@@ericcartmansstrengthandpow5960That’s just sad. I hope you’re joking. Having manners and common courtesy takes seconds out of your day. The first thought I have when I see rude entitled ppl is that they have awful parents. Would you say the same of your own?
Far to Many women IN the Gym are Pick me girls. They think any Male saying HI wants to date them, ask a question? you Better Be worth His or Her time in Looks etc. I am so sick Of it. Saddly it seems to be getting worse with the Internet .... OR the Net is flooded with so Many Negative { human Nature wanting to watch a car crash I guess} and out of the 1000 of great experiences we Only see the 10% of a Holes
@@MuckyPup115for someone like myself with severe social anxiety, it actually takes a LOT out of me to talk to strangers at all. Obviously this shouldn’t be the norm, but please try to remember some of us are suffering with our own issues. It doesn’t come as naturally for everyone, and we usually aren’t “trying” to be rude or uncivil in any way. It’s also a learned thing from trauma… for example I smiled back at an older man in the bus once when I was 17 going to work… that man proceeded to sit next to me, kept touching my thigh, and followed me all the way to work. Not every one has good intentions and sometimes friendly gestures get you into difficult and sometimes scary situations, especially for females.
Am I paranoid. Just got home from the gym and I learnt how to deadlift today. I havent told any body, didnt even write about it but i go to youtube and this is the first vid i see and this kinda shi has happened alot. Paranoid or coincidence.
Yeah, probably because its staged. Guys need to have some sense and stay away from women in the gym who have a tripod setup. Its just not worth the risk.
Honestly, I find it as a sign of strength and courage. it takes a lot to admit when we don't know something and we need help. It really shows his strength of character.
That was going to be my comment. He was brave to go up to her when she was recording, but she was so great to not get upset and to take the time to help her was great.
1998, I was a much younger man and in the gym at the MGM Hotel in Las Vegas. I was getting to my last set on the bench and asked my wife, who was and is in sick shape, for a spot. She chuckled, saying it was way more weight than she was comfortable spotting me on. The only other person in the gym was Randy Travis. I was afraid to ask. I know he gets bothered by people all day, and he probably just wanted to be in the zone for a while. Having no other choice, I did approach him and apologetically asked him if he would assist my wife in spotting me. He was an absolute gentleman and said, "Sure, I'll spot you! We are in the gym. I don't mind being asked to spot you at all!" Randy now uses a wheelchair after a severe stroke. I pray for his comfort as he was a gentleman to me and my wife that day!
The simple act of kindness goes a long way and can make a person's day, week or even year. You can inspire someone do to better, train harder all while being gracious. This is the gym culture we need!
Keep showcasing these beautiful moments. As much as the bad gym-goers need to be called out, the wonderful ones need to be lifted up. We need to see all of these positive interactions to lift US up. I'm glad that we don't always only have to see the bad.
I have lifted weights for over 20 years now and THIS is what I actually see in gyms way more often than what is amplified online. I don’t see creepy men, or entitled women, I just see people trying to better themselves and each gym goer cheerleading for one another.
this is how all women should be - kind, confident and mature Edit : youtube kept consoring my replies which are basically explanations so im explaining here. @emphasis20 talking in circles isnt my thing neither but anything i try to say against the narrative gets censored thats why im saying it this way. lemme tell you again "Men get harsher consequences for same crime" that forces men to act properly. ofc there will be outliers but men fought in wars and paid the price so whatever worse treatments you kept saying the other gender got gets balanced, dont act like men werent treated badly. men didnt get to sit in the comfort of their homes, whole infrastructure is built by men. responsibilities and authority go hand in hand. try reading my previous comment which irked you, again. just stating facts. dont pretend that women are the only victims.i never said anything demeaning to women in my previous comments as well
I agree, but I also understand why women in gyms sometimes might not be. Consider if the previous 9 times this happened to her the guy had been trying to hit on her and it was unwanted, could get old after a while
@@johnk6757 if someone gets hit too often she could just act like an adult and say no, if the problem still persists she could go and ask for gym staff help instead creating unwanted drama or trying to make herself look like some helpless victim online. i like people who face problems head on and deal with them instead using victim card or trying to gain clout at every chance they get
@@TopoGigio555 men in gym are always like that. if not they gonna be called out or kicked out. it might surprise you but men themselves aren't forgiving on other mens bad behavior.
My grandma used to say "the arm that helps always gets longer when you use it". The idea is if you help somebody ("the arm") you're also helping that person to be more active in helping others in need ("the arm gets longer"). In this particular case, the arm not only gets longer, but also stronger
I'm honored to be the first person to like and comment your video because as a skinny and small person, i have struggled to join gym At my first day, i didn't hesitated to ask help, but when you don't have a personal coach, you don't want to disturb other people too much Love from France ♥️
I have tears in my eyes. First the young man didn't have an ego and was willing to get help from a woman. The woman took from her time and taught the young man. They helped each other and offered her assistance in the future. Pure gym gold.
A lot of people ask me how they can rep 855 on incline bench press when they see me doing it in the gym. For their own safety I have to tell them I can't teach them that. I'm a Beefcake, not a miracle worker, ok.
I’m too proud to ask anyone for help and the few times I did I got shot down 😂… this is exactly why I miss my brother because he taught me what to do. I don’t want to look like She-Ra … I just want to be toned. And I just realized “She-Ra” is like “Ra” 👁️
Issa a no for me dawg. Approaching women in public is way too risky. Hell read the comments. The subtle jabs at men for no reason! 🤦🏾♂️ Nah bruh UA-cam it or ask a homie
Gym Culture we had in the 80's, was exactly like this. There were NO Professional Personal Trainers, the idea of that was foreign, because everyone learned by watching, asking, and experienced people gladly offered help.
Yeah, she pulled it rather easily, too. I wonder what her one rep max is. Maybe she competes or might have competed in lifting in the past. I don't deadlift anymore but when I was young and determined in my gym days I could only pull 425 and I am a man. But I was happy with that because the deadlift was hard to do because of my body type. Benching was more my thing.
Finally, a woman at a gym not being offended by a man speaking to her. I'm so glad this young man had the courage to ask the young woman for assistance. I'm glad she gave him good advice and explained the process behind it. Encouraging him to do a couple of reps while she watched and letting him know she's happy to assist in the future was great. This is what a healthy gym culture looks like.
What a brave young man to approach someone, especially a lady in light of all of those self-absorbed videos, and ask for tips on an exercise! And what a patient and nurturing young lady to teach this man how to properly deadlift safely. 👏🏼
"I lowkey want to learn it" So why not just say "I want to learn it". Why do kids have to add a bunch of filler words to everything? "dead ass" "killed me" and so on. Just say what you mean!
That put a big smile on my face, and that is how somebody who loves the gym* should behave. By taking a few minutes to give a few tips on how to deadlift, she's passing that love on to somebody else. It takes a lot of courage to ask for help/advice, because you never know what you whether you're going to get when you ask for help. * I think a lot of the videos that earn Joey's ire come from people who purport to "love the gym," but their behaviors don't make sense to me. Generally when we love something, we want to share that passion with others. I've never heard of anyone hearing their favorite song playing on the radio and saying something like, "this is my favorite song and it will p*ss me off if I see anybody else enjoying it."
Humility and a good attitude. They don't cost a person anything. He clearly wanted to learn and overcame the potential fear of approaching her to ask for help. But, this is a great example of why we as people should never feel afraid or embarrassed to ask for help ans guidance from those that can provide it. He'll do Deadlifts now and this experience will stay with him forever. Probably with her too. Awesome stuff. We need more good humans like these two. 👍🏾
I've been shy asking people at the gym, but I have tried a few times with somewhat success. My issue is being worried I will look stupid, but this video gives me encouragement. thanks.
I started the gym and I’ve seen people doing squats and deadlifts and I’ve wanted to ask but from the stuff I’ve been seeing (even if it’s not really true) I’ve been a little bit scared to ask for help, this kind of gave me a little bit more hope.
what I'm really happy about is that she told him that she was always open to answer any more questions he had! letting him know that she would always be there to help him
Really proud of him for being brave to ask for help, and for her helping a person in earnest need there. This is great. Good teamwork and good luck to him out there. learning how to do things safely makes it less scary.
Yes!! That's the gym culture of the 80s/90s that I remember so well. I wouldn't step foot in one today though, if I wasn't disabled. Cameras are the bane of my outdoor ventures.
I'm disabled, and it's the reason I stopped going to the gym. We don't have a lot of choices in my area, and the only affordable ones really are Planet Fitness and Vasa. I'm NOT doing PF, I am not that desperate, so I signed up for Vasa in late 2019. They don't have disabled parking, and apparently don't know, or care, that disabled people still DO go to the gym and try and be as healthy as our disabilities allow. I started asking them in about January or February of 2020 to install disabled parking, emphasizing how dangerous the parking is for someone who is disabled, especially since it is dark out majority of the day, icy and slick, and people can't drive for crap in our area. I was respectful and understanding, trying so hard not to be a Karen, while making it clear how necessary disabled parking is. I kept asking them every year, throughout the year, trying not to be a nuisance, but reminding them that we disabled people still go to that gym(and I am not the only one, there is a wheelchair bound guy that goes). They kept saying "ohhh, well, it takes a while, we have to submit a permit, I'll let my higher up know, blah blah blah". I eventually started messaging their FB, and corporate. Nothing happened. Finally this winter, it had been FOUR YEARS, and I was getting fed up of fearing for my joints and my health every time I wanted to work out, so I insisted on speaking with the highest up manager, as respectfully as I could. One girl was super snotty and dismissive, so I decided to just terminate my membership. They wanted to put it on hold, and not outright cancel, but I insisted, stating it has been four years and absolutely nothing has happened. Another(nicer) manager, a head trainer, came up, and she quietly(because she might get in trouble for suggesting it) recommended going to the BBB. I thanked her, and did that. Vasa's response to BBB was identical to what i have been getting for four years, "it takes time, need permits, it's up to the city, blah blah". So when BBB asked if the answer was satisfactory, I replied with a resounding NO and explained why. I think they still don't have any disabled parking. They don't give a shit about disabled people, is so frustrating
The other thing to mention is that wouldn’t have happened if he was looking at her while she was working out. Some need to realise that people looking at others in the gym is exactly for that reason. I look at people doing exercises if they're doing something I haven't seen before that looks interesting or if i can take tips from their form. I do this to all genders.
I mean why wouldn't you ask her for help, she is deadlifting an insane amount of weight right there (even for males) its 180KG no ? She is attractive, and it seems easy for her. Awesome how she helped him out , awesome interaction
I think this is the gym culture in most non large cities or urban areas. People tend to be nicer, not competitive and not interested in filming themselves while working out they go to the gym for the gym. Occasionally young people meet in a respectful manner like this video but its typically laid back and positive.
I was in a similar situation a few years back. I was trying face-pulls for the first time and couldn't get it right without falling forward, so I gave up and moved to a machine nearby. A few minutes later, this girl comes over and does it perfectly, so i ask her for advice. She was super cool and gave me great tips. We became good friends. Fast forward five years, we just got married. This is the type of gym culture i advocate for. A willingness to teach, learn, and respect each other can only help the community.
It is a sad reflection on our society that we are so happy to see something like this when it should just be the norm. Good on both parties for showing how it is supposed to be.
Give her a free year of membership, people like her are great to have around in the gym she was well within her rights to refuse but still took time out her day to help.
Amen brother!! Remember everyone , God Jesus, Loves us all. Repent while you can! Just know, all repentance is, is simply trying to change, and if you can’t, ask God to help. Help is something we all need sometimes, and that we should all be willing to give. ❤✝️
I don't understand why all adults can't act like this. It takes no energy to be polite and helpful. Love this.
It takes tons of energy. I can't even offer up a simple "thank you" unless I've had at least 17 energy drinks and I'm still in elementary skew.
You're forgetting... It takes maturity.
@@ericcartmansstrengthandpow5960That’s just sad. I hope you’re joking. Having manners and common courtesy takes seconds out of your day. The first thought I have when I see rude entitled ppl is that they have awful parents. Would you say the same of your own?
Far to Many women IN the Gym are Pick me girls. They think any Male saying HI wants to date them, ask a question? you Better Be worth His or Her time in Looks etc. I am so sick Of it.
Saddly it seems to be getting worse with the Internet .... OR the Net is flooded with so Many Negative { human Nature wanting to watch a car crash I guess} and out of the 1000 of great experiences we Only see the 10% of a Holes
@@MuckyPup115for someone like myself with severe social anxiety, it actually takes a LOT out of me to talk to strangers at all. Obviously this shouldn’t be the norm, but please try to remember some of us are suffering with our own issues. It doesn’t come as naturally for everyone, and we usually aren’t “trying” to be rude or uncivil in any way.
It’s also a learned thing from trauma… for example I smiled back at an older man in the bus once when I was 17 going to work… that man proceeded to sit next to me, kept touching my thigh, and followed me all the way to work. Not every one has good intentions and sometimes friendly gestures get you into difficult and sometimes scary situations, especially for females.
Awww, this was so wholesome
Love to see it!
Am I paranoid. Just got home from the gym and I learnt how to deadlift today. I havent told any body, didnt even write about it but i go to youtube and this is the first vid i see and this kinda shi has happened alot. Paranoid or coincidence.
Best of all is that she did NOT make him feel embarrassed, or like a creep/weirdo! She interacted with him kindly and gave him the pointers he needed!
astute observation
Yeah, probably because its staged. Guys need to have some sense and stay away from women in the gym who have a tripod setup. Its just not worth the risk.
@@jspro100 You are a perfect example of the problem.
That woman must be protected at all costs.... He young mans parents need to get kudos for raising such a respectful lad
They are both brilliant people.
lol…he’s hitting on her..come on
Not at all costs surely? Maybe from a wasp or spider but anything to serious and she’s on her own
Correct me if I'm wrong, but wasn't she lifting with bad form which could lead to a back injury?
yeah protect a narcissist filming the entire gym 🙄
Contrary to what some people might think, asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness.
Honestly, I find it as a sign of strength and courage. it takes a lot to admit when we don't know something and we need help. It really shows his strength of character.
I'd like to believe this is legit and not staged so she can get likes but the internet has jaded me so I'll just move along.
Some see it as a sign of growth.
You can't get answers if you don't ask questions.
@jshelton100 if more and more people thought this way the world would be a much better place!
Love it! And the best part is she didn’t get all upset that he walked over while she was filming.
That was going to be my comment. He was brave to go up to her when she was recording, but she was so great to not get upset and to take the time to help her was great.
What are you people talking about? This is the most normal interaction
And why Americans like to film everything?
@@Commentator488 You must be new here. This is not normal in a lot of gyms.
@@TonyTheTruckGuy
Maybe in the US.
@@Commentator488 Well, that’s where Joey, and most if not all of his clips come from lol
1998, I was a much younger man and in the gym at the MGM Hotel in Las Vegas. I was getting to my last set on the bench and asked my wife, who was and is in sick shape, for a spot. She chuckled, saying it was way more weight than she was comfortable spotting me on. The only other person in the gym was Randy Travis. I was afraid to ask. I know he gets bothered by people all day, and he probably just wanted to be in the zone for a while. Having no other choice, I did approach him and apologetically asked him if he would assist my wife in spotting me. He was an absolute gentleman and said, "Sure, I'll spot you! We are in the gym. I don't mind being asked to spot you at all!" Randy now uses a wheelchair after a severe stroke. I pray for his comfort as he was a gentleman to me and my wife that day!
That’s awesome. One of his songs popped into my head as I was reading your comment and it made me smile.
Randy Travis has always seemed very down to earth to me. A good guy.
"Ask for help, not because you're weak but because you want to remain strong." - Les Brown
and improve, but not having the knowledge/experience on how to
She must be a very strong person indeed. She lifted him and herself at the same time.
Nice one
The simple act of kindness goes a long way and can make a person's day, week or even year. You can inspire someone do to better, train harder all while being gracious. This is the gym culture we need!
how can you not love this.............this is why we have great people at gyms...........help everyone you can...never be afraid to ask for help.
Dudes a simp
Keep showcasing these beautiful moments. As much as the bad gym-goers need to be called out, the wonderful ones need to be lifted up. We need to see all of these positive interactions to lift US up. I'm glad that we don't always only have to see the bad.
I agree
Agree! Well done to this young lady for showing this lad excellent form and being so helpful!
Totally agree!
Joey, thank your for always giving encouragement and happiness. We need more of you in the world.
I love the fact that you highlight the positive aspects of gym culture as well.❤
She’s got some Joey Swole traps on her! Definitely a good person to ask for deadlift tips from
This video warms my heart. This is the way it used to be. We could just ask for help and get it. Well done
I have lifted weights for over 20 years now and THIS is what I actually see in gyms way more often than what is amplified online. I don’t see creepy men, or entitled women, I just see people trying to better themselves and each gym goer cheerleading for one another.
That was great of her to help him. I'm going to have to show this to my gym. Thanks for spreading the word. We all need a little help sometimes.
this is how all women should be - kind, confident and mature
Edit : youtube kept consoring my replies which are basically explanations so im explaining here.
@emphasis20 talking in circles isnt my thing neither but anything i try to say against the narrative gets censored thats why im saying it this way. lemme tell you again "Men get harsher consequences for same crime" that forces men to act properly. ofc there will be outliers but men fought in wars and paid the price so whatever worse treatments you kept saying the other gender got gets balanced, dont act like men werent treated badly. men didnt get to sit in the comfort of their homes, whole infrastructure is built by men. responsibilities and authority go hand in hand. try reading my previous comment which irked you, again. just stating facts. dont pretend that women are the only victims.i never said anything demeaning to women in my previous comments as well
I agree. And this is how all men should be - kind, respectful and mature.
@@TopoGigio555 FACTS
I agree, but I also understand why women in gyms sometimes might not be. Consider if the previous 9 times this happened to her the guy had been trying to hit on her and it was unwanted, could get old after a while
@@johnk6757 if someone gets hit too often she could just act like an adult and say no, if the problem still persists she could go and ask for gym staff help instead creating unwanted drama or trying to make herself look like some helpless victim online. i like people who face problems head on and deal with them instead using victim card or trying to gain clout at every chance they get
@@TopoGigio555 men in gym are always like that. if not they gonna be called out or kicked out. it might surprise you but men themselves aren't forgiving on other mens bad behavior.
My grandma used to say "the arm that helps always gets longer when you use it". The idea is if you help somebody ("the arm") you're also helping that person to be more active in helping others in need ("the arm gets longer").
In this particular case, the arm not only gets longer, but also stronger
made me smile! kid has good form, too.
I’ve asked people at the gym to show me certain things. They’re always willing to show me!
Its nice to see gym content that isnt incredibly toxic
I'm honored to be the first person to like and comment your video because as a skinny and small person, i have struggled to join gym
At my first day, i didn't hesitated to ask help, but when you don't have a personal coach, you don't want to disturb other people too much
Love from France ♥️
My heart melted watching this video. Beautiful
I have tears in my eyes. First the young man didn't have an ego and was willing to get help from a woman. The woman took from her time and taught the young man. They helped each other and offered her assistance in the future. Pure gym gold.
you’re so dramatic.
Tears.. get a grip 😂
Don’t you mean Golds Gym?
Eh?
Eh?
*chirping crickets*
Okay I’ll see myself out.
@@targetdreamer257 you definitely like your own comments don’t you.. smh
Bro calm down 😂
Good for her.
Good for him.
Kudos to anyone like these two.
This is lovely. I love his courage and humility to ask for help, and her kindness and generosity to teach him. THIS is the internet I'm here for.
A lot of people ask me how they can rep 855 on incline bench press when they see me doing it in the gym. For their own safety I have to tell them I can't teach them that. I'm a Beefcake, not a miracle worker, ok.
I still don't want to be recorded in the background without my consent. Ban filming at the gym!
You’re filled everytime you’re in the gym regardless. Maybe make a home gym?
I’m too proud to ask anyone for help and the few times I did I got shot down 😂… this is exactly why I miss my brother because he taught me what to do. I don’t want to look like She-Ra … I just want to be toned. And I just realized “She-Ra” is like “Ra” 👁️
Issa a no for me dawg. Approaching women in public is way too risky. Hell read the comments. The subtle jabs at men for no reason! 🤦🏾♂️ Nah bruh UA-cam it or ask a homie
Imagine him asking a 'wrong' person. It would probably have massive concequences to his whole life.
She gave him a lifetime of knowledge worth more than 15 minutes of being infamous
Gym Culture we had in the 80's, was exactly like this. There were NO Professional Personal Trainers, the idea of that was foreign, because everyone learned by watching, asking, and experienced people gladly offered help.
Yeah, that was awesome and what gym culture is all about.
That was so sweet. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
She pulled more weight than I could. What a seriously strong lift.
Yeah, she pulled it rather easily, too. I wonder what her one rep max is. Maybe she competes or might have competed in lifting in the past. I don't deadlift anymore but when I was young and determined in my gym days I could only pull 425 and I am a man. But I was happy with that because the deadlift was hard to do because of my body type. Benching was more my thing.
❤❤❤❤ love this. Wish i had the confidence of that young man
Finally, a woman at a gym not being offended by a man speaking to her.
I'm so glad this young man had the courage to ask the young woman for assistance. I'm glad she gave him good advice and explained the process behind it. Encouraging him to do a couple of reps while she watched and letting him know she's happy to assist in the future was great.
This is what a healthy gym culture looks like.
Finally?
Although the intended message of the content is very good. That woman pulling 315lb without straps using a standard grip is truly impressive.
What a brave young man to approach someone, especially a lady in light of all of those self-absorbed videos, and ask for tips on an exercise! And what a patient and nurturing young lady to teach this man how to properly deadlift safely. 👏🏼
After reading these reactions, I'm shocked by how this generation is impressed by even the slightest normal moral behavior
It just shows you how low the bar has been set in society.
"I lowkey want to learn it"
So why not just say "I want to learn it".
Why do kids have to add a bunch of filler words to everything? "dead ass" "killed me" and so on.
Just say what you mean!
That put a big smile on my face, and that is how somebody who loves the gym* should behave. By taking a few minutes to give a few tips on how to deadlift, she's passing that love on to somebody else. It takes a lot of courage to ask for help/advice, because you never know what you whether you're going to get when you ask for help.
* I think a lot of the videos that earn Joey's ire come from people who purport to "love the gym," but their behaviors don't make sense to me. Generally when we love something, we want to share that passion with others. I've never heard of anyone hearing their favorite song playing on the radio and saying something like, "this is my favorite song and it will p*ss me off if I see anybody else enjoying it."
That’s what it’s all about peace an love everyone ! ☮️ 🌍 ❤️
He probably asked her for help because he thought she was attractive.
"And that kids is how i met your mother"
Hell yeah...that dude and the lady are what gyms should be.
whoa, a gym girl being wholesome?! today's going to be a good day!!
Fantastic! Manners, respect, integrity...all free and so much better than the what you so often see. Feel good people.
Humility and a good attitude. They don't cost a person anything. He clearly wanted to learn and overcame the potential fear of approaching her to ask for help. But, this is a great example of why we as people should never feel afraid or embarrassed to ask for help ans guidance from those that can provide it. He'll do Deadlifts now and this experience will stay with him forever. Probably with her too. Awesome stuff. We need more good humans like these two. 👍🏾
I've been shy asking people at the gym, but I have tried a few times with somewhat success. My issue is being worried I will look stupid, but this video gives me encouragement.
thanks.
Bro has more courage then I ever did at that age. Kudos to him and to the lady for teaching him.
This gave me the warm and fuzzy feelings that I forgot existed.
Thats good but why would you ask a woman as man.
Thats absolutely demeaning. Ask a guy or learn yourself and leave these 304s to it 😂
I've asked people to spot me a couple times. After being told no, I don't want to ask anymore.
I’m too afraid to ask for help at my gym. Everyone is in their own world.
I started the gym and I’ve seen people doing squats and deadlifts and I’ve wanted to ask but from the stuff I’ve been seeing (even if it’s not really true) I’ve been a little bit scared to ask for help, this kind of gave me a little bit more hope.
Love his respect and courage to approach her and I love her politeness and respect for him. I wish they were both members of my gym !!
Thos lady was awesome.
He is just sweet for asking and having the courage to step up❤
what I'm really happy about is that she told him that she was always open to answer any more questions he had! letting him know that she would always be there to help him
Really proud of him for being brave to ask for help, and for her helping a person in earnest need there. This is great. Good teamwork and good luck to him out there. learning how to do things safely makes it less scary.
Yes!! That's the gym culture of the 80s/90s that I remember so well. I wouldn't step foot in one today though, if I wasn't disabled. Cameras are the bane of my outdoor ventures.
I'm disabled, and it's the reason I stopped going to the gym. We don't have a lot of choices in my area, and the only affordable ones really are Planet Fitness and Vasa. I'm NOT doing PF, I am not that desperate, so I signed up for Vasa in late 2019. They don't have disabled parking, and apparently don't know, or care, that disabled people still DO go to the gym and try and be as healthy as our disabilities allow. I started asking them in about January or February of 2020 to install disabled parking, emphasizing how dangerous the parking is for someone who is disabled, especially since it is dark out majority of the day, icy and slick, and people can't drive for crap in our area. I was respectful and understanding, trying so hard not to be a Karen, while making it clear how necessary disabled parking is. I kept asking them every year, throughout the year, trying not to be a nuisance, but reminding them that we disabled people still go to that gym(and I am not the only one, there is a wheelchair bound guy that goes). They kept saying "ohhh, well, it takes a while, we have to submit a permit, I'll let my higher up know, blah blah blah". I eventually started messaging their FB, and corporate. Nothing happened. Finally this winter, it had been FOUR YEARS, and I was getting fed up of fearing for my joints and my health every time I wanted to work out, so I insisted on speaking with the highest up manager, as respectfully as I could. One girl was super snotty and dismissive, so I decided to just terminate my membership. They wanted to put it on hold, and not outright cancel, but I insisted, stating it has been four years and absolutely nothing has happened. Another(nicer) manager, a head trainer, came up, and she quietly(because she might get in trouble for suggesting it) recommended going to the BBB. I thanked her, and did that. Vasa's response to BBB was identical to what i have been getting for four years, "it takes time, need permits, it's up to the city, blah blah". So when BBB asked if the answer was satisfactory, I replied with a resounding NO and explained why. I think they still don't have any disabled parking. They don't give a shit about disabled people, is so frustrating
It's an excuse to talk to her bruv ain't fooling any1
The other thing to mention is that wouldn’t have happened if he was looking at her while she was working out. Some need to realise that people looking at others in the gym is exactly for that reason. I look at people doing exercises if they're doing something I haven't seen before that looks interesting or if i can take tips from their form. I do this to all genders.
I agree they inspired me to ask next time because I can’t even go to the gym without feeling intimidated so maybe I’ll meet a kind person next time.
Helping other people better themselves is what gym culture should always be about.
Is it just me or was her form a little off? Her legs were really close together and her back looked kinda arched.
Who the fuck are all these people filming interactions in the gym? I don’t get it
Idk seems rehearsed
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Awh hell nah I ain’t taking lifting advice from a woman bro 💀 the hell
Question is though, would she react the the same if she wasn't filming? We all know people do these things for publicity.
WOW. Just WOW!!!!!!!! Hearts all over!!!!!
He knew what he was doing, he didn't need any help 😅 why didn't he ask a man😅?
Man is trying to set common ground for the future, so he can ask her out. lol let’s be real.
Lets be honest. We all know why he asked for help. Ik the response ill get cause no one want to admit the truth in this case
This is What a Great woman looks like
Meanwhile there are shallow and low humans in the gym
Sherein is amazing her page is nothing but positivity shoutout to her 💚
I mean why wouldn't you ask her for help, she is deadlifting an insane amount of weight right there (even for males) its 180KG no ? She is attractive, and it seems easy for her. Awesome how she helped him out , awesome interaction
3 plates is 140 and I guess the 2 25s make it 160 plus change but yeah crazy impressive
I think this is the gym culture in most non large cities or urban areas. People tend to be nicer, not competitive and not interested in filming themselves while working out they go to the gym for the gym. Occasionally young people meet in a respectful manner like this video but its typically laid back and positive.
😃 wow nice to see something positive!
I was in a similar situation a few years back. I was trying face-pulls for the first time and couldn't get it right without falling forward, so I gave up and moved to a machine nearby. A few minutes later, this girl comes over and does it perfectly, so i ask her for advice. She was super cool and gave me great tips.
We became good friends. Fast forward five years, we just got married. This is the type of gym culture i advocate for. A willingness to teach, learn, and respect each other can only help the community.
Had similar experience when I started going to the gym again, saw a guy deadlifting and asked for some tips, was super chill and walked me through it
If only this was a genuine interaction and not a staged one for a video to get clout.
That is awesome! Such a wholesome video.
THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!
LET'S GOOO!!! 💪🏼🇺🇲👍🏻
He thinks she’s hot, why else would he ask?
That’s the kind of interaction that makes me smile
Dude was trying to pick up lets be real
It is a sad reflection on our society that we are so happy to see something like this when it should just be the norm. Good on both parties for showing how it is supposed to be.
Truly no better way to learn than this. Real world experience and a great teacher.
Give her a free year of membership, people like her are great to have around in the gym she was well within her rights to refuse but still took time out her day to help.
And that is how relationships start.
Bravo to that lovely woman in helping that man learn that exercise at the workout place. We need more people like that.
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that's the opposite of what usually happens when a woman records herself and a man is involved, warms my heart!
Awesome! They both give me hope for the future generation! This is how it should be.
Amen brother!! Remember everyone , God Jesus, Loves us all. Repent while you can! Just know, all repentance is, is simply trying to change, and if you can’t, ask God to help. Help is something we all need sometimes, and that we should all be willing to give. ❤✝️