Why Alpha Males Can’t Handle Sigma Males
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- Опубліковано 22 чер 2024
- Why Alpha Males Can’t Handle Sigma Males
Alpha males are known to be the most successful breed of men anywhere they go. They love it when people cheer them on and it is the main reason behind their success.
The alpha male seeks to control and loves being on top of the situation at all times, but what happens when he meets someone quite the opposite? Someone he knows he cannot control. Someone equally as smart as him, if not smarter, but doesn't care to show it.
Just like in a wolf pack where the alpha has no control over the lone wolf, so also in real life, alpha males find it impossible to handle sigma males.
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A Sigma Male is a 1st deacon Sagittarius November 24th only mutable fire sign 99999999999999999999999999999999999 a Alpha male is a Leo fire sign and a beta male is a Aries fire sign
A Sigma Male is a 1st deacon Sagittarius November 24th only mutable fire sign 99999999999999999999999999999999999 a Alpha male is a Leo fire sign and a beta male is a Aries fire sign
@3 Faces I Am BOTH OF WHAT
Most cult leaders and organised religious founders were Alpha males and the mavericks like Bruno & Spinoza were Sigma men.
@@OgaugeTrainsplusslotCars so u r beta male who is antisocial person and u r afraid to speak with females so u call urself sigma?
A friend of mine definitely fits the description of Sigma, but he is very competetive. Not towards others, but towards himself. He keeps pushing his own boundaries. He is extremely down to earth and often silent. Doesn't take credit, because he doesn't need outside validation.
That's because that's how we achieve success: constantly competing against ourselves.
Sigmas learn very quickly that they can normally outperform those around them through dedication and effort, and so competing with others quickly becomes redundant as an incentive to improve oneself, you should simply aim to constantly improve upon your past success.
Seem to be inhumanly good at something and you don't know anyone who can come close? Looks like you need to pick up a new skill, and then start the journey of self competition all over again.
I have such an obscene skillset for my age and its all down to this relentless attitude for constant self growth that got me here.
And the only motivation? I just wanted to be as well equipped for life as possible, to be as able to help and protect those in my life as best as possible. To be of solid and practical use to both myself and the world.
I don't want to see personal success, I want to see global success, in my mind, that starts with more people adopting a more conscientious approach (as I perceive myself to have.) Be the change you want to see.
That's the purity, and the reason it works, an alpha would never do anything for anyone other than themselves.
I'm the same. Growth gives me purpose.
Round peg, Round hole.
Thus the difference
Would love to have such an attitude and I mean 1 0 0 % of it.
Sigmas also don’t mind leaving everything behind and starting again
They do. They just don't show it. Sigmas wear emotionaly every time. But they retreat, recharge. Make a plan. And crush it.
Because we are confident in our abilities
We also love scorch earth technique😅
Can’t tell you how many times I did this
Amen. I’m 59 and have done so 5 times in my life. Always came out on top.
The fundamental driver of the alpha personality is insecurity. He needs the external totems of success (power, money, etc.) to demonstrate his value as much to himself as to others. Once acquired, he feels that they prove his worth as an individual. The alpha sees the quiet confidence of the sigma, coupled with talent that often exceeds his own, and is profoundly threatened. If you take the alpha's power away, he will become worthless. Because the sigma draws his value from within, it can never be taken from him unless he gives it willingly.
Exactly! They feel the need to control others to compensate for their lack of self control and they feel the need to validate themselves through materialism.
well said!
The irony is that women often see the sigma as insecure when it is absolutely the Alpha.
Nope, you are describing a beta. A true alpha is not insecure. He doesn't need validation of his value. He knows his value, and it isn't imagined or illusory. An alpha has undeniable value. You cannot take away his power - it is internal. You can take away his position, but he will always rise to a similar position, even if he must enter a new hierarchy to do so.
@@Clonez-sr7to No, no they don't. The never make that mistake. And no alpha is insecure. You simply don't know what you are talking about - you are conflating several of the personality archetypes, specifically you are confusing alphas and betas. It's probably because you don't understand what beta means.
The Sigmas are the power behind the throne. Perhaps Sigmas can manipulate the Alphas like a puppet and rule from the shadows.
The sugmas are the global elites behind the curtains
Not perhaps we do control people like puppets and read them like an open book. Quite fascinating honestly.
@@guardian8319 Sigmas are like Tywin Lannister from Game of Thrones. They don't need to prance around and say they are the King. 👑
Lies again? Alpha Wipeout SKC
Like a beta...
The fact that this isn’t satire is crazy
Sounds to me that the alpha male deep down is insecure.
Faux-alpha males
💯 that’s why they have big mouths and constantly need affirmation
All humans are. How much varies. But many "alphas" are loud in the same way as small dogs barking
sigmas are insecure. they're extremely intelligent and aware of their potential but in cases like mine insecure about feelings of underachievement (this is a negative driver which often acts in a positive way).
alphas are confident AF.
@@chrishayes5755 sigma males are on top of alpha males so they are hardly insecure.
watching these sigma vids is really helping me understand who i am. ive always wondered why ive felt so different all my life
Same here brother
I've been a Sigma male since I can remember. Now it makes sense why throughout my life alphas seem to treat me as a direct threat when I'm just being.
Same.
😅 everything literally just made sense for me now
Yep it's weird these are actually a thing and there are theories about it lol
Alphas dont like Sigmas.
Just happened to me with a couple of friends! one who’s a beta and one alpha and I’m the sigma. The alpha was being a complete dick to me the whole trip for no reason lmao it was annoying asf like I’m just trying to chill but I had to check his constant disrespect after like the third time cause I wasn’t havin it anymore
Sigma mantra.... I don't follow rules or trends... I SET THEM!
😎👍
No. Rules are important for Sigmas if these are benefitial in general. We just don't follow absurd rules. We set new rules if we see that something is unlogical.
Right 👑🍷
Yep
Mantra?
@@Towards_Eternity
REALLY? Google it if you need to...
in the nature, Alpha is male lion,
Sigma is a male tiger
Lions has a pack to lead, so they get help when killing prey,
But male tiger is alone, no pack help when killing a Buffalo
So in ancient Roma, tiger was the winner 35 out of 36 fights with lion
Because tiger goes through more heavy trainings, diffulties and also it needs to handle this alone as a result of a hard life style, it makes lonely tiger stronger than lions
Interesting.
A sigma and alpha working together is immensely powerful. Its a win win situation. Sigma gets exposure to a vast network of people. That he can then pick and choose as friends, romantic partners, workers, etc. The alpha gets deep insight into solutions and better ways of doing everything.
It's impossible to work them together. Sigmas work alone they have their own priorities.
I’m a sigma I work well with some alphas not all
I'm a Sigma and alphas are too insecure to work with
@@tds3769 touch grass my guy 😂😂😂
You think an alpha would be humble enough to take advice from a sigma? You don;t understand alphas very well…
The sigma male is the only one who’s truly free. All others are followers. Even the alpha. He doesn’t not follow other men but he does follow social norms. The sigma male has no respect for social standards which is why they cannot be controlled. Authority and admiration is the alphas master. The sigma has no master but himself.
Not quite. We respect social standards because we know where they come from, and will go along with them to get along, especially in unfamiliar situations but what we won't do is to blindly follow them simply because someone else says so.
@@KYoss68Depends on the situation bro... I absolutely refuse to go along just to get along. I do what I do wherever I go, no matter who or what.
@@davegandy6939that's a pretty good description
Pirates are sigmas. Gangsters are getting close to becoming what pirates are but they hide out of fear. Sigma = envious pursuit of wealth Alpha = Jealous control of wealth. Alpha's are retired sigmas.
Sorry but pirates are not sigmas. Sigmas rely on themselves they don’t rely on others. As someone who’s been alone and treated like an outcast being a sigma doesn’t feel like a gift at all but rather a curse. Most people think they are sigmas but the real people who are are outcasts and introverts not the popular status people.
I'm a proud Sigma. This is very much on point. I've butted heads with the alpha's on many occasions, especially in work environments. I've found that alphas, feeling threatened, will often resort to discrediting Sigmas in order to win over the approval of the crowd.
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@@JamalSilva-ux2by 😎
You're a fake Sigma,lol😂, cause you're bragging, real sigma who watch this vedio, I'm sure they just smile, but they don't brag like you 😂
I can totally relate 👍
Sigmas can outperform alphas in the discrediting scenario but sometimes it's not enough. So we unplug, start over, and do even better someplace else.
Personally for me there exists one fundamental difference between alpha and sigma. Sigma male retains his sigma entity in any part of the world, wherever he goes, because he is sigma for himself. While alpha male is tied to that specific place and circle of people, where he gained his alpha male reputation and recognition from his surrounding. And as soon as he changes place and surrounding, he is forced to start over from scratch. And there's no guarantee for repeated success, because his new surrounding can refuse to aknowledge his greatness.
The Alpha doesn't stop being an Alpha just because he's removed from his pond. He will always try to exert his dominance where ever he happens to be, testing the water continually until he has another core group that can dominated by him. He may not be the Alpha at the job, but he's very sure of his place on the ladder, and always looking for an opportunity to jump up a rung or two.
You don't start a sentence with the word and... and you don't get the concept of Alpha if you think that 😂
dryuha15, good point! :)
@@danielsteeley1213, you may want to educate yourself on the usage of the English language... you'll find that that notion of yours is quite incorrect.
Superb observation !!
It is so much easier and natural to be a Sigma ( as long as you have been blessed with intellect , curiosity , perserverance And kindness !)…
Essentially , because you have evolved into the same core person no matter the circumstances or surroundings , you possess confidence that your reaction to unexpected events .. whether it be in actual mortal combat or an unexpected emergency in the ER or operating room , will be appropriate and fruitful … usually because you have repeatedly played out most scenarios within your “head” countless times before the actual event !
I don’t play by the rules, not even my own. -Sigma Male
Did you watch the video? If you did you should watch it again. You are young I’m guessing. You are a alpha my friend. I have never heard someone so proud of being closed minded. Make decisions without others input, defend wrong decisions to the death. You will not learn anything when you are always right. What are you afraid of in hearing the truth or that you could have done something differently? This is a unconfident “leader” /drill Sargent forcing bad decisions down people’s throats. This is why we don’t chose leaders based on height. It doesn’t matter where the best idea comes from regardless of what your pride tells you. It’s ok to be wrong and learn from it. Wait until you figure out in the real world you can’t make people do anything. As soon as you walk away they are gonna do whatever they want. Try getting them to respect you and want to follow your lead. Alphas force their views while sigmas find the correct view. Now watch the video again and tell me how much your entire post is not 100 percent alpha.
Rules are ment to be broken
You are a king
But Sigmas will be accountable when we are caught breaking the rules! We don't blame or play victim, Sigmas say, Yeah so what?
cornball
Sigmas are actually the best ally that an alpha could have, provided they give what the sigma wants - respect, acknowledgement and autonomy. If alphas lower their voices and Just tell what he wants from the sigma, he can sit back and relax while the sigma gets down and kicks butt. Sigmas don't work for alphas, sigmas at times, work WITH alphas
True
Sigmas have no problem to cooperate with real alphas, respect both ways goes a long way. Unfortunately Alphas dont like Sigmas.
@@stevensteven3417 My boss is SIGMA do that too. Most ALPHA with Hight-Ego mess with him, He can deal with it like a boss and no ALPHA dare to mess with again.
Some true ALPHA work with my SIGMA boss just fine. but sometime got issue to work with SIGMA, at least work with low-ego ALPHA still better like my boss say.
Nah Sigmas are lone wolf's
This channel changed my life. I thought i was just an anti social introvert with a weird inner confidence. Everyone hates that i ask questions and see right through them.
These videos made me want to try and empower my personality instead of trying to change it.
All my life i have struggled to conform but at the same time Alpha's reject me when the learn what i am about.
Yes, yes,***
Your comment is what my brain says too.
Exactly,, weird, first sentence in a billion that I would of also wrote, felt wild to me..
I'll meet you some day I feel.
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How I know I am a sigma easy, I always see myself as the green ranger in power rangers, I also reflect that in my career as a electrician. I never held a job with a company for more than 3 years at a time but still gets offer from all of my past work places because when I do I go hard and produce results. I just have a mind of my own literally.
Sound like the alpha male is an extrovert while the sigma male is more of an introvert.
Great video. I love learning about personalities. But just remember people, labels (alpha, beta, sigma…) oversimplify the complexities of human nature.
as is their job...
I feel like a sigma male is just an alpha male who is introverted. The most ridiculous "alpha males" are all strong extroverts. I tend to be embarrassed for these people because they are so needy.
The truth is - that we ALL do have all the different personalities in us, all the time. ;)
Sigma males are NEVER boring. I'm sure you were trying to say that that is what the alpha male thinks or what he seems to be like to the alpha.
Yes, they are very creative.
Love that portion "the Sigma has every thing they need to be an alpha but they don't want it ". And you are right women are more attracted to Sigma than alphas. Wish there were more Sigma around , but oh well. Can you imagine if there were as many Sigmas as there is alphas , the real woman who knows a good man would constantly be smiling from ear to ear.
i think that is the only false statement, women are in majority drawn to alpha males because women dont like silent men, they enjoy the outgoing alpha that is always just that- in the center of attention, also sigmas are introvert and not interested in company most of the time, i think i have 95 percent of sigma traits if we can quantify that at all
We need more alphas, betas, and other 'as' to keep the balance. Sigmas are meant to be rare
@@EzEcro Well, I guess you could be right to an extent. I did mention real women. I know Sigmas are rare and they do like their space but the space issue wouldn't be an issue for me. We would coordinate. I love my space too. And I am glad you said most women prefer alpha cause I am telling you I want to be smiling from ear to ear.
@@renzoyamato7460 I know they are rare and that's why they are in great demand, that and the many other things about them
Most women would never talk to a sigma anyway. She would reject his approach and never find out he is a "sigma" anyway. He`s just another creep in the gym or bar.
When an alpha sociopath meets a sigma, he becomes a beta real fast.
lmao This Sigma has been there done that to a lot alpha beta fools! & it's actually quite entertaining.
Ngl this is facts, I never understood why a person I considered a friend was so threatened by my presence, but when I look back it all makes sense.
As a Sigma Male - this is all very true.
Yeah me too. I can confirm your confirmation of your assessment on this video
@Isolated Pixels I have to inform you that i am also a sigma male (confirmed) and i can confirm the second guys confirmation.
Beta
Beta
This was very interesting. For decades my nickname was "Lone Wolf" because I tended to do my own thing. I had never heard of a "Sigma Male" before but I sure seem to fit into that category! I always knew there was something different about me but was not sure how to make sense of things. This helps. Thanks!
Ahahhahaah
I've never had a problem with an alpha being the alpha. I can get along great as long as he is respectful. I hold the Golden Rule as a guiding principle. So, if you are nice to me, I will be just as nice to you.
I had a good friend in college who was an alpha, and he was very loyal and helpful to me. He had my back and I had his. I think he appreciated me because I am very thoughtful and analytical. I think he really enjoyed deep conversations.
My alpha friend had a massive social network, so I got to experience a lot of opportunities and meet a lot of people that I otherwise would not. He dominated social gatherings and that was perfect for me. He did introduce me to a lot of interesting people.
I think an alpha and a sigma can get along great as long as boundaries are respected.
It's understandable why men tend to hate me and women tend to gravitate towards me now. It also makes sense why my bosses tend to not like me either... Alpha male TRYING to dominate me, but can't. I won't allow myself to be dominated. I know what I am worth and if you don't respect it, you don't deserve it and I will leave you to your own demise with others who allow themsleves to be walked on.
Proud to be sigma
if you so called sigma. you will never write such a pathetic statement ( proud) LOL ....sorry
“People don’t always tell you what they’re thinking. They just see to it that you don’t advance in life.” +Hannibal Lecter
I like this one from the Hannibal collection. It's not a quote but what does a cannibal consider an act of cannibalism? Eating and equal. Common men taste like chickem. I can give a little validity to this not by knowing this personally in that way but on more than one occasion I have been on the menu 😄
Being this way I always thought something was wrong with me.
Me too man, but when I finally accepted that I was different and embraced it, my whole world changed. I stopped wondering what was wrong with me and concluded that I have a gift that most will never understand.
We have all the power to be an alpha but don’t want it. I never related to anything as much as I do with this statement. 💯💯
That's not true. Alphas are born leaders. I've seen sigmas screw up so much stuff because they don't know how to relate to people. They only relate to rules and ordinances which are imperfect many times within themselves. The Alpha knows how to make adjustments according to the situation to bring about a successful venture.
Yep
You just know those grapes are sour! 💯 all the way everyday!!!!! 💯 💯 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@apex11177 🤔
I learned that leadership is easy when I was in the military and was forced to be a leader because I am 6' 4" tall. All it takes to be a leader is make a decision and stick to it, never let subordinates see you second guess any decision that you make. If it turns out you make a wrong decision just insist that you made the right decision with the information you had at the time. The only people a leader is accountable to are those who are higher up the ladder than He / She is. Making a decision and being confident in the decisions you make are all it takes to be a leader. Sigma's are the only ones who will make a controversial decision and stick to it because they don't need the support of anyone to know that they are correct. This is because they take the time to fully understand the matter at hand before they make a decision, so anyone who challenges that decision will get a full elucidation of the topic to show that the Sigma was in fact making the most logically correct choice.
Thank you for sharing this! I would also add that being a leader requires courage and self-confidence. It's important to trust your own judgment and be sure of the decision you're making before taking action. Holding yourself accountable for your decisions is also important, as this can help ensure that you take responsibility for your actions and learn from them in the future. Ultimately, taking the time to understand a situation from all perspectives will help ensure that you make the most informed, intelligent, and logical decisions.
U tall as shi boy
The military milieu is a very special environment, I don't think it is relevant to other real life situations.
@Michael Coleman no :)
I'm 6.7 then but I was never in the military but I never thought that way. When I think about it I was never challenged like others was, but I guess I never wanted attention as well.
An alpha will want to be best friends with a sigma. And when the sigma doesn't go along with what the alpha wants then the alpha has a bratt attack and calls names and acts mean. The sigma can walk away and be happy. The alpha can't handle it and wont ever leave the sigma alone. So annoying
I have 2 friends who I consider one being alpha and the other being sigma. Both are successful, attractive, and live exciting / productive lives; however the former alpha always feels the need to brag about his accomplishments and what fun things he's doing 24/7. He's very full of himself, especially with how he can pick up women easily. The sigma on the other hand is more quiet / reserved, and while he also has worthy achievements and traits, he never feels the need to bring it up all the time unless he's asked and it's the right time / place. Over time people in my friends group are naturally distancing themselves from the alpha because he's an insufferable narcissist while wanting to spend more time with the sigma who is overall more pleasant company.
Has the sigma guy success with women too? A bit less than the alpha? Even more?
@@vegetossgss1114 Depends on success. The alpha has a lot more one night stands, but no meaningful relationships. But to be fair he doesn't want to have any commitment either. The sigma seems to want more of a connection with women besides physical.
@@vegetossgss1114
Success with women doesn’t decide anything. So women or getting an woman or specific woman will decide your personality ….. what kind of life form is that. What are you a slave to the chuchi bro . F……k them .
Sigma are just beta
Sigma but wants to spend more time w alpha,maybe you just have some gay friends brother
A Sigma is an Alpha minus ego.
Lol beautifully said
😂😂😂
No, if you got into leadership, you would see a much larger difference. I don't know about other sigma's, but I never wanted to do things like an alpha. The one funny thing is how they preach about everybody needing a posse. Really? You limited your mind that way? It goes right back to what they said here about how much thought alphas put into things. They're unwilling to spend half as much time as the sigma thinking things over, and so their plans fall apart much easier, and so they need a posse they can blame their failures on, and also to pick up their pieces. It's not a terribly bad system, it's just inferior to the sigma leadership mold.
@@charles2241 you are wrong. Do research and then comment. Both share similarities , only difference is Sigma show less dominance due more quiet and passive personalities which sums up ego. If you are lazy to find from a book on leadership then go google. Only take 3 seconds. Alpha vs Sigma.
@@arisuaozora I did the research myself, as I WENT THROUGH IT. YMMV of course. Several content provider's say the same thing about this posse needs (and yes, they are alphas - Andrew Tate for one). I wouldn't have believed it myself, but after seeing how they operate, I believe them. As for the issue of how long they spend on something, it's just that they think they have the solution a lot quicker, because they just have a quicker mindset about what they have to do. Sigma's are probing things a lot more. Not that the sigma technique is always good, and can't be overdone, it's just that we have a different point to where we're satisfied with the data, and it's almost always a lot further down the line than the alpha. I think the alpha would consistently think we waste time doing that, and that's doubtlessly correct at times. The sigma attitude, is that good, isn't good enough. Sometimes it pulls wonders, sometimes it really is a waste of time, but neither faction knows that going in. You try your technique, and it works, or it doesn't.
You see? That's a lot more than just the sigma being the alpha without ego. There's no ego to even the alpha doing that, it's just a different style, and since he's so posse driven, he can afford to take the quicker approach, as I explained earlier. Sigma's can't cover for their mistakes at all, at least not with a boss, because it's all just him. And BTW, I've seen plenty of alpha vs sigma videos, and they don't dissuade what I said one bit. I have a larger scope, plus personal experience, which is probably more data than one book. There's just tons of books out there, but in video form, and, of course, this video was one of them.
I'm not disagreeing with your "original statement" only that's it's quite a bit more than that, especially concerning management techniques in a business. Been there, done that, several decades worth.
Just heard the term “Sigma Male” for the first time yesterday, but the personality type definitely exists and I’m familiar with it. I’ve always noticed the interesting dynamic between alpha types and sigma types. Sigmas seem to have a special ability to put an alpha in check when he is being abusive or overly ambitious in the group (or of course if the alpha directly messes with the sigma). Both seem to have important roles in human interaction
I would argue if that really is an alpha mle of of the group...More likely that group has no alpha, and that role is filled with one that is most agressive, overly confident male who consider himself an alpha, but he couldn't be further from the truth...
I’ve been seeing this term ‘sigma male’ quite a bit on UA-cam due to some of the ‘red pill’ content I look at. No clue what the fuck people were talking about. Finally did a Google search. Pretty interesting. Makes alphas sound very dated and stale.
@@aaronsewell5664 smegma male!!!
We are Gandalf.
@@aaronsewell5664 alphas are very useful! If it weren’t for them, WE would have to do all that boring in charge stuff! Yuck.
Alpha can be jealous and they sure are against sigma... Alone and awesome without the need of assist
I'm a Sigma Male. I like my solitude especially since society has dumbed down so much. I like peace and doing what I can myself without asking for help.
Low quality people I keep my distance from and I don't like trouble makers.
I like the truth instead of gossip.
I don't follow trends.
I don't do crowds because of the way things are these days.
I function better alone most of the time and get more things done.
Even when I was a child I played by myself a lot.
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Sigma male never tell people he is sigma. You are fake.
I'm Sigma. No need to tell people. We know we are smarter than alphas. We are all good on our own
Very deep and precise description, I personally know two guys in constant conflict of personality; one is the pretense alfa and the other the zigma ! This video got right over 80% of the situation! Gonna read more about it!
This is so accurate as I was working with an alpha and this is exactly what happened. Alphas are fucked up.
Not all of them😃
p.s: thank you!
I feel your pain dude
I'd argue you came across a fake alpha, or aggressive Beta. Real alpha men arent usually too much trouble. They just aren't lone wolves. They can be a problem when they jnsist on being domenant but thats just their way.
@@johnmellor932
Not true. I’m a living proof. Not very liking towards socialize and stuff but I can measure all the intellect and their weaknesses and strength all around me . But most of the time I stay calm . But if I decide to start talking they better stop or most of them end up hurting their ego , some of them end up agreeing the discussion though. Thanks
Is it that Alphas are fucked up or are you just intimidated by us. Because the last time I checked most if not all drill sergeants in the Army are Alpha along with most First Sergeants and Captains. No man ever achieved anything great alone. It's not enough to have an idea . It takes an Alpha to bring that idea to reality. Alphas Rock!!!
We sigma's is strenght in isolation...while the alphas are the approval seekers...
Hit the nail on the head. Point by point, I have encountered each and every situation throughout my career.
Opportunities and encouragement to move up both military and civilian, but i was never drawn to do so. I have stepped up in the absence of management w no problem.
My outlook / mindset has always been: I don't work for you, I work for myself. I earn my $. It was recognized that I can handle a section on my own, and I was placed there knowing it would be taken care of wo supervision. I am, on occasion however, paired up as a team and encounter no problems.
This is spot on and love the content. New subscriber on board 👍 👍
Unbelievably accurate and complete FACTS...I needed to see this video to learn exactly what I have been dealing with other guys for so long now...THANK YOU ❤️💪
Alpha will say this is my team
Sigma will this this is our team
Well said!
Subscribed. Good job on the video and the content. I really really enjoyed it. Watching again now. Edinburgh, Scotland 🏴
Now I understand why so many alphas seem to feel uncomfortable or threatened, when I'm okay with myself. The most my father. He doesn't alow me to be "Sigma" and often feels threatened when I am getting okay with myself and dont play his games
alpha males are deeply traumatized by something in their lives. Perfect fodder for blackmail. Hence why they can be controlled
Society needs more sigma males , and less Alpha males.
This video literally explained my relationship with my former boss. I have always been disciplined and calm person but I always prefer to my things in my way thoroughly. My Ex boss always wanted to work in his specific way which I questioned many times and he didn't like it to have someone who doesn't sheep-walk in his rules.
Congrats, your a beta.
No I think she is sigma
Beta never questions, always does what it's told, she's a sigma
@@camdecorations9779 beta is synonymous with sigma, dont fool yourself kid.
He is the boss tho
Tack youtube nu har jag fått ett namn på min personlighet , jag har tittat på många videos här och det mesta stämmer bra överens på mig .
Maaaan this is so oddly accurate...you hit this spot on 👍🏾💯
Hey great video!
I recommend the book from Shaun Ellis, the man who lives with wolves.
It blew my mind how he discribes how what we call the Alpha male, behaves infact more like a Sigma.
All for the pack to thrive and survive.
My best friend is the alpha and I'm a sigma . We don't have any problems working together. We actually benefit working together. I have always thought sigma males like to work in the background.
You are betas not a sigma. They are somthing about a sigma that cannot stand with an alpha in any places.
@@ZqemTM I use to think I was a beta until I realized what a beta really was 😂 I'm nowhere near 😂
@@chriswilliams8480 you are absolute beta.Sigmaas never use emojis
@Ahmad5839 Grammar Gurus wannabe..
@@ZqemTM..that is s beta. We can work with anyone, and mantain our cool and clear head. What we really hate are abusive narcisists, which many of are alphas.
But yea, it's beta chucks that can't work with others because they feel inferiority and anger. .. also they project a lot... betas, that is... there is nothing anyone can do or say that makes ME feel inferior..
if i am really impressed i may feel admiration or respect, but never inferiority.
Thanks a lot for this informations. I have got so many answers of questions which for i was really curious. Take love buddy.
Great content! Thank you! ❤BTW I would love to know what is the name of used ambient music in the background. ❤
Jordan Peterson talks a lot about hierarchy in social groups and its importance. I'd love to have his thoughts on Sigma males, who constitute a very special type of men.
U can try to become an alpha but sigma u are born with not something that u can became
Why should I try to became something less than I am
@@ilkkak3065ecause you could feel great about yourself even with no pack of sickophants and beta chucks looking up to you... but again, as op said, you can't.
@@ilkkak3065🤣 that's true
Absolutely, Amazing Insight !!!
I finally have a label that describes me. I am an INTJ - which I’ve learned is the most common personality type for a sigma male. I’ve always had great confidence in myself - but also knew I was different - now I understand and can embrace it.
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This is genuinely the cringiest comment I’ve ever read in my entire life. You’re a dork 😂😂😂
Embracing it makes all the difference.
After watching this every alpha males begin to declare they are in fact sigma. And every beta start to pretend to be sigma.
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I don't like labels, but this is spot on.
I'm literally laughing out loud as I'm watching this because I have thought and said all of this and never heard it recited literally identically to me!
I've only discovered the term Sigma fairly recently, but it does make sense and resonate with the way I've always viewed myself. I'd always described my personality as basically an alpha male who is perfectly content to let another actually be the alpha, and actually sees that crown of leadership/alpha status as more of a burden than a goal.
The nuanced differences outlined in videos such as this one makes it pretty clear that I'm a Sigma. I particularly identify with the aspect of not needing anyone at all to validate or justify my confidence in myself, and actually preferring to be alone, as opposed to how an alpha kind of builds a kingdom around themselves.
I get along fine with some alpha dudes. The secret is making sure they understand that you will not tolerate being treated as yet another one of their many subjects. My pattern with alphas seems to be.. butt heads HARD over some issue or another, then come to terms with each other and form a very strong friendship.
If you want me to do something your way rather than my own, then convince me. Show me the logic behind your suggestion and why you believe it to be the better solution to the problem. At least attempt to explain it respectfully rather than "because I said so", and I will likely do it your way, especially if it is technically your call how it should be done.
Yeah thats what we sre saying sigma males are just Alpha males that hate to have to pretend that they achieved anything in their lives
Sigmas can play the role of an Alpha if need arises, although Alphas can not play the role of a Sigma.
I like it, this video makes me feel good!
Thank you for explaining the big difference between what I truly am and what the rest of them are... Also for what and why I think, behave and get treated the way I do in return. It all comes down to hate, jealousy and envious feelings on their part... Proud to be a SIGMA MALE!!! 💥👊🏽
Hell Yes! i am prouyd to be a sigma person and honestly i don't give shite for the so called Alphas d---ing around here only because the sigma person has something they never can get, a real sigma can easily, and i mean really easily take the place of an alpha if he/she want to, many sigmas hawe alpha positions, we just does not feel the need of use it to abuse and stepping on other people since we can stand on our own legs with or without them.
Trust me, you're not.
Sigmas hide in the shadows so betas don’t kill them and or crush them
Describes the workplace dynamic to a tee, the hierarchy start hoppin around like you stole something from em😂& your just doing your job! Makes sense once you understand what the issue really is.
Thanks, Devon! Working in the office can be a source of frustration when roles and responsibilities are not clearly defined. While it may seem like coworkers are aggressive or overly negative, oftentimes this is because there is confusion about who is responsible for what tasks. Once everyone's roles are clarified, the workplace dynamic can become more harmonious and productive.
I grew up in a hard area, many of my friends were alphas. I could have been considered a beta. Recd an excellent education at a country school. All the alpha friends dropped out of school, then it was just me. Worked hard and had a smart, beautiful girlfriend. She was actually too good for me, I'm glad she broke with me. Took a hard laborious job 1.5 yrs. Quit great job and joined U.S Army. Large and super hardworking, interrupted many alphas when I returned to the civilian life. I allowed their existence, sooner or later they will 100% depend on Sigmas.
Thank you...I thought I was really an odd cat, but this explains it..
Now I know why I do certain things . The relationship between an Alpha and myself is spot on. Thanks
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My boss and I are kind of "hybrids" of both of these traits. He leans more towards alpha, and I am definitely sigma! It seems to be a perfect combination! He just unleashes me on projects, if I have an issue that I need advice, or help with, he's got my back, and reciprocal...COMMUNICATION!...Once we figured that "obstacle" out everything has been AWESOME! So it CAN be done!
So edgy
It seems this is the more fitting relationship between The Alpha and Sigma. If both of you function this way, good going! This is rare in some work environments. 👍
Your boss may be a Sigma that's been forced to act more Alpha in order to successfully lead the group. A true Alpha will never give that much autonomy to a Sigma for fear of being replaced, or at very least, for fear of being overshadowed by one of Sigma's ideas. Your boss is a Sigma playing the game 😉
Yeah I had a boss like that. Everything was swell, until I started to outshine him...
Real sigma doesn't care if this kind of video even exists
Hahaha, sigma study how life works. It just part or little part of the passage how human interaction. Alpha need followers, while Sigma know how things works.
Wow a perfect description of myself very Accurate, never thought about seeing myself as a sigma thanks again 👍
Best summary ever! 👌🏻👏🏻😊
I work in sales and I am a Sigma.
We have a group chat so they can post when they make a sale. They try to get you to post so it motivates them to work really hard and beat you. I never post my sales. I'll get 150k jobs and never post them where I'll make over 15k. They post every 15-20k sale they get competing with each other. I dint need to see what they are doing to motivate me. Plus I work smarter not harder. If rather make 10 150k sales in a year than 100 15k sales. Less work, and I make the same.
It's true that women are attracted to sigma male. My friend always approches the girls but they always ended up liking me more.
Watch and listening to this was like listening to the story of my last two years in the Navy before I retired. 🤔 EVERYTHING mentioned here I went through. And I came out on the other side laughing 😆.
From one video it's clarified lots wat was in my life. Thanks for your work.
Alphas best be taking some notes here!
Sigma can follows the rules, if it does not hurt his benefit. So Sigma can actually work with team, and even with Alpha. It is not always a conflict if the interest aligns.
Spot On...thank you!!
Wow, so on point!
does an alpha male hate another alpha male?
Not if the pecking order is firmly established. Hence the trope of guys initally hating each other, fighting it out, then becoming competitive friends. They know which is top but the other will constantly challange for the purpose of showcasing both of their strengths.
Sigma don't play that game. They only compete for keeps. Not for showcase games to impress others.
Problem is, most beta's think theyre alpha's. 😂😂
Yeah, and everybody claims to be sigma.
@@johnpapa8681the fact that these labels exist is wild 😂
Thank you for a video that describes me precisely, i never realize this but i know from the descriptions...that's exactly who i am, and i'll always stay true to myself for being a sigma.
Great video, explains my life and actions a lot. :)
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What is the name of the background song?
Emotional suspense. You can search for royalty-free music for UA-cam.
I get it, my boss's boss shows up every once in awhile to be a pain in the ass and micromanage, even though he knows that it's hard for the company to retain people in positions like mine. What he doesn't know is that I constantly get offered work online by his competitors and even his customers, and when I get an offer I'm really comfortable with, he's gonna be wondering why I suddenly bailed and why there's such a hole of stuff that doesn't get done anymore in the position I was in, because he doesn't have a fucking clue.
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This is so on point it really surprised me to hear this thumbs up to the people who did their research 😮
Accurate!!!
Thank you!
In a few words Alpha males are extrovert and Sigmas are introvert Alpha males.
Interesting take. However it was stated that sigma does not care for a following. An alpha introverted or extroverted still has a group looking up to them and they know it.
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@@TLEE1977 and that's why alpha can't handle Sigma.
.... not exactly
I apréciate your analysis absolutely right all I am totally agree
Great video.
If we are just using alpha and sigma to describe their personality, then I would point out there's a huge difference between a competent alpha male, and an incompetent alpha male. I have known men with alpha male personalities that were completely pathetic and at the bottom of the hiarchy. They are the most aggressive and toxic people to be around, as they attempt to drag others beneath them.
The more competent the alpha male, the less insecure he's going to feel. Extremely competent alphas will typically assign an appropriate project to a sigma, and then stay out of the way.
You are correct. A true Apha is someone that knows his team and can work with each type to get maximum success from each and every one. I work with an Alpha who is an expert at leading. The difference between a leader and a manipulator is a leader invites people on a journey and knows how to get the most out of each type of person.
@@ManCrewan incompetent alpha male isn't any less of an alpha male...
They just lose their herd to others.
There are incompetent sigma males that get mistaken as beta males. They don't bow but they don't try either. They can end up living with their parents much the same as betas.
Not because they suck at things but because they can't find enough value in putting forth the effort.
They might enjoy simple things and that is truly enough for them.
They won't complain about things like an incompetent beta or alpha. They accept them as choice.
A wise alphas work with sigmas for all the reasons mentioned. A shaky alpha experiences insecurity over these sigma traits. In general, a sigma will only lead as needed. Otherwise he's content to be part of the team while maintaining absolute autonomy. Alphas often, not always, need subordinates surrounding them, but a sigma has no such status requirements.
This makes perfect sense for me, my dad is a alpha Male and I'm a classic sigma Male and we don't get along even despite my efforts, without compromising my own convictions.
Correct again!!