Who has ever been in a situation where you wanna get married but your parent want you to study first thinking you are young for marriage and only Allah knows how much you are suffering to fight fitnah
As a student of social dynamics its important to accept the fact that everyone has a sexual market value (SMV) and its differs greatly for men and women. Men put a lot of value on a womans beauty and youth whereas women will put a lot of value on a mans social status. Social status can consist of wealth, fame and power. A womans SMV peaks at 18-22 and from then it goes downhill, simply because she will never be as beautiful as she is at that age. Women also age faster than men. A mans SMV doesnt peak until hes in his mid 30's. This is when he's mature, in a stable job and often has a house and ticks all the right boxes. Women leaving it longer than 28 are really taking a huge risk. As a 35 year old why would i consider marrying a woman in her 30's when i can marry a girl in her early 20's? Yes islamically it's wrong but most often we go with our natural human instincts. The issue of a womans fertility also comes into play. Thanks to feminism, women today are encouraged to work hard and build a career, marriage can wait. By the time they've reached higher up the ladder they're in their 30's and seriously struggle. I know very pretty girls in their mid 30's who struggle to even get the attention of half decent guys. The only guys interested are those that want to pump n dump.
I personally wouldn’t marry a 25+ female because at that age all females biological clocks start ticking at that age and they start craving babies , so they’ll try to settle down really quick and act like the perfect wife knowing that isn’t her , her only goal is to achieve a baby! Once she has a kid or two she’ll stop acting like the perfect wife and become the person she was before ( like you said she’ll become set in her ways but she’ll change that temporarily for a child ) ultimately leading in divorce! I’ve seen this happen multiple times , even talked with some females in my family to attest to this ! Not saying this is the scenario 100% of the time but most scenarios that’s the case
Who has ever been in a situation where you wanna get married but your parent want you to study first thinking you are young for marriage and only Allah knows how much you are suffering to fight fitnah
Is this the brother who used to go by the name of dawah man?
As a student of social dynamics its important to accept the fact that everyone has a sexual market value (SMV) and its differs greatly for men and women. Men put a lot of value on a womans beauty and youth whereas women will put a lot of value on a mans social status. Social status can consist of wealth, fame and power.
A womans SMV peaks at 18-22 and from then it goes downhill, simply because she will never be as beautiful as she is at that age. Women also age faster than men. A mans SMV doesnt peak until hes in his mid 30's. This is when he's mature, in a stable job and often has a house and ticks all the right boxes.
Women leaving it longer than 28 are really taking a huge risk. As a 35 year old why would i consider marrying a woman in her 30's when i can marry a girl in her early 20's? Yes islamically it's wrong but most often we go with our natural human instincts. The issue of a womans fertility also comes into play.
Thanks to feminism, women today are encouraged to work hard and build a career, marriage can wait. By the time they've reached higher up the ladder they're in their 30's and seriously struggle. I know very pretty girls in their mid 30's who struggle to even get the attention of half decent guys. The only guys interested are those that want to pump n dump.
May Allaah bless us all. Aameen.
im not leaving it too late I haven't finished my education yet
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That video seems to be made for me 😍 jazakallah kheir
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I personally wouldn’t marry a 25+ female because at that age all females biological clocks start ticking at that age and they start craving babies , so they’ll try to settle down really quick and act like the perfect wife knowing that isn’t her , her only goal is to achieve a baby! Once she has a kid or two she’ll stop acting like the perfect wife and become the person she was before ( like you said she’ll become set in her ways but she’ll change that temporarily for a child ) ultimately leading in divorce! I’ve seen this happen multiple times , even talked with some females in my family to attest to this !
Not saying this is the scenario 100% of the time but most scenarios that’s the case
BarakAllahu feek
MashAlllah