Overstimulated is definitely what you're feeling - so many little sounds and noises going on at once, things on your mind, things that need to be done etc. Remember, you have a village. I don't know how feasible this is for you, but I was feeling the same when my daughter was 6 months old, so I took her to my mom's for the day, came home and just BLITZED my house. Upstairs, downstairs, the garden, took things to the dump/charity store, I was a woman possessed. Sat my ass down in the afternoon with a Starbucks in a sparkly clean house and I swear, the noise in my head went silent. It was a sweet, sweet relief and these days it's so easy to just keep on top of everything, even though my girl is now walking up a storm. You're so right about giving yourself some grace. The world isn't going to stop turning because you didn't do the dishes! You're doing great 💜
I agree with this 100% and another tip… if you can do it safely (meaning still hear your baby) get some headphones that dampen the noise. Once in a while that can really help.❤
Omg Dani when I hear you talking it’s so validating because I feel like I’m listening to myself lol thank you so much for being so relatable and a comfort person for me❤️
Fuck yeah, girl. All of those feelings are normal, especially when it comes to sounds, especially after having a baby. It is being overstimulated. I’m 31 and my so. Is 2.5 yrs old and 2 big dogs amongst the rest of life. I’m over stimulated with quite a bit since having him. Thank you for your raw approach and warm heart. Also, you have very beautiful skin!
Overstimulated is definitely the word! I literally get the same way with my animals and a lot of things around my household. It’s hard juggling the entire house, keeping it clean, taking care of my youngin, cooking, taking care of the animals(I also have a yard that is mostly dirt and they ALWAYS track something in) while also trying to give myself time. Between my job and all these things I just listed, I feel like I’m losing it most days lol. You got this mama and are doing a great job!❤️
i love you so much. ❤ your honesty is unmatchable. my dog loves fxxking with my cats. i dint dont do my skin care routine everyday unless i feel like it. i hate going back to the store once i consider myself home for the day. i buy boujee things every once in a while for myself when i feel like i can afford it. cerave is a cure all! overstimulated/overwhelmed is normal. noises ROCK MY SOCKS. it is ptsd dear. it's normal. we all have it in different forms. youre doing just fine babe! your videos keep me sane. eff it and go to bed!!!!!!! 😂❤ you are my internet bestie. ❤😂 also i love these real azzzzz vlogs. ❤
you absolutely described overstimulation! one of my best friends has a rottweiler & doberman mix with hardwood floors and when he plays with his hard toys on their floors i get over stimulated too lmao. and when chloe turned away from you after your tried to take her toy i busted out laughing 😂😂 too funny
Think of a pot of water. When it's close to boiling, it doesn't take much to get it rolling. You can take it off the burner and it will still and appear calm, but the slightest increase in temperature will start it back up again. That's just your level at the moment. You appear to be this sweet little momma and wife, but just below the surface, you're tired and worn and ready to boil over. It's just life and you know that, but it still frustrates you. Making videos like this and sharing your heart like you just did will not only make you feel better, but they're going to be a lifeline to others who face the same stressors. I'm an empath and I can feel your heart in these videos. You're so strong, little sister! You have amazing things ahead of you, just keep chipping away. 💕 🙏
Dani,I just found your channel about a month ago.and I have been binge watching u and your little family.its so refreshing to here u talk,so relatable,I feel the same way too girl.i run a in home childcare for 7 yrs now.about 4 to 5 kids at a time.i also have 3 adult children.sure I have to clean a lot more,but I give myself some grace now cause everything ain't gonna be perfect everyday.i used to stress myself out,not sleep, anxiety,etc.rome wasn't built in a day,I only do what I can do and rest.ty Dani keep being a light, happy thanksgiving Jake,remi,and dani❤
For the dirt from the dogs, on Amazon (I believe is where we got it) they got these rugs that collect all the dirt and stuff. We shake it out every few days, but it does help because we have that orange clay dirt. Of course it still gets tracked in but I feel like it’s mostly caught at the door on that rug. Its a thicker rug with a paw print in two of the corners idr what it’s called 😅
I'm the same way with my nails and picking my thumbs 😮 Ugh. I work from home and don't leave the house much, no doubt that plays into my feeling overstimulated from my animals (no children). I also think it's from the clutter in my home, seeing it day after day, all day. I'm trying to rid myself of excess things and finding a place for everything.
I’m watching this with my end of the day bowl of cereal too ❤ I get like that with sounds too. My cat crunching her dry food when I’m like this makes me 😾 but I too never say anything cuz it’s not her fault obviously.
Hi Danielle 🙂 You need to rest. You know that. You are Remy's mummy, you cook, you clean, you shop, you have a partner that you want to spend time with, you have two channels............... you are doing so well. You definitely shouldn't feel guilty about wanting some 'me' time. You are a star 🌟. ❤
I feel overstimulated to I’m a first time mom and my son is 3.5 months old and my husband is working 12s. So a lot of it is on me. And being a mom is so hard but so worth it ❤
overwhelmed maybe, i feel that 2 kids, 2 dogs 1 cat its alot of cleaning allllllll the time never stops ugh and we are allowed to get annoyed about it every now and then lol
I wouldn't say overstimulated Just tired after a long day with your baby and you need some rest. Irritable due to tiredness. Happens to me daily with my little man 😂
You basically have 5 kids so you’re entitled to feel the way that you feel and yes I think it’s overstimulated. You have a lot going on, take your days off and enjoy them guilt-free!
As a skin care professional, I SWEAR by cerave. amazing brand. Base your skin care of the ingredient list not the price of the product. On that note, please don’t put 3 year old expired products on your face, especially around your eyes! Not worth loosing an eyeball. Too pretty for thay
For the dirt from the dogs, on Amazon (I believe is where we got it) they got these rugs that collect all the dirt and stuff. We shake it out every few days, but it does help because we have that orange clay dirt. Of course it still gets tracked in but I feel like it’s mostly caught at the door on that rug. Its a thicker rug with a paw print in two of the corners idr what it’s called 😅
Overstimulated is definitely what you're feeling - so many little sounds and noises going on at once, things on your mind, things that need to be done etc. Remember, you have a village. I don't know how feasible this is for you, but I was feeling the same when my daughter was 6 months old, so I took her to my mom's for the day, came home and just BLITZED my house. Upstairs, downstairs, the garden, took things to the dump/charity store, I was a woman possessed. Sat my ass down in the afternoon with a Starbucks in a sparkly clean house and I swear, the noise in my head went silent. It was a sweet, sweet relief and these days it's so easy to just keep on top of everything, even though my girl is now walking up a storm.
You're so right about giving yourself some grace. The world isn't going to stop turning because you didn't do the dishes! You're doing great
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I love the idea of having a free day to blitz my home too! I don’t know when it will be possible, maybe sometime in the future lol.
I agree with this 100% and another tip… if you can do it safely (meaning still hear your baby) get some headphones that dampen the noise. Once in a while that can really help.❤
Your honesty and realness is just one of the reasons you are so loved and why we all enjoy the channel! Happy Thanksgiving my friend 🧡
Awhhhh I appreciate you 🥹❤️ Happy thanksgiving!!
Omg Dani when I hear you talking it’s so validating because I feel like I’m listening to myself lol thank you so much for being so relatable and a comfort person for me❤️
I am so glad I’m not alone!!❤❤❤
Fuck yeah, girl. All of those feelings are normal, especially when it comes to sounds, especially after having a baby. It is being overstimulated. I’m 31 and my so. Is 2.5 yrs old and 2 big dogs amongst the rest of life. I’m over stimulated with quite a bit since having him.
Thank you for your raw approach and warm heart. Also, you have very beautiful skin!
Overstimulated is definitely the word! I literally get the same way with my animals and a lot of things around my household. It’s hard juggling the entire house, keeping it clean, taking care of my youngin, cooking, taking care of the animals(I also have a yard that is mostly dirt and they ALWAYS track something in) while also trying to give myself time. Between my job and all these things I just listed, I feel like I’m losing it most days lol. You got this mama and are doing a great job!❤️
You said it perfectly. It is ALOT. We definitely have to give ourselves grace. Thank you for this❤
i love you so much. ❤ your honesty is unmatchable. my dog loves fxxking with my cats. i dint dont do my skin care routine everyday unless i feel like it. i hate going back to the store once i consider myself home for the day. i buy boujee things every once in a while for myself when i feel like i can afford it. cerave is a cure all! overstimulated/overwhelmed is normal. noises ROCK MY SOCKS. it is ptsd dear. it's normal. we all have it in different forms. youre doing just fine babe! your videos keep me sane. eff it and go to bed!!!!!!! 😂❤ you are my internet bestie. ❤😂 also i love these real azzzzz vlogs. ❤
Your so honest and I love it!!! Stay who you are!!!
you absolutely described overstimulation! one of my best friends has a rottweiler & doberman mix with hardwood floors and when he plays with his hard toys on their floors i get over stimulated too lmao. and when chloe turned away from you after your tried to take her toy i busted out laughing 😂😂 too funny
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH OMGGGG!!! Everything about you girl is just too real. Keep being you girl 🤍
I am right there with you!!!!! I have 4 kids (11,7,3,2) and 1 dog….i live my life constantly overstimulated LOL. Love your videos 💕
Think of a pot of water. When it's close to boiling, it doesn't take much to get it rolling. You can take it off the burner and it will still and appear calm, but the slightest increase in temperature will start it back up again. That's just your level at the moment. You appear to be this sweet little momma and wife, but just below the surface, you're tired and worn and ready to boil over. It's just life and you know that, but it still frustrates you. Making videos like this and sharing your heart like you just did will not only make you feel better, but they're going to be a lifeline to others who face the same stressors. I'm an empath and I can feel your heart in these videos. You're so strong, little sister! You have amazing things ahead of you, just keep chipping away. 💕 🙏
Dani,I just found your channel about a month ago.and I have been binge watching u and your little family.its so refreshing to here u talk,so relatable,I feel the same way too girl.i run a in home childcare for 7 yrs now.about 4 to 5 kids at a time.i also have 3 adult children.sure I have to clean a lot more,but I give myself some grace now cause everything ain't gonna be perfect everyday.i used to stress myself out,not sleep, anxiety,etc.rome wasn't built in a day,I only do what I can do and rest.ty Dani keep being a light, happy thanksgiving Jake,remi,and dani❤
You are doing great. I can only imagine how much work a in home daycare is. Seriously you deserve some grace!!
You are so real and I ❤your videos 😊
You just gained a new subscriber 💕
Yay!! I requested it! Not sure if I was the only one. But I was so excited when I saw this. lol Happy Thanksgiving!!! ❤
Love this video chatting lol ❤
For the dirt from the dogs, on Amazon (I believe is where we got it) they got these rugs that collect all the dirt and stuff. We shake it out every few days, but it does help because we have that orange clay dirt. Of course it still gets tracked in but I feel like it’s mostly caught at the door on that rug. Its a thicker rug with a paw print in two of the corners idr what it’s called 😅
I can appreciate a full night's sleep, Dani.
ASMR is the shizzle, too.🙂
Would love to have a bookshelf tour 😀😂💗
Yesss over stimulates definitely maybe being tired I get 🦀 when Iam exhausted 😊❤
I'm the same way with my nails and picking my thumbs 😮 Ugh.
I work from home and don't leave the house much, no doubt that plays into my feeling overstimulated from my animals (no children). I also think it's from the clutter in my home, seeing it day after day, all day. I'm trying to rid myself of excess things and finding a place for everything.
I’m watching this with my end of the day bowl of cereal too ❤ I get like that with sounds too. My cat crunching her dry food when I’m like this makes me 😾 but I too never say anything cuz it’s not her fault obviously.
lol that’s so real about rotating the same 10 shirts every week 😂 I’m the same way 💀
We have a lot of dirt to. It's very aggravating when it's wet outside and your shoes get dirty every time you walk outside to.
Yes!! Drives me crazy!!
Hi Danielle 🙂
You need to rest. You know that. You are Remy's mummy, you cook, you clean, you shop, you have a partner that you want to spend time with, you have two channels............... you are doing so well. You definitely shouldn't feel guilty about wanting some 'me' time. You are a star 🌟. ❤
Happy thanksgiving❤
The shirt 👚 3days in a row is more common than u think lol no judgement we love the real n raw ❤❤❤
Over stimulation is SO real. I usually say I’m over stimulated OR I have sensory overload.
I feel overstimulated to I’m a first time mom and my son is 3.5 months old and my husband is working 12s. So a lot of it is on me. And being a mom is so hard but so worth it ❤
Its truly hard especially with your partner being gone. But seriously remember you are doing your best and you are doing enough!!
Overwhelmed
The smallest sounds can throw me off completely, totally not crazy.
Literally me with my dogs, overstimulated is an understatement.... Happy holidays!
Happy holidays!!😂❤😂
overwhelmed maybe, i feel that 2 kids, 2 dogs 1 cat its alot of cleaning allllllll the time never stops ugh and we are allowed to get annoyed about it every now and then lol
Hello happy thanksgiving
enjoy your thanksgiving!!
Happy thanksgiving
Dani I love you 🫶🏽
I luv ur honesty u lyk me
I wouldn't say overstimulated Just tired after a long day with your baby and you need some rest. Irritable due to tiredness. Happens to me daily with my little man 😂
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Overstimulated mama here✋️That's definitely what you're experiencing. Take a deep breathe 😮💨
I am definitely working on it 😅🤣
@DaniRenae Me too! Very hard to self regulate sometimes. Big hugs to you 🤗
You basically have 5 kids so you’re entitled to feel the way that you feel and yes I think it’s overstimulated. You have a lot going on, take your days off and enjoy them guilt-free!
As a skin care professional, I SWEAR by cerave. amazing brand. Base your skin care of the ingredient list not the price of the product. On that note, please don’t put 3 year old expired products on your face, especially around your eyes! Not worth loosing an eyeball. Too pretty for thay
Yes sweet girl you are overstimulated. ❤ u
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Overstimulated over here too 🫣 Also, nothing better than a bowl of cereal at night 🙂
For the dirt from the dogs, on Amazon (I believe is where we got it) they got these rugs that collect all the dirt and stuff. We shake it out every few days, but it does help because we have that orange clay dirt. Of course it still gets tracked in but I feel like it’s mostly caught at the door on that rug. Its a thicker rug with a paw print in two of the corners idr what it’s called 😅
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