from school but my father would come and tell my sisters and I every birthday after the age of 12 to leave boys alone, don’t have sex until after you start a career because all they’ll bring us kids and then leave😂😂 I wish my parents had the talk with me because I was so ignorant. Thankfully I wasn’t sexually active as a teen because I always thought you could only get pregnant a few days before your period and that’s it lmao! If I have kids I’m going to set my feelings aside and truly teach them about their bodies. I honestly feel like it should come from the home first. Yes it’s embarrassing but that’s because a lot of parents avoid these topics at times that they shouldn’t. Think about it, kids start to get curious at a pretty young age and that’s normal but it’s often just shut down (especially in my household) when I personally think it should be addressed.
Damn my mom was so open about sex that it wasn’t even uncomfortable tbh she tells me the stories and what to do if this or that happens and she said if I’m ready she has condoms and birth control in her cabinet
"Virgina" sounds very creative. (The other side would be "Culo" ?) I never had sex ed in high school (an all boys, co-ed Catholic private (college prep) school, before it transformed to a co-ed)
I’m form England and my mum was the only parent in my whole year group who said that my twin brother and I couldn’t take part in sex Ed. So while everyone was learning about it my brother and I had to sit on beanbags in year three (2nd grade) classrooms. I was only allowed in for the period talk but by then I had already started my period so it wasn’t very informative. It’s fair to say the school changed the regulations and made sex Ed mandatory for the next year groups 😅😂
To be awkward or uncomfortable about it, makes sex this shameful thing for kids. I had the same with my parents. But I think we should be a bit more open about it. I will probably safe the kids from making some stupid decisions and doing things they regret later on.
My mom is extremely uncomfortable with the idea of sex she told me as a kid don't let anyone touch me and just pointed to what are my privates she didn't give me a period talk or a sex talk i learned everything from sex ed thank god they thought me in middle school what to do when i get my period how a condom is applied about pregnancy because i had been told nothing my mom just told me wait till I'm married to do anything she very religious
I never got the talk, I went to a small school and our nurse did a class once a year even in kindergarten, but age appropriate, talked about periods, girls were given little bags with deodorant and a pad, just going over changes, when we got into jr high our home ec teacher was also our health teacher and thats when we dove into it, even watched a video showing a birth, we saw EVERYTHING!!!! Will never forget either, going over the female parts the urethra, vagina and anus and all being in the same area and a boy in my class asking which hole it goes in...
My mom had sex talks with me since before I could remember it’s always been an open topic. She had me at 17 so she wanted me to know the truth about the real
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Am I the ONLY one who's parents never gave them the talk. 🤨 I learned everything from my friends and the internet. Sex just wasnt talked about in my house
That's so sad
Nah, my parents never talked to me about sex either. Everything I learned came from my middle school sex ed class, the internet, and later on my own experience.
Same
solaylee H nope you're not the only one...
Nope, all I knew is if I had sex I would be killed. Just like Loni I learned in school but not everything.
1:35 This is VERY important. You can use slang and what not but make sure they know the actual terms.
Trust me they will learn about it from their fellow peers. It's almost unavoidable.
Demorris Hanson Especially in middle school
Jenna Kaufman yup especially middle school and highschool but now days kids know about stuff in elementary school, which is crazy
True, which is why you as the parent must arm them with knowledge first. So they will know what is true and untrue. Starting an open dialogue so that when they hear new information or misinformation from kids at school, they might come to you with it and you can set them straight.
kimmie pie wHAT ?? omg they're literally kids wtf do they know
ath they know more things than they should... I Honestly don't know how
This is why alot of people get molested and their families dont know until they are full grown.... teach your 3 year old abt their "NO NO AREA" they are at day cares AWAY FROM PARENTS where they can NOT defend themselves . Dont be selfish
I think it's great that Adrienne got a talk from her mom so early. So that she would know if someone tried to molest her.
My mom did the same thing! She drilled it into me from a very young age. When I got older she ended up telling me that she was molested as a child by a stranger, made sense why she made sure to make it a point of discussion.
rdot jpg Knowing about it does not stop a nasty man molesting you
@@alexjames2510you cant stop them there are too many crazy people out there but it helps you know thats whats happened since you know what sex is and you can explain where the person touched you using the proper terms etc .
There are different levels 9f the sex talk. Originally my child knew babies grow in mom's belly.
Then, talked about appropriate touching and respecting your body.
Then, menstrual cycle with a follow up.
Then talk about appropriate relationships between boys and girls or even same sex couples.
So it's always an ongoing thing.
Rosrychaplet I agree.
True, it’s not just one talk. Good point.
I know for me... I never got the sex talk ! I ended up learning about it in about 6th grade.... not from a teacher , not from my parents... but from FRIENDS... and tbh... I never understood why parents have to sugarcoat important information and try to pretty it up instead of being straight forward and honest with their kid ! If your child is old enough to ask questions and decipher a penis from a vagina then they are old enough to know about consent and about sex ( do you need to go into detail ? Not necessarily ) but just be honest
Yes! Educate your children. They have a right to know about their own bodies and how a man and a woman become one. Sex(with intamacy) is beautiful, the body is beautiful, and it shouldn't be deemed as inappropriate as long as its absolutely consensual, responsible, and between two adults.
sex education should be a progressive learning topic not something you sit down and discuss just once. Start off with small children by just labelling the body parts with the correct terminology as the child grows introduce new topics, example when they start pre-school/ kindergarten discuss getting consent for touching like hugs. Its should be a conversation that meets the childs needs not just one ocassion include consent, physical changes, positive relationships gender ect.
Yeah sex education is very important I remember getting sex education in the 6th grade love you Miss Lonnie
My parents didn’t tell me nothing, I walked in and walked right out😫💀 I was like 4 yrs old and after that I didn’t need to know nothing!
In South Africa it starts very young at school. It starts at about 10yrs. It's part of the curriculum at school
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These parents need to get over it. Parents need to do their jobs and stop leaving it to the schools. Leaving the raising of kids to the schools is why we have so many nut jobs running around!
My 4 year old daughter and her 2 year old daughter know the medical terms for their private parts. My daughter is very smart and she knows what a period is. She has been in the restroom with me and had asked so I explained. People, including my family get super shocked when she randomly asks me if we will get a baby after my period is over! It's super funny to see their faces !! I won't have the sex talk until I think she needs to hear it but she knows what's a period and why we get them. Kids are very smart and the more we talk to them, the more questions they'll have, and the stronger the bond. ❤
Sandra Bahena this is beautiful, honestly what I am going to do with my children. I’m form England and my mum was the only parent in my whole year group who said that my twin brother and I couldn’t take part in sex Ed. So while everyone was learning about it my brother and I had to sit on beanbags in year three (2nd grade) classrooms. I was only allowed in for the period talk but by then I had already started my period so it wasn’t very informative. It’s fair to say the school changed the regulations and made sex Ed mandatory for the next year groups 😅😂
My mom never gave me "the talk" conversation. I learned this stuff through books that contained sex parts and through my cousins who were more than willing to share their thoughts 😅
Adrienne seems like she'll be a bomb mom.
I’m Nigerian and at age 22 my father just told me “don’t get pregnant and don’t get AIDS”. Again I was 22!! 😂
Michelle Appiah I can relate 🤣🤣🤣
am glad where Loni is coming from and where has reached now God bless her more and more she deserves it
I have found that you answer questions as they arise, bit by bit. When they have heard enough they will stop asking, when they want to know more you can answer more. My daughter was 5 or 6 when she asked how the Dr was going to get her baby sister out of my tummy, I responded with "when you have things in your tummy like food or drink, how does it come out?" I told her it was the same general area and she was content with that answer without scarring her. No sugar coating like "the stork" or " my belly button".
I wasn't the type of kid who would just start asking questions. So it's not always the best idea to wait until they ask you. I wholeheartedly agree with Adrienne about leading by example and talking about the uncomfortable topics. If you make sex taboo, your child may not come to you with their own questions or concerns.
I learned everything in school. my parents don’t talk about stuff like that 😂
The only talk I had was when I left for college, I remember my Mom saying “men are only after one thing, protect yourself and don’t get pregnant”. Like that. I was also a late bloomer, and I had very primitive knowledge about contraceptives, intimacy, consent, romance, love, etc. This is why it’s soo important for parents to communicate to their kids as early as possible and teach them the importance about consent, intimacy and feeling comfortable with their own body, so they can then fully understand when being taught about sex. You don’t want your kid to “throw themselves in the lion’s den” and experience things on their own so when they make a mistake the parent is getting mad, when they were not doing what they’re supposed to do as a parent.
I was told by my friend that sex was kissing naked 😂
My mom gave me a book that explained everything and was an age appropriate book and then she filled in all the blanks. Not awkward at all. No issues. And now, I can talk about sex openly with both parents - to a certain, RESPECTABLE and healthy extent. 👌🏽
*not just the opposite sex.*
Loni and I are about the same age. My mom was a librarian. She brought me a very detailed book that was FOR girls. She told me to come to her if I had questions to ask.
I NEVER asked though.
My GRANDMOTHER was the one who gave me the garter belt with the pad you had to attach.
I couldn't figure it out and once I DID it was so uncomfortable. Ugh.
Who else sex Talk was “keep your legs closed and your bible open” 😑 grew up with a religious Jamaican mom, I’m a virgin, never tasted alcohol or been to a club but not because of religion more of lack of desire like guys around me these days are ..... well and alcohol I just don’t think I’ll like it & clubs is no cause I don’t like loud places 😂 but learning about sex at school is ok like you learn every disease, Ways to prevent pregnancy about periods and more
My mom bought me a copy of "Our Bodies, Our Selves" I remember it was a huge book with lots of photos.
That's why I talked to my girls about body parts and what should and should not happen. They are 4 and 6. We have a 2 month old as well so when the time comes she will know. I will have the talk about sex before age 10 cause kids in schools now could hear it from the wrong person. My girls are academically advanced so i can't keep it from them cause eventually they are gonna read about it.
I had the good touch and bad touch talk from my mother & now I've had that with my children.
I was that stupid friend
When I was 10 my mum taught me about periods she didn’t go in depth she just say we bleed every month and if I kiss a boy I could become pregnant (I obviously found out she was lying a few months later when I had the proper talk in school )
So I thought this was legit information
that my friends needed to know so I told them
And them and their big mouths told the whole class
So I kind of cause segregation between boys and girls for like a month (until we learnt in school)
Oops 🤣
I totally agree with Adrienne. There's no better person than your parents to talk to you about sex.
11 is the magic # for the women in our family. So whenever they reach their puberty age.
My dad gave me the talk. . . TWICE. It was awkward as all hell. The first time was when I was going into a school that was when I got my period at she 11 and the other was when I was about to be 13th when I started a school that went from 7th to 12th grade
my mom talked about sex with me and my sister's when we were like 6 or 8 and I'm glad she did. Now I have a little sister who's 11 and we talk so openly about sex, periods, love, Crimes etc etc. I think that it is super important to talk to children about everything in life!
Our Kindergarten teacher told all of us bc I was the first to ask her where do babies come from one day after recess when both of my parents and grandparents refused to answer. So she made it a teachable moment for all of us so we could ask whatever questions. She showed us a medical book and whatnot and we learned the terms for everything. Yes we thought it was gross, but that was the point to not be so interested in what it did but know that everything on us had names. Most of us were speechless lol. Then we had health class in Junior high where we went into the male/female reproductive health, preventable diseases, birth control etc. I wanted to be informed so I was always inquisitive. Knowing the physical journey of pregnancy and then watching tlc mommy journey docs was *all* I needed. Years went by before I even saw a penis and first word I muttered was "condom" after biting his ear so I'm grateful for knowing what the tick tock was and I've never been scared to speak on that with my children. Because it's the unknown that makes it appealing so if you make it as mundane and natural as possible, children don't tend to really find it that fascinating. Just my experience. 🤷🏿♀️
Yeah I never got the talk, I grew up in a strict religious household that it was no sex before marriage so I didnt need to know. Freshman year of high school I transferred to a public school for the first time and wooow. I learned everything from school
I think people freak out about teaching kids about sex around 4 and 5 because of the term used- sex. Yet, the good touch and bad touch is actually a sex talk. Parents please, please talk to your child about sex as soon as they can talk in full sentences 3-5. You have to have that good touch and bad touch to protect them, do not wait until the girl gets her first period.
Where was Tamera that day? None of these ladies even have a child. Why are they giving us advice?
So what if Tamera isn't there to give her advice. That doesn't mean she's an expert on parenting. That doesn't mean these ladies here can't give their opinion. Just because Tamera is a mother that doesn't mean she has all the answers or anything. Yes, she has more parenting experience but that doesn't mean these ladies here don't have a right to share their opinion at all. You don't have to be a parent in order to give your opinion on this. Everybody has a right to express their opinion no matter if they're a parent or not. If you think you have to be a parent to give and have an opinion on this then your sadly mistaken. Again, just because someone is a parent, that doesn't mean they're an expert on everything(even parenting). Same for these ladies here. They aren't experts on this issue but they still have a right to give their opinion just like someone who is a parent. That couple that offered someone $3500 to have the sex talk with their kid(s) is a good example as to why parents aren't experts either when it comes to dealing with stuff like this.
I agree with Loni. I was very smart in HS school and took AP bio, genetics, human physiology and anatomy. So I learned A LOT and even more from my bio degree in college. I think kids need more sex talk in their health classes in school.
Loni is right, the school is the best I remember that with the video and all.
Aww love Adrienne mom's talk style I didn't get one my childhood was a tad unconventional. Closest was high school when teaching about periods and birth control. Sex part if they talked about it I wasnt listening tbh I came across youporn while looking for UA-cam in high school that was my sex talk 🤣
Consent is the most important thing to talk about and enough parents dont teach their child consent especially boys...
I do presentations from preschool to senior high school with the sexual abuse center. Younger ages we talk about safe touches and unsafe touches. We talk about consent and what it means and we gear it towards their ages. The reason why they bring an outside source in is to help the children feel comfortable. God forbid how bout that teacher has been molesting them, they are more likely to tell us. We can help and give then the resources needed. I think adults need to remember what it's like when they were a kid and be that adult they needed as a kid. Consent is not hard to teach and sex isnt either. It's necessary info and if you're not teaching this to your child, you're doing them a disservice in my opinion.
Im sure I should know but where's tamera
My mum talked to me about these topics since I was young. She would always asked me about my feelings and if somebody had tried to do something that made me feel uncomfortable. She would tell me when she was on her period. I live in Spain and it is very common to give your children condoms as soon as they can understand what sex is. So I had condoms since I was 12, not to encourage me to have sex but to make me understand how tedious it is to be sexually active and responsible. And it worked because I never wanted to have that responsibility before I was grown
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I think Kids, nowadays need the talk as soon as they get a smart phone or as soon as they are able to google stuff or when they may come across a tv commercial for sexually open tv shows or as soon as they start having friends bc they learn terms, etc from friends
I never had a conversation with my patents about sex but by the time we actually discussed about sex in school i know a lot of things about sex in a medical perspective and shortly after i was exposed to porn but found it stupid so i was very thankful when i encountered a really good novel about good bdsm behavior and i prioritize that in any sexual encounter. Consent is everything. If i don't like it i will definitely never allow anything to even point that way.
My elementary school gave the talk. And I missed it because I was sick. They talked about period and sex and my classmates were shocked at some of the things that they didnt want to share the info with me.
There isn't ONE talk. You explain things little by little as time goes by, as your child matures and can understand more complex issues. Sex education is a matter of public health & safety, so it is also a matter of public concern. Schools should also give comprehensive, extensive sex education. Places where there is no sex ed or the only sex ed given is abstinence usually have more cases of teen pregnancy and STDs. Also, sex talk isn't just about intercourse, it's about consent, sexuality, intimacy, mental and physical health. We need to teach kids about HPV vaccines and how they help prevent cervical cancer, for example.
I hated it, when my school did biology and parts. I was like i don't wanna learn this. I'm too young. While everyone else was like "The Uterus ".
I never got “the talk”, learned from school but my father would come and tell my sisters and I every birthday after the age of 12 to leave boys alone, don’t have sex until after you start a career because all they’ll bring us kids and then leave😂😂
I wish my parents had the talk with me because I was so ignorant. Thankfully I wasn’t sexually active as a teen because I always thought you could only get pregnant a few days before your period and that’s it lmao! If I have kids I’m going to set my feelings aside and truly teach them about their bodies. I honestly feel like it should come from the home first. Yes it’s embarrassing but that’s because a lot of parents avoid these topics at times that they shouldn’t. Think about it, kids start to get curious at a pretty young age and that’s normal but it’s often just shut down (especially in my household) when I personally think it should be addressed.
Damn my mom was so open about sex that it wasn’t even uncomfortable tbh she tells me the stories and what to do if this or that happens and she said if I’m ready she has condoms and birth control in her cabinet
"Virgina" sounds very creative. (The other side would be "Culo" ?) I never had sex ed in high school (an all boys, co-ed Catholic private (college prep) school, before it transformed to a co-ed)
I learned from my mom talking to me and tv
On u can come learn the rest from me baby lol class started wen u ready
Our school gave us the sex talk at like 9-10 years old lol
I’m form England and my mum was the only parent in my whole year group who said that my twin brother and I couldn’t take part in sex Ed. So while everyone was learning about it my brother and I had to sit on beanbags in year three (2nd grade) classrooms. I was only allowed in for the period talk but by then I had already started my period so it wasn’t very informative. It’s fair to say the school changed the regulations and made sex Ed mandatory for the next year groups 😅😂
Yep a is right some cases have been thown out of court because childre. Didnt call their private part by the right name
To be awkward or uncomfortable about it, makes sex this shameful thing for kids. I had the same with my parents. But I think we should be a bit more open about it. I will probably safe the kids from making some stupid decisions and doing things they regret later on.
my mom gave me the talk every year! its important
Cousin Jeannie would be a great mama! I’m just saying!
They should just introduce a sexual education class that what i had in my country so parents don't have to worry about having the talk
My parents never had the sex talk with me😔I learned about it in high school and I was a late bloomer✌
i’m almost grown and i’ve still haven’t had the talk 💀
My mom is extremely uncomfortable with the idea of sex she told me as a kid don't let anyone touch me and just pointed to what are my privates she didn't give me a period talk or a sex talk i learned everything from sex ed thank god they thought me in middle school what to do when i get my period how a condom is applied about pregnancy because i had been told nothing my mom just told me wait till I'm married to do anything she very religious
Right age is before they go to secondary school. 13.
Nah kids be doin it by 13. They need to know before that
@@jasi7313 I guess 10 then lol.
I never got the talk, I went to a small school and our nurse did a class once a year even in kindergarten, but age appropriate, talked about periods, girls were given little bags with deodorant and a pad, just going over changes, when we got into jr high our home ec teacher was also our health teacher and thats when we dove into it, even watched a video showing a birth, we saw EVERYTHING!!!! Will never forget either, going over the female parts the urethra, vagina and anus and all being in the same area and a boy in my class asking which hole it goes in...
My mom had sex talks with me since before I could remember it’s always been an open topic. She had me at 17 so she wanted me to know the truth about the real
I remember the garter belt
My parents gave me the puberty/sex talk
And now Adrienne’s the freakiest girl out there🤣🤣🤣.... I’m just kidding don’t come for me
Heyy I love you lady's
What does saying "my vagina" have anything to do with Adrianne's mother being from New York *sigh*
She actually said "my vergina" so...
Launie always looks irritated when the other girls talk, it's starting to annoy me lol they could get rid of her and I wouldn't care at all!
Adrienne looks very pregnant.
Reese pridgen Amen!
How so?
Yeah how so?
That’s just rude and distasteful
Lol so many feelings. Glad i dont have that problem.
Why didn't The Real talk about Nipsey Hussle? Unsubscribing!!
They did mam, it just wasnt uploaded on UA-cam