2nd story: GIRL BE FR. He is very clearly flirting with her so openly right in front of you. Thank goodness she’s only engaged, it’s easy to call that off.
2nd story: if OP isn't ready to for real ending relationship break-up over these "little things" she should hand the ring back and say "i love you, but i don't feel loved and i won't get married feeling "jealous" as you said described my concerns so let's go back to being gf and bf and our would be wedding plans/venue/catering/decor can just become a mass party for everyone we love instead." call his bluff on all this PDA with another girl at a public-ish place with friends that support you so he can't twist the narrative and show that she is trying to trust him, but his actions has hurt her currently enough to forgo staying at an engaged status.
It always cracks me up when a guy does something, it’s okay. But if a woman would do the same thing, it’s the end of the world and they call you every name in the book.
Okay hear me out , there's a reverse here as well ,a woman can slap a guy,she won't be termed as a abuser ,but rather just defending herself ,a women can be the abuser in a relationship and the guy wouldn't be taken seriously ( I believe there's a series which explored this plot) ,a woman can falsely accuse a guy of rape and he would be sentenced ( many cases like this have already happened) A woman can force herself on a guy and r*pe him ,he still wouldn't be taken seriously. It goes both ways ,not just one. And I'm saying this as a woman myself.
second story honestly has me wondering how the other girl feels about it all. and are any of them even really her friend?? no one has said anything? idk if maybe they think that's just their dynamic bc op didn't say anything or what
First story: I would’ve done the same as OP and showed the messages to her without bias and let her form her own opinions. Safest way in informing without backlash. Glad that she reacted well and plans to leave that creep and doesn’t blame her sister. And yeah I completely agree about the 30 year age gap. I’m into younger guys myself but I draw the line at any gap 10 years or more because that’s an entirely different generation! Second story: I’ve always lived by the principle of treating others how you’d like to be treated yourself ie be empathetic towards others. This flirty guy obviously doesn’t hold to this. I’m pretty sure if he saw her wrapping herself up into the embrace of another man inside his coat publicly in front of their mutual friends, he’d go mental. And if he didn’t then it’s obvious he doesn’t give a monkeys about her. Basically it’s time to walk away, he’s the last type of guy I’d think of as husband material. Doesn’t have any thought or consideration towards her or her feelings, behaves like he’s single and has no obligations or responsibilities. No thanks, let him go be with his dwarven loli fetishes I say. Thank goodness OP found out before they were married, although I’m wondering how on Earth she’d even consider someone so selfish and uncaring in the first place!
First story: Brother-in-law needs to understand something - people who play around on the family tree usually end up hanging from it. I suspect that he is about to find out. Second story: Sounds like the fiancé is trying to get some premarital humby-jumby. If he goes through with it, then it is going to get worse after they marry.
First story: op's sister was 24 and BIL was 52 when they started dating?! And then had the balls to ask op, who's in her mid-20s for sex??? He wanted to cheat on his wife with, out of all people, his wife's sister??? Dude is a manipulative creep!! I would've told. Second story: op's fiance has a crush on his teammate, no doubt about it. He was doing the absolute most for a girl he's only known for a few months compared to his soon to be wife who he's known for YEARS. If my boyfriend of almost 3 years did all of that, I would crash out.
Yo I haven’t watched you in years since I was in the 6th grade! I’m in 9th grade now and I’m so happy you still do these videos!!! I will be watching again!
Hii Ellen I love the video and your outfit I hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and that the both of yall stay healthy and safe also coco is adorable I love the both of yall 💜💜💜
2:05 it’s true that for some people ‘sex just isn’t their thing’, but many older men approach younger women bc they just aren’t good relationship material. Good chance she just doesn’t like sex with him 3:44 OP just said that “he’s been a good person up until then”, but if that’s the case, why is she so dependent on him emotionally and financially? Of course situations like this are possible, but being so dependent on him while he’s also cheating, is a red flag
2nd story: GIRL BE FR. He is very clearly flirting with her so openly right in front of you. Thank goodness she’s only engaged, it’s easy to call that off.
Thank you. Like, wtf? No question: leave him.
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2nd story: if OP isn't ready to for real ending relationship break-up over these "little things" she should hand the ring back and say "i love you, but i don't feel loved and i won't get married feeling "jealous" as you said described my concerns so let's go back to being gf and bf and our would be wedding plans/venue/catering/decor can just become a mass party for everyone we love instead." call his bluff on all this PDA with another girl at a public-ish place with friends that support you so he can't twist the narrative and show that she is trying to trust him, but his actions has hurt her currently enough to forgo staying at an engaged status.
The first story is already crazy and I barely read any😂
It always cracks me up when a guy does something, it’s okay. But if a woman would do the same thing, it’s the end of the world and they call you every name in the book.
Okay hear me out , there's a reverse here as well ,a woman can slap a guy,she won't be termed as a abuser ,but rather just defending herself ,a women can be the abuser in a relationship and the guy wouldn't be taken seriously ( I believe there's a series which explored this plot) ,a woman can falsely accuse a guy of rape and he would be sentenced ( many cases like this have already happened)
A woman can force herself on a guy and r*pe him ,he still wouldn't be taken seriously.
It goes both ways ,not just one.
And I'm saying this as a woman myself.
I’m 56 and hubby is 60. If he was 30 years older he’d be 86. I can’t fathom that 🥹
second story honestly has me wondering how the other girl feels about it all. and are any of them even really her friend?? no one has said anything? idk if maybe they think that's just their dynamic bc op didn't say anything or what
I still remember 7 years ago the first video I watched from you is the 'annie96 is typing..' It was a journey and kinda miss that old times
I have not tuned into a video and so long AND GURL YOU LOOK SO CUTE I’m so happy you still do the same content I’ve been craving these videosss
First story: I would’ve done the same as OP and showed the messages to her without bias and let her form her own opinions. Safest way in informing without backlash. Glad that she reacted well and plans to leave that creep and doesn’t blame her sister. And yeah I completely agree about the 30 year age gap. I’m into younger guys myself but I draw the line at any gap 10 years or more because that’s an entirely different generation!
Second story: I’ve always lived by the principle of treating others how you’d like to be treated yourself ie be empathetic towards others. This flirty guy obviously doesn’t hold to this. I’m pretty sure if he saw her wrapping herself up into the embrace of another man inside his coat publicly in front of their mutual friends, he’d go mental. And if he didn’t then it’s obvious he doesn’t give a monkeys about her.
Basically it’s time to walk away, he’s the last type of guy I’d think of as husband material. Doesn’t have any thought or consideration towards her or her feelings, behaves like he’s single and has no obligations or responsibilities. No thanks, let him go be with his dwarven loli fetishes I say. Thank goodness OP found out before they were married, although I’m wondering how on Earth she’d even consider someone so selfish and uncaring in the first place!
First story: Brother-in-law needs to understand something - people who play around on the family tree usually end up hanging from it. I suspect that he is about to find out. Second story: Sounds like the fiancé is trying to get some premarital humby-jumby. If he goes through with it, then it is going to get worse after they marry.
First story: op's sister was 24 and BIL was 52 when they started dating?! And then had the balls to ask op, who's in her mid-20s for sex??? He wanted to cheat on his wife with, out of all people, his wife's sister??? Dude is a manipulative creep!! I would've told.
Second story: op's fiance has a crush on his teammate, no doubt about it. He was doing the absolute most for a girl he's only known for a few months compared to his soon to be wife who he's known for YEARS. If my boyfriend of almost 3 years did all of that, I would crash out.
2nd story......immediately reminded me of Beyonce - If I Were a Boy....
Second story "He puts her shoes inside his and..." who does that. OP's not overreacting at all.
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Yo I haven’t watched you in years since I was in the 6th grade! I’m in 9th grade now and I’m so happy you still do these videos!!! I will be watching again!
Hii Ellen I love the video and your outfit I hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and that the both of yall stay healthy and safe also coco is adorable I love the both of yall 💜💜💜
2:05 it’s true that for some people ‘sex just isn’t their thing’, but many older men approach younger women bc they just aren’t good relationship material. Good chance she just doesn’t like sex with him
3:44 OP just said that “he’s been a good person up until then”, but if that’s the case, why is she so dependent on him emotionally and financially? Of course situations like this are possible, but being so dependent on him while he’s also cheating, is a red flag
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2nd story: NOOOOOPE I'd be so out it's very clear he has feelings for her in some way
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My parents were 15 years apart. I never saw an issue with it. 30 is a lot, but some people age doesn't bother them. At least they are both adults.
omg same! my parents are also 15 years apart,but they don'thave the best marriage tbh haha
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