I'm not currently married. but I still tune in to such videos as this one because it is indeed the plan one day. I'm making an investment in my future! thanks for being obedient to God, Heather.
“Me your wife, the greatest help meet ever 😂” that’s how I feel at times , I need to calm and come allll the way down. “Stop Mothering.” I’ve learned so much. Thank you for this message, God be with us all in our marriages.
@@HeatherLLove I've followed you on your social media platfotms for quite a while and you've helped me grow all around. God bless you for your obedience and encouraging me to obey God too ❤❤❤❤❤
This is for me. Just more confirmation on what I need to do better. I have 28yrs of marriage and divorce was an option this year. We chose to fight for our marriage instead of each other. Godly counsel has been beneficial, but I know God has revealed my pretense of humility and godliness as being prideful and judgmental towards my husband and others with sweet smile on my face. I am so happy I listened to this message tonight. I need to get back to listening to you Heather. You never sugarcoat the truth and you always support what you say with scripture. God bless you, your marriage and your family. 🙏🏽❤🙌🏽
Whew! This message is right on time. I’m married and it is hard work. This confirmed that you have to work on yourself and pray for God to make the changes in your spouse.
Lets be honest, alot of marriages are being attacked. I just got engaged a month ago and whenever i hear someone say they got a divorce (After YEARS of marriage) it makes me wonder "why or what if". Thank goodness my fiance is a praying man and not easy to give up on us. Only god knows if my marriage will last a lifetime
I needed to hear this today. I’m also going to be married for 10 years next year, and I’ve gone through a lot of these same obstacles in my marriage. I pray that the Lord would give me direction on how to be a better help mate to my husband and to help to deal more kindly with me as well(he has anger issues as well). I thank God for confirming that I’m doing the right thing by praying and trusting Him for change.
Girl this was a wordt! Newly married and currently learning this. Confirmation for me 🙌🏽 And ladies the Word can’t lie. Implement this and see the changes. I have! Praise God!
So good Heather! Are we letting God fight our battles? Or are we trying to control the situation, therefore showing we don't trust God ourselves. A strong woman can let her husband lead because she trusts that God is faithful to lead HIM!
I love the way you explain "submission". I've had some hard times myself with this issue. But when you asked me to submit to my husband's mission (God's calling) on his life it totally changed my view on this! THANK YOU! Glory to God, and may God bless you and your family!
I love her transparency!!!! That's because she knows who she is in Christ. You don't have anything to hide or prove when you are secure in your identity. 🙌🏿
Precious Roman is ministering in the background.. What a word, and a testimony. This gives me hope, thanks pastor Heather and thank You Jesus for such a timely word
wow Heather...God bless you, you are so real. You dont sugar coat anything, and i love it! I been single for almost all my life and never really been a wife, I know the Lord wants me to be married. But i keep running, everytime I see something that needs work in him, or he states that i need work...Bye Boy is my moto. I am 48, and I feel God is telling me something. I'm dating this one man, he would be a great provider, but what guy has me time? and to put on top of it he doesnt really go to church much due to his work hours. but there is something special about him and he keeps pursuing, I was praying this morning... i said Lord, I want to do right this time, but is this really the one for me? then your video showed up. right on point. He has good quailities and the one hurdle I always had in any relationship was the ministry God gave me, they can never understand and also my goals and visions for life and my income as well...they always disgreed, but this one supports me. He actually wants a woman with goals.... interesting? so He doesnt go to church much, although raised in church, but .... He supports ministry and my career choices. So girl...I'll be following you and sharing...look forward to seeing more videos. thank you :)
God is faithful. I was just thinking how I need to equip myself before I get married and thought about watching your videos again! I'm so thankful that this popped up in my notifications!
I enjoyed the video and the advice you gave. I have been married for 26 1/2 years. Marriage is a relationship that you have to constantly work on. In order to submit to your husband, you have to trust God. I have been praying and asking God to help me to submit to my husband. To humble my spirit. I focus more on myself. I also pray to God and ask him to help me to be the wife my husband needs me to be. Thank you for the words of wisdom.
Your transparency about the lamp and anger is really helping me right now. Everything you said was on point for real for real! Thank you for all of the reminders in this video. This is further confirmation of what God already put in my spirit. #GodIsBigger
Thank you, I'm not married but I am grateful for the insight. This is definitely something I'll meditate on and can use for when I do get married in the future.
Thank you for sharing Heather😊 I've never been married, I'm also not dating at this time. I'm taking in all the advice you give for my future. Thank you so much💕
Lorrrrd, this was for me smh this is my lesson in this season, accepting that my husband is the authority in our marriages, and that God is in control not me! Thanks for this!
Listening to ur wisdom and guidance heather is helping me soo much I see light at the other end of the tunnel and I have my husband listen to you as well. Thank you for sharing ur message with us from God!
3:12 - so true!! God spoke to my heart a few weeks ago from Matthew 11:29 - by being meek and lowly in heart I will find peace in my marriage. Thank you for this...so very good!! I'm only 5.5 years in...God help me!!
I just watched a video of a woman who's husband just left her and she recorded a raw vlog of her first few days. It devastated me. I needed this since I'm unmarried and scared!
Thank you so much for your ministry! I’m not married yet, but these tools you share along with scripture makes me confident I’ll have a godly marriage. Your sermons this past weekend at Impact were amazing! So glad I finally met you 💖
Love the seed analogy and submission definition. And yes, change starts with me and than everything around me will start to change. This was an informative and impactful word, thank you Heather.
😭 God bless you faithful Woman if God! This message is literally life savings. Please keep doing this!! I need to learn how to stir myself in the Lord AND also praying/declaring over my spouse
This blessed me tremendously!! Submission is hard for me in my marriage. Now in year 6 I am learning the spirit of shut up! Lol. Thanks for breaking this down and continuing to pour into women through your ministry.
Thank you heather I’ve literally been seeing this pop up on my feed for almost 2 weeks now and been putting it off since but today I’m watching, even though I’m not married yet, the knowledge and correction on habits and mindsets and etc are very valuable and helps with preparation , thank you for your obedience Heather ❤️
Heather I love you and God bless you for sharing this word with us. It is a confirmation for me personally and I have clarity about a few things. Thank you and may the Lord keep you, your ministries and your household. ❤️
Hi Heather, I really wanted to meet you when you visited the Turks and Caicos Islands. To minister at Rock of Jesus Ministries. Sadly, I took sick and wasn't able to attend. God Bless you and your family!
I want to apologise for judging you some years back for how you changed your appearance by coloring your hair often that was before I got the bug myself, I am sorry Heather. You are beautiful in whatever color you choose. God bless.
This video literally just saved my marriage. Thank you for this. This came at such a miraculous time. Glory to God!
wow! PRAISE GOD!!!!
Me too!! Put a new perspective on the way I will handle my husband!! God is always on time!!
I'm not currently married. but I still tune in to such videos as this one because it is indeed the plan one day. I'm making an investment in my future! thanks for being obedient to God, Heather.
Trudy Proud 🙌🏾 EXACTLY 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞
Trudy Proud I’m doing the same, love. Let’s plant those seeds. ❤️
Yes absolutely!
“Since when did he have to check in with you to see when he’s going to spend time with God” 😩😩😩😭😭😭. Wow
humbleinfaith just call me out 😩
Lord God she definitely stepped on my toes🤭
Ouch!!! 😥
“Me your wife, the greatest help meet ever 😂” that’s how I feel at times , I need to calm and come allll the way down. “Stop Mothering.” I’ve learned so much. Thank you for this message, God be with us all in our marriages.
Heather, you're equipping me with so much information for my future marriage. How I love you
I love you too!
@@HeatherLLove I've followed you on your social media platfotms for quite a while and you've helped me grow all around. God bless you for your obedience and encouraging me to obey God too ❤❤❤❤❤
This is for me. Just more confirmation on what I need to do better. I have 28yrs of marriage and divorce was an option this year. We chose to fight for our marriage instead of each other. Godly counsel has been beneficial, but I know God has revealed my pretense of humility and godliness as being prideful and judgmental towards my husband and others with sweet smile on my face. I am so happy I listened to this message tonight. I need to get back to listening to you Heather. You never sugarcoat the truth and you always support what you say with scripture. God bless you, your marriage and your family. 🙏🏽❤🙌🏽
Thank you for the transparency. We don’t get this a lot from leaders.
Here’s to healthy marriages yawl🥂
I agree!!
Whew! This message is right on time. I’m married and it is hard work. This confirmed that you have to work on yourself and pray for God to make the changes in your spouse.
Lets be honest, alot of marriages are being attacked. I just got engaged a month ago and whenever i hear someone say they got a divorce (After YEARS of marriage) it makes me wonder "why or what if". Thank goodness my fiance is a praying man and not easy to give up on us. Only god knows if my marriage will last a lifetime
Im not married but this gave me so much fruit.
I needed to hear this today. I’m also going to be married for 10 years next year, and I’ve gone through a lot of these same obstacles in my marriage. I pray that the Lord would give me direction on how to be a better help mate to my husband and to help to deal more kindly with me as well(he has anger issues as well). I thank God for confirming that I’m doing the right thing by praying and trusting Him for change.
Girl this was a wordt! Newly married and currently learning this. Confirmation for me 🙌🏽 And ladies the Word can’t lie. Implement this and see the changes. I have! Praise God!
It’s been a stormy season in my marriage but this video was for me!!! Praise God!!! I’m so thankful for your ministry Heather!!!
"I'mma tell God on that tail" 😂😂😂 Heather is wild!!! I love it!!!!
Zina Grace Right!! Lolol 😁😁
I LOVE THE NEW INTRO!
Whewwww chile,,, snatch my soul Heather!!!! 5 years in and God is going to bless my marriage❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This has me crying like baby while watching.I needed ever word of this video. It’s me I need to change. Thank you so much Heather. 😭😭😭
So good Heather! Are we letting God fight our battles? Or are we trying to control the situation, therefore showing we don't trust God ourselves.
A strong woman can let her husband lead because she trusts that God is faithful to lead HIM!
Heather!!! 💖 love it when you post videos like this despite your busy schedule 💕 love you!
I’m so glad that everybody is telling the truth about marriage so people will know ahead of time before quickly jumping in.
I love the way you explain "submission". I've had some hard times myself with this issue. But when you asked me to submit to my husband's mission (God's calling) on his life it totally changed my view on this! THANK YOU! Glory to God, and may God bless you and your family!
I love her transparency!!!! That's because she knows who she is in Christ. You don't have anything to hide or prove when you are secure in your identity. 🙌🏿
Precious Roman is ministering in the background.. What a word, and a testimony. This gives me hope, thanks pastor Heather and thank You Jesus for such a timely word
Heather stays preaching! When she said "you wanna lose weight? What's the hold up?" I died 😂 She's so right. We have to change first.
wow Heather...God bless you, you are so real. You dont sugar coat anything, and i love it! I been single for almost all my life and never really been a wife, I know the Lord wants me to be married. But i keep running, everytime I see something that needs work in him, or he states that i need work...Bye Boy is my moto. I am 48, and I feel God is telling me something. I'm dating this one man, he would be a great provider, but what guy has me time? and to put on top of it he doesnt really go to church much due to his work hours. but there is something special about him and he keeps pursuing, I was praying this morning... i said Lord, I want to do right this time, but is this really the one for me? then your video showed up. right on point. He has good quailities and the one hurdle I always had in any relationship was the ministry God gave me, they can never understand and also my goals and visions for life and my income as well...they always disgreed, but this one supports me. He actually wants a woman with goals.... interesting? so He doesnt go to church much, although raised in church, but .... He supports ministry and my career choices. So girl...I'll be following you and sharing...look forward to seeing more videos. thank you :)
God is faithful. I was just thinking how I need to equip myself before I get married and thought about watching your videos again! I'm so thankful that this popped up in my notifications!
Luv your new intro.
As a single, this was truly gold!!!
I enjoyed the video and the advice you gave. I have been married for 26 1/2 years. Marriage is a relationship that you have to constantly work on. In order to submit to your husband, you have to trust God. I have been praying and asking God to help me to submit to my husband. To humble my spirit. I focus more on myself. I also pray to God and ask him to help me to be the wife my husband needs me to be. Thank you for the words of wisdom.
Thank you, Heather for being so open and transparent with us 🙏🏾❤️ This video was so good and so on time-thank you!
Thank you Heather for being transparent. Blessings to you and your family.
This is so real!!! Thank you Heather!💕
Thank you! You got me all the way together. God will fight my battles in my marriage. Let him lead. Listen! Pray 'bout it!
Your transparency about the lamp and anger is really helping me right now. Everything you said was on point for real for real! Thank you for all of the reminders in this video. This is further confirmation of what God already put in my spirit. #GodIsBigger
“I don’t agree let me take it to the Lord”. 🙌🏽
Thank you for sharing you're a smart woman I will me getting married soon and I will carry this information into my marriage. Thank you.
Woooooooooooooowwww 🙌🏽🙌🏽🤗 EVERYTHING I NEEDED !!! Glory to God !! Thank you so much for this !!
Thank you, I'm not married but I am grateful for the insight. This is definitely something I'll meditate on and can use for when I do get married in the future.
Wow!!!!! I really needed this!!!! Thank you for being obedient to God and letting Him use you. ❤❤❤❤
Thank you Heather Lindsey this word is right on time and very helpful. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing Heather😊 I've never been married, I'm also not dating at this time. I'm taking in all the advice you give for my future. Thank you so much💕
Lorrrrd, this was for me smh this is my lesson in this season, accepting that my husband is the authority in our marriages, and that God is in control not me! Thanks for this!
Listening to ur wisdom and guidance heather is helping me soo much I see light at the other end of the tunnel and I have my husband listen to you as well. Thank you for sharing ur message with us from God!
3:12 - so true!! God spoke to my heart a few weeks ago from Matthew 11:29 - by being meek and lowly in heart I will find peace in my marriage. Thank you for this...so very good!! I'm only 5.5 years in...God help me!!
I just watched a video of a woman who's husband just left her and she recorded a raw vlog of her first few days. It devastated me. I needed this since I'm unmarried and scared!
Melindah Mkhwanazi hello do you mind sharing the link to her video?
Fear is not of the Lord
@@Eternity244 ua-cam.com/video/db-HBruBLR8/v-deo.html
@@Eternity244 her name is Toni Daley
@@emelyruiz9962 true
This is sooo untime. Thanks for your obedience
Thank you so much for your ministry! I’m not married yet, but these tools you share along with scripture makes me confident I’ll have a godly marriage. Your sermons this past weekend at Impact were amazing! So glad I finally met you 💖
Wow thank you so much Heather. This is a true investment for my future 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
This message was really a blessing. It blessed me so much and it reminds me of me in our marriage. ❤
Thank you for being transparent❤
Love the seed analogy and submission definition. And yes, change starts with me and than everything around me will start to change. This was an informative and impactful word, thank you Heather.
I know this is about to change the game for my marriage and my friends marriage too
😭 God bless you faithful Woman if God! This message is literally life savings. Please keep doing this!! I need to learn how to stir myself in the Lord AND also praying/declaring over my spouse
Thank you for trying to help marriages. We certainly have to change the narrative on relationships 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank God for this message.... I needed it so much! Thank you Heather for sharing 🦋🙏🏾
This blessed me tremendously!! Submission is hard for me in my marriage. Now in year 6 I am learning the spirit of shut up! Lol. Thanks for breaking this down and continuing to pour into women through your ministry.
Thank you Heather for these gems!! Awesome and helpful message!💜💕
Wow eye opener 🙏🏿. Thank you Heather. God bless you
Thank you for being so transparent. I absolutely love this video
Heather you be all up in my business!😂😂😂 I needed this!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This is a beautiful Godly message
Thank you heather I’ve literally been seeing this pop up on my feed for almost 2 weeks now and been putting it off since but today I’m watching, even though I’m not married yet, the knowledge and correction on habits and mindsets and etc are very valuable and helps with preparation , thank you for your obedience Heather ❤️
"If you are in then be in it". Very good and timely video. Thank you for sharing.
This video is really informative for my future marriage. Thank you Heather❤️
I haven’t even watched yet and I LOVE your new intro!! 😍👏💕
Awesome Word! We’re going into year 5 and this is right on time!🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾 ThAnks!
Heather, you are definitely helping to equip me for my future husband!! Blessings and thank you!!
Thank you, Heather!
We are in year 13 and Pastoring as well. So much truth in what you shared today. Thanks again!
Thank you for your transparency! In my first year of marriage and it is not easy
Heather I love you and God bless you for sharing this word with us. It is a confirmation for me personally and I have clarity about a few things. Thank you and may the Lord keep you, your ministries and your household. ❤️
Wowww! Another beautiful black Heather! Hi Heather, my name's Heather too!😁😁😁
When you know better you do better. Thank you sweet Pastor❤❤❤
This is the real deal! Thanks Heather! ❤
So good!! Thank you Heather!
Love love the intro!
Hard truths! Thank you Mrs Lindsey!
Thank you for this! Right on time. Speaking right into my situation. Bless God.
Thank you so much Heather. You are blessing me everyday with your wisdom.
I am being blessed by your videos, Heather! Thanks so much! Praise to God for your ministry 🙏💕
Lord knows this is easier said than done. Im gonna try harder. Practice makes perfect. Pray for me
Wow this is so on time!! Thank you allowing God to use you 💜
This is for me!!! Maybe your spouse is not leading because you're not letting him...4:17 step back...
Me and you both!!
All I can say is...THANK YOU.
This intro thoughhhhhh, yassssss
Wao wao!!! Heather you are speaking the truth. Truly truly i appreciate this. Glory to God for ur life.
YAAAAAS to the new intro!!!!! Love it!!
Heather!!! this word was a whole meal!! thank you so much sis! you are always on point!!
OMG! This message is so timely😭 I’m three months in and needed to hear this.
God bless you heather!
I love this! Thank you for sharing your testimony/experience, it has been a great encouragement ❤🙏🏾
Thank you so much my sister in Christ. Very helpful
Im single but this video really spoke to me .
Heather!!!!!! This was right on time! I so needed this refresher!🙌🏽💕
Hi Heather! I love your song/video intro and of course the message!!!!
Hi Heather, I really wanted to meet you when you visited the Turks and Caicos Islands. To minister at Rock of Jesus Ministries. Sadly, I took sick and wasn't able to attend. God Bless you and your family!
Beautiful. Thanks for the reminder I needed this 😩
That's good!! Thank you
I love the new intro!💙
God bless you Heather thank you for sharing this is so encouraging to me! Good teaching!🌺🙏♥️
I want to apologise for judging you some years back for how you changed your appearance by coloring your hair often that was before I got the bug myself, I am sorry Heather. You are beautiful in whatever color you choose. God bless.
Thank you for this message ma.