The only “king” I serve is the Lord Jesus Christ. I want a husband who will be my partner in serving the One True King. That’s the only way Christian marriage should be!
Love this! I married a King and read debbies books before getting married and it has truly BLESSED our life! My husband thinks I am Gods greatest gift to earth and it makes me brim with joy. The hard work to earn his respect is always worth it!!!
I don’t apply everything she teaches but I wholeheartedly agree that submitting to your husband makes for a better marriage for both parties. That should be the takeaway. Submit, respect him, and let him lead. The other things will fall into place.
in my experience, an nonchristian man will take, and will not appreciate the attitide of how can i please you. a christian man loves his wife how Christ loved the church, willing to lay down his life for her
"You need to start responding to your husband, 'How may I please you?'" and I would expect nothing less than for him to do the same. It's not about dominance, it's not about equality either....it's about behaving towards someone as you would have them behave to you. I would hope that he would have the same desire to "serve" others as I would.
My husband is type king and I love it's sometimes it's a bit hard, but seeing him happy and seeing that I've done well, gives me joy. He really appreachiates it and I do get some praise from him
My long term boyfriend is definitely a command man, things have to be done a certain way, by a certain time, there's rules to be followed, tones of voice not to be ever used, etc etc. While adjusting to his preferences and learning to always defer to his leadership has been very difficult at times, I wouldn't have it any other way. I feel so blessed to have him in my life, and to have Debi pearls books and this UA-cam channel to guide me. If a woman can learn to be a good helpmeet she will be so cherished and deeply loved and praised.
@@girloffaith16 you dont want your daughter to marry a king? what kind of father are you? dont worry she will probably marry a thug. i bet that will make you happy
It's not outdated at all. King types still exist and are very necessary in every society and organization. If a king is leading from a biblical perspective, then he will greatly appreciate being served and will express his gratitude as lavishly as his expectations. Kings are not right for every woman, so maybe he's just not your type.
VERY BEAUTIFUL KING/QUEEN….IT WORKS…EXCEPT FOR REBEL TYPE MENTALITY…. I DATED CHRISTIAN WOMAN LIKE THIS…TOLD ME…I AM HAPPY AS LONG AS I GET WHAT I WANT….AMERICAN WOMAN MORE THAN MOST HONESTY ADMIT.CONTROL FREAK =WITCHCRAFT….DR.BRYANT LANE.
Her attitude is typical of women today. Focused on what she wants and not on what God wants. It doesnt matter how you feel about being a helper, ITS YOUR GOD ORDAINED PURPOSE. Being anything other than a Godly wife and woman is rebellion against God, plain and simple. Feminism has given women this idea that they get to selfishly choose how they will live their life, and because of that, its hard to even find a single Godly family in the world anymore. Im thankful that God gave me an obedient wife who understands that the best woman she can be, is the woman that God made her to be, no the woman that society wants to turn her into. Even if you have a crappy abusive husband, serving him well only adds to your rewards in heaven.
Can we just think about the fact that she does not want to marry a man like her dad? Demanding forceful…sounds like the kind of guy I wouldn’t want my daughter to date
Yeah, let’s have a woman be submissive and men can focus on what they want, so basically aren’t men also selfish. Marriage is a relationship similar to a loving relationship that we can emulate from the father, son, and Holy Spirit. It’s a relationship where you focus on what the other needs both equally if the person is being abusive, whether it be male or female, they are not respecting God’s imago dei , and the sacredness what it means to be a child of God.
When Jesus died on the cross, he freed is from all bondage. We are free to be loved, and cherished for who we each submit to one another. Respecting and celebrating each other as equal partners in our Christian journey.
The only “king” I serve is the Lord Jesus Christ. I want a husband who will be my partner in serving the One True King. That’s the only way Christian marriage should be!
Did you find him yet?
Why did Sarah call Abraham lord?
Every marriage is different. Each type of man is necessary in God's kingdom. There is no "right way" other than what works for your relationship.
@@tristanmaxwell8403 Because she had to. Why did Abraham sell Sarah as a sex slave?
The Command Man sounds like the kind of guy I would not want my daughter to date
Love this! I married a King and read debbies books before getting married and it has truly BLESSED our life! My husband thinks I am Gods greatest gift to earth and it makes me brim with joy. The hard work to earn his respect is always worth it!!!
Jesus led by being a humble servant and men should lead like Christ. It's a simple concept when pride isn't a factor.
I don’t apply everything she teaches but I wholeheartedly agree that submitting to your husband makes for a better marriage for both parties. That should be the takeaway. Submit, respect him, and let him lead. The other things will fall into place.
Why would Kristen be cooking for 3 men all week, Is she getting paid ?
in my experience, an nonchristian man will take, and will not appreciate the attitide of how can i please you.
a christian man loves his wife how Christ loved the church, willing to lay down his life for her
the husband is the head of the wife. that is biblical
@@DaniloSantosVieirathis verse comes after saying that Christ is the head of the husband…
"You need to start responding to your husband, 'How may I please you?'" and I would expect nothing less than for him to do the same. It's not about dominance, it's not about equality either....it's about behaving towards someone as you would have them behave to you. I would hope that he would have the same desire to "serve" others as I would.
My husband is type king and I love it's sometimes it's a bit hard, but seeing him happy and seeing that I've done well, gives me joy. He really appreachiates it and I do get some praise from him
That is so true, I make him notes every day for his lunch and he loves them The fact that he loves coming home to me and our babies is amazing.
God bless these women. Lovely insights 🙏🏾
Amen to the nun part
not outdated, women have changed so dramatically. Good to see someone interested in teaching our young women. ❤❤❤
My long term boyfriend is definitely a command man, things have to be done a certain way, by a certain time, there's rules to be followed, tones of voice not to be ever used, etc etc. While adjusting to his preferences and learning to always defer to his leadership has been very difficult at times, I wouldn't have it any other way. I feel so blessed to have him in my life, and to have Debi pearls books and this UA-cam channel to guide me. If a woman can learn to be a good helpmeet she will be so cherished and deeply loved and praised.
Ahhh nope God is king
This concept is very outdated and sexist.
According to you, but why should I or anyone else take “your” opinion on it
@@tristanmaxwell8403 yeaaaah this “king” person sounds like someone I would not want my daughter to date
@@girloffaith16 you dont want your daughter to marry a king? what kind of father are you? dont worry she will probably marry a thug. i bet that will make you happy
It's not outdated at all. King types still exist and are very necessary in every society and organization. If a king is leading from a biblical perspective, then he will greatly appreciate being served and will express his gratitude as lavishly as his expectations. Kings are not right for every woman, so maybe he's just not your type.
VERY BEAUTIFUL KING/QUEEN….IT WORKS…EXCEPT FOR REBEL TYPE MENTALITY…. I DATED CHRISTIAN WOMAN LIKE THIS…TOLD ME…I AM HAPPY AS LONG AS I GET WHAT I WANT….AMERICAN WOMAN MORE THAN MOST HONESTY ADMIT.CONTROL FREAK =WITCHCRAFT….DR.BRYANT LANE.
This is good! My Grandpa was a King and my Grandma always honored him, like Mrs. Pearl does Mr. Pearl.
Her attitude is typical of women today. Focused on what she wants and not on what God wants. It doesnt matter how you feel about being a helper, ITS YOUR GOD ORDAINED PURPOSE. Being anything other than a Godly wife and woman is rebellion against God, plain and simple. Feminism has given women this idea that they get to selfishly choose how they will live their life, and because of that, its hard to even find a single Godly family in the world anymore. Im thankful that God gave me an obedient wife who understands that the best woman she can be, is the woman that God made her to be, no the woman that society wants to turn her into. Even if you have a crappy abusive husband, serving him well only adds to your rewards in heaven.
Can we just think about the fact that she does not want to marry a man like her dad? Demanding forceful…sounds like the kind of guy I wouldn’t want my daughter to date
If he's abusive, she needs to leave. Period
Awww nope
Yeah, let’s have a woman be submissive and men can focus on what they want, so basically aren’t men also selfish. Marriage is a relationship similar to a loving relationship that we can emulate from the father, son, and Holy Spirit. It’s a relationship where you focus on what the other needs both equally if the person is being abusive, whether it be male or female, they are not respecting God’s imago dei , and the sacredness what it means to be a child of God.
When Jesus died on the cross, he freed is from all bondage. We are free to be loved, and cherished for who we each submit to one another. Respecting and celebrating each other as equal partners in our Christian journey.