The Most Narcissistic TikToker on the Planet
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- TikTok, my arch nemesis. Today, we look at who might just be the most narcissistic person I have ever seen on the app. A woman named BethanyBachie, who claims that being attractive makes like more difficult. Buckle up.
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She couldn't have put it better, being ugly is also about personality
How kind of her to demonstrate it for us
Facts 💯 Exactly why "stereotypically" average or below average people have no problem getting laid, getting married, having families and fulfilling lives. She needs to seriously touch some grass. Not to mention has she ever heard that beauty is in the eye of the beholder? Everyone has a different type preference. I'm positive there are men who wouldn't find her physically attractive at all because they are into an entirely different look.
She not even that good looking.
@@Luvlymarshmellow666When I see someone bragging about their looks: 🧐
A random low wage working woman: 😳🤭
@@__-tp4tm um ok? No one asked.
@@Luvlymarshmellow666 I couldn't spot anyone asking you either. Strange.
I don't understand how this person doesn't understand that anyone can be kidnapped, anyone can be SA'd, anyone can be followed. It doesn't matter how unattractive or attractive you are people will always do something like that no matter what.
Hi
shes so disgusting, i dont even believe how someone could agree with her
I mean, I feel for her if this is true but I also question her life choices if these things were when she was older. No victim blaming but it's like if I got robbed 10 times before I was 20 because I walked through the ghetto flaunting my money. I'm still a victim but someone needs to help teach me making better life choices.
Either way, that sucks if that stuff happened to her. I still wouldn't tell people not to make friends with people less attractive than them.
If anything it increases more depends on your race
Exactly.such a sad reality in my opinion
As a conventionally unattractive person, I can say that I, too, have
1. Been SA'ed
2. Been followed by random men
3. Had a bunch of people be fake nice to me and pretend to be my friend only to sabotage me
4. Been in abusive, toxic relationships
5. Had people alter their personalities to try and get my approval
Likewise,
I'm generally seen as attractive and I've never been SA'd or kidnapped or anything like that. I also don't think people are nice to me because of my looks. Not everyone is trying to manipulate or get something from u all the time.
I have been in an abusive relationship, but that happened because I had low self esteem, not because of my looks. The abusive guy would have screwed anything that moved lol.
This girl is delu-lu. Abusive fake people don't just follow attractive people wherever they go. But you know what traits do attract these things? Vulnerability and low self esteem. Ain't got anything to do with looks.
@@BeesRecipes Well said!
Then by her standards, you're definitely a very attractive person.
Me too hun
Same
As someone who’s pretty unattractive and got bullied for it a lot, I’m just watching this like 😐 I’ve also been the victim of SA and other awful things, these people look for weakness and vulnerability. I’m just. There are no words!
I'm so sorry you've been through that❤ I hope you are feeling better now.
I've been through it as well. My cousin did that to me when I was 6.
She doesn't want someone to be with her just because of her looks, but they sure as hell won't be staying with her for her personality.
YEP!
She literally says "being ugly is a personality trait", then goes on like a 10 min rant😂 🤦🏾♂️like, bro, how is this not satire?
She clearly doesn't understand why "ugly" people don't like her....😅
She doesn't have a personality. Well, only a toxic one.
She right tho, ugly is a personality trait and she has said trait
you can be the prettiest person in the world, but a mindset like this immediately makes you the complete opposite
She said herself that beauty isn't just a surface characteristic, but involves personality traits, so she's ugly af by her own standards. He beauty is skin deep but her ugly goes to the bone.
Agree. If you’re ugly on the inside, you’re just an ugly person, inside and out. Like this girl 👆🏼
I’ll give her a 5 or 6 on a scale of 10. Personality is a 1 on the same scale. Delusion runs deep with this one.
exactly. those who exalt themselves will be humbled, but those who humble themselves will be exalted
Precisely
The fact she thinks that ONLY pretty and attractive people get SA and creeped upon at nights and being almost kidnapped is such a disgusting thing to me. She has main character syndrome.
She is 18 so I’m not surprised, 18 is still pretty much a child they have no real world experience outside of their own. Every teenager goes through some type of main character syndrome, though it varies.
IMO she is a traumatized child trying to rationalize the world around her and why the things that happened to her happened.
Her mentality is still that of child, and due to her trauma it more than likely that it delayed her in the mental and emotional development department.
It kind of gives narcissistic but not really… it’s more self absorbed & oblivious than anything.
@@itzTeTeShe still should know what a personality is by now.
@@itzTeTeI don't think she's traumatized...more like wants attention
@@itzTeTeor a child
You do know that being self absorbed and oblivious at the same time, depending on context, is the literal text book example of narcissism, right? Lol
“It’s a high schooler mindset” please don’t group me in with her
Saying she has the mindset of a highschooler is an insult to highschoolers💀
It’s really more like middle school at oldest popular kid mindset
You're completely right, it's unfair to group her with high schoolers because as a group you tend to be way more conscious of other people and the world around you. Also, I'd say over 99% of high schoolers have more maturity, self-awareness and depth of character than her.
She actually reminds me of the pretty, popular, egocentric mean high school girl character in kid movies from the early 2000's. A caricature of a caricature.
@@gabrielle4152kinda
like Regina George
@@Dragonzilla2.0 Exactly.
I bet if she had a friend who she considered less attractive than herself and they were assaulted, she'd be offended that the predator didn't pick her. And she'd absolutely try to invalidate or even straight up deny that friend's experience.
Her video reminds me of that voice over where there is a skit of 'me being kidnapped' or 'gen z being kidnapped' and they say 'Why de you pick me??🤭🤭 do you think Im cute???🤭'
That video is obviously just a joke but she seems to personify it perfectly
Facts 💯
Assaulter: aight girl gonna assault you
Her: umm hello!? I’m the pretty one here
Assaulter: nah Imma pass, you ugly
Her: reeeeeee
I had multiple friends throughout my life like this. They were literally jealous that I was assaulted and they weren’t. Like what?? It made absolutely no sense to me. Like ok I’d gladly trade with you if I could?🙄
Facts that's disturbing af
The way she giggled, snickered and smiled when saying she was "Almost kidnapped" and "SA'd multiple times" Actually made me see red. I know not all victims act the same but I've never never never met a victim of SA who BRAGGED about it cause they thought were pretty. I was without words...
reminds me of the girls at my school who thought themselves to be superior by getting attention from a pedo really disturbing and did nothing to report really shows how society is a shitshow when i think abt it it actually is the opposite of a compliment for me it never was i just the like ew get off me as IF lmao there is a reason this idiot goes after minors nothing to be proud of
@@Chulpansilu
I know what you mean. I was even jealous that the pedo showed no interest in me, while the “pretty” popular girls were smitten with him (even though he was cheating on his pregnant wife).
It wasn’t till I became an adult I realised that he didn’t show any interest in me because it had more to do with my personality and he would have picked up on the fact that I’m not easily manipulated, rather than for the reason that I want pretty enough.
Called a woman physically ugly cuz she had an odd head shape with an unjustified putrid ego that she'd take out on others and so I simply called her ugly her response was " I get harassed everytime I leave the gym do clearly not" some women really use anything to cope with the reality they are ugly inside and out
I was thinking the same thing and literally screamed “wtf is wrong with her?” when she was smiling when she said that she was almost SAed. No SA victim would act like this lunatic.
I was SAed from when I was 9-13 and I have CPTSD because of it. I don’t even feel comfortable around my own dad, and she has the damn audacity to smile and brag about being almost SAed because she’s attractive?! She doesn’t have a working brain… it’s all mush up there 🤢.
I think she’s lying, flat out
Imagine not looking beyond how people physically look when evaluating who you want to keep in your life. How unbelievably shallow.
IKR, ridiculous.
Frr, girl needs to get a grip
@@KagurimiPAIN I HATE-
Especially when you have a face you have to cover up lol...
fr fr@@nevermorxd
I wasnt an “attractive” 13 year old, and I was SA’d anyway. It’s about power and control, not looks. It can happen to men and women, any race, any age, any size.
Am sorry that happened
And you would be 100% correct.
I mean she's not ugly but she's that girl you'd walk by in public and not really notice tbh
she needs to get rid of the bangs...her hair is soooo thin and her forehead being greasy af makes her honestly look really bad she honestly just looks very average with very thin hair
This was my reaction as well. Yes she's pretty, but ffs... I live in South Florida. There are stunning women everywhere here. She's not even close to that level especially with that incredibly terrible personality. My God.... Cannot imagine being so vain and unaware at the same time 😂
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT
agreed but if you talked to her youd probs never talk to her again LOL
BRO I SAID THAT IN MY HEAD TOO SHE LOOKS LIKE A LOT OF THE GIRLS ON MY CAMPUS and there’s nothing wrong with that ofc, but she ain’t no supermodel, and even if she was this attitude would make her ugly either way
I physically cringed when she said she was "naturally charming". Very hard. This has never happened to me before.
she isn’t, everyone at our school hated her
I almost spat out my water when she said it 😂
She’s pretty but also in the totally normal range, where did that ego come from? Lol
Where's that charm she thinks she possess? She could be considered cute until she opens her mouth. Then everything goes out the window.
Lol
@@allysondekorne1227lmaooo
It's even funnier because she literally just looks like a normal person.
@@HeyyitsHaylielets not forget all the makup, editing, special affects zendaya gets from her team. shes pretty but shes not like a goddess
@@HeyyitsHaylieshe's prettier then zendaya lol but still like a 6 at best
@@Gesu_925bad take
@@user-gx9et2rh4q why
@@Gesu_925you’re terribly blind i fear 😕
“My life has experience has taught me” then immediately follows it up with “I’m 18” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If being sexy was a crime, she would be a law abiding citizen
Edit: I just logged on to UA-cam after a long vacation, and GOD DAYUM! 2.2K LIKES? What I said was literally an intrusive thought, plus I barely post anything on social media in general, so this is a huuuge shock to me! Thanks, I guess…?
Uhh burn 😬
Cloaker,what the fuck.
She'd be Barney Fife.
@@dachsrottweiler😭✋
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
"Ugly people don't have problems"
Me, someone who grew up "ugly": has been bullied, never taken seriously, been excluded, treated like a joke, has low self esteem, ended up as a people pleaser, lacks self-confidence, I could go on from there
(the following should be read in her voice) Yeah but like, you're not hot, though, so it totes doesn't count...
Yeah, but my makeup is so expensive!!! Omigosh!!!! How could your "problems" ever be wOrSe than MINE???
I'm literally filled with so much self-hatred because I'm ugly and fat (amongst other things) that I became suicidal at 10, but I'm not pretty so my problems obviously don't matter nor count 🤷🏻♀️
exactly. and fat people have health Problems to Boot and those are the really serious Problems compared to "everybody is so nice to me"
Im sure you’re absolutely stunning, gorgeous, beautiful and worth it. A lot of the time people call others ugly to lift their own self esteem, it’s rather pathetic really. Im glad you’ve survived till now and I hope you keep on pushing, fuck anyone who called you ugly them bitches blinder than a worm
The fact that she called herself seductive and charming ☠️. No one who is truly seductive or charming has to say that they are, it is simply known.
She comes off as incredibly insecure.
Anddd yet she offended millions of people who’ve basically come to the comments saying “You’re not that attractive! I’VE been SA’d more than you will ever be ugh!” Basically, its the appreciation of the capacity.
She doesn't realize the reason people avoid her is because of her personality.
this girl is SO infuriating, you’d get father talking to a brick wall..
She is very child like ..
Her voice brings her whole being down on the charming meter
...I no longer believe that this girl has ever experienced any sort of SA. The way she speaks, it's like she's proud. Like it's a badge of honor. Like it's proof that any man wanted her.
Y'know, I've been through that mindset before, and also seen other young girls go through it. Before we'd ever known what it was like to _actually_ be cared for. Or to be taken advantage of.
There's no pride in it. You don't brag about it. Not once you know what it's like. How worthless and pathetic it feels.
her definition is a guy she doesn’t find attractive finding her attractive
I mean yeeeaa..it’s quite hard to believe. But I dont think we should openly doubt her either. As it can be very harmful if it really is true.
@@chanqmin8687 I'd bet my left nut sack that she's never experienced any form of SA
I usually dont even tell people about my struggles bc im embaressad
@@chanqmin8687 I worked with a woman who spoke with the exact same cadence and inflections as this woman. She made many claims, all of which turned out to be false. She actually got fired recently for trying for the umpteenth time to slander someone.
"I don't want people to be with me because of my looks!"
Girl that's the only thing you can offer. Personality is -9000.
-9000?
Nah she -100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000
Her personality is a solid -90
LOL! FACTS
@@ymz.hu.3gyt damn you right tho
Nah she's genuinely average looking. Definitely not ugly. But just an average looking girl. Someone needs to be honest with her about this.
I don't know who told her she was so attractive. There's nothing more unattractive then a person who thinks she's more attractive than she really is.
Yeah true that. She has absolutely no humility. Good lord she's immature and so very shallow.
Yeah, her bangs look weird on her ngl, plus her voice is annoying. VERY annoying.
I mean, she is pretty. But the funny thing about attractiveness is that it'll make a huge difference if you are nice (compared to an unattractive person who's just as nice.)
But if you're mean it doesn't matter
She okay to me I see them every where average looking girls
@@melchiorlise2466she's not unattractive. She is not pretty. There is a difference
So sad that she believes SA is a form of looks validation. She's 2 seconds away of telling a victim "you are lying, you were not SA'd because you're ugly".
Edit: To everybody who's been in this scenario: I'm with you, you are not to blame for what happened, no matter what AHs like the one in the video say. This happens because those beasts failed as humans and justifying it with your physical appearence is just another idiot attempt to deflect the blame from those beasts. I love you, guys, just for who you are, you didn't deserve what happened and it will never be your fault.
A warm hug from Mexico city 🤍
I was drugged and kidnapped at 17. I wouldn’t have claimed I was attractive.
Yeah…I hope something didn’t happen to her to make her think that way
Imagine saying this to a kid lol. I dont even have anything to say to this.
she is denying/ find a justification which does not exist a valid one for someone who dont control their thoughts and do whatever they want. Besides beauty is subjective. She is pretty but she was prettier before talking.
It's also nasty because young people, girls and boys, that are SA'd tend to be generally conventionally unattractive, many overweight. Half of the job of the abuser is already done by society. Also 1/3 of all women in the US have or will experience SA at some point in their lives- I'm absolutely certain that every one wouldn't pass this woman criteria for attractiveness.
This is going to be so cringy and embarrassing for her in a few years.
I lost best friends because of this craziness. I swear people genuinely get insane because their ego gets higher and higher because if the constant online validation. They need to be humbled badly. Not only for the others sake but mainly for their own. Does she looks happy? Does she have legit good friends that care about her, if she doesn’t? I think its actually really sad, I hope she wakes up soon.
"Growing up i didn't have a good living situation."
Trust me, girl, we can tell.
nah, she prolly a spoiled kid who wants make her life seem hard to get validation
🤣🤣🤣
Her parents told her one time that she's a very special little girl. She took it so personally that she rules the world in her own mind.
@@DustyJones1997BGCLshe thinks she elizabeth
She sounds like the kind of person who says "who would SA/stalk you? You're not THAT hot."
Well like, she literally kind of did.
@@loyalty5207I will admit I commented before I got to that part
@@BaddieBunnieLooks like you were right
I had a girl who worked with me at a hotel and our manager started sexually harassing me so I stopped working there. She heard why and said I doubt you got sexually harassed because he don’t do it to me. I obviously didn’t wanna be done that way which is why I stopped working there but she acted like I was making it up but I’ve worked in several places that this stuff has never happened at. I’m not the type to just accuse unless it’s happening but if you threaten to fire me because I won’t kiss you and many other things he did I’m gonna assume it’s not just nothing. I put up with a lot just thinking maybe I’m taking it the wrong way but trying to kiss me confirmed it. Then after he called me breathing weird on the phone and she still acted like I was full of myself because he didn’t do it to her. I would have loved to trade places if she wanted it so bad but I couldn’t. 🤣
@@jessicahanson6105i am sorry that has happend to you ❤🫂
as a male survivor of SA (from 15/16 until 22 (age)) and way more. Thank you for calling out people like this. It's horrendous how people like that act like they have some form of exclusivity to assault/harassment/whatever.
I have a really tough time believing her when she talks about how she gets followed constantly, and such. Her behaviour feels a lot more like she is twisting everyone's motives to fit her personal narrative ("This person is walking the same way? they must be following me!!" etc)
I'm so sorry you've had to experience that at such a young age. You matter so so much and you're amazing. Anyone that says otherwise is a liar. Stay strong ❤
Allo fellow SA guy, she have to realise that other people's actions and thought aren't always about her.
As for you, I understand what you're coming from, for me it happened when I was younger, and recently, I think I always attract the same kind of people, so I've decided to stay alone, I'm older with kids who are adults, and I don't want a girlfriend or a wife anymore. In my case, the SA was played as big joke, twice, and I don't want that to happen again. I deal with it alone, because I'm not the generation who was taught to talk about this, and the few friends I've talked to find that funny for some reasons. Take care, good luck in the future.
Edit : english isn't my language.
Are you alright now?
@@MarvinHartmann452are you still friends with those people who find it funny?:(
I'm so sorry for what you went through. ❤
She is most definitely mid, and the narcissistic behavior makes her a 0/10
Someone said it. Thanks.
Pro tip:
If you've almost been kidnapped in the past, plastering your face all over the internet is probably a bad idea
Nevermind the fact that she probably has not reported any of these "attempted kidnappings"
@@incubus364
Sadly, we don't know how many sexual violence incidents against women doesn't get reported. I do believe her that she probably been stalked and worse in her life, but her virulent belief that fat uglies aren't going to be survivors of theses crimes is toxic.
@@cremetangerine82 or some people are so arrogant that they automatically assume everyone is a pedo. Did you know on tiktok a woman at the gym tried to expose a guy on the internet calling him a pervert just because he glanced at her for half a second.
@@redfatseal2407 you've gotta be careful. There's lots of danger
@@spicybeantofu yes I know, even for boys as well. There's gay people in my lockeroom who tries to hump us
“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.”- Charles Bukowski
This is now my favorite quote
Holy shit, I love this quote.
I know I'm late to the party, but there's a thing called the Dunning-krueger Effect that sums this up pretty well!
I hope that this is somewhat true.❤
Or if you prefer it in poetry "The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity" WB Yeats
Whoever gave her that big of an ego needs to be locked up💀
Her mirror told her that, It's her personality I can't imagine she has many friend's. I doubt it!!!
It’s a smoke screen. Deep down she’s awfully insecure, which is where all of this is coming from.
Her narcissistic mind is the one that inflated her ego 💀
Her single mom who wanted to be her best friend instead of her parent💀
This has nothing to do with ego. What she expirenced is real. But it has nothing to do with attractiveness. She expirenced sexism and a lot of it and doesn't know how to name it
She says she does, but I don't think she actually realizes that beauty is quite subjective. Like when I look at her, I don't get those fuzzy feelings of "Wow, she's so beautiful." To me? She's honestly nothing special. Certainly not ugly, but she really just doesn't evoke those feelings. Like, at all. And that isn't me trying to "humble" her or even really comment on her looks. There is NOTHING wrong with how she looks at all.
But it's ironic because when she hears "Hey, you aren't actually THAT pretty." She thinks "Oh they're lying because they're jealous." Like??? Maybe these thoughts are because you're insecure?? And maybe people are telling you that because they want you to know PEOPLE CAN TELL?? We all know that being overconfident and arrogant are defense mechanisms. And when people give you a reality check it normally isn't out of malice. It's because acting like this is fucking embarassing. Especially when you frankly don't actually have your looks to fall back on...
exactly, dudes honestly average. craaazyy that shes over here acting like the gods handcrafted her
She’s going to look back on this with soooooooooo much embarrassment. I feel a little sorry for her.
She won’t, she’ll always think she’s right
I don't
Yeah... Being a narcissistic freak was not my thing, but my early 20's self sure thought I was possibly the most brilliant person ever. I am beyond grateful that social media and ever present cameras were not a thing during that time. I cringe at just my memories, the idea of actual footage...
😖
That would be a positive thing. Because she will have grown and gotten enough perspective to understand how ridiculous her content was.
unless she never changes.
She has the tone and cadence of someone who is making up every story she's telling on the spot, and her facial expressions give me the creeps, because it reminds me of narcissists I've dated in the past. If you know anyone who speaks like this girl does, for your sake, STAY AWAY!
100%
Once you’ve been with a narcissist, You can feel the fake, you can’t unsee the false self in other narcissists. The way she speaks is unsettling and that’s because now you have a radar that picks up on it after your narcissistic ex.
It’s very surface, there is no meaning to anything they say, it’s just to hear herself talk. Yuck
@@jooxumja there's also this thing where they pretty much expect that because they're voicing a thought they're having, then it's the objective truth of how the world works. And you can see their eyes kinda squinting, as if they're a deity judging everyone and speaking natural laws into existence or something. It's really disturbing.
@@marcosdiogenes9380 so true! You have a way with describing it that’s spot on.
I also have dealt and am in the midst of healing from a narcissist. He was textbook covert. There was also this strange thing were he wouldn’t look me in the eye but kinda flutter his eyes when I tried to make eye contact.
I have also seen his eyes turn black during one of his rages. They are demonic beings, I’m sure of it. Just flesh portals to be taken over by some malignant archon.
Just sayin’ it gets dark
She is clearly a narcissist. She can't go 30 seconds without complimenting and speaking highly of herself 😂 God damn, even if she was a 10 I would never want to be with her. Imagine how your life would be living with that..
The fact that she thought this was okay to release on the internet for millions to see indicates how little empathy and awareness she has.
This ! So true 💯
Terrifying that we could be raising a generation of such huge idiots as this.
She just got that rotting tiktok brain, i can basically see her last 2 braincells dying throughout the video
What more can you expect from someone who’s 18 in 2023 honestly 🤷🏻♀️
sociopathy
between her and a goose i’m choosing the goose
UrM actually he is scientifically a duck☝️🤓
@@Dragonzilla2.0ducks and gooses are different…
@@ZenityReal dont worry about him, he's a quack
How does she know that being attractive is hard? Does she have an attractive friend that tells her that?
🤣
This is a top tier comment!!🤣🤣🤣
Hilarious!🤣😂🤘
THIS
All jokes aside, and I don’t mean to be mean, but objectively speaking I seriously don’t think she’s as attractive as she believes. Like, sure she’s not ugly but she’s just average… Which, there’s nothing wrong with being average but I feel like she’s been treated ‘badly’ more because of her awful personality and not her looks at all. Also, the people who actually ‘suffer’ from attractiveness, usually look so beautiful they look like they’re from another planet almost. But I can name at least 5 girls from my class that are at her level and 10 who are prettier 🤷🏻♀️ No this isn’t meant as something to humble her. I just don’t get why she has that mindset
She’s 18, so no surprise. Beauty fades and it’s subjective, but dumb is forever.
Straight up nothing but the truth
Yeah everyone is dumb in their own ways. Can’t really change that, but that’s what makes us human.
Dumb isnt forever either) shes just a kid
I am reading a book right now by Judge Judy from 1998 called that - Beauty Fades, Dumb is Forever. Very good read so far.
We were all "dumb" at 18. We thought we knew it all but had no clue. One day she will look back at this and be like...wtf was I thinking!
the way you can tell that in her head being assaulted multiple times is a justification for a person's attractiveness sends a cold chill down my spine..
lol the girls in my class who got harassed by my childhood rapist took it as a compliment and didnt report him and attacked me for speaking the truth about it they were all very ugly in all aspects of their existence actually self confident people dont need validation like that
She clearly has some inability to process her trauma correctly.. hopefully she'll grow out of it
@@spookybeansyeah I actually feel quite sorry for her. This wreaks of childhood abuse.
Wait, she said ugliness is subjective but two seconds later she says if your 400 pounds and ugly as f**k you don’t have to worry about getting assaulted!? She totally contradicted herself!
She’s the definition of that mean girl in high school. I have been overweight my whole life and have been assaulted 4 times. Yet oh well that’s obvious not true because I’m ugly and fat duh!
Vapid in the dictionary has her photo by it. She has nothing interesting or quality to add. Maybe she’s the female version of Shallow Hal?
It's subjective, but in her world she's the subject. So subjective to her means "my opinion dictates reality".
Honestly, the whole videos is a contradiction🤦♂️
Thinking SA is about attractiveness and not about violence is wild, it also puts the blame on the victim so she has some serious stuff she needs to work through.
SA full from?
se*ual abus e@@jishajain7341
@@jishajain7341 full form is sexual assault. a lot of social media platforms would flag your content if you mentioned triggering words like that. censorship and allat
@@lucva gotcha, thanks !
It also undermines and invalidates other victims’ experiences.
This girl is very young, and i hope she grows out of this mindset. she reminds me of my friend in college who told me she only cares about the opinions of who she finds objectively attractive, and who she deems unattractive doesn’t matter
Yea I agree, that's why I tend to forgive young people for the stupid things they say unless it's waaay crossing the line, like criminal or harassment.
I hope people just ignore her and don't engage... but she put it online so that's unfortunate. Hopefully someone that cares about her helps her from embarrassing herself further
Yes she is quite young and has so much to learn. There is more to this world than just being “pretty”…. But her personality doesn’t seem very pleasant at all, she’s just made herself very unattractive, the way she speaks is disgusting and condescending
Thats exactly my thoughts too. Thats why I am not reading too much into it, shes barely an adult and at an age where you are still finding a lot of your true self
She needs to wash her grease hair.
she’s had this mindset since middle school y’all, been involved with the cops since too, didn’t hear it from me👩🦯👩🦯
It’s 8:31 here where I am at, I’m eating a breakfast corn dog and drinking my coffee. I can’t start my day off with this video, watched like a minute and I honestly thought to myself “this is the worst way to start your day”
So many countless times I have met a girl who was physically attractive and as soon as she spoke her attractive points dropped like the stock market of the 1930’s. The opposite is also true, met girls who were not “through the roof” gorgeous but as soon as she spoke her attractiveness far surpassed that of the first example. As I always says, “looks are the bait, personality is the hook.”
i like your funny words magic man
Same. Many of these girls don't understant that you can't be attractive if you have ugly personality. Only for the first glance but nobody is putting up with a woman like that even if she was a 10, which she is not by a long shot. I would say, like 7 based on the looks, and 1 when you get to know them. I would much rather be with a woman who is 5 on the outside with a good personality making her 8-10. Much, much rather.
Beauty is subjective truly. I find my boyfriend the handsome man in this world ,more handsome than k-pop guys or actors.
And I know for a fact that other people will not agree with me there 😂 but that's how it is. Even when he had cystic pimple phase I still found him handsome 😂. Because truly personality outshines the physical appearance
People will call some of my crushes ugly all the time but I stopped caring because the reason I like people is mainly because of personality.
@@saneZ45Exactly. And everyone has different preferences. My man is definitely a 12/10 to me, and maybe to some other people who appreciate his appearance and personality. But others might find him a 1 and everything inbetween. Beauty standards will always change.
All her "issues" and "hardships" are just problems ALL women face 😂
I wouldn't even call them "problems"... (I mean, the assault is a scary issue of course - trust me I know) but "having groups follow you", or having people fake being nice is just... LIFE.
Ya know?
To speak as though she's pretty and that somehow that's the reason that LIFE happens to her is very disturbing. 😕🤷🏼♀️
@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582”having groups follow you” isn’t normal and shouldn’t be normalized. But the “fake being nice” I agree with
@@attackonshadows I mean, they do though. Groups walk along the same routes as people who are alone.
Not every group has nefarious intentions. Groups of girls follow a boy in the hall at school. They whisper and giggle.
But if you're specifically talking about a single girl walking home from the club after she has drank and flirted with them all night, and then they followed her, yes it IS normal.
That is to say, it's often what will happen.
Just like if I went to a rough part of town with $100 bills stapled on my clothes, I'd be lucky to make it home clothes or alive.
Does "normal" mean "should"? No ofc not. But it's like, if you smoke cigarettes, typically you're going to experience health problems. And that's pretty normal for a cigarette smoker.
It's not atypical. It's not GOOD! ... But its not RARE either. Ya know?
@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582Don't act naive you know exactly what type of group they're talking about.
@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582I honestly think you're a bit weird for trying to normalize behavior like that.
As a 63 year old Baby Boomer, I can say with confidence that this young lady has a lot to learn.
36 years old Millennial here, I'll say "yeah, she has a lot to learn before she can make sense"
As a 16 years old Gen Z, Ima have to agree with you both
@@redfatseal2407 20 year old gen Z here, Yes
28 year old Millennial (boomer at heart)
And from my knowledge of women like her, she might end up hitting the pipe
18 year old gen Z here, and I agree. She has a lot to learn
Every girl i’ve been friends with who has mentally abused and humiliated me talks this way (abt 3 times). People that talk like this are extremely insensitive and narcissistic imo
Just because you might be attractive on the outside does not mean you are not an incredibly ugly person. She illustrates this pretty well 🙄
She’s not even attractive, and I’m not saying that to put down her looks or anything but people who have an ugly personality and who put down others whilst telling everyone how beautiful they are only come across as ugly and that usually correlates with their looks too because then people start picking out all their flaws and they start to not be so pretty anymore
@@nennaj6186 so true!!!
Nenna- I agree completely. She is totally average looking. Her personality drags her down into hideous territory though
And she’s not even attractive lol
@@callen9623 fr
She’s the perfect example of how personality can make you ugly despite your appearance.
Well she said ugly is a personality so lol
Yeah not gonna lie its actually made her hard to look at
Those weird oily bangs truly balance out her INCREDIBLE out of this world BEAUTY. It’s so nice of her to tone down her looks so we don’t get blinded by her radiance. ❤❤❤
🤭😂😂😂
😂
It’s the forehead sweat, look at the SHINE ‼️
literally couldn't focus on anything but how much they were mildly infuriating me, glad i'm not the only one lol
And that forehead acne ✨💅😩
8:19 i have been over 230 pounds and under 160 and when i was skinnier people were treating me nicer. It’s actually true that people do treat you nicer. I am now I’m around 180 and I’m not treated the same as when i was thinner and it messes with my mind. But I’m not that dellulu as her. And yes, I’m an adult
No. No it’s not true because I’m skinny and I’m constantly belittled because of how thin I am. I do not agree with the woman in the video, but you need to grow up. You are no better than her if you think you get treated better because you’re thin.
@DemonicAmethyst if someone who's fat/obese loses weight,they definitely get treated better by society,no-one is obviously talking about significantly thin/skinny people who get skinny-shamed,intersectionality exists
it's funny to imagine her parents in the other room listening to their daughter talking to herself in a camera about all this unhinged shit
Parents are probably scared of her. There is so many versions of these narcs that goes ballistic and kills people.
@@chrishellmaxok pls don’t compare a narcissist to a murderer 😭
@@misfit_raven4367narcissists are known to become dangerous when challenged
apparently she ran away from home and became an escort as a teen, she said her parents weren't good.
@@UniquelySustainableis this true?
I was teased so badly in grade school that I didn't learn I was actually quite attractive until I was in my mid 20's. Watching this little girl, I'm SO THANKFUL to everyone who teased me!
w lisa
Here ya go: 👑
lol noooo you can be humble without being bullied
@@EEsUA-camChanelI love laughing about people getting bullied.
(Just in case if he edits his comment he said “lol noooo you can be humble without being bullied)
@@EEsUA-camChanelhe literally just said he got bullied. Also how did he get humbled 💀
She looks completely and utterly average, where did she get this ego?
make ups givin' them bitch false sense of attractiveness
I'm kinda wondering the same thing
As women we get hyped up a lot sometimes. I get told I’m beautiful everyday even though I’m an average looking gal 😂🤷🏽♀️ yet I mean if you don’t believe it about yourself you still don’t get a big head. It’s really all about how you see yourself. Similarly I’ve had some hands down 10/10 friends think they are ugly… all about self image
Lmao....i had to increase my screen brightness and change the video quality to 720p to see the attractiveness.
..sounds like her parents kissed her ass too much and she was prolly popular in high school.
She looks average af 🤦🏾♀️
I have to constantly look around my shoulder.
Yeah, girl, you just described the experience of EVERY woman ever alive! Don't blame it on prettiness.
So you haven’t seen the bringer yet, looks like you better practice running. 9 months just ain’t worth it. That means that when you do see him, you will run towards him. You have steepened the curve.
@@icantseethe7680what? I’m sorry your sentence doesn’t really make sense, could you please rephrase your sentence?
@@Angry.-. The outcast has escaped his mediation. A person with infinite intelligence would say there is no genuine reason to complain. But that person would be wrong because her interpretation would not be in your language. You have been changed. You go by “They/them” now, so halfway through the apparent acension, meaning that new “updates” have been placed to ensure the next Violator will have to overpower an even more masculine woman. The woman in the video challenged you. She mocked you. She stated that she gets to be “ahemed*” first. And judging by your perception of what is considered attractive or not, she made you believe her. It has infuriated you. This is what “Brung out the beast”.
Complain. Beg me to accept your stance as leader of your body. But you will know that deep down, really deep down, this is how things work. Yeah she’s a narcisist for calling you ugly, but your issue was that you believed her.
@@icantseethe7680wtf are u on abt😭
Technically men are statistically more likely to face violent crime (vulnerability is a different discussion). "Looking over your shoulder" is good practice for literally anyone, anywhere...
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Not trying to take anything away from your point. Just saying, my testicles don't protect me against armed robbers and assault. Situational awareness is a valuable skill for everyone.
She is not unattractive but she talks about herself as if she is freaking Margot Robbie or something 😂 like relax girly
And she's 18, she is in for the quite the shock when she looks into a mirror in another 18 years and another 18 after that.
🤤 Margo Robbie...mmm
Remember Margot is mid 💀🤣
😂
@@Sophie-kd8nq Take that back now 😠
I knew a girl that talked like this and complained about how hard it is to be as pretty as her. Now, she's almost 40 and she no longer gets attention like she did when she was in her 20s. I'm so happy for her, now she won't have to live such a difficult life!
This is literally so bitter and giving hater energy. She’s probably happy and thriving focusing on her life and kids while you’re wishing bad energy on her TWENTY YEARS LATER 😂😂 lmao hating ahh ho
you have the same energy as her in this comment! congrats!
Relying on beauty would be soul destroying.
@@seroquelchamber *sarcasm*
You're funny AF 😂😂
Yo I'm ugly as heck but still got SA'ed from ages 15-25. Statements like this are wild. I literally didn't report any of them cause who would believe that an ugly person would experience SA
She absolutely embodies this mindset and image if how Y/N characters in Wattpad stories are portrayed by the author. Everyone who sees them just immediately falls in love and wants to be their friend or in a relationship with them. Like, I'm all for delulu can be a selulu but she is seriously out of it and I'd recommend psychiatric care at this point.
Oh my god you’re right
Fr
It took her 7 minutes to basically say she peeked in highschool assuming she's not still in high school and it's a confession that she peeked in Middle
Nah, she peaked at birth, it's been downhill ever since 😂
Sadly what everyone fails to realize is she's over compensating for lack of self value, and fears being less than perfect as a narcissistic trait. Narcissism is just a fancy term for extremely insecure, and lacking any self identity to the point that it makes you mentally ill.
@@heyitsriver5456🤣🤣
Her : "I do not want someone to be with me because of my appearance"
Also her : *choosing friends by attractiveness*
You know what they say, "Rules for thee, not for me", all that.
*For someone who has lopsided nostrils, acne, and string bangs, she’s not convincing anyone that she believes she has any substance*
I know right her nose is weird
Did it ever occur to her that a lot of people are being nice to her because they are simply nice people? Nice people do exist, a lot more than is generally believed.
That's actually an extremely common problem for people with low self esteem (myself included). It creates some cognitive dissonance when people treat you nicely, so you start to come up with reasons to write it off. A common one is if your friend compliments you, and you reply "you're just saying that because you're my friend". For me, I always felt like people only tolerate me because I am disabled and they feel sorry for me, not because they actually like me as a person or even think I'm deserving of any kindness. It made it less jarring when people were cruel to me, because I felt like I deserved it, and I still struggle with that.
Those kind of people are self-centered and oblivious to others, they genuinely think everything happening around them is about them and the result of something they did or something they said or what they look like. They don't consider other humans with emotions as possible variables. I think in her head she doesn't take into account that others are just as complexe and unique as her with personal experiences and needs and a moral compass. That's the definition of the main character syndrome
@@cactusadams7752Fax
@@cactusadams7752I think you might actually be right to an extent. If attractive women make contact with me I immediately jump to the defensive. I try to hide it just in case it’s unwarranted but every single time this has ever happened it was because they were trying to manipulate me out of something or to do something for them that would be of no benefit to me.
Sorry to hear that, @@jackwhite8238
It's pretty obvious that she was neglected emotionally, and fell into this mindset to "protect herself".
Internet psychologist above men
same... only I cope by people-pleasing...
Most likely accurate on the result. The reasoning could be a slew of things though. Even something as simple as lack of intelligence can lead to really narrow views of the world. Nobody wants to live their life in confusion. So if they can't find clarity through intelligence and reasoning, they will often create/piggyback off some simplified world views (that often conveniently benefit/support them and their lifestyles).
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This has been happening since the dawn of humanity, it's a large reason religion was so successful. But I digress. Her problem could be lack of intelligence, it could be narcissism, it could be emotional neglect/abuse, it could even just be some girl using shock value to garner attention and go viral. But the main thing we can be certain of is that she is either unwilling or unable to practice rational thought.
yes that is what narcissism is
i definitely agree
"Ugliness is subjective"...well so is beauty, so be humble and never assume you're the best person in the room.
you better speak that truth!!!!
Well with the exception with Jesus😆
I didn't know I could fall asleep with my eyes open until she started talking.
Lol
Prime example of how some people are good looking, but soon as they start talking, they're hideous.
Exactly. I work in a female dominated industry with “conventionally attractive” coworkers. Some are hilarious and I enjoy their company and a couple are SO unbelievably dull I loathe having to be around them. It’s about having character, this woman has a bad one.
Yep. It's like the Vandals song (But Then) She Spoke
Good looking? I just can't see it, these comments confuse me...
@@siljasyrjamaki7504 It must actually be subjective then.
Anyone wishing they could go back to a time before TikTok existed?
Me 🤚
✋me
Why?
People like her would move on to other social media, same content, different platform
@@Solanin0803fr. It isn't tiktok, its something else, In fact it USED to be something else too
Me because it ruined my life and respect for humanity lol
as someone who sees myself as ugly (acne, glasses, braces, yellow teeth, etc.) her implying "ugly" people can't be a victim SA makes me so mad. I was SA'd when I was 9 and i already feel invalidated, she isn't helping anyone with that "i was assaulted because I'm pretty". I've had a shit life and I still do (un-diagnosed and un-medicated mental health problems and more) she's so invalidating its hard to believe she graduated elementary school.
As evident by your pfp. Looks like men left a bad taste in your mouth. What this actually means is that you only tolerate men strong enough to “&$” you as a “lesbian”.
God DAMN that’s rough. Praying you get what you need ❤❤
I know if many of us met you in person; we would not see you as ugly. I'm sure you are attractive but you don't see yourself as such. I have a very low self esteem. I'm so insecure and I look at myself and tell myself how awful and ugly I look. I don't go out my house unless absolutely necessary. I avoid people all I can. I was SA and never once did I say I was SA because I'm sooo attractive. People have told me I'm beautiful but when we feel so ugly about ourselves, their words mean nothing...... I'm so very sorry for what you have gone through. Just know that there are people out here in the world that care.
People judge each other based on their looks usually(not all do this) instead of getting to know the person's heart and mind. Looks are not everything. We age and looks fade away, but a genuinely good person looks amazing because they radiate love and kindness towards others. You sound like a great person and I'm sure you would make a great friend...... if you ever just want to talk, I am here. Much love to uou❤
@@gracejohnson789protect this person at all costs they still think people are nice.
Wow, I’m so sorry. I just wanted to tell you as a former “ugly” person (i also had acne, wore glasses and had braces) it gets better, and send a big hug your way
I don't think I've ever disliked a stranger so much before lol
My heart goes out to this girl. She is so lost and whatever trauma she has experienced has sent her over the edge. Delusional, misinformed, and out of touch with reality is what she is, and she’s gonna regret this phase of her life in five years.
100% accurate
Yes context! I don’t think it’s fair for people to so quickly villainize her and make their own blanket statements instead of healthily explaining the nuance to her.
Ya I felt it too. She is covering up some nasty stuff. I imagine she uses sex as a way to confirm "how pretty" she is. It really is sad. I've seen this many times with addicts and alcoholics over the years.
I know, I'm hoping that a few years from now she'll be able to pull up her own videos and laugh at herself, and say "look how deluluI used to be at this age. I don't think this way any more
@@JayBigDadyCyshe more than likely has been SA’d or full on graped at one point and now this is a coping mechanism
It’s like she’s screaming for someone to tell her she’s attractive. 😔
Oh, yeah. Absolutely. 👍
😂😂😂 omg 1000%!!!!
seeing signs of fetal alcohol syndrome all over her face tho
She’s confusing being pretty with being self-centered and arrogant 😂. She thinks her problems originated from her looks and not her god-awful personality 😂😂
I think its time people IGNORE these influencers into OBLIVION.
"have you heard of the high elves?"
@@KirtisPrintsStuff"The Altmer have powerful wizards. It could be a dangerous situation." "Be seeing you"
no, i like to make fun of dumb people
actually that lil walking duck at the end of the video is truly important, it's like very much _needed_ decharge or detox of all hate/controversy accumulated throughout the video. As for a person watching solely bc of voice and occasional funny remarks that usually avoids those kind of videos, it's simply a must have
I suspect anyone following her would be more out of curiosity than because of her looks. You can't hide ugly on the inside and she certainly isn't anything special on the outside!.
I dont believe her. Period.
Victims of SA dont talk about it they damn well dont make videos literally bragging about it. Shes mentally ILL at best, at worst shes a liar trying to get attention.
Shes just a deluded idiot whose attitude frankly makes anyone who would sympathize tell her to go burn in a house fire.
Facts
I guess if you wish hard enough anyone can be a movie star in thier minds.
Like a train wreck. Hard to look away 😅
Tho I don't like her. Males would literally follow a child just to rape. Would even rape a fckng chicken so idk what's your point
Just to clear something up: you do NOT get SA'd based on attractiveness. It's about someone claiming power. Granted, the attractiveness could be a factor if the event happened during/after a date, but the act itself is about claiming power over another person.
Toxic people will also generally hook up with whoever can stand them, especially the older you get. But yeah, everyone gets into terrible relationships. Attractive people are not more likely to have this happen. In fact, I'd say immature people and/or those with low self-esteem are the prime targets of such things. This person is the prime example of the first one. I'd say she's even a bit immature for 18...
Like exactly. Wtf is she on about? Was I a very attractive 9 year old?
@@tatiana4050I'm really sorry to hear that, hope you got better
@@unloved197 I'm now an ugly adult.
@@tatiana4050 hey count your blessings if you had a face like mine you wouldn't be saying that
@@unloved197 * cue to us looking at each other finding out we are separated at birth identical twins *
If “being ugly on the inside” is a personality trait, its her entire character
ok n ur judging her character bc of this how shallow u cant even grow a real beard it seems
Often when people are lying with a untrue statement of some kind they shake their heads which basically means "what im saying now is a lie".
being someone who is told to kill themselves about 3 times a week i don't see how being told nice things every where you go is such a problem
You got this!! Don’t give up! This random stranger on the internet believes in you! I’m sorry that is said to you weekly. You do not deserve that. I hope you feel the love from my comment and I pray that random strangers give you kindness everyday from here on out ❤
How does that happen? Who does that? That's highly concerning.
I wouldn’t believe a word of what’s she’s saying she extremely delusional and seemingly has low self esteem, there wouldn’t be a need for her to make this vid otherwise
Being told “nice things” could be a problem. Being fake nice ya know? Being fake nice is what she means I think.
Who tells you to off yourself tho? Wtf
She isn‘t ugly but she isn’t pretty either. She just looks like a normal person. She doesn’t have something that makes her „Special“.. she is definitely not above average… also who are we to call someone ugly and others pretty? Being pretty is so individual/objective, it is impossible to tell who is attractive and who‘s not. I could be attractive to my neighbour e.g and not attractive to the cashier. In Addition, being Attractive isn’t just looks, but also personality and her personality is disgusting.
Also, I think she’s exaggerating. Every Women is facing the same problem it’s not something that’s only happening to her
Yes nice looking girl. That’s it, nice, but very normal, I can look out my window and see many nice looking people. I think this is the real problem, she wants to live in the delusional she is special, it’s immature and I hope she grows out of it and learns some humility, for her own sake
subjective*
Wha? You mean every person faces these problems. Well some people sadly. Since she’s talking about attractive people, and ugly people in general. So the topic is people.
@@michaeljames4630 even subjectively, most people would not say she’s anything striking. So she in fact, is very average looking
Right? I don’t think most people would believe her to be unattractive, but I mean, she’s not exactly Victoria’s Secret Angel level gorgeous, either.
When it can go either way - like w/her, personality makes all the difference; if I didn’t hear her saying all this crap I’d probably say, “oh, sure, she’s cute.” But being a really sweet/kind person could change that to “she’s quite pretty” while the horrible attitude leads you more to the “I mean, she’s not ugly but she’s pretty average…” opinion.
She seems like the person who blew up in highschool and got a big head about it.
Yeah. Even though she is saying allot of dumb things. I don't want to be too harsh on her, as she is basically a child. I'm sure she will snap out of it..........Eventually.
@@poopoppy we hope
shes the definition of a goth girl in school
@@poopoppynarcisists dont grow out of it. Trump is one. my step dad is one. They are objectively shitty people.
@@professional_shitter80???????? Literally how ?????????
As a fourteen year-old, I am utterly disgusted by this woman.
Like literally everyone ever😂😂
Not trying to be rude or anything sorry :(
Nobody cares if you’re 14 wtf 💀
@@omareleine33they were saying that they were more mature and grown up that bethany
Assault has nothing to do with attractiveness, it has all to do with perceived vulnerability.
I mean extremely handicapped people, who I would dare to say aren't commonly considered the most attractive, are victims of SA, physical abuse, and mental abuse waaaaayyy more often then people without any disabilities.
As a person with several physical disabilities I have been assaulted abused catcalled I would be considered vulnerable and be at risk
Absolutely. Just like in those rest homes the old people get sexually assaulted, abused and gaslighted pretty badly too. They’re old people, and still get abused. It has nothing to do with how attractive you are. It’s more about how vulnerable and weak you can be.
I think so too, I'm not trying to be too hard on myself but I wouldn't say I'm attractive, and I've had guys be creeps to me, it is about vulnerability
@@lapislazuli06 I'm sure you're beautiful. I know what the original commenter meant with what they said but i don't really agree that disabled people are often unattractive, since there are so many types of disabillities. So as someone who is both an assistant nurse who sees disabled people all the time and as someone who has been SA'd myself, you are a strong and beautiful person💕
@@lapislazuli06 more about the perpetrator wanting to feel powerful because they feel powerless. seeing is that’s the only reason those who are “perceived” as vulnerable are targeted. it’s not the victims fault for looking a certain way, but more so about the perpetrator being insecure enough to try & demonstrate “power” over those they think they even have a chance against.
As a wise man once said, "She's so high off her own fumes, she can no longer take air into her lungs"
Yea she’s gutter trash fr
I have a now very good friend that I originally met at a party. She is drop dead georgous. She was the “love” interest of a friend of a friend at the time, so I just went up to her and talked to her as she didn’t really know anyone there. Later she said, that a lot of girls are usually either vary, or outright mean to her when they first meet her. Simply because they see her as competition. She liked how genuine I was and just treated her like anybody else.
Honestly, she doesn’t like talking about her looks, nor does she ever put it in focus. She is the most down to earth and nice person I know. But I know she does get treated differently of how she looks. And not always fairly:
This is what happens when parents say “their jealous” every time someone don’t like the kid
People don't treat you nice because they want your approval, they treat you nice because they want to be treated the same. Sounds like her "ugly" friends are tired of her BS.
Her "ugly" friends are probably more attractive than she'll ever be personality wise
@@redfatseal2407her “ugly” friends are probably more attractive physically and in terms of personalities.
@@atonical_ftw ha, truedat
She probably secretly feels inferior to every other female in the same room as her everywhere she goes, so she has to compensate for it.
Or they are tiptoeing around her in case they set her off again. You can never win with some people.
12:06 “No one liked me for me. I didn’t have actual friends who genuinely cared and checked in on me…”
It’s not that people didn’t want to be your friend because you were too pretty. People didn’t want to be your friend because you have a shit personality.
it could also just have nothing to do with her
"I've been SA'd like, SO much" 🤤*Happy sigh*, WTF??
This girl needs to go to a therapist for
This screams trauma that needs to addressed. Get off TikTok and figure that one out, because that is really concerning like…?
According to my ex-husband I'm f*cking ugly and (the cringiest part) he revealed that he was always assuming in his mind that when we were in public together everyone was wondering how I could have ever ended up with him..
But I've still been sexually harassed..
When I told this other guy about a time that it happened to me, he said I could have misunderstood the situation bc he also thought that couldn't have happened to me as I claimed bc of how I look to him..
I guess in order to be believed you have to be attractive to whoever you're telling those things to.. which is kind of disturbing bc they're basically empathizing with the one who perpetrated the assault.. 'like, yea, I would want to pin you down and force my self on you, so everything you're saying checks out'...
@@thesoliloquist1940 your ex husband sounds like a total asshole, im so sorry you had to go through that
@@thesoliloquist1940Im sorry for their ignorance and your pain. Feel better
You shouldn't be allowed to have access to TikTok etc. until your prefrontal cortex is fully developed.
Dude, she's like a living caricature of all of those wattpad/deviantart OCs written by 12 years olds.
Claims to be above looks, but never stops talking about how attractive she is.
Thinks everyone she talks to is trying to flirt with her.
Is tired of people fawning over her, but also anyone who doesn't is suspect/out to get her.
Thinks bad things can only ever happen to her.
It's like she had a checklist, I swear.
Underrated comment
Yeah she's a walking contradiction of what comes out of her mouth!🤣😂✌️
when i was a 12 year old wattpad writer, i hope to god i had better protagonists than this person 💀💀
"whenever i go on a walk i'm always looking over my shoulder! i'm so scared!" girl yeah that's called being socialized as a woman 😭😭 we're all scared
Thank you! Precisely.
guys can be worried about things too just saying but I agree)
@@ParrotsAccountNot now, Andrew. Not here
@@ParrotsAccountnope lmao
Yes but not because you need to be.
Being made fun of since 5 years old for being ugly af didn’t stop me from being taken advantage of, hasn’t stopped others from not taking me seriously, hasn’t stopped me from HATING compliments and thinking they’re fake…this person needs a serious reality check
12:39 "Oh...your poor little heart...boo hoo..."
Assault is never about looks, it has never ever been about attractiveness. It’s about gross freaks wanting power over others, regardless of who that person is. It is never ever the victim’s fault. This girl is so disgusting for assuming that assault is due to a person’s looks, when that couldn’t be further from the truth. I am so sorry to everyone who has been abused or assaulted and having to deal with people like her invalidating your experiences and trauma for clout and likes on the internet. Sending you all prayers and a big hug ❤🫂
This was said so well, the fact she genuinely thinks that SA starts by how a creep thinks how "hot" their victim is, is so GROSS.
Stealing for example, or kidnapping, often happenes to obese people or kids since they cant really run, its just ridicouless that she thinks people who are on the same sidewalk as her are waiting to SA, kidnap, murder and lock her in their house at gunpoint. Grow up lady, you are not living alone here on earth
Being a narcissist isnt a joke its a serious disorder the fact people are willingly making it a good thing is horrible.
She is just a teenager. Her opinion will change. It's too early to brand her a narcissist. She is just a bit stupid and naive. I'm pretty sure she will grow out of it.
There’s a lot of narcissistic people.
She actually needs serious help, she graduated with me, miss girl needs a reality check
She isn't even that pretty
Not really, being narcissist itself isn't necessarily a disorder, however having NPD disorder is when you have serious issues.
Narcissism has two definitions that way, and while it might be more careful to only call narcissists those with the disorder, calling people with narcissistic traits narcissists isn't wrong either. Narcissist's definition is "someone who has too much admiration for himself or herself" in the Cambridge dictionnary, and is synonymous to arrogant, egoistic, patronizing and pompous.
Also, WebMD says that:
"Not every narcissist has narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), as narcissism is a spectrum. People who are at the highest end of the spectrum are those that are classified as NPD, but others, still with narcissistic traits, may fall on the lower end of the narcissistic spectrum. - 30 mars 2023"
If I missed your point, sorry! I was just thinking you were calling out August for using narcissistic in the title.
Ain’t nobody wanna kidnap her 😂😂they’ll bring her right back
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“People started following me 4 different times” girl, maybe they were walking in the same direction as you
Shes mistaken youth for beauty. Young women have strange encounters often, people use their lack of experience against them. As she gets older, she will not be so sought after because she will be able to call out the situation from experience and not be considered naive. The type of men who walk after a women on the street do not want a seasoned person who can handle herself, they want girls. When i was young, my car broke down, i walked three blocks and had nine men approach me, and she wouldnt call me "pretty" enough but those guys didnt know that i guess. They seemed to have their own agendas. Scary whether youre beautiful or not, i still cant giggle about it.
Age will depress her the most with views and spirit like hers.
BEST COMMENT! YES! You're absolutely right! I was harassed by men even though I'm of average looks -- from like 15 to late-30s guys bothered me.
One followed me while I was driving, so I drove to a police station, that scared him off. Another time I actually kicked a guy because he kept talking to me while I was in a restaurant reading while I was eating. Word got around and a young woman who worked in a bank next to the restaurant said I was a "hero" because that same guy bothered all the girls in the bank. My point here is that I wasn't singled out, it was "all the girls in the bank." They were all young too!
Another time a guy grabbed me on an escalator. I kicked him so hard he fell backwards. Some women saw and cheered for me.
I've always embraced my age, and as I got older and this nonsense stopped I was happy about it. Though I do have a friend that said she misses the attention. She really looked sad when she said that too.
people in general get strange encounters. Although I wouldn’t say often I’d say some. I think online is especially dangerous though. Even though it’s well known there are still people who still become victims. Especially young people since they are more naive.
The way she talks about her beauty alone, I'd expect this absolutely stunning, almost otherwordly beautiful person, with a pure heart and inner light that you can see in her smiles, that makes her eyes light up, that almost makes her glow and makes her even more beautiful. But she's just...a person. I mean, she is pretty, but she is not this stunningly beautiful goddess she acts like she is.
Can you give an example of someone you'd consider to be beautiful like that?
Honestly I don't think humans are capable of the kind of beautiful I described. Beauty exists, people are beautiful, but goddess-level beautiful like I talked about is might be just for the myths and fairy tales.
@@hamdiyazid200 Jared Leto comes to mind. He also has a kind of sinister aspect to his appearance too, but I've seen him in person, and he's beautiful. Implausibly so. Like an otherworldly kind of beauty that doesn't seem real, and can't quite be captured in a photo/video.
She is a 6.5 at best
She is a 6.5 at best