Becoming an Adult || The Buss Earz Podcast Episode 21

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  • Опубліковано 28 сер 2022
  • Life is so fast and the older you get is the more you start to realize what you are becoming. Being an Adult is such a wild experience but its just apart of life as humans. follow my socials and also Subscribe! feel free to leave feedback and comments. Listen to all podcast streaming platforms also....
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  • @paulinethomas1604
    @paulinethomas1604 Рік тому +58

    So happy to hear you said you are going to stop the “bad words”, because I love your contents, just not the bad words. From a Jamaican grandma.

    • @Minister_D._Brown
      @Minister_D._Brown Рік тому

      SAME!!!!

    • @nitap5345
      @nitap5345 Рік тому +4

      I will now be able to share with my saved family members. And watch a video all the way through. God continues to bless you. Very encouraging and real one of a kind.

    • @wheels886
      @wheels886 Рік тому

      How comes it's a bad word

  • @DaleElliottTV
    @DaleElliottTV  Рік тому +14

    Remember people liking the video will boost the algorithm!

    • @theone424
      @theone424 Рік тому

      Definitely thumbs up!!! I shared this with my son. You are sooooo relatable. Continue being yourself and sharing your thoughts , understanding, fears, & discoveries with your peers. Even folks who are much older can and will benefit from your expressions. GREAT job encapsulating the HONEST RAW REALITY. The world is cold. Your voice is helping those who are going through this phase.

  • @shermainepearce2501
    @shermainepearce2501 Рік тому +15

    Its lonely up here ... no lie... and I'm so focus as hell and losing out and everything but I still try to talk to myself that it's important I'll enjoy later. Its frustrating cause I do wanna live a little but I can't afford to when I'm not financially stable and some things aren't in place.

  • @thatgurllbritish1183
    @thatgurllbritish1183 Рік тому +10

    With tears in my eyes I just want to give him a BIG LONG HUG‼️❤️I Appreciate this message so much, This gives me a different perspective on life I really admire the way he views life and his level of reasonability ❤️‼️‼️🙏😞😭

  • @gabrielgreen1164
    @gabrielgreen1164 Рік тому +30

    Turning 19 in like... 3 months and believe me Dale this hit home. Nuff respect for the insight my G

  • @yardylink
    @yardylink Рік тому +12

    I respect the fact that you are doing these podcast topics and the tone in which you are speaking helps to convey the message better. I must applaud the self reflection in some of your examples and the one I want to commend you on the most is using less expletives. I want to share some of the contents at times with my daughter that is still a teenager and some Christian family members because of the quality of your content but I couldn't.
    This video I've shared with my daughter that just started college and I hope this helps her. Keep doing your thing bro.

  • @hisblasianbae
    @hisblasianbae Рік тому +28

    Really love this side of u Dale!
    Speaking what reality really entails in this adulthood ya boi 🙆‍♀️ as some of your younger followers can definitely use this. A lot of what you’ve said isn’t readily talked about 🙌
    Respect!

  • @Special-K247
    @Special-K247 Рік тому +20

    Love the Pods please keep them coming. All the way from London the U.K
    Yes I’m up at 2:48am to support
    Highly Bless

  • @kirakiki101
    @kirakiki101 Рік тому +3

    This really speaks to me I'm turning 26 in December and I have nothing to show as an adult which makes me depressed sometimes. But I have to take action because no one is coming to save me, only I can save myself.

  • @nicoygooden2854
    @nicoygooden2854 Рік тому +12

    These topics keeps getting better... Reasoning is very raw and relatable.. I appreciate you Dale... Well done in becoming.....🤗

  • @cicilewis2043
    @cicilewis2043 Рік тому +21

    This was so refreshing and much needed boost i needed to put in more effort to improve my overall life. Proud of you Dale.. You putting out meaningful content.

  • @altheamcdermott970
    @altheamcdermott970 10 місяців тому +1

    As a Jamaican mom I'm gonna share this with my children, its reality , no hands out around here

  • @annmariestanford9142
    @annmariestanford9142 Рік тому +2

    I shared this video with my two young adults who often talk about struggles of “adulting”. I appreciate your perspective.... and you truly have a gift to motivate.

  • @WWEENETWORK
    @WWEENETWORK Рік тому +1

    Listen young man...you are on the right...growth path....in your MINDSET...keep progressing. Your transparency...is why I am here at 60....AS A LIFE COACH TO MANY...and this is still very relevant to those who are wise and older and coming thru ... Even when you wirk HARD and become successful and SAVE....situation comes.. and BOOM! You fall down and rise up....NOT WANTING TO WASTE YOUR TIME AND RESOURCES...AND DROPPING BAD COMPANY is a not selfish...its ESSENTIAL to SURVIVAL. THIS IS THE HUMAN CYCLE....INNA REAL LIFE...A SUH DI TING GUH!!!
    Alcohol, Sugar, Fast Food, Gambling, Sex..etc etc...is killing us. HELLO...same thing I tell my young mentees...READ LOTS OF Personal Development books on UA-cam...

  • @shanefashion
    @shanefashion Рік тому +7

    True words bro
    thought it was me alone think this way I grow up now and I’m just focusing on my career and myself my surroundings change
    Stay Focus Remember Dat don’t give up 🙌🏾💯

  • @remedydon
    @remedydon Рік тому +9

    I appreciate you deciding to do this podcast because I'm starting to pay attention to alot of things in my life I didn't normally notice lol keep up the excellent work bro 👏 u speaking by yourself is way better

  • @NattyByNature-
    @NattyByNature- Рік тому +3

    Your podcast will be very successful because it’s so relatable. A lot of persons did not get guidance towards life so you doing this is so needed. It’s like having someone to talk to that we can relate to because a lot of us probably do have ppl to talk to but lots of people don’t like to have these reasonings because most of us are pretending to be okay.

  • @Toriii2004
    @Toriii2004 Рік тому +3

    As a 18 year old girl understanding this wisdom 🙏 shared is amazing

  • @iamdavonish
    @iamdavonish Рік тому +2

    You completely right about everything, I'm heading to 34 right now and I'm like wow, this is adult life, no one cares, no you have to be self sufficient, bills bills, u have to prioritize, no one not giving you any handouts. I'm married now and it's just both of us.

  • @andrecoleman1501
    @andrecoleman1501 Рік тому +8

    keep walking 🚶‍♂️ in your purpose bredda, I appreciate you holding/sharing these meditations, some solid 💎 gems you continuously dropping on here 👊🏼

  • @treasurebarnett7729
    @treasurebarnett7729 Рік тому +3

    Before I was iffy to subscribe because you cursed and I didn’t want all of that in my life but now you seeing you wear down… so imma start following 🙏🏾

  • @stephanrainford2109
    @stephanrainford2109 Рік тому +4

    Right now I'm going through these exact changes,cut off all my friends because never see what value them bring to my life and I've just been sad and down because all the pressure just come one time and I've decided that it's time to change my life and this video is a big motivation nuff respect ✊🏽

  • @gehvonhenry6357
    @gehvonhenry6357 Рік тому +3

    6 mins in and still watching, everything you said is truthful. Deep conversation loving the growth keep it up

  • @kenrickwilliams5177
    @kenrickwilliams5177 Рік тому +2

    This is so absolutely amazing I had to listen to it twice. I really appreciate your words of wisdom.

  • @chalice4092
    @chalice4092 Рік тому

    I am so happy you found this outlet. You have so much to say and you talk the realeesttttt things bredda. Male or female can relate & this is definitely motivation from all angles, on all sorta different topics that are allllll relatable. Big up yuhself Dale! #REALLIFESHIT

  • @bebebe1354
    @bebebe1354 Рік тому +3

    I'm glad you spoke about toning down on the bad words. I would love to share to my family group. Keep them coming, very informative and educational.

  • @kadyblesscampbell5649
    @kadyblesscampbell5649 Рік тому +2

    This is just what I needed this morning trust me thanks for sharing 👍Dale this is gold💯

  • @jkd1503
    @jkd1503 Рік тому

    This vid is a gem, glad I came across it. So many things that you mentioned really resonates with me.

  • @vibing9368
    @vibing9368 Рік тому

    I have to say this has helped me so much with life on a whole to be able to put things into perspective and really stay positive and motivated. Thank you sooo much for this, its greatly! appreciated ❤

  • @markmoses823
    @markmoses823 Рік тому +1

    Great story of managing Life`s challenges coming up in a trying environment...keep the vibes going and much more times...

  • @robertllewelyn9193
    @robertllewelyn9193 Рік тому

    more blessings and respect bredda....
    I feel so great to hear a positive young man encouraging the youths on the rise as a youth yourself.
    advice from peer is best...

  • @nicoleclue-brown2867
    @nicoleclue-brown2867 Рік тому +1

    It's my 1st time listening and I find your message relatable and motivating...good job 👏👏👏. My sentiments are the same where adulthood is concerned; nothing I've learned from home, Wolmers or Utech effectively prepared me to navigate the uncharted waters of adulthood. Becoming the best version of ourselves and learning to be stable emotionally and financially is an individual journey but with the strength and guidance from God we will all persevere.💪🏾

  • @JG-ql7ne
    @JG-ql7ne Рік тому +6

    Dale weh Mek yuh look suh bredda? Smile and enjoy life. Manage your health,mental, and financials. Nothing in life is easy you coming into this world wasn’t easy ask ya mada my youth. Just don’t stress bout the little things and boost ya self up dawg

    • @DaleElliottTV
      @DaleElliottTV  Рік тому +3

      Nah stress mon! Always a enjoy life

    • @theone424
      @theone424 Рік тому

      He simply looks serious, the topic is SERIOUS!!!!;SMH. He's doing an amazing job.

  • @Taylor_m-k4y
    @Taylor_m-k4y Рік тому

    Talk Dale ... talk!!! I shared this with my kids "adults" & I'm gonna share it with every youngster I know...🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @quericketts3722
    @quericketts3722 Рік тому

    Love the growth! Sending this to EVERYBODY 🎉

  • @sofiesop1rey2
    @sofiesop1rey2 3 місяці тому

    The older you get the less friends you will have; and you will be standing all alone, no one cares about you but you; the people who claim to be your friends are most times around you because of something you can offer don’t have to be money or things, can be that you filling a void for them to not feel lonely; don’t be afraid to be selfish, always put you first no matter what!!!! You will be extremely alone if you start to achieve and excel you will see friendships begin to vanish; find hobbies, do stuff you love try to be around like minded people but always always put you first!!!

  • @nothingbutgre8tness
    @nothingbutgre8tness Рік тому +3

    Another great one.. like how your points them flow making the listen seem shorter than it is...thing soon buss weh like a kite..👌🏾

  • @SIMONEAMUSIC
    @SIMONEAMUSIC Рік тому

    Love this Dale.. The message hit home even at the age of 45..!🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jadeievanriel4171
    @jadeievanriel4171 Рік тому +2

    This one is a sure gem had to watch it 2x!!!....

  • @Junior2uu
    @Junior2uu Рік тому

    Self awareness is key I was in this phase and it opened my eyes I'm happy I search for it made me a better person and I'm still learning this is great content love the reasoning.

  • @sherickad7445
    @sherickad7445 Рік тому

    Yeeeessss. This is it!! I was a bit judgemental at first a wonder if me haffi go turn down my phone inna public or put in my ear pods but I’m so happy you’re using your platform wisely. A it this! Me love it

  • @Hannah_haechanfangirl
    @Hannah_haechanfangirl Рік тому

    As a young person, just finishing college growing up and becoming an adult is becoming increasing scary and depressing. Now I wish I could go back to being a child. Either way have to face it and be smart about how me go about life.
    Dale, Thank you! Bring tears to my eyes cause these are the things I try to tell myself every day and sometimes me feel like me na get no where but me have the ambition and drive, ago work for it.

  • @JaiieF10
    @JaiieF10 Рік тому +2

    Another banger bro. Dawg mek sure yuh no give up ino. Rn yuh underrated

  • @Uche_baby
    @Uche_baby Рік тому

    I can relate so much. Thank you for the words of reasoning and encouragement 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @donaldakadp7159
    @donaldakadp7159 Рік тому

    Throughout the podcast, the only thing mi do a smile and medz. Everything the dawg seh mi a thru right now. HONESTLY BEST PODCAST ON UA-cam.

  • @beverleyreid1162
    @beverleyreid1162 Рік тому

    So happy I stumbled on ur podcasts ,since yesterday cant stop watching .Definitely a subscriber.

  • @kardzzofficial3558
    @kardzzofficial3558 Рік тому +1

    Really good podcast dale. This really attacks the doubts we have in our early and and late 20s. Circumstances we are in resulting in where we are currently and alot of us myself included have been drowning in depression. This really motivated me big up g

  • @heatherplummer3286
    @heatherplummer3286 2 місяці тому

    I love to listen to you Dale. You are an intelligent young man. I like your topics ❤

  • @nicolepeart4838
    @nicolepeart4838 Рік тому +2

    Loving these new videos! Keep it up!

  • @jayrome8764
    @jayrome8764 Рік тому +7

    Being 33, I can identify with most of what you spoke about. My priorities, circle and thought process have changed drastically. Big up fi di reasoning bredda.

  • @windmiltnbriannatv9573
    @windmiltnbriannatv9573 Рік тому +2

    Pure Facts mi Bro Dale 😎🎆🎆🎆🎆🎆💯🔥

  • @mrGUNMAN
    @mrGUNMAN Рік тому +2

    podcast yah 🔥🔥‼️ cya skip a vid

  • @l-cityrecordsaju7282
    @l-cityrecordsaju7282 Рік тому

    Dale speaking facts, and I've notice this for sometime now I'm a guy who I would say had to endure somethings very early. An had to be like the father figure for my other siblings and I didn't really have a choice. And now being an adult it's like all we've been wanting as a child seems less important as we now have our own future in our hands.

  • @alexstore5710
    @alexstore5710 Рік тому +1

    Facts dawg,I be stressed out,confused,frustrated🤦🏽

  • @shesroyal8959
    @shesroyal8959 Рік тому

    Another awesome episode, very thought provoking

  • @Shersher876
    @Shersher876 Рік тому +4

    Absolutely love this Dale. I can actually relate to a lot of what you are saying. Great advice! Keep up the good work, love this side of you.

    • @DaleElliottTV
      @DaleElliottTV  Рік тому +1

      Thanks so much!

    • @Shersher876
      @Shersher876 Рік тому

      @@DaleElliottTV your welcome

    • @rannynatchelust3507
      @rannynatchelust3507 Рік тому

      @@DaleElliottTV am much older than you and I most say am impressed with your thoughts and input keep on these topics bcz you have different age group that lesson big up bro

  • @Majestic1Love
    @Majestic1Love Рік тому +1

    👏🏾🖤👏🏾 Sending You Love
    From London 🇬🇧

  • @devair7150
    @devair7150 Рік тому

    excellent video you touched every point. very informative and realistic. continue the good work bro

  • @Venuspalmer
    @Venuspalmer Рік тому

    sooo true...words em' powerful boss

  • @jude-anthonylewis4350
    @jude-anthonylewis4350 Рік тому

    Podcast is purely undiluted truth. Keep it up Dale.

  • @vintino4436
    @vintino4436 Рік тому +2

    Bro mi love dem podcast video ya bro keep it up mi g💯💯

  • @danijayspeaks...2671
    @danijayspeaks...2671 Рік тому

    Your wise young man... keep up the Good work!

  • @shelly-annrichards5196
    @shelly-annrichards5196 Рік тому +1

    Love the podcast Dale ❤ Had to send this one to my 16 years old sister

  • @VocalVibes_0
    @VocalVibes_0 Рік тому

    respect always for the reasoning, was a pleasure to listen to this podcast

  • @baarons93
    @baarons93 Рік тому

    this one is my favourite of the binge of his videos so far lol

  • @Nogo844
    @Nogo844 Рік тому +3

    hi 👋
    It's not that you are a different person, we use different fake characters to give others what we think they want from us. (to be a opportunity)
    The person is who we are trying to develop into. Much like when developing a film from negative to positive. We only begin to develop when we are true to within and this what is referred to as maturity.
    No one can teach you to become an adult, love. Because when you accept yourself and all of your weaknesses, fallacies and who you are true too, that you begin to develop into adult maturity.
    The moment we stop wearing all these fake faces, we can actually work on bringing out the real person. and making oneself better through hardships and prosperity.
    thanks for the real talk. You ponder real issues that folk are not doing. Folk are not asking the correct questions .
    Pretense has taken a hold on many.
    When reality calls, they realize nothing real about themselves. They never developed a natural self, only made these fictitious characters. This is not you.
    Some spend their whole lives trying to be someone else. Until it is realized that fake is a denial of yourselves, you lost. Some would rather be anyone else than their true person. Truth is...they never became a person nor matured.
    Keep pondering. Consider these things. Folk Stop! working on who you not, and begin working on who you are.
    Much ❤️love

  • @jahiem421
    @jahiem421 Рік тому +1

    Love this mi bredda👏

  • @sherickabennett1490
    @sherickabennett1490 Рік тому

    Relly appreciate this side and reasoning from you💯

  • @johnoypratt6224
    @johnoypratt6224 Рік тому

    The realist podcast Real talk 🔥🔥🔥🔥🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

  • @soyinislater144
    @soyinislater144 Рік тому

    I appreciate these types of videos/contents . Truthfully it’s a lonely road once you realize this from early (I’m 20) . Things Weh me a do/wah do my other friends nah do it. Just wah seh thanks for the advice and keep it up. 🔥

  • @officialdonkeem556
    @officialdonkeem556 Рік тому +16

    Dale : sometime if you nuh like the situation you inna just get up an come outta it
    Me : Alright I’m about to quit my job
    Dale : mi nah tell you get up and lef the work weh yuh inna
    😂

    • @chalice4092
      @chalice4092 Рік тому

      I swearrrrrr ... dwl like him know waa gwaan

  • @adair2day
    @adair2day Рік тому

    We all as Jamaicans were warn about the responsibilities of an adult. As a child, we all just don't listen and have the ability of adjusting our lives according. We all at different levels. I'm glad you coated the reference, do what is better for you and reap the effects, either good or bad, it was your path of choice as how you live. Face the person in the mirror to be mature, know him/her first.

  • @kiddream5749
    @kiddream5749 Рік тому +1

    Brother what your saying hit home especially the part about not having anyone to talk to.

  • @aneki602
    @aneki602 Рік тому

    Am so happy I found this channel yesterday . Keep upnthe good work

  • @victormccrea5461
    @victormccrea5461 Рік тому

    Another good one Dale....blessings

  • @adrianlee1393
    @adrianlee1393 Рік тому +1

    I needed this affirmation i promise yuh 💯

  • @ShanJA876
    @ShanJA876 Рік тому

    I was cleaning my bathroom and listen. I enjoy content like this. Thank you and have a great day.

  • @hannahbaker7335
    @hannahbaker7335 Рік тому

    Inspirational for the youths, keep it real bro

  • @dicethegamer
    @dicethegamer Рік тому +2

    have a lot a respect to you dale big up you self

  • @jevanithompson8253
    @jevanithompson8253 Рік тому

    Positive energy!

  • @garyshouter7869
    @garyshouter7869 Рік тому

    Nuff Respect Brov From Pre-Uwi Days.
    It's a Refreshing reminder Brov real talk.

  • @Venuspalmer
    @Venuspalmer Рік тому

    Thanks brooo.. Love this

  • @SB-uv3my
    @SB-uv3my Рік тому +3

    Pure facts📌

  • @danarlewis7267
    @danarlewis7267 Рік тому

    Iconic message king

  • @alexstore5710
    @alexstore5710 Рік тому +2

    Facts 😔nobody nah come save you…

  • @bellwethermusic
    @bellwethermusic Рік тому +3

    Great content bro keep up the good work

  • @stephawnmattis476
    @stephawnmattis476 Рік тому

    Bro me nah lie we need these type of talks it really help alot

  • @lemorjohnston5006
    @lemorjohnston5006 Рік тому

    Love the reflection.

  • @harshillusion3677
    @harshillusion3677 Рік тому +1

    Dale never fail💯

  • @livityrich1088
    @livityrich1088 11 місяців тому

    Real yute this 💯✊🏾

  • @gazamanian100
    @gazamanian100 Рік тому +1

    LOVE THE REASONING BRO

  • @Coachjay778
    @Coachjay778 Рік тому

    Keep going your getting better and better G

  • @samanthamorris3063
    @samanthamorris3063 Рік тому

    😂😂😂 insightful and hilarious

  • @angiew1586
    @angiew1586 Рік тому

    Last time you cuss mi because I didn't comment😀. Love this, I shared it with my 17-year-old son who turns 18 in October. Great message. Keep up the good work and continued success. Bless Up!!

  • @damanimcnish1031
    @damanimcnish1031 Рік тому +1

    From Connecticut USA keep it up boss I listen to you at work and going to bed.

  • @Javane_
    @Javane_ Рік тому

    Always some good content keep pushing ✊

  • @kinggangaleeofficial1352
    @kinggangaleeofficial1352 Рік тому

    Episode ya deep 🔥🔥

  • @KeoniMusic
    @KeoniMusic Рік тому +2

    Is like Dale inna mi mind

  • @marlenebrown19
    @marlenebrown19 Рік тому +3

    Going to share this podcast with my nephews and niece... content is to the 100th FACTS‼️ LOVE your transparency 👍

  • @mamalola33
    @mamalola33 Рік тому

    Love you papa thank you for speaking your mind 💙