Bts imagine: Hoseok - finding out about your abusive parents
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- Опубліковано 28 лют 2020
- Guys honestly this is one of the worst problems I have ever confronted on my channel and I really hope you're here because you want to get help. Please, if you find yourself or someone you know in a similar situation as adressed in the video, call emergency services!
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original Song: j-Hope - Blue Side Outro
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oh damn i feel bad for the kids that are dealing with physical abuse. i've gone through a lot of psychological abuse and some sexual abuse, but luckily never been hit. by the time i realized what was going on, i was an adult and still financially tied to my parents. i'm definitely looking for a way out, and I hope everyone else in a similar situation to what has been described in the video or in my comment is also trying to get out. you don't deserve how you are being treated, believe me. there is a better life waiting for you, just try and find glimpses of it while you are making an escape plan. there is always a way out, even if you have to claw at the walls to dig a hole. there is a way out.
At me
Are you in a better position now??
I really hope u are..
I hope your okay now!
This made me cry knowing it talks about me as well as a lot of other people! Thank you!
@@saragosling5279 hello Sara. What kind of abusees are you victiim of ? And How are you doing now ? Please reportt your abuserss to poliice, chiildren sociaI care, talk to people about these abusess... You Can be safe if you report your abuserss.
I just realized this is what my father does to me and my sister.
Hope you and your sis are safe and healthy 💜🥺
i know this is super late, but me too, I hope you're doing well and know that you're loved :))
How are you doing now ? Please reportt your fatherr to poliice, chiildren sociaI care, talk to people about these abusess... You Can be safe and protect you and your sister if you reportt him.
What kind of abusess are you viictiim of ?
I am really worried for you and wish to have news from you. Please tell me. How IS your life ? What your father does / did to you ? I pray for your safety health and happiness.
I've had abusive parents and this hits home... Could you make this one of Yoongi too? Love your videos so much
Same!!! Yoongi is my bias, I would love that!!
Yes I've been too shy to request it but one with yoongi would be nice 👉👈
@@jimpix6120 hello. What kind of abusees are you victiim of ? And How are you doing now ? Please reportt your abuserss to poliice, chiildren sociaI care, talk to people about these abusess... You Can be safe if you report your abuserss.
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@@letiziaingrao4793 hey checkk my comment before before this one it's Also for you. ❤️❤️❤️
I saw u uploaded this and I was like "MY THERAPIST HAS CALLED" lol
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@@thinhhoe1726 First, talk to someone that you know irl about your health issues / depression / suicidal thoughts etc... Tell to someone that you know irl if you are suicidal etc. They will be able to help you when you will need it, and go to see a doctor a therapist a psychologist it's not a shame. Maybe that you need medicine or something because for example depression is an illness. And it's not a shame. Maybe that, you need medicine (if reliables doctors therapists psychologists tell you that you need medicine)
Don't be ashamed of your body. If it's not dangerous for your health don't change it if you don't want to. Love yourself.
And please read this entirely its very important, and share next time this message with the people that aren't okay / that are suicidal etc (in Real life and virtually, even if it seems to be a joke, because we never know when it's a joke. And even if it seems obvious that it's joke, share this message and do something, do what I will tell you to do, don't take any risks): People love and care about. Maybe you don't see it, or maybe you didn't find YET these people.If you die today you will not see your future, the things that you are able to accomplish, the dreams that you will make come true, the loves and friends that you will find…Pain heal with time.
Please never hurt yourself.Always talk to someone when you are not okay.Also, please, go see doctors and psychologists they will help you. Talk to them, let them give you medicine, let them help you. You can do it. You will be happy in the future
Do things that you like, and change the things in your life that you hate.
When you die everything is just black, when you live it's black but also white.
Live for you, not for the others, and if you don't have taste for things learn to love new things.
Meet new people, you can use internet for that.Find new passions, discover new things.
Once again if you are afraid to go out for example, internet is your best friend.
Need Help? Contact a suicide hotline if you need someone to talk to. If you have a friend in need of help, please encourage that person to contact a suicide hotline as well.
- Worldwide
In general, if you're outside the US, numbers for your country are here: Help a friend - Befrienders Worldwide. You can also e-mail jo@samaritans.org to talk to someone or go to www.samaritans.org/how-we... to speak with someone.
- United States
Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
Para español, llame al 1-888-628-9454.
- Canada
Locate a crisis centre in your area and at The Canadian Association for Suicide Prevention (link to: suicideprevention.ca/nee...). For youth under 20, you can call the Kids Help Phone at 1-800-668-6868.
- India
Visit AASRA or call their 24/7 helpline at +91-22-27546669 or +91-22-27546667. You can also e-mail aasrahelpline@yahoo.com.
- UK 116 123 (to reach the Samaritans in the UK)
- France (33) 01 46 21 46 46
- Australia 13 11 14
And write emergencies numbers (of your country) on internet and don't forget them and call them when you need. People are here for you. You will never be alone.
Write also lifeline chat (the chat of suicide prevention lifeline on internet) and talk to them when you need it.
Also : write crisis hotlines to find more of the crisis hotlines of your country. And find only reliable and free crisis hotlines.
Stay strong my friend.
Also : I would like to add that life is always better than death. Death is just black, emptiness, but life is full of different things.Maybe that life can be black, but life is white too, grey, it's not just black and pain heal with time, pain can disappear, problems can disappear… But when you are dead your death can't disappear.
Yes you can be hurt while living, but death is permanent. When you are dead there is nothing else, you can't change anything about it. In your life you make bad decisions, you have regrets, but you can still do things differently after these mistakes, you can learn from your mistakes, try to repair these mistakes…
But if you kill yourself you will not be able to repair this mistake that is suicide.When you live you can change things. You can make your future better. You can laugh, love, listening to music, have children, meet people, do something important…When you are dead it's just the silence, you can't change anything, you can't go back please live don't hurt yourself and share this message too with people that aren't okay / that are suicidal…
Like I saw in an other comment, do that everytime (irl / virtually) even if it seems to be a joke because we never know when someone is joking.
Also, go see with different and reliables sources what to do when someone is suicidal, how you can report it, how you can report it to the police (because we need to report it. next time report when someone is suicidal, ask a question where someone is suicidal / not okay etc), go check quora topic about the subject to know how to report this kind of persons with quora (for example, when you have a question like that / a question about suicide / depression / someone who isn't okay etc you have to edit the question, edit the topics of the questions, and put “suicide” “suicide prevention” “suicide prevention lifeline" as topics etc.)
and Even if it's in french, use this website to report suicidal people :
internet-signalement.gouv.fr - Portail officiel de signalements de contenus illicites - Accueil
(Please keep all of this message preciously to share it when you will see someone that isn't ok / that is suicidal / that has depression
two links don't work so I will repost these links here : (well not the links because my message don't appear with the links, so I will put the name that you will have to copy past on the internet to find the website) so :
- Worldwide
In general, if you're outside the US, numbers for your country are here:
write befrienders . org on the internet (stick the . and the org together and stick the . org to befrienders)
you can also e-mail jo@samaritans.org to talk to someone or go to
samaritans . org (same thing than before, stick the words and write samaritans . org on internet)
and write lifeline chat on the internet (the chat of national suicide prevention lifeline)
(you can find more chats / email / crisis hotlines if you write : crisis hotlines email / chat / numbers on the internet. write the name of your country also. and be sure to find only reliables and free crisis hotlines. you can also add suicide / bullying / depression etc crisis hotlines (and add email chat etc if you want something even more specific)
(with all these links you have phone numbers, emails, chat to talk to someone qualified. also if one of this phone number / chat / email don't work or if you have no answer it's maybe because too many people use these helps so please when you are going to use one of this help, try to use all the helps (chat / phone numbers etc) again and again
until one of these services responds. there will always be one of these crisis / chat hotlines that will answer to you. never give up. and if you want to hurt / kill yourself (don't hurt yourself / don't kill yourself) and use one of this help. each time. and you can also call the emergencies numbers of your country.
+ Maybe that you will find the love of your life in the future, have children, the job of your dreams, money, new friends…
So never kill yourself, never hurt yourself...
Live. Live to discover all the good things that can happen to you in the future.
It's logical, not only bad things can happen to you in the future. So live to discover the good things that will happen to you in the future.
If you have no one today, it's because you don't see the people that care. Or you will meet these people later. Be patient. Also strangers can care about you. You will never be alone. You are not alone.
Stay strong, healthy, and never give up.
Much love.
Others Alternatives That Will Give You A Sensation (Other Than
Pain) Without Harming Yourself
:
Hold ice in your hands, against your arm, or in your mouth
Run your hands under freezing cold water
Drink freezing cold water
Splash your face with cold water
Put PVA/Elmer's glue on your hands then peel it off
Massage where you want to hurt yourself
Take a hot shower/bath
Jump up and down to get some sensation in your feet
Write or paint on yourself
Arm wrestle with a member of your family
Take a cold bath
Bite into a hot pepper or chewa piece of ginger root
Rub liniment under your nose
Put tiger balm on the places you want to cut. (Tiger
balm is a muscle relaxant cream that induces a
tingly sensation. You can find it in most health food
stores and vitamin stores.)
be careful check that you are not allergic to certain foods / products before using them
And never hurt yourself please
and when you want / think / are going to hurt yourself, use the crisis hotlines and the alternatives to self harm (alternatives to feel a sensation without pain / without hurting yourself) and never hurt yourself.
If you hurt yourself you can die because of blood loss, if you collapse and fall, if you cut to deep, if you cut in a specific place, if you hurt you too much...
And if someone abuse(d) you / do (did) something criminal etc etc please go report this / these person(s) to the police and talk to someone (relatives friends family teacher nurse doctor counselor... You are not alone and you will not be a coward / the one in fault / a traitor etc...)
I’m crying now but I love this 🥺
Ikr
ah, right before watching this I had Blue Side on repeat, what a coincidence.
Again another video of yours hit home, I really appreciate this
im so happy i found your channel, it's beautiful and inspiring. your advice is so real and so well thought out it's what people need to hear. i wont request because i know so many people are requesting rn but you're doing god's work rn darling ilysm.
When I am watching bts imagine about physical abuse and you are literally experiencing it eversince I was a kid upto now...this is so much relatable....😑😑
Could u do one with a alcoholic dad or moms drug addiction
This is so relateable. I feel like one have no one to talk to about it.
I love your video
Can you do one about "Jungkook find out you have schizophrenia"?
I would love to see it ,i have it (squizophenia) so yeah and Jungkook inspire me alot so that would help me 💜
I feel that, I have scizaphania too, Yoongi is my inspiration and I luv everyone in BTS.
Yes
Sorry if this makes you uncomfortable but what is schizophrenia?
@@saragosling5279 schizophrenia is a mental desorder where you may see/hear/smell/feel/
Listen to things that are not real
In that process you can hurt yourself or others (like self harm/accidentally hurting someone or suicide attempt )since you can hear voices telling you to kill yourself or feeling somebody touching you , see a shadow or a scary creature (they are called hallucinations) or believe something abnormal like the FBI is trying to kill you or that you are god (they are called delusions ) which is bad since you can't tell if it's real or not because it's too realistic
(It can also affect the way that you speak some times you are just mixing random words together and making a phrase that doesn't make sense but feels like It does , the way that you act in public like show little to no facial expressions or being too energetic, avoiding friends or families ,not caring for personal hygiene or not having interest in daily activities but that depends on the person )
Not everybody with schizophrenia have all of those traits but I do have most of them
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It's not uncomfortable at all thx asking ☺️
I 💜 you
@@yashminjamal6517 I 💜 you too and ok! I know sometimes people get uncomfortable by these thing so I wanted to make you feel comfortable! And wow ok that sounds scary! Thanks for that!
I wish this was irl because this happens to me all the time i wish people would understand that i do wanna die because of my parents
Honestly out of everything , being abused by the two people who brought you into this world is the worst, nobody should have to go through such a thing. This makes so many questions spiral into my head like parents love for their child is supposed to be more than the universe can describe, but things like this happens and to the people who haven't done anything to deserve it or have never hurt anyone else. It hurts me knowing some parents just don't care about the wellbeing of their own children and would rather hurt then than help them. This really is disgusting and i urge you to get help, i know your scared something will happen to them and then they will know you told and they will feel you betrayed them, but it' taking care of yourself and clearly the people who should be taking care of you aren't so now you need to take it into your own hands. Yes they are your parents and you feel you can't tell on them but they aren't acting like parents at all they need to learn how to treat people never mind their own child. Please talk to someone, if you want to talk to me i would love to and if you want my social media then please tel me if your comfortable with it also because i don't want random people DMing me.
Please stay safe, we love you
So do I..
People in my country think it's fine to abuse their kid mentally and physically. And it's not illegal here-
SoO iVe beeN abUsed for 9 yearS
DAMN-
@@nami-pm4bb what's that country ??
@@user-fo2tf6hk4b I'm from india
Thank you so much for making this, it made me cry tbh i don't live in an abusive household but its a really aggressive and toxic one so its hard to get by thank you again for making this it really helps me in worse time
This is the most accurate video to my current situation..... I now am sure that it's not just me...💔 and honestly that itself is comforting, and the fact you used j-hope aka the hope source of ARMY made me so emotional😢💕💕
There are a couple of issues with my parents but it's mostly my dad.
Yes, they do take me somewhere fun here and there, but their irritability towards me is something that I'm scared of.
My dad tends to have a short-fuse even when it comes to the slightest thing. If I tend to have a panic attack or I start to cry, they would ask me
"Why was I crying?"
"Why are you panicking? They're is nothing to be scared about!!"
Their behavior is unpredictable.
My mom is succumbs to irritability rather easily, however she doesn't have much of a short temper.
She simply twists my words into something that would be offensive to her.
She asks me things like if I wanted to deal with her and I said that I rather not (If she's in a bad mood)
At this point I don't know if they are abusive because everything that happens is from moment to moment.
This was so comforting
I LOVE HOW THIS VIDEO MADE PEOPLE ON THE COMMENTS THINKING ABOUT ABUSIVE PARENTS AND PHYSICAL ABUSE
dude i love it so much when you upload 🥺🥺
Thank you so so much, this video means so much and I'm so thankful that you've made this. You're a wonderful person and I am so greatfull for all your videos.
this was really comforting and i'm not even abused, i feel so bad for people out there who have to actually deal with this sh*t. Also i'm quite new to your channel but you need more subs @Ki Ra - you're so underrated
I think its sweet how u went straight for real situation and gave jhope a awesome proper response
Ki Ra! I deleted my other comment because I was a little uncomfortable having it up. But I just wanted to say THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOUUUUUUUU for what you said to me. It's not that big but I just called out my dad for his INSANELY short temper in front of my grandparents. But like I said before, baby steps. So really thank you for trying to convince me to get help because I feel threatened. It wasn't that hard actually, I mean, I almost cried but ya know 😂 but what you do and what you say to me about my dad and my depression really helps, you're always trying to talk me out of things and I love you so much for it 💜💜💜 THANK YOUUUUU😭😭😭😭💜💜💜💜💜
Ki Ra Thank you so much, I purple you too 💜💜💜
I hope things will get better for you and remember love yourself 💜
This video was really comforting❤️thanks so much
I started crying
This was a great video! I loved it, it hit home... I love all your videos. If possible could you do one with Yoongi? If not it's fine I love all your work💕 keep up the good work!
I personally dont go through this but I have a friend who does and this helped me to help them thank you
Thank you so so so so much for these videos
Thank you for this. I look forward to seeing videos with Jungkook and Taehyung ♡
It hurt more when you have toxic parents
This really hits home. My father was abusive. Luckily never physical but always mentally and I still struggle with my self confidence. When I was a child he started to always just say things about me or makes jokes about me. Like calling me stupid and then everyone laughing at me. He would always take it way too far and get very angry very easily. I was always so scared and still scared of him now. My mom had it much worse 😔 sometimes I wish I was never born so my mum would have had a better life. If she never met my Dad and been in an abusive relationship. Found someone better she deserves. She is smart, beautiful and still now has a good job. My mum doesn’t have family in this country so she is basically all alone and I try and help her as much as I can but I am just a child. Oh well luckily he left us with our childminder 😂 which I am kind of happy about. I always wanted him to go and he never felt like a real father to me so the divorce was the best thing I heard but it was so difficult for my mum, my sister and I. The lawyer was very expensive me he would not cooperate. It was very hard and I could see my mum was struggling. Then finally it was over but no.. he lives so close to us which makes me slightly uncomfortable and for my aunt who I loved so much he would not let my mum go to the funeral and I could never go with him so I couldn’t go. I wish I was as positive as my mum.
Sorry I needed a rant. Quarantine is making me feel really lonely but at least I get to spend time with my mum and sister.
Ki Ra thank you so much. I am quiet struggling right now but I can get through it💜
@@Veronika-vy5ou Thats the spirit you can get through it, we are with you!!!
Jiminie is a cutie thank you so much ❤️
thank you so much 💜❤️
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I love the Videos you post because i feel as if someone is actually caring for me
it’s good to hear that the videos make you feel a little more comfortable, that’s exactly why I make them. I hope I can create some kind of safe space for you here where you can come when you need someone. if there’s anything I can do to help just let me know. you’re not alone
Are you victim of abuses ? If it's the case report your abusers to police and children social Care. Please answer me Friend
Use alternatiives to sellf harrm without hurtiing yourself pliz. (Search them on the internet)
@Henrie K read my two comments before this one if you didn't receive the notification @HenrieK
Henrie k t's me again. I learned that this comment section had filters so maybe that your answers to my comments were deleted so answer me again tell me if you are abused etc. And please take Care of you
He really comforted me, whenever they get mad or i do something wrong they yell shout and hit me when it's school the phone chores housework anything they would just- and they just act kind the day after they're just... Anyway please make one out of all of them
Please do another video on abusive parents. Maybe with Namjoon or Yoongi.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 I love all your videos!!! You bring a lot of awareness to UA-cam!!!
I get it. I so get it. You get scared pleople will judge you or that they will hurt you more for their disgusting behaviour so you keep quiet trying to do everything possible to keep them happy so they won't belittle you throw shit and hit you. You agree with them on anything so they don't threaten to do something to you. But guts if anyone heres going through this, know you are NOT alone. And once you open up about it, tell someone and get help you won't regret it. Trust me. I was in that position with my father and I felt much less tense after he was nolonger in my life.
annyeonghaseyo hobi jhope
This took me so long to watch cause I knew it'd make me cry.i love your videos and they often mame me feel better.
I was abused (mostly mental) but not to badly,I dont remember much so idrk but once my mom didnt feel like me and my sisters room was clean enough even though it was and didnt let us eat for three days (my sister was 9 and I was 6) and another time she had checked me out of school (elementary) and beat me in the parking lot and checked me back in, I cant remember why though. A lot of other stuff happened but it's to much to talk about.
Right now I guess she's better then before but I'm still scared to talk to her also knowing I'm lesbian and she's very homophobic so I just avoid her most of the time now.im just waiting till I'm 18 to cut her off along with the rest of my family.
Omg i miss you
i need your videos when
will you uploading ?? I love you so much thank god that i found your channel it helps me with depression issues
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Watching this made me cry so much as I've gone through mental and physical abuse luckily it stopped I endured the pain and the torture from the age of 2 till 8 I was beaten for not sitting straight I was hit so hard my knees buckled I was dragged up by my hair so hard a handful came out .I was always told it was to make me better or I should be grateful as they are. Helping me .like when I was around five I got 3 out of 10 on my spelling test and when my mum found out she yelled and yelled at me I tired to run away but she started hitting me and wouldn't stop once she did stop I was crying so hard and my legs were bright red she threatened me saying if. I told anyone id be take. Away. .I'm now 13 I still have flashbacks I still have the marks and scars on my brain .I finally told my dad and we are hoping for justice and she will be put in prison
the people who dislike this are cruel, motherfucking heartless monsters. they are probably jealous they cant create good content like you and bring more kindness to this world
hobi jhope your always joking whahahahaha but i really really inspired touching my heart because my stress even waching funny show bts my strangle for lossing
It was so painful to watch like I had to stop every minute of the video.😥
yeah im physically therapist
my parents have never hit me but my brother has come close to killing me at times, so this is still really comforting thank you 💜💜
Yoongs Productions Thank you, ive reached out once before but nothing was done, so im just waiting it out until i can move out, but thank you for the offer
WHAT, you what i am shook right now. Do your parents know haw can this go not helped this is not acceptable at all. What kind of people are these like seriously what the heck how can you do that to a sibling i dont understand. Please mind my language but your brother is a fucking bastard. I want to try and help you but i don't know how please stay safe we love you
I kinda thought this was interesting bc my family has been getting worse and it all the mental abuse they say things making me feel like I'm nothing and I do the same thing my brother does but I get told I did everything wrong but he did it better even this it's the same I make them food every day just for them to come home and tell at me for not doing one thing and not knowing that my brother causes at me all day till they get home so that's always fun but when I go on a walk to cry bc I can't even be in my own room I get yelled at
Oof asdfadsf!! sometimes y'all, i wish nobody gets parents like mine or rather, let everybody have parents like mine, BeAr wITh Me yOu gUyS!!
nice content KiRa, just thinkin' what would it be like to meet you i n person hahahahahahahaha
This was exactly what a friend of mine needed right now... Wth?
I know that I'm a much older international ARMY member but I have a personal story suggestion for you could you do one where the members meet a girl with a learning& a physical disability and how negatively people treat her for it because it's what I have dealt with throughout my entire life ( even as an adult I'm still having to deal with the constant stares from adults & the repeated questions of did you get hit by a car?
kakatapus lang akong pinalo ni mamy ng walis tingting dahil nakalimutan kong magsaing ng kanin tapos eto ako ngayon nag eemote hahaha😂
me to hobi: baby ko I have abusive mami who slaps me with broom 🧹 😂😂
Ahm.... This video is true in my life... Hehe🙂
Aww my name
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hello everyone. if you are victiim of abusess (mentaI, psychologiicaIs, physiicals etc all are iIIegals.) please reeport your abuserss to the poliice, to chiildren sociaI care, taIk to people about it.
Back to this video again...and now I’m crying. Thank you so much for your hard work and kindness & willingness to help others during hard times. Being “told” by Hobi that I’m important is so meaningful to me. I purple you so much 💜
Can we give you request or ideas for one of your next videos? It is your decision if you want to
Ki Ra Ah okay.
It is okay that your ideas on your list comes first when it’s already planned. My idea would be for example: Exam stress. Like one of the members cheer them up and make them clear that the y/n is not a failure or stupid and studying and practice takes time
0:01 what's the song name :> ?????????????????????????????
@@kiRa13 THAAAAAAAAAAANK YOU !!
you answered so fast !! THANKYOU!!
@@kiRa13 I heard the album already but I forget about blue side >>
ofcourse i liked it !!