What I Learned in Marriage From a Woman’s Perspective

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024

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  • @yasminbagley909
    @yasminbagley909 3 роки тому +55

    That whole you can’t vent to everybody about your marriage is so true! I’ve learned that the hard way!

  • @Nemyinspired
    @Nemyinspired 3 роки тому +53

    The idea of watching whom you are getting advice from is very important. There are so many damaged people out there with very distorted, devilish views on friendship and marriage.

    • @yasminbagley909
      @yasminbagley909 3 роки тому +1

      So true!!

    • @taulagoioane3865
      @taulagoioane3865 3 роки тому +1

      Amen to “devilish views”!

    • @joycewatt800
      @joycewatt800 3 роки тому +2

      Yesssssss yes 🙌🏽 damaged distorted toxic and satanic. It’s mind blowing.

  • @lashantamiller3952
    @lashantamiller3952 3 роки тому +19

    I’m not married yet but am dating and feel it’s important to be honest and work on these items now

    • @RShipwash
      @RShipwash 2 роки тому +1

      You are setting yourself up for success! Great job! 👏👏👏

  • @shalag.4156
    @shalag.4156 3 роки тому +21

    I would love to hear your perspective on going into business with your spouse or entrepreneurship while married.

    • @shalag.4156
      @shalag.4156 3 роки тому +1

      Or the beginnings of starting a organization that's a christian centered.

    • @ashleyjones7531
      @ashleyjones7531 3 роки тому +1

      Yes! Please talk about starting the church!

  • @tamarascott3672
    @tamarascott3672 3 роки тому +9

    Quiet time space is EVERYTHING!! In transition right now moving and I can’t wait to get that time back. July can’t come soon enough.

  • @tsenaetikesetehaile2931
    @tsenaetikesetehaile2931 2 роки тому +5

    I love this yet I don’t agree on the advice that Heather gave to the lady who has been cheated on. Cheating is fundamental issue. I am not saying that it is the worst sin and she shouldn’t forgive but it shows a deeper issue that just cheating. He obviously doesn’t appreciate her. I mean to cheat while dating is huge. What will happen later on in marriage when fights, pregnancy, children and so many other things will come where it is going to be so much easier to cheat. You just don’t happen to end in a bed naked with a stranger. I mean he must have had the time to engage in it as eve had the time to look at the fruit until it became desirable to her eyes. And this happens during dating stage where everybody is supposed to be lovey dovey…. I don’t think this man actually loves her to begin with! And to compare that with overspending is just an underestimation sorry. And I don’t think Heather would have married her husband if he had cheated on her during their courtship stage so let’s be honest and give a godly and authentic advice to the struggling people out there. To the lady going through this… I am so soo sorry you had to feel that feeling of rejection, inadequacy etc I can’t imagine how painful it must be. But I would not recommend you to marry that guy. You deserve more! God will send you a faithful husband!

  • @jaz1elise
    @jaz1elise 3 роки тому +4

    Great advice, Heather! I believe that some of these tips can be used in singleness to prepare for marriage. I'm a single woman waiting on God for my future husband.

    • @RShipwash
      @RShipwash 2 роки тому

      Yassss! Great mindset! Setting yourself up for success! 👏👏👏👏

  • @e.samoor8323
    @e.samoor8323 3 роки тому +4

    I felt healing in my heart as I listened to you.
    Thank you for speaking God's heart!

  • @Godlywoman88
    @Godlywoman88 3 роки тому +10

    I am single, but I thought I would click on this to get an idea of what marriage is like.
    I agree about attending therapy. I think that it's very important, especially if you come from a dysfunctional background. I was in it awhile for myself, but I stopped seeing the one that I was seeing b/c I was picking up certain things in my spirt that led me to believe she wasn't a fit. I would love to go back if I can find a Christian one that is specialized I'm my areas of trauma I've experienced.

  • @ashleyrivera3490
    @ashleyrivera3490 3 роки тому +13

    Girl you are so real you be hurting my feelings! Thanks for this, needed it!

  • @CamillesEssence
    @CamillesEssence 3 роки тому +12

    This was so timely! 💕

  • @shaynapuaaladeponte890
    @shaynapuaaladeponte890 2 роки тому +1

    Me and my hubby have our first session on wed I’m so ready🙌🏼🔥

  • @2MissLadyG
    @2MissLadyG 3 роки тому +6

    Hii❤👋God bless you beautiful woman of God. To be honest i dint listen to many of The married folks videos because im not married..I love the singless vidoes you have made and truly is the reason i was able to choose celibacy. But i desire to get married and i know perhaps videos like this will also help me prepare. God bless❤🙏😌

  • @VhugalaHaweM
    @VhugalaHaweM 3 роки тому +1

    Podcast filled with so much wisdom. I appreciate it. love from South Africa♥️🇿🇦

  • @temuruanita2051
    @temuruanita2051 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much heather for blessing me today! 🥰🥰

  • @iamfreeking564
    @iamfreeking564 3 роки тому +13

    I'm just going to say ouch and continue listening. This is good stuff.

  • @mwfontenot978
    @mwfontenot978 3 роки тому +5

    I liked this before listening. I know it’s going be good.

  • @swatinupur8090
    @swatinupur8090 3 роки тому +2

    God bless you guys...really...so encouraging and helpful. May the Lord always leads you and guides you guys❤❤

  • @chvaunbarnes3495
    @chvaunbarnes3495 3 роки тому +2

    Heather!! Have you read the surrendered wife by Laura Doyle ?! Omg you are saying what her book says! That book saved more than my marriage it saved me

  • @pastoral4297
    @pastoral4297 3 роки тому +1

    Very good job with this video!!! Keep'em coming and continue making a difference out here👍🏽😊

  • @simply_nikisha
    @simply_nikisha 3 роки тому +5

    Holy Spirit teacher helper..!🙌🏾❣️

    • @scottmassing6317
      @scottmassing6317 3 роки тому +1

      Jesus loves you, he died on the cross for you to go to heaven. Salvation is a free gift, by faith and believing alone.

  • @lauratrundley529
    @lauratrundley529 3 роки тому +2

    Amen 🙏🏻 and Love your top, where did you buy it? X

  • @Lexi_lexus
    @Lexi_lexus 3 роки тому +5

    Very insightful

  • @thislifewithchrist
    @thislifewithchrist Рік тому

    God bless you Heather thank you so muchhhh for this 🤍!!

  • @sherrela-nay
    @sherrela-nay Рік тому

    This video is so needed 😃🥰

  • @sophiak.martin2820
    @sophiak.martin2820 3 роки тому +1

    this was right on time

  • @ndilimekefestus1894
    @ndilimekefestus1894 3 роки тому +3

    Notifications gang 🤗

  • @dancer2cry4
    @dancer2cry4 3 роки тому +5

    Heather you have a twin .. love sweat fitness is her yt name ..

    • @SermonsSubtitled
      @SermonsSubtitled 3 роки тому +1

      Yes I was just thinking that yesterday!! I saw "love sweat fitness" videos for the first time and constantly thought she looks so much like heather lindsey!!

    • @Angeloflight7
      @Angeloflight7 3 роки тому

      Dam well done on spotting that. Ur so right

    • @dancer2cry4
      @dancer2cry4 3 роки тому

      @@SermonsSubtitled lol 😂 exactly

    • @tanaysiaw8438
      @tanaysiaw8438 3 роки тому

      Okay I thought it was just me 😂

  • @shaynapuaaladeponte890
    @shaynapuaaladeponte890 2 роки тому

    Amen I have been in therapy for years lol

  • @kewanadaniel
    @kewanadaniel 2 роки тому

    Omg that is me Heather I am working on myself I always ask why he do not want to take me

  • @robintriumphs
    @robintriumphs 3 роки тому +1

    🙌🏾❤️

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 2 роки тому +1

    The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖❤️❤️📖✝️🕎💡💡❤️❤️💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 2 роки тому +1

    Dear God🙏💗💕 ❤️💗❤️💗in heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness.
    I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin.
    You said in the bible that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved.
    Right now I confess Jesus as my Lord. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved. Amen.

  • @scottmassing6317
    @scottmassing6317 3 роки тому +5

    Jesus loves you, he died on the cross for you to go to heaven. Salvation is a free gift, by faith and believing alone.

  • @masterkinglordson
    @masterkinglordson 3 роки тому +1

    ✝️

    • @scottmassing6317
      @scottmassing6317 3 роки тому

      Jesus loves you, he died on the cross for you to go to heaven. Salvation is a free gift, by faith and believing alone.

  • @khanyacewu
    @khanyacewu 3 роки тому +2

    ❤❤🙏🙌