Abandoned at the Altar

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  • Опубліковано 18 кві 2021
  • The plaintiff says she was engaged to the defendant, but he stood her up on their wedding day. She’s suing him for a honeymoon cruise, emotional distress, and car damage. The defendant insists he wants to marry the defendant and only stood her up because he hadn’t heard from her the day before the wedding. He admits to the car damage and nothing else.
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  • @sabrinahernandez5425
    @sabrinahernandez5425 3 роки тому +1247

    She looks so broken God protect her and let her only be surrounded by people that love her

    • @nowyukno7981
      @nowyukno7981 3 роки тому +36

      She needs trauma therapy 🙏🏿

    • @tyraceabdulraheem2295
      @tyraceabdulraheem2295 3 роки тому +15

      Praying for her two.

    • @jacksoncurt581
      @jacksoncurt581 3 роки тому +9

      And he said it more than once🤷‍♂️

    • @tosha0508
      @tosha0508 3 роки тому +22

      Amen! Sis heart is so broken....I sincerely hope she finds the right man

    • @WITH-THE-BUSINESS.
      @WITH-THE-BUSINESS. 3 роки тому +6

      @@nowyukno7981 She CHOOSE POORLY

  • @sarajames8890
    @sarajames8890 3 роки тому +1753

    Don't sound like he's husband material... Sis you dodged a bullet

    • @javienelmore3182
      @javienelmore3182 3 роки тому +24

      He would have married the worlds most boring wife

    • @BananaPhone234
      @BananaPhone234 3 роки тому +49

      She dodged a missile, slingshot, and a BB.

    • @eugeniaboone5602
      @eugeniaboone5602 3 роки тому +11

      @@javienelmore3182 how so?

    • @AnneOhn123
      @AnneOhn123 3 роки тому +25

      She's not the brightest one either... wow..

    • @javienelmore3182
      @javienelmore3182 3 роки тому +16

      @@eugeniaboone5602 he personality screams: -_-
      She's the type to go on a cruise and stay in her room, she's the type to go on a girl's trip and opt out at the last minute, she's the type to cheat and use the excuse her and her man have communication issues. LOL I'm just throwing things out their idk, that's just the vibes she's giving off 🤷‍♂️😅

  • @rutendochinamira1312
    @rutendochinamira1312 3 роки тому +347

    Getting stood up was the best wedding present she could have prayed for. She deserves so much better!

    • @curtiswhiteheadjr1322
      @curtiswhiteheadjr1322 Рік тому +2

      It’s called The Best Thing That Never Happened To You. In time, she will come to realize it. 💯

    • @_MoneyMike_
      @_MoneyMike_ Рік тому +1

      They actually got married..this was just the ceremony he missed

    • @jasonallen3678
      @jasonallen3678 Рік тому

      You must didn't watch the ending, because they are definitely back together

    • @jasonallen3678
      @jasonallen3678 Рік тому

      ​@@_MoneyMike_Yep

  • @Amy-ej2px
    @Amy-ej2px 2 роки тому +134

    She doesn't wear nails anymore in case he gets physical with her again. That's heartbreaking. Lady, him standing you up was a blessing. Take that cruise by yourself and be happy that he's NOT there with you.

  • @maesams6212
    @maesams6212 3 роки тому +822

    That is the worst explanation about NOT getting married that I've ever heard in my life.

    • @latashaalston4350
      @latashaalston4350 3 роки тому +16

      me too I wish my soon to be husband would come up with excuses when it's time to get married smh

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 3 роки тому +7

      The WORST!

    • @leviloganlauryn1773
      @leviloganlauryn1773 3 роки тому +6

      And that’s why she didn’t get any pain and suffering

    • @MichaelBellJr81
      @MichaelBellJr81 3 роки тому +18

      She don't want to admit she gave him the silent treatment the day before they were supposed to go to the courthouse. She would rather make him look like he stood her up at the altar to gain sympathy... The man announced to the 🌎 he still wants to marry her before and AFTER court and she still can't be clear as to what happened. Same way she wasn't clear the day before...

    • @mallisawilliams3837
      @mallisawilliams3837 3 роки тому +23

      Both of them seem very strange neither can explain worth a shit!

  • @yepitsme3336
    @yepitsme3336 3 роки тому +543

    He hits you once, he WILL hit you again. LEAVE and never look back ...

    • @Angela-oe3bg
      @Angela-oe3bg 3 роки тому +11

      True facts

    • @jalabrown2595
      @jalabrown2595 3 роки тому +15

      She need to be thankful he had you standing at the altar. He's just red flag

    • @Bayouma777
      @Bayouma777 3 роки тому +6

      Sista, that dude standing you up at the altar was the best thing he ever did for you and the best thing he ever did to you! Get you money from the Judge Mathis show and move on with your life! As for the dude, just block his number, delete his name and number, you don't have to (or need to) have any further dealings with him! You deserve better! Just make sure that you are ready and available for when better comes along!

    • @kimwilliams1402
      @kimwilliams1402 3 роки тому +2

      Not if you hit his ass back

    • @Angela-oe3bg
      @Angela-oe3bg 3 роки тому +3

      @@kimwilliams1402 right catch his ass sleeping with a cast iron skillet works every time LOL

  • @potatochip4202
    @potatochip4202 2 роки тому +198

    I was a single mother of one child for 6yrs before I met my husband. Let me tell you, I haven't worked for someone in almost 10yrs. Started my own business and my son is a welder now. Thanks to my husband and the man up above. Ladies, don't settle. Love yourself. Having kids is not the end of the world.

    • @gabrielleelliott500
      @gabrielleelliott500 2 роки тому +3

      Great advice

    • @stepdaddy7867
      @stepdaddy7867 Рік тому +5

      You went from a hard working single mother to a potato chip?

    • @lovetteballard6054
      @lovetteballard6054 Рік тому +9

      Thank you for the encouragement. My son always asks me for a father and I feel so sad for him

    • @torenee745
      @torenee745 Рік тому +2

      @@stepdaddy7867 😂😂

    • @curtiswhiteheadjr1322
      @curtiswhiteheadjr1322 Рік тому

      Preach! Even though a million signifying folks with nothing else better to do will swear that your life is over.

  • @ginagrey5287
    @ginagrey5287 3 роки тому +54

    As a woman that’s dealt with several abusive men, I can see that she is afraid of him.

    • @brendawilkins2381
      @brendawilkins2381 Рік тому +11

      I hate that they audience keep laughing because it's not funny 😞

  • @royalheritage9254
    @royalheritage9254 3 роки тому +360

    Shawmika, you know that man was never going to marry you, that’s why he started that argument the day before.

    • @xaye24
      @xaye24 3 роки тому +2

      Lol 😆🤣

    • @MsT_ThatsMe
      @MsT_ThatsMe 3 роки тому +23

      On top of that, he laid hands on her.

    • @rockyhaleema9492
      @rockyhaleema9492 3 роки тому +2

      Right!

    • @sachornabrissett2098
      @sachornabrissett2098 3 роки тому +6

      For real, my ex was like that, when he's to give money he tries to find an argument just to not give me the money.

    • @donniemorgan910
      @donniemorgan910 3 роки тому +2

      💯💯💯

  • @marshallcoleman8061
    @marshallcoleman8061 3 роки тому +606

    All these red flags that dude is showing her, she should be grateful he didn't marry her. Dude is a lost cause!! No good for any decent woman.

    • @sheliamcneill7009
      @sheliamcneill7009 3 роки тому +9

      Awad ..ain't worth a damn

    • @rosej5029
      @rosej5029 3 роки тому +18

      No good for any indecent woman too!. I wouldn't wish him on them too.

    • @BrownBamaGirl8
      @BrownBamaGirl8 3 роки тому +11

      You said a mouth full "loser" is his name🖓

    • @thebfacebetty8212
      @thebfacebetty8212 3 роки тому +16

      PRREACH!! god had her back..she should be happy he didn't show up,the best thing that could have happened..

    • @magicworld3242
      @magicworld3242 3 роки тому +3

      She's not a prize either. They deserve each other.

  • @sabrinar.purnell3869
    @sabrinar.purnell3869 2 роки тому +63

    God protected her BIG TIME 🙏🏾

  • @antoinetownsend7665
    @antoinetownsend7665 3 роки тому +33

    She walked in like “All my life i had to fight” 😕

  • @_almondjoy
    @_almondjoy 3 роки тому +723

    He knows he doesn't want marriage. Who goes to work on the day of the wedding 😆🤣😂

    • @mothercapricorn947
      @mothercapricorn947 3 роки тому +25

      Fts I'm going to work 💀

    • @heathab...._-_
      @heathab...._-_ 3 роки тому +10

      Right

    • @davidtaylor8787
      @davidtaylor8787 3 роки тому +34

      He sound really stupid. Sir if you didn't want to get married you open up your mouth and tell her you're not ready to get married. No woman deserves what that idiot did smdh.

    • @buttercupj6208
      @buttercupj6208 3 роки тому +8

      RIGHT 👏👏👏

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 3 роки тому +5

      It was a misunderstanding. They argued, she ignored him, he didn't think they were getting married. She's no prize. 1 out of 4 BW Ever get married, she should be happy a working man wants to marry her.

  • @angelrasheena5954
    @angelrasheena5954 3 роки тому +1035

    “I didn’t really stood her up.”🥴 sounds like you need to further your education and not your love life sir 🤨😂

  • @geridinewhite869
    @geridinewhite869 3 роки тому +71

    She's desperate for someone to love her ,even to subject herself to violence. Sad .May the Lord open her eyes and make her realize that she is Loved by Him. Love doesn't hurt ,disappoint or tear down.

    • @ginahuffman338
      @ginahuffman338 Рік тому +1

      Praise the Lord she needs to read first Corinthians chapter 13 in the Bible, the Lord bless her. Run from that man not walk,.Run to Jesus HE is waiting. To comfort you and keep you. The planscGod havec for EACH OF US is GOOD, NOT TO DO YOU NO HARM ! SO I KNOW THIS MAN WAS NOT SENT BY GOD! .TALK ABOUT HE HAVE BEEN GOOD TO YOU. THE DEVIL IS A LIAR. RUN FROM THAT MAN BABY GIRL!

    • @jaylenpatterson8062
      @jaylenpatterson8062 Місяць тому

      @@ginahuffman338 HalleluYAH - Praise Yahweh ❤

    • @Walkingoutyourpurposeonpurpose
      @Walkingoutyourpurposeonpurpose Місяць тому

      Yes, in Jesus name. Please open her eyes and protect her and deliver her from the hand of the enemy. He does not have problem solving skills for a marriage he resorts to viokence you can see the aggression all in his eyes, he is way bigger than her run Ma'am dont look back please! i lost my cousin to DV, he did it while her kids were at home, and he got sentenced to 25 to life. There are too many stories of abusive men unaliving women, Judge Mathis should offfer her help to get far away from him the tortue of getting your fingernails broken, please wake up.🙏🏿🙏🏿😔

    • @Walkingoutyourpurposeonpurpose
      @Walkingoutyourpurposeonpurpose Місяць тому

      🙏🏿🙏🏿😔

  • @melodywalker6055
    @melodywalker6055 3 роки тому +82

    Baby girl, that was God's protection 🙏🏽 Move on! I hope you enjoyed that cruise cause I sure would have😁

  • @virginiejorion4906
    @virginiejorion4906 3 роки тому +234

    I've been good to you : I don't pay rent, damaged your car in anger, caused an accident in anger, abused you in anger (broken nails), stood you up at the alter, I don't take any responsibility for my actions, brush off my attitude with "you know me",... RUN FOR THE HILLS LADY!!

    • @malford9991
      @malford9991 3 роки тому +3

      So true

    • @42Laj
      @42Laj 3 роки тому +17

      @Virginie -Well-said. This is best comment I've read on here. This woman has very low self-esteem and value. Hopefully, she will move on, and learn to value herself.

    • @shelocsher2396
      @shelocsher2396 2 роки тому +2

      Seriously!

    • @virginia2095
      @virginia2095 2 роки тому +3

      Aww we got the same name 😚☺️😊

    • @chancest.thomas5160
      @chancest.thomas5160 Рік тому

      What a SCRUB!!

  • @ThePumpkinpie37
    @ThePumpkinpie37 3 роки тому +517

    why does she want to marry him if he can't pay rent or take himself to work

    • @sheliamcneill7009
      @sheliamcneill7009 3 роки тому +50

      Low self esteem

    • @LovelyCeee
      @LovelyCeee 3 роки тому +10

      @@sheliamcneill7009 I was just about to say this !!!

    • @LovelyCeee
      @LovelyCeee 3 роки тому +4

      @Black Butterfly absolutely!

    • @davidhale4647
      @davidhale4647 3 роки тому +9

      she has kids probably wants him to be there father

    • @ezimdanielchukwunwike531
      @ezimdanielchukwunwike531 3 роки тому +23

      That the problem with American men, depending on a woman.shm

  • @samanthadutoit1247
    @samanthadutoit1247 3 роки тому +34

    I can see the pain in her eyes, I bet she really liked him and he was good with her kids too. He is not meant for her, she can do better !

  • @flowerpower4071
    @flowerpower4071 3 роки тому +29

    She definitely did not know how to express the emotional distress she may have endured.

    • @ultimateevilz8937
      @ultimateevilz8937 Рік тому +2

      people just think they can go to court and say im suing him/her for emotional distress and that is it, judgment granted...you have to crearly express how they're causing you emotional distress which she didnt even though mathis was asking

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 Рік тому +3

      Mathis didn't care. Look at how quickly he brushed off the "left at the altar" story because they went to the courthouse.

  • @shanikaayanna9767
    @shanikaayanna9767 3 роки тому +393

    “I didn’t stood her up” is triggering me.

  • @noble78b
    @noble78b 3 роки тому +362

    He started that argument so he didn't have to get married 🤣🤣

  • @trinawestcoast8719
    @trinawestcoast8719 3 роки тому +15

    This is just ridiculous REALLY! “I was gonna take a sick day”! I know you hurt sis, but not getting married to him is a blessing. Better things are gonna come to you❤️

  • @feleciagoldson2834
    @feleciagoldson2834 3 роки тому +12

    Some women are desperate for a wedding, at any cost. They'll settle for anything, just to say that they have a "man". I LOVE BEING SINGLE. WOMEN, PLEASE, LOVE YOURSELF!!!🙏🏾🕊

  • @briawatts9630
    @briawatts9630 3 роки тому +1042

    "I didn't really STOOD her up?" That tells me all I need to know

    • @10.thbone42
      @10.thbone42 3 роки тому +26

      😂😂😂😂🤯

    • @dvine7154
      @dvine7154 3 роки тому +78

      LMFAO!! And he said it twice lol

    • @nursenisha2938
      @nursenisha2938 3 роки тому +16

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @wordplay1415
      @wordplay1415 3 роки тому +66

      He did her a favor!

    • @johiggins661
      @johiggins661 3 роки тому +30

      Pitiful man embarrassment to herself and family. She still loves this idiot.

  • @mom2babygkaterad946
    @mom2babygkaterad946 3 роки тому +544

    The plaintiff is literally being made to look like a 🤡. She’s hurting badly, with every word sounding as if she wants to break down in 😭. Hopefully she’s healed from this.

    • @wordplay1415
      @wordplay1415 3 роки тому +15

      In the end he almost had her too....it’s not over

    • @kingdomperspectivesmindset5595
      @kingdomperspectivesmindset5595 3 роки тому +16

      "Hopefully she’s healed from this." Yes, and every other hurt and baggage she is carrying into relationships. Despite all of that she said was going on (inc putting his hands on her), she still was happy to go ahead and marry him. Sometimes we just need to be by ourselves with no relationship and allow Jesus to heal us from the inside and remove the scales from our eyes.

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 3 роки тому +24

      Right and everyone is laughing Iike it's all a joke...even judge Mathis

    • @MzPCollins
      @MzPCollins 3 роки тому +12

      I know I feel sad for her

    • @ritacruse967
      @ritacruse967 3 роки тому +21

      This man been clowning 🤡 this woman for a long time she just didnt want to see his bs. I know, keep hope alive this guy dont want u. She just want to say she marry. He a bum 4 get abt him.

  • @monicadavis9475
    @monicadavis9475 2 роки тому +11

    I got so heated especially at his pitiful confessional at the end. This man is a nightmare! It's painful seeing how she can't explain herself well, and he uses that to his advantage. Where is her support system at!!!!! Ugh, I wish she could have gotten her emotional distress because she needs some therapy.

  • @jow265
    @jow265 3 роки тому +15

    She's beautiful and deserves better. ❤

  • @lavidaloca2344
    @lavidaloca2344 3 роки тому +262

    Wow, Talk about turning heart ache into blessings. Him standing her up is the best thing that could've happened. He gave off straight abusive vibes and based on her testimony, sis already got a preview

    • @nowyukno7981
      @nowyukno7981 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly

    • @thematerialisticreview
      @thematerialisticreview 3 роки тому +6

      Right! She may not realize it now but hopefully she'll look back and be grateful she didn't settle for this heartbreak.

    • @stargazer1835
      @stargazer1835 3 роки тому

      @Tee Green The first will be last and the last will be first

    • @youhategod9896
      @youhategod9896 3 роки тому

      @Tee Green
      FALSE!!!
      LOTS OF BABIES ARE KILLED BY MANY PARENTS...
      LOTS OF BABIES IN NOAH'S FLOOD DROWNED... ALL DUE TO THEIR PARENTS SINS..L
      GOD ONLY PROTECT HIS PEOPLE THAT OBEY HIM!!!
      PSALM 91

    • @carlawilkinson4843
      @carlawilkinson4843 2 роки тому +4

      You mean him "stooding her up"😁😁

  • @adriennesales6869
    @adriennesales6869 3 роки тому +394

    He already got three strikes. Braids, live with his momma and laying hands! Why u wanted to marry him?

    • @crystalbush5273
      @crystalbush5273 3 роки тому +10

      LOL

    • @mothercapricorn947
      @mothercapricorn947 3 роки тому +32

      She is begging to be with a Killah...let it go and go on the cruise with a friend.

    • @JayLawson
      @JayLawson 3 роки тому +14

      Women pick guys like this all the time. Not sure why yall are acting brand new.

    • @adriennesales6869
      @adriennesales6869 3 роки тому +18

      @@JayLawson stop it! No REAL woman wants a man like this.

    • @adriennesales6869
      @adriennesales6869 3 роки тому +5

      @La Vie En Pâquerette i agree with everything u said.

  • @blacpantha
    @blacpantha 2 роки тому +7

    I just hope this young lady never gives this clown another chance. She seems so sweet and deserves someone who treats her right

  • @tenny1010
    @tenny1010 3 роки тому +13

    I hope she didn't fall for his sweet talking at the end. This man is abusive and she needs to run as fast as she can.

  • @Verharri
    @Verharri 3 роки тому +713

    I’m sorry, I laughed when the announcer said the defendant went to work instead.

  • @kolaspeaks6509
    @kolaspeaks6509 3 роки тому +545

    It sounds like the best thing he ever did for her, was stand her up. She need to let that bird fly. 🐦🐥🐥🐥

    • @whipp_my_miracle599
      @whipp_my_miracle599 3 роки тому +13

      Girl no, he didn't stood her up🙄

    • @kolaspeaks6509
      @kolaspeaks6509 3 роки тому +5

      @@whipp_my_miracle599 lol, now why you had to go there

    • @shannaholmes833
      @shannaholmes833 3 роки тому +4

      Lmao OK can’t get shit out of her lmao

    • @quanjohnson1573
      @quanjohnson1573 3 роки тому +1

      Eat we tttetttteie thee tree tree ttee trees in the trees we uieiewttremorning I irwe rteyute

    • @curtiss2000
      @curtiss2000 3 роки тому +3

      He did not stand her up. He stood her up. Get it right!

  • @HandmaidenOfDistinction66854
    @HandmaidenOfDistinction66854 Рік тому +5

    Say NO! He has anger issues, he doesn't pay his way, he's irresponsible and violent. Don't go back to him. He sounds like a narcissist, saying he was good to her. Sir did you hear anything that transpired in the courtroom today?

  • @natwinkel7790
    @natwinkel7790 3 роки тому +10

    She’s crushed like a bug my heart aches for her. Pretty lady go on with your life, grow, change and be happy. They stand you up once at the altar, I wouldn’t give them a second chance.

  • @ramonamurray9127
    @ramonamurray9127 3 роки тому +323

    Ya’ll, what in the world is going on here?!This dude, is he listening to himself?!🤦🏾‍♀️ This is a beautiful sister and I pray that her Boaz comes soon!!!

    • @buttercupj6208
      @buttercupj6208 3 роки тому +7

      Exactly what I'm saying 🤣

    • @robertclayton1755
      @robertclayton1755 3 роки тому +4

      She is just looking for a Man

    • @SonyaUify
      @SonyaUify 3 роки тому +10

      🙋 No! She has to love herself first and be complete in Christ. To👉📖 the Song of Solomon

    • @MsNYCVA
      @MsNYCVA 3 роки тому +3

      She’s going to have to remove the “woe is me” before he will. Heal and he will come. She knew he was not marriage material. He’s a time waster.

    • @MsNYCVA
      @MsNYCVA 3 роки тому

      @@SonyaUify FACTS!!!!!!!

  • @redgurl60
    @redgurl60 3 роки тому +70

    "You know how good I been to you" says the abuser who don't pay bills, and had the nerve to leave you standing at the alter. I need her to find her voice and USE IT!

  • @jbijouphoto9397
    @jbijouphoto9397 3 роки тому +17

    JM kept asking her what happened and she kept dodging answers.
    “He stood me up.”
    “What happened?”
    ”He stood me up.”
    ***face palm***
    LADY TELL THE STORY! You make it sound like y’all argued, then like magic you were at an alter. What happened the night before? What happened the next morning? Who was with you? What did you wear? OMG. Did you call best friends? Did y’all tear up the marriage certificate? EXPLAIN!!!!!!

    • @KandyJohnson1
      @KandyJohnson1 Рік тому

      😂😂😂

    • @annsettles224
      @annsettles224 11 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @GoogleUser-wy2vv
      @GoogleUser-wy2vv 10 місяців тому

      I know. It would have been STORY TIME if that was me.

    • @hilberryable
      @hilberryable 6 місяців тому

      Judge Mathis get a grip. A woman left at the altar has suffered humiliation enough. Having to tell family and friends the marriage did not happen is too dreadful for her and she does not have to spell it out for the judge. The "groom" already said he went to work and absconded. She deserved compensation just for that too.

  • @1SummerSpeaks
    @1SummerSpeaks Рік тому +3

    She got a blessing and don't even realize. She look so hurt. God bless her 🙂❤️

  • @TVKia
    @TVKia 3 роки тому +229

    that man said he went to work on the wedding day...he wasnt tryna get married. dont sound like you even put in the request for work,

    • @tanyac123
      @tanyac123 3 роки тому +8

      EXACTLY 💯

    • @softersideofc.c.5655
      @softersideofc.c.5655 3 роки тому +21

      🤣🤣 right, who is on the schedule on their wedding day. Crazy.

    • @reneerenee5073
      @reneerenee5073 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣

    • @saturnladee110
      @saturnladee110 3 роки тому +12

      Planning to call out of work for your wedding and City Hall would have been the 2 red flags for me

    • @davidtaylor8787
      @davidtaylor8787 3 роки тому +9

      Lol! 😂 He did not want to marry her. She could do better than him. She's attractive with a pretty smile. Hell I'd go on the cruise with her.

  • @mekx7901
    @mekx7901 3 роки тому +404

    This was painful to watch...very upset that JM was laughing at the pain she was going through and the audience. Nothing is funny about this case.

    • @thebfacebetty8212
      @thebfacebetty8212 3 роки тому +45

      NOTHING AT ALL!!

    • @tinawalker5335
      @tinawalker5335 3 роки тому +55

      She seemed scared and embarrassed

    • @d820m
      @d820m 3 роки тому +34

      As much as I hate to admit, some of it WAS kinda funny

    • @elizabethdean9409
      @elizabethdean9409 3 роки тому +2

      Wow

    • @kikicola78
      @kikicola78 3 роки тому +22

      Exactly! Usually he go in on abusive men but he made jokes the whole time!

  • @binibini7975
    @binibini7975 Рік тому +2

    Too bad she didn’t go SOLO! That may have been a blessing in disguise. Blessings to her💛

  • @lt3847
    @lt3847 Рік тому +2

    she has a beautiful spirit wish I could give her a big hug. stay strong sis.

  • @unclebrother6244
    @unclebrother6244 3 роки тому +101

    What a sweet, beautiful sister! I hope she ends up with a man who will appreciate and respect her.

    • @deejai1173
      @deejai1173 3 роки тому +3

      I do too, however, she has to work on herself. If she doesn’t, she’ll be accepting of this type of behavior again.

    • @unclebrother6244
      @unclebrother6244 3 роки тому +1

      @@deejai1173 you're 100% correct DeeJai

  • @ElleMists
    @ElleMists 3 роки тому +420

    She definitely deserved the emotional distress. I feel really bad for her, she’s still hurt and processing 🥺

    • @chineduokoli1
      @chineduokoli1 3 роки тому +38

      Can't she open her mouth and explain? She's just talking in monosyllables and wanting Judge Mathis to make her case for her

    • @ericablige9449
      @ericablige9449 3 роки тому +17

      @La Vie En Pâquerette thats why its difficult to find humor in this case.

    • @lillysimonee8504
      @lillysimonee8504 3 роки тому +9

      Fr tho you could tell she’s hurt

    • @d820m
      @d820m 3 роки тому +7

      i don't know, I found parts of it hilarious....but then again I can find humor at a funeral

    • @thecheshirecat299
      @thecheshirecat299 3 роки тому +19

      @La Vie En Pâquerette but if u can’t explain something then how can u expect the Judge to find in your favor ... ?? Anyone just comes in and say they are in distress and stay silent and they get awarded ?

  • @foreverrcocochenel
    @foreverrcocochenel 2 роки тому +7

    The ending gave that he is tried of living with his mother. She’s probably the only person who can make him behave accordingly. She’s probably charging him rent etc. He also looks like he’ll beat this woman the hell up if the opportunity and circumstances are right. RUN GIRL, RUN!!!

    • @GoogleUser-wy2vv
      @GoogleUser-wy2vv 10 місяців тому

      Right... this no good man is tired of living with his mama

  • @quietmoment4716
    @quietmoment4716 Рік тому +3

    I can see a daughter who didn’t have a dad in her life. My heart goes out to you and I hope you have become a stronger woman. You’re VERY beautiful as well inside / most definitely out.

  • @mississippipoboy3200
    @mississippipoboy3200 3 роки тому +490

    Girl , what else does GOD have to do to show you HE is trying to save you from this TRAIN WRECK!! 🔥🔥lol

    • @337outlaw3
      @337outlaw3 3 роки тому +25

      He laid hands on her Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa sis keep it movin

    • @Linda-he8dn
      @Linda-he8dn 3 роки тому +13

      THE WRITINGS ON THE WALL🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

    • @sheliamcneill7009
      @sheliamcneill7009 3 роки тому +9

      Yes. Glory ......

    • @thebfacebetty8212
      @thebfacebetty8212 3 роки тому +10

      He showed my dumb ass 4 times and I still let the bim move in like a dummy..After two weeks I was like you stupid god already showed u he ain't the one..put him out !! That's over with..GOD WILL SHOW YOU!!

    • @goldiepatton8248
      @goldiepatton8248 3 роки тому +3

      Yes indeed.

  • @whatsthetruth_review
    @whatsthetruth_review 3 роки тому +331

    Judge Mathis should of been more serious about this case. This man humiliated her and was abusive to her. He absolutely did not care about her safety not her life.

    • @startinajackson606
      @startinajackson606 3 роки тому +13

      Truth

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 3 роки тому +26

      mathis is a fool in my opinion. he goes off his rocker for certain other things, but made a joke of her pain.

    • @EJ-lv2ju
      @EJ-lv2ju 3 роки тому +13

      He often does this to broken women unfortunately I caught on a long time ago. He really clowns for these no good ass men who abuse women Financially, emotionally, and physically. Smh I'm pissed about this one.

    • @dadabg8747
      @dadabg8747 3 роки тому +7

      Matthews don't want them arguing. So he tries to lighten the mood.... Unlike judge Judy.... 😂 😂 😂

    • @traciemartin3785
      @traciemartin3785 3 роки тому +13

      @Clarissa Caldwell I love Judge Mathis, but I have to agree with you on this. She didn't find anything funny, because she was feeling hurt & degraded(as she should have).

  • @numeraluno8148
    @numeraluno8148 3 роки тому +4

    She'll get back with him because she don't even have a person who'll take a cruise with her. 🤣

    • @isisdiamonique5481
      @isisdiamonique5481 3 роки тому +1

      Right. She could easily take her mom, they can drive it either take Amtrak.

  • @LisaLisa-jr3gr
    @LisaLisa-jr3gr 3 роки тому +4

    I'd go on that cruise so fast! BY MYSELF w/ no shame & have a great time too!!!

  • @r9153
    @r9153 3 роки тому +74

    She should've been more vocal with JM. He's so comfortable with treating her bad, he asked to reconnect with her again. Embarrassing and sad beyond reason. 🥺

  • @sagthenaturalsiren5997
    @sagthenaturalsiren5997 3 роки тому +461

    He’s abusive and she casually slid over the part when she said he put his hands on her smh

    • @sbss924
      @sbss924 3 роки тому +29

      YES!! I caught that. . Was she afraid of him, still in love with him???.

    • @LovelyCeee
      @LovelyCeee 3 роки тому +7

      Right! SMH

    • @shayg.1012
      @shayg.1012 3 роки тому +38

      Riiiiiight!!!! She said "that's the FIRST time he put his hands on me, THAT DAY"🤨 so you KNOW he have PHYSICALLY abused her on NUMEROUS occasions!!! It's sad that she STILL wanted and was WILLING to marry him 😔 she may not see it YET, but him leaving her at the alter was a blessing in disguise, NOT a cruel "punishment/gesture/treatment" or WHATEVER she thought at the time!!!! That was his way of SHOWING her how he REALLY feel about her! I just hope she doesn't let him wiggle his way back in her life and let him convince her to marry him bcuz that'll probably be the WORSE decision of her life!!

    • @startinajackson606
      @startinajackson606 3 роки тому +3

      @@shayg.1012 exactly.

    • @MichaelBellJr81
      @MichaelBellJr81 3 роки тому +6

      But yet she's testifying to being left at the altar, and suing for the cost of a cruise intended for a honeymoon... She's just not believable...

  • @sheilasembly-crum8447
    @sheilasembly-crum8447 3 роки тому +5

    She did not know what to say? I hope eventually told him "Goodbye" for her safety and peace of mind.

  • @NuB82
    @NuB82 3 роки тому +5

    The ending is what has me glad he "stood her up". She looks broken and terrified.

  • @IceRockPolar
    @IceRockPolar 3 роки тому +132

    This guy...”YOU know it”
    He overly trying to convince her she thinking wrong.
    Bruh stop it. She still want him. 2 dumb ppl. But the heart gonna want want it want.

    • @dreadxplayzs7849
      @dreadxplayzs7849 3 роки тому +5

      He doesn't want her,u can tell.

    • @IceRockPolar
      @IceRockPolar 3 роки тому +4

      @@dreadxplayzs7849 I don’t think he wants her for real for real, but I think he want her, just to be there, for him

    • @niecythebudgetnista3223
      @niecythebudgetnista3223 3 роки тому

      I would bet money that they R going 2 the
      Court House soon

  • @sunflowerglo5492
    @sunflowerglo5492 3 роки тому +55

    Ma'am, please leave that man alone. If you know what's good for you 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @AR21
    @AR21 Рік тому +4

    Plaintiff missed out a lot of information on the wedding debacle. JM gave her couple of opportunities to explain. She probably knew there was a chance he'd not turn up. Plus for him not to take the day off. What kind of wedding was it supposed to be. Were there guests. Dinner planned. Dress bought. Etc etc. No information from her. And she came to collect. Sorry you need to provide receipts.

  • @justtracy7175
    @justtracy7175 Рік тому +2

    When he left her at the alter that spoke volumes of what kind of person he is. Sista him not showing up was the best thing that happened

  • @nippypinto
    @nippypinto 3 роки тому +163

    She is probably very nice, but not the sharpest tool in the shed.

    • @Traciero
      @Traciero 3 роки тому +9

      I was thinking the same thing, only you said it nicer.

    • @ladylady8745
      @ladylady8745 3 роки тому +15

      i feel sorry for her kids bc they cant afford to have a dumb mother

    • @jeslyndonnell9138
      @jeslyndonnell9138 3 роки тому +5

      Right Tracie Travels! I’m like you Nikki Hanani she seems a bit puzzled too!

    • @Happy-mp7vm
      @Happy-mp7vm 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah something is off

    • @daniellepointer3328
      @daniellepointer3328 3 роки тому +7

      He isnt either

  • @aaronnorawashington9058
    @aaronnorawashington9058 3 роки тому +65

    " I didn't stood her up"! Girl...RUN REAL FAST! LMBO

    • @notastan7251
      @notastan7251 3 роки тому +2

      And said it more than once! 😂😭

    • @MzPCollins
      @MzPCollins 3 роки тому

      Lol I said the same thing lol... so he meant every word 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @aaronnorawashington9058
      @aaronnorawashington9058 3 роки тому

      I know right!

  • @LusaïlToDoha
    @LusaïlToDoha 3 роки тому +4

    People need to understand that their tone, the way they speak, their attitude-behavior everything transpires on your face, so how can you be in love with a guy like that and want to marry him?! This says a lot about who you are.

  • @Lo0ve1
    @Lo0ve1 3 роки тому +4

    Wait ✋... he's NOT paying his portion, when he's not living underneath you he lives at his mother's 🏠 and he's abusive...GURL HIM LEAVING U@THE ALTER WAS A BLESSING!!

  • @ejones9924
    @ejones9924 3 роки тому +147

    Argument was major excuse for him to avoid getting married. He would rather just lean on her instead and use her.

    • @moniquejones6482
      @moniquejones6482 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah, you can tell that they are not the sharpest pins in the box. Smh, sad.

    • @affiongduru2106
      @affiongduru2106 3 роки тому +4

      Baby u have enough red flag to back off as soon as u can. This is no husband material

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 Рік тому

      Yet she still wanted to marry him 😪

    • @beverlyhall4578
      @beverlyhall4578 Рік тому

      Female, run. He is an abuser.

  • @sarajames8890
    @sarajames8890 3 роки тому +94

    I'll go on a cruise by myself shoot and have a ball if I don't have anybody to go with

    • @mothercapricorn947
      @mothercapricorn947 3 роки тому +9

      I'll take a friend...we could enjoy the cruise they would APPRECIATE it...

    • @mothercapricorn947
      @mothercapricorn947 3 роки тому +4

      @La Vie En Pâquerette she's too needy...she better enjoy that cruise take a friend, take a cousin...

    • @jennzifur
      @jennzifur 3 роки тому +8

      @@mothercapricorn947 People can go alone and have fun.

    • @mothercapricorn947
      @mothercapricorn947 3 роки тому +4

      @@jennzifur I agree you can let your hair down and you don't have to worry about someone not wanting to do certain things...

    • @jennevamadison3803
      @jennevamadison3803 3 роки тому +6

      At this day and time I wouldn't recommend anyone to go alone.

  • @bipiedeceit8539
    @bipiedeceit8539 3 роки тому +3

    This is why it's so important to be able to date yourself and enjoy your own company. Go by Yourself!!!

  • @Eli-ou7ol
    @Eli-ou7ol Рік тому +2

    He needs a place to stay.. Run Lady!!!! He stays with his mother withhis ole self. LOL

  • @fadethechannel
    @fadethechannel 3 роки тому +68

    Lmaooo never knew Judge Mathis took a shot at Judge Judy before 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @brilliantlybritt1928
    @brilliantlybritt1928 3 роки тому +50

    The Judge Judy shade! 😭😭😭 Judge Mathis, sir you be doing the same damn thing! He's still my fave though 😂

    • @LeolaGlamour
      @LeolaGlamour 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly, as he's gotten older he's been done with bull just like her.

    • @jeremiah6114
      @jeremiah6114 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/a47zrKO42iw/v-deo.html🕎

    • @angelraeee
      @angelraeee Рік тому +1

      Lmaooo but really

  • @prettylyricsmarie
    @prettylyricsmarie Рік тому +4

    You take time off work to marry someone, you really want to. This man is full of it. Ridiculous

  • @angelphilbert
    @angelphilbert 2 роки тому +2

    She is traumatized from the embarrassment and abuse. She is not articulating herself properly. When he started speaking to her after the case, she looked as scared as I felt for her. He abused this woman.

  • @876me7
    @876me7 3 роки тому +72

    He's a flaky loser who can't provide for a family if she they get into an argument over him not paying his half of the rent. What man argues over paying rent?! I don't think it's funny at all that he stood her up at the altar. That is very hurtful! He's also a physical abuser. I don't see anything funny about this case and I'm not sure why the Judge was cracking jokes.

    • @thebfacebetty8212
      @thebfacebetty8212 3 роки тому +9

      EXACTLY!! He a bum PERIODT and it's not funny,he can't even pay half of the rent and got the nerve to put his hands on somebody..smh..that Karma will get him fo sho!!

    • @nowyukno7981
      @nowyukno7981 3 роки тому +6

      I’m not sure why judge was cracking joke this whole situation was no laughing matter just sad

    • @ramiyna
      @ramiyna 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly. None of it was funny to me!

    • @gwendesuza-mercer5901
      @gwendesuza-mercer5901 3 роки тому +2

      Run baby run.if he can't pay the rent what good is he? He is a looser. Thank him for opening your eyes and run. You deserve better. Run baby run!

    • @jplaya2023
      @jplaya2023 Рік тому +1

      Despite all that she stood with him. Why do you think that is?

  • @leea.5213
    @leea.5213 3 роки тому +73

    Their interaction after the judgment was super uncomfortable. I hope she is ok.

  • @joefranks2356
    @joefranks2356 3 роки тому +5

    She sounds like a beautiful soul. I'd love to go on a cruise with her. Show you how a woman is supposed to be treated.

  • @randimarshals1259
    @randimarshals1259 3 роки тому +2

    Doyle is looking like GET OUT🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @breeziem4988
    @breeziem4988 3 роки тому +69

    if he didn’t want to get married he should’ve just said that why hadn’t he already asked for the day off for his wedding who just decides that on their wedding day they was gonna call in sick. What was gonna do for the honeymoon use three days and then come back so he doesn’t have to produce a a doctors note 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @psychicladyg9415
      @psychicladyg9415 3 роки тому +2

      He had planned the day off. He just didn't want to get married.

    • @wecountingmoneyoverhere2517
      @wecountingmoneyoverhere2517 3 роки тому

      Then get sick again for another 3 days off, no Dr.'s note required. 😂😂😂

    • @Diva8204
      @Diva8204 3 роки тому

      He sounds like he just started a new job. Remember he never had money. He crazy though saying it was a game messing with the steering wheel. I hope she didn't go back for the cruise,smh

    • @breeziem4988
      @breeziem4988 3 роки тому

      @@Diva8204 it really doesn’t matter if he just started a new job which didn’t sound like it to me. I started a new job two weeks before my sister got married and told them in the first interview that my sister is getting married and I have brought my dress and paid for my hotel stay and would need the day off and surprise surprise I got those days off.

  • @webster2086
    @webster2086 3 роки тому +312

    Lmao @ judge mathis shading judge judy for the same stuff he be doing

    • @noble78b
      @noble78b 3 роки тому +18

      🤣🤣exactly

    • @SipLikeTea
      @SipLikeTea 3 роки тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @XxiliketwinkiesxX
      @XxiliketwinkiesxX 3 роки тому +8

      I was thinking that too Lmaoo

    • @Drayonis
      @Drayonis 3 роки тому +27

      But he was spot on. Judge Judy don't even listen - she just attacks

    • @BrownBamaGirl8
      @BrownBamaGirl8 3 роки тому +10

      He's really worse now.

  • @LexxLeoppard
    @LexxLeoppard 3 роки тому +35

    Honey if we could all sue for emotional distress over a breakup, we'd be rich! 🤑

    • @pamelajudithrwanyarare8429
      @pamelajudithrwanyarare8429 Рік тому +3

      If you don't want to get married, don't get engaged, don't prepare for a wedding... It's mentally abusive to take being dumped at the altar lightly, she will have trust issues for a long time because of it.
      Her biggest problem is she did not express herself well, she is probably not bright but she deserved compensation for that. The only thing I can forgive him for is his apology sounded genuine.

  • @evangdeborahmiddlebrook5770
    @evangdeborahmiddlebrook5770 3 роки тому +2

    “Lady, you’ve seen what you needed to 👀 from this man,” “now 🏃🏽‍♀️run like there’s no tomorrow, and be soooo, glad this happened before getting married, to HIM.” Whew!😅

  • @Vision-nr8zy
    @Vision-nr8zy 3 роки тому +49

    Whew smh she needs to work on herself being single is not the worst thing trust

  • @snake991231
    @snake991231 3 роки тому +28

    She better be happy that , that situation didn’t work out!
    He seems to have anger issues & his behavior is concerning!

  • @florencedoman6793
    @florencedoman6793 Рік тому +1

    Leave that man alone. Him stooding you up is a blessing in desguise.

  • @kaeshalae1
    @kaeshalae1 Рік тому +1

    This woman is TIRED. She looks so drained. Protect your peace girl😊

  • @cristalcl
    @cristalcl 3 роки тому +60

    They both seem slow...they talk about the fighting and him standing her up at the alter like it's nothing.

    • @mieshanicole1614
      @mieshanicole1614 3 роки тому

      The *alder*
      I was annoyed at her for pronouncing it like that 😩

  • @carolinemagee8033
    @carolinemagee8033 3 роки тому +33

    Wow, plaintiff tried to sue for a cruise that she won and failed to explain how distressed it was when groom didn't show. Bet she's with him right now, unmarried.

  • @mznaeture
    @mznaeture 2 роки тому +1

    He said he WAS gonna call off work to get married but NAH... 😆

  • @blaccnrumanthony9131
    @blaccnrumanthony9131 5 місяців тому +1

    This guy at the end 😅 trying to make peace for that cruise she still has 😂

  • @leannbuggs888
    @leannbuggs888 3 роки тому +18

    Girl Bye! You don't know what to say? This man has shown you who he is. When people show you who they are, BELIEVE THEM.

  • @eddieelliott1496
    @eddieelliott1496 3 роки тому +44

    What kind of job do you have that will have you stand up your woman on your wedding day.🤔 And then he got his PhD from the Ike Turner School of ass whooping. Eat the cake Annie May eat the cake.

    • @Just_us-2
      @Just_us-2 3 роки тому +3

      Lhm 😂😂

    • @poppmaxx2348
      @poppmaxx2348 2 роки тому

      Nobody at that job even know he was getting married.

  • @G-PAT
    @G-PAT 4 дні тому

    This was a sign, be grateful not heartbroken, you was saved🤗🙏🏾🤗🙏🏾🤗🙏🏾, take that trip with a friend ❤️

  • @AURICVU
    @AURICVU 3 роки тому +22

    As crazy as this sounds, it’s better for him to have not shown up than him coming & saying I do & then causing her a world win of pain/problems which will eventually lead to a divorce. Him not showing up was a blessing disguise!

  • @kelsg5
    @kelsg5 3 роки тому +32

    She was more worried about the cruise than explaining more about the wedding

  • @realitydoll216
    @realitydoll216 3 роки тому +1

    That Judge Judy comment.....😂😂😂😂😭😭😭. #FACTS

  • @ethiopianabesha
    @ethiopianabesha 3 роки тому +1

    Shawmika: "I don't know what to say."
    Grown-Folk-Wisdom: "Say, BYE"

  • @KIYAQUEN
    @KIYAQUEN 3 роки тому +55

    She has nice brown skin and is very beautiful, reminds me of Betty Boop🥰🥰

  • @rubydavis6627
    @rubydavis6627 3 роки тому +14

    She should be thanking God that this marriage never happened.

  • @l.k.1111
    @l.k.1111 3 роки тому +1

    Loved the Judy shoutout lol she IS known for that, so that was funny😂.

  • @penelopeparks5022
    @penelopeparks5022 Рік тому +1

    Girl, go on that cruise and enjoy!! 🤗

  • @showienelson9163
    @showienelson9163 3 роки тому +32

    “HOW YOU GO TO WORK “INSTEAD OF YOUR WEDDING? “LORD HELP ME OUT PLEASE 😂😫🤣😩😭

    • @d820m
      @d820m 3 роки тому

      you get paid for going to work?

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 3 роки тому

      @@d820m What does that have to do with getting married? People with jobs get married everyday.

    • @d820m
      @d820m 3 роки тому

      Question was asked, I answered...simple

    • @loiscoe6106
      @loiscoe6106 3 роки тому +1

      She just doesn't understand he doesn't want to get married