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Merriam Style I discovered you channel just a week ago and I really like your videos. I would love it if you could put together a set of little black dress images for each Kibbe type. It would be so useful to have a visual reference like this and clearly see the the difference in silhouette between different types.
AMAZING VIDEO IDEA: What if you did a video showing how more "Yin" body types (Romantics, Soft Gamine, Theatrical Romantics) can obtain edgier "dark" looks and how more "Yang" body types can obtain daintier "cute" looks without compromising their lines. Basically, what you did with Lolita/Soft Dramatic but expanded to different body types. Personally, as a Romantic I always disliked the stereotypical look. I enjoy edgier sophisticated styles.
I just have the exact question! I'm soft classic so I look better in minimal and symetric styles with slightly romantic (Ying) lines. I like the misterious and endgy kinda look too, but I don't know how to achive it.
Here's a question I ALWAYS think about when I watch Kibbe videos: why do celebrities so often wear the "wrong" lines or styles that don't flatter their body types, when they have professional stylists who are supposed to be experts? Why do so many stylists make these mistakes and misguide these celebrities? (Not that they don't ever pick out their outfits themselves, but they're usually guided by people who manage their public image!)
Watch the TV episode of "Adam Ruins Everything." You will have your answer. (by TV episode, I mean "Adam Ruins TV" or some similar title) It's on Netflix.
@@Iden_Elihio_1999 I'm pretty sure I answered that in my comment, but in case you missed it, the show is called Adam Ruins Everything, and I believe the episode is called Adam Ruins TV or something similar.
Yay! Another Kibbe video! 🙌🙏👏 I love the Kibbe system! People started to tell me how beautiful I am and how young I look. I never felt beautiful before, but now I do! I threw away all other clothes now 😀 I can't believe I dressed for another body type my whole life! 😓
I can relate so much !!! Same here I am exploring this sys and trying to find my body type and finally throw my current wardrobe that looks so bad on me but I nvr knew why even though I liked all the pieces
When I first did the kibbe test on Aly’s Channel, I thought I was Theatrical Romantic but your videos made me doubt that result. Your emphasis on the bone structure and not on the individual features made me reconsider the results of the test. I took the test again and one more time seems leaning towards theatrical romantic or classic but I was not still convinced. I focused on going to a store and try different outfits. I also observed that my hands and feet are large, sharp compared to my body and my shoulders are blunt and wider than my hips so I thought soft natural?... I am 5’ 2” but I realize that I was made to be taller (I was a very sick child and that may have affected my growth). I tried Soft Natural lines and EUREKA!...I look so much more sophisticated!. I like to mix theatrical romantic lines (because I have some curves) but now I know that if I pair them with soft natural lines, I look more put together. You’re awesome, Merriam!💞
My best friend is in the same boat as you and she too was confused for a long time...she’s 5’2 with longer arms, slightly broad squarish hands and feet, medium to large bone structure for her height. She’s very pear shaped though, wide and fleshy on the waist, hips and thighs, not very fleshy elsewhere but she has pretty good muscle tone. Narrower shoulders. Due to her narrower shoulders and pear shape, she thought she was romantic at first, but those lines looked frumpy on her. Waist emphasis with belts only cut her in half and made her look wider. Then she tried Soft Natural, and looks really great with softer waist emphasis and slightly elongated lines, some drape and flow. I think the width of the frame (whether the width is coming from shoulders or hips) is important to consider.
Could you please do more videos on breaking Kibbe’s rules? You have done one on dramatic and soft dramatic some time ago and I thought the topic was so interesting! I would love to see you extend it and include the rest of the body types as well.
I like what you are saying about how things look on you. Flamboyant natural models wear these loose, "relaxed" shirts. When I, as a Theatrical Romantic, put on such a shirt, it can look not "relaxed," but "poofy!"
Elektra you know, as a SN certain relaxed shirts look bad, and some look perfect. You may want to try different fabrics, sizes and neck lines to be sure.
Id love to see a Lolita style for all the body types video one day!! As a flamboyant gamine I always felt like the dresses looked a little awkward on me but I don’t know why .-.
I feel like a cute tomboy lolita style would look great on a gamine. Like a kind of old fashioned overalls with chocolate and cookies design with high socks etc and maybe a little cap would look so cute
I'm flamboyant gamine and all my best coords make me look cute but imposing. I've seen online where flamboyant gamines are described like miniature dramatics and it's never more evident than when I wear lolita coords that suit me.
That was a great video as usual! A clear demonstration of what works and what does not. Other subscribers already mentioned that since the examples are typically of fancy clothes on the red carpet. The reason for this is obvious - these are celebrities, they are constantly under a "photo attack" and it helps to look for the same person in different outfits rather than search thousands of stock photos and not find the same person twice. Yet, I would be interested in a specialization series for a casual style and a business look. I wonder if looking at the outfits of famous politicians might help with the latter, for example.
It’s amazing how you explain things. It’s all about expressing ourselves and not “just clothing”. That’s self awareness, it helps people. You’re awesome!!
Merriam, I so appreciate how clearly you are able to articulate these complex ideas! Your generous use of visual examples (especially seeing the same woman both in and out of her own lines) and the way you implement metaphors - both extremely helpful. Please never stop making fashion content for us! And thank you!
Hi Merriam! If you'd make a video about interesting outfits for a classic Kibbe type, that would be great! As a classic, I really struggle with finding clothes that not only fit my body, but also don't resemble 'typical teacher's style'. I'm 24, tall, quite slim and feel a bit dissapointed with classic outfit options that I find...like is there really nothing more interesting? Thank you for your videos, it's always a pleasure listening to you :)
Search on pinterest for Kibbe classic-you’ll find some really inspiring boards with lots of casual styles. This has really helped pick and choose classic (I’m a soft) styles more authoritatively when shopping.
Loved the video presentation. The visual was very helpful and I would enjoy more content so specific. There is a comment on yin types appearing more yang. That would be a great subject to address.
Merriam: comparing the ladies trying other types dresses Me: um, they still look pretty elegant and pulled it off really well though... Merriam: compiles all the 5 ladies in the wrong type dresses in the same row Me: *Oh........* 👀
My daughter and I just went through this exercise and we exchanged SO MANY pieces that looked good on the other. I think sometimes we get bored of our usual styles and try others and that’s where the mistake lies. Kibbe has helped us revamp our wardrobe so so much
Dresses like this one, that has some SN lines and still follow the aesthetic, would look nice: m.milanoo.jp/product/classic-lolita-dress-jsk-antique-clock-printed-chiffon-ruffled-bow-layered-lolita-jumper-skirt-p630579.html
Sometimes i feel like the classic/ SC / DC must have serious looks and can't wear more fun or casual ones. I am soft classic, and I love gamine lines and clothing. How can I incorporate it without look like I'm wearing the wrong lines/size?
@@astonish_injurer5598 You can't judge her body type based on a facial picture alone, Merriam has a video about it. She's probably a Soft Classic who likes the style and lines of Gamine. I'm a Natural and I like the style and lines of Soft Natural and Romantic.
WOW :D In another video, I've seen how a Soft Classic can look more "fun". But I've never seen how a SC can look less "chic and elegant" and more boho, free spirit. I wonder how you would style that...
Dramatic: unconstructed Soft Natural: light weight fabric draping Dramatic classi Minimal detail sharpness Soft gamine: small gathered high neckline tailored cuffs waist emphasis Theatrical romantic minimalist waist emphasis glamorous hair round edges Switching ?? High neckline small ruffles tighter sleeves work better for soft gamine than dramatic Neat hair geometric dress looks better on dramatic classic than soft natural Draping looks better on soft natural than dramatic classic Glamarous hair round edges look better on theatric romantic than soft gamine Draping and relaxed hair looks better on sift natural than theatrical romantic Same dress look different on different body types Dramatic lolita : details oversized and rounded
It would be amazing if you could do anything about flamboyant natural, it's so hard to find anything about them as it seems to be a very uncommon bodytype! :))
What are your thoughts on separating a bit face and body? For example, you wear clothes per your body type, and hair/make up more according to your facial structure?
I wonder if a style like Atelier Boz would look like on a dramatic? The shapes are so big and defined. Or Aterlier Pierrot style for Soft dramatic. Or Sheglit. Innocent world style has big shapes as well. Sometimes prints are more graphic so that could compliment a dramatic yang bone structure. It would be nice if someone made a kibbe video or post with photo references. Don't forget about shoes. They can be almost pointy like victorian style boots, be round like tea parties, or almond shaped that are round but taper a little at the toe.
6:47 Rihanna looks visually stunning in TR lines (her body), but the dress looks restrictive and uncomfortable on her, like it doesn’t complement her spunky personality or her high energy presence. The SN/N/FN style may look a wee bit oversized but it suits her personality I feel, shows off her long legs, hair looks great...and she looks happy, vibrant and free compared to the pic in TR outfit (where she looks uncomfortable...also the pale colors of the dress and make-up look wrong on her...much too restrained and too soft). Wonder if I’m the only one who thinks this.
Sub question: I’m a flamboyant gamine but I’m not really into young cutesy or tomboyish looks. Im much more interested in womanly, sexier, over the top, more romantic and feminine style. How can I wear what I enjoy AND dress for my body type? Thanks in Advance
I'm thinking of Audrey Hepburn's famous Breakfast at Tiffany's wardrobe (over the top, glamorous, feminine), and it has a lot of flamboyant gamine elements. The high necklines, made even higher with oversized necklaces that sat tight on the throat up. Dramaticly oversized sunglasses and hats. Oversized geometric earrings. Her orange coat visually cut her arms halfway between wrist and elbow, and formed a geometric rather than long or curvy line, but she had a tight dress under it, it looked very glam. All her dresses sort of cut her arms off at the shoulder so there wasn't a flowing neck-shoulder line but clearly delineated body parts. Even her dress made of a bedsheet cuts a geometric figure and is relatively high-necked for a one-shoulder situation. Bright rich colors like the orange coat and pink party dress. Cigarette pants with a big fluffy sweatshirt as a casual look, and tiny cropped fringe. Her big updos were essentially large geometric shapes with awkward little baby fringe. Seems like these ideas could travel into modern fashion without being quite so prim as Audrey (even though she was playing a call girl, but whatever). This may be the first time anyone has compared Kelly Osborne with Audrey Hepburn in any way but... she does a lot of the same things with her clothes in more modern ways.
St. Rhinocéros Thanks I love these tips! I tend to fake a waist with very large oversized unique belts. I also enjoy wearing form fitting mini or midi dresses with very long coats and jackets to break things up a bit and I never say no to bright colors 🤗 Now I’m definitely going to purchase some chunky necklaces and capes so I can use these tips. Unfortunately as much as I love oversized sunglasses they always just look too overwhelming on me. Thanks again for the ideas ❤️
I love tailored (not super short) shorts in a heavier fabric for an elegant or classy look for FG. I wear them in a slightly lighter weight fabric in the summer and in tweed/leather in the winter with wool or patterned black tights and ankle booties and a knee length coat. I definitely agree with looking at Audrey Hepburn’s photos. I also like mixing textures and patterns in an outfit and keeping the outfit monochrome/tonal for a more elegant but feminine look. Also, having the top and shoes be slightly more chunky/oversized (not FN oversized, just very slightly slouchy) and then the bottom be more fitted or the inverse (top and shoes more fitted, bottom slightly oversized or flowy) will make the outfit more modern and elegant. Natural fabrics and higher quality fabric will drape better so it is less likely to come across as cutesy. Make sure your clothes are tailored to you but not tight or uncomfortable, I buy most of my clothes used and then spend money on tailoring to make sure they fit well. Audrey Coyne and Dearly Bethany on UA-cam are both gamines I think and they’re both super feminine and elegant.
Thank you so much for the video, it was amazing! One question: I still don’t know if I am soft classic or soft natural. Could you make a video showing the differences? Thank you and keep on with the great work!
Be Trixy Sameeee. Some people told me I might be a Soft Classic a while ago, but I personally think I'm a Soft Natural. But there are times when I'm unsure of it myself. 😂
kaidawisteria yes exactly! It’s really difficult to tell the difference between these two types...Sometimes I think I am one or the other. Also I have the impression that the clothes suggested in Pinterest for soft classics tend to be a bit old fashioned and I cannot find good examples for soft classics which are more modern. For soft naturals there are better examples in Pinterest because the casual looks are more trendy and go well with the natural family. So it’s difficult to compare these two types as I don’t find good examples for soft classics.
Do you consider Hilary duff and Kat Dennings soft natural or romantic? They both look very womanly and have lush body. But they also look slightly wide and not too delicate.
I would love to see you expand to a series on alternative style with Kibbe types. As an example I personally wear Retro 40's and 50's Styles and would love to see how I could best compliment my lines (I think I am Soft Dramatic) while maintaining my vintage style. But expanding on Lolita and looking at styles like Goth, Punk etc. would also be of interest. I understand that if you "know your lines" you should be able to do this on your own, but it is nice to see examples and an outside perspective.
Great video. I was watching a John Kitchener video about Romantics and also Subtle Blend (I think). I was totally intrigued. I think those 2 combined suit my eclectic personality. Yes, I have a lot of clothes and not minimalist at all, ha! ha!. I was wondering if you are aware of that and if you can do a video on that topic. Thanking you in advance.
I'm finding it hard to connect my kibbe (romantic) with my essence or style which is natural (natural colors, minimalist clothing with natural sometimes tribal essence colorful jewelry and I don't look good with scarves. I have a short neck and very full bust. I love Jean's and tshirts and don't like heels, so it's hard to look dainty like a romantic especially now that I'm older and not as slim. It's hard to find cropped pants these days that tapper around my calves or ankles without being to wide...making my already extra skinny calves and ankles look ridiculous next to my full thighs.
I'm a dramatic with a few elements of natural. Why are belts never recommended? Only if I wear a long top over a long skirt, I usually belt the outfit, to give a bit more finished look..especially now that fall's here. Looks great under a jacket. What do you think?
The main problem with lolita fashion on western bodies is not kibbe type, it's that the clothes are made for 5'1" bodies with smaller breasts and in general just very thin and the dresses are one-size-fits-all, no sizes. I speak from experience as a 5'7" soft dramatic that the clothes are just too short and the bodices don't have much curve to them and in the west we are on average much larger of frame than the japanese market for which they are made. When you compared the two white girls (the second set of pics), the one on the right that was "better" is just thinner and shorter so the dress fits. I know the exact dress she is wearing from Angelic Pretty and for it to fit her like that she isn't very tall. She also doesn't have big boobs so she doesn't turn the bodice into "boob loaf" as we in lolita community call it when your boobs fill up a whole bodice in an awkward way because it was cut too flat for your shape. I appreciate what you did here but there aren't that many companies that make lolita dresses and you can't just go get a soft-dramatic friendly one. The dresses also only come in one size so you can't pick the size. Basically we all know we don't look fabulous but we wear it for ourselves, not for if we objectively look our best. Every single girl you said looks better is just shorter. Especially the japanese girls, they have strict model standards and none of them are taller than 5'3"
Jade Sham more separates tops and pants. If you still want to work the romantic angle, pants and jeans should be fitted and high-waisted and tops should be fitted. Replace the fitted tops for tucked in tees and sneakers. As a Romantic (with ingenue/gamine or the youthful/high-spirited aspects), wearing a tee with something seen as masculine ( menswear color or comic-book related) gives me a tomboy look with jeans. It also gets me mistaken for being much younger than I am! Baggy clothes also makes you look boyish. Be careful with this though. Too baggy could make you look like a slob
Ooh ooh I want to try! If I were to imagine a generic T-shirt, jeans, sneakers and ponytail look (which seems "tomboy" to me, I guess), here's how I would alter it to flatter a romantic: open the neckline of the T-shirt to be more rounded and crop it (or messily tuck it) to high natural waist level. Make the material either thin and flowy cotton such as worn vintage tees, or thick and stretchy (not skin-tight but closely fitted). Some sort of tie-dye or ombre could soften the look without making it specifically feminine-soft. Sleeves closer to cap length, elbow or 3/4 to be proportional to small romantic skeleton. Jeans high-waisted, cropped or cuffed high on the ankle. You could do one of those retro 50s dungarees looks, cuffed boyfriend style as long as it doesn't sit lower on the hips, mom jeans. Sneakers not super ginormous. But maybe with a thicker sole for height. Or go for keds type thin sneakers that are closer to ballerina flats in proportion. Ponytail not neat and slicked back, but rather so baby hairs make a halo or do a messy bun so the hair is soft around the face. Or whatever the analogous look would be for your hair. Also fitted shorter blazer type jackets. Blazers forever! You could do an edgy leather jacket but it would need to end higher up so it hits at or slightly above your natural waist. Otherwise it'll drag you down.
@@cianap.281 That was great advice!!! I like the ponytail suggestion; @Jade Sham look up 60s hairstyles. The ponytails are curled or given volume. Some styles even have bangs and are so cute!!
Merriam, I absolutely love your videos, and I think your amazing! I also have a question for you. I'm a romantic, i'm short, rounded, tiny shoulders, wider bones, short arms and legs, very delicate facial features, etc. But my style is very very different from the romantic lines that David Kibbe recomends, even though I "technically" might look my best in them, it's just not me. I like long draped clothing, long shapeless dresses, long wide pants, big sweaters, sharp edges, etc- kind of the opposite of the romantic lines. My style icons are Liv Tyler (natural) and Emma Stone (classic), I love their kind of relaxed, chic look. And in my own opinion, I look kind of good in that type of clothing (natural/soft natural lines). But i'm not sure... So I guess my question is; how do I wear/can I wear for example more natural lines as a romantic? How can I incorporate that type of style, without looking like i'm wearing... a bag and while still looking good? Because sometimes I feel like it looks good, but the kibbe-system is telling me different. Lots of love, Miranda
I clicked because I am into lolita style and I am annoyed by the woman asking about her daughter... Geez, she should mind her own business. By the way, I appreciate your intention drawing those pictures, but they don't quite fit into the lolita style. However, I liked your analysis about those girls you showed. You should join the daily lolita groups in social media so you could get real examples of actual outfits instead of just googling them, because those outfits you shared weren't the best. I think I am a soft classic and even though I didn't know the kibbe types until the last few months, I unconsciously mixed some elements of my kibbe type with my personal aesthetic while wearing lolita. I just know what suits me and what doesn't. Thanks for youe analysis!
you should watch my video called 'break kibbe's rules' (which isn't a good title!) but it's about how dramatic and soft dramatic can wear different lines to achieve a different look.
Astonish_Injurer ok, cool. I see. But any way “Mani” means hands and “cure” means care... so originally the literal meaning is “care for hands” as well as pedicure is “care for feet”, ...:))
I don't think she's a dramatic classic, either. She has a very different vibe from the icons of this type, such as Jackie O, Sela Ward, Demi Moore, Marcia Cross, Kristin Scott, etc. Nina doesn't look good in very unconstructed garments - I agree - but she does look good in layering, soft cardigans, floppy hats and long, flowy waves which are probably the worst possible hairstyle for a DC. In my opinion, she has too much yin to be a dramatic classic.
I disagree on Lea. That dress and hairstyle looks terrible. She looked much better in the flouncy dress. I think some of this is preference though we’d like to think it’s totally science.
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Merriam Style I discovered you channel just a week ago and I really like your videos. I would love it if you could put together a set of little black dress images for each Kibbe type. It would be so useful to have a visual reference like this and clearly see the the difference in silhouette between different types.
AMAZING VIDEO IDEA: What if you did a video showing how more "Yin" body types (Romantics, Soft Gamine, Theatrical Romantics) can obtain edgier "dark" looks and how more "Yang" body types can obtain daintier "cute" looks without compromising their lines. Basically, what you did with Lolita/Soft Dramatic but expanded to different body types. Personally, as a Romantic I always disliked the stereotypical look. I enjoy edgier sophisticated styles.
I just have the exact question! I'm soft classic so I look better in minimal and symetric styles with slightly romantic (Ying) lines. I like the misterious and endgy kinda look too, but I don't know how to achive it.
If you watch her Rachel McAdams video she says soft gamine on theatrical romantics makes them look a lil edgier.
yyES, I want to cheat my style. Not a big fan of frills :|
Here's a question I ALWAYS think about when I watch Kibbe videos: why do celebrities so often wear the "wrong" lines or styles that don't flatter their body types, when they have professional stylists who are supposed to be experts? Why do so many stylists make these mistakes and misguide these celebrities? (Not that they don't ever pick out their outfits themselves, but they're usually guided by people who manage their public image!)
Watch the TV episode of "Adam Ruins Everything." You will have your answer. (by TV episode, I mean "Adam Ruins TV" or some similar title) It's on Netflix.
@@shireads2954 Which episode ?
@@Iden_Elihio_1999 I'm pretty sure I answered that in my comment, but in case you missed it, the show is called Adam Ruins Everything, and I believe the episode is called Adam Ruins TV or something similar.
@@shireads2954 Oh sorry in my head I thought you said the show was called , " Adam Ruins T.V" thanks ......
@@Iden_Elihio_1999 No problem. Enjoy the show!
I love your voice. It lowers my anxiety so much
I feel you, i have social anxiety and panic attacks and low calm voices makes me feel safe, try listening to rain drops videos on UA-cam.
@@emptyworldhere3891 Oh yeah. RAGING social anxiety over here. All my friends are anonymous on youtube. XD
Yay! Another Kibbe video! 🙌🙏👏 I love the Kibbe system! People started to tell me how beautiful I am and how young I look. I never felt beautiful before, but now I do! I threw away all other clothes now 😀 I can't believe I dressed for another body type my whole life! 😓
Laetitia Lalila Aww I love this comment 💗
I can relate so much !!! Same here I am exploring this sys and trying to find my body type and finally throw my current wardrobe that looks so bad on me but I nvr knew why even though I liked all the pieces
When I first did the kibbe test on Aly’s Channel, I thought I was Theatrical Romantic but your videos made me doubt that result. Your emphasis on the bone structure and not on the individual features made me reconsider the results of the test. I took the test again and one more time seems leaning towards theatrical romantic or classic but I was not still convinced. I focused on going to a store and try different outfits. I also observed that my hands and feet are large, sharp compared to my body and my shoulders are blunt and wider than my hips so I thought soft natural?... I am 5’ 2” but I realize that I was made to be taller (I was a very sick child and that may have affected my growth). I tried Soft Natural lines and EUREKA!...I look so much more sophisticated!. I like to mix theatrical romantic lines (because I have some curves) but now I know that if I pair them with soft natural lines, I look more put together. You’re awesome, Merriam!💞
My best friend is in the same boat as you and she too was confused for a long time...she’s 5’2 with longer arms, slightly broad squarish hands and feet, medium to large bone structure for her height. She’s very pear shaped though, wide and fleshy on the waist, hips and thighs, not very fleshy elsewhere but she has pretty good muscle tone. Narrower shoulders. Due to her narrower shoulders and pear shape, she thought she was romantic at first, but those lines looked frumpy on her. Waist emphasis with belts only cut her in half and made her look wider. Then she tried Soft Natural, and looks really great with softer waist emphasis and slightly elongated lines, some drape and flow. I think the width of the frame (whether the width is coming from shoulders or hips) is important to consider.
Could you please do more videos on breaking Kibbe’s rules? You have done one on dramatic and soft dramatic some time ago and I thought the topic was so interesting! I would love to see you extend it and include the rest of the body types as well.
I'd love to see boho looks for each body type, as well as an athleisure look. Keep up the good work!
I like what you are saying about how things look on you. Flamboyant natural models wear these loose, "relaxed" shirts. When I, as a Theatrical Romantic, put on such a shirt, it can look not "relaxed," but "poofy!"
I feel the same. Natural clothes can look so disheveled on us
That’s how I discovered I was theatrical romantic and not soft natural, relaxed shirts and sweaters looks awful on me. I look like a poofy square.
Elektra you know, as a SN certain relaxed shirts look bad, and some look perfect. You may want to try different fabrics, sizes and neck lines to be sure.
Id love to see a Lolita style for all the body types video one day!! As a flamboyant gamine I always felt like the dresses looked a little awkward on me but I don’t know why .-.
Flamboyant gamine is basically combining opposites
I feel like a cute tomboy lolita style would look great on a gamine. Like a kind of old fashioned overalls with chocolate and cookies design with high socks etc and maybe a little cap would look so cute
I'm flamboyant gamine and all my best coords make me look cute but imposing. I've seen online where flamboyant gamines are described like miniature dramatics and it's never more evident than when I wear lolita coords that suit me.
That was a great video as usual! A clear demonstration of what works and what does not.
Other subscribers already mentioned that since the examples are typically of fancy clothes on the red carpet. The reason for this is obvious - these are celebrities, they are constantly under a "photo attack" and it helps to look for the same person in different outfits rather than search thousands of stock photos and not find the same person twice. Yet, I would be interested in a specialization series for a casual style and a business look. I wonder if looking at the outfits of famous politicians might help with the latter, for example.
Most actors play rolls that usually don't attend red carpet events all the time. One could look for those pictures instead.
It’s amazing how you explain things. It’s all about expressing ourselves and not “just clothing”. That’s self awareness, it helps people. You’re awesome!!
Merriam, I so appreciate how clearly you are able to articulate these complex ideas! Your generous use of visual examples (especially seeing the same woman both in and out of her own lines) and the way you implement metaphors - both extremely helpful. Please never stop making fashion content for us! And thank you!
Hi Merriam! If you'd make a video about interesting outfits for a classic Kibbe type, that would be great! As a classic, I really struggle with finding clothes that not only fit my body, but also don't resemble 'typical teacher's style'. I'm 24, tall, quite slim and feel a bit dissapointed with classic outfit options that I find...like is there really nothing more interesting? Thank you for your videos, it's always a pleasure listening to you :)
Search on pinterest for Kibbe classic-you’ll find some really inspiring boards with lots of casual styles. This has really helped pick and choose classic (I’m a soft) styles more authoritatively when shopping.
Your presentation style on this interesting topic is great. Also, your illustrations are charming.
Loved the video presentation. The visual was very helpful and I would enjoy more content so specific. There is a comment on yin types appearing more yang. That would be a great subject to address.
Merriam: comparing the ladies trying other types dresses
Me: um, they still look pretty elegant and pulled it off really well though...
Merriam: compiles all the 5 ladies in the wrong type dresses in the same row
Me: *Oh........* 👀
Can you do a video on soft natural vs theatrical romantic
My daughter and I just went through this exercise and we exchanged SO MANY pieces that looked good on the other. I think sometimes we get bored of our usual styles and try others and that’s where the mistake lies. Kibbe has helped us revamp our wardrobe so so much
My question! Thank you so much for this video. Well done with the five women in their elegant gowns as well!
How can a classic break the kibbe rules?
oh yes!
Wow, now I'm wondering how Soft Naturals can wear the lolita style! It's interesting, hehe.
Dresses like this one, that has some SN lines and still follow the aesthetic, would look nice: m.milanoo.jp/product/classic-lolita-dress-jsk-antique-clock-printed-chiffon-ruffled-bow-layered-lolita-jumper-skirt-p630579.html
Maybe more loose dresses, like oldschool babydoll cuts, that are more unconstructed.
@@RibasNath are you an angel? This is such a good lead and direction. Thank you for giving me light
Sometimes i feel like the classic/ SC / DC must have serious looks and can't wear more fun or casual ones. I am soft classic, and I love gamine lines and clothing. How can I incorporate it without look like I'm wearing the wrong lines/size?
Astonish_Injurer I agree. Which is why you might prefer famine style clothes^^
@@astonish_injurer5598 You can't judge her body type based on a facial picture alone, Merriam has a video about it. She's probably a Soft Classic who likes the style and lines of Gamine. I'm a Natural and I like the style and lines of Soft Natural and Romantic.
@@pamelavera2247 ^^^^
WOW :D
In another video, I've seen how a Soft Classic can look more "fun". But I've never seen how a SC can look less "chic and elegant" and more boho, free spirit. I wonder how you would style that...
Very instructive, yet non-judgmental. Thanks for all your work in making this fascinating video.
Pls do a video like this about Flamoyant natural 😍
Dramatic: unconstructed
Soft Natural: light weight fabric draping
Dramatic classi Minimal detail sharpness
Soft gamine: small gathered high neckline tailored cuffs waist emphasis
Theatrical romantic minimalist waist emphasis glamorous hair round edges
Switching ??
High neckline small ruffles tighter sleeves work better for soft gamine than dramatic
Neat hair geometric dress looks better on dramatic classic than soft natural
Draping looks better on soft natural than dramatic classic
Glamarous hair round edges look better on theatric romantic than soft gamine
Draping and relaxed hair looks better on sift natural than theatrical romantic
Same dress look different on different body types
Dramatic lolita : details oversized and rounded
Oh! I'm so happy you uploaded a video today. Love your channel so much
Aw thank you! I’ve been trying to be more consistent about uploading at least once per week!
Lolita style for ALL the bodytypes pleeasseeee
It would be amazing if you could do anything about flamboyant natural, it's so hard to find anything about them as it seems to be a very uncommon bodytype! :))
What are your thoughts on separating a bit face and body? For example, you wear clothes per your body type, and hair/make up more according to your facial structure?
I wonder if a style like Atelier Boz would look like on a dramatic? The shapes are so big and defined. Or Aterlier Pierrot style for Soft dramatic. Or Sheglit. Innocent world style has big shapes as well. Sometimes prints are more graphic so that could compliment a dramatic yang bone structure. It would be nice if someone made a kibbe video or post with photo references. Don't forget about shoes. They can be almost pointy like victorian style boots, be round like tea parties, or almond shaped that are round but taper a little at the toe.
6:47 Rihanna looks visually stunning in TR lines (her body), but the dress looks restrictive and uncomfortable on her, like it doesn’t complement her spunky personality or her high energy presence. The SN/N/FN style may look a wee bit oversized but it suits her personality I feel, shows off her long legs, hair looks great...and she looks happy, vibrant and free compared to the pic in TR outfit (where she looks uncomfortable...also the pale colors of the dress and make-up look wrong on her...much too restrained and too soft). Wonder if I’m the only one who thinks this.
Sub question:
I’m a flamboyant gamine but I’m not really into young cutesy or tomboyish looks. Im much more interested in womanly, sexier, over the top, more romantic and feminine style. How can I wear what I enjoy AND dress for my body type?
Thanks in Advance
Yes, same problem here!
I'm thinking of Audrey Hepburn's famous Breakfast at Tiffany's wardrobe (over the top, glamorous, feminine), and it has a lot of flamboyant gamine elements. The high necklines, made even higher with oversized necklaces that sat tight on the throat up. Dramaticly oversized sunglasses and hats. Oversized geometric earrings. Her orange coat visually cut her arms halfway between wrist and elbow, and formed a geometric rather than long or curvy line, but she had a tight dress under it, it looked very glam. All her dresses sort of cut her arms off at the shoulder so there wasn't a flowing neck-shoulder line but clearly delineated body parts. Even her dress made of a bedsheet cuts a geometric figure and is relatively high-necked for a one-shoulder situation. Bright rich colors like the orange coat and pink party dress. Cigarette pants with a big fluffy sweatshirt as a casual look, and tiny cropped fringe. Her big updos were essentially large geometric shapes with awkward little baby fringe. Seems like these ideas could travel into modern fashion without being quite so prim as Audrey (even though she was playing a call girl, but whatever). This may be the first time anyone has compared Kelly Osborne with Audrey Hepburn in any way but... she does a lot of the same things with her clothes in more modern ways.
St. Rhinocéros Thanks I love these tips! I tend to fake a waist with very large oversized unique belts. I also enjoy wearing form fitting mini or midi dresses with very long coats and jackets to break things up a bit and I never say no to bright colors 🤗 Now I’m definitely going to purchase some chunky necklaces and capes so I can use these tips. Unfortunately as much as I love oversized sunglasses they always just look too overwhelming on me. Thanks again for the ideas ❤️
@@fablulu13 Look at the body typing video of Zendaya on this channel or go to Aly Art on YT to find out about sexy looks for the body types.
I love tailored (not super short) shorts in a heavier fabric for an elegant or classy look for FG. I wear them in a slightly lighter weight fabric in the summer and in tweed/leather in the winter with wool or patterned black tights and ankle booties and a knee length coat. I definitely agree with looking at Audrey Hepburn’s photos. I also like mixing textures and patterns in an outfit and keeping the outfit monochrome/tonal for a more elegant but feminine look. Also, having the top and shoes be slightly more chunky/oversized (not FN oversized, just very slightly slouchy) and then the bottom be more fitted or the inverse (top and shoes more fitted, bottom slightly oversized or flowy) will make the outfit more modern and elegant.
Natural fabrics and higher quality fabric will drape better so it is less likely to come across as cutesy. Make sure your clothes are tailored to you but not tight or uncomfortable, I buy most of my clothes used and then spend money on tailoring to make sure they fit well.
Audrey Coyne and Dearly Bethany on UA-cam are both gamines I think and they’re both super feminine and elegant.
Thank you so much for the video, it was amazing! One question: I still don’t know if I am soft classic or soft natural. Could you make a video showing the differences? Thank you and keep on with the great work!
Be Trixy Sameeee. Some people told me I might be a Soft Classic a while ago, but I personally think I'm a Soft Natural. But there are times when I'm unsure of it myself. 😂
kaidawisteria yes exactly! It’s really difficult to tell the difference between these two types...Sometimes I think I am one or the other. Also I have the impression that the clothes suggested in Pinterest for soft classics tend to be a bit old fashioned and I cannot find good examples for soft classics which are more modern. For soft naturals there are better examples in Pinterest because the casual looks are more trendy and go well with the natural family. So it’s difficult to compare these two types as I don’t find good examples for soft classics.
Yes I love this! I'm SC and I'd hate for people to think that I'M plain just because I'm wearing something plain to suit my lines.
This is genius, very well explained
Do you consider Hilary duff and Kat Dennings soft natural or romantic? They both look very womanly and have lush body. But they also look slightly wide and not too delicate.
SidraM samee? Need to know
I think Hilary Duff might be a soft natural. Kat Dennings may be the same
I would love to see you expand to a series on alternative style with Kibbe types. As an example I personally wear Retro 40's and 50's Styles and would love to see how I could best compliment my lines (I think I am Soft Dramatic) while maintaining my vintage style. But expanding on Lolita and looking at styles like Goth, Punk etc. would also be of interest. I understand that if you "know your lines" you should be able to do this on your own, but it is nice to see examples and an outside perspective.
really helpful and illustrative
I love that you're telling those little stories😋
Great video. I was watching a John Kitchener video about Romantics and also Subtle Blend (I think). I was totally intrigued. I think those 2 combined suit my eclectic personality. Yes, I have a lot of clothes and not minimalist at all, ha! ha!. I was wondering if you are aware of that and if you can do a video on that topic. Thanking you in advance.
Can you do more same dress different people examples maybe all in one video and explain the different types? x
I'm finding it hard to connect my kibbe (romantic) with my essence or style which is natural (natural colors, minimalist clothing with natural sometimes tribal essence colorful jewelry and I don't look good with scarves. I have a short neck and very full bust. I love Jean's and tshirts and don't like heels, so it's hard to look dainty like a romantic especially now that I'm older and not as slim. It's hard to find cropped pants these days that tapper around my calves or ankles without being to wide...making my already extra skinny calves and ankles look ridiculous next to my full thighs.
I'm a dramatic with a few elements of natural. Why are belts never recommended? Only if I wear a long top over a long skirt, I usually belt the outfit, to give a bit more finished look..especially now that fall's here. Looks great under a jacket. What do you think?
I’m really late to reply and you probably got an answer ages ago lol, but it’s because it breaks the long vertical line
Thanks for the video. Could you please do another one about breaking Kibbe's rules.
My question: I'm having trouble deciding if I'm more Soft Classic or Dramatic Classic. What are some ways to tell the difference?
Great job as always!
The main problem with lolita fashion on western bodies is not kibbe type, it's that the clothes are made for 5'1" bodies with smaller breasts and in general just very thin and the dresses are one-size-fits-all, no sizes. I speak from experience as a 5'7" soft dramatic that the clothes are just too short and the bodices don't have much curve to them and in the west we are on average much larger of frame than the japanese market for which they are made. When you compared the two white girls (the second set of pics), the one on the right that was "better" is just thinner and shorter so the dress fits. I know the exact dress she is wearing from Angelic Pretty and for it to fit her like that she isn't very tall. She also doesn't have big boobs so she doesn't turn the bodice into "boob loaf" as we in lolita community call it when your boobs fill up a whole bodice in an awkward way because it was cut too flat for your shape. I appreciate what you did here but there aren't that many companies that make lolita dresses and you can't just go get a soft-dramatic friendly one. The dresses also only come in one size so you can't pick the size. Basically we all know we don't look fabulous but we wear it for ourselves, not for if we objectively look our best. Every single girl you said looks better is just shorter. Especially the japanese girls, they have strict model standards and none of them are taller than 5'3"
Subbie Question: How would Bright Spring/ Warm and Bright Color type wear white and black [uniform for work] and still look good? Thanks!!
06:52.... selina is TR ....so why does the dress looks so well on her?
I don't mean to sound rude, but what you drew is DEFINITELY not lolita. There are very specific rules to the style.
i have a question! how can a romantic dress more tomboy
Jade Sham more separates tops and pants. If you still want to work the romantic angle, pants and jeans should be fitted and high-waisted and tops should be fitted. Replace the fitted tops for tucked in tees and sneakers.
As a Romantic (with ingenue/gamine or the youthful/high-spirited aspects), wearing a tee with something seen as masculine ( menswear color or comic-book related) gives me a tomboy look with jeans. It also gets me mistaken for being much younger than I am! Baggy clothes also makes you look boyish. Be careful with this though. Too baggy could make you look like a slob
Ooh ooh I want to try! If I were to imagine a generic T-shirt, jeans, sneakers and ponytail look (which seems "tomboy" to me, I guess), here's how I would alter it to flatter a romantic: open the neckline of the T-shirt to be more rounded and crop it (or messily tuck it) to high natural waist level. Make the material either thin and flowy cotton such as worn vintage tees, or thick and stretchy (not skin-tight but closely fitted). Some sort of tie-dye or ombre could soften the look without making it specifically feminine-soft. Sleeves closer to cap length, elbow or 3/4 to be proportional to small romantic skeleton.
Jeans high-waisted, cropped or cuffed high on the ankle. You could do one of those retro 50s dungarees looks, cuffed boyfriend style as long as it doesn't sit lower on the hips, mom jeans.
Sneakers not super ginormous. But maybe with a thicker sole for height. Or go for keds type thin sneakers that are closer to ballerina flats in proportion.
Ponytail not neat and slicked back, but rather so baby hairs make a halo or do a messy bun so the hair is soft around the face. Or whatever the analogous look would be for your hair.
Also fitted shorter blazer type jackets. Blazers forever! You could do an edgy leather jacket but it would need to end higher up so it hits at or slightly above your natural waist. Otherwise it'll drag you down.
@@antiquebeast thank you so much!
@@cianap.281 that was really helpful! I love the shoes and leather jacket ideas! thank you
@@cianap.281 That was great advice!!! I like the ponytail suggestion; @Jade Sham look up 60s hairstyles. The ponytails are curled or given volume. Some styles even have bangs and are so cute!!
Merriam, I absolutely love your videos, and I think your amazing!
I also have a question for you. I'm a romantic, i'm short, rounded, tiny shoulders, wider bones, short arms and legs, very delicate facial features, etc. But my style is very very different from the romantic lines that David Kibbe recomends, even though I "technically" might look my best in them, it's just not me. I like long draped clothing, long shapeless dresses, long wide pants, big sweaters, sharp edges, etc- kind of the opposite of the romantic lines. My style icons are Liv Tyler (natural) and Emma Stone (classic), I love their kind of relaxed, chic look. And in my own opinion, I look kind of good in that type of clothing (natural/soft natural lines). But i'm not sure...
So I guess my question is; how do I wear/can I wear for example more natural lines as a romantic? How can I incorporate that type of style, without looking like i'm wearing... a bag and while still looking good? Because sometimes I feel like it looks good, but the kibbe-system is telling me different.
Lots of love,
Miranda
What is the name of this style of classification?
I clicked because I am into lolita style and I am annoyed by the woman asking about her daughter... Geez, she should mind her own business.
By the way, I appreciate your intention drawing those pictures, but they don't quite fit into the lolita style. However, I liked your analysis about those girls you showed. You should join the daily lolita groups in social media so you could get real examples of actual outfits instead of just googling them, because those outfits you shared weren't the best.
I think I am a soft classic and even though I didn't know the kibbe types until the last few months, I unconsciously mixed some elements of my kibbe type with my personal aesthetic while wearing lolita. I just know what suits me and what doesn't. Thanks for youe analysis!
You are so intelligent!
How can Dramatics do Romantic looks?
you should watch my video called 'break kibbe's rules' (which isn't a good title!) but it's about how dramatic and soft dramatic can wear different lines to achieve a different look.
clever
Really insightful!
I can’t tell if I am a soft gamine, a soft classic or a romantic. I got mostly Ds on the Kibbe test but there was no answer for that.
Answer d is Theatrical romantic
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I like this video, very helpful.
But just a detail - the word “manicured” - isn’t it used just for fingernails?
Astonish_Injurer
ok, cool. I see. But any way “Mani” means hands and “cure” means care... so originally the literal meaning is “care for hands” as well as pedicure is “care for feet”, ...:))
If Nina Dobrev is a dramatic classic... I'm not so sure that's my body type anymore 🤔🤔
I don't think she's a dramatic classic, either. She has a very different vibe from the icons of this type, such as Jackie O, Sela Ward, Demi Moore, Marcia Cross, Kristin Scott, etc. Nina doesn't look good in very unconstructed garments - I agree - but she does look good in layering, soft cardigans, floppy hats and long, flowy waves which are probably the worst possible hairstyle for a DC. In my opinion, she has too much yin to be a dramatic classic.
I used to think she was a theatrical romantic and then a flamboyant natural? I’m very confused too
at ua-cam.com/video/K6fZsnkI-5E/v-deo.html does it matter that the girl on the left is a painting with exaggerated features (namely her eyes)?
Selena is TR.
Lila Kebede and Selena Gomez looked great in their "wrong" looks. Liya Kebede especially. Is it possible she's actually flamboyant natural?
So if you are Dramatic you need to wear a bag. Great.
Not at all! You could watch my video on Liya Kebede who is a great dramatic style icon!!
I don't think Rihanna looks good in that first picture at all. I think she kind of looks ridiculous
She actually looks uncomfortable there.
Maybe because although those are her lines, it's not her fav style. Rihanna usually dresses more like a dramatic.
Sorry, but Leah's dress looks like a box! I don't like the blue dress,either...just doesn't look as if it could be flattering on anyone.
That pink dress with the boxy pink purse 👛 was not elegant. It was horrendous.
In wrong lines they looked like two first are men and three others looked like they just woke from a bed. ;D
I disagree on Lea. That dress and hairstyle looks terrible. She looked much better in the flouncy dress. I think some of this is preference though we’d like to think it’s totally science.