*When she pushes your buttons or gives you mixed signals, it’s her way of checking if you’ll stay steady. Instead of reacting emotionally, just smile or keep the conversation light. It shows maturity and keeps her interest high.*
Or she might ignore you at a certain time then react later on lol or go say high and talk to another person when she ignored you and looked at you to see if you react but actually be teasing you
Just ignore her if she ignores you , the one who is going to win is the one who has patience and long breath, if it didn’t work out then just move on boys
@@lust4life791 these are good statements and good to know. This generation really does hit different :'( not necessarily bad but, just a bit harder in a way. The easy part is that young people nowadays are more direct and thirsty with less morals than young people back in the day if you know what i mean. So it can go both ways depending on the person i think.
Lol, ignoring isn't the way to go. If you want that woman the key to succeed is to become UNAFFECTED by her. Don't ignore but don't chase either, be not trying to hard.
@@mardukdemigod1523the fact is that if you like the girl, you can’t be 100% you. They can be them, but you have to play the mind games. And if you fail, social media has a million guys in line willing and ready to take your girl. I really do love women, but I hate the games required to keep them “yours”
Bro, your channel is really good. Fortunatelly I found your channel on youtube. Now I'm improving my relationships with women. I have some game, but you are showing me what is behind the behavior of women. I tried to distance myself from a woman that wasn't texting first and it worked exactly how you said. She gave me good morning for the first time. She said to me before I applied this: "I don't say good morning to you because I don't want to be attached." and I thought immediately that she was playing with me. After that I found your channel and started implimenting your advices. Three days after no contact she send to me "good morning." 😂😂😂 great!
She’s like a cat that doesn’t want to sit in your lap until you start working on your computer or piano then she has to have your attention more than that whatever it is.
I am very direct. What you see is what you get. What you hear will always be how I really feel. I don't operate in sneaky ways, and a sneaky woman is not the kind of woman I would want falling in love with me, anyway. If she feels the need to engage in sneaky little tricks and "tests" to try to figure out if I'm right for her, she hasn't been paying attention. There is nothing to "figure out" about me. I'm obvious. Be as direct with me as I am with her, and I'm interested. "I was just testing you" is just a long-winded "goodbye," as far as I'm concerned.
I used to feel and act as you describe above.. I still do to a degree (the directness), BUT I have come to believe and see that Bobby and Chris are correct in most of what they say, especially the fact that ALL girls test guys... It's innate in their psyche and don't even realize consciously most of the time that they are testing a guy ( we guys do the the same type of testing just not as frequently, not as severely and not as innately). FACT: ANY woman, no matter how far below him on the social /attractiveness scale a guy may tbink she is, will NOT be attracted to the guy if he pays too much attention to her or is too agreeable, or a push over. Reference, the King of Queens episode when Doug tries to "rescue" or "cheer up" the new, homely shoe girl ( Rachel Dratch, playing soon to be Spence's girlfriend ) at the local bowling alley. A CLASSIC example of how to AVOID patronizing a woman (and a helluva funny episode) if you want to attract her.
men are simple, unfortunately women are not. They will test you and it’s not on purpose it just happens. If u wanna get the girls u want you gotta learn how to deal w it
man i swear this resonates 100%, she does this every test, especially the final exam, the one where she threatens to walk away, she does it often but never does though i never thought of it as a test, i took it personally and got butthurt over it, wish me luck :D
Dating today sounds like too much work. It shouldnt be that difficult. A woman should just like you for who you are and if she doesnt, move on and find one who does.
Good stuff guys. Gotta say, Chris puts out some great stuff on his channel. Would like to see more from him but I get that it's all part of the "string thing". Speaking of which, Bobby, I have to get into my program files and send you and Rob my success story. I think you'll enjoy it. I know I am!😃
I got fed up with women testing me. One woman tried to get me to get down on my knees in the middle of the bar we were in to apologize about something she was obviously faking and overreacting about something I said. She kept at me and wouldn't give up. When she got to the point of nothing she said was going to get me on my knees she ended it with saying I was going to miss out. I asked on what? She said the best night of my life. I looked her up and down, shrugged my shoulders turned and walked away. I looked back over my shoulder at her and her jaw dropped down to her breasts. That and a few other lighter things like that that happened in this bar which I was a regular of made girls realize testing me was going to give them reactions they didn't want. My popularity with the girls in the bar increased. They realized I am a confident man, a very nice guy but I didn't take sh#t from anyone. Not even the extremely hot ones.
I know what I bring to the table. And I can make her life so much easier 10x. I now deal with women that have genuine interest in me if I also have genuine interest in them them it's all good. No more chasing. If I end up single then I'm also all good.
You guys are my favorite dating advice channel, and i watch a lot. I tried this tactic for new years. This girl I'm seeing gets PMS and treats me like shit also we like eachother but I can't get her infatuated with me to the level I want. A few days ago she started being nasty so I followed the advice I've been hearing for years from you and ended the convo like it was no big deal. She didn't call for three days. Usually if I stand up for myself, I end up calling the next day to smooth it over. This time no contact for 3 days, but she texted me this morning. I'm trying to remain distant and seem unaffected I know not to be super reactive. I'm committed to trying to take everything and be unperturbed . If she behaves like a bitch I'll withdraw my attention and go talk to another girl I'm seeing. I want you guys to know I have cerebral palsy in my right side (walk with a limp, limited use of my right hand) and always struggled with girls until I started applying this stuff. I'm 38 currently seeing 2 girls. It's much more effective trying to attract girls into chasing you than it is trying to run them down. Also, it makes me feel much better about myself. Thanks for what you do, no pills, no trying to be someone I'm not, just the right mindsets and responses.
that's a great story. appreciate you sharing with us. when she's not treating you nicely, just think of it as "walking away for the day" - once she changes her mood then you can see her again
OMG, I had this exact test a few days ago and I did exactly what you guys said to do. And she was pissed and moody. But she came back the next day. And I said well you made your choice. And I left her like that. And it messed her up. I was like yeah I passed that bluff.
As a 30 something with a ton of experience in the game. My advice is, don't take them serious and understand for every 10 chicks you meet, 9 of them are either playing games (See you as a friend and or beta orbiter) or its temporary fun (She will bang you til she finds a dude that's better or a guy whose more boyfriend material depending on her age). We play the game for the 10% that make it worth it.
Is denial part of their arsenal because she literally "forgot" a jealous outburst she made 5 days ago , when I confronted her she said I'm sorry but I don't remember. And then she closed the conversation on WhatsApp wishing me good luck at my job ( because we met there and worked together for a short period) .
Fully agree with what was said here. It is also the reason I am not interested in dating in the least. All women say the do not want and will not tolerate drama, head games while at the same time are responsible for most, actually all of it in most cases. No thanks.
Yeah with girls “males” are like students infront the teacher and always getting tests. Its my expression from almost 15 past years, that: getting or winning a female for serious relationship is like achieving a School Diploma! 😂
21:05 That guy was actually lucky to be able to come back after a fail like that lol. His girl must not have many options because most 9+ women could’ve never looked at him the same! Even if back together there would always be a power struggle.
This works in long term relationships as well. Most likely she's been getting most of her positive feelings from being in CONTROL. You have to change that so she's getting her positive feelings from CHASING you. Thanks for the comment T, we appreciate it
my woman said," if i dont change my mind (agree with her bullshit), than she will start looking for a new man". i only answerd with her own words, "start looking for a new man" her last answer was " thank you very much" and now im in the no contact since one week. i dont know if she comes back, but i will not beg for her. i dont like it when someone says .....if, than ...i think best answer is always to take the than, because, thats not what they realy want us to do.
So basically you have to walk on eggshells to pass her childish tests. Problem is when women do these behaviors we can sense it. And it throws the whole relationship off because now you can't just be yourself.
I don't play any games with women ! Life is too short! There are too many women out there , so just move on to the next one ! Women will always try to test you so just be your self and it that isn't good enough than move on ! Simply ignore them ! They hate that ! Always have the upper hand ! Let them chase after you ! Be secure with your self ! Be confident !
hi bobby i need an advice. i've been lately into a girl that has just started to working at our place (am co-owner of a place). she's studying psychology and i manage to get that (from you previous vids) that's connected with her past and insecurity and i accepted that. when she started working she was really kinda into me, she was playfull and looking at me all the time, laughing about my jokes and all the things that you felt you are on the right way. then i asked her one day when we both had free morning if she would like to go to a "best restaurant i know in area to try a best street food degustation she ever tried"and she made some stupid excuse. in a meantime i catch up with a girl that is working close to us, we went on a couple of dates, we kissed yesterday and we are having a lot of fun but am not that really into her. i noticed that the girl that's working with us she's kinda listening and looking and almost flerting to any other person on a job but she's not showing some kinda feelings that she would end up with anybody . should i make her jelous by pointing out with my friends "accidentaly"in front of her that am dating someone? am playing it atm really cool and enjoying a fact that i have some other options, not paying that much attention to her but actually nothing is really happening last few days. should i just gave up and continue with a girl that is really into me and accept the fact that the girl i like is just a "fail" or i should somehow give her thoughts that i can actually live on without her?
Its exactly like you guys said. In my case is still living with my ex gf and our kids but I see the pattern in my relationship. I thought Im advanced player but last year I lost myself. We broke up 2-3 weeks ago came back to my old attractive version(new clothes, better hairstyle, going out weekends, I started gym again month ago) there was nothing like begging just politely said "this is not what I want but I respect your choice" now I get tests all the time I feel like its just one big test I even provoke her to test me. She is calling now few times a day to show me kids etc if I don't answer I get like 3 missed calls(here Im not sure if its excuse to check what im doing-I think so)... of.course Im busy guy now so cannot answer always and right away like I used to. Today she try jealous test on me I passed, then she made comments that she know I date someone because I go out for 5 hours so I just said of course I date 4 girls one every each hour 😀 I know what Im doing so not really worry but thanks for this video I learned something new that I never saw on UA-cam. Usually coaches say its hard to flip power but then noone really explain like you guys how to do it in simple steps. Thanks again
@@tattoomachine7224 I think you should write that if you havent found anything else to write. Like I said write something funny that you have talked about in person or just make a funny comment about something on her insta page (on Dms). After that you can open other topics to discuss and after some chatting you should set up a date. If you will write it was nice to meet you and if she wont respond in an easy to answer message you could get stuck and wont have any reply for her and get stuck
@@tattoomachine7224 you should write a message in a voice that will prompt her to know it was you specifically who is texting. If you don’t know how to do that, then in your next interaction, I suggest you show a part of your personality that you can refer to through a text later on.
So I’m currently on the “talking stage” with the girl i like and she is currently 100 miles away from me on another city.. Our current form of communication is through facetime, but we do text each other if we have to move our planned facetime sched.. Anyways my last facetime with her was on the 15th of this month and she called me out for not vibing with her.. so far she has not tried to reach out for me on about a week, so this has me worried.. I got kinda spoiled earlier this month when we talked everyday, but slowed down to once a week coz she is taking 20creds in a university and works 30+ hrs per week.. So should i try to call her sometime this week or should i do the “make her “ initiate the contact to me?? My last facetime has me worried and I don’t want to lose her.. Edit: adding some extra details: - her last text for me before our ladt facetime was that “(Only if you have the time). I don’t think I’ll be able to talk later this week I’m sorry!” coz she got homework(and I suspect midterms).. but everytime after our facetime(and especially our last facetime” she said “call me anytime”, basically giving me green light to call her anytime(I’m not sure if this is one of her tests to see if I’m interested in her or if I’m too needy for calling her alot) So what should I do?? Any advice are greatly appreciated..
I usually explain that in a divorce situation, if a woman left you because she was bored or took you for granted, we can usually help... but marriages that have a lot of baggage and emotional pain, is not exaclty our expertise.
13:15 can you elaborate on the difference in that situation compared to change her mood as you said 24:30 in this video ua-cam.com/video/ZNuWGlllyQ8/v-deo.html . Exampel when she throws a tantrum and it takes som time to change her back even tough your calm and don't get sucked in the drama.
@@BobbyRio yech because I got in trouble because I was texting my girlfriend too much and should I just let my text me first or should I text my girlfriend first because I have not seen my girlfriend in 6 months and me and my girlfriend are still together
What Bobby Rio said. If you text her a lot without having bed sessions you signal her you have low value. Been there myself, talked to a girl a lot before, like some times 8 hours a day and after a while she dropped me to friend zone lol. And I am attractive, funny and everything just didn't play the game properly. So it ended up an absolute disaster.
I am seeking advice regarding a situation with a girl I have been getting to know. She has been going hot and cold lately ever since her abusive ex came back into the picture and started manipulating her. She has admitted to trying to go back to him and was physically assaulted. I have been pulling away from her because I don't want to enable her behavior, but I want to help her. So, today I reached out to her unexpectedly and offered to drop off some homemade banana bread because I would be in her area for a short time. When she came out to my car, I could tell she had a black eye about three days old, which means she went back to the ex again. I said, 'must be a hard lesson you're dealing with, I hope you learn it soon.' which was a way of bringing up something she had mentioned previously and had joked about with her so maybe she didn't remember the reference or she did but she was more sad that I could not stay longer, (had set a time limit beforehand) bc she obviously wanted to talk about her situation, and I know she needed it and it hurt to take that away but I just pulled her to me and hugged her tightly to interrupt her and she never stirred and so as much as it pained me to stop, I mentioned, 'I gotta go' to hopefully register to her that I am valuable and what she wants and needs and that I do care and wasn't confused about my feelings but needs to also respect me in order to get the full benefits. As she was getting out of the car, she thanked me for the banana bread which I replied to her jokingly to alleviate the seriousness a bit that I made it moist and she laughed, so following it up quickly with, 'just imagine how moist a person could be if only they had learned their lesson by now,' which stunned her a bit, but she was out of the car, and so I waved a quick ✌️ and backed out of the driveway. I haven't heard from her since then for 12 hrs now which I understand and I'm not upset just hopeful for her she doesn't overthink it like I am now, lol. Not much just a little worried I may have stepped a bit over the line on that last one, maybe, just bc with so much time passing, my mind obviously is second guessing itself which is normal I suppose. Finally, (excuse the long setup) I would truly appreciate and be grateful for any help and actionable tips I can use to better the situation bc she seems to be trapped by a bad guy with dirty and malicious intent that tricks her. I will do whatever I can to repay the generosity, I just need to know how I can help her get out of this abusive situation, whether it's by giving her time or offering her support and guidance. I am open to any advice that can help her, even if we don't end up dating. My top 3 things I'm tossing around currently and need suggestions or opinions about, or what do you think I should do? -Should I allow her any more time beyond a couple of days to come to her senses that she can't help or change him and that she is being manipulated by someone evil and only feeding his bad behavior? -Or should I offer her clues to this after a couple of days of silence to aid her in overcoming his grasp? -Or should I find a way to expose this guy anonymously to destroy him?"
Show her this: The ONLY CURE for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is ... I'm honored to include my support of solutions to such an important dilemma. Don't lose focus of the real core triggers. Domestic Violence is not a male versus female gender issue. Domestic Violence occurs in Lesbian and Homosexual relationships at the same rate as in Heterosexual Relationships. There are many instances in which the aggressor is female. Domestic Violence is also NOT about Sex because it also occurs in Non-Sexual Relationships. Siblings and Other Types of Domestic Living Situations can also fall prey to this behaviour. Although Sexual Violence is Pervasive Domestic Violence is not just that. Domestic Violence is about Psychological Torture, Terror, and Control. It can include Sexual Violence as a component. It stems from a huge sense of INSECURITY on the part of the aggressor. Interesting that the Number One Indicator of an Abusive Relationship is Not (Sexual) Violence. The Number One Indicator of an Abusive Relationship is that the Aggressor TRIES TO MAKE THE VICTIM BELIEVE THAT WHAT THEY EXPERIENCED WAS NOT WHAT THEY EXPERIENCED. You are probably aware of the Cycle of Violence in which the Behaviour Never Stops. It just Occurs Less Frequently! Punishment will not work because they will just LIE and Seek Revenge. I am not interested in Complex Psychological Studies that will take years to complete while Victims continue to be Abused and Murdered. The ONLY CURE for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is ... DISTANCE. Again, I am honored to join with you in this crucial endeavour. - Larry Castellano Reframing Domestic Violence as Torture or Terrorism by Isabel Marcus, PhD. #universityatbuffaloschooloflaw www.dropbox.com/s/94f4dkbov551j4n/0350-85011467013M.pdf?dl=0 Domestic Violence in the LGBT Community www.americanprogress.org/issues/lgbt/news/2011/06/14/9850/domestic-violence-in-the-lgbt-community/
I’m not talking about introverts but if you go outside very much then why do you chase that one woman who just play mind games - all you have to do is just ask her out and if she says “No” you just be busy with your stuff and then do whatever you want and while that you can approach other women too. But remember real the real one with high standards will never I mean NEVER play these sh*tty games whether she’ll say a clear “NO” or just go out with you after a few days by deciding if you’re really fine guy to go out with. So, if you want a girl only for sleeping with then you can go hire a callgirl for that but if you really want that great woman in your life who is supportive and friendly then I think you should find one with higher standards. And do things for her and she’ll do things for you too. But after all you don’t need to be depend on a woman to grow up. But yeah women with high standards are really better tho hard to find but better than other women. Thanks me later 😂😂
When a girl whom you just met, asks you to reach out after the holidays for drinks cause she is busy till then is that a test? I was getting ready to head out of town for the holidays anyway so I agreed. She said to message when I get back. I want to reach out just to say Hello to get her attention. But my instincts say "don't". Not sure if it is a "test".
I'm not playing that bullshit game. I've said it before elsewhere, life is the test you don't need a simulation. If a woman's so lacking in life perspective that she needs to get all her information from Cosmo or whatever she's not my kind of girl.
As a guy like, I was interested in a girl wanting to know her after feel month of our friendship. I suddenly feel she doesn't want to know she doesn't ask me personally questions, I do the questions all the time to the point I got tired to talk or start up a conversation It feels like I was the one holding this ship all dis while and now that I relaxed it crushing down What should I do
The question is how much she has invested in your interactions. The amount of interest on your part is irrelevant. If she doesn't feel it there is nothing you can do about it. Consider you already did your part. You made your investment by showing interest through your questioning, believe me, she is by now aware of your intentions. Just give her time and space. During those days you will be convinced of her level of interest. DONT PLAY THE GOOD FRIEND CARD. Keep the distance and act indifferent, be her acquaintance not a friend, meaning you can answer if she initiate, always briefly. Keep in mind the friendship vibe won't get you nowhere .
Sorry my bad english. Just Ignore her, if she next space, give her the whole universe, forcus on your private life and your passion, try to achieve some thing for yourself.i want to share my story: 1 year ago I have a crush on a girl, I spend my whole day thinking about her and try to talk and spend time with her as long as I can. Feel like living in a romantic movie. But I can't even do anything well , my job, my passion... She slowly lose interest in me because I'm too needy and predicable , then she leave me. I feel empty about 2 months, no passion, no joy, then I let's it go. I realize I used to be so delusion about her. Thank to my friend, I start again with a better job, I start doing thing I love like racing and design... I learn to be happy alone, with my own company. And when I respect myself, people around me respect me too, I hang out with new people and woman start attracted to me, some of them are better than my ex tbh . And I learned a golden lesson for myself: don't be an as***le , but never be a nice guy! Be a good person but always put yourself above every woman! Look down on them, but dont rude. The funny thing is after about 4 - 5 months since she leave me, my ex try to contact me again. She test me and ask about my life , I just said "I'm ok" and didn't reply her next messenge. She try to call me few times, I ignore it. I didn't blame her or anything, I just dont want to come back to my oldself, and I didn't worship her like before. I still think she is a good person, but that's how woman's mind work, when you ignore them and forcus on your life, they gonna curious and chasing you like shadow. Rightnow she still secretly watching everything I post on all my social media accounts, sometime she react and comment some thing funny, but I don't reply, I don't care. I swear my story is 100% real! You are the protagonist of your story , not her, or any girls! Your women should follow you, and you protect her, not chasing her! I wish you all the best bro!
What should you do? You should jazz up the conversations. Flirt more. Tease her. Keep things light and fun. Do fun / adventurous / interesting / subservise stuff together. All while keeping the frame that you're a cool guy and she's an attractive woman, but you're not sure about her and whether she's right for you.
Some great points, thanks gents, but I will add that for these to be successful, in my experience, the woman needs to have some base level interest in the guy already. Otherwise she will monkey branch and exercise other male options.
Ultimately, passing a "test" is a form of manipulation. Remind her that you aren't here to be tested. If she really cares about you, she will take a more active participation in the relationship. Relationships are apprenticeships; this, allegedly, is the age of equality. Tests are for driver's licenses, not relationships. It's put up or shut up
I find women slightly less of a pain to socialise with than men - as a sweeping taking the general average statement. That might be down to the fact that most people are heterosexual and there's the underlying sexual attraction between men and women. With women, you can handle them the easy way, or the difficult way. To me it makes sense to go down the easy route as explained by Bobby, Chris and other leading dating coaches.
@@BobbyRio so some women are narcissists and others play games even when they are not a narcissist . So there is no healthy woman left I guess , only game players , no wonder things in general are on a decline. Is it true for non American women , as well ?
@@godwin8349 if I had not met a woman who was not into these games , I would not have had a hard time to believe all women are game players . I’m not discounting what you are saying , maybe I was fooled by my experience and she was a game player of another kind , but she appeared totally game free to me , even now when I look back It was me who messed up that relationship , and I never met anyone like her again
Not letting women (or life) tame your sense of humor and positive attitude, calmly standing up for yourself when appropriate and daring her to walk away from a "good guy" that really, really likes her and also gives her a positive challenge... not sure how that would be manipulating someone into like you
@Chris Sixty what I mean is 9 time out of 10 if she does this stuff she doesn't actually like you. If she really liked you she wouldn't be doing this. Women only actually want tall, hot, rich, horse d guys
Pretty much! However, what percent of men in the US have all that 0.001%. At the end of the day as a man, all you can do is improve on what you can and be in the position where women are chasing you. I'm good looking and tall, good size D, but lack horribly in the wealth department. God gave me a pretty good hand, which I'm thankful for. I unfortunately wasted my 20s banging as many women as I can, and neglected my career. Which is crippling me now in my 30s.
Just one girl. We were together for 3 years. I met her when I was 29, and it was only time I ever felt the infamous "Spark" with someone. Unfortunately, that's all we really had. She broke up with me, moved away to another state and started a family with another guy a few years back.The guy is fat and unattractive, he did look about 6'3/6'4 judging by her standing next to him and I'm guessing he's more wealthy than me. I think what bothers me the most, I get women's attention and compliments on my looks. However, I recently found out my female boss whose around my age. Made two comments to a younger former employee, that there must be something wrong with him because he doesn't have a girlfriend and looks the way he does. The second thing she said that I must have a small penis and probably submissive in bed.
*When she pushes your buttons or gives you mixed signals, it’s her way of checking if you’ll stay steady. Instead of reacting emotionally, just smile or keep the conversation light. It shows maturity and keeps her interest high.*
Or she might ignore you at a certain time then react later on lol or go say high and talk to another person when she ignored you and looked at you to see if you react but actually be teasing you
I'm a older guy, had relationship's in the past . You just get sick of the shit that goes on. It's ok to be on your own.
Do as Booby recommends, rise above those comments. You can succeed. Or... ...get a dog; no, really, don't do that.
Not if you like intimacy with the opposite sex
the prettier they are, the more broken they are
Amen. My father told me this, I never listened. Time passed, and decades later life proved him right.
It won't suck itself....
Just ignore her if she ignores you , the one who is going to win is the one who has patience and long breath, if it didn’t work out then just move on boys
good point walidken, PATIENCE is the key to women. Appreciate the comment
@Cio Lake this generation sucks.. :-(
@@lust4life791 these are good statements and good to know. This generation really does hit different :'( not necessarily bad but, just a bit harder in a way. The easy part is that young people nowadays are more direct and thirsty with less morals than young people back in the day if you know what i mean. So it can go both ways depending on the person i think.
Lol, ignoring isn't the way to go. If you want that woman the key to succeed is to become UNAFFECTED by her. Don't ignore but don't chase either, be not trying to hard.
@@mardukdemigod1523the fact is that if you like the girl, you can’t be 100% you. They can be them, but you have to play the mind games. And if you fail, social media has a million guys in line willing and ready to take your girl. I really do love women, but I hate the games required to keep them “yours”
Bro, your channel is really good.
Fortunatelly I found your channel on youtube. Now I'm improving my relationships with women. I have some game, but you are showing me what is behind the behavior of women. I tried to distance myself from a woman that wasn't texting first and it worked exactly how you said. She gave me good morning for the first time. She said to me before I applied this: "I don't say good morning to you because I don't want to be attached." and I thought immediately that she was playing with me. After that I found your channel and started implimenting your advices. Three days after no contact she send to me "good morning." 😂😂😂 great!
nice!
You should go over situationships & how to handle/win back a girl who ghosts you for her ex after everything is going great
The most attractive thing you can say to a woman is no! i wrote that down.
NO is the second most attractive thing................First is "Here, baby take my wallet !"
They will freak out and stomp off and you will be all she thinks about.
Fellas, it's all Divine Timing. Just take care of business, and God will send you the right woman for you in due timing.
She’s like a cat that doesn’t want to sit in your lap until you start working on your computer or piano then she has to have your attention more than that whatever it is.
Exactly
Right, but then what happens next? Let her come to you right? But i think thats not the case with every girl. They like to play hard to get
I am very direct. What you see is what you get. What you hear will always be how I really feel.
I don't operate in sneaky ways, and a sneaky woman is not the kind of woman I would want falling in love with me, anyway.
If she feels the need to engage in sneaky little tricks and "tests" to try to figure out if I'm right for her, she hasn't been paying attention. There is nothing to "figure out" about me.
I'm obvious.
Be as direct with me as I am with her, and I'm interested.
"I was just testing you" is just a long-winded "goodbye," as far as I'm concerned.
Very well said. Moving on still hurts though.
I used to feel and act as you describe above.. I still do to a degree (the directness), BUT I have come to believe and see that Bobby and Chris are correct in most of what they say, especially the fact that ALL girls test guys... It's innate in their psyche and don't even realize consciously most of the time that they are testing a guy ( we guys do the the same type of testing just not as frequently, not as severely and not as innately). FACT: ANY woman, no matter how far below him on the social /attractiveness scale a guy may tbink she is, will NOT be attracted to the guy if he pays too much attention to her or is too agreeable, or a push over. Reference, the King of Queens episode when Doug tries to "rescue" or "cheer up" the new, homely shoe girl ( Rachel Dratch, playing soon to be Spence's girlfriend ) at the local bowling alley. A CLASSIC example of how to AVOID patronizing a woman (and a helluva funny episode) if you want to attract her.
men are simple, unfortunately women are not. They will test you and it’s not on purpose it just happens. If u wanna get the girls u want you gotta learn how to deal w it
Now this is masculine frame. My hat off to you sir.
man i swear this resonates 100%, she does this every test, especially the final exam, the one where she threatens to walk away, she does it often but never does though i never thought of it as a test, i took it personally and got butthurt over it, wish me luck :D
next time remain calm, if you're a good guy, that really likes her AND you give her a challenge, she can't walk away
Dating today sounds like too much work. It shouldnt be that difficult. A woman should just like you for who you are and if she doesnt, move on and find one who does.
It’s always been this way. And refusing to understand the dynamic will assure you of life long relationship failures.
To me this is funny because it's like this .. if a girl test me then she just lost the test ..
Good stuff guys. Gotta say, Chris puts out some great stuff on his channel. Would like to see more from him but I get that it's all part of the "string thing". Speaking of which, Bobby, I have to get into my program files and send you and Rob my success story. I think you'll enjoy it. I know I am!😃
yes, please send, we love reading them!
@@BobbyRio how i send u my case ?
I got fed up with women testing me. One woman tried to get me to get down on my knees in the middle of the bar we were in to apologize about something she was obviously faking and overreacting about something I said. She kept at me and wouldn't give up. When she got to the point of nothing she said was going to get me on my knees she ended it with saying I was going to miss out. I asked on what? She said the best night of my life. I looked her up and down, shrugged my shoulders turned and walked away. I looked back over my shoulder at her and her jaw dropped down to her breasts. That and a few other lighter things like that that happened in this bar which I was a regular of made girls realize testing me was going to give them reactions they didn't want. My popularity with the girls in the bar increased. They realized I am a confident man, a very nice guy but I didn't take sh#t from anyone. Not even the extremely hot ones.
"What time did you wake up today?" About 2 hrs after I got to work after my third coffee lol
I know what I bring to the table. And I can make her life so much easier 10x.
I now deal with women that have genuine interest in me if I also have genuine interest in them them it's all good.
No more chasing.
If I end up single then I'm also all good.
I need the dating guru haircut
You guys are my favorite dating advice channel, and i watch a lot. I tried this tactic for new years. This girl I'm seeing gets PMS and treats me like shit also we like eachother but I can't get her infatuated with me to the level I want. A few days ago she started being nasty so I followed the advice I've been hearing for years from you and ended the convo like it was no big deal. She didn't call for three days. Usually if I stand up for myself, I end up calling the next day to smooth it over. This time no contact for 3 days, but she texted me this morning. I'm trying to remain distant and seem unaffected I know not to be super reactive. I'm committed to trying to take everything and be unperturbed . If she behaves like a bitch I'll withdraw my attention and go talk to another girl I'm seeing. I want you guys to know I have cerebral palsy in my right side (walk with a limp, limited use of my right hand) and always struggled with girls until I started applying this stuff. I'm 38 currently seeing 2 girls. It's much more effective trying to attract girls into chasing you than it is trying to run them down. Also, it makes me feel much better about myself. Thanks for what you do, no pills, no trying to be someone I'm not, just the right mindsets and responses.
that's a great story. appreciate you sharing with us. when she's not treating you nicely, just think of it as "walking away for the day" - once she changes her mood then you can see her again
You guys are my favourite dating advice!!
But Bobby tell me why do some of these girls always brings her friend to a date? ...
Your videos are good as hell! Man thank you for this absolutely good game!
This is gold! Thank you gents
OMG, I had this exact test a few days ago and I did exactly what you guys said to do. And she was pissed and moody. But she came back the next day. And I said well you made your choice. And I left her like that. And it messed her up. I was like yeah I passed that bluff.
There’s some good stuff in this video. Thanks
thanks for the comment Alex. we appreciate it!
As a 30 something with a ton of experience in the game. My advice is, don't take them serious and understand for every 10 chicks you meet, 9 of them are either playing games (See you as a friend and or beta orbiter) or its temporary fun (She will bang you til she finds a dude that's better or a guy whose more boyfriend material depending on her age). We play the game for the 10% that make it worth it.
Underrated comment
Hahahaha 🤣 You're so right but the game is still fun
Brock, just wanted to say this comment is inspiring!
Thanks for that. But i dont quite understand your last sentence can you rephrase that?
Is denial part of their arsenal because she literally "forgot" a jealous outburst she made 5 days ago , when I confronted her she said I'm sorry but I don't remember. And then she closed the conversation on WhatsApp wishing me good luck at my job ( because we met there and worked together for a short period) .
Fully agree with what was said here. It is also the reason I am not interested in dating in the least. All women say the do not want and will not tolerate drama, head games while at the same time are responsible for most, actually all of it in most cases. No thanks.
Yeah with girls “males” are like students infront the teacher and always getting tests. Its my expression from almost 15 past years, that: getting or winning a female for serious relationship is like achieving a School Diploma! 😂
21:05 That guy was actually lucky to be able to come back after a fail like that lol. His girl must not have many options because most 9+ women could’ve never looked at him the same! Even if back together there would always be a power struggle.
yea I tried to stop working with him after that because I thought it would be too hard to recover from...
The hardest thing about this process IMHO is I often lose attraction towards them...
This
* lose
I have a questions ! what if she copy your styles. Is that's a test. Should I change something?....
Absolutely brilliant!
thank you Kenneth, we appreciate your support !
Thanks Bobby thanks Chris. Does this also apply in a long term relationship? How do I keep her once I already have her?
This works in long term relationships as well. Most likely she's been getting most of her positive feelings from being in CONTROL. You have to change that so she's getting her positive feelings from CHASING you. Thanks for the comment T, we appreciate it
my woman said," if i dont change my mind (agree with her bullshit), than she will start looking for a new man". i only answerd with her own words, "start looking for a new man" her last answer was " thank you very much" and now im in the no contact since one week. i dont know if she comes back, but i will not beg for her. i dont like it when someone says .....if, than ...i think best answer is always to take the than, because, thats not what they realy want us to do.
Mine I think will never look back I made all the mistakes and I wish I watched bobby rio before handling this girl I lost her n myself too
We are told not to chase the man! Im so confused when a guy cancels the date I think he doesnt like me so I start to back away.
Well, you better unlearn this shit or stay single forever 😉
Men's job is to chase only in the beginning and get the woman to chase 75% to our 25%.
So basically you have to walk on eggshells to pass her childish tests. Problem is when women do these behaviors we can sense it. And it throws the whole relationship off because now you can't just be yourself.
Exactly..you dont want Look for "traps" the whole time
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I don't play any games with women ! Life is too short! There are too many women out there , so just move on to the next one ! Women will always try to test you so just be your self and it that isn't good enough than move on ! Simply ignore them ! They hate that ! Always have the upper hand ! Let them chase after you ! Be secure with your self ! Be confident !
did Chris Anderson put some "something about Mary" in his hair?
Bobby Rio Did It !
hi bobby i need an advice. i've been lately into a girl that has just started to working at our place (am co-owner of a place). she's studying psychology and i manage to get that (from you previous vids) that's connected with her past and insecurity and i accepted that. when she started working she was really kinda into me, she was playfull and looking at me all the time, laughing about my jokes and all the things that you felt you are on the right way. then i asked her one day when we both had free morning if she would like to go to a "best restaurant i know in area to try a best street food degustation she ever tried"and she made some stupid excuse. in a meantime i catch up with a girl that is working close to us, we went on a couple of dates, we kissed yesterday and we are having a lot of fun but am not that really into her. i noticed that the girl that's working with us she's kinda listening and looking and almost flerting to any other person on a job but she's not showing some kinda feelings that she would end up with anybody . should i make her jelous by pointing out with my friends "accidentaly"in front of her that am dating someone? am playing it atm really cool and enjoying a fact that i have some other options, not paying that much attention to her but actually nothing is really happening last few days. should i just gave up and continue with a girl that is really into me and accept the fact that the girl i like is just a "fail" or i should somehow give her thoughts that i can actually live on without her?
Remember this. She wants the guy who values the best version of her, don’t reward her for anything else
How to work when my wife does this?
So is it Chris Anderson? Chris Sixty? Or Rob Judge?
Chris is the best
Q."Hey what time did you wake up today?" A. "I'm still up." Q. "Why?" A. "I went out partying last night and i'm still too wired on coke to sleep."
Please Can anyone tell the 3 test ?
Yes watch the video !
Been using there stuff it works
I need your help with girl who doesn't like me and I expressed neediness and you are chasing them and I want to make them chase me back
Bro focus on yourself build muscle get more money more bitches and ignore them 100% they will crave you bro believe me
1. Steal Her Purse.
2. Run.
I guess why this is no matter what I do I can't get a girlfriend
Its exactly like you guys said. In my case is still living with my ex gf and our kids but I see the pattern in my relationship. I thought Im advanced player but last year I lost myself. We broke up 2-3 weeks ago came back to my old attractive version(new clothes, better hairstyle, going out weekends, I started gym again month ago) there was nothing like begging just politely said "this is not what I want but I respect your choice" now I get tests all the time I feel like its just one big test I even provoke her to test me. She is calling now few times a day to show me kids etc if I don't answer I get like 3 missed calls(here Im not sure if its excuse to check what im doing-I think so)... of.course Im busy guy now so cannot answer always and right away like I used to. Today she try jealous test on me I passed, then she made comments that she know I date someone because I go out for 5 hours so I just said of course I date 4 girls one every each hour 😀
I know what Im doing so not really worry but thanks for this video I learned something new that I never saw on UA-cam. Usually coaches say its hard to flip power but then noone really explain like you guys how to do it in simple steps.
Thanks again
ssrious question for you and chris. when you exchange instagrams with eachother, should you message her the next day and if so what would you say?
I would wait till next day and write something about you have talked in person, or comment on something that she has on her insta profile
@@didnothingwrong7382 it was nice meeting you last night. should i write that?
@@tattoomachine7224 I think you should write that if you havent found anything else to write. Like I said write something funny that you have talked about in person or just make a funny comment about something on her insta page (on Dms). After that you can open other topics to discuss and after some chatting you should set up a date. If you will write it was nice to meet you and if she wont respond in an easy to answer message you could get stuck and wont have any reply for her and get stuck
@@tattoomachine7224 you should write a message in a voice that will prompt her to know it was you specifically who is texting. If you don’t know how to do that, then in your next interaction, I suggest you show a part of your personality that you can refer to through a text later on.
@@riverbearaccounting huh
This whole video describes my issues with 23yr olds
They try really hard to make you believe they have actual clients😂😂😂
Thank you
So I’m currently on the “talking stage” with the girl i like and she is currently 100 miles away from me on another city..
Our current form of communication is through facetime, but we do text each other if we have to move our planned facetime sched..
Anyways my last facetime with her was on the 15th of this month and she called me out for not vibing with her.. so far she has not tried to reach out for me on about a week, so this has me worried..
I got kinda spoiled earlier this month when we talked everyday, but slowed down to once a week coz she is taking 20creds in a university and works 30+ hrs per week..
So should i try to call her sometime this week or should i do the “make her “ initiate the contact to me?? My last facetime has me worried and I don’t want to lose her..
Edit: adding some extra details:
- her last text for me before our ladt facetime was that “(Only if you have the time). I don’t think I’ll be able to talk later this week I’m sorry!” coz she got homework(and I suspect midterms).. but everytime after our facetime(and especially our last facetime” she said “call me anytime”, basically giving me green light to call her anytime(I’m not sure if this is one of her tests to see if I’m interested in her or if I’m too needy for calling her alot)
So what should I do?? Any advice are greatly appreciated..
Do you guys ever work with men where their wife divorced them? Have you ever worked with men who treated their SO/spouse very poorly?
I usually explain that in a divorce situation, if a woman left you because she was bored or took you for granted, we can usually help... but marriages that have a lot of baggage and emotional pain, is not exaclty our expertise.
How to handle a woman who is cheating on me n ignoring me
Dump her
13:15 can you elaborate on the difference in that situation compared to change her mood as you said 24:30 in this video ua-cam.com/video/ZNuWGlllyQ8/v-deo.html . Exampel when she throws a tantrum and it takes som time to change her back even tough your calm and don't get sucked in the drama.
Do you guys go to the same Barber? Cause your hair looks exactly like Lol
Why do I need to be fun? It’s fine once in a while. Life’s shit. I’m not a clown man.
Hey bobby should I text my girlfriend every day or no
girlfriend sure... if you just started dating her and haven't slept together yet, probably not yet.
@@BobbyRio yech because I got in trouble because I was texting my girlfriend too much and should I just let my text me first or should I text my girlfriend first because I have not seen my girlfriend in 6 months and me and my girlfriend are still together
The phone is for setting dates, the date is for the "getting -to-know-you" part
@@s.beccari4678 bruh 😎
What Bobby Rio said. If you text her a lot without having bed sessions you signal her you have low value. Been there myself, talked to a girl a lot before, like some times 8 hours a day and after a while she dropped me to friend zone lol. And I am attractive, funny and everything just didn't play the game properly. So it ended up an absolute disaster.
not sure you can tackle this but a lot of "girls" know there is depth in astrology.. can you touch that subject by any chance ;)
I am seeking advice regarding a situation with a girl I have been getting to know. She has been going hot and cold lately ever since her abusive ex came back into the picture and started manipulating her. She has admitted to trying to go back to him and was physically assaulted. I have been pulling away from her because I don't want to enable her behavior, but I want to help her.
So, today I reached out to her unexpectedly and offered to drop off some homemade banana bread because I would be in her area for a short time. When she came out to my car, I could tell she had a black eye about three days old, which means she went back to the ex again. I said, 'must be a hard lesson you're dealing with, I hope you learn it soon.' which was a way of bringing up something she had mentioned previously and had joked about with her so maybe she didn't remember the reference or she did but she was more sad that I could not stay longer, (had set a time limit beforehand) bc she obviously wanted to talk about her situation, and I know she needed it and it hurt to take that away but I just pulled her to me and hugged her tightly to interrupt her and she never stirred and so as much as it pained me to stop, I mentioned, 'I gotta go' to hopefully register to her that I am valuable and what she wants and needs and that I do care and wasn't confused about my feelings but needs to also respect me in order to get the full benefits. As she was getting out of the car, she thanked me for the banana bread which I replied to her jokingly to alleviate the seriousness a bit that I made it moist and she laughed, so following it up quickly with, 'just imagine how moist a person could be if only they had learned their lesson by now,' which stunned her a bit, but she was out of the car, and so I waved a quick ✌️ and backed out of the driveway. I haven't heard from her since then for 12 hrs now which I understand and I'm not upset just hopeful for her she doesn't overthink it like I am now, lol. Not much just a little worried I may have stepped a bit over the line on that last one, maybe, just bc with so much time passing, my mind obviously is second guessing itself which is normal I suppose.
Finally, (excuse the long setup) I would truly appreciate and be grateful for any help and actionable tips I can use to better the situation bc she seems to be trapped by a bad guy with dirty and malicious intent that tricks her. I will do whatever I can to repay the generosity, I just need to know how I can help her get out of this abusive situation, whether it's by giving her time or offering her support and guidance. I am open to any advice that can help her, even if we don't end up dating.
My top 3 things I'm tossing around currently and need suggestions or opinions about, or what do you think I should do?
-Should I allow her any more time beyond a couple of days to come to her senses that she can't help or change him and that she is being manipulated by someone evil and only feeding his bad behavior?
-Or should I offer her clues to this after a couple of days of silence to aid her in overcoming his grasp?
-Or should I find a way to expose this guy anonymously to destroy him?"
Show her this:
The ONLY CURE for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is ...
I'm honored to include my support of solutions to such an important dilemma.
Don't lose focus of the real core triggers. Domestic Violence is not a male versus female gender issue. Domestic Violence occurs in Lesbian and Homosexual relationships at the same rate as in Heterosexual Relationships. There are many instances in which the aggressor is female.
Domestic Violence is also NOT about Sex because it also occurs in Non-Sexual Relationships. Siblings and Other Types of Domestic Living Situations can also fall prey to this behaviour.
Although Sexual Violence is Pervasive Domestic Violence is not just that.
Domestic Violence is about Psychological Torture, Terror, and Control. It can include Sexual Violence as a component. It stems from a huge sense of INSECURITY on the part of the aggressor.
Interesting that the Number One Indicator of an Abusive Relationship is Not (Sexual) Violence. The Number One Indicator of an Abusive Relationship is that the Aggressor TRIES TO MAKE THE VICTIM BELIEVE THAT WHAT THEY EXPERIENCED WAS NOT WHAT THEY EXPERIENCED.
You are probably aware of the Cycle of Violence in which the Behaviour Never Stops. It just Occurs Less Frequently! Punishment will not work because they will just LIE and Seek Revenge.
I am not interested in Complex Psychological Studies that will take years to complete while Victims continue to be Abused and Murdered.
The ONLY CURE for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is ... DISTANCE.
Again, I am honored to join with you in this crucial endeavour.
- Larry Castellano
Reframing Domestic Violence as Torture or Terrorism by Isabel Marcus, PhD.
#universityatbuffaloschooloflaw
www.dropbox.com/s/94f4dkbov551j4n/0350-85011467013M.pdf?dl=0
Domestic Violence in the LGBT Community
www.americanprogress.org/issues/lgbt/news/2011/06/14/9850/domestic-violence-in-the-lgbt-community/
I’m not talking about introverts but if you go outside very much then why do you chase that one woman who just play mind games - all you have to do is just ask her out and if she says “No” you just be busy with your stuff and then do whatever you want and while that you can approach other women too. But remember real the real one with high standards will never I mean NEVER play these sh*tty games whether she’ll say a clear “NO” or just go out with you after a few days by deciding if you’re really fine guy to go out with.
So, if you want a girl only for sleeping with then you can go hire a callgirl for that but if you really want that great woman in your life who is supportive and friendly then I think you should find one with higher standards.
And do things for her and she’ll do things for you too. But after all you don’t need to be depend on a woman to grow up. But yeah women with high standards are really better tho hard to find but better than other women.
Thanks me later 😂😂
Combined bench press here of 150 lbs.
When a girl whom you just met, asks you to reach out after the holidays for drinks cause she is busy till then is that a test? I was getting ready to head out of town for the holidays anyway so I agreed. She said to message when I get back. I want to reach out just to say Hello to get her attention. But my instincts say "don't". Not sure if it is a "test".
All reasonable, but you should never jerk someone around by canceling for no reason. That's trashy behavior.
I'm not playing that bullshit game. I've said it before elsewhere, life is the test you don't need a simulation. If a woman's so lacking in life perspective that she needs to get all her information from Cosmo or whatever she's not my kind of girl.
As a guy like, I was interested in a girl wanting to know her after feel month of our friendship. I suddenly feel she doesn't want to know she doesn't ask me personally questions, I do the questions all the time to the point I got tired to talk or start up a conversation
It feels like I was the one holding this ship all dis while and now that I relaxed it crushing down
What should I do
The question is how much she has invested in your interactions. The amount of interest on your part is irrelevant. If she doesn't feel it there is nothing you can do about it. Consider you already did your part. You made your investment by showing interest through your questioning, believe me, she is by now aware of your intentions. Just give her time and space. During those days you will be convinced of her level of interest. DONT PLAY THE GOOD FRIEND CARD. Keep the distance and act indifferent, be her acquaintance not a friend, meaning you can answer if she initiate, always briefly. Keep in mind the friendship vibe won't get you nowhere .
Sorry my bad english.
Just Ignore her, if she next space, give her the whole universe, forcus on your private life and your passion, try to achieve some thing for yourself.i want to share my story: 1 year ago I have a crush on a girl, I spend my whole day thinking about her and try to talk and spend time with her as long as I can. Feel like living in a romantic movie. But I can't even do anything well , my job, my passion... She slowly lose interest in me because I'm too needy and predicable , then she leave me. I feel empty about 2 months, no passion, no joy, then I let's it go. I realize I used to be so delusion about her. Thank to my friend, I start again with a better job, I start doing thing I love like racing and design... I learn to be happy alone, with my own company. And when I respect myself, people around me respect me too, I hang out with new people and woman start attracted to me, some of them are better than my ex tbh . And I learned a golden lesson for myself: don't be an as***le , but never be a nice guy! Be a good person but always put yourself above every woman! Look down on them, but dont rude. The funny thing is after about 4 - 5 months since she leave me, my ex try to contact me again. She test me and ask about my life , I just said "I'm ok" and didn't reply her next messenge. She try to call me few times, I ignore it. I didn't blame her or anything, I just dont want to come back to my oldself, and I didn't worship her like before. I still think she is a good person, but that's how woman's mind work, when you ignore them and forcus on your life, they gonna curious and chasing you like shadow. Rightnow she still secretly watching everything I post on all my social media accounts, sometime she react and comment some thing funny, but I don't reply, I don't care. I swear my story is 100% real! You are the protagonist of your story , not her, or any girls! Your women should follow you, and you protect her, not chasing her! I wish you all the best bro!
What should you do? You should jazz up the conversations. Flirt more. Tease her. Keep things light and fun. Do fun / adventurous / interesting / subservise stuff together.
All while keeping the frame that you're a cool guy and she's an attractive woman, but you're not sure about her and whether she's right for you.
Amazing vid!
thanks, we appreciate your support !
glad you enjjoyed
You need a degree in psychology to deal with them, stranger or family... nutcases.
Some great points, thanks gents, but I will add that for these to be successful, in my experience, the woman needs to have some base level interest in the guy already. Otherwise she will monkey branch and exercise other male options.
Based on this video, I've got to seriously work on my hair product game. Step 1. Get my hair back.
lol
“No” really is the most attractive thing a woman can hear from a guy haha
very true," NO" is a turn on for women (when said calmly of course.... not fake tough guy style). Thanks Prince!
But I have hand! And you're gonna need it
It has deformed into a CLAW.
Is it windy ?
Chris Using Bobby Rio Hair "Gel". 💦
Curve ball is a sign of immaturity.
Ultimately, passing a "test" is a form of manipulation. Remind her that you aren't here to be tested. If she really cares about you, she will take a more active participation in the relationship. Relationships are apprenticeships; this, allegedly, is the age of equality. Tests are for driver's licenses, not relationships. It's put up or shut up
What for all the shit testings and long term relationships. Red pill community and coach Greg were the anwer for me to enjoy peace.
I mean why am I taking advice from this dude who's this guy married to Oprah Winfrey? Jessica Biel?
Chris looks like a goddam Christian youth pastor 😂
I can see it lol
She needs social proof to be able to love you
Flaking on her?
Many couples in the world are happy together without ever flaking on the woman.
I hate that women make all these games necessary.
Watching all these videos reminds just what a pain in the arse women are.
I find women slightly less of a pain to socialise with than men - as a sweeping taking the general average statement.
That might be down to the fact that most people are heterosexual and there's the underlying sexual attraction between men and women.
With women, you can handle them the easy way, or the difficult way. To me it makes sense to go down the easy route as explained by Bobby, Chris and other leading dating coaches.
Definitely yes.
like
Live your life like youre single go out have a great fime and date other women
Why would anyone want to be with a girl who plays games or tests the guy ?
you have no choice, ALL WOMAN test men in some form or another...
@@BobbyRio so some women are narcissists and others play games even when they are not a narcissist . So there is no healthy woman left I guess , only game players , no wonder things in general are on a decline. Is it true for non American women , as well ?
@@chxwv It applies to all women.
Naturally, women have been made to believe that they should be chased.
@@godwin8349 if I had not met a woman who was not into these games , I would not have had a hard time to believe all women are game players . I’m not discounting what you are saying , maybe I was fooled by my experience and she was a game player of another kind , but she appeared totally game free to me , even now when I look back It was me who messed up that relationship , and I never met anyone like her again
@@BobbyRio true. She tests your value all the time.
Don't forget the test of " you didn't pay enough for XYZ..."
LMAO
In other worlds be a Man voice
Pure dumb
First
no one is worth all this trouble
All of this sounds like "here is how to manipulate women into liking you"
Not letting women (or life) tame your sense of humor and positive attitude, calmly standing up for yourself when appropriate and daring her to walk away from a "good guy" that really, really likes her and also gives her a positive challenge... not sure how that would be manipulating someone into like you
@Chris Sixty what I mean is 9 time out of 10 if she does this stuff she doesn't actually like you. If she really liked you she wouldn't be doing this. Women only actually want tall, hot, rich, horse d guys
Pretty much! However, what percent of men in the US have all that 0.001%. At the end of the day as a man, all you can do is improve on what you can and be in the position where women are chasing you. I'm good looking and tall, good size D, but lack horribly in the wealth department. God gave me a pretty good hand, which I'm thankful for. I unfortunately wasted my 20s banging as many women as I can, and neglected my career. Which is crippling me now in my 30s.
@@brocklanders3616 Hey Brock, any girls you really liked during that time in your 20s (any relationships/girlfriend?) and if so what happened to her
Just one girl. We were together for 3 years. I met her when I was 29, and it was only time I ever felt the infamous "Spark" with someone. Unfortunately, that's all we really had. She broke up with me, moved away to another state and started a family with another guy a few years back.The guy is fat and unattractive, he did look about 6'3/6'4 judging by her standing next to him and I'm guessing he's more wealthy than me.
I think what bothers me the most, I get women's attention and compliments on my looks. However, I recently found out my female boss whose around my age. Made two comments to a younger former employee, that there must be something wrong with him because he doesn't have a girlfriend and looks the way he does. The second thing she said that I must have a small penis and probably submissive in bed.