15 Massive Signs You're Actually FURTHER AHEAD Than You Think

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  • @alux
    @alux  3 роки тому +20

    Hello Aluxers! When was the last time you lifted someone else up and what did you do?
    Video Notes: www.alux.com/signs-youre-ahead/
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    • @Manuel-gu9ls
      @Manuel-gu9ls 3 роки тому +1

      No matter how slow you go, you’ve always ahead of those who don’t start or quit in mid-way

    • @Dark_Spark007
      @Dark_Spark007 3 роки тому +1

      Bought someone a meal yesterday and let them keep the change. This video is the validation I needed. Thanks😌..................

    • @gene85518
      @gene85518 3 роки тому

      I feel the small things make positive change.
      Everyone I meet I show them the respect they deserve as a human being and this makes a great start to our interaction.

    • @clos671
      @clos671 3 роки тому

      I loaned money to 2 friends that I know could not pay me back. The money I loaned did not hurt me, but helped them tremendously! I told them that they don't even owe me, glad I could help!

    • @Manuel-gu9ls
      @Manuel-gu9ls 3 роки тому

      @@clos671 you shouldn’t be taken advantage for

  • @infinitumneo840
    @infinitumneo840 3 роки тому +103

    When you can laugh at life and life smiles back. When you have peace of mind no matter what else is happening in the world, your golden.

  • @nicknonya2198
    @nicknonya2198 3 роки тому +24

    "Hard work actually kills" I'm glad that someone put this out there. It might not kill you today or tomorrow, but it does take a toll on your health. It took me a while to figure this out and it cost me more than I ever made. However, if you learn from your mistakes, you'll make better decisions in the future. And that is what it is all about.

  • @BigBen_Fitness
    @BigBen_Fitness 3 роки тому +49

    *➡Your lack of patience is killing you😶*
    *➡Your need of things is killing you*
    *➡You don't need a fancy watch⌚️*
    *➡You don't need a fancy car🚘*
    *➡YOU NEED TO BE HAPPY*
    *➡You are not lost, you are just early in the process*
    Have a great day guys 😎
    Gary Vee

    • @alek__pazisegenov
      @alek__pazisegenov 3 роки тому

      Thanks😌🙏

    • @torradojose1
      @torradojose1 3 роки тому

    • @andrefecteau
      @andrefecteau 3 роки тому

      wrong...trophys are worth obtaining...having money "in the bank" only makes money for the scam artists on Wall St

  • @verahnyamoita6621
    @verahnyamoita6621 3 роки тому +4

    1.you can finally say No and follow your gut.
    2.your decisions are not income based.
    3.your priority is yourself and what others think of you.
    4.youre no longer attached to drama.
    5.youre constantly finding ways to improve yourself.
    6.your making your health a priority.
    7.you can listen to a story without trying to one up that person.
    8.you are genuinely happy for the success of others.
    9.youve got alittle money saved for a rainy day.
    10.you work hard but you play hard too.
    11.you have friends that you can rely on.
    12.you are enjoying the journey you are taking so far.
    13.youve lifted sameone up recently.
    14.you nolonger make excuses for your situation.
    15.you like the person looking back at you in the mirror.

  • @zahoorshah2824
    @zahoorshah2824 3 роки тому +3

    Lifting up: I saw the janitor being stressed trying to get his documents printed and it was the end of the day but the kitchen was not clean and dishes were undone. While he was figuring out his thing I went ahead and cleaned the kitchen and the dishes despite others telling me it's his job. I might have lowered my ego and self-esteem for some but I have risen high in his heart. "The look and feel of relief on his face when he saw the kitchen cleaned was .....). Also the boss saw the kitchen clean so his reaction was as usual. I know it's a little thing but for me and for him it's a memory and a motivation to better.

  • @lennonmoore2847
    @lennonmoore2847 3 роки тому +31

    As an educator, I see it as my role to lift my students up everyday.

  • @danielherreracg
    @danielherreracg 3 роки тому +85

    I wish everyone to achieve their goals, fulfill who they’re meant to be, & succeed in life! 🔥🔥🔥
    Greetings from Cabo, Mexico👋🏼🇲🇽

    • @satisham5885
      @satisham5885 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you Daniel. Wish more success and happiness in your life.

    • @leti-o
      @leti-o 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks Sir. I wish all good things for you also. Stay safe and blessed 🙏

    • @dashiajames1882
      @dashiajames1882 3 роки тому +2

      Same goes to you..Thanks

    • @kevinbaltarejo4875
      @kevinbaltarejo4875 3 роки тому +1

      @@sonofatech9057 Scam

  • @theallseeingkats6321
    @theallseeingkats6321 3 роки тому +30

    NO has become my favorite word as I go further into adult hood.....

  • @brokenbaby3468
    @brokenbaby3468 3 роки тому +18

    "The only person u should be better than is the person u were yesterday"😍

  • @harshvpandey101x
    @harshvpandey101x 3 роки тому +9

    Ma'am, your voice is amazing! I can listen to you speaking for hours...
    I wish you taught math at my school...

  • @gloomydaysunshine8656
    @gloomydaysunshine8656 3 роки тому +37

    10 seconds in and I’m already inspired 😎

  • @harshjinger
    @harshjinger 3 роки тому +33

    Just did it today...
    Helped a dad understand his teen daughter's dream of becoming a physics researcher...
    It felt nice...

  • @jeanpierrebravo
    @jeanpierrebravo 3 роки тому +14

    Just wanted to say thank you To everyone at Alux For lifting us up when we are down And reminding us to be humble when we are high

  • @dorisbeckman6777
    @dorisbeckman6777 3 роки тому +24

    I don't have friends that i can rely on...I think my wife,wife families and my family are going to be my future friends

    • @ganendranpillay3283
      @ganendranpillay3283 3 роки тому +3

      nothing wrong, sometimes its like that

    • @hiitsme3039
      @hiitsme3039 3 роки тому

      Make some friends it’s important

    • @gujuification
      @gujuification 3 роки тому +2

      Having your wife/partner be your best friend only happens to some lucky people like you and I....it's one of the most humbling feelings.

    • @karinec.2131
      @karinec.2131 3 роки тому +3

      You and only you can be your own best friend. It took me a good while to even love myself.

    • @gujuification
      @gujuification 3 роки тому +1

      @@karinec.2131 absolutely true. You can't expect someone else to love you till you love yourself first.

  • @AuthenticGogetters
    @AuthenticGogetters 3 роки тому +11

    15 made me smile so hard because I’ve been working man. On my health and happiness and for the first time last week looking in the mirror I called myself beautiful. Grateful for this video, I can relate to a lot of these and I’m hungry for more self growth! Consistency is key people

  • @willmallory9085
    @willmallory9085 3 роки тому +4

    Forgiving yourself is the hardest and most important item on this list!!!

  • @stevenporter863
    @stevenporter863 3 роки тому +1

    Building on video:
    1. Things bought just because you like them (not need) don't negatively impact your life 1:03
    2. Doing things society doesn't like; how about NOT doing things society wants on society's timeline (getting married, buying a house, etc.) 2:13

  • @soumyapande678
    @soumyapande678 3 роки тому +3

    The fact that I've actually achieved more than 10 things on the list makes me so happy🥺

  • @harshulkhatri9123
    @harshulkhatri9123 3 роки тому +2

    helped a friend in need of mental problem. she was not able to think positive of that situation. I just told her not to worry and and enjoy herself today.💯

  • @ntnrocket1
    @ntnrocket1 3 роки тому

    This is so true. Through my job, I've been blessed to meet some successful and even famous people and they have really developed most of these traits. But it's like a chicken and egg thing, what came first, the success or these traits??? I would say a lot of these traits get you even further along in your success. We've all heard of a "vicious cycle" but what these things are speaking of is a "virtuous cycle"--good things and gratitude and good stewardship of those good things leading to more good things. The term has been around over 100 years, but I just learned about it the other day when I looked it up, says a lot about our negative words.

  • @lorettaonlivetv6851
    @lorettaonlivetv6851 Рік тому +1

    This was great! I am further ahead than I thought. Thanks Alux…

  • @ramirenriquez6795
    @ramirenriquez6795 3 роки тому

    Helped a close friend who lives in a different country order food for his family who lives in the same country as I am due to covid quarantine.
    The more we do our best to not compare ourselves with other people, only to our past selves, the happier we can be. It's a fulfilling experience to have everything we dream of but if we're not there yet but see things still progressing, take comfort from that, take necessary breaks and then continue.

  • @mindyourbusinessandrelax1323
    @mindyourbusinessandrelax1323 3 роки тому +6

    Nice to know that I have progressed. Sometimes when going through the improvement process, we forget how far we’ve come. ☺️🙌🏾
    I truly am loving the person I am becoming.

  • @joymae
    @joymae 3 роки тому +1

    A year ago I was unemployed, living in a room with a fake wall and had just started my UA-cam Channel. Fast forward one year, I have been able to monetize my UA-cam channel and Tiktok and am working with sponsors. Do not let your current situation impact you future goals.

  • @RicherWays
    @RicherWays 3 роки тому +6

    "Winners never quit , quitters never win" make sure you get the best out of life , have a great day everyone !!

  • @derwandschauer
    @derwandschauer 3 роки тому +3

    I spent 3k on my business, and today I found out, there are still 50 bucks left, I can spend on anything I want. I didn't spend it, cause, actually, I don't need anything right now. That made me feel free.

  • @andrefecteau
    @andrefecteau 3 роки тому +6

    probably best Alux vid yet...good job

  • @mohitkalra1507
    @mohitkalra1507 3 роки тому

    Helped my friend to set up a brand store, he was in debt trap of NBFCs and wanted financial restructuring, setting up a brand store helped him raise finance through govt. bank on very easy terms and now - he’s doing good, and I feel peace in it ))

  • @dharmesh_padhra
    @dharmesh_padhra 3 роки тому +2

    I have helped my Best friend (my crush too) a lot about bad things that she has been through. I really feel gratitude after helping my crush about relationship, positivity and motivating her. She says I am awasome guy out there for anyone. 😊😊

  • @denerorahming7298
    @denerorahming7298 3 роки тому

    I love this narrator, she has such a soothing and inspiring cadence in her voice.

  • @BeautifulbyDesign
    @BeautifulbyDesign 3 роки тому +3

    I love the lists that help me measure my progress. Thanks, Alux. 🙂

  • @essencexoxo6374
    @essencexoxo6374 3 роки тому +4

    OMG ....all 15 resonated with me 🥲 thank you ALUX . Blessings and abundance to you. ❤️🙌🏽

    • @dbigtime10bt
      @dbigtime10bt 3 роки тому

      Great, I hope this message reach in good health and great spirits! Peace.

  • @landoflakesdetailingl.l.c.7149
    @landoflakesdetailingl.l.c.7149 3 роки тому +1

    The last time I lifted someone up was today. I vigorously motivate, support, & enable my close friend to, in a nutshell, ALUX! (No tip for sticking around on this one)

  • @brokenbaby3468
    @brokenbaby3468 3 роки тому +3

    As u told, i've besties who had given their hands 4 me when i'm falling down and i wanna thank them so much coz i was so depressed in that time ..... I luv u guys so much.....bff😍😍❤

  • @steffifernando8871
    @steffifernando8871 3 роки тому +5

    Completely hyped up after watching this❤️! I literally felt greatful about my life compared to last 3 years and now I'm more happier than ever with how I've improved and how confident I feel 🌟
    Keep loving your self and keep aiming higher!!!

  • @mo26312631
    @mo26312631 3 роки тому +2

    Alux thanks for the insight and the positive speak for the last four years.

  • @jatinkumar-hm6ut
    @jatinkumar-hm6ut 3 роки тому +2

    I'm 16 and already over 7 of the points.

  • @scottieventry
    @scottieventry 3 роки тому +4

    Such a great feeling to know I’m heading in the right direction!!

  • @clos671
    @clos671 3 роки тому

    This video was awesome!!! I normally think about where I have failed in life, and keep looking at my past. After watching this video, I realized that I have accomplished 11 of the 16 signs that I am further ahead than I think. This video has motivated me to complete the other 5 signs, and look into the future, and at my accomplishments more. Thanks Alux!!!

  • @phillipmckinnon6883
    @phillipmckinnon6883 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! I'm doing all these things regularly! That's why overall i'm happy. I have my struggles like everyone else but I feel GOOD!!😁😁.
    I work in mental health so i'm trying to help others for a living. It's very rewarding!!

  • @charlies8363
    @charlies8363 3 роки тому

    #13 in my opinion is crucial. Always help someone in need especially if you have the possibility to do so. Always bring the best in good people regardless of their status. You never know, the person who you least expect may aid you when you need help. Besides nothing feels better than helping or lifting up someone who needs you.

  • @thestreetspeaker1
    @thestreetspeaker1 3 роки тому +6

    This Videos Was Definitely Aligned For Me✔️

  • @breznevolaso4090
    @breznevolaso4090 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you ALUX your channel means a lot to me. Thank you for inspiring us all and thank you for the shared wisdom.

  • @WhatTheHypeBro
    @WhatTheHypeBro 3 роки тому +3

    thank you Alux! the points made in this video have affirmed that I am actually further ahead than i thought! I am so glad!

  • @jonathanstanley3132
    @jonathanstanley3132 3 роки тому

    Whenever i have bad anxiety i come and watch your videos to calm me down. Just want to say thank ou

  • @lady_peace_rose
    @lady_peace_rose 3 роки тому +6

    Helping: I just listened to someone and they have me their special coin as a thank you.

  • @KirstyJuliana
    @KirstyJuliana 3 роки тому +2

    Finally watched the whole thing. Definitely ahead 🙌🏾 great vid, very uplifting

  • @williamseric7691
    @williamseric7691 3 роки тому +7

    Reason why everyone should have a profitable investment.people need money

    • @TheKarina-ns1ob
      @TheKarina-ns1ob 3 роки тому

      You're right Investment is the key to surviving during times like this when the government decided to mess with people.

    • @michaeljohn3328
      @michaeljohn3328 3 роки тому

      Yeah what type of Investment y'all are into .the stock market has been crashing lately.

    • @Veronica-kp6sd
      @Veronica-kp6sd 3 роки тому

      Bitcoin investment is the best when you're on a profit based platform especially with the current rise.

    • @zackyo370
      @zackyo370 3 роки тому

      Investing in cryptocurrency and gold which is better?

    • @jameswalk7958
      @jameswalk7958 3 роки тому

      I must say I haven't seen a relatable investment, my wife pushed me to start looking into stock and crypto some time before the pandemic because we were looking for other sources of income

  • @swish8-832
    @swish8-832 3 роки тому +1

    This is exactly what I needed. Synchronous.

  • @BackroadMoney
    @BackroadMoney 3 роки тому +2

    Loved this video, thank you for all of the work put into it!

  • @dashiajames1882
    @dashiajames1882 3 роки тому +2

    I guess I'm really further than I thought. I've made exercising a priority, b4 I didn't care. Im taking kickboxing classes & working out at home. My diet changed alot.

  • @akhilkumar521
    @akhilkumar521 3 роки тому

    Hi, I love ur channel and watcg videos regularly to see myself growing and improving. Ur videos had impacted me a lot in recent times. Content you are injecting in our brain is fascinating. I want to give a small feedback like a suggestion that like previous videos it would be better if you display the particular point ur discussing on screen while explaining so that even if lose our track or destacted a bit we can recognize what point ur speaking by looking at the name of the particular point ur explaining.

  • @fephoenix9208
    @fephoenix9208 3 роки тому

    Much needed I need to forgive myself for allowing myself to be in a toxic situation last year. To move forward that last bonus advice spoke to me.

  • @booksbydr.henderson8318
    @booksbydr.henderson8318 3 роки тому +2

    I helped my friend learn how to use Zoom by scheduling (two) one on one zoom meetings 😌

    • @dbigtime10bt
      @dbigtime10bt 3 роки тому

      Great, I hope this message reach you in good health and great spirits! Peace.

  • @agborekara
    @agborekara 3 роки тому

    I bailed 2 strangers out of jail for breaking curfew.. Spent my last savings to do so.. I'm not complaining, it was I fulfilling and humbling experience..

  • @michellec4455
    @michellec4455 3 роки тому

    I'm filing this video under "feel good". Thanks Alux!❤

  • @3335pooh
    @3335pooh 3 роки тому +1

    the guy at 1:58 has 500 shirt in his wardrobe. very nice.

  • @abhigyanchakraborty5563
    @abhigyanchakraborty5563 3 роки тому +1

    It was quite a refreshing video.

  • @technicalamanullah7019
    @technicalamanullah7019 3 роки тому +1

    Let's stand up for humanity against colonialism, xenophobia and ethnic cleansing, let's stand against the terrorist regime of Israel and let's stand for the freedom of Palestine 🇵🇸

  • @noahalliance
    @noahalliance 3 роки тому

    This may be too long
    I helped a friend of mine get back to his real self and started making money for a leaving thank taking Alcohol,
    He is a Guy with a bachelor in marketing / I am just a guy with an online certificate in Digital marketing, graphics, and website development
    But he couldn't use his knowledge to do something for a leaving and was taken more into drinking groups
    I helped him to outsource with the strategy I use and also I gave him on cool contract for digital marketing and some free course to update himself
    but now I let him go because I wanted to be alone though I saw that he can't make it alone but I can't help him in all its like he needs some good start off which I can not provide

  • @morelife7625
    @morelife7625 3 роки тому +3

    Sml. Indeed Ahead 💯👍

  • @sathyay5180
    @sathyay5180 3 роки тому +3

    Love this channel

  • @torradojose1
    @torradojose1 3 роки тому

    EXCELLENT as Always 🧿

  • @snehaverma6745
    @snehaverma6745 3 роки тому +1

    They signs comes when we improve our hard work and ignore much care about ownself

  • @Jupiterxice
    @Jupiterxice 3 роки тому

    1 thru 5 was on point.....

  • @anthonyjackson6807
    @anthonyjackson6807 3 роки тому

    This was a great one. Sometimes we are too hard on ourselves. Good reflection video.

  • @Theboredies
    @Theboredies 3 роки тому

    Thank you. I really needed this.

  • @andrefecteau
    @andrefecteau 3 роки тому +1

    6 should be #1

  • @lisamochinking4461
    @lisamochinking4461 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing... fabulous ideas... Learning to say no. Also, finding Peace and Compassion within and with others.

  • @Tiberiusdinu1031
    @Tiberiusdinu1031 3 роки тому +2

    On exactly May 14th I kinda “helped” a homeless drunk. I know buying him booze and ciggaretes is not the best idea but I figured he’d go buy them anyway if he had the money. So yeah, that’s how I helped the man.

  • @theonlygosha
    @theonlygosha 3 роки тому +1

    You’ve all got this. Keep going

  • @gabrielmacron4605
    @gabrielmacron4605 3 роки тому +1

    This his what it means to be determined and confident in you but also around people

  • @MiamiMichelleable
    @MiamiMichelleable 3 роки тому

    A good video to try and not compete with each other because there's no need.

  • @marcraphaeljames
    @marcraphaeljames 3 роки тому

    What model is that nike shoe 1:40?

  • @sreekantheragadindla4138
    @sreekantheragadindla4138 3 роки тому

    This channel is like an Apple company among all UA-cam channels
    I love you Alux
    BTW, I have recently lifted my friend who is earning 500USD per month but has debts of 11000USD with interest rates @60% pa( quite common in India)
    I have cleared all his debt and asked him to pay me 450USD every month for next 30 months
    He is so happy, finally he was able to go to his house, not hide from creditors

  • @KabayanFitness
    @KabayanFitness 3 роки тому +1

    I wish all the best for every body let’s spread love and kindness because you and I have one life to live ❤️🙏😌

  • @lalitttkkuummaarrg
    @lalitttkkuummaarrg 3 роки тому +1

    The one good decision which I have made in my life is Subscribing to Alux..

  • @MrSherod1
    @MrSherod1 3 роки тому

    I recently did a individual 10 mile fundraiser in honor of my aunt that just recently died of cancer. I raised $1052 which is $52 more than my goal

  • @omotayosatuyi252
    @omotayosatuyi252 3 роки тому

    Actually yesterday there as a video that was about signs that make your attractive or something like that the one commenter said in a comment thread quote” I am none of these so ima head out” I responded with that’s okay these are things are things you can work on I then after that said that u can do this he or she responded with I can do this and it made me glad that I could motivate someone it was a great feeling

  • @EnochKNsiah
    @EnochKNsiah 3 роки тому

    Thanks for this videos! 😊 Reinspired

  • @abdelrahman1311
    @abdelrahman1311 3 роки тому +1

    I miss you sayin " Welcome to ALUX ... to the end " 💔

  • @ismaeluttojr8776
    @ismaeluttojr8776 3 роки тому

    ALUX 👑 is the best💚

  • @darrylestewart4846
    @darrylestewart4846 3 роки тому +1

    I talked a kid working at Best Buy into going to night school to get his HS diploma.

  • @donavongrant3770
    @donavongrant3770 3 роки тому +1

    Can’t believe all these relate to me. Wow!

  • @heyyounotyouyou3761
    @heyyounotyouyou3761 3 роки тому +1

    0:00 that's literally how I try to get ahead

  • @LNasterio
    @LNasterio 3 роки тому

    I see people around me doing things that I have done or tried almost 10 years ago... And the funny part is I was often called "retarded" by those smart cookies.
    10 years later, I own a million dollar house with all no debts. They just brought their first house in cheap places with a loan from the bank, and kept telling people how proud they are.

  • @miguelgonzalez6213
    @miguelgonzalez6213 2 роки тому

    #3 Dying your hair pink WAS a way to toss convention aside. Now, it IS the convention.
    If you ain't first, you're last! - Ricky Bobby

  • @malishamaharjan5462
    @malishamaharjan5462 3 роки тому

    This was positive one at time of lockdown! Tq.

  • @umangarohi7758
    @umangarohi7758 3 роки тому +3

    I'm 5th 😁😉

  • @oleggeraschenko4932
    @oleggeraschenko4932 3 роки тому

    Alux, I don't like to brag, but I pick up my friend at the airport and drive him there whenever I can. And guide my students so they get become better and are pleased with themselves

  • @cervgiovanni
    @cervgiovanni 3 роки тому

    In my opinion, your best video yet

  • @lennonmoore2847
    @lennonmoore2847 3 роки тому

    This was awesome! Thank you Alux!

  • @MeMeMeMe-uc8th
    @MeMeMeMe-uc8th 3 роки тому

    When you llive your life thoughtfully and with reason, you never have anything to forgive yourself for; you know you did the best you could at the time. You also learn to not jidge others, rather you try to understand their circumstances and temperament. Approaching life in this manner leads to a quiet bliss and the satisfaction of knowing all is well.

  • @aukel2947
    @aukel2947 3 роки тому

    thanks to alux and many others whose teachings I've taken to heart, my life and my mind have gone on a 180º and now I'm looking up for future achievement and not down for my past glories.

  • @markyyyyyy6520
    @markyyyyyy6520 3 роки тому

    I agree with this! Most of the signs in the list are what I am doing🥰😇

  • @TheGuniverse2k
    @TheGuniverse2k 3 роки тому

    I just paid for someone's stuff behind me in line & it was a mechanic! Just what I needed to check something out. Said pay it forward too lol 😎 knew this video would be cool

  • @empressonthethrone
    @empressonthethrone 3 роки тому

    I needed this. Thank you so much.

  • @leiraalamo6414
    @leiraalamo6414 3 роки тому

    I loved this video! Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @14kurtismiller
    @14kurtismiller 3 роки тому

    Being able to say no to things that require more of your time momentarily or long term are beneficial to one's self as well.