"Separation" | Broken Heart | Pastor Bobby Chandler

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  • @eddycress42
    @eddycress42 10 місяців тому +444

    My wife and I had been separated since April 2023..11 days ago I prayed to God.. help me help her. Your video popped up. I wasn't even following you at that time. I sent it to my wife on January 17th 2024.. our divorce was scheduled for Feb 1st. She watched the video. WE'RE NO LONGER GETTING DIVORCED. God used you and this video to save our marriage. I can't thank you enough for speaking God's word. Thank you Bobby. May God continue to bless you and use you.

    • @KacieMichelle
      @KacieMichelle 8 місяців тому +10

      Hallelujah ❤ thank you Jesus

    • @Chrissssxox124
      @Chrissssxox124 8 місяців тому +5

      Thx for sharing that! I'm praying hard that circumstances will change and our marriage will be saved !

    • @6.0hhh
      @6.0hhh 7 місяців тому +5

      Praise God ❤️

    • @calculusfalconerd
      @calculusfalconerd 5 місяців тому +3

      Praise God! Hallelujah! This video is so good! Marriage is a blessing from God.

    • @inakiho4895
      @inakiho4895 4 місяці тому +2

      Hallelujah

  • @jenmsiss8848
    @jenmsiss8848 8 місяців тому +177

    I found out my boyfriend (who we had been planning on getting engaged and starting a family) was cheating on me with his ex. What people don't tell you is its not just dealing with a breakup or separation. It feels like you're mourning the death of a person. A future. A love. He knew about all the pain I experienced in my past yet did the very thing he knew would break me. Sometimes God will break your heart in order to save your soul. I believe that's what happened here. Thank you for sharing this sermon. A lot of people hurting in the world and they need to hear that they are not alone.

    • @chaddean1234
      @chaddean1234 8 місяців тому +8

      This is me right now…4 year relationship ended overnight and they said they don’t love me. A piece of me is missing and I feel so lost…I’m scrambling to put it all back together. Leaning into the lord.

    • @melulopes
      @melulopes 6 місяців тому +5

      This is me right now pretty much, I feel your pain 😢

    • @goldenlifelove7251
      @goldenlifelove7251 6 місяців тому +7

      I know how you all feel. All I can tell u is to heal properly and get into deep conversations with God about your feelings. It does get better.

    • @GodIsWithinHer.
      @GodIsWithinHer. 4 місяці тому +4

      Yes, that is exactly what it feels like.

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk 2 місяці тому +3

      Yeah or u gotta find thousands excuses for that person or exlanations for their action, yet it doesn't help ..

  • @SyliestReddenwoodall
    @SyliestReddenwoodall 8 місяців тому +105

    I see a lot of people telling people to pray for your ex back, but y'all have to break free of being comfortable, accept the fact that god has something else in store for you. relax and be patient its not easy but it will be OKAY

  • @michaelavdmerwe5855
    @michaelavdmerwe5855 Рік тому +195

    Please pray for me and my boyfriend. We recently had a breakup. I believe it isn't the end and I am believing that God can restore what has been broken. To Jesus be the glory 🙏❤️

    • @victordavila2415
      @victordavila2415 Рік тому +3

      Did y’all ever get back together?

    • @gideoncampbell217
      @gideoncampbell217 Рік тому +2

      Hey did u guys ever get back together?

    • @michaelavdmerwe5855
      @michaelavdmerwe5855 Рік тому +83

      Update: So we didn't get back together, but I believe God has something better. He sees what we cannot see and knows what's best for us.

    • @jaytee33
      @jaytee33 Рік тому

      @@michaelavdmerwe5855God always has both people’s best interest in mind. Our understanding is not like His. You’ll meet someone and you’ll understand fully when that happens hang in there it gets easier

    • @lifewithlez6671
      @lifewithlez6671 Рік тому +9

      Amen sister

  • @michellejohnson8253
    @michellejohnson8253 10 місяців тому +39

    Please pray for my marriage. We are newly weds and struggling over trust issues and finances. I am putting my trust and faith in God, but still need some prayers.

  • @tinarobinson4710
    @tinarobinson4710 8 місяців тому +27

    My spouse is an alcoholic who is verbally & emotionally abusive. I've prayed for years, he just has zero interest to get well. He was a believer until after we married, I definitely feel like I was tricked. Now he mocks my faith & has even tried to use the Word of God against me. Being unequally yoked is the hardest thing I've gone through & that's truly saying a lot. 😢

    • @shellredd8319
      @shellredd8319 3 місяці тому +4

      Hang in there I know how u feel ! I’m so sorry, may god heal your marriage and wake him up so you two can have a happy healthy relationship, god bless you :)

    • @David-ok9sk
      @David-ok9sk Місяць тому

      Sounds like you married a narcissist. Are you an empath?

    • @mlxcardenas
      @mlxcardenas 22 дні тому +1

      I’m going through the same thing! I married a man who knows the Bible so well but doesn’t put it into practice, only uses it to make me feel shame and guilt. He’s an alcoholic, verbally and emotionally abusive. he physically hurt me a few years back and we separated. Got back together and started showing signs of abuse again, but in different ways. We are now separated again but I’m almost certain this is it. I’m not going back😢

  • @VictoriaMendez-p1e
    @VictoriaMendez-p1e Місяць тому +14

    God will restore relationships, marriages and families 🙏💙

    • @kerwinpuracan4390
      @kerwinpuracan4390 Місяць тому

      Amen! God is close to us, just give your time and devotion to God and He will do the rest

  • @Darren6943
    @Darren6943 22 дні тому +9

    My wife and I got involved with a person that seeks to destroy, to rip apart, and to hurt those who get in her way. My wife has become so lost. She left me with our kids, tried to destroy my life multiple times (even while I gained joint custody), has cheated on me who knows how many times and with how many people, she has begun to live for herself and follow the footsteps of this other woman. She's had a complete disregard for her own health as well as shes been smoking native cigarettes as well. Even around our children. This woman has been used by the devil to separate and hurt multiple families, and prayer is the only way to get through this. Please pray for my family. For protection, to continue to heal me, to heal and comfort my children, and to shed light on God's intended path for us and for my wife. I don't know what's next for us, but whether the end plan is reconciliation, or whether it's to move on, I just pray God is the center of it. No matter what God's plan is, healing is needed. His overwhelming presence is necessary. His love endures.

  • @chichalovesmakeup
    @chichalovesmakeup Рік тому +94

    I needed to hear this. My boyfriend broke up with me five days ago. Since then, I haven’t eaten, slept, and couldn’t function. On the third day, I heard your sermon, “Guard your heart.” I felt peace and prayed. On the fourth day, I decided to let go and let God. I have pleaded, cried, got on my knees, and accepted this is out of my control. I believe God is molding me through this tribulation to be a better me, maybe for this relationship or the next; I don’t know, but what I do know is that I must have God in the relationship. I am praying he restores this relationship and we restart with God in it. Please pray for me, and please pray for our relationship. There is love there. 98% of the time, we were laughing and loving each other. The 2% was when we would get upset, and we wouldn’t pray, didn’t know how to communicate, and we just hurt each other. I believe God will restore in the name of Jesus.

    • @dexterpaulantoniano2846
      @dexterpaulantoniano2846 Рік тому +4

      Wow almost same as of my experience with my gf. God is is very gracious to us whatever the outcome. He is very close to the brokenhearted.

    • @witnesskagari6965
      @witnesskagari6965 Рік тому +4

      Hey dear God surely has a great plan for you .I went through the same thing i can’t say i have fully healed but it gets better everyday through God’s help . Through that i have learnt to trust in God and it has brought me closer to God so hang in there ♥️♥️

    • @abiabbyab
      @abiabbyab Рік тому +3

      5th day for me too. I'm feeling everything you've felt but believing in God's perfect plan

    • @jeffmungai4494
      @jeffmungai4494 Рік тому +2

      3 weeks starting for me today.. wow I’m just feeling blown away I’m not the only one going through this.

    • @user-wy1qs3xn2s
      @user-wy1qs3xn2s Рік тому +2

      Your experience sounds like mine though my boyfriend allowed vices to “help” him with then put a damper on our relationship. This was almost three months ago but I am praying for peace, healing and restoration.

  • @Lindah787
    @Lindah787 8 місяців тому +16

    It has been ten days pain, struggling to eat, to sleep ,to work but i know God was behind it, he wants to me near him several times but i ignored God and prioritise my boyfriend , after this break up i grow closer to God more than before, i accepted his wills, i pray for him everyday with love, i forgave him and forgave myself, i pray for his healing and restoration of our relationship but only God's will not my will, i want to give mylife fully to Christ no matter what comes up.

  • @lovablebrownieee7810
    @lovablebrownieee7810 11 місяців тому +44

    Thank you so much, My boyfriend and I both broke up 2 nights ago. I stimbled apon some of your sermons and knew that God was speaking to me, preparing my heart. I knew God was speaking to the both of us saying it wasn't His will. We both ended in good terms but that didnt resolve my broken heart. But i put in in Gods hand. After hearing this sermon, reading the bible, praying, watching podcast of Godly relationships, and seeking mentors i came to a realization that our relationship wasnt His will. Im letting God mold me and in Jesus name i will grow and he will use me to show his love to others. And if it was truly meant to be then i know that God will bring us together but for now I will only focus on Jesus Christ and onky have eyes on him. I wont do my will but His will. His timing is perfect not mines. I pray for clarity, a strong heart, a heart of understanding, fear of God, wisdom, love, and loyalty. I pray that i will do His will. AMEN. All glory to God🙏

  • @cryophr5076
    @cryophr5076 10 місяців тому +14

    It's not a break up but me and my girlfriend have gone on break for personal reasons. I prayed last night and just started sobbing. Out of no where i couldn't control the tears during prayer. I need to become a more Godly man for her as we are both christians. I pray God has chosen her to be mine but I don't know right now. I'm seeking help.

    • @fidelcastillo7244
      @fidelcastillo7244 10 місяців тому +3

      You’re not alone, God knows all. Me and my gf whom I planned on marrying and even introduced her to my church. Both believers of Christ, we have had our ups and downs and just recently had a break up. I haven’t seen her in about a month, I’m praying for her everyday. I’m leaving it all to God

  • @matthewcanfield6748
    @matthewcanfield6748 Рік тому +19

    There is no pain like a broken heart

  • @Dash-sf9gu
    @Dash-sf9gu Рік тому +70

    My wife divorced me after 18 years with 6 children I asked to try and fix it all she says oh maybe we not meant to be she says god wants to be happy doesn’t want to stay in troubled relationship but I said this life we go through tuff times we need to trust god please pray for me

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk 2 місяці тому

      Am here like u.. hate to break it down, but God, im getting exhausted here knocking on ur door, and asking for clarification from other side 😂

    • @williamknight4112
      @williamknight4112 2 місяці тому

      Prayers for you and your children for God's WILL

  • @Chavylifts
    @Chavylifts 11 місяців тому +7

    My girlfriend broke up with me nearly a month ago, I though she was the one, I thought I would marry her, but I realize now for removes something from your life to make room for what he has planned for us. I’m trusting in god and want to strengthen my faith in him

  • @seashell1037
    @seashell1037 8 місяців тому +9

    We separated because I didn’t want a divorce. We had big big issues that divided us, namely his family who is against me because I’m a believer & they aren’t. We got divorced but we both cried in the courtroom. Neither of us wanted it but I don’t even know why we went through with it. We love God, we love our children & grands. I pray he comes back home - He wants God to send him a burning bush to let him know if God wants him to come back to me …. It’s in the hands of Jesus 🙏🏻❤️‍🩹😔🥲

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @seashell1037...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @nessapalmer5316
    @nessapalmer5316 Рік тому +46

    This season of loneliness after my husband left is hard, but I know that God is with me. I know that his plan is greater than anything I have ever imagined. May I continue to walk with him absent doubt. Singleness is not a punishment but a gift drawing you closer to God. I myself am good enough.

  • @lovelina23
    @lovelina23 4 місяці тому +35

    My husband had an affair and had a baby w/ her. That boy is in my house every weekend, and it hurts my heart, I feel the pain of the betrayal every time. God, please heal my heart.

    • @godlovessophiia
      @godlovessophiia 3 місяці тому +13

      In the Bible it talks about how you can divorce if your spouse cheats on you.

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk 2 місяці тому

      U are very strong woman. This is weird, w worldly standards. Im kind of similar or other side situation i dont even know what to call it anymore. Im a Christian and i was questioning God a lot. If i was meant to have a family w that guy, why its so broken now and im put in such a position if it was meant to be.. i still get hard on it and why i cant heal, when i try, pray, ask for it so much.and when yet more and more there are thinsg that trigger me and i become paralyzed by fear and anxious and unbelief...just cant

    • @mariabanda23
      @mariabanda23 Місяць тому

      ❤❤

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112
    @travelwithsouthernchick5112 Рік тому +15

    Need this husband walked out after 15 years and I don’t understand but I must fight in my faith to Let Go and Let God deal with this

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @travelwithsouthernchick5112...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. Totally surrender to God. God will heal you because He healed me.

    • @flightrewatch
      @flightrewatch Місяць тому

      amen ur so syrong

    • @devinbonner6878
      @devinbonner6878 9 днів тому

      My wife, after being together for 15 years, just did the same 2 mo ago and no matter how much I'm praying, I still can't feel God in it, and he's all I have at this point....

  • @godsdaughter1954
    @godsdaughter1954 11 місяців тому +11

    If there is sexual abuse against children there should be divorce. No person should ever sexual abuse their children. And if the wife or husband is being beaten get out. Best to get out instead of being killed. We are God's children and we should not be sexual , mentally or physically abused.

  • @ChristineCole-u3f
    @ChristineCole-u3f 2 місяці тому +75

    Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c 2 місяці тому

      It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f 2 місяці тому

      That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c 2 місяці тому

      His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.

    • @mariabanda23
      @mariabanda23 Місяць тому

      ❤❤

  • @emilyemilia6341
    @emilyemilia6341 2 роки тому +58

    I know I didn’t come across this by accident I needed to hear this message!

  • @debraglenn7469
    @debraglenn7469 Рік тому +8

    Please pray for me and my family the distance that has come upon us isn't what we had before, I believe that God is healing our hearts and we'll be a loving family again

  • @TashettaEdwards
    @TashettaEdwards 8 місяців тому +7

    I pray someone to see this and pray for me and my marriage I been in for 15 yrs he divided to up and leave me and his little baby 9 and 5 I will love to stay with my husband I really do for our kids please pray for me and my babies please

    • @tinarobinson4710
      @tinarobinson4710 8 місяців тому +2

      Praying for your marriage to be fully restored! 🙏

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @TashettaEdwards...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @titoamado4693
    @titoamado4693 Рік тому +15

    Prayers for my marriage that has ended but with a touch of gods favor my wife and are going to see a miracle that will be only be given by gods hands

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @titoamado4693...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @bobbiehamilton6217
    @bobbiehamilton6217 7 місяців тому +18

    I was falling in love with a man that I thought God chose for me and come to find out he only used me 😢 I am so broken hearted and need healing in God's direction from here in Jesus name

    • @goldenlifelove7251
      @goldenlifelove7251 6 місяців тому

      The same happened to me. Trust me, it gets better with God.

    • @amandabanks173
      @amandabanks173 4 місяці тому

      You're not alone. This just happened to me too.

    • @davidbuthelezi8922
      @davidbuthelezi8922 3 місяці тому

      Please pray for me to get a job and find myself a good woman i have been single for a year now

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk 2 місяці тому

      Why all this msgs seem so like about me..

    • @pablojones5613
      @pablojones5613 2 місяці тому

      Be thankful that you found out now, and not when it was too late.

  • @debbieoaldon9703
    @debbieoaldon9703 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for this message.
    I haven’t seen or heard from my husband since January 2017. The state of Georgia prosecuted him for what he did to me. I grew up with this man in his daddy’s church.
    Please pray for us separately.
    I sent divorce papers about 4 years ago and he did not sign.
    I know nothing about him at all.
    I need prayer. 🙏🏼

    • @user-wy1qs3xn2s
      @user-wy1qs3xn2s Рік тому +3

      I’ll be praying for you. I pray during this time you find peace in God’s word and comfort.

    • @EternalLifeLessons
      @EternalLifeLessons 10 місяців тому +2

      I know something of what you’re going through…going through it too

    • @debbieoaldon9703
      @debbieoaldon9703 9 місяців тому

      @@user-wy1qs3xn2sthe n you so very much 🙏🏼🍃🌸✝️

    • @debbieoaldon9703
      @debbieoaldon9703 9 місяців тому +1

      @@EternalLifeLessonsI pray Jesus hugs your heart and guides you also as I pray He does me as well 🙏🏼🍃🌸✝️

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 2 місяці тому +8

    Thank you for this sermon. I am single but recently got out of a emotional abusive relationship. He sat in sermons with me at the same time was seeing another woman. I tried forgiving him for his betrayal but he kept up his cycle. Possibly was a narcissist. He ended up ghosting me tried to talk a month ago. I was filled with anger and bad wishes towards him for his disrespect. The love I had for him is gone. Just yesterday I prayed asked God to release the negative emotions from me. I feel peaceful today. I also prayed for my rx Robert to surrender to God and for his mental, spiritual healing. I realized he is not God's will for me. I am a Born Again Christian who was protect by God. I enjoyed the sermon. Please pray for me and pray that Robert is saved?. Thank you Pastor 🙏

  • @AryanneChhetri-bu6xx
    @AryanneChhetri-bu6xx 11 місяців тому +16

    Im born in a family of non Christian... And i want to take my first step towards God... Its really hard for me... Please know people like me in your prayers... Please

    • @6.0hhh
      @6.0hhh 7 місяців тому

      Come home, friend. There's no peace like Jesus Christ.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому

      Amen! Welcome 🙏🏾

    • @BrillyAsher
      @BrillyAsher 2 місяці тому

      you're in my prayers!!

  • @gb-yn2re
    @gb-yn2re 11 місяців тому +5

    I am one of those people whose parents abandoned me and I led them both to the Lord before they passed away...

  • @demonpoop7848
    @demonpoop7848 Рік тому +13

    Me and my girlfriend both loved God, she broke up with me because her feelings changed. She’s the only girl I’ve ever liked and loved. try giving it to God but my love for her is truly infinite. I give God as much as I can, but the love I hold for her is still the same. I have suicidal thoughts sometimes form the enemy and I do my best to ignore it, please help.

    • @karladuncan6764
      @karladuncan6764 Рік тому +3

      Same here. My boyfriend walked away 2 years ago with another woman and I am still so heartbroken.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому +2

      Praying for you. Don’t take your own life. Give it to God when you feel you don’t want it. He will take your life and give you hope and a life you never thought you would have. It will never be perfect, but with Him, life will be easier to live, and you will see blessings even in despair ❤🙏🏾

  • @CoupeDominic
    @CoupeDominic 2 роки тому +34

    My 25yr old gf passed away a week ago….💔 something is truly broken

    • @erinmccall5819
      @erinmccall5819 2 роки тому +3

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for you.

    • @LeletiWanj9584
      @LeletiWanj9584 2 роки тому +2

      Am so sorry. May God comfort you. Praying for you.

    • @victorious.5394
      @victorious.5394 2 роки тому +2

      Am so sorry for your loss. Strong in his might. The joy of the lord is your strength.

    • @samanthastone3906
      @samanthastone3906 2 роки тому +2

      Prayers and love sent to you brother 💓

    • @FretboardMaestro
      @FretboardMaestro 2 роки тому +2

      So sorry, that’s tough, praying for you

  • @MDZ-c9i
    @MDZ-c9i 9 місяців тому +7

    Thank you Pastor for your amazing words. Please pray for me, my husband of 15 years has been cheating on me with his coworker. I just found out this Monday, my heart is broken into pieces and I need all the prayers to heal me. when I confronted him he had no remorse or regrets and try to blame me for it, please pray for me so this pain that I’m going through can go away. I thought he was my soulmate, never ever expected this for him😭

    • @lindaguzman8930
      @lindaguzman8930 4 місяці тому +1

      How are you doing?

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @user-sr4ne4ky6z........I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому

      🙏🏾

  • @LeletiWanj9584
    @LeletiWanj9584 2 роки тому +22

    I can relate to this sermon. Impatience led me to make very wrong decisions. But our God is very merciful. And what I have been praying for,has come to pass. Glory to God.

  • @JpKilla007
    @JpKilla007 Рік тому +28

    My wife and i are going through some tuff times. Lord I pray for healing and forgiveness. This message lifted my soul. I have faith that god can restore us. God bless me with her and our children. During these times I will continue to be committed to gods words and promises. ❤️🫂🙏🏼

    • @jameswhyman4127
      @jameswhyman4127 Рік тому +4

      Going through this too man. God's got you and doesn't want you to give up. Pray, read your bible, pray, be the best husband and father, and PRAY.

    • @EDLIRAROSALES
      @EDLIRAROSALES Рік тому +2

      I also am going through the same thing. Please pray for my family and I. I don’t want us to be broken, but Satan is attacking with everything. Proverbs 3:5,6 is what I try to hold on to when I am feeling really down. I am praying that my God will transform me, so that way when the time comes, may He help me accept His will. Remember to form yourself first with the help of God before wanting change in your life.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @JpKilla007...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      ​@@EDLIRAROSALES....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @Laceydeancoaching
    @Laceydeancoaching 3 місяці тому +7

    Please pray for me. Going through my first breakup post divorce and I’m grieving. I don’t feel it’s over but also have tried to control so much. I need to trust god fully and I’m struggling.

  • @DontdoitNursing
    @DontdoitNursing Рік тому +6

    I’m believing for a miracle for my marriage and my husbands salvation…this sermon described exactly what we went through before he asked me for a separation I pray he stays strong and doesn’t fall into lust while being apart. I pray God touches his heart and guides me to be wise and build my house and not tear it down…

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @DontdoitNursing...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

  • @kirkreynolds6739
    @kirkreynolds6739 Місяць тому +1

    My wife of 25 years left me 3 years ago. I'm still so in love with her. I'm far from perfect, but one thing I'm sure of us that I gave everything I had to our marriage and family. I would take any sort of physical pain over this pain. In this broken world the devil is busy sowing discord. He loves to try to divide. I accept that she's gone. Please pray for me and all others commenting that God will be enough for us and the love of our lives

  • @lufuifisofojefedafa2976
    @lufuifisofojefedafa2976 19 днів тому

    With God, I'm going to be healed......

  • @beatricemartin998
    @beatricemartin998 Місяць тому +1

    Praise Jesus!!!! This sermon was FIRE. I fell completely into the ways of love according to the world, and Jesus has now completely had my heart for 1 1/2 years. This pastor is speaking TRUTH from the Holy Spirit himself. I have recently been struggling a lot with loneliness and looking back at my old life with rose colored glasses. But Jesus is enough! He will heal me and will keep me❤️
    The Lord revealed to me during this video that I was designed for commitment, specifically marriage commitment. Hallelujah!!!!!! Praise be to Jesus!!!!

  • @allthat9186
    @allthat9186 4 місяці тому +4

    This sermon was right on time❤. God please protect me and my husband. Please move us out the way and order our steps . Let your will be done and not our own. In Jesus name 🙏🏽 Amen.

  • @kalauj
    @kalauj 18 днів тому

    Please pray for my BF & I. We love each other very much but so much of both us still need healing. Please pray The Lord will bring us back together, whole, new, restored, holy in Jesus’ name. ❤❤❤
    I surrender it all. I feel like the old relationship needs to be killed. And a new one formed deeply bonded to God. If this is His Will. ❤❤❤

  • @kilo197615
    @kilo197615 2 місяці тому +4

    I’m fighting for my marriage and working on myself to be a better man for my wife. A Good Man will change the right woman.

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk 2 місяці тому

      Does it work another time? What if i changed everything he didn't like and complained about and he still ended up hurting me and w another woman? Like i dont even recognise myself anymore, thnx very much

    • @d_.8722
      @d_.8722 2 місяці тому

      @@YaraLavreniukpray to God He will make a way. Have faith

  • @JessicaAnotii
    @JessicaAnotii 3 місяці тому +47

    Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 3 місяці тому +3

      It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 3 місяці тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 3 місяці тому +1

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 3 місяці тому

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @selenasmith2085
    @selenasmith2085 8 місяців тому +1

    I needed to hear this message. My husband and I haven't been together for 5 weeks now due to physical and verbal abuse and a order by the court. I began counseling 4 weeks ago and God has revealed so much to me and placed so many Christians in my life to walk along side me. Both of us come from harsh upbringing by fathers who served in war. I believe we get together to fight a we don't fight well. Satan has divided what God put together. My prayer is that God will work in his heart as he has mine. That full reconciliation will occur and we will be stronger and ready to fight the right way. I know God can do amazing things and trusting that He will.

  • @melulopes
    @melulopes 6 місяців тому +6

    I feel this to the core. Had to break up with someone I taught we could build a live together in a holy marriage. God kept warning me to end and I never had the courage to. These days randomly I came across this sermon and another sermon about break up and I got the courage to delete all our conversations and social mídia. My heart is shattered and I feel broken once again. But I need to draw closer to Jesus, he is the only one who can heal and fill me up with his peace. So much trauma from the past and I always feel like I’m failing. But I know God is protecting me from the worst pain 😢

  • @RelebogileSibongileNongalo
    @RelebogileSibongileNongalo 3 дні тому

    I am just confused and full of resentment. I was in a relationship with the person I prayed for and we had a good Godly relationship and had promised to marry me. I love him so much and he cheated on me, and now we’ve separated, and it’s taking a toll on my spiritual life

  • @belindamalley9569
    @belindamalley9569 2 місяці тому +2

    My husband and I are separated because of his addiction to pornography. I pray for God to heal him and heal our marriage.

  • @katiejones7587
    @katiejones7587 10 місяців тому +4

    My husband and I are going through a hopeless situation. Hopeless without God. By worldly standards it cannot be repaired but God can do anything!!

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @katiejones7587....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому

      Yes He can!
      Praying for you both 🙏🏾

  • @safiuchi
    @safiuchi 2 роки тому +10

    I cried the whole 53 mins of this video. Wow! Powerful and healing. ❤ thank you!

  • @Liamar69
    @Liamar69 2 місяці тому +4

    Pastor please pray for my brokenhearted. Let me be able to heal and give all to the Lord with my broken relationship 💔

  • @catherinasubhasingh2003
    @catherinasubhasingh2003 4 місяці тому +5

    I'm dealing with a heartbreak 😢 my bf and I were living together for 1 year then decided to purchase a house we lived there for 3 months the pastor came to bless the home and spoke to us about doing pre martial council and my bf agree to it and wanted to focus on having a family and getting married, he went to a medical conference a month after and came bk as a different person, couldn't stand to be around me wanted his space and kept saying he wanted to be alone 😢 he's unhappy in our relationship. I tried pled with him to make things work and he just kept pushing me away till we broke up 10 days ago. I feel so lost so broken, I never saw this person treating me so before

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk 2 місяці тому

      Same just what happened out there, it was simply...like at urs

  • @kellyjackson4973
    @kellyjackson4973 9 місяців тому +1

    I love this pastor in this church. God bless everybody everywhere.

  • @mariamavetisian8982
    @mariamavetisian8982 21 день тому

    Please pray for my love to be healed, our love is so special and darkness has taken over it so we are currently not speaking but my heart is torn to pieces, please Jesus help us fix it, it’s too good to be lost. I love him and pray for him , Amen.

  • @garyvillalba2140
    @garyvillalba2140 3 місяці тому +5

    My 15 year anniversary is coming uo 09/04 and we are currently separated. It's so hard being away from my family of 6. Now i come home to a small studio apartment and I'm alone. Please pray that I will seek god and not the world. Father God I pray for my marriage to be restored, that our hardened hearts will be softened, we will forgive and be stonger than ever before as one. Amen

  • @jenniferlewis5508
    @jenniferlewis5508 11 місяців тому +3

    Prayers for me that I stop prowling in my past history

  • @mariahinnacastroa8377
    @mariahinnacastroa8377 2 роки тому +17

    I needed to hear this too. It’s so hard being married with a no converted man. (In my case I converted after I got marriage..) so, of course I’m the one not being fair with him , I’m the one who changed, etc etc. And we have one daughter ♥️ prayers to all of you and first time seeing this sermon. Amazing. Gos bless you.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @mariahinnacastroa8377....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @nicoleschowalter2820
    @nicoleschowalter2820 29 днів тому

    Thank You LORD. I cried last night heavily for our isolation and separation. God saw me. Today this video showed up. It is a big comfort and encouragement for me. Yes. I will pray for our restoration❤ For God make us together at first. I keep search for God and listen to His words. Amen❤

  • @socorrogutierrez9501
    @socorrogutierrez9501 3 місяці тому +4

    Whats my promise? Im desperately trying to figure out what to do. My husband left us 2 months ago bc of fentanyl addiction. We are scared and abandoned by him , its confusing bc he would never do this if he was sober, im under the pressure of providing with my car in the shop. I have nothing more to give Lord please 🙏

  • @ResilienceWithYvette
    @ResilienceWithYvette 20 днів тому

    I was watching your videos and as i fell sleep it was late and i have been watching more than one video the holy spirit woke me up to watch this video as it started playing on its own I didn't choose it and this spoke to me. I'm separated right now and this gave me hope this was an answered prayer there have been many other videos that have been helping like the one with samson that was good!!! Thank you Pastor Bobby. May God continue to bless you and use you Amen!!!

  • @louiserebelo8280
    @louiserebelo8280 Рік тому +7

    I am glad you preached on this. So that someone else can get insight. I wasn't afforded that luxury learnt the had way. I lived everything you spoke of and more. I witnessed firsthand His mercy and grace when the proverbial lights went on. God brought me through because He knew what was going on and more. He taught me much. He carried me. He healed me. He's still healing one or two areas that were affected. You wanna know something because of His divine love I am almost whole again.

    • @drewhook7590
      @drewhook7590 Рік тому +1

      Same !!! Amen..praise Jesus !!!

    • @beca5035
      @beca5035 Рік тому

      Hallelujah!!! Praise Lord Jesus! King of Glory! Amen 🙌🙌🙌🙏❤

  • @blessed4764
    @blessed4764 6 місяців тому +3

    Please Pray for me and my husband. He did the unimaginable and betrayed me and God knows it hurts me to the point I am on depression meds but Glory be to God i have forgiven my husband but my husband's heart is still hard and cold. I have acknowledged where I have fallen short with my attitude and word choice and apologized to him but my prayer is we will be reconciled and have a Godly marriage.
    We were faithful in the church together, date nights every weekend and yet the devil still welcomed itself in our home and marriage.
    The devil has my husband and I pray the Lord will break every chain that the enemy has on us because I believe we are one in spite of my broken heart. Please prayer warriors lift us up in your prayers!!! I believe in the power of prayer and I believe if i remain faithful to the Lord and give this trauma to the Lord he will free my husband from the enemy.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @blessed4764...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His every Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies.

  • @texanfootball96
    @texanfootball96 Рік тому +6

    God is love ❤️ I trust you god I trust your plan for me i trust you to heal my family for all the wrong I have done

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @texanfootball96....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @Abigail.bejinez22
    @Abigail.bejinez22 9 місяців тому +6

    My husband & I are going through a really hard phase. He’s in the military & distance has been 1 of our problems along with adultery & miss communication. With that being said, I can’t trust him. I don’t know when he’s being honest or not. I spoke to one of his Sgt & accused him of something I thought was inappropriate. He’s currently angry & wants a divorce. I’m scared of what will happen next because I have 2 little girls looking up to me. I’m the only parent they’ve had for 2 years now…. We need God but what is f it’s too late ? I shouldn’t question Gods plans for my marriage but a little hard to right now. I’d love to send him this preaching but what if he ignores it….

    • @nyemahwest64
      @nyemahwest64 5 місяців тому

      Praying the Lord draws both of yall closer to him and yall marriage will be healed and restored

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @Abigail.bejinez22.......I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

    • @1koshka.kittycat
      @1koshka.kittycat Місяць тому

      How are you guys doing now?❤

    • @devinbonner6878
      @devinbonner6878 9 днів тому

      I'm a male military spouse in a similar situation (without children), except my wife is top secret and claims I'm the liar and the one to not be trusted. 15 years together, and I have noticed her keeping things, people, and communication from me and when I was emotionally hurt from becoming a more emotional man from all of the therapy I did while waiting during her multiple deployments.... She left to choose her single military lifestyle. She is now living with 2 other recently divorced women, and left all of the responsibilities, bills, pets, and all with me, so she has no commute, "lots of different friends" and free time. I am fighting for it, but it seems her end goal is for me to cave from her pushing me out while removing every trace of me from her life, physically and digitally. She recently has started using non rooted scripture to justify God telling her to leave, and just now after being worried when she first joined 4 years ago, that she has been removing me ever since

  • @athonopienyu8726
    @athonopienyu8726 6 місяців тому +3

    Just going through a breakup , and i tried to escape pain by drinking alcohol and so many ways, but only this God's word is giving me peace.
    Thank you pastor!
    This is really helping me🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @efilandia
    @efilandia 7 місяців тому +5

    this video just pop out of nowhere I been separated from my husband for almost 6 months and I continue to ask God to help me heal. I believe that God will do his will it’s in his hands and it’s been difficult daily to understand it. This helped me so much! Blessings 🙏

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @efilandia...I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me.

    • @JBee-mm7ou
      @JBee-mm7ou 10 днів тому

      I’m dealing with almost 6 months of separation. I got an email with divorce documents after taking the kids to Dave and Busters. We have been having family outings for the last two months of this 5 month separation and everything has been going well. This has hit me pretty hard, I cried but I didn’t have one thought that we would be divorced. It isn’t me just trying to make myself believe. I haven’t broke stride in what I’ve been doing and I pray that by standing on God’s promise that we will both realize that we are better together, because we are. We have both made mistakes but I have never stopped being there for my wife or my children in spite of ugly attitudes and actions. I know if we just can take another step towards each other the love will be too powerful to deny. We do so many things on cue even still and it designates with us

  • @Sunshine98beekind
    @Sunshine98beekind 4 місяці тому +7

    I have been there for the past 3 years. My husband has been cheating on me for years. He wouldn't sign the divorce papers. While he was cheating on me. I have been abandoned, neglected, and abused by him. He claimed to be a christian man. And he preached to women. And I finally got away from him. I prayed many years. I have filed for a divorce. I know God has a much better plan for me and my life.

    • @alexishines9207
      @alexishines9207 2 місяці тому

      God is truly with you. He will provide for you. I'm glad you left him. Cuz if you would of stayed any longer it could of been fatal. God truly has better for you.😊

  • @CalebMansfield-ie3uz
    @CalebMansfield-ie3uz 19 днів тому

    it's hard not to blame god sometimes

  • @MurphyReads
    @MurphyReads 5 місяців тому +2

    I was with my girlfriend for 2 years and she broke up with me because I yelled at her and called her names constantly I’m toxic and of course I want her back more than anything but it’s something I have to accept so I pray this sermon will help me a little more

  • @Rachel-TheDelicateLamb
    @Rachel-TheDelicateLamb 4 місяці тому +1

    i found Jesus this year and my boys did as well. He has healed our family. When i was a child i was taught by a pastor sexual favors were love. However, when i found Jesus this year, I realized that it was the devil attacking my soul so i would do terrible things and isolate myself and not heal. But the man God promised me in a dream has found freedom from addiction and i have found freedom from codependency. For the glory of God!!

    • @pedo1127
      @pedo1127 4 місяці тому

      How to escape codependency? I’m struggling with it

  • @jrprieto1
    @jrprieto1 Місяць тому +1

    This is an eye opener powerful message, I wish my wife would hear it.

  • @EDLIRAROSALES
    @EDLIRAROSALES Рік тому +3

    I also am going through the same thing. Please pray for my family and I. I don’t want us to be broken, but Satan is attacking with everything. Proverbs 3:5,6 is what I try to hold on to when I am feeling really down. I am praying that my God will transform me, so that way when the time comes, may He help me accept His will. Remember to form yourself first with the help of God before wanting change in your life.

  • @ivism785
    @ivism785 4 місяці тому +1

    This message came through at the right time. Going through a similar situation. The devil is a liar. Even thru these circumstances God is good and he has my family in his hands and under his protection. I will trust in him to get us thru the storm Amen 🙏

  • @jessejive1174
    @jessejive1174 Місяць тому +1

    That’s a handsome pastor

  • @AdamDyer-tk7sf
    @AdamDyer-tk7sf 23 дні тому

    A great woman I love walked out of my life after we were just getting our life together and The Lord knows I wept 7 days on our kitchen floor until our child placed her head in my hands and said daddy its ok to cry. Then for three weeks until I was told to leave by God I wept on her pillows it felt like she died it hurt my stomach so deeply I actually passed out a couple times and I would listen to the song Angel by casting crowns and weep till there was nothing left by the time she would get home I had no tears left as they were all on her pillows and dried. The last day I had wept on her pillows I started to feel pain rushing up through my stomach into my heart and The Holy Spirit told me to go for it would be the death of me if I didn't. Our child is still very much loved by me (her dad) I will be pursuing custody so that the loss of my first born does not kill me too.

  • @kutlwanokutlwano4519
    @kutlwanokutlwano4519 Рік тому +4

    It's been 10 months and I saw him with another girl yesterday 😞 I'm heartbroken, I can't even eat guys🥺, but I know God is with me❤

    • @VanessaNyatsapfu
      @VanessaNyatsapfu 8 місяців тому

      I am so sorry ❤ going through a similar thing,God is healing us its going to be alright. Let it hurt,cry unto God❤

    • @kutlwanokutlwano4519
      @kutlwanokutlwano4519 8 місяців тому

      @@VanessaNyatsapfu 🫂

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому

      🙏🏾

  • @Edgargiovanniperez
    @Edgargiovanniperez Місяць тому

    This has been an incredible watch. I wanted to go down a destructive path with our separation. I lied to my wife one too many times and broke her trust. She told me to leave. I left. She wants her space. She told me it's over and that she can never trust me again. I'm broken but I can't imagine how she feels right now. I just want to put it all on god. I have eliminated all social media and in focusing on the word and healing and working in my sex addiction, my anger, my healing. We have a child together and although I'll respect her boundaries and her space. I'll never stop loving her and will be faithful to her. I want to die but I know God's got us. 😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

  • @lynnnahdaya6632
    @lynnnahdaya6632 2 місяці тому +2

    I gave it to god

  • @cowgirlboots27
    @cowgirlboots27 8 місяців тому +5

    My first marriage I was married 9 years. We were together for 15 total years. He was not a Godly husband though he talked of what the Bible says. He never let Christ make a true change in him. Drank all the time. I cheated several times. The last time I stepped out on him I filed for divorce and eventually married the one I stepped out on my husband with. Now I know to have cheated on him was adultery, I have read that marrying again committed adultery. My first husband still sees that by Gods law we are still married although divorced. Because man’s law can’t undo Gods law. I’m struggling with am I in continuous adultery against my first husband because he’s still living. Do I divorce this second marriage and return to the first. Neither me or my first husband had been married before we were married. I need prayer and really struggling with what I need to do.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому

      This is a tough one. I was struggling with this as well. These are the scriptures I read. I heard a sermon where the preacher said if you stayed in the other marriage you have to repent everyday because it is adultery. He also said you must return to your first marriage. This is only in the instance you divorced for reasons other than adultery. I am no expert in this. I live by the Bible so I will give what I read. Pray. Ask The Lord to give you revelation through His Word. I have prayed for you as well.
      I Corinthians 7:10-15
      I Corinthians 7:39
      Mark 10:2-12
      Romans 7:1-3
      Peace and Love 🙏🏾

  • @jeanthaikamei1232
    @jeanthaikamei1232 2 місяці тому +3

    Please pray for me, to whom I love the most she told me that she can’t build her feelings for me anymore 😭. I’m really struggling brother and sister in Christ please I need prayers support. 😭😭🙏🏻 I know God can help me out

    • @booberry3326
      @booberry3326 2 місяці тому

      I'm praying for you and you are not alone.

  • @TheTropics4
    @TheTropics4 Місяць тому +1

    God does not want us to be in a marriage that is physically and verbally abusive. Period.

  • @JH5visuals
    @JH5visuals 5 днів тому

    Please pray upon my marriage, married for ten years. Wife is not feeling the same in our relationship now she wants a divorce. I don’t want give up on it 😔 breaks my heart, pray that God saves my marriage

  • @nicolefay8887
    @nicolefay8887 2 роки тому +8

    You talked right into my situation,,God bless you

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @nicolefay8887....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @Fervent21
    @Fervent21 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this powerful sermon. Laying here crying my eyes out. Please pray that God opens my husband’s eyes and reveals his will for his life. I pray for the restoration of my family and healing for all. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

  • @sivezt
    @sivezt Місяць тому

    While i was on vacation with my friends, i prayed to the lord for guidance on my relationship with my fiance. When i got home she completely moved out (for the second time). She says she wants to make it work, but i cant let her move back in for a third time. I have lost all trust in her. Im interpreting it that the lord removed her from my life to get closer to him.

  • @thelifeofbelleandgrace376
    @thelifeofbelleandgrace376 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for this messaging….I’m going through a divorce that I don’t want … my husband left us for another woman…. I’m praying for restoration of my marriage … and to bring my husband back to the Lord

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @thelifeofbelleandgrace376....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @Maya-kz4bt
    @Maya-kz4bt Місяць тому

    Thank you so much Pastor ❤️‍🩹

  • @Berlin0819
    @Berlin0819 8 місяців тому +6

    I pray for both of us that we come together and forgive each other and restore the relationship 😢

  • @laetitiatrouchet711
    @laetitiatrouchet711 2 роки тому +7

    God help me pls

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @laetitiatrouchet711....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @emilyliss8
    @emilyliss8 Рік тому +2

    Can still be that way even when you do it how it’s supposed to…. My husband has never acted like we were one.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @emilyliss8....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration and the true salvation of your husband, baptized with the fire of the Holy Spirit. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @tiffanyallen2036
    @tiffanyallen2036 2 місяці тому +1

    This one hit hard and describing my marriage that I’m so close to giving up on I needed to hear this !!

  • @joycefaithballos1222
    @joycefaithballos1222 Рік тому +3

    I am already having thoughts of giving up our marriage but thank you so much for opening my eyes that the Lord wants restoration ❤❤❤😊

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @joycefaithballos1222....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!

  • @janelsmelser9024
    @janelsmelser9024 Місяць тому

    Thank you

  • @GreenMan-em2jd
    @GreenMan-em2jd Рік тому +6

    Please pray God gives me clarity what to do going forward. My wife of 10 years abandoned me and our two kids. I learned a short time later that she was having an affair too. She ran off with the family of the guy she was having an affair with. The guy is literally a bum and his mom got my wife into witchcraft. I gave my life to Christ and a month later she abandoned us. I do not hate her. I feel sorry for her. I still love my wife. She filed for divorce and God has shown me great favor in all of this. I don’t want a divorce if it’s not Gods will. I trust God and I don’t want to screw this up. I know divorce is never Gods will but I also don’t know her heart. My children are heart broken that their mother left like that. I’ve been taking them to Christian counseling and I’ve made sure that there is a solid support system with our family and God but they need a mom.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому +1

      @GreenMan-em2jd....I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Also, if your wife is practicing witchcraft, pray for God's protection over you and your children and also pray for deliverance from witchcraft for your wife.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @GreenMan-em2jd
      @GreenMan-em2jd 2 місяці тому +3

      For anyone curious this is my status update.
      We didn’t get back together. She ended up getting pregnant by the kid of the family she ran off with. She reached out to me asking to get back together but I told her no. She told me she was in trouble and they’re holding her against her will. I offered to help her and I tried to. I even offered to help her get back on her feet and help raise her daughter. I’m not sure what they have on her but she ended up staying with them. She told me he abuses her and that everything she lied about me on has now come true with him.
      I’m not angry at her, but I do feel bad for her. However here is the encouraging part! I am happy and fulfilled in life. God didn’t bring her back to me but He brought me to Himself. God can bring your spouse back to you, but then He will have to answer to Himself when it doesn’t work again. Let Him work in you and let Him work in them too. It is better for Him to bring them back home to Himself than it is to bring them back to you. The Bible says the two become one. Most people are looking for their other half because they aren’t truly whole. Unless you are whole in Him He won’t ever bring them to you. He loves you too much to do that. Trust the process.
      I could have taken her back but the thing is we had two kids together in our 10 year marriage. She had been abusing those kids and she isn’t safe. If I wasn’t whole in Christ I would’ve taken her back and the dysfunction would’ve started all over again. I am whole in Jesus though! I don’t need anyone or anything anymore. I am so filled in Jesus and when I die I get to continue being in His presence. There is nothing greater than knowing Him. He is my reward.

    • @jessicalong6011
      @jessicalong6011 2 місяці тому +1

      @@GreenMan-em2jd Wow!! Amen! Thank you so much for sharing that. Thank you for the encouraging words about being whole in Jesus and how it is better for Him to bring us all back to Him than to just have your spouse back along with all the trauma and chaos. I am very happy for you! God will continue to bless you as you remain in Him and bring your children to Him. This has been a blessed message to hear. I will be praying for you and your family as well as the children’s mother. I pray one day that she will have a testimony of how God brought her out and delivered her and that she will be able to help someone else as you are doing. Many blessings brother ❤️🙏🏾

  • @lionheart6535
    @lionheart6535 2 роки тому +3

    God is Working Great in you Pastor Bobby Chandler! God Bless You!

  • @MarsOutdoors
    @MarsOutdoors 3 місяці тому +1

    Today, I lift up my relationship with Tara T. to You Lord. Although we are both believers and our parting was not on bad terms, I seek Your help in restoring our connection.
    I also ask for open communication between us and for the restoration of our relationship, if it aligns with Your will. I am giving space and striving to walk in faith, not letting my flesh dictate my actions. I have been praying multiple times a day for the past three weeks, trusting in Your plan.

    • @keialanilua
      @keialanilua Місяць тому

      How has it been so far?

    • @MarsOutdoors
      @MarsOutdoors Місяць тому

      I walk with the lord! I’ve been great; no getting back together but gods plan and I trust it

  • @chrishall3380
    @chrishall3380 Місяць тому

    This was by far the best message I ever heard…..this message spoke directly to me after I prayed to god about send me a sign, clarity and a way to move forward

  • @jainajones96
    @jainajones96 6 днів тому

    Powerful

  • @naomiezuminelson3039
    @naomiezuminelson3039 2 місяці тому

    Thank you very much, I am going through a very rough time with my marrage, I was planning to run away with my child but prayed that God would speak to me if that was the right decision to make. Thankyou God for using this platform and his servant to speak to me. This was posted 2years ago but God knew i would need it today. I hear God answering all my questions, I feel this Peace in me, It's like your telling my story and showing me the page I was searching for to end it. Thankyou God and thankyou Sir for the Powerful message 🙏 God Bless

  • @corym09
    @corym09 6 місяців тому +1

    Going through this right now.. she left the house, marriage and says she doesnt want to pursue it and that God cant heal the damage from the marriage. Used childhood trauma and blamed me for somethings then leading to adultery on her side... She has now left and has it in mind to pursue someone else once shes done "healing". Father I pray for her that you open her eyes to your word, and to your will.

    • @tnewz411
      @tnewz411 4 місяці тому

      @corym09.......I recommend you watch Dominic Herbst videos on marriage restoration, pray, fast and believe God for restoration. God will heal you because He healed me. Give this over to Him because it is too big for you to handle. Most importantly, be obedient to God by trusting Him at His EVERY Word . God is truthfully faithful and never lies. God will do it for you; what you ask of Him as long as it is in His will. Watch God go to work for you!!!