10 Ways Women Emasculate men and TEST THEM (Dark Female Nature)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  Рік тому +47

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    • @Archangelmychel
      @Archangelmychel Рік тому +6

      You and me bro… I’ll never unhear every single thing you said in this post.
      It is done.

    • @luyolomify
      @luyolomify Рік тому +1

      What if you can’t level up success but you still manage to get them interested in you?

    • @voiceofreason1829
      @voiceofreason1829 Рік тому

      Will you do a hair transplant

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 Рік тому +1

      The advice in the video is all true but only within certain contexts. You're missing one big piece of the puzzle, as soon as they're are children involved, the balance switches and now she'll have the leverage over you. You won't be able to give her the same ultimatums.
      Most of your content is spot on but you should also discuss strategies for true relationships ie. wife/husband + kids. Most of your angle seems to be 'if you're with this/that woman for 3 or 6 months or 1 year' etc

    • @luyolomify
      @luyolomify Рік тому +1

      @@voiceofreason1829 that would be a BETA move.

  • @barkingtree88
    @barkingtree88 Рік тому +1275

    Even being alone in your own solitude with inner peace is better than playing these ridiculous games with clingy needy women.

    • @EmpoweredTravels
      @EmpoweredTravels Рік тому +101

      This is probably why I've spent a lot of time being single. I'm at the point where I enjoy my own company and the things I'm doing in life. So now, if they want to play this stuff with me, it doesn't break me because being alone doesn't bother me. They can either straighten up or kick rocks. I will be ok either way.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Рік тому +63

      But they aren't games. You draw the boundary, and walk away if she breaks it. Only a sincere apology re-opens the door. It's quite simple.

    • @Raj-cl7he
      @Raj-cl7he Рік тому +27

      It sounds like games but in all reality, women don't really think like this ,but what I can say is that they do feel like this . Cacey is very logical and makes female nature easier for men to digest. I can say not all women seekout to be this way its just how they are either from biological or enviormental. But I will say the ones who play master mind games are dictating masculine behavior and there the ones seeking power and control.but at the end of the day the way to keep a relationship as a man is to love yourself and set boundaries for yourself women will automatically will try to fit in your space .

    • @dondada6679
      @dondada6679 Рік тому +9

      Its no games to them. They're like this. Being a man is being strong too in different types of ways. Letting of reproduction is't a manly way

    • @pepepez6335
      @pepepez6335 Рік тому

      You know what's better than that? Being alone in your own solitude after you blow her back out

  • @mangoelvis1032
    @mangoelvis1032 Рік тому +720

    “Once a girl knows you will righteously leave, she will righteously stay”. RIP Patrice Oneal

    • @bigtreecombatacademy2927
      @bigtreecombatacademy2927 Рік тому +35

      Or constantly power struggle with u till u walk lol

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 Рік тому +22

      It is all about leverage. As soon as she tried to take it, the relationship is over.

    • @panama2468
      @panama2468 Рік тому

      The goat ua-cam.com/video/h2WEheovlUA/v-deo.htmlsi=JYJdOM33h7LkW0Xj

    • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
      @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT Рік тому +36

      Having power means always having the capacity to walk away when you are being disrespected and exploited.

    • @marc2638
      @marc2638 Рік тому

      This isn’t bullet proof, because some leave because they know they can’t have you ever so,,,,,,,,,,, I wouldn’t stay around either if my work wasn’t paying off. You people who watch this shit are fucking sad man, women and girls are different. You will get different reasons for the same problem between women and girls figure out what your with to begin with. I’ve been the asshoke and the nicest guy same outcome!! It’s the type of female I choose that’s the issue and also me,,,,,, females are easy to deal with but figure out which one is worth your time. I’m 45 and still figuring out what type of female is worth my time

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME2024 Рік тому +1282

    1. She shows non reciprocal behavior. Reinforce behavior you like.
    2. She pulls away to check your strength (wimp test) Stay busy with other things.
    3. She tries to knock you off your purpose (career, etc.). Fit her in when you can.
    4. She withdraws sex. You put up with too much drama, and she doubts you have options.
    5. Cutting remarks, bad attitude. Don't put up with it. Walk away or send her away. She must be highly apologetic to get you back.
    6. She tries to change you.
    7. Making you care about the relationship. It's HER job more than yours, and she must earn the relationship.
    8. Long phone calls or long text chats. Lowers your perceived value.
    9. Complaining just to gain your compliance.
    10. Creating drama out of thin air.

    • @kirbyaugustine761
      @kirbyaugustine761 Рік тому +39

      Thank you sir.

    • @nikitaw1982
      @nikitaw1982 Рік тому

      sounds like the relationship with my mother besides the sex stuff. sonHusband stuff. Should be a movement to get teen boys guidance if karen single mother. do as much partime work and weekend work until can stop school and start an apprenticeship. if can't get parttime work do as much extracurricular as possible. every day, all week end. stay the hell away from her sabotaging nature otherwise will be an obese man child for life wiping her ass when neither of you can afford a home.

    • @yordirivera9075
      @yordirivera9075 Рік тому +30

      Your fracking awesome guy 💪

    • @aldogipuzkoa3895
      @aldogipuzkoa3895 Рік тому +22

      You are a good man may God bless you

    • @godsbruh
      @godsbruh Рік тому +51

      99.99% modern woman have these issues

  • @NQES777
    @NQES777 Рік тому +241

    "When has a woman ever changed your life?" That's a reality check.

    • @michaelmelendez4075
      @michaelmelendez4075 Рік тому +4

      Biggest bar

    • @MyNameisRevenant
      @MyNameisRevenant Рік тому +12

      They had, but I cannot say in a positive way. Only when i was naive and i believed that love was real I thought or made myself believe that women improved my life in some way. Now i been alone for almost a decade and started to not care at all. Maybe i should change my pattern of loneliness, but for what? For pain? No, I am okay as i am, not great, but is bettee than nothing.

    • @JamesMatthews-mc5bc
      @JamesMatthews-mc5bc Рік тому

      Damn you right

    • @edwardmitsmenn6398
      @edwardmitsmenn6398 Рік тому

      Yep.

    • @iamchannelll
      @iamchannelll 11 місяців тому +4

      there is many who have changed my life for the good and for bad

  • @KB-bf7qi
    @KB-bf7qi Рік тому +284

    Not only do they not contribute very much to your life, they actually make your life much harder.

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 Рік тому

      I find women useful in two ways. Sex and having my children. Other than that they offer nothing to my life.

    • @johnboykin3128
      @johnboykin3128 Рік тому +14

      Truth

    • @Freud_Mayweather
      @Freud_Mayweather Рік тому +20

      They make you stay out late drinking when you're young fuckin up at work the next day

    • @shaynalee
      @shaynalee Рік тому +15

      I helped my guy get sober, paid for everything and gave him a great place to live rent free. I lost attraction since he was so comfortable letting me be the man. I started thinking “what does he bring to my life?” And it wasn’t worth the added stress.

    • @cweatherfella547
      @cweatherfella547 Рік тому

      If they didn't have pus3ies they would be piled ten.high at the tip

  • @Administrator7
    @Administrator7 Рік тому +110

    "Women are dream killers" - Tom Leykis

    • @MyNameisRevenant
      @MyNameisRevenant Рік тому +5

      And Menkillers in some cases

    • @Wahinies
      @Wahinies Рік тому +1

      I didn't exactly see eye to eye with leykis but he sure had gems. He was a RP gateway before there was a term for it.

    • @anthonyholy1761
      @anthonyholy1761 7 місяців тому +1

      NooooooOur moms are liars

  • @theunrealjackson
    @theunrealjackson Рік тому +167

    This vid was a gut punch that I needed. I'm attractive, smart, humorous, a physical unit, make 6 figures, combat vet, work on/fix everything myself, no kids, etc...and yet everytime I really like a girl, I fail the tests. When I don't care they won't leave me alone...but this femcentric society has convinced us we need to be that romantic prince charming. Time to get back on my purpose. Thanks.

    • @johnfried5333
      @johnfried5333 11 місяців тому +17

      These Hallmark movies show men how to do everything wrong😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rehakmate
      @rehakmate 11 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely true

    • @AmericaRocks1969
      @AmericaRocks1969 11 місяців тому

      todays women need to be taught lessons. pussbag men pander to this shit, which feeds it. Which is why so many women are doing it. STOP doing it. Imagine that you are a positive minded man, a good man should be, and the moment a woman wants to disturb that, send her away. The only way she gets to spend time with you is if or when she brings a fun, healthy person in your front door. The other woman gets kicked the fuck out....

    • @stealthiscool
      @stealthiscool 10 місяців тому +13

      I feel you, I kinda feel stupid because the last relationship I was in I failed at everything once I fell for her romantically but the kicker is at the beginning she was the one perusing me and that was probably because I didn’t show much interest and I was completely certain with myself, and had the confidence to back it up, I knew I didn’t need a relationship so I acted like that and she was infatuated by it. The longer the relationship went on the more I allowed her to emasculate me by allowing her behaviour and being soft with her, to the point where now she has zero respect for me, everything was flicked on it’s head. I have to be honest with myself and realise I allowed it to happen when I should’ve continued to act in the same manner that had her obsessing over me in the first place.

    • @theunrealjackson
      @theunrealjackson 10 місяців тому +4

      @@stealthiscool lessons learned. It's OK to compromise some things. Others you have to stand your ground. Confidence & respect go a long way. I'm in a new relationship now & I've stood my ground on certain things, understanding how women will constantly shit test you, I've made sure she knows I'M the prize & I keep the abundance mindset of there's always other hot chicks if she doesn't act right. This girl wants to marry me. I highly suggest reading The Rational Male & watching more vids. There's a balance between being on your purpose & still being loving. When you find it, you'll be golden.

  • @fred8463
    @fred8463 9 місяців тому +15

    A woman wants you to have the control and power, the moment you don't, she's going to replace you with someone who does. Well said.

  • @jimschutz
    @jimschutz Рік тому +294

    I'm a 61yo male and I would have loved to have had this advice. I think that this is pure truth that can be used in any phase of life.

    • @Trpl-X
      @Trpl-X Рік тому +12

      As 40 yrs old I saluut you, keep grinding big homie 🌋🏆

    • @johnboykin3128
      @johnboykin3128 Рік тому +5

      Lol 😂 I'm 60

    • @App-tlyPut
      @App-tlyPut Рік тому +3

      This is not truth, it's bitterness.

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo Рік тому

      @@App-tlyPut Women are the ones who are bitter about the truth.

    • @brian6140
      @brian6140 Рік тому +7

      I’m 65 and I refuse to date women my age.

  • @aimanhamouda3183
    @aimanhamouda3183 Рік тому +140

    This shit is good, I’ve been out of a toxic three year relationship for almost a year now. I did everything you said, you shouldn’t do. And guess what? I was emasculated, humiliated, and left looking desperate. I’ve started to put myself first and demand respect in the ways you’ve been talking about. And it actually does work. Stand up for yourselves guys, don’t let women walk all over you!!! So glad I found this channel. Keep ‘em coming Casey!!!

    • @Boiiiiwhatttt
      @Boiiiiwhatttt Рік тому +2

      How did you recover?

    • @worksmarter6418
      @worksmarter6418 Рік тому +8

      you emasculated yourrself bro. women test their man, and if the man breaks, that reflects on his character. u know?

    • @simonmeszaros2770
      @simonmeszaros2770 11 місяців тому

      you should thank them

    • @Ricky-G99
      @Ricky-G99 11 місяців тому +3

      women is the greatest lab for our behaviours as a men, it's where we get to see what works and what doesn't, you implement a certain behaviour in her playground you get the immediate response back whether a positive or a negative return.

    • @danielrosic2960
      @danielrosic2960 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes. I had a similar relationship that ended badly, oh maybe seven years ago. A year ago we reconnected and I’ve been playing her like a fiddle, giving out my love very sparingly, and it’s made her crazy for me! I pass shit tests without even noticing, and only upon reflection a month later do I notice what it was.

  • @greganderson2239
    @greganderson2239 Рік тому +93

    I don’t let woman control me. I control myself and that’s the first step in being a man. I stay true to my beliefs, my character, my values and I take care of myself and those around me. Most of all, I trust God will meet my needs and I don’t try too hard to control my life. Woman will come and go and the secret is trusting in the truth and the timing, everything else will fall into place.

    • @johnjennings9693
      @johnjennings9693 Рік тому +8

      I missed the bus once but another one came along and it was just as comfortable for the same price,

    • @SamYoungRadio
      @SamYoungRadio 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@johnjennings9693Woman to be the same

  • @nikitaw1982
    @nikitaw1982 Рік тому +43

    They don't test their bosses at work. and they do overtime for free. cause he will replace em if a liability.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Рік тому +6

      It's so great seeing you say that. I told my wife that same thing.

    • @pepepez6335
      @pepepez6335 Рік тому +8

      This is absolutely not true. I see women at my work who disrespect their male bosses because they allow it. A bunch of weak men with no backbone. Like Casey said, men get disrespected only because they allow it.

  • @larrywhittemore9362
    @larrywhittemore9362 Рік тому +135

    Sound advice Casey, Bravo! I'm 75 yrs old and I can say unequivocally that they never change. Married once, divorced 31yrs. I have boiled it down to 2 rules,1: Don't create a problem where one doesn't exist. 2: Don't make it harder than it has to be...
    Thanks for reminding me, the emasculating thing they do are like a boxer punching the ribs, the first few don't really hurt, but after awhile the hands come down ....
    Every man I know who has been married for 40 yrs, and I knew these guys when young, say :"I don't argue with her.." That is the final capitulation of the male. Then complete control is turned over to the woman, all decisions, your time, money, and body, not for sex, are hers to use as she only chooses....
    Stay strong my brother, I preached/ lived a very similar message in the 70s....

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 Рік тому +19

      Those are really great rules to follow about life.
      After I finally decided to wave the white flag on women and relationships, now I allow them access to my life but only on my terms and especially as long as it is fun. My peace and quiet is more attractive to me than the hottest woman.

  • @garymiller3194
    @garymiller3194 Рік тому +38

    "She's Not Truly Yours, its just your TURN"

    • @scottrc5391
      @scottrc5391 Рік тому

      That's only true if you're bald and boring - like that fellow UA-camr.... let's not name names.

  • @boratlion8613
    @boratlion8613 Рік тому +38

    Truest rant ever. HOWEVER, 10 things or not, it don’t matter in divorce court when she cashes in on your success and gets daddy government to bend you over. As long as you don’t give her the power of the legal system to get revenge for not bending the knee to her. Those points could work. If you married her, you’re in her world. Frame or not, all you got is “hope”.

    • @alexjavad
      @alexjavad Рік тому

      Get a prenup and that problem is solved

    • @AndreyGreenYtube
      @AndreyGreenYtube 7 місяців тому

      Marriage is the second most stupid and harmful thing a man can do in his life.

    • @precogtyrant
      @precogtyrant 5 місяців тому

      @@AndreyGreenYtube prenups should be normalized.

  • @neoufa7929
    @neoufa7929 11 місяців тому +30

    Women who have used or bullied men regardless of why will not magically change into a princess.
    If you are lucky enough to have found this video and stop feeling guilty for being treated like your not good enough by a woman, you will release the unapologetic pathetic female who is rude. Knowledge is a virtue, thank you, Casey

  • @לךתזדיין-פ1ת
    @לךתזדיין-פ1ת Рік тому +5

    This guy is 100% correct! Women are a never ending maintenance project regardless of the level of their personal lust for handbags and shoes.

  • @georgegarvey7338
    @georgegarvey7338 9 місяців тому +5

    Young man, I'm 60 years old, married 30 years. You are exactly who you are suppose to be. If you were me son, I'd be damn proud of you!!!

  • @mattjagger4360
    @mattjagger4360 Рік тому +51

    I was raised by a gen x misogynist. 😂. My dad is a legend. I have had very few issues with women in the ways I'm listening to. I can see the behaviours I have are noted in videos like this...and i probably just thought that's normal. But its clearly something younger men need to be taught. Great channel. Keep up the good work.

    • @Pookyy
      @Pookyy 9 місяців тому

      He

    • @Pookyy
      @Pookyy 9 місяців тому

      Misogyny isn't cool bro. You still lost nerd 😂. He's not teaching you to look down on women. He's teaching you their nature. There is a difference. If your dad's a misogynist He's a douche

  • @steveb4400
    @steveb4400 Рік тому +59

    So true. Two things that make you more attractive to women: Get married and make a ton of money. I’ve noticed since I’ve been married (34 years and counting), I’ve had many more instances of flirting and other games. Unreal. It could also be that I just don’t care what any women think of me. I’m relatively free from that now. Stay strong men.

    • @Junoj101
      @Junoj101 Рік тому +4

      lol, you do not have to get married to display 'preselection'. that is probably the worst preselection ever, considering all the liability a man has to take on the moment he signs that legal paper.

    • @steveb4400
      @steveb4400 Рік тому +2

      @@Junoj101 I did not get married to become more attractive. All I’m saying is in my experience, that is the way it panned out. Nothing more than that. It is not prescriptive rather experiential. Take care.

    • @MyNameisRevenant
      @MyNameisRevenant Рік тому +4

      They want a piece of the cake, dont let them, they will tear you apart.

    • @vernonpaigejr.1517
      @vernonpaigejr.1517 11 місяців тому +1

      @@steveb4400 same thing happened to me when I got married. Divorced now. Women just started to talk to me and stuff. Even ones who I seen all the time. Now they wanna show interest.

    • @GlobeofBeauty
      @GlobeofBeauty 11 місяців тому +1

      Don't get married homies

  • @davida138
    @davida138 Рік тому +67

    Great video! More emasculation methods: 1) Demand that he apologizes when she treats him poorly and he pushes back. I had a girl tell me to shut up on the phone because she was reading. I told her to read than and I will call her back. She later demanded an apology and broke up when I wouldn't. 2) Play psychologist. Diagnosing their man with narcissism. Gaslighting. Whatever is trendy. 3) Isolation. Try and get her man to drop his friends and family for her.

    • @fluxuleducatiei
      @fluxuleducatiei Рік тому +13

      That's a narcissist.

    • @Prometheushighaf
      @Prometheushighaf Рік тому +2

      ​@@fluxuleducatieihe said "demand an apology"
      If you have to ask for someone to say sorry then it's not a true apology.
      Foolish thinking by this boy 😂 maybe he should shut up as his girl told him to 😂

    • @gregh2880
      @gregh2880 Рік тому +6

      One experience I had a while back with a gal I just started to date: She wanted to get together on a Saturday. I said "I can't this Saturday. I'm going fishing."
      "You mean you would rather go fishing than spend time with me?"
      "This Saturday, yes."
      "I don't think we should see each other anymore."
      "OK"
      And that was the end of her.

    • @davida138
      @davida138 Рік тому +3

      @@Prometheushighaf lol. Sometimes I shrug and shut up. Other times I call her on her disrespect. It is hard to tell if she is being playful or is testing me to see if I am willing to stand up to her shit test. If a man never pushes back, she will lose attraction because he is weak. If he pushes back too much, she will lose attraction because he is no fun.

    • @davida138
      @davida138 Рік тому +1

      @@gregh2880 You dodged a bullet. Congrats.

  • @CiluhStyle1
    @CiluhStyle1 Рік тому +44

    It's crazy cuz as men who come from decent backgrounds, we know this shit naturally. But then we get weak for them. We need these reminders. This is why fatherhood is so import because it takes our strong selves to teach us about our weak selves.

    • @vernonpaigejr.1517
      @vernonpaigejr.1517 11 місяців тому

      @@ibubezi7685 I've learned how to navigate through those emotions. Reason I never had my windows busted out. LOL

    • @LearnCompositionOnline
      @LearnCompositionOnline 9 місяців тому

      Exactly 🎉

  • @EdTheAnxietyCoach
    @EdTheAnxietyCoach Місяць тому

    This isn't just dating advice. I'm having a goddam spiritual awakening right here! Deep wisdom my brother! Peace

  • @theman2017inc
    @theman2017inc Рік тому +15

    Brutal, harsh, uncomfortable and uncompromising but necessary.
    Thanks, Casey!!!

  • @christophereugeniou4974
    @christophereugeniou4974 Рік тому +46

    Good video bro. Its taken heartbreak for me to take a hard look at myself and notice these things. As hard as it can be to implement. The best way I can describe by doing these things is you feel more like a man and empowered. The more empowered you feel the more confidence you exude. Simple and to the point

    • @Junoj101
      @Junoj101 Рік тому

      When a man does not have abundance or abundance mentality he naturally will invite crazy into his life and keep that crazy until she is done using and abusing him.
      If a man has 5 women that are after him, he naturally will throw out the one that is making things harder for him. He is not going to try to fix things or negotiate with her. he will just compare his options and move the one that is more fun to be to the top of the chart.
      The magic pill to a lot of issues that men are dealing with is "abundance". The moment you have and keep abundance is the day women will know that you are different, they actually will be more attracted to you and behave a lot better.

  • @jasonchambers6787
    @jasonchambers6787 9 місяців тому +10

    This is the stuff dads need to teach their sons. Being a man that is impervious to these tests is the foundation that everything else is built on and even if you don't want to work out, work hard or weren't born tall, this foundation will go a very long way. When you see a regular looking guy with a great looking woman, this is what he has that you probably don't. Lucky for us, it's something we have the power to change for ourselves.

    • @Xarata873
      @Xarata873 8 місяців тому +1

      Agreed. My mum did a great job raising me as a single parent but me not having a stable and strong masculine presence in my life to balance out a majority of feminine energy has definitely led to some doormat moments with my partner that I look back on and go "what the fuck was I thinking?" I had zero standards for what I would put up with. A hard lesson worth learning.

  • @DallasKowboy
    @DallasKowboy Рік тому +30

    This is the best and most concise video on dark female nature ever.
    Im using the wisdom I learn from your channel and leveling up in my life.
    Thank you for the work you put in.

    • @floorcoatin4u
      @floorcoatin4u Рік тому +2

      Its not dark, they do this for a reason, its instinct, not because they just want to be bitches, well most anyway. I posted the answer to this, maybe it will shed some light.

    • @MyNameisRevenant
      @MyNameisRevenant Рік тому

      ​@@floorcoatin4ui think is just instinct, everyone wants to test a man's might.

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 Рік тому +33

    Casey this is the best video u ever done. Extremely true. I really like the 8th one. It shows a bit of mystery to her. Most men don’t understand that. They are too busy trying to please them. A lot of guys don’t understand that mystery attracts the women much more than chasing her

    • @kunal_k_
      @kunal_k_ Рік тому +5

      There's a caviat... You know how women need to connect, address things/issues every now and then.. They're more of a communicative energy than masculine ways.. To talk! Connect.
      How would a man dodge this when she needs to frequently connect, yet the man is not much available, that she'll find another from her dms even if it's just as a friend.. I've seen many women falling for this cuz their man is now not a so called provider in terms of such communication. We're talking about relationships here, not in terms of wooing someone.

    • @rolandrickperry
      @rolandrickperry Рік тому

      GOES both ways

  • @reveillucide7438
    @reveillucide7438 Рік тому +11

    Your communication skills are getting better and better ! Thks

  • @teamneverlost
    @teamneverlost Рік тому +29

    Really good timing for me, currently enduring a shite test after a crappy msg at 1am about a week ago. Have stood staunch, not contacted her and grinding like mad. Useful insights about maintaining frame when pushed, much appreciated Unckle!

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Рік тому +7

      Very good. And if she contacts you, trust me, if she's not seriously apologetic right out of the gate, let her go. Don't date her.

  • @shaneoconnor727
    @shaneoconnor727 Рік тому +16

    I completely understand why my ex left me now. It sucks to hear this but it is super useful and i appreciate it. Use this information as fuel and a tool guys. It is somewhat harder for me to regulate my emotions due to my asd which is just more reason to overcome that and just a bigger challenge

  • @stewartwatling4221
    @stewartwatling4221 Рік тому +8

    A few times in my life girls close to me have shit tested me...I've said in a matter of fact way "If you keep this up I'm leaving ( from their home )...they kept it up so I've got up and left...each time as I was walking out the door or down the driveway they started to apologize begging me too stay,,,but Ive kept walking never looking back except too wave backwards over my shoulder,,,
    Then they blow up your phone,,, because now their worried where you've gone,,, worried they may not see you again,,,all this causes them emotional stress and to top it off it's their own fault,
    And here's the good news,,,if she's "hot",,,she has probably NEVER had a guy do that to her,,,which makes her work harder too see you,
    Everything in this video is sound advice,,cudos,,,respect

  • @carlo6912
    @carlo6912 Рік тому +10

    Casey, new subscriber here, I just found your channel today. Thank you for what you do. My eyes have been opened now that I am in my 40s and after 20 plus years of marriage.

  • @higherpowerlifting5065
    @higherpowerlifting5065 Рік тому +20

    I grew up before all this content was online, I noticed that simply through experience some men learn all of this over time but others repeat the same mistakes over and over. It’s really very simple, there has to be an underlying message that you’re capable of making her feel all the ways she’s fantasizing about but you’re equally capable of walking away the second the cost outweighs the benefit for you. But when I say cost I don’t mean walking away because she got sick or had some misfortune happen, that’s just cold, I mean the cost of bullshit behavior.

  • @dscrmortgagegal
    @dscrmortgagegal Рік тому +21

    Oh my gosh Casey you are SO spot on! I can admit I've done all of these.
    Yes I want to make sure a man has a strong frame or I don't want him in my life

    • @GazaFloatilla
      @GazaFloatilla Рік тому

      😮

    • @folkishappalachian6827
      @folkishappalachian6827 Рік тому +6

      If you test a masculine man too much, we just get rid of you for being a headache, never forget to masculine men you are replaceable
      My first wife knows this the hard way, and when she begged me to come back I didn't
      Almost kicked the current one out for attitude, she wants to be a stay at home wife? Cool, then kindness, cooked food, and a clean house is fair during my 13+ hour shifts, if I come home and it's not done, I'll send her back to Europe. Likewise, any man who can afford to have a stay at home wife should tolerate near zero shit tests.

    • @Damesanglante
      @Damesanglante Рік тому +1

      Enjoy cats.

    • @jurassicthunder
      @jurassicthunder 11 місяців тому

      she probably came for his look first 😂

    • @Zachary_333
      @Zachary_333 10 днів тому

      @@folkishappalachian6827🎉

  • @japellan
    @japellan Рік тому +9

    One of your best and most insightful videos. Needed this wake up call today.

  • @antoinedebiran5011
    @antoinedebiran5011 Рік тому +8

    This man is really articulate. Amazing.

  • @tyeoutcalt2783
    @tyeoutcalt2783 Рік тому +6

    Absolutely correct, treat a woman just like you would a male friend

  • @Rubinmebs
    @Rubinmebs Рік тому +6

    Absolutely 100% true, but as guys, we must be strong self-sufficient and not need that attention.

  • @Batcave6
    @Batcave6 Рік тому +3

    Women don’t help build a home, they just move in, good one mo! 💯

  • @Who_8MyZaxbys
    @Who_8MyZaxbys Рік тому +5

    You just earned a new sub.. this is all facts. I apply all these things but it's a breath of fresh air to know someone knows this topic well enough to teach it correctly to men. We aint all taught this growing up

  • @steveb4400
    @steveb4400 Рік тому +4

    Excellent post Casey. Definitely a voice of experience and real world solutions. Listen up men, this is the school of hard knocks.

  • @Mynamejeff666
    @Mynamejeff666 8 місяців тому +1

    Biggest take away
    Stand up for yourself and stand up to your boundaries and expectations

  • @franciscoalvarado7406
    @franciscoalvarado7406 Рік тому +9

    true I learned the hard way made me stronger person

  • @DSILVAjeiy
    @DSILVAjeiy 4 місяці тому +1

    🤔💯🏆 Let this sink in from CZ
    "Become a person of high regard that shows who you truly are and CANNOT be F@#ked with."

  • @1978mackdaddy
    @1978mackdaddy Рік тому +43

    In my personal experience once a women loses respect for a man you can never get it back.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Рік тому +3

      I've wondered that myself. I think it might be possible but the man has to break it off, allow time to pass, and the woman has to be the one to reinitiate contact and be sincerely apologetic to even have a chance of regaining respect. Its like shock jail time. Lol. Sometimes works.

    • @dominus360
      @dominus360 Рік тому +5

      @@GUITARTIME2024 never works

    • @pepepez6335
      @pepepez6335 Рік тому

      You can definitely get it back by refusing to put up with the shit that made you look weak in the first place. Instead of apologizing to her whenever she bitches at you, go tell her that it's your way or the highway. If she doesn't like it, she can go screw herself. You'll see how quickly her demeanor changes

    • @Beantastrophe
      @Beantastrophe Рік тому +10

      Don't worry about it. Most people come and go

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 Рік тому +7

      I think any man who offers a second chance is allowing her a second opportunity to do it again. In the romantic battlefield, relationships very rarely last. Just have to accept it, learn from it and move on with your mission.

  • @powerofknowledge7771
    @powerofknowledge7771 11 місяців тому +15

    Somethings you're right about... other things.. not so much. If she's a good woman and she has enough courage to bring up an issue, she's bringing it up because it needs to be addressed, not to create an issue out of thin air. A high value man will address it and work through it with her, not shut her down. And yes, it works both ways.
    Also, caring about the relationship is not solely upon the woman. It's a mutual reciprocal thing.
    If you manage to find a good woman and you treat her like a queen, she will 100% reciprocate and treat you like her king!

    • @mvjoshi
      @mvjoshi 10 місяців тому +1

      You said it. I read your comment at 06.54 of the video. And then, I am now seeing the rest of it just to see how many other places things are wrong.

    • @patricksimmons7640
      @patricksimmons7640 9 місяців тому

      This goes against the women he’s aiming to make chase you, I think the women he’s going for aren’t good women.
      However the ones that reciprocate are the good ones. Where you don’t need all that emotional work to entice them to stay by not caring as much for them essentially.

  • @muditjauhri9779
    @muditjauhri9779 16 днів тому

    Bro spoke the biggest truth ever-
    "What did the woman did to make your life better......nothing "
    👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @tweneboateng9192
    @tweneboateng9192 Рік тому +13

    Amazing stuff as always we as men need to keep on our grind/purpose and be able to see what is going on with the women we let into our lives they need to understand there are rules, and communication ways in which you as the men set for the relationship its going to take time and discipline though to achieve this lets get the work done boys.

  • @NefariousDreary
    @NefariousDreary Рік тому +56

    Basically, deal with a woman the way you should deal with a narcissist because that's pretty much what many of them are these days.

    • @aarongarcia5667
      @aarongarcia5667 Рік тому +10

      So avoid them ? lol

    • @NefariousDreary
      @NefariousDreary Рік тому +4

      @@aarongarcia5667 Just until they either respect you or choose to bounce. I've has a couple of narcissistic friends before. I kept one of them around for personal reasons lol

    • @bigtreecombatacademy2927
      @bigtreecombatacademy2927 Рік тому +8

      Boom
      Narc women do this stuff whether ur on frame or not
      If u have strong frame they will do it very sneakily

    • @platoon1081
      @platoon1081 Рік тому +1

      Used to be selfies were made discretely, nowadays they are shamelessly and endlessly made in public for Tiktok videos etc. = normalized narcissistic behavior.

    • @pete531
      @pete531 Рік тому +2

      narcissist or a child

  • @NefariousDreary
    @NefariousDreary Рік тому +5

    Rewarding the positive behavior is surprisingly easy once you control yourself.

  • @KalaAltheaBalik
    @KalaAltheaBalik 8 місяців тому +1

    One woman has actually changed my life, she was blunt, she pointed out my weaknesses "You seem not to get things done", and that hit me. She knew my potential, and was disappointed in my short comings in my personal life. She was also first person to make me realize that sex can be fun, not just a nervous struggle, that I too can enjoy it with right person. It was an affair that lasted for a year, she was my collegue, she was cheating her husband. I am not proud of it and I am in debt no doubt, but it was life changing. After her I have been more active than ever before, trying out new things, able to break through some of my mental barriers. She was like a catalyst that speed up my self improvement worth 10 years. I have to point out though, unlike most women, she can be much more logical and also articulate her thoughts clearly.

  • @joitdust4053
    @joitdust4053 Рік тому +5

    This is the best channel with great examples and explanations..cheers from Russia

  • @edwardperez7665
    @edwardperez7665 11 місяців тому +1

    Casey you are 100%. On point. Wish I known this 20 years ago. I feel bad for the women who behave in this way. It's very sad, and a waste of life and time.

  • @SERG475HP
    @SERG475HP 9 місяців тому +4

    Stand Your Ground Men 👍🏻

  • @richardtate6812
    @richardtate6812 4 місяці тому

    I love this, you're the man Casey! I did have my heart broken but honestly, I needed this advice a long time ago. I been in and out multiple relationships throughout the years with different women from all over. I am more focused on my purpose and I date casually. I have a son to raise and a life to live. Men like this need to take over the world.

  • @krackersaltine7311
    @krackersaltine7311 10 місяців тому +3

    I was with a girl for six years, she did all these things to me. I let her do all of these things to me. Finally on Halloween she said she loved me but didnt love me, I was ok whatever and i walked. Haven't talked to her since. I'm done being like this I'm in it for me from now on.

  • @NQES777
    @NQES777 Рік тому +12

    "When a women argues and complains what she's really saying is "hey your time is worthless to me, I'm going to fill your life with all of these problems I;ve created out of thin air, and guess what I expect you to comply, and to change, and to suit my emotional needs."" F!@#K That's so true.
    The nerve to disrespect this way, cut her off asap, got better shit to do.

  • @SavageKingz
    @SavageKingz Рік тому +13

    Casey, couple videos back you talked about how wonderful women are and how a good woman can add so much value to a mans life, and now at 8:15 you talk about how they don't bring anything to the table besides food and sex. the thing is I totally agree with you on both points. From a purely physical standpoint they are babymakers and homemakers as long as the man is a good provider/hunter/farmer, and when there is polarity between the feminine and masculine then there is unity. I understand your teaching style though as you paint a picture of situations in order to make men think and understand what they need to do.

    • @ezothegreatt
      @ezothegreatt 9 місяців тому

      I naturally do wtf I want to do what I don’t get how most men be simps fr

  • @MRJKX1981
    @MRJKX1981 Рік тому +9

    Well done Casey!!! Damn that is such a valuable video. Great energy and well delivered. Definitely going to watch it again from time to time. You should write a book on the topic.

  • @patrickbennett439
    @patrickbennett439 Рік тому +6

    This all just reminds me of why I like just being single. Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez.. Thanks bro.

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 Рік тому +1

      I know man, I watch these videos and I always come around to thinking it’s much better off to stay single and date very casually if you want to. Minding these rules and adhering to them is like a second full time job

  • @Archangelmychel
    @Archangelmychel Рік тому +2

    This is exactly what every man needs to hear!

  • @sylvesterhurt447
    @sylvesterhurt447 Рік тому +9

    Ain’t gone lie. I found all of these to be true.

  • @gotmorphine
    @gotmorphine 9 місяців тому +1

    dude these videos are some of the best i've seen in a long time. Just got out of a relationship after dumping my ex cause she was acting up. So many questions answered, god bless you Casey!

  • @brucebrookshaw3401
    @brucebrookshaw3401 Рік тому +3

    Thanku Casey. You knock me out with your 10 written truths about how women emasculate a man! I love your work that you help us with. A big thanks from me.

  • @JamesASharp
    @JamesASharp 7 місяців тому +1

    The Game is undefeated. Great video and content sir! 👍🏿

  • @FrederikoIgnacio
    @FrederikoIgnacio Рік тому +5

    This guy makes so much sense. He's coming back to same couple of principles, but branches it into different problems or scenarios. The ability to walk out, to stand up for yourself, 50/50 recipient relationship, it's all cool. Also it makes sense to work on yourself and get that six-pack and some money in the bank. Why not, if it increases your chances to gain and keep respect of one particular woman of your choosing, and basically also all other women, because the principles are principles. If you act respectfully and appropriately, all women will respond positively as default. They're not out there to create drama, especially in public. Privately, there was those certain points where she test you, and as he explains, you need to stand up for yourself. But all the time around that, girls just wanna have fun, right? They definitely don't any extra stress, any more work and probably worst of all - unstable men. So don't be that men. Get stability, get manners, and then you'll have much bigger chance to get a beautiful and respectful girl as your life-time companion. So, the plan is simple. Good luck.

    • @dobsok84
      @dobsok84 10 місяців тому +1

      But isn't stability = boring?

    • @danasarica7545
      @danasarica7545 8 місяців тому

      @@dobsok84 I guess that depends on individual position. My life was always chaotic and crazy, so I go for stability as much as I can. In my view, boredom is the lack of stability, and I felt a lots of boredom most of my life so I know the feeling. I think any kind of happiness or good life is based on securities and stability. The more the better. The way I see it, the boredom means lack of stability, because stability gives you options and way of life that suits you the best. But it's possible that some people take stability as boring, so as I said - depends on position in life.

  • @waleedhusain53
    @waleedhusain53 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for putting so much efforts making these videos, I feel your passion for not letting us men down.

  • @user-kb1hw2yq2f
    @user-kb1hw2yq2f Рік тому +3

    This guy gives some solid advice. I think ,imo he is one of the best. None of that "she belongs to the streets" stuff but instead he breaks it down very well.

    • @pepepez6335
      @pepepez6335 Рік тому +1

      Make no mistake, they do belong to the streets. His message doesn't change that fact. He just tells you how to separate yourself from the other 99% of guys.

  • @Archangelmychel
    @Archangelmychel Рік тому +2

    I’m watching this every damn day of the rest of my life!

  • @TobiasKundig
    @TobiasKundig Рік тому +6

    This was a very different Casey, loved it!

  • @MrNayo305
    @MrNayo305 Рік тому +3

    Pure pure FACTS!! Stay strong my brothers!

  • @landonmccloy5924
    @landonmccloy5924 Рік тому +29

    I tried something that I learned on another video I watched, and to be honest I thought it was going to backfire, well she jumped on my lap after work yelled at me and said why did you ignore me etc.. I told her I had expectations she wasn't meeting and she listened, she apologized a couple of times, keep in mind I've been with her 10 years and she's a woman with many options (900k followers on live me). It worked brother, I'm learning everyday by listening to your videos I appreciate your time and obedience. Have a blissful one ✅💪🏻

    • @sb2h
      @sb2h Рік тому +3

      This guys advice is too tier. Nothing flashy just works

    • @bigtreecombatacademy2927
      @bigtreecombatacademy2927 Рік тому +11

      900k followers is a massive red flag

    • @landonmccloy5924
      @landonmccloy5924 Рік тому +2

      @@bigtreecombatacademy2927 Trust me I helped her get them, I was supporting it, I told her no more live and she's off, I feel that real men we can help woman on there spiritual journey, idk just my opinion

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 Рік тому +9

      Risk of monkey branching/hypergamy increases if they see themselves as higher value than you even if you helped put them there.

    • @tomallen8296
      @tomallen8296 Рік тому

      @@rhuiden4086you are so right.

  • @janicel2658
    @janicel2658 Рік тому +7

    I am a woman, and you have given me insight into how men are different and why there relationships fail. 😮😊

  • @Archangelmychel
    @Archangelmychel Рік тому +1

    I have never watched any social media short, reel, video, long or short that has taught me so much and empowered me to the point that this video has… Casey Zander is a god among insects.
    If you are reading this, you are likely on your rise to the top of bug all women

  • @Olohmayakun
    @Olohmayakun Рік тому +3

    That video did not disappoint i took notes.
    I have been researching MBT ever since you have introduced it. This has allowed me to get any relationship i want and almost got me introuble a few times with old friends significant others. This is very true i commend your consistency and constants when teaching MBT with your actions, being the change you wish to experience.

    • @BartConnor-xp2ig
      @BartConnor-xp2ig Рік тому

      U took notes on how to get pussy hahahahahahhahaha

  • @ahmeemfarish1381
    @ahmeemfarish1381 10 місяців тому

    Spot on. i have witnessed all of it personally. He is saving men from what's waiting.

  • @coreybryhan
    @coreybryhan 6 місяців тому +1

    Epitome is the vocabulary word for the day

  • @Shorty_Lickens
    @Shorty_Lickens 10 місяців тому +4

    Its called the "Shit Test" and its actually pretty old and I only just discovered it recently, which makes me sad but whatever.
    The only thing worse than getting shit tested is when women dont even bother, cuz they see you in that really low tier where you aren't worth the energy to even mess with. When you find yourself there, get away, go improve your mind, your body, and your life, then get back into the game.

  • @anthonyuzzanti9149
    @anthonyuzzanti9149 10 місяців тому +1

    Game changer for sure I'll be hitting this like button 50 times if I could thanks Casey!!

  • @GreaseGrime
    @GreaseGrime Рік тому +3

    In my experience, most of the time women bring strife. Very rare to find one that adds instead of subtracting.

  • @joeblow139
    @joeblow139 Рік тому +3

    This video is gold everything you say works like a charm

  • @ItzCharlemagne
    @ItzCharlemagne 9 місяців тому +1

    Sean McVay out here spitting facts.

  • @MrTellIt
    @MrTellIt Рік тому +5

    your a great speaker, i hope to seen as a great speaker too to the audience i give dating advice to

  • @henryhorn4097
    @henryhorn4097 5 місяців тому

    I can tell you that after being in a 30 year marriage my woman behaved all of these ways. Thanks Casey. I love this video.

  • @JediStockTrader
    @JediStockTrader Рік тому +6

    One time, my gf got outright bitchy with me. She apologized and told me it was because she had pms. I just told her, thats fine that your bitchy when your pms-ing. Just let me know or I will write it down on my calendar and on those days we wont see each other. Never was bitchy again with me ever.

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia Рік тому +1

      Epic 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Xyleryx
    @Xyleryx 8 місяців тому

    My man. You're 100% on what you're saying from 10 years of experience with women

  • @Coffeendonuts
    @Coffeendonuts Рік тому +16

    Men everything this guy says is truth. As an older guy (45 year old man) I’ve been doing this my whole life. My old man schooled me to this. As a man you need to be In control. Sometimes you need to reject her sexual advances when in a relationship. Women feel love when they are in uncertainty. If you live together and are married you need to do this. If you are out at a company party and your wife is with you and a younger female colleague tries to talk to you engage her and have a witty exchange of banter. Your wife will be mad but it creates dread and she will treat you better. When she calls you out on it later ignore her.

    • @-45izowkr43
      @-45izowkr43 10 місяців тому +6

      she may treat you better short term, because she may be afraid of loosing you. perceived competition. in the long term, though, if you continue to creation situations in which she feels undesirable, she may resent you. men do their own version of tests, wonder why wife stops having sex years later lol. some uncertainty and distance creates excitement, but ultimately we need to feel desired by our partners in order to want to please them. shunning women only creates nervousness, nervousness and excitement operate in similar ways in the body. that’s why breakup sex can be just as good as sex in the honeymoon phase. if you have an anxious attached woman, creating nervousness may get you laid more and listened to but she’s doing that out of fear, not genuine desire. you have to create excitement in a woman as well. all we really want is to feel like it’s the honeymoon phase again.

    • @stacysmith7387
      @stacysmith7387 9 місяців тому

      This is so manipulative and messed up. Sounds like a disaster. Be a human Ang Treat her like a human. Trust me, no women will put up with this douche behavior.

  • @chetanmichael7396
    @chetanmichael7396 7 місяців тому

    Casey zander your advice is literally gospel to my ears.

  • @nagual2335
    @nagual2335 Рік тому +6

    Damn powerful got a ton of value 🔥💪🏻 thank you

  • @sayantanpaul1864
    @sayantanpaul1864 Рік тому +2

    This video is dripping with real life wisdom learned from on the ground experience!

    • @Bub4055
      @Bub4055 9 місяців тому

      Well put 🎉

  • @MICHELDILLIONS
    @MICHELDILLIONS Рік тому +4

    Thank You Brother , i Pray God You can make more videos like this one ,
    i know it is the Truth , and it is still Difficult for many Men to Understand This ,
    Blessings Always , Be Happy 😊🤗💖🏝🏞🏕⛵😊🤗💖🏝🏞🏕⛵

  • @Blainet14
    @Blainet14 Рік тому +2

    Basically, Don’t try to please women and focus on yourself.

  • @LVLady83
    @LVLady83 Рік тому +5

    Another form of disrespect which can apply to both genders: If a woman talks about other men all the time. It doesn't have to have a sexual connotation but the implication is "I have a lot of attention from other men". Don't ever tolerate that sh*t.

    • @genrichyagoda715
      @genrichyagoda715 9 місяців тому +1

      I just dropped a girl I've been dating for 2 months.
      Every so & so she would send me screenshots of guys trying to text her..
      I just dropped her cold no explantion no nothing and now shes been stalking me calling and texting from other numbers.

  • @TRAHCAHAYA
    @TRAHCAHAYA 3 місяці тому +2

    2 principles:
    1. If you only want sex, then pay a girl/woman.
    2. If you want a relationship with a girl/woman then never give your heart (life, full time, mind, full attention) to her.

  • @unpluggedvip375
    @unpluggedvip375 Рік тому +4

    Thanks Casey. This is one of your most useful videos. Thank you so much! Pure Gold.

  • @Clarkcanepa
    @Clarkcanepa Рік тому +1

    caseys a genuis of a man and rarely misses. bravo for another great one.

  • @mwahajkhan2268
    @mwahajkhan2268 Рік тому +4

    I love your conversational way of communicating these critical sensibilities! 😊❤

  • @dsulli7383
    @dsulli7383 7 місяців тому

    STRAIGHT FACTS. I’m 35 and my first child was born when I was your age 28. The only thing you haven’t learned yet Casey is how to navigate the situation when you have 2 little kids with the lady that has crossed every boundary possible and has become the opposite of what any man would want. And making your children grow up in a split house hold is the last thing you would ever want. When you love your children so much you always put them first. Unfortunately it becomes damned if you do and damned if you don’t.