Raised on a Lie

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  • @valpooh7532
    @valpooh7532 Рік тому +68

    She was hugging her Dad so tight!!! I loved it ❤❤❤❤

  • @macymurray12
    @macymurray12 Рік тому +111

    I’m so glad judge Mathis let her know how some parents keep the other parent away from their children

  • @mrs.carter3060
    @mrs.carter3060 Рік тому +62

    Coming from a fatherless home,I always get so emotional when these cases come on! I am so happy for her and her Father! No matter what age,A child always want their Dad!

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 Рік тому +3

      Really the best of my life when he was gone !
      Not everyone maybe you want yours !
      Search him at this point ....

    • @mrs.carter3060
      @mrs.carter3060 Рік тому +1

      @@Jsarmy87124I know where he is..I know where he live at and all… he just chooses to not be in my life.

    • @LosAngelesLaura
      @LosAngelesLaura Рік тому +2

      😢 Mrs. Carter…. This made me sad…. ❤

    • @mrs.carter3060
      @mrs.carter3060 Рік тому

      @@LosAngelesLaura😢

    • @Msjayallday1
      @Msjayallday1 Рік тому +1

      Same, sis! Same!

  • @adrianknight1406
    @adrianknight1406 Рік тому +31

    Thankfully for the plaintiff she was able to find her father which is a blessing that so many others never get that opportunity.

  • @tom11zz884
    @tom11zz884 Рік тому +239

    Judge still hurting over his father.

    • @lanag492
      @lanag492 Рік тому +23

      Only way to release that hurt is to forgive that man for not being present..he's a smart man when he's ready he will..I hope so

    • @jplaya2023
      @jplaya2023 Рік тому +11

      No its just apart of his schitck now in paternity cases

    • @christiandilday7543
      @christiandilday7543 Рік тому +9

      His bio dad not father,rest his soul wasn't shit like most us deadbeat dads who make no effort 😢

    • @tashiaredd3421
      @tashiaredd3421 Рік тому

      @@christiandilday7543you’re a dead head dad too?

    • @Jodie296
      @Jodie296 Рік тому +12

      Yes bless his heart. I don’t think anyone ever truly gets over being rejected by a parent…Son to Father especially.😢

  • @gillianpeters8029
    @gillianpeters8029 Рік тому +26

    I was holding the tears but when she was hugging him and said “You really my daddy!!!” I couldn’t hold it back anymore🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲💖💖💖💖💖

  • @supremeclientele1356
    @supremeclientele1356 Рік тому +19

    I’m definitely crying! I’m so happy for the two of them. I pray that her twin brother is at peace. Blessings to them…🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @MrsRobinson9468
    @MrsRobinson9468 Рік тому +36

    Man who is cutting the damn onions😢😂 I'm over here crying when he was hugging his daughter

    • @LosAngelesLaura
      @LosAngelesLaura Рік тому +1

      OMG I read this before getting to this part and now I’m sooooo excited to get to that part!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @tjspn_tv
    @tjspn_tv Рік тому +102

    “He’s going to sign my birth certificate… and I’m going to have a Daddy on my birth certificate.” 😢😢😢

    • @kimf442
      @kimf442 Рік тому +7

      That part 😢

    • @christiandilday7543
      @christiandilday7543 Рік тому +4

      So many black men who don't do this make us all look bad smh 🤦‍♂️

    • @tashiaredd3421
      @tashiaredd3421 Рік тому +3

      @@christiandilday7543naw they make themselves look bad. Cause not everything all “bad moms” do make other moms look bad.

    • @Nurse_Nash
      @Nurse_Nash Рік тому

      Choked me up 🥹

  • @Longpipejang
    @Longpipejang Рік тому +60

    So selfish what these mothers put on their children. Why would you think its a good idea to convince your children that your new man is their father

    • @cgogetit
      @cgogetit Рік тому +4

      I agree 💯. I was one of those kids But I wasn't in denial. They'll tell you that this other man is your father meanwhile I could hear the not so secret conversations of the truth. My cousin would tease me about my brother's father not being mine to make me cry. When people would ask about "Greg's kids," there was always an awkward moment because they didn't want to say "SHE AIN'T HIS," in front of me. I even got a whooping for saying this man wasn't my father (even though I didn't, my evil ass cousin did and lied.) It's a heavy load carrying that weight. Even if the man chooses to be absent. Tell them the truth. Lying to a child that already has an absent father only adds to the trauma.

    • @piinkam0r
      @piinkam0r Рік тому +3

      So I’m young but my ex is crazy and abusive I’m not telling my child that’s his real father . He’s not around anyways

    • @lailanimessina1473
      @lailanimessina1473 Рік тому +4

      @@piinkam0rthat’s not ur place to make that decision for the child unless he’s abusive or neglectful to the child ! When the child’s old enough they’ll make the decision if they want a relationship with THEIR FATHER smh

    • @piinkam0r
      @piinkam0r Рік тому +3

      @@lailanimessina1473 I literally said my ex is abusive…

    • @piinkam0r
      @piinkam0r Рік тому +2

      @@lailanimessina1473 I said my ex is crazy and abusive, plus he only reaches out when he feels like it, the father’s side have never reached out. I’m not telling my child who his real father is .

  • @brookequeen1363
    @brookequeen1363 Рік тому +4

    she’s been waiting so long to know and the relief when she’s hugging him knowing he really is her dad 🥺🩷

  • @thacollinssquad1103
    @thacollinssquad1103 Рік тому +32

    Judge Mathis story about his dad is so sad 😟😢
    his dad missed out on a great guy 😔

  • @Shellygrrl2573
    @Shellygrrl2573 Рік тому +60

    I'm trying to figure out why she's standing there alone and her trifling mother who caused this mess isn't there answering questions for what she did.

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 Рік тому +23

      The trifling mothers are somehow always let off the hook in these situations.
      No accountability from them.

    • @tashiaredd3421
      @tashiaredd3421 Рік тому +5

      @@tom11zz884cause the children are raised with the mom and hold them in high regards cause they’re the ones who were there raising them. And those moms were able to paint whatever story they want of the dad.

    • @traceyjackson4470
      @traceyjackson4470 Рік тому +7

      Is her mother still alive? 🤔

    • @valeedadavidson678
      @valeedadavidson678 Рік тому +9

      TRIFLING MOTHER? DAMN. DO YOU KNOW IF SHE IS STILL ALIVE? YOU NEED TO REPENT.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Рік тому +1

      @@tom11zz884 Are you and @adrianknight1406 long-lost siblings? What type of childhood did you have? What's your relationship with your mother? So many questions, but people full of hate arouse my therapeutic curiosity. The difference between you and Adrian is that he hates ALL women, yours seems to be directed at only Black women.

  • @bridgetts4767
    @bridgetts4767 Рік тому +13

    I really dislike when bitter women keep the fathers from their kids. At the end of the day it’s only hurting the kids. My kids are my EVERYTHING and I would never do ANYTHING to hurt them no matter how I feel!! I’m so happy for them 🥰

    • @Datpmf112
      @Datpmf112 Рік тому

      No one can keep a parent from their kids for 20 yrs

  • @Nicolethomas51312
    @Nicolethomas51312 Рік тому +1

    They're both nice looking people. I can't stop crying, this was very beautiful.

  • @deeniemediainc9959
    @deeniemediainc9959 Рік тому +6

    Lucky Lady. Three men willing to be her dad. I can’t even get one! Lol! And she seems so sweet.

  • @nicolesamuels8879
    @nicolesamuels8879 Рік тому +3

    Mr. Terrell is Talking in his Snoop Dogg voice

  • @lilmai2616
    @lilmai2616 Рік тому +14

    Beautiful case❤🎉

  • @nicolelutumbs6437
    @nicolelutumbs6437 Рік тому +3

    😢 I love this episode. I'm so happy for her RIP to her brother he would have been so happy with their union.

  • @ThePrettiiTrucker
    @ThePrettiiTrucker Рік тому +12

    Beautiful ending 🥰🥰🥰

  • @adrianknight1406
    @adrianknight1406 Рік тому +16

    Mathis seemingly always goes off on a long diatribe about his father signifies to me that he still harbors ill feelings towards his father for obvious reasons.

    • @MaryjaneLove
      @MaryjaneLove Рік тому

      &&&& That's true .. his dad left his mom for whatever reason . . .💔💔💔💔💔💯

  • @elisapierre-procope9177
    @elisapierre-procope9177 Рік тому +13

    My sister’s daddy, my brother’s daddy, this daddy, that daddy - one mamma. We have got to stop doing this.

  • @wildernesswarcry4882
    @wildernesswarcry4882 Рік тому +15

    Grateful for the outcome. I pray Judge Mathis gets over the hurt his father caused him and his family and is able to forgive him and heal.❤️

  • @dashawndavis838
    @dashawndavis838 Рік тому +36

    Black men we have to start taking better care of our children and stop having so many excuses. To be honest we are the direct cause for a many of the problems in our community.

    • @bryanjohnson8982
      @bryanjohnson8982 Рік тому +4

      Who is we? Speak for yourself

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 Рік тому +6

      Well, in this case, it was a Black Woman that was dishonest, sleeping around with multiple men and not telling the men who the father was...

    • @SINFULMI3RA
      @SINFULMI3RA Рік тому +3

      @@bryanjohnson8982she said black man the absentee black father is a very high percentage it’s literally a race joke to say to a black person where’s your dad don’t play.

    • @SINFULMI3RA
      @SINFULMI3RA Рік тому

      @@tom11zz884if he wanted to see about his kids the court would petition her for a dna test for the kids im not excusing her behavior but I grew up with a single father I was raised by my father and he didn’t play that shit got dna test on all of us and full custody

    • @nikkif9873
      @nikkif9873 Рік тому

      🙏🏾

  • @fdozi5801
    @fdozi5801 4 місяці тому

    So sorry for the loss of your brother.. son, but this was awesome! Nothing like knowing where you cane from! Shame on the mother for denying those kids their father...

  • @shannonperkins5651
    @shannonperkins5651 Рік тому +3

    Such sweet hugs and kisses!

  • @lilmai2616
    @lilmai2616 Рік тому +8

    Good Evening Judge Mathis I hope all is well.

    • @pattiamoh1136
      @pattiamoh1136 Рік тому

      Single mother go through a lot no help from the fathers single free proud of it

    • @pattiamoh1136
      @pattiamoh1136 Рік тому

      Child free proud of it

  • @Peace92959
    @Peace92959 Рік тому +4

    SHE LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL

  • @RyuWMFist
    @RyuWMFist Рік тому +4

    He could have keep that last part.... dead beat.... lookin like hold up, when she said she wanted him to sign the birth certificate.... like he was thinking "does that mean i have to pay back CS?"....

  • @christiandilday7543
    @christiandilday7543 Рік тому +4

    Mothers need to stop playing paternity games 😢

  • @taydowns7207
    @taydowns7207 Рік тому

    Damn judge. Just hit home with a lot of us

  • @rl3781
    @rl3781 Рік тому

    One of the best episodes ❤

  • @Spider-Manfan555
    @Spider-Manfan555 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much ❤

  • @Barbiekell-86
    @Barbiekell-86 Рік тому +5

    Yup my sons dads name is not on his birth certificate but he still is on child support he asked for a DNA test when I took him to court for child support he was found to be the father name still not on birth certificate and was told he had to pay child support

    • @unclebrother6244
      @unclebrother6244 Рік тому +3

      Is he actively in your son's life? (Spending quality time with him; providing emotional support to him; guiding him through boyhood, etc )

  • @laphenixlife
    @laphenixlife Рік тому +1

    The mom is a piece of work

  • @christiandilday7543
    @christiandilday7543 Рік тому +3

    Wait wheres her mom in this case or story

  • @daniellegreen231
    @daniellegreen231 3 місяці тому

    Lawwwwd have mercy..bless his heart he said "two thousand eighty one" 😂😂😂😂 am I the only one that heard bc didn't seem like anyone caught that...lolz

  • @KayB-l5h
    @KayB-l5h Рік тому +1

    Judge telling his story about his dad gets sadder everytime. 🙏

  • @KayB-l5h
    @KayB-l5h Рік тому +2

    She put them on the brothers dad then had them raised by the sisters dad🤦‍♀️ why not give them their dad from the beginning. The plaintiff's whole demeanor comes from her mom. It's sad it took so long to get the truth. Hopefully they can build something genuine.

  • @madmemadhouseme4885
    @madmemadhouseme4885 5 місяців тому

    I'm sorry for the loss of your brother.

  • @jm2297
    @jm2297 Рік тому +1

    When I see these cases I'm always rooting for a happy ending but also get so mad that like 90% of the time these people always suspected it and did nothing.

  • @BoogieDown-q5f
    @BoogieDown-q5f Рік тому +2

    Im happy for them but sad also bcz so much time has gone by!!!! She lucky if she gets 10yrs of him still living.

  • @jeremiahbeavers2911
    @jeremiahbeavers2911 Рік тому

    That was beautiful 😢❤

  • @mikeanderson9613
    @mikeanderson9613 Рік тому +1

    I understand what judge mathis is saying. I grew up without my my so called dad. I do not know anything about him other then. I might have a sister but i turn out fine

  • @christiandilday7543
    @christiandilday7543 Рік тому +2

    Wait where was her mom in this case or story 😢

  • @tammyportee6095
    @tammyportee6095 Рік тому +2

    Wow please let people know certain things in life family as we an they get old enough to know its important 😢😢😢😮

  • @livia8227
    @livia8227 Рік тому +1

    The way some women just lie to these kids makes me sick. Even if you marry ssomeone else and they want to be in your child’s life, don’t deprive your child from knowing the truth.

  • @QueenSheba43
    @QueenSheba43 Рік тому

    Very touching ❤❤❤

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 Рік тому +2

    A happy ending!!!

  • @allymaree8812
    @allymaree8812 Рік тому +1

    I airways hate hearing when a twin loses their other half 😢

  • @kimsafford9855
    @kimsafford9855 Рік тому

    Beautiful Happy ending ❤😍

  • @Victoria-OneLove4AllPeople
    @Victoria-OneLove4AllPeople Рік тому +1

    Honorable Judge Greg Mathis
    is an Exemplary Man! 💯

  • @rianaloveiam7429
    @rianaloveiam7429 Рік тому

    So beautiful

  • @HeyMe75
    @HeyMe75 Рік тому

    After all those years of him being irresponsible.

  • @morgan94
    @morgan94 Рік тому

    She wouldn’t let him go 🥹

  • @carolharris5455
    @carolharris5455 Рік тому

    I wanna cry

  • @ShanetteLewis
    @ShanetteLewis Рік тому

    Awe…

  • @meishasmith6485
    @meishasmith6485 Рік тому +1

    It always go back to jm

  • @Bolobei
    @Bolobei Рік тому +3

    Im here again 3 for 3

  • @kingdjack6
    @kingdjack6 7 місяців тому

    Wait the brother get a DNA test also keep in mind since they aren't identical this a slim chance they can have different fathers.

  • @andreatheanalyst
    @andreatheanalyst Рік тому

    Technically he is not the father yet because their are being born in 2081 lol

  • @kingdjack6
    @kingdjack6 7 місяців тому

    Nevermind didn't know the brother was killed.

  • @nathanbroome5002
    @nathanbroome5002 Рік тому

    She looks just like him 😢

  • @TrulyOutrageous
    @TrulyOutrageous Рік тому

    let andre go he didn’t even want u

  • @ericadixon1471
    @ericadixon1471 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @simonsez1787
    @simonsez1787 Рік тому +4

    Broski said “in 2081…”

    • @chrislawson5370
      @chrislawson5370 Рік тому +2

      LMAO I was looking for this comment.

    • @thacollinssquad1103
      @thacollinssquad1103 Рік тому +1

      I missed that part now I gotta go back and listen 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @thomasgardner1136
      @thomasgardner1136 Рік тому +1

      Don't do that he nervous🤣🤣🤣

    • @simonsez1787
      @simonsez1787 Рік тому

      @@thomasgardner1136 my age advanced by 100 years when he said that 🫨👵🏾

  • @nicolechatman8634
    @nicolechatman8634 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤😢😢😢

  • @PanamaJones7
    @PanamaJones7 Рік тому

    The both have that thin long face. Hers just wider (maybe from the mama genes) but he definitely passed that face shape down to her

  • @aprillipscomb991
    @aprillipscomb991 Рік тому +1

    😭😭😭❤❤❤

  • @majxai5997
    @majxai5997 Рік тому +2

    This nigga said February 2081 5:25

  • @lindaeaston6163
    @lindaeaston6163 Рік тому

    TEARS OF JOY!!!!! HE SAID "I KNOW I'M THE FATHER"!!!!!! NOW HE CAN SIGN HER BIRTH CERTIFICATE!!!!!❤

  • @ericablige9449
    @ericablige9449 Рік тому

    #3 Peace💜Family

  • @warsamehaji2346
    @warsamehaji2346 Рік тому +2

    February 2081

  • @queenleorobi8253
    @queenleorobi8253 Рік тому

    They looked just a like

  • @mom2babygkaterad946
    @mom2babygkaterad946 Рік тому

    🥹😍🥰

  • @Reallychris_
    @Reallychris_ Рік тому +1

    Her mom ain't ish!

  • @xxxx2935
    @xxxx2935 Рік тому +2

    . ( DEUTERONOMY ) 28 : 15 - 68... 100%, !!!!!! Please, for give us, LORD, ( YAHAWAH AND YAHAWASHI ).

  • @LisaLisa-jr3gr
    @LisaLisa-jr3gr Рік тому +1

    I wish black men would fight (legally) for their seed! Why allow move on in life and not be with your kids? I don’t care what the mother says, both ppl have rights.

  • @valeedadavidson678
    @valeedadavidson678 Рік тому +1

    HE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT NOT SEEING HIS FATHER SINCE HE WAS 13. WHICH MEANS YOU WERE APPOINTED 22 YRS LATER. HE JUST SAID HIS FATHER WAS IN THE HOSPITAL WHEN HE WAS APPOINTED (1995). HIS FATHER SAID THAT'S MY SON. SOMEONE ASKED WHY HE DOESN'T COME SEE YOU. HE SAID I HAVEN'T SEEN HIM IN 40 YEARS. YET YOU WERE 35 AT THE TIME

    • @mecca6941
      @mecca6941 Рік тому +6

      Stop trying to spin a horrible narrative about the validity of his story....His daddy wasn't shit ..point ..blank and period

  • @highlander666
    @highlander666 Рік тому

    it's unfortunate how typical this is in the blk community

  • @geejb5166
    @geejb5166 Рік тому +4

    “He’s gonna sign my birth certificate” 🥹 ugh I held the tears in until this part 😭

  • @MickNema
    @MickNema Рік тому +1

    I have a valid judge "Degree" @judgemathis😊😅😊