The REAL Reason Nice Guys Finish Last In The Dating World

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  • Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
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    Discussing nice guys vs douchebags, attachment styles and how to become more attractive to women.

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  • @boysandcars
    @boysandcars 4 місяці тому +1

    I wish there was more of this type of content on the internet, which promotes mutual respect, healthy communication and being a fucking human being and treat others like ones. great job!

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому

      I couldn’t agree more. My goal is to counteract a lot of the toxic dating advice touted online these days, so I’m glad to know you resonate with it. Thank you for the kind words!

  • @samuelkithuka9793
    @samuelkithuka9793 4 місяці тому +2

    Great video bro. Keep it up. Praying for your success.

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому

      Thank you my friend 🙏🏼

  • @tevatev7454
    @tevatev7454 4 місяці тому

    Secondly, I want to thank you that you’re not teaching twos and threes out here to manipulate thinking they’re gonna pull tens and just keep using manipulation and mind games which is only for the short term. Which is just gonna lead a troll broken hearts, and even for the man. Seriously there are dudes channels I run across and like physically he’s like a one and he’s teaching dudes all of these tips and tricks about manipulation just to sleep with women, because honestly, he lacks self-esteem and confidence. That’s the only tricks he has in the bag because he’s just physically not attractive and probably has some place of contempt in his heart for women because he’s in denial and instead of being honest and genuine and authentic he’s out here teaching other douche bags, douche bag ways and it’s just disgusting and repulsive so I appreciate you being a handsome, good looking man who is teaching your audience the right way. Seriously I commend you. Keep it up and you’re getting this from a woman and a high-value woman at that. Not just because the Internet says so these days I’ve been through hell and back, and I had to learn a lot of life lessons the hard way, and I don’t play games with people. I’m probably too blunt too real and too direct with people at times, and I’m perfectly fine I am not afraid to scare anyone off. If it scared you off the faster, the better, because that just shows me, we are not in alignment they are not in alignment with my views, my morals, my values, etc. and I definitely don’t need them lingering around so the sooner I can scare you off the better cause I don’t want no bullshit people around me because I’m not a bullshit person. I’m rare I’m real. I’m genuine I’m authentic and I don’t play games. I say what I mean and I mean what I say and I’m very clear about my intentions and how I move and a lot of people are not used to that. So thank you so much for doing this the right way.

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому

      Thank you! I’m glad you resonated with the message. I think there’s a massive issue with shitty men teaching their shitty strategies to other men. The only real dating strategy is self improvement and authenticity. Gotta build yourself into someone worth dating rather that faking it behind a few rehearsed lines. I’m glad you liked the video, thanks for taking the time to respond!

  • @alanguages
    @alanguages 4 місяці тому

    I knew it was neediness before the sticker was peeled off. When a guy exudes that, then girls view you as a nuisance. Despite, the very same girls giving advice to guys to try harder.

  • @stevenpike7857
    @stevenpike7857 4 місяці тому +1

    This isn't just a woman thing - neediness is unattractive to men too.

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому +1

      You’re 100% correct. But this video was man specifically for men, as I see it happen far often with men (specifically men I’ve coached in the past)

  • @isengarde9490
    @isengarde9490 4 місяці тому

    So, let me get this straight, I'm desperate if I agree with her, and misogynistic if I don't?
    Damn why can't things just be simple?

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому

      I think you might be misunderstanding the message man. The purpose of that example was to highlight one of the strategies needy guys use that ends up working against them.
      If you outwardly agree with everything she says (even when you don’t actually agree with what was said) that’s using niceness/agreeableness as a weapon of manipulation. It doesn’t work, comes across as needy and is repulsive to women. You have to have your own beliefs and stand with them firmly - even if they go against hers in some way.
      Ultimately, if you disagree with something she says, don’t agree for the sake of staying in her good books. Stand firmly and authentically with your beliefs. She will respect you more for it. (Just don’t be a dick about it)
      The moral of the story is, neediness is seen as unattractive and authenticity is the antidote.

  • @ravsofficial
    @ravsofficial 4 місяці тому +1

    I wish you said "Good Morning Beautiful to me"

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому

      You and I both 😔

  • @ravsofficial
    @ravsofficial 4 місяці тому +1

    Jokes aside, This is really good advice! Keep it up brother 💪💪

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому

      Thanks brotherman! 🫡

  • @ravsofficial
    @ravsofficial 4 місяці тому +1

    As if this channel doesn't have 1M Subs

  • @alejandroclaure7881
    @alejandroclaure7881 4 місяці тому

    Great stuff man. Thanks for sharing

    • @joshsmart
      @joshsmart  4 місяці тому

      Thank you my man 🙏🏼