Be careful, though, especially if your significant other is a narcissist! Yes, if you're superstring, you will grow, but the pain (emotional, spiritual, and mental) can be unbearable. It's like overdosing - taking a dozen pills when your doctor prescribed one. It's self-defeating. Some people won't be able to hang from the thorns long enough to learn much!
I believe complaining is a good sign for evaluating the situation so that we can take appropriate steps to eradicate either the problem or the situation.
''Maturity isn't necessarily tied to age'' I've telling people this all the time and none paid me no mind because I'm a young teen😐 ''Everything isn't just black and white, there's also the grey'' Facts.
I have most of these traits, I believe strongly that I am emotionally mature, although there is always room to grow, and I am willing to grow, especially where patience is concerned.
Yesterday!!!! Pulled away, went to get gas... that I’ve been driving this person around for days... and no Offer of gas Money Only to 5 minutes later Receive a nasty text How dare you leave me???? Huh???
Take the blame instead of pointing fingers. Acknowledge and accept your mistakes and move on. Think about the outcome of any action before carrying it out.
Emotional Intelligence or EQ, is about choosing not to give into the whims of your ego and thereby giving your power away to another person, in any given situation. Maintaining a healthy balance in all aspects of life, as you determine and by living and staying present in the moment. To engage in the discovery and experience of the essence, of who you truly are. Peaceful and abundant living. now.
3 years ago, I had maybe 1/4 of these traits. Then God put me on a spiritual journey that was painful but enlightening. Now I can confidently say I have all these traits. Not 100% of the time though...I am working on that still as life is a journey or making mistakes and learning from them.
Great share, really enjoyed that you mentioned gratitude too, as a part of maturing is definitely having the ability to identify those things that you can be grateful for and understanding the important role it plays on your mental health
I didn’t realize how at peace with life I currently am. It can be difficult to notice things sometimes when you’re busy enjoying yourself with the fundamentals of existing.
I've always been mature. I think I just have a old soul. I thank God for that gift!🙏 And all these are kinda a Libra thing too. (not all Libras but many).
this was a good one....you know whats crazy tho because lying is the norm these days ppl actually consider it to be a more mature thing and being honest as innocent and unaware
No. If lying has become the norm, then we are all doomed! Maybe you are too sensitive to others' judgements about you!? Plus, the "others" in your life sound like jerks. Ready to pounce at the slightest wrong move. There are NO wrong moves unless you're a psycho!
Some days I'm even like "thank you God for this toast and boiled egg" instead of complaining I can't afford better food II try to be grateful for even the smallest things on my.worst days. So.e days I'm even like "thank you God I'm not paralyzed cause being able to move sure is great 👍" and like it was the worst day ever.
And to keep your emotional maturity, I believe a person should also surround himself with people of the same maturity. Coz sometimes things or feelings depend on the environment.
I was far from this ten years ago. I had taken up mindfulness, meditation, and studied NLP. It was not easy, but I believe I hold many of the character traits mentioned in the video. I still slide back, but the reversal back to my old life are fewer and farther from where I am today-those pesky limiting beliefs.
Thank you Brainy Dose for making this useful video! Which presents a great vision for find the best way to make the life move forward....God bless you!
🙃 wel hello...🌞 Abouth Mine reaction... on ure text ...wel... this is it;... 😶😳😲😯😮😲😳 ...ure stil faster then me thoug🤔 ....💛🤭😁😂🤣💛... ✨That was all ✨😅 Bye bye 👋
Great advice for "normal" people, terrible for "freaks". Especially the "be open, be yourself". No better way to alienate everyone around you. Trust me I know what I am writing about.
I started to give your comment a "thumbs down!" Then I reconsidered and decided you are probably right - better for certain people to NOT let it all hang out!
@@jessicacallender Yes!!! It irks me to no end when I keep meeting people much older than me, with the emotional maturity of a teenager. And unfortunately it seems to be a massive amount of people, hence the name the masses. Emotionally mature people are a rarity, unfortunately.
Emotionally mature people give honesty to others for help.they have a tremendous resilience inside them, especially when they are self aware ,they are also humble and observing the other person with deep love!! These "tools" are precious values to work on them and use them for supporting other humans!!
I believe, common sense is required for all these 15 signs. Patience and honesty is required in every step of our life. However, reality ( situation, people, place and time)has to be taken into consideration. I won't waste my time for people who are unable to change their toxic behaviours or ways.
I’ve had and can still have these traits, however, I do believe life circumstances can alter some of these and as your mental health can go down hill these traits will take a hit.
I need to work on self acceptance and flexibility, I’m always busy and running because I have an emptiness inside me so I’m always trying to fill it with something to do
I had that disease too . I started to talk to myself, like it is OK just to rest, or read or anything I feel like. Even nothing. I stopped wondering what others do.... others are not me. I made it to perfection. ☺ also I fell for exercise, nothing fills me up with happy hormones like the gym. Go inside to that emptiness, find your inner child, talk to him. It changes you in time . Good luck.
What does one do when one faces an indifferent world that frowns upon these qualities with jealousy and prejudice, hate. Like one Philosopher said. You have to deal with stupid relatives and social encounters that seek their own personal gain and ego satisfaction. Its hard when one is a GENIUS.
I can absolutely relate, especially when you speak with truth and conviction. I am also an Empath as well as an Introvert and Extrovert. I am of no religion but I am Highly Spiritual. I am grounded in my core Beliefs, Morales and Ethics. I feel hated and sometimes cursed because I can NOT and will NOT turn away from wrongs, injustices, double-standards, lies, bullying, abuse, corruption and the fact that I will call it out on what I see, and THEY try to turn it into a hate thing or start a rumor etc etc. I watch many videos here on UA-cam on stuff just like this, and I am glad that I am not alone! 😌
@@Nonameforyou777 looks like we are on the same page. I won't give up my integrity either. Not even for a family member. One has to be true to oneself. When one finds spirituality, one can lose certain friends and family members. So be it. Its a higer order of thinking and transcendence. Your right in what you say.
Hi there on the other side 🌞 Thanks for sharing and caring. Now i love my inerchild even more. And i adore my whole childich adult self thx 🎶😁✨ hope u are all have a wonderfull and beautyfull Day 🌞 ✨💛 frome ✨ Gigi 💛✨
LOL, OH NO! Being good to others , being kind , generous and caring only gets you thought of with suspicion! People tend to move away from you! I have found being this way is looked at as toxic! Having observed others who are complete assholes disregarding plans and feelings as being the ones sought after for friendships. Odd, but true.
Friends in an Apartment building is a neighbor for favors to Look for a friendly free helping hand. Moving OUT cleaning & PACKING Household items & taping boxes. Apartment SHALLOW Assistant neighbor companion(s). Is NOT A REAL FRIEND. Right? It is just for civilized convenience. & perhaps tolerance. IMPARTIALITY. OR Partiality? Not really FRIENDS. Friends require TIME & effort over days & months & years through many experiences RESPECTED. MUTUAL RESPECT. EMPATHY for each others physical conditions GOOD & NOT SO GOOD Issues. We are ONLY HUMAN. HUMANS ERROR. Not always perfectly. Or maturely. Let downs of eager anticipation. One is TIME IMPAIRED. Forever late. (For ever LATE 😖😩😞👎 means neighbor LOSSES) Shallow friends or acquaintances???? Can someone Explain??????
As long as ur still breathing and ur heart is still beating,. You CAN change of course to a better person. Dont give up. We are all in the same boat but the smart one who decide to change. Good luck
So would my focus only on me be considered Immature. I mean I don’t think im superior to anyone else and I will help depending if it’s part of the job our if there is something in it for me in return. My family says that I lack empathy sometimes but I don’t lack it per say I just more our so avoid any sort of feeling of compassion towards other people because I don’t want any sort of attachments to them.
“Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that’s the one that is going to help you grow.”
--Caroline Myss
I'm scared of dating Scarlet Johansen, I guess I gotta go with that choice. To help me grow.
Be careful, though, especially if your significant other is a narcissist! Yes, if you're superstring, you will grow, but the pain (emotional, spiritual, and mental) can be unbearable. It's like overdosing - taking a dozen pills when your doctor prescribed one. It's self-defeating. Some people won't be able to hang from the thorns long enough to learn much!
thank u
“Maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses, and start making changes.”
― Roy T. Bennett
Could not agree more
I have to work on stop complaining sometimes I don’t even know I’m doing it
Think Different - Thought Provoking Ideas you’re right.ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿☯️😎
True that. True that.
I believe complaining is a good sign for evaluating the situation so that we can take appropriate steps to eradicate either the problem or the situation.
*Maturity starts with the acceptance that one is not perfect and needs further growth.*
Every day
''Maturity isn't necessarily tied to age''
I've telling people this all the time and none paid me no mind because I'm a young teen😐
''Everything isn't just black and white, there's also the grey''
Facts.
Yeahhhh
As someone once said to me: "Relationships are not black and white, they are various shades of grey".
@@InTheNow2020 Can you explain to me what this means about relationships being series of shades of grey?🙂
I have most of these traits, I believe strongly that I am emotionally mature, although there is always room to grow, and I am willing to grow, especially where patience is concerned.
Emotional maturity is when some jerk annoys you but you don't react instead you respond on an adult level.
Yesterday!!!!
Pulled away, went to get gas... that I’ve been driving this person around for days... and no Offer of gas Money
Only to 5 minutes later
Receive a nasty text
How dare you leave me????
Huh???
Like my wife says pick up your towel after I take a shower. I just get up and pick it up and hang it up
I agree
It all begins and ends in your mind. What you give power to, has power over you, if you allow it.
Well done. This should be shown in schools. Including colleges. Also, in job training sessions.
Actually, it applies to Everyone.
As for empathy....it's an ability not everyone has and it can be a blessing or curse
Take the blame instead of pointing fingers. Acknowledge and accept your mistakes and move on. Think about the outcome of any action before carrying it out.
I discovered that if you take the blame, you have nothing else to fight about because it ends there!!!!! (:
Emotional Intelligence or EQ, is about choosing not to give into the whims of your ego and thereby giving your power away to another person, in any given situation. Maintaining a healthy balance in all aspects of life, as you determine and by living and staying present in the moment. To engage in the discovery and experience of the essence, of who you truly are. Peaceful and abundant living. now.
I may not be that mature but I so know that there are certain limits to certain emotions
3 years ago, I had maybe 1/4 of these traits. Then God put me on a spiritual journey that was painful but enlightening. Now I can confidently say I have all these traits. Not 100% of the time though...I am working on that still as life is a journey or making mistakes and learning from them.
Great share, really enjoyed that you mentioned gratitude too, as a part of maturing is definitely having the ability to identify those things that you can be grateful for and understanding the important role it plays on your mental health
Thank you Brainy dose for this video. You help me to change and improve myself a lot.🙂
Great information! Thank you!
I didn’t realize how at peace with life I currently am.
It can be difficult to notice things sometimes when you’re busy enjoying yourself with the fundamentals of existing.
I love this channel. It helped me understand myself and the people around me
Love it! Emotional quotient EQ, for sure! 👍👍👍
I'm all that accept for open mindedness. If it's wrong it's wrong. Love does no harm to others. That's maturity.
If it doesn't flow, let it go!
I've always been mature. I think I just have a old soul. I thank God for that gift!🙏 And all these are kinda a Libra thing too. (not all Libras but many).
Hey what a coincidence I’m a Libra🤪
It’s absent in some people today. Childish tantrums and instant gratification is the norm.
Oftentimes regardless of age, which is pathetic.
Do not underestimate social pressure not to be weird. Mature thinking people may seem strange to people who do not hold the same views.
Thumbs up !
Great sharing as usual !
Thank you, it mad my day so great.
I’ve always known I was mature but some people just don’t get me.
Be grateful when you have nothing and no one anyways basically. Cause at least you still have you.
this was a good one....you know whats crazy tho because lying is the norm these days ppl actually consider it to be a more mature thing and being honest as innocent and unaware
No. If lying has become the norm, then we are all doomed! Maybe you are too sensitive to others' judgements about you!? Plus, the "others" in your life sound like jerks. Ready to pounce at the slightest wrong move. There are NO wrong moves unless you're a psycho!
Lack of self control😶 is wht I need to improve
Some days I'm even like "thank you God for this toast and boiled egg" instead of complaining I can't afford better food II try to be grateful for even the smallest things on my.worst days. So.e days I'm even like "thank you God I'm not paralyzed cause being able to move sure is great 👍" and like it was the worst day ever.
Terrific insight!
Stay that way
Gratitude Heals Much
I know people who have Everything monetary wise
And they are Miserable 😞😞😞
And to keep your emotional maturity, I believe a person should also surround himself with people of the same maturity. Coz sometimes things or feelings depend on the environment.
I really like these traits 😇 it's amazing 👌
Thank you as always, Brainy dose❤️
I was far from this ten years ago. I had taken up mindfulness, meditation, and studied NLP. It was not easy, but I believe I hold many of the character traits mentioned in the video. I still slide back, but the reversal back to my old life are fewer and farther from where I am today-those pesky limiting beliefs.
Maturity is 🔑
Thank you Brainy Dose for making this useful video! Which presents a great vision for find the best way to make the life move forward....God bless you!
Awesome video and thanks for sharing 👍👍
Mature people loves The Creator, creation...allowing evolving fearlessly...
Thank you Brainy Dose
I am not first but i clicked as fast as my internet connection 😂
🙃 wel hello...🌞
Abouth Mine reaction...
on ure text ...wel... this is it;...
😶😳😲😯😮😲😳
...ure stil faster then me thoug🤔
....💛🤭😁😂🤣💛...
✨That was all ✨😅
Bye bye 👋
You seem emotionally immature .. jk 🥀
I also click it like 6G
Exactly 😂😂
Omg I did too wtf dude lmao 😆
I love this channel
I am there after a long journey!
Great advice for "normal" people, terrible for "freaks". Especially the "be open, be yourself". No better way to alienate everyone around you. Trust me I know what I am writing about.
I started to give your comment a "thumbs down!" Then I reconsidered and decided you are probably right - better for certain people to NOT let it all hang out!
Now the million-dollar question: Do you know what it feels like for a emotionally mature person to be surrounded by stupid people?
It's irritating as hell...especially when those people are older and or same age as you.. 😐
Jessica Callender Exactly.
@@jessicacallender Yes!!! It irks me to no end when I keep meeting people much older than me, with the emotional maturity of a teenager. And unfortunately it seems to be a massive amount of people, hence the name the masses. Emotionally mature people are a rarity, unfortunately.
It is horrible
If anyone thinks that people are stupid that person is not mature yet. Have a wonderful day whatever you do
Emotionally mature people give honesty to others for help.they have a tremendous resilience inside them, especially when they are self aware ,they are also humble and observing the other person with deep love!! These "tools" are precious values to work on them and use them for supporting other humans!!
I believe, common sense is required for all these 15 signs.
Patience and honesty is required in every step of our life. However, reality ( situation, people, place and time)has to be taken into consideration.
I won't waste my time for people who are unable to change their toxic behaviours or ways.
I’ve had and can still have these traits, however, I do believe life circumstances can alter some of these and as your mental health can go down hill these traits will take a hit.
Thanks for this brainy dose. 🙏🙏🙏You help me to change and improve a lot.
*Those who dislike the vid can't accept that they are still immature.*
Great video. One correction. Mature people view profanity as childish. I would have used another word rather than the “s” word in this video.
I need to work on self acceptance and flexibility, I’m always busy and running because I have an emptiness inside me so I’m always trying to fill it with something to do
I had that disease too . I started to talk to myself, like it is OK just to rest, or read or anything I feel like. Even nothing. I stopped wondering what others do.... others are not me. I made it to perfection. ☺ also I fell for exercise, nothing fills me up with happy hormones like the gym. Go inside to that emptiness, find your inner child, talk to him. It changes you in time . Good luck.
Never leap with out looking. Ur past protect ur future
his voice relaxes😩😩😩
I'm more matured than I thought
High Emotional quotient required !
What does one do when one faces an indifferent world that frowns upon these qualities with jealousy and prejudice, hate. Like one Philosopher said. You have to deal with stupid relatives and social encounters that seek their own personal gain and ego satisfaction. Its hard when one is a GENIUS.
I can absolutely relate, especially when you speak with truth and conviction. I am also an Empath as well as an Introvert and Extrovert. I am of no religion but I am Highly Spiritual. I am grounded in my core Beliefs, Morales and Ethics. I feel hated and sometimes cursed because I can NOT and will NOT turn away from wrongs, injustices, double-standards, lies, bullying, abuse, corruption and the fact that I will call it out on what I see, and THEY try to turn it into a hate thing or start a rumor etc etc. I watch many videos here on UA-cam on stuff just like this, and I am glad that I am not alone! 😌
@@Nonameforyou777 looks like we are on the same page. I won't give up my integrity either. Not even for a family member. One has to be true to oneself. When one finds spirituality, one can lose certain friends and family members. So be it. Its a higer order of thinking and transcendence. Your right in what you say.
Almost everything suits me 🤩
I have had a long time to develop these skills but I think I still fail to identify with one or two of these .
Amazing information ❤️
Super .keep it up ur journey
Dislikes are from those who cannot relate even single sign
You are in your teen athletic mode, then you hit the family mode, then in retirement you hit a more spiritual mode. Seems to me.
I need to work on honesty
I'm a work in progress!
How many of you are subscribers of this channel?
Wow I'm mature at teenage
Me too ☺
@@nightmarehalloween1207 congrats.....
Woho first viewer I am 😄
I'm emotionally mature.
I can relate to all the above
😊 facts
Thanks
great video
Everybody will say they find all these traits in them. But honestly i find these traits in me 🤩
That's me!!!!
It all starts with you !!!
Great 💖
I like this guys voice ❤️
I have all 15 signs
Isn't putting your own interest first is important too as well? Just asking. 🤔
I have found my solution thanks
Makes me wonder how childish can you get, thank you! 🤔
Need to work on patience.
So very actually
Hi there on the other side 🌞
Thanks for sharing and caring.
Now i love my inerchild even more.
And i adore my whole childich adult self thx 🎶😁✨ hope u are all have a wonderfull and beautyfull Day 🌞
✨💛 frome ✨ Gigi 💛✨
Thanks 🙏💗
The first point is completely me.
LOL, OH NO! Being good to others , being kind , generous and caring only gets you thought of with suspicion! People tend to move away from you!
I have found being this way is looked at as toxic!
Having observed others who are complete assholes disregarding plans and feelings as being the ones sought after for friendships.
Odd, but true.
Identifying with almost all but not practicing them always... 😄
All of them
I am emotionally very mature☹️
What is necessary to change a person is to change his awareness of himself.
Friends in an Apartment building is a neighbor for favors to Look for a friendly free helping hand. Moving OUT cleaning & PACKING Household items & taping boxes. Apartment SHALLOW Assistant neighbor companion(s). Is NOT A REAL FRIEND. Right? It is just for civilized convenience. & perhaps tolerance. IMPARTIALITY. OR Partiality? Not really FRIENDS. Friends require TIME & effort over days & months & years through many experiences RESPECTED. MUTUAL RESPECT. EMPATHY for each others physical conditions GOOD & NOT SO GOOD Issues. We are ONLY HUMAN. HUMANS ERROR. Not always perfectly. Or maturely. Let downs of eager anticipation. One is TIME IMPAIRED. Forever late. (For ever LATE 😖😩😞👎 means neighbor LOSSES) Shallow friends or acquaintances???? Can someone Explain??????
Tell me how to move from 10years of numbness, fear of others, and distrust of my own decisions
As long as ur still breathing and ur heart is still beating,. You CAN change of course to a better person. Dont give up. We are all in the same boat but the smart one who decide to change. Good luck
Dont run from you emotions. Be present in them no matter how uncomftable. Do breathing exercises as youre doung this
Who is the boss now.
Im still confused where did they get those videos...
So would my focus only on me be considered Immature. I mean I don’t think im superior to anyone else and I will help depending if it’s part of the job our if there is something in it for me in return. My family says that I lack empathy sometimes but I don’t lack it per say I just more our so avoid any sort of feeling of compassion towards other people because I don’t want any sort of attachments to them.
🥺❤️
Your right. Very true and correct. ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿☯️😎
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