My friend you have hit the nail right on the head . . . totally. Create your purpose, follow your dream , be strong, the women will follow, they will be secondary because you MUST follow your purpose, dream, goal, reason . No matter what happens you will always succeed .
@@RohitSharma-on1ye it's a trap, because you're easily manipulated and she sees this. When she tells you to show emotion, take it as a compliance test. If you do it, you'll instantly fail, if not, she might get upset in the moment, but she will respect your strength in the long run.
The first day of no contact is the hardest. I had to keep watching your videos to remind me of why I'm doing this. I'm currently on day 3, and on my way to see another woman right now 😂😂😂😂 I feel much better. I'm not keeping myself on hold.
Walt I'm currently seeing someone much better as of last week. Way better looks, invests in me, and we click. I don't even have an interest in my side chicks anymore. HOWEVER! She's still a woman, and therefore shall require that I pay attention to detail. Just because things are going well now, doesn't mean it'll stay this way. The slightest hint of indifference towards me, or change of patterns of behavior, and I'll start seeking out other options again. The power of walking away is real
vme1111 Awesome man and your other chick never tryed anything again? You should always be dating other girls until this new chick hints she wants exclusivity if that is what you want from her of course. I know it's hard but sometimes you have to force yourself to keep your options open.
No such thing as an alpha man, you just need confidence. Alpha male/wolf was an accidentally created term and the man who coined it regretted it since he did more research and he wanted to tear it down but, It became a meme pretty much and it was impossible to get rid of the term.
@@cameronsharp2022 I know they say that insecurity turns women off. A few years ago, I went out with someone who was on the clingy side, and I was put off by that. In other words, it was a reversal of that. So I get where you are coming from.
It's TRUE when the man is relationship focused and is trying to fix the relationship and things like that, it's a HUGE turn off for a woman. And I am now saying it from experience as well
Quick guide to get a relationship: 1. Money usually doesn't matter when it comes down to it. It helps your quality of life but as long as you're resourceful, it doesn't matter. 2. Don't really try and pursue relationships. Not saying don't ask out the girl you've been talking for a week or so but dont get the mindset that youre actively searching. It adds pressure and maybe anxiety. 3. There is no Alpha or Beta males. Usually its just a stigma to make some sound superior to others, usually based on wealth or ego. 4. Get into a relationship for the right reasons. Dont get into one because you think it'll make your life better. 5. No matter what guys, no girl is above you but dont ever think you're above them. We are all same but different.
This is why you should never double or triple message a woman. Send your message, and wait for her response. If you don’t wait, she will not feel your strength and will lose attraction for you.
I bought his book “Atomic Attraction” the information in this book is truly Awesome I believe it will give any guy the right confidence to help build attraction with and any woman around him. Chris, by the way u are truly awesome my dude! Thx a lot, my friend!
These short videos are extremely powerful and diret! If im going through a difficult time with a women, I watch your videos and like magic i become super alpha dominant again!! So thanks. You are the best on this subject
This guy is 100% correct. Applied his no contact theory and it works plus an insight develops in the period of no contact. She contacted with me after 2 weeks and treated me with utmost respect. Hats off bro
Confident is a thing some of us already have , but dont be afraid of showing a weak spot of yourse with confident . Thats pure power if you okay with that . No one is perfect and if you try to be perfect no matter what but not youreself , then you gonna lose you . You need to fall once to go up stronger , accept the failure and learn from it , that's the step of self-development and self-development is success. Then you will understand how powerfull you are and how much attractive you became.
Chris's videos "seem" redundant. Just let her go give her space and stop worrying. Heres the thing. He's right. He has the best advice with these videos. Short and to the point that says "look girl do what you want, you know where I am" Women hate when you don't care and it always makes them come back. 3 years with a girl and 3 major relationship changing issues. Each time I just let her be. Each time she came back to me. Dont chase women.
Alot of times, people have good amount of confidence but anxiety is what causes insecurities and lack of confidence. A person needs to Work on getting rid of anxiety and he or she will be automatically more confident and trust me, it's based on experience and if it's not based on anxiety, then improve what's making you insecure or less confident.
yep I just commented about this, it's usually a transfer from her. They want the care and kindness to help their anxiety which in turn is just a transfer cause they don't personally work on theirs.
insecurity is something that prevents us from achieving our dreams and stops us from persevering. We must fight insecurity in our minds to unlock our full potential!:)
Two weeks is a long time but you never know she might be testing you or testing herself and if the guy plays it cool she might come back forever. Kind of the "if you love someone set them free if they come back they're yours".
I made this mistake, initially she chased ,text called . I wasnt easily available and had high value. Then it changed and reversed. Now I'm in no contact at all. If she reaches out she reaches out, if not I'm good . Lessons learned
No woman or man or relationship would be worth that amount of effort. It doesn't have to be smooth sailing but if the ocean was all choppy and cavitating my boat all the time I would stay on land.
I was in a depression i wasnt myself and the depression made me doubt her now im scared if the damage is done and the depression had nothing to do with her
I'm not one that carries anxiety around with me, but when I do start to notice it it's usually my partners anxieties that are the root. That's tough part is to not let someone else cause yours
Um, actually, yes - there's something even ugly guys can do to make women want them: make a ton of money. Nothing attracts women more than wealth and power....Good looking men can attract beautiful women with ease, but only a wealthy guy will keep them around.
So i bought your manual and she contacted me after 23 days putting 3 missed calls on my phone back to back. I didn't know it was her since i didn't have her new phone number... I texted her number tomorrow and she called me. I said hello in the yelling way subconciously and her first saying is why are you angry and i was like i was just talking to somebody before you... I asked why did you call in a surprising way she said i wanted to ask a question and started asking a stupid question i answered normally and then she asks hastily how is everything with you and i'm like it's all good... and then she is like just called to see how you were doing and i was like thank you and goodbye... there she goes... :D
marcus belbi dudee my ex has been like that too. She kept messaging me and id ignore her. Then i moved to her city rn for a month and i started replying to her texts. Long story short she really doesnt want to see me bacause she thinks it would be weird. So i got pissed off and i told her to delete my fking number then. Like whats the point of her contacting me and then not wanting to see me. My college is a 1 min walk away from her place. I mean i can see her appartment window from my colleges cafeteria and she knows i go there. But yet she didnt invite me. Like wtf???. Once she said i should of dropped by to say "hi" and i said maybe next time and shes like "maybe" but when i told her to grab me something from the mall she didnt wanna do it cause she would have to meet up with me
Just get out of the habit of putting all your eggs in one basket when you start talking to a girl. Should she not reply one day... then oh well on to the next one... and the next one. True freedom and no stress
Essentially, women need to attach to a man, to take care of their needs. This is why confidence (not arrogance) is attractive. They don’t want a man that they have to support, you need you to lead. Took me several relationships and a 14 year marriage to figure this out, being more of a leader with my new partner is working wonders. Hindsight is a wonderful thing! Stay strong fellas 👍
This sums up how I lost my girl.. It just ain't fair. She would go out & not come back home til morning or even the next night.. And expect me to not get insecure & upset?
Now this ain't totally true. I had told my ex I suffer from anxiety and depression right from the get go, and quite frankly she was one of the most supportive and caring people that have been in my life, it didn't phase her one bit. In fact I was the one who broke up with her over a year later because I was no longer feeling it and thought that if I had her I could get any girl in the world. One of the dumbest decisions i've made in my life so far. It's been 3 years and I still miss her, or maybe it's just the loneliness and I miss having someone who loves me and cares so damn much for me, either way I'm doomed.
I'm a guy using someone else's account to type, I've been left with 10 weeks left before my son born, I'm trying not to call or message as hard as it is yet I still feel I've lost everything still
So basically there is no point if you don't focus on the relationship, cause the way I see it, you just let a girl chase you, period, nothing more, nothing less. If this kind of thinking is wrong please correct me. Because I don't know if it's right or not :/
Just don't over focus.. be aware of her feelings, just not too much.. Not too much of anything.. moderation is the key.. after the chase, let her see a bit more of you, but in moderation..
I don't agree the girl has to be initially attracted to the man first before he doesn't give her attention. Women don't love men for who they are. Women love men for what they can do for them. Women are attracted to a man's Status and resources. Money is the root of all evil.
When I was focused on the relationship - I felt depressed. Being purpose driven - I feel more like myself :)
My friend you have hit the nail right on the head . . . totally.
Create your purpose, follow your dream , be strong, the women will follow, they will be secondary because you MUST follow your purpose, dream, goal, reason .
No matter what happens you will always succeed .
Yes most definitely that's the Key.
Healthier and women prefer it too
Attraction Grows in Space, I repeat Attraction Grows in Space
Agreed totally
Ik bro
Then I should be an Astronaut
Not in close proximity
how to do it give some examples?
Women : Men should show their emotions
MEN SHOWS EMOTIONS
Women : You are weak AF
Hell. Fucking true
Disgusting creatures that don’t offer nothing of value
Its a trap
@@RohitSharma-on1ye it's a trap, because you're easily manipulated and she sees this. When she tells you to show emotion, take it as a compliance test. If you do it, you'll instantly fail, if not, she might get upset in the moment, but she will respect your strength in the long run.
The first day of no contact is the hardest. I had to keep watching your videos to remind me of why I'm doing this. I'm currently on day 3, and on my way to see another woman right now 😂😂😂😂 I feel much better. I'm not keeping myself on hold.
vme1111 Great job, any updates?
Walt I'm currently seeing someone much better as of last week. Way better looks, invests in me, and we click. I don't even have an interest in my side chicks anymore. HOWEVER! She's still a woman, and therefore shall require that I pay attention to detail. Just because things are going well now, doesn't mean it'll stay this way. The slightest hint of indifference towards me, or change of patterns of behavior, and I'll start seeking out other options again. The power of walking away is real
vme1111 Awesome man and your other chick never tryed anything again? You should always be dating other girls until this new chick hints she wants exclusivity if that is what you want from her of course. I know it's hard but sometimes you have to force yourself to keep your options open.
Having options is the natural way.
Are you a complete human being or will you live on your knees for a woman?
It's like doing a 3 day fast
So true as women are attracted to alpha men with male energy, insecurity is female energy
Which guys should be turned off from too.
Girls cant just sit back and let the guy do everything
@@cameronsharp2022 I find myself feeling that way too.
No such thing as an alpha man, you just need confidence. Alpha male/wolf was an accidentally created term and the man who coined it regretted it since he did more research and he wanted to tear it down but, It became a meme pretty much and it was impossible to get rid of the term.
@@cameronsharp2022 I know they say that insecurity turns women off. A few years ago, I went out with someone who was on the clingy side, and I was put off by that. In other words, it was a reversal of that. So I get where you are coming from.
"Expectations is the root of all evil" I agree %100
Focus on your life .....girl will focus on you ....The option is yours🤞
The morale: Woman can cry and Men can't
😂👌🏾
Sad but true. Lesson learned
💯🤣
Hypocrisy.... then people wonder why men get abusive and cold. It's because we aren't allowed express how we feel
@@phil4863 Probably the most difficult standard in society for men..
It's TRUE when the man is relationship focused and is trying to fix the relationship and things like that, it's a HUGE turn off for a woman. And I am now saying it from experience as well
I can deal with anxiety/insecurity from a guy, but when he puts me down because of those insecurities, that's definitely a turn off.
Yeah but if you're being a bitch then you need to be told so. Saying nasty things to anyone let alone your partner is unacceptable
Never chase. But lead 🤗
Expectation is the root of all evil? That's a fact!
y though?
Jaciel Torres You can’t always get what you want
Quick guide to get a relationship:
1. Money usually doesn't matter when it comes down to it. It helps your quality of life but as long as you're resourceful, it doesn't matter.
2. Don't really try and pursue relationships. Not saying don't ask out the girl you've been talking for a week or so but dont get the mindset that youre actively searching. It adds pressure and maybe anxiety.
3. There is no Alpha or Beta males. Usually its just a stigma to make some sound superior to others, usually based on wealth or ego.
4. Get into a relationship for the right reasons. Dont get into one because you think it'll make your life better.
5. No matter what guys, no girl is above you but dont ever think you're above them. We are all same but different.
I like this
I love the advice he gives men “focus on your self and focus on your mission”
This is why you should never double or triple message a woman. Send your message, and wait for her response. If you don’t wait, she will not feel your strength and will lose attraction for you.
I bought his book “Atomic Attraction” the information in this book is truly Awesome I believe it will give any guy the right confidence to help build attraction with and any woman around him. Chris, by the way u are truly awesome my dude!
Thx a lot, my friend!
These short videos are extremely powerful and diret! If im going through a difficult time with a women, I watch your videos and like magic i become super alpha dominant again!! So thanks. You are the best on this subject
This guy is 100% correct. Applied his no contact theory and it works plus an insight develops in the period of no contact. She contacted with me after 2 weeks and treated me with utmost respect. Hats off bro
Update bro?
Well update is I no longer consider her upto my standards as I have grown as an individual. 😅
That tone change at 2:54 is badass! Learnt this the hard way but this is perfect!
Confident is a thing some of us already have , but dont be afraid of showing a weak spot of yourse with confident . Thats pure power if you okay with that . No one is perfect and if you try to be perfect no matter what but not youreself , then you gonna lose you . You need to fall once to go up stronger , accept the failure and learn from it , that's the step of self-development and self-development is success.
Then you will understand how powerfull you are and how much attractive you became.
Chris's videos "seem" redundant. Just let her go give her space and stop worrying.
Heres the thing. He's right. He has the best advice with these videos. Short and to the point that says "look girl do what you want, you know where I am"
Women hate when you don't care and it always makes them come back.
3 years with a girl and 3 major relationship changing issues. Each time I just let her be. Each time she came back to me.
Dont chase women.
Alot of times, people have good amount of confidence but anxiety is what causes insecurities and lack of confidence. A person needs to Work on getting rid of anxiety and he or she will be automatically more confident and trust me, it's based on experience and if it's not based on anxiety, then improve what's making you insecure or less confident.
I bought the book. One of the books I've ever bought. Highly recommend
Trouble is because of their behaviors men become anxious and insecure. That is the problem.
Such a beta male comment. Watch some AMS videos 👍
@@trex9532 watching Guys videos Is Alpha?
yep I just commented about this, it's usually a transfer from her. They want the care and kindness to help their anxiety which in turn is just a transfer cause they don't personally work on theirs.
insecurity is something that prevents us from achieving our dreams and stops us from persevering. We must fight insecurity in our minds to unlock our full potential!:)
I will watch this video everyday as a reminder to focus on myself n not chase the cat.
So true I’m in no contact and I have to watch his videos a lot to give me strength.
@@joshfyans5918What happened bro...did it work?
The thing is, you will have to go through a couple of breakups to realize this on your own. When you do that, you're gonna be irresistible. 💣
Two weeks is a long time but you never know she might be testing you or testing herself and if the guy plays it cool she might come back forever. Kind of the "if you love someone set them free if they come back they're yours".
I made this mistake, initially she chased ,text called . I wasnt easily available and had high value. Then it changed and reversed. Now I'm in no contact at all. If she reaches out she reaches out, if not I'm good . Lessons learned
Did she reach out?
Did she reach out?
She has but through mutual girlfriend
great advice this guy talks sense
If they leave, have them leave respecting you at least.
BRO I APPRECIATE YOU!!
ur channel is by FAR the best amazing work keep going ur rock man changed my life MASSIVELY
I just want to say thanks. You been helping so much men. Great vid💯
This has to be one of your best videos Chris!
All of his vids are tbh
So just pretend to be single all the time, got it
About to listen to your audiobook. The videos are excellent, so i have no doubt i will get a lot out of it.
No woman or man or relationship would be worth that amount of effort. It doesn't have to be smooth sailing but if the ocean was all choppy and cavitating my boat all the time I would stay on land.
God bless you my friend.. You are doing a great job.. Thanks..
Yes. Makes good sense. Thanks.
Interesting.. a succesfull man with money and good looking felt insecure with women... when I got some extra money I feel like a king 😀
Same here when I get more money comming in I'm more happy
within 2 weeks u got more than 1000 subs... keep the videos coming..very soon u will hav 1 million subs
SUPER ALPHA MALE thanks man!
I wish I had come across these gems right after I entered puberty
This is why I will always be alone
If that's what you want.
Yeah too much headache in relationships. Fck that shit
Best advice ever, thanks a lot!
I was in a depression i wasnt myself and the depression made me doubt her now im scared if the damage is done and the depression had nothing to do with her
Absolutely true , mate. Cheers!
That thumbnail though. 👌🏽 🤣
The way of the superior man!!
Damnn, I wish I knew this 10-11 years ago. But, cool, I have still time to attract women.
😆😆😆
I'm not one that carries anxiety around with me, but when I do start to notice it it's usually my partners anxieties that are the root. That's tough part is to not let someone else cause yours
Women undoubtedly care about looks. If you’re not above a certain looks threshold (individual for each woman) nothing you do will make them want you.
Um, actually, yes - there's something even ugly guys can do to make women want them: make a ton of money. Nothing attracts women more than wealth and power....Good looking men can attract beautiful women with ease, but only a wealthy guy will keep them around.
@@jordangarrick669 They’re not attracted to the man, they’re attracted to the money.
So i bought your manual and she contacted me after 23 days putting 3 missed calls on my phone back to back.
I didn't know it was her since i didn't have her new phone number... I texted her number tomorrow and she called me.
I said hello in the yelling way subconciously and her first saying is why are you angry and i was like i was just talking to somebody before you...
I asked why did you call in a surprising way she said i wanted to ask a question and started asking a stupid question i answered normally and then she asks hastily how is everything with you and i'm like it's all good... and then she is like just called to see how you were doing and i was like thank you and goodbye... there she goes... :D
marcus belbi update? Is she chasing you still blowing ur phone up?
she did chase me bruh... but still said no to seeing me
marcus belbi dudee my ex has been like that too. She kept messaging me and id ignore her. Then i moved to her city rn for a month and i started replying to her texts. Long story short she really doesnt want to see me bacause she thinks it would be weird. So i got pissed off and i told her to delete my fking number then. Like whats the point of her contacting me and then not wanting to see me. My college is a 1 min walk away from her place. I mean i can see her appartment window from my colleges cafeteria and she knows i go there. But yet she didnt invite me. Like wtf???. Once she said i should of dropped by to say "hi" and i said maybe next time and shes like "maybe" but when i told her to grab me something from the mall she didnt wanna do it cause she would have to meet up with me
dude she like calls me then hangs up so i'd call her .... like wtf?
marcus belbi thats pretty fucked up man
Wow this is a wake up call
Good advice.... And true
Awesome shirt Chris!
Luckily for woman its not a turn off for men since every woman alive has both.
Just get out of the habit of putting all your eggs in one basket when you start talking to a girl. Should she not reply one day... then oh well on to the next one... and the next one. True freedom and no stress
Except people who really love you stay with you
Dont even replace them
Dont even get with them.
If you have money they Will love your anxiety and insecurity
Your videos are the best.
So, i think only approaching woman when we're ready mentally for a drama.. am i right ? Lol
Essentially, women need to attach to a man, to take care of their needs.
This is why confidence (not arrogance) is attractive. They don’t want a man that they have to support, you need you to lead.
Took me several relationships and a 14 year marriage to figure this out, being more of a leader with my new partner is working wonders. Hindsight is a wonderful thing!
Stay strong fellas 👍
This sums up how I lost my girl.. It just ain't fair. She would go out & not come back home til morning or even the next night.. And expect me to not get insecure & upset?
*Need kills* "Don't chase, just replace." Date new women fast put it on yr social media. Out with the old in with the new. #PlentyofFish
She was cheating bro
F her.. avoid at all cost..
Great video
Nice bro
Yes exactly. This reality is actually hell
Confidence is wearing a pink v-neck shirt on camera
When my gf does somthn bitchy i dont chase her but when she contacts me again..., is it ok, to scold at her to make her realize what she did?
Just reprimand her in a calm manner and be aloof thereafter.
I'm gonna start no contact with my girlfriend today
Now this ain't totally true. I had told my ex I suffer from anxiety and depression right from the get go, and quite frankly she was one of the most supportive and caring people that have been in my life, it didn't phase her one bit. In fact I was the one who broke up with her over a year later because I was no longer feeling it and thought that if I had her I could get any girl in the world. One of the dumbest decisions i've made in my life so far. It's been 3 years and I still miss her, or maybe it's just the loneliness and I miss having someone who loves me and cares so damn much for me, either way I'm doomed.
She was probably lower value than you in that case
Nowdays girl is looks more shallow.
I'm a guy using someone else's account to type, I've been left with 10 weeks left before my son born, I'm trying not to call or message as hard as it is yet I still feel I've lost everything still
Man you need to call her. His advice seems good for bachelors but its not good for married
what to do when she comes back again ?
Be respectful to her.
Act as if nothing happened
Sir I'm from Pakistan your videos helped me alot thanks 💯
The thumbnail LMAO
Does this works when she is older than us like a bit more...
So basically there is no point if you don't focus on the relationship, cause the way I see it, you just let a girl chase you, period, nothing more, nothing less.
If this kind of thinking is wrong please correct me. Because I don't know if it's right or not :/
Just don't over focus.. be aware of her feelings, just not too much.. Not too much of anything.. moderation is the key.. after the chase, let her see a bit more of you, but in moderation..
A lot of my friends thier girls friends sleeping other guy cause he dont care abouyt her
Any references hehe
I don't agree the girl has to be initially attracted to the man first before he doesn't give her attention. Women don't love men for who they are. Women love men for what they can do for them. Women are attracted to a man's Status and resources. Money is the root of all evil.
♦️Ur awesome🎯🎯☑️
💯
man i think even when you angry you act the same is no boring for woman ? :D
💎💎💎
Anxiety and insecurity turns men off too. Find someone with strong EQ.
EQ ?
Nice nice
Bidio...Buddy....
...thank .straight.t the.ponit.