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  • Wife Got Bored With Me & Calls Her Ex To Come & Eff Her. So This Is How I Exposed Her, By Installing Recorders.
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  • @Homiloko2
    @Homiloko2 9 місяців тому +1234

    There's a point in the story when she suddenly becomes remorseful and puts more effort into mending the marriage. I think she probably figured out that the AP was messing around and won't be marrying her, and then she finally regretted it lmao.

    • @zombierevel
      @zombierevel 9 місяців тому +71

      Same though, listened another similar story but it was the wife boss and when she heard the boss didnt want anything serious the same happened

    • @Zan140
      @Zan140 9 місяців тому +39

      Or saw that kids are financially demanding and realized that she can’t afford everything with a single income which is why she was deadlocked on selling the house and not moving to the capital.
      Added to that that the AP is literally in another country and wasn’t involved financially with their kids.

    • @greysky8307
      @greysky8307 9 місяців тому +9

      It was reputation and pride, because of her religious background.

    • @kgunitkeese17
      @kgunitkeese17 7 місяців тому +1

      Or because she’s finally feeling the guilt and accountability, but her ego and pride is forcing her to make amends and pretend nothing happened.

    • @mazthebear
      @mazthebear 7 місяців тому +1

      Thats usually how it goes

  • @espasmemuscular
    @espasmemuscular 9 місяців тому +1093

    how op is surprised by anything after hearing from her wife that she married him for the reasons she claims she did is mind boggling. It's a cardboard dead marriage, I'd be out at that point.

    • @migo70
      @migo70 9 місяців тому +50

      OP is no offense to him is dense. You'd have better luck squeezing blood from a stone than him realising anything early.

    • @mcmorky9704
      @mcmorky9704 9 місяців тому +25

      @@migo70 its an old fashioned marriage, no romantic feelings involved just a partnership under god. regardless vows should be adhered to.

    • @migo70
      @migo70 9 місяців тому +17

      @@mcmorky9704 100% agree what I'm saying is it's obvious very early on in the story one has broken those vows, and even when proven she lied kept lying at every opportunity later on.

    • @SenseiRaisen
      @SenseiRaisen 9 місяців тому

      @@migo70 Honestly, religious narcissist tend to prey on introverts and dense guys, because they are easy to gaslight into submission before they ditch them away. This is the case where she wants the walking purse and the walking dildo. She never love him, she only wanted the money. She only wanted to be with her ex, but her ex doesn't had money.
      Affairs always depends when one person try to switch to something "better" because of convenience. OR had one who finance her, and the other is the "fun".
      Because I'm 100% sure, she wouldn't marry OP and marry her ex if he has money.

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 9 місяців тому +3

      ​@@mcmorky9704 a marriage under God should be also based on mutual love

  • @Erebus04
    @Erebus04 9 місяців тому +795

    I literarily snorted when the Ex Wifes Sister tried to say that the wife was "possessed by an evil spirit" or how the ex "Saw a Exorcist" and I am also a catholic but that is just ridiculous

    • @Vatharian
      @Vatharian 9 місяців тому +42

      People in small towns think like that. Some parts of Poland are mentally still in 19th century. Especially on the south-east side. Village Batman... uhh, I mean priest is more important figure than any government official and whatever they say is sacred, even when it's something blabbered after too much wine.
      There is also a mentality of suppressing men, and putting women/mother first no matter what. "Mother can do no wrong", even if she accidentally slept with a bus of Asian tourists. Look, like all the time he has trouble admitting that he has been wronged. Like he says it, but doesn't believe it himself. They tell him it's "all his ego" and he almost backs down. He has been mentally conditioned to think like that, and it's something that will continue forward in Poland, because "family is sacred", period. Look at the "kids need to stay near mother".
      I had a situation like this in my own family - cousin got physically assaulted by his wife, she beat him with a metal pipe, breaking his collarbone and arm, almost gouged his eye. She drinks and cheats on him, doesn't work. He provides for the family, does everything. When divorce started, she accused him of violence (despite him being in the hospital), which results in automatic restraining order, so he can't even go back home for his stuff. He also automatically got limited his parental rights, even though CPS visited and produced note stating their kids hasn't been washed in weeks (roughly since he got in hospital), and get food only when she's sober, so once per 2 days at most. It has been half a 1,5 years ago, and he still hasn't seen his kids. It took him a year to clear the violence stuff up. But mother can't do wrong.
      Honestly, from his fellow countryman, I think the guy from the story actually did pretty well, considering circumstances.

    • @HeoBaby24
      @HeoBaby24 9 місяців тому +9

      I'm glad i don't live in Poland no offense but how or what in their right mind would think of a law like that?
      Like their letting those kids go hungry and are suffering and yet they're just okay with it?
      Yet won't let this man see his kids who might end up dead

    • @aflowingbrook2919
      @aflowingbrook2919 9 місяців тому

      @@Vatharian the dementors are the REAL problem, but no one talks about that...

    • @TylerSmith-or7kn
      @TylerSmith-or7kn 9 місяців тому +2

      Oh yeah she possessed the way to set her free is to shove your foot where the the sun dont shine

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 9 місяців тому +13

      When someone is possessed by a demon you can clearly tell, they won't just cheat and then be normal, instead their whole behavior will change and they may develop mental illness such as multiple personality disorder

  • @adjcsee4476
    @adjcsee4476 9 місяців тому +908

    For “religious” parents and family, they sure do know how to manipulate religious beliefs to fit their agenda. She broke her vows to him. She committed adultery and chose to go down this path. Seems like just another bimbo who is mad everyone is against her and trying to save face and having her parents get of his good side knowing it was never going to stop him from being free.

    • @alexanderpetersen1664
      @alexanderpetersen1664 9 місяців тому +72

      Most religious people are like this. God only finds a place when it benifits them. 99% of humans go to this so called hell if it is real.

    • @thunderpants3500
      @thunderpants3500 9 місяців тому

      He can forgive her but can take time off from being married to her, she's trying to save face by bombarding OP with false love, that in itself will end up as a sour relationship but her family making excuses for her adulterous behavior is hilarious. 'She was possessed by an evil spirit' no, she got bored.
      Women in Europe tend to be bigger bimbos than in the United States as they fuck up harder.
      Edit: I say this because Europe is far more religious than the US so in that regard European women fall harder as bimbos.

    • @chinaking918
      @chinaking918 9 місяців тому +44

      Exactly isn’t adultery a sin. God would not be okay with her breaking her vows.

    • @elseggs6504
      @elseggs6504 9 місяців тому

      ​@@alexanderpetersen1664If youre a Calvinist or some dumbfuck believing in Dantes Inferno maybe lmao. You go to Hell for abandoning God and the only suffering comes not out of vindiction, but the people themselves. Even then its more of a state of mind than a physical place

    • @l-l-l-l-l-l-l
      @l-l-l-l-l-l-l 9 місяців тому +52

      “If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife-with the wife of his neighbor-both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death” (Leviticus 20:10).
      Apparently they aren't Christian enough to follow the teaching of their religion. Only Christian when it benefits them.

  • @Mearaxes
    @Mearaxes 9 місяців тому +329

    "it can be saved" what a bunch of delusional people

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx 3 місяці тому +2

      They don't mean the marriage can be saved.
      They mean the appearance of it.
      She even admits that she only married him to make happy families like her parents and siblings.

  • @orpheusmtc4373
    @orpheusmtc4373 9 місяців тому +613

    Its definitely authentic. I live in Poland, I am partially polish and one couldn't have faked such a story keeping it so real. When the OP started to present the family's opinions and statements it felt deeply like Poland.

    • @axlknightwhosaysni5336
      @axlknightwhosaysni5336 9 місяців тому +82

      Also the SIMP law system that always puts women first sounds familiar (I am polish too)

    • @HeoBaby24
      @HeoBaby24 9 місяців тому +24

      I know it must suck in Poland with laws like that

    • @orpheusmtc4373
      @orpheusmtc4373 9 місяців тому +43

      @@HeoBaby24 Trust me, laws like these are the least of the problem here.

    • @anders8204
      @anders8204 9 місяців тому

      What are some of the more egregious problems in Poland?@@orpheusmtc4373

    • @SaabirahofAnavah
      @SaabirahofAnavah 9 місяців тому

      ​@@orpheusmtc4373what do you mean, I'm interested in what goes on in other countries

  • @Sashin-d8t
    @Sashin-d8t 9 місяців тому +1624

    I hate stupid laws that tear down men in divorce. Both parties have a chance. The only reason that she got most of the custody is because she is a women

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 9 місяців тому +65

      Honestly it should depend on the age of the kids. Children below a certain age, let's say 3, need their mother a lot more than their father

    • @wiresculptor5951
      @wiresculptor5951 9 місяців тому +265

      If the mother cheats the father should be given custody - her cheating shows she dosnt care what happens to the kids end of story

    • @EkayLaive
      @EkayLaive 9 місяців тому +11

      Fr😂

    • @mikehilbert9349
      @mikehilbert9349 9 місяців тому +36

      The matriarchy is real.

    • @Zellonous
      @Zellonous 9 місяців тому +105

      ​@@sal_strazzullothey need both. They also need a mother that actually cares about them. A mother that sleeps around doesn't. A mother that risks their future because they need a big pp doesn't. Your words are ignorant and downright insulting to logic and reason but also to emotion. Please sort yourself out before you have kids too.

  • @SpectralNapper
    @SpectralNapper 9 місяців тому +266

    The parents going to her side at the end isnt shocking. They knew two things. 1 - they had limited time to trick/manipulate op into forgiving and taking her back. 2 - once they failed they switched to her side and to overall make his life a living hell.

    • @ethanhanover3263
      @ethanhanover3263 9 місяців тому +12

      Seems like they were already on the path on trying to get the two back together, they were only forced to be on his side at first because they cant find any genuine excuse to the cheating ex wife and the fact that she was the cause of the divorce. And from the looks of it they were not that desperate yet. Once they knew op is deadset on his decision, they threw the facade and went fully on the cheating ex' side

    • @tallyp.7643
      @tallyp.7643 4 місяці тому

      Of course they were gonna make his life hell. THEY would probably have to take her in and stain their reputation when people figured out she was getting divorced and the reasons why. Her being in the house would make the stink of her betrayal rub off on them.

  • @jjnix9517
    @jjnix9517 9 місяців тому +211

    Cheaters should have no rights anywhere. Also the brother-in-law is probably still cheating and thinks its okay.

  • @dragonthewolf8106
    @dragonthewolf8106 9 місяців тому +123

    I hate when people say “Stay for the kids” my parents where kinda like that for a while before they divorced. Kids are far more perceptive then adults realize and they will be able to tell that their parents aren’t in love even though they live with each other. That is not a healthy environment for them to grow up in, and it will only warp the kids view of what a relationship is and it will only set them up to be vulnerable to abusers because they don’t know what a healthy relationship is. It would hurt their future relationships and they will start to understand why their parents hate each other as they get older. They may even start to feel resentful of their mother over time if they find out she is the root reason as to why their parents hate each other.

    • @rodrigoernestosolaresmatie1909
      @rodrigoernestosolaresmatie1909 9 місяців тому +3

      Yeah went through a similar experience with my mother and stepfather, it was such a horrible experience hearing my mom crying every day(stepfather cheated)

    • @rockyme100
      @rockyme100 8 місяців тому +2

      My parents stayed together longer than they should, my mom didn’t want to leave dad because of her religious beliefs. It’s was us kids who told her to get a divorce, but every time she thought about it she always backed out and gave dad more chances. Eventually my sister told her if she didn’t divorce dad, my sister would run away. This finally convinced mom to get a divorce, and she got custody of us because we chose her (we were in our early teens and younger) some parents just shouldn’t stay together

    • @rinslittlesheepling1652
      @rinslittlesheepling1652 7 місяців тому

      Yes, and no. I agree that this is a bad situation, but until we fix biased laws, it's still statistically better than all these deadbeat single mothers, who raise criminals, druggies and all other delinquents.

    • @nuclear_stardust
      @nuclear_stardust 4 місяці тому

      "Stay for the kids", except sometimes that's much more damaging than just separating.

    • @Crisfer05
      @Crisfer05 4 місяці тому +1

      Agree I went through the same thing my dad cheated on my mom and she “forgave” him but she because really toxic and bitter so she would bring up his cheating all the time to make my dad feel like he owed her and he had to stand mistreatment and anything she wanted to throw his way because he was the one that messed up to begin with. I was really close to my dad and she did was emotionally abusive towards me because she resented how much I loved and defended my dad. So even if I had a mom and a dad together they were miserable and me and my sibling knew. We even told my mom a few times that if she could not deal with my dad’s cheating ing in the past I o leave him because she was making their lives hell and that was not healthy for any of them. Sometimes I wish they separated and not ended their lives together maybe them and even me and my siblings would have been happier that way.

  • @CuteDwarf11
    @CuteDwarf11 9 місяців тому +62

    She's not sorry for what she's done; she's sorry that she can't weasel her way out of the trouble she caused.

  • @C.G.Gaster
    @C.G.Gaster 9 місяців тому +88

    Once the divorce is through, just send them the audio and messages and move on.

  • @adjcsee4476
    @adjcsee4476 9 місяців тому +88

    Real major problem is that it’s Poland. He doesn’t have much to any rights to the kids. Their country is so against men and assuming women are better care takers.
    When in reality it’s complete bullshit.

    • @lewid019
      @lewid019 8 місяців тому

      Sorry folks but that is a symptom of the patriarchy. Men are the "earners" and women are the "nurturers".😂

    • @mantelumgamingloilol123
      @mantelumgamingloilol123 8 місяців тому +7

      That is unfortunately true
      Edit: im talking about the stereo type not the parenting skills of men

    • @ayceinquisitor190
      @ayceinquisitor190 7 місяців тому +10

      Prime example of how patriarchy hurts men. Plenty of dads would make better and safer parents than some moms, but bc women are boxed into the childrearing role, they are assumed to be more qualified caretakers. Dads deserve better!

    • @crazyrmj2580
      @crazyrmj2580 5 місяців тому +3

      @@ayceinquisitor190that has nothing to do with a patriarchy system lol

    • @emperorconstantinexipalaio4121
      @emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ayceinquisitor190I love the patriarchy!

  • @balazsfoldes4700
    @balazsfoldes4700 9 місяців тому +82

    Oh yeah, right. What annoys me more than the cheating itself, is that these idiots are so full of themselves they're not even making the effort to make up a proper lie. Did you call your ex? "No." Well, here's proof that you did. Did you text him? "No." Well, here's proof that you did. Did you have an emotional affair? "No." Spoiler alert: She was...
    And then she has the balls to try the gaslighting, for the second time. "I'm so sorry, it's your fault for not forgiving me." Well, you kind of gave up your right to pity when you lied to his face until confronted with irrefutable evidence, AND shut down his every effort to save the marriage, AND treated him like he's a piece of trash even though he tried to mend your marriage.
    Edit: *She rolled her eyes*
    That's basically a 100% sign that she is done. There's pretty much no coming back from that. She doesn't love you, she doesn't give a rat's @ss. She wants her comfortable life back. And again, she's so lazy in her lies and manipulation. "I want you back at all cost, I will do anything ti make it right." Would I be able to check your phone? "Well, not really that. I don't feel comfortable with that." Well then, can we at least move away from that place and start anew? "Well, not really, because here I have my family and it's comfortable here."

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 9 місяців тому

      The funny thing is that she was also lying to the man she had an affair with. Her texts indicated that she was planning to divorce and leave her husband at some point, in order to secure more time with that man for herself, but the facts demonstrated that she wasn't planning on divorce and she wanted to use both men for different things.

    • @aquiline6015
      @aquiline6015 9 місяців тому +4

      ⁠@@sal_strazzullonah, it was if she could keep her head up around her friends and family, basically if it went her way, shed cook something up to divorce and remarry. after op confronts her, which she didnt expect, her options were rather limited.

    • @mhammer3186
      @mhammer3186 7 місяців тому +1

      When cheating happens in a relationship it seems like it’s always the man that gets blamed. Either he cheated and it’s his fault or she cheated and it’s also his fault for not giving her what she needed.

    • @Dustin81
      @Dustin81 2 місяці тому

      @@sal_strazzullo She wasn't lying. She only stopped that plan after her family found out.

  • @admonius9668
    @admonius9668 9 місяців тому +75

    So much for going to sleep at a decent time 😂

  • @ianmoritzplatapino3684
    @ianmoritzplatapino3684 9 місяців тому +41

    As long as op doesn't go LC and only communicates about the kids . He will never start healing . He needs to stop doubting the divorce and stop hearing anything from her family, he needs to block them all.

  • @Lucky_Soleil
    @Lucky_Soleil 4 місяці тому +7

    I would have said that "your daughter/sister/granddaughter tore this marriage apart, I'm just finishing what she started"

  • @NineM_YorHa
    @NineM_YorHa 9 місяців тому +16

    It's fascinating how this grown woman demands chance after chance but fucks it up right afterwards with showing no guilt and even blaming this upstanding guy.
    In her eyes him not letting himself get humiliated is the real crime here and nothing she did was her fault. How can she ever think she will be able to save her family this way??

  • @jayjay854-l7d
    @jayjay854-l7d 9 місяців тому +41

    last update kinda dumb. u want to date and find somebody but hides u have kids

  • @ladylily
    @ladylily 9 місяців тому +47

    If your religion tries to force you to stay in a toxic relationship, leave that religion. Period.

    • @jjdddjrrjdrjdrdredje
      @jjdddjrrjdrjdrdredje 5 місяців тому +2

      It isn’t that easy they think they will go to hell and be tortured for eternity if they leave

    • @ladylily
      @ladylily 5 місяців тому

      @@jjdddjrrjdrjdrdredje I know. I was in the church for 30 years, even though I stopped believing in it at 25.

    • @emperorconstantinexipalaio4121
      @emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 4 місяці тому +1

      Catholicism isn’t forcing anyone to stay in this relationship. Did you listen to the video or did you just try to get mad about this because you heard that there were Catholics involved?
      You should understand that for the religious, it’s not about my needs-it’s about following God.

    • @jjdddjrrjdrjdrdredje
      @jjdddjrrjdrjdrdredje 4 місяці тому

      @@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 well clearly u didn't watch the video cus it literally says he can't leave or it's bad and he will go to hell

    • @ladylily
      @ladylily 4 місяці тому +1

      @@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 You're still enslaved. Your words are worthless.

  • @justcallmeshorty240
    @justcallmeshorty240 9 місяців тому +19

    "She told me how I'm full of anger..."
    Yeah, I'd be a little angry myself to know my wife was talking sexy talk with her ex. At that point, Its not even a contest. She is hung up on the Ex. He doesn't need the tape at this point. The family's actions would be more than enough.

  • @juanhaines7295
    @juanhaines7295 9 місяців тому +9

    Glad didn't simp out. Good on him for leaving that hot mess.

  • @thesixthkid7689
    @thesixthkid7689 9 місяців тому +7

    The very dead end, OP should just say he has kids. Everyone knows that kids come first and they should know that they have baggage.

  • @uncone5578
    @uncone5578 9 місяців тому +3

    If that happened to me ill transfer all my money to a very trustworthy family member and write all of my property in their name then divorce her making sure she doesn't get a dime

  • @vlad-igor
    @vlad-igor 9 місяців тому +82

    OP needs to grow a pair, share all information in a grp message so everyone can know how horrible she is, why is that a good thing? That's how you SHUT people up from making lies and being DELUSIONAL. When everyone knows the truth now they'll leave u in peace.

    • @Cainesugars
      @Cainesugars 9 місяців тому +2

      Amen

    • @solidsnake5644
      @solidsnake5644 9 місяців тому +5

      Sometimes that'll work, but more often than not it will blow up any kind of civility you could have in the relationship. Blackmailing rather than exposing her secrets would be better as it allows OP to have some level of leverage over her. The OP still has to see his children at the end of the day and him airing out his wife's dirty secrets will likely make her way more vindictive and she'll take it out on the kids either by turning his children against him or by trying to take more from him in the divorce. Short term, airing out her secrets will feel good, but long term he will have to deal with the consequences of an incredibly embittered ex-wife just to see his children. Also there's a point where you can't expect delusional people to change their ways as they'll react in unpredictable ways. You might be able to hold them accountable, but you need the evidence for that and even then the family/friends may still take their side regardless of their delusions.

    • @NoobGamer-mh4gj
      @NoobGamer-mh4gj 9 місяців тому

      ​@@solidsnake5644 nah. Air it all out. Anyone have a problem, provide evidence. Wanna use the kids against him? Use evidence. Want to turn kids on him? Use evidence

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 9 місяців тому +3

      Nah, he made a good and rational decision. Leave him alone. You don't know the full circumstances, you only know what he told us

    • @ChileSpiceNinja
      @ChileSpiceNinja 9 місяців тому +3

      Remember he wanted to and was given legal advice not to. It's not being ball-less, it's being smart and listening to his lawyer

  • @TheSpineSplitter7
    @TheSpineSplitter7 9 місяців тому +13

    The whole demonic possession thing is such a cop out. Take responsibility for your actions

  • @ARcinder
    @ARcinder 9 місяців тому +19

    Simply answer, she married the safety net and regrets it. AP is the kind of man she really wished she married and blames her husband for her own actions. Typical, sad, but typical.

  • @Nazuna500
    @Nazuna500 8 місяців тому +7

    My brother cheated on his wife and they divorced earlier this year. When I found out I told my sil that if he didn't show any effort to fix anything to leave him. She deserves better than that.

  • @KilroyWasHere83
    @KilroyWasHere83 9 місяців тому +26

    Once her family started making the heel turn like that, i would've just aired out all of the dirty laundry I had. Sent all of them everything i had recorded.

  • @gwenrichard7507
    @gwenrichard7507 9 місяців тому +26

    Her family's enabling keeps her from feeling guilt. I'd ask the father if he wants to hire OP for the same pay as now so he can spend more time with his kids. If the father is serious about this he will say yes. Use as much leverage as you have. If her family is as charitable with others people trust, time and money they will grill him.
    If he agrees, max out your visitation with the kids.
    Your kids will be turning against you as soon as the family can otherwise.

    • @anders8204
      @anders8204 9 місяців тому +4

      As much of an idea that is, you'd put yourself in a stupid position the same way cheating does.
      -> Your dependant, her father, could change his mind at any moment and you'd be out of a job.
      -> Your wife, whom would take this as a sign to reconciliate could use it as leverage in court, while also poison the Father against you, and working in a place where you hate the boss or the boss hates you is not a position you should entertain lightly.

  • @FlipTheBard
    @FlipTheBard 9 місяців тому +5

    For the relatives of the cheating wife...OP should've told them "I hope you discover you got cheated by your SO, then let's see if you will forgive them as easily as you make it seem it is".

  • @1inchMan20
    @1inchMan20 9 місяців тому +27

    Why is OP lying to girls he’s going to end up being more like his ex wife.

  • @MrBassem95
    @MrBassem95 9 місяців тому +7

    Do not get back with her, she will say ANYTHING to be comfortable again then she can turn the narrative around on you find a new affair partner and leave you in a way less amicable way.

  • @Justicar2503
    @Justicar2503 9 місяців тому +83

    Never underestimate the woman ability to avoid accountability

    • @whyplaypiano2844
      @whyplaypiano2844 9 місяців тому +6

      Never underestimate a man's ability to generalize 3.7 billion people into a handful of bad apples.

    • @NazzyDragon
      @NazzyDragon 9 місяців тому

      I'm a woman and he's right. ._.@@whyplaypiano2844

    • @Goatgeta_with_Vegibro
      @Goatgeta_with_Vegibro 9 місяців тому +3

      You both did the same thing, you could have just told him “You shouldn’t make generalizations” Even still they’re talking about the type of “Women” who lie to themselves so hard they believe it or just don’t care either way type of people who fall into the statistic that women “are naturally more manipulative” it horrible and it makes broken hearts, making the world horrible.

    • @wewuzkangz2505
      @wewuzkangz2505 9 місяців тому +7

      @@whyplaypiano2844 A handful? 60% of divorces are initiated by women, and more than half of all marriages will end in a no-fault divorce. I think it's more than a handful.

    • @clare769
      @clare769 8 місяців тому

      ​@@wewuzkangz2505bro did you bother to look into WHY the statistic is that way? You can't just know a statistic without understanding it and actually think your doing something. If 60% are initiated by women, do you not think its because theres a problem in the marriage that they arent happy with? I mean, if men had a problem with women's "lack of accountability" they would initiate majority of divorces, no? I feel like facts could slap people like you right in the face and you'd still find ways to act blind to it.

  • @thunderpants3500
    @thunderpants3500 9 місяців тому +14

    Typical choirch folk, calling him a 'narcissist' while using his kids as canon fodder, guarantee you his ex got this behavior from her own family.

  • @Tennisers
    @Tennisers 9 місяців тому +24

    Why are you censoring "intimacy"? Does that really flag youtube's content filter?

    • @IZUNAMI14
      @IZUNAMI14 9 місяців тому +7

      Everything thing flags YT except the stuff that should actually be censored.

    • @sal_strazzullo
      @sal_strazzullo 9 місяців тому

      I dont think it does, but many channels prefer to stay safe than sorry. Just one word and your whole video might not be recommended except to a few subscribers

  • @phatballs3570
    @phatballs3570 9 місяців тому +20

    She for the streets😭😭

  • @marthajackson1388
    @marthajackson1388 9 місяців тому +7

    She didn't have time to call him but she had time to bang the AP on the Airbnb and to regularly video chat with him.😂😂

  • @badcreations9527
    @badcreations9527 9 місяців тому +4

    “I can’t imagine a life without you”
    But you already have

  • @lodunost
    @lodunost 9 місяців тому +3

    People speak about forgiveness but don't even know what it means.

  • @astrelle-
    @astrelle- 9 місяців тому +3

    I knew it. the whole family at first were on his side but then eventually tries to guilt trip him into forgiving his cheating wife.

  • @viciousrape
    @viciousrape 9 місяців тому +5

    that woman is a real piece of work

  • @joshuamcnally1604
    @joshuamcnally1604 7 місяців тому +1

    That lawyer was awful. They should've told you how to get custody of your kids.
    Your wife doesn't even love her kids.

  • @scarletcos7771
    @scarletcos7771 9 місяців тому +6

    I’m curious wether or not OP even explained to her family all the things he did at the house and the counseling situation trying to improve the marriage even before finding out about the cheating…

  • @Thanatossssx
    @Thanatossssx 9 місяців тому +6

    someone should be the doormat warning guy of this channel's comment section

    • @Thanatossssx
      @Thanatossssx 9 місяців тому

      just a normal guy this time

  • @iloveplasticbottles
    @iloveplasticbottles 9 місяців тому +1

    AP probably shot down a relationship with her. Now she doesnt have a husband AND an AP.

  • @georgegarvey7338
    @georgegarvey7338 4 місяці тому +1

    She's lying & gaslighting him. Divorce this 304.

  • @zodiactg
    @zodiactg 6 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes I wonder how these kind of people even get to the point of marriage.

  • @ericharris1853
    @ericharris1853 9 місяців тому +8

    Hope everything works out for op and that his divorce want well for him

  • @VynDimentional
    @VynDimentional 5 місяців тому +1

    "You will destroy the marriage by divorcing her"
    Yeah, no s**t Sherlock

  • @MSSynsyterGates
    @MSSynsyterGates 8 місяців тому +1

    The laws are so stupid, and her and her family making excuses about demons is insane. They will do everything to avoid accountability.

  • @GloriousRock
    @GloriousRock 9 місяців тому +4

    The entire ex family is full of cheaters aren't they?

  • @pioneerxx
    @pioneerxx 7 місяців тому +1

    When I hear stories like these I wonder why does my country and Poland hate each other so much when our problems are so similar

  • @EkayLaive
    @EkayLaive 9 місяців тому +2

    DONT.TAKE.HER.BACK

  • @drayvinwilliams2389
    @drayvinwilliams2389 8 місяців тому +2

    Women DO NOT respect their husband if they are the ones that have to wear the pants in the house. It’s literally the most basic subconscious reason that they cheat. The want their husband to be masculine and lead them. Not making excuses for the woman, but wtf do you expect when you are so passive and agreeable? It’s like you are entirely dependant on the people around you and making sure to avoid conflict.

  • @admpandora91
    @admpandora91 8 місяців тому +1

    "You can't sell the house, it's meant for the kids... Oh btw, I'm considering selling the house because I don't know what my life will be like."
    This translates to, "I don't want you to benefit from selling the house... Oh btw, the guy I cheated with is still on my radar..."

  • @anonanomalli
    @anonanomalli 9 місяців тому +2

    Time may heal enough of their relationship that they might eventually reconcile... but that could take years. Good luck, OP. I wish all the best for your family.

  • @Darkone225
    @Darkone225 23 дні тому

    Hate when cheaters get caught and they retort with “it didn’t mean anything” “I only love you” they’re just upset because they got caught. Pathetic.

  • @Sienna6164
    @Sienna6164 2 місяці тому +1

    Catholic here! OP deserves better. OP should leave her. It’s such a shame that he dosen’t have as much custody of his kids. Also, OP should forgive her- not to take her back, but to move past her. But who*e deserves nothing-
    Holy sh*t! I literally just heard the ‘possessed by demons’ line! I read it in the commends and I thought it was a joke! lol!!!!!!!!!

  • @1Scimetar
    @1Scimetar 9 місяців тому +6

    My advice for OP's dating life at the end is to open yourself to the option of dating a single mother. If you marry another woman, she's going to end up a stepmother to your sons, so you might have more luck getting an understanding girlfriend if she's also a single parent. Just don't jump into anything long-term, as there might still be some undealt trauma from your ex, and you don't want to have that pop off and hurt the woman that you might want as your next wife, as that from what I've heard will only drive her off.

  • @slightly.psycho
    @slightly.psycho 3 місяці тому +1

    Im sorry, 88 and 71?!? THATS A 17 YEAR DIFFRRENCE?

    • @LegendOfWisFr
      @LegendOfWisFr 2 місяці тому +1

      I KNEW I WASNT THE ONLY ONE WJO NOTICED THAT

  • @mr_in7fi7ni7ty
    @mr_in7fi7ni7ty 3 місяці тому +2

    Forgiveness is not synonymous for restoration or a second chance for the relationship, but rather forms the foundation for it. It's a shame that the family calls themselves "Christians," who sound like wolves disguised as sheeps (Jesus even warned against this in Matthew 7:15-27).

  • @cloudyboy1756
    @cloudyboy1756 9 місяців тому +2

    Damn that dude had like the most sociopathic wife

  • @alwaysright3943
    @alwaysright3943 9 місяців тому +3

    “Love language” is the biggest BS in the history of BSs

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig 9 місяців тому +2

    To the mother's quotes about forgiveness, I suggest sending Matthew 5:31-32, which states that God does not accept porneia (exactly what he has evidence of) in the marriage. I would further it with Mathew 5:23-24 that states one's relationship with God cannot take place until you atone for your sins (the whole 9 years), and Mathrew 6:24-26 which says that one cannot serve two masters and that God rebukes those who try.
    In short, put together within the Catholic Faith, these passages state that the wife's actions are the works of evil, spit in God's face, and can only be forgiven through attonement (pennance). This attonement would require the forgiveness of the father, the forgiveness of her children, and the forgiveness of her husband in the presence of witnesses, _while putting in the effort to show that she will strive never to do so again._ sadly, she's only done the opposite and reached the quota of 7x77

  • @MisterKrakens
    @MisterKrakens Місяць тому

    This guy just can't take a hint. LEAVE HER ALREADY

  • @MisterKrakens
    @MisterKrakens Місяць тому

    "What do I do when she serves me papers ?"
    WHY ARE YOU WAITING FOR HER TO SERVE YOU ?

  • @RavenWrenSophia
    @RavenWrenSophia 2 місяці тому +1

    She’s not remorseful because of what she did she’s remorseful that she got caught that’s how all cheaters are

  • @charlottetherrien4066
    @charlottetherrien4066 9 місяців тому +1

    Honestly, the only solution I could find is that you tell her I’ll be a partnership with you in exchange for an open relationship for my needs only and the only reason I’m going there is for my children so she shouldn’t expect you to be the same person you were before

  • @Ali-fb5km
    @Ali-fb5km 9 місяців тому +2

    This story makes no sense, she acted like she was suffering with him, it felt that she would be happy to leave

  • @Not.Alyssa777
    @Not.Alyssa777 8 місяців тому +1

    She actually tries saying she was possessed 😆💀💀💀

  • @BelgotLeons
    @BelgotLeons 9 місяців тому +1

    Guy lies to every potential girl he meets THEY WERE MEANT FOR EACH OTHER

  • @cloudydays6374
    @cloudydays6374 6 місяців тому

    “You will destroy the marriage by divorcing her” uh yea that’s the point

  • @purplebanana6420
    @purplebanana6420 7 місяців тому

    The amount of gaslighting these people did to op is crazy

  • @moonfishink1123
    @moonfishink1123 7 місяців тому

    The fact she calls him selfish and said if she were to move he'd be the only one happy and it'd be for his own ego... Like did she not do that to him when she cheated? Being selfish, doing it cause it made her happy and fed her ego??

  • @mickhailreeves7517
    @mickhailreeves7517 4 місяці тому

    Nothing says accountability like blaming it a spirit 😂

  • @Ladylove92
    @Ladylove92 9 місяців тому +2

    Op isn't the AH for the divorce but he isn't right for saying, She said she wasn't gonna date anyone else and wait for me. Good that means my kids will only have me as a father figure, but yet is ok with dating other females and potentially having those same boys have another mother figure? Can we say hypocrite much? 😒

  • @thraxironhide
    @thraxironhide 4 місяці тому

    "I wish I could've gone back in time."
    To do what? Make sure you hid it better? Find out how he knew? Not get with him? Treat him worse?

  • @TheColombianSpartan
    @TheColombianSpartan 4 місяці тому

    I'd have gotten out the _moment_ she said she only married him to impress her family

  • @Mop222
    @Mop222 3 місяці тому

    He should have sent her family the recordings to shut them up.

  • @Artiick
    @Artiick 9 місяців тому +6

    Bro is becoming more and more like those doormat dudes..... Kek...

  • @catallguy43
    @catallguy43 2 місяці тому

    I blame the husband for taking the disrespect. If he had a spine this story would be shortened.

  • @illyasvielvoneinzbern5570
    @illyasvielvoneinzbern5570 8 місяців тому

    Remorse my butt. ZERO calls for months when she was able to make so much time for AP when she was cheating? Yeah, that checks out.

  • @classydays43
    @classydays43 9 місяців тому +1

    Some people want the magic without the effort to cast any spells.

  • @segmu4376
    @segmu4376 8 місяців тому

    She doesn't want to live in the capital because she's hoping that AP would show up one day.

  • @Fiercetits
    @Fiercetits 9 місяців тому

    Bro how tf is he that oblivious to not know she’s cheating on him!?!? It took way too long to figure it out. Feel bad for the kids, why tf does the mother need to get them!!?!?? He did nothing wrong and still gets screwed over in the end.

  • @purple-47
    @purple-47 9 місяців тому +3

    2:32 sounds a lot like the Kira Yosikage speech.

  • @safayatjamil2719
    @safayatjamil2719 9 місяців тому +1

    OP should just grow a pair. Everything he says makes him look more spineless.

  • @zjemgofra2713
    @zjemgofra2713 3 місяці тому

    Wow! Finally story from Poland 💜
    It's sad it's such a story 😔

  • @NotSoCradleCatholic
    @NotSoCradleCatholic 9 місяців тому +1

    Catholic perspective, since the ex wife is Catholic:
    You can forgive someone of adultery, in fact it’s necessary for your relationship with God. But that does’t mean you can’t divorce them. Jesus says that adultery is grounds for divorce.

  • @leechgod3486
    @leechgod3486 9 днів тому

    The fact the ex-wife's family is Catholic and don't know that if one of the married couple commits adultery you are not supposed to stay married to them. It says whomever divorced their wife EXCEPT FOR IMMORALITY is committing adultery. Which means if she cheated he should not stay with this woman. Idk how Catholic families always forget that part (I'm a Catholic too) when it comes to divorce. Good for the husband to get a divorce and shame on the ex and her family.

  • @joel612
    @joel612 7 місяців тому

    The horrors of not being a proactive man 😮

  • @georgegarvey7338
    @georgegarvey7338 4 місяці тому

    No more confession or communion for her.

  • @ordomachinum4016
    @ordomachinum4016 2 місяці тому

    Whenever I hear these stories they aren’t sorry because it happened only because of the consequences

  • @angel-nv7jk
    @angel-nv7jk 9 місяців тому

    She only regretted it because AP wasn't gonna marry her

  • @cavey001
    @cavey001 7 місяців тому +1

    Censored the word Intimacy? WTF?

  • @karlwittenburg5868
    @karlwittenburg5868 7 місяців тому

    I hate it when people think that forgiveness = going back to the old status quo. No they are not nearly the same, it just means the forgiver won’t hold it against them any more, but by no means should it be taken as a sign to forget it happened and go back to business as usual, that only shows that nobody learned anything

  • @Noukie032
    @Noukie032 9 місяців тому

    I'm from Holland and I feel ashamed. We do not claim that man and OP's ex wife whatsoever

  • @Sushi_Cat2793
    @Sushi_Cat2793 9 місяців тому +1

    Recorders as in the instrument?
    That would be funny-
    Just imagine being inappropriate with your ex and your husband catches you and then a bunch of recorders pop out and you just hear the tune “hot cross buns”

  • @wickedashley
    @wickedashley 6 місяців тому +3

    “My wife was dishonest with me and I didn’t like that. I am now being dishonest with other women. WHY DONT THEY LIKE THAT?!” … what… you are justified in leaving but how can you turn around and lie to potential new suitors and not understand that it’s wrong? What the actual hell 🤣🤣