If you want to get girls chasing you and create the busy and fulfilling dating life you should be having by now then check out my online program HOOKED - getherhooked.com/.
+MsMojomaster Only a truly good and honest man can agree with what you said. Let the rest of the flies be attracted to shit though.
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I 200% agree with this guy. If she plays games with you, chase another chick. I wasted a month and money on this chick and she broke up with me. I had my wrong doing too but yeah, she was manipulative. Be manipulative (play games). Not too much though.
Ever since I went my own way, the things Fran (I don't know how to spell her name correctly) mentioned have been happening. For instance I'll attend a social gathering and not have any expectations whatsoever. Instead of approaching women, I often look preoccupied with something. I don't approach people at all. That right there for some reason seems to attract women. Indifference for some reason is attractive to them. I'm also not a phone talker. In fact I hate it!! If you're going to call me, get to the point cause I don't have time when in reality I probably do at times. I just don't like it. It drains energy. If a woman texts or IM'S me, I'll message her back when I have a free moment. The doing something special is something that's not really in my nature. I'm an aspie. I don't really know how to show love... I'm not really sensitive to feelings. I don't pick up on "hints" at all. And you know what? It doesn't bother me one bit!!
*Focusing on self-confidence and not over-pursuing was a great takeaway. When a guy demonstrates he has his own life and goals, it naturally draws women in rather than pushing them away.*
You only have to go through all of these games if you're trying to win a girl that doesn't already naturally want you. Every once in awhile though, you can encounter a great woman that's naturally attracted to you. I was fortunate enough to recently find that. The beautiful thing about that is I don't have to stress myself with all of these extra little games. We both just naturally allow how we genuinely feel about each other to guide us. Of course it helps for me that I already like her also.
Being a good listener is only effective if the girl is honest about what she's into, which many girls are not. Being *attentive* and *responsive* in conversation is much more effective than just listening
Not true, you don't need to be handsome to achieve this. I'm pretty ugly (around 4/4.5-10), but there are still girls that approach me from time to time. There was this one girl at a nightclub that approached me in a direct way "Hey, I really like what you're wearing", and she started to make out with me right away when I asked her if she would like to dance with me. It's just a matter of being confident and taking care of yourself.
This is weak. Adult men and women do not play silly games. If an adult male is dating "girls" he has a bad case of arrested development. If a man has his shit together and is an interesting sophisticated fun guy, none of this silly stuff is necessary. If she calls or texts, call or text her back! If you do the same, then she should call or text you. If folks are interested in each other all this childishness is not required to "get" anyone. My God, why do men put so much effort into thinking they need to do all this silly stuff and "make" a woman do anything?
Because the philosophy is that just like animals, humans need a 'mating ritual' and dance in order to prove their worth when it comes to relationships.
I'm sorry man, I like you and all, but I just couldn't finish watching the video over so much complicated bullshit. Getting a girl is not that hard guys. You might be shy or insecure or something, but when you meet the girl you KNOW is meant for you, you automatically drop all that shit and you see yourself talking to her and she WILL respond to that.
+Capitán Phillips how about if she didnt give u a response ??u did all the work and sacrificing ur time for only getting her but still no result...for you, this girl is special... do you leave her and move on??or keep trying??... i need ur answer... if you said its not that hard... thanks...
nick ty If you mean that you look like retched shit because you don't shower, take care of your skin, or groom yourself properly... then you're probably right. Women don't usually go for slobs. If that's the case, you can get it together. It's just a lifestyle. And if you're scrawny or overweight, not conventionally good looking, or possess other characteristics that may qualify you as physically "ugly", you can still attract desirable women. Tripp is absolutely right. Personality is the #1 factor in triggering attraction. The less interested you appear to be, the more interested they will become, especially if you're "ugly", because it will confuse the fuck out of them when you have more important things to do than give them your attention. I never compliment a woman's appearance, or tell her she's beautiful, because I know it drives them nuts not knowing what I think of them. No matter how beautiful, they all have insecurities. Trust me, I personally know rock bottom, and it's a long way up, but there's only one way to go from there. I focused on my job, turned it into a career, got a gym membership and turned it into a routine, read and studied everything I could find on the psychology of attraction and field-tested the knowledge to determine what works. I've still got a long way to go but I'm light years from where I was, and I think the most important thing I've learned thus far is this: "If you want to be somebody else, change your mind." No one can do it for you.
To the age of 25 or above, just do TWO things. GIVE & TAKE. 1: GIVE respect to her. 2: TAKE action on your short term and long term life goals. You don't wanna ruin each other's integrity by playing "mind games"
wait wait wait wait wait everyone stop liking these comments That guy has 14 likes and tripp has 4 likes Let'ss not change the numbers cause we have 4 in both of them
hey Tripps .com first my English is not good but let's still talk I just want to say you are the first site that looks true to me and giving good and free advice thanks for that k3ep up the nice work it's fun to see your videos
A genuine compliment with no expectations given to a girl........man she is yours after that. I discovered this by accident one night. I was at a dance class with a girl who said somethijg i thought was self depreciating(but i heard wrong). I told her she was pretty, without any agenda and she lit up. Next week i saw her she came straight over to me and literally sexually assaulted me. A genuine sentiment given with no expectations. Just be real and dont try to get anything from her. Most guys are hungry and are looking to get something from a girl. Dont be like this. Look to give to her with no covert contract of getting anything in return.
Great video! Basically masculine energy wants freedom and the feminine wants to trap it. Girls are emotional and boys more rational...I've seen this throughout my life. I've been needy and indifferent to some girls and their response is obvious. When I was needy, the girl run away and when I was busy with my passions in life, the girl was like 4 months super-interested in me!! One night I had to make out with her :x So don't be that Super-Nice guy all the time because you're automatically screwed LOL Just work on your passions in life, be happy and fulfilled by yourself and never put your happiness in someone else!! You are responsible for handling your own emotions...Always. Peace ;)
Hey Tripp I get turned down by a lot of cute girls around where I live idk what I'm doing wrong I ask them for there number 😂 and it makes me sad I'm a good listener but I still don't get you think you can help me Tripp get a girl please
+Rebekah Vian That's what I do. #1 It gets rid of that anxiety of if it's the right number. #2 You already know the girl likes you if she texts back. #3 The rejection is smoother. Her name isn't on your phone. It's almost as if she didn't exist. Easy to move on.
A lot of girls cute girls get tired of numerous random guys asking for their numbers. If they really are cute they probably get a lot of attention then get closer to them and then ask for her number.
4:38 random body language thingy: He looks happy and slightly clueless (overly happy grin and nothing else to say) She looks playfully disappointed (flat smile only and drooped eye brows) She might of wanted to talk longer or shake hands. She is a cute specimen.
Shiranui Hanten Actually people used to pick up the skills on their own. And every person inherit certain amount of ability to flirt from birth so they don't actually have to study anything to know what to do to the opposite sex (girls tend to know more about the game though and they do it without knowing about it). Now we just learn it from the internet because information is more available than ever.
Shiranui Hanten Because men are giving their power away by fucking every woman they can. So an ugly troll female that wants to have sex tonight just needs to take her phone and there are 20 idiots available that will rush like a madman to her place for sex. Guys should have standards. That would balance everything a bit more.
ok there is a girl who has a locker next to me & in my home ec. (high school) and she glances, shows her neck/chest off, flips her hair, and squirms in her seat about 3 times a day. we know each other a little, but rarely talk. what should I do because I like this girl back.
Back in the 60's, 70's, 80's, you liked a girl, you would go directly to her parents and show interest. If she wasn't interested, you moved on. Now its turned into a game of manipulation, WHICH WORKS. I should go to a European village like Michael Corleone.
That's true though.. being rich is a "shortcut" .. only negative is that she may only like you for your money and it won't last long unless u dont care. But if your just trying to smash and dash having money is everything
I just took notes on this to keep them on my cell , and instead of sending them to me I sent them to the girl I like in accident. I feel really bad , I don't know what is going through her head now. A couple minutes before I was texting her and I just didn't receive a response since then.
Or or even better why don't women just be normal ? That's sounds like a plan to me! Seriously games that's high school shit I don't have time for stuff like that! That shows me she's immature and untrustworthy you either like me or you don't that's how I see it! You can't give 90% and get 10% back gotta be a 50/50 situation!
I need help. I've been talking to this girl that likes me for about a week. I thought she was attractive, but wasn't necessarily dying to get into a relationship. She initiated the conversation, and the more we talked the more like her. We've been hanging out in a group of about 6 friends for a month or so, so we know each other as friends, but not super well. Now back to the point. Just a couple nights ago we had a fun, flirty, teasing conversation over snapchat, and at one point she was sending me snaps in only her underwear. That got me thinking, this has to be good right? Well, I snapchatted her the next day, and she opened it, and didn't respond. It's been almost 2 days, and I haven't heard anything. What do I do? Snap/text her again, wait it out, or give up?
stopped watching at : play her at her own game. lol stupid humans... just better being alone than playing weird games. if a woman can't handle the truth well then she can just gtfo.
I find that those early moments of sharing personal and intimate information with each other in the first few weeks is the honey pot of information you can use for a long term 'game'. In my opinion men do not identify the little things enough. If you secretly study the chicks behavior and things that she like to do, there will come a time were you can use that information to blow her mind. As the video says. However also on that note, The things you should look for are not always so simple, ie personality types, what she eats, drinks ect ect should be covered on a first date... if you really want to make an impression. Know her mannerisms, ask subtle question about what she 'does' certain things, and you will soon find more that surface information but actually why she is who she is ans were she is from as a person... ie if she wears glasses, and is self conscious bout the look with or without the on... target it. complement her on the things she probably doesnt like about herself and make those 'issues' for her non issues. Complements on a cute smile and generic attributes are fine initially, but once youv got information, the substance that you can use wil take you deeper and faster along. In my opinion :D
Hey Tripp advice, I seriously need your advice.I proposed a girl and got to know that she had a breakup. Seems she is not able to get out of it & at the same moment she says she is interested in me and not gaining confidence to take our thing further. whenever I asked about it, she says she is not able to come out of that guy. Kindly advice me how to pull her back from that guy. He doesn't deserve her, we are in touch on chats these days
Well, I looked at this video as more of a way to get a woman whose number you have gotten, or possibly a woman who you have hung out with numerous times, to chase you. What I am referring to is getting a woman to chase you in the initial interaction, so she feels invested and may even want to number close you. So, what I am talking about is what can be done before the phone number is even exchanged to get her more invested/chasing
You don't have to play games to get women. In fact they will respect you more if you are direct. Tell them straight up what your intentions are for talking to them, and reject their games.
I don't get one thing. If I determine that I want to date a girl for long term... I find her personality almost like mine or that we tune, then it's all good. But if it's very different from what I like and need, no point faking it in the beginning. Won't she discover it finally, in the long run that had acted the way I wasn't?
Just one question I have approached a couple of women in Barbados so far and they just don't want to talk. And I'm just wondering how to loosen up a woman into talking with you and get more in tune into the conversation.
Hey, i am a good listener and give a lot of time ! I am always available, and i think thats the reason i get friendzoned. But my question is being nice and being available is bad? I mean any body will feel nice if we give them time but in case of relationships it doesnt work. This is what annoys me.
Hey I might need help here! Definitely. So this girl thats pretty I think likes me. She gives me lots of hints and tried to involve herself in my life a lot. But I just cant get anything to click between us now. We don't talk that often now and Should I just move on from this?
So, there's this girl that I'm pretty sure likes me, but she seems to shy to say so. She's usually shy around people, because of something that happened to her when she was younger, but she seems full of life whenever I'm around her, and laughs at my jokes (which aren't usually that funny). So, I'm confused about this. She's about 13, so is that usually behavior for a girl that age? BTW, I kinda like her too, but I'm confused before I make a move, so could someone PLEASE help me figure this out? I'm SOOOOOO confused...............
Tripp love your work , I got a big question here ok in my past I had a girlfriend but she was really never in the relationship and turned sour , reasons for her not in the relationship was basically in a nice way she was a addict. Now during the time we were together I loved her deeply and her kids was there for her always but wasn't happy she wasn't living her life to the fullest, if you know what I mean. We broke up and have been apart for months now. Not talking at all she recently contacted me and said she just wants to be friends she's doing what she needs to do now and is on the right track . We've talked about it and she says she loves me but not in that way still she really doesn't know if she had something for me or if it was her using me , we have been friends for two weeks now and I'm being careful not to fall into any trap but I'm still seeing that person or personality I loved in her in the first time around . Is there hope for a second time ? What should I do? I'm at a loss cause I don't know if anything was real the first time ? I'd like to make a try at it when she's ready but atm she isn't so how do I go about this???
you can only play this game when shes into u.if shes not she'll just leave and find attention sumwhere else...but how do u know if shes interested anyways??since she'll always be playing hot & cold..
@Tripp Advice i think i might have scared of a girl at work and i dont know how to get her back, She was into me and then i showed i was into her and she started ignoring me how should i turn it around do you have any advice for me ?
If you want to get girls chasing you and create the busy and fulfilling dating life you should be having by now then check out my online program HOOKED - getherhooked.com/.
How do i get rid of 3 girls chasing me i did nothing help
It's easy to get a girl to chase you! Just walk up to her, steal her purse, and run like hell! LOL!
+6672rock lmao
+6672rock Or become rich and famous
+bob smith thats matter of perspective
I tried this and a bunch of boys in blue started chasing me, now I gotta dodge deez dicks
kyler miller Yell "Black lives matter" and they will disperse.
So, basically don't be yourself. Great message!
Too complicated. I'll just go live my life now.
+Vinay Seth my thought exactly
+Waleed Chorfii why do guys have to be a dick? (Not return calls quickly)? I always try to be available.
+Vinay Seth Go Thailand bro, problem solved, its just western girls this game shit applies too.
+bob smith "To" or "too"?
+Acdragonrider Videos thank you for the English correction. It was very appropriate and it was a MUST "to" go out your way to correct me.
why would anyone want to date a manipulative girl that want to control you through games and teasing,guys dont compromise,you deserve better than shit
+MsMojomaster I thought I were the only one who thought that.
+MsMojomaster Only a truly good and honest man can agree with what you said. Let the rest of the flies be attracted to shit though.
I 200% agree with this guy. If she plays games with you, chase another chick. I wasted a month and money on this chick and she broke up with me. I had my wrong doing too but yeah, she was manipulative.
Be manipulative (play games). Not too much though.
Saying “a manipulative girl that wants to control you….” is redundant. Just say a girl.
Ok guys, if this comment gets over 50 thumbs up/likes by the end of the week then I'll make sure Francoise comes back for another episode. And...go.
TrippAdvice.com She is awesome hopefully she will comes back for another episode :)
I'm the 50th liker
TrippAdvice.com Hey, you guys did it! Great job. Expect to see more of Francoise.
kevin ngo im the 700th :P
Ever since I went my own way, the things Fran (I don't know how to spell her name correctly) mentioned have been happening. For instance I'll attend a social gathering and not have any expectations whatsoever.
Instead of approaching women, I often look preoccupied with something. I don't approach people at all. That right there for some reason seems to attract women. Indifference for some reason is attractive to them.
I'm also not a phone talker. In fact I hate it!! If you're going to call me, get to the point cause I don't have time when in reality I probably do at times. I just don't like it. It drains energy.
If a woman texts or IM'S me, I'll message her back when I have a free moment.
The doing something special is something that's not really in my nature. I'm an aspie. I don't really know how to show love... I'm not really sensitive to feelings. I don't pick up on "hints" at all. And you know what? It doesn't bother me one bit!!
*Focusing on self-confidence and not over-pursuing was a great takeaway. When a guy demonstrates he has his own life and goals, it naturally draws women in rather than pushing them away.*
I will be honest here... This us the first video from you i actually understand and can apply to many guys. THANK YOU!
You only have to go through all of these games if you're trying to win a girl that doesn't already naturally want you. Every once in awhile though, you can encounter a great woman that's naturally attracted to you. I was fortunate enough to recently find that.
The beautiful thing about that is I don't have to stress myself with all of these extra little games. We both just naturally allow how we genuinely feel about each other to guide us. Of course it helps for me that I already like her also.
Bbn
You're blessed! True love is a gift from God. Always appreciate what u have.
all that to get a divorce lol
+Jean Ramirez I know mate, I'd rather go to Amsterdam for a shag and leave it be.
Dr.'sorders ur right the game never ends.
Gaga Hahahaha happened to me
Being a good listener is only effective if the girl is honest about what she's into, which many girls are not. Being *attentive* and *responsive* in conversation is much more effective than just listening
Play tag with her and she will definitely be chasing you. :)
AHAHAHAHAHAHAH
I'm using this XD
what is play tag
Borrow her phone.
Applause to you
Step 1: Be handsome
Step 2: All the girls will chase you no matter what.
Works for me at least :)
Not true, you don't need to be handsome to achieve this.
I'm pretty ugly (around 4/4.5-10), but there are still girls that approach me from time to time. There was this one girl at a nightclub that approached me in a direct way "Hey, I really like what you're wearing", and she started to make out with me right away when I asked her if she would like to dance with me.
It's just a matter of being confident and taking care of yourself.
but not too handsome ....
Ha!
This is weak. Adult men and women do not play silly games. If an adult male is dating "girls" he has a bad case of arrested development. If a man has his shit together and is an interesting sophisticated fun guy, none of this silly stuff is necessary. If she calls or texts, call or text her back! If you do the same, then she should call or text you. If folks are interested in each other all this childishness is not required to "get" anyone. My God, why do men put so much effort into thinking they need to do all this silly stuff and "make" a woman do anything?
i think you dont no shit about a man ,only what you want in a man all men are different period.
Because the philosophy is that just like animals, humans need a 'mating ritual' and dance in order to prove their worth when it comes to relationships.
+jan King what the fuck you smoken can i have some ...
Dion Charles You're just stupid mate
wish this was always true but its not.
There are times I really wish that girls asked guys out instead of the other way around.
Grow some balls
Only 10% of the guys would get asked out.
I'm sorry man, I like you and all, but I just couldn't finish watching the video over so much complicated bullshit. Getting a girl is not that hard guys. You might be shy or insecure or something, but when you meet the girl you KNOW is meant for you, you automatically drop all that shit and you see yourself talking to her and she WILL respond to that.
True dat
+Capitán Phillips how about if she didnt give u a response ??u did all the work and sacrificing ur time for only getting her but still no result...for you, this girl is special... do you leave her and move on??or keep trying??... i need ur answer... if you said its not that hard... thanks...
Preach
@@sobatsetanmerah she dont like you move on
her microphone is really good
i wonder how expensive it is
If she plays hard to get, I play hard to get rid of.
60% of the time, it works every time
I couldn't pay attention, those beautiful..... Microphone in her shirt distracted me
Lol
I know the feeling :(
PresidentSantana someday, when you grow up, you will understand the joke
PresidentSantana mi inglish es perfecto
Carlitox b
The tits were distracting us from the tips.
I'm sure he is friend zoned.
As soon as she said “what’s up kid” I was like burn!!! Get back to the friend zone dude
😂
Albert Lewis EXACTLY 😂😂😂😂
I could have walked out of the damn video LOL
Ugly people can't play hard to get since they are already hard to want. I can say this with confidence because I look like absolute retched shit.
nick ty No you don't. And yes they can. In fact, doing so tends to work better.
TrippAdvice.com Wrong
nick ty If you mean that you look like retched shit because you don't shower, take care of your skin, or groom yourself properly... then you're probably right. Women don't usually go for slobs. If that's the case, you can get it together. It's just a lifestyle. And if you're scrawny or overweight, not conventionally good looking, or possess other characteristics that may qualify you as physically "ugly", you can still attract desirable women. Tripp is absolutely right. Personality is the #1 factor in triggering attraction. The less interested you appear to be, the more interested they will become, especially if you're "ugly", because it will confuse the fuck out of them when you have more important things to do than give them your attention. I never compliment a woman's appearance, or tell her she's beautiful, because I know it drives them nuts not knowing what I think of them. No matter how beautiful, they all have insecurities. Trust me, I personally know rock bottom, and it's a long way up, but there's only one way to go from there. I focused on my job, turned it into a career, got a gym membership and turned it into a routine, read and studied everything I could find on the psychology of attraction and field-tested the knowledge to determine what works. I've still got a long way to go but I'm light years from where I was, and I think the most important thing I've learned thus far is this: "If you want to be somebody else, change your mind." No one can do it for you.
If you are unhappy with your looks take 3-4 months to head to your local gym. Belivev me, nothing gives a confidence boost like seeing more muscle.
***** It may help, sure.
To the age of 25 or above, just do TWO things. GIVE & TAKE.
1: GIVE respect to her.
2: TAKE action on your short term and long term life goals.
You don't wanna ruin each other's integrity by playing "mind games"
Do you guys share a closet?
lol
wait wait wait wait wait everyone stop liking these comments That guy has 14 likes and tripp has 4 likes
Let'ss not change the numbers cause we have 4 in both of them
LMFAO!!!
i prefer to just watch porn and play video games tbh
yep
so true
I prefer do not do that about porn. Gives me negatives.
You're a dude and your name is Celine??? Your parents must hate u
nope my name is chris
Great video !! When a hot girl gives you HONEST advice on how to get them, pay attention !
Its interesting that women don't seem to need such tips. We men have to do the whole work as it seems
With Style u ever seen how many fucking videos there are for women on what to do to get a guy lol ?
We playing ourselves, they want and need us equally if not more, so no time for all that
I'm glad you're uploading great videos recently, Tripp. Just make sure you stay single and carry on with your good work on UA-cam ;)
Thanks Anas. Can't promise the former but will do my best on the latter.
TrippAdvice.com would watching Japanese anime like fairy tail and bleach help you get better with dating and girls?
I was a bit distracted, I think she was talking about something.
Forget that S, I'm gonna go work on my car now....
hey Tripps .com first my English is not good
but let's still talk
I just want to say you are the first site that looks true to me and giving good and free advice thanks for that k3ep up the nice work
it's fun to see your videos
How about being yourself until a girl that likes your real self comes along ?
Any tips you could give for people in High School? Might be ok to target another audience for once.
This made me realize that women don't know what they really want.
+Kuro Shinko Yup women just want to have mystery after mystery because its different but yeah your not knowing the guy like that.
+Kuro Shinko
Precisely.
It's for you to define it for them, and then they will just follow meekly along behind.
A genuine compliment with no expectations given to a girl........man she is yours after that. I discovered this by accident one night. I was at a dance class with a girl who said somethijg i thought was self depreciating(but i heard wrong). I told her she was pretty, without any agenda and she lit up. Next week i saw her she came straight over to me and literally sexually assaulted me. A genuine sentiment given with no expectations. Just be real and dont try to get anything from her. Most guys are hungry and are looking to get something from a girl. Dont be like this. Look to give to her with no covert contract of getting anything in return.
In 3:27 you can here someone or something breathing
***** :DDDDDD
Oh that was just the Flying Dutchman.
Hahaha that's part of the background music
3:18 his 9 second stare into the camera is amazing
Be a purse snatcher or a phone plucker, girls be chasing you in no time
And how do you apply the short term tecniques if you don't all ready have a girl chasing you?
Great video! Basically masculine energy wants freedom and the feminine wants to trap it.
Girls are emotional and boys more rational...I've seen this throughout my life. I've been needy and indifferent to some girls and their response is obvious. When I was needy, the girl run away and when I was busy with my passions in life, the girl was like 4 months super-interested in me!! One night I had to make out with her :x So don't be that Super-Nice guy all the time because you're automatically screwed LOL Just work on your passions in life, be happy and fulfilled by yourself and never put your happiness in someone else!! You are responsible for handling your own emotions...Always. Peace ;)
5:06 . that's not what nigahiga told me
"nice guys" by nigahiga look it up
Thanks for the videos. I learned a lot from trippadvice, although I'm a Chinese guy. It's just awesome!
3:28-3:30 did anyone hear that
be extremely confident. none of this matters if you're not confident.
1:34 "You've got to be just the right amount of dick"... :P
So like if you know a word that your crush hates, should you talk to them and ask why?
Hey Tripp I get turned down by a lot of cute girls around where I live idk what I'm doing wrong I ask them for there number 😂 and it makes me sad I'm a good listener but I still don't get you think you can help me Tripp get a girl please
Alan Modzelewski Watch the videos. Listen to the podcasts. Then apply. It sounds like you're watching and listen, but not applying. Learn then act.
Don't ask a girl for her number. Giver her yours, and if she is interested she will call.
+Rebekah Vian
That's what I do.
#1 It gets rid of that anxiety of if it's the right number.
#2 You already know the girl likes you if she texts back.
#3 The rejection is smoother. Her name isn't on your phone. It's almost as if she didn't exist. Easy to move on.
A lot of girls cute girls get tired of numerous random guys asking for their numbers. If they really are cute they probably get a lot of attention then get closer to them and then ask for her number.
lmao
If you become her enemy, you will never get friend-zoned....It works 100% of the time
I notice this is true it's disappointing girls r this way
I agree, I notice it myself, it's complicated but at the same time not too bad
4:38 random body language thingy:
He looks happy and slightly clueless (overly happy grin and nothing else to say)
She looks playfully disappointed (flat smile only and drooped eye brows)
She might of wanted to talk longer or shake hands. She is a cute specimen.
Specimen.... Tha fuck
An individual, a unique element in this small investigation.
Basically she's not like other women and pretty special. In my view
Hard to be a straight guy nowadays...it's gotten to where it takes all manner of special training.
Ok.
Raul Martinez Know what you mean. I feel with you. Why can't people just be people and love each other? Why has there to be a recipe?
So true man loooool
Shiranui Hanten
Actually people used to pick up the skills on their own. And every person inherit certain amount of ability to flirt from birth so they don't actually have to study anything to know what to do to the opposite sex (girls tend to know more about the game though and they do it without knowing about it). Now we just learn it from the internet because information is more available than ever.
Shiranui Hanten Because men are giving their power away by fucking every woman they can. So an ugly troll female that wants to have sex tonight just needs to take her phone and there are 20 idiots available that will rush like a madman to her place for sex. Guys should have standards. That would balance everything a bit more.
ok there is a girl who has a locker next to me & in my home ec. (high school) and she glances, shows her neck/chest off, flips her hair, and squirms in her seat about 3 times a day. we know each other a little, but rarely talk. what should I do because I like this girl back.
i always wonder why its always guys having to play the "girl's game", but never the other way around
I'm attractive but that's it I'm not hot or anything, so will this work for me?
It may be that I'm inexperienced, but this shit pisses me off. Fuck these games.
What about not getting past the first stage/phase of what they have mentioned? Did I do something wrong?
I did this and she spit milk in my face then stole my shoes
When was the "short term" comming in, in this video?
I'm not a dick... I will act how I usually act... If the girl I like likes me back. Cool. If not. Good for her, I can move on.
***** I've actually had the same girl for the last 3 years, I know what I'm doing.
Bradley Bellick
"You dont have to be dick" Cant stop laughing xD awesome vid though
Back in the 60's, 70's, 80's, you liked a girl, you would go directly to her parents and show interest. If she wasn't interested, you moved on. Now its turned into a game of manipulation, WHICH WORKS. I should go to a European village like Michael Corleone.
best comment thumps up about 60 s and 70s
The Corleone got himself a sexy italian wife haha
European village? How ignorant can you Americans be?
Europe is NOT a country!!!! Just as the US is not a continent.
Fuck all this shit. JUST BE FUCKING RICH.
kush bhalerao exactly
That's true though.. being rich is a "shortcut" .. only negative is that she may only like you for your money and it won't last long unless u dont care. But if your just trying to smash and dash having money is everything
It's just annoying that people spend all the time playing games
I just took notes on this to keep them on my cell , and instead of sending them to me I sent them to the girl I like in accident. I feel really bad , I don't know what is going through her head now. A couple minutes before I was texting her and I just didn't receive a response since then.
Or or even better why don't women just be normal ? That's sounds like a plan to me! Seriously games that's high school shit I don't have time for stuff like that! That shows me she's immature and untrustworthy you either like me or you don't that's how I see it! You can't give 90% and get 10% back gotta be a 50/50 situation!
never take advice from a girl for a girl 😏
I need help. I've been talking to this girl that likes me for about a week. I thought she was attractive, but wasn't necessarily dying to get into a relationship. She initiated the conversation, and the more we talked the more like her. We've been hanging out in a group of about 6 friends for a month or so, so we know each other as friends, but not super well. Now back to the point. Just a couple nights ago we had a fun, flirty, teasing conversation over snapchat, and at one point she was sending me snaps in only her underwear. That got me thinking, this has to be good right? Well, I snapchatted her the next day, and she opened it, and didn't respond. It's been almost 2 days, and I haven't heard anything. What do I do? Snap/text her again, wait it out, or give up?
stopped watching at : play her at her own game.
lol stupid humans... just better being alone than playing weird games. if a woman can't handle the truth well then she can just gtfo.
great tips!! thanks guys.
I learned this shit in the 6th grade, you gotta be a challenge, there's no other way until she's totally invested in you.
I find that those early moments of sharing personal and intimate information with each other in the first few weeks is the honey pot of information you can use for a long term 'game'. In my opinion men do not identify the little things enough. If you secretly study the chicks behavior and things that she like to do, there will come a time were you can use that information to blow her mind. As the video says. However also on that note, The things you should look for are not always so simple, ie personality types, what she eats, drinks ect ect should be covered on a first date... if you really want to make an impression. Know her mannerisms, ask subtle question about what she 'does' certain things, and you will soon find more that surface information but actually why she is who she is ans were she is from as a person... ie if she wears glasses, and is self conscious bout the look with or without the on... target it. complement her on the things she probably doesnt like about herself and make those 'issues' for her non issues. Complements on a cute smile and generic attributes are fine initially, but once youv got information, the substance that you can use wil take you deeper and faster along.
In my opinion :D
Hey Tripp advice, I seriously need your advice.I proposed a girl and got to know that she had a breakup. Seems she is not able to get out of it & at the same moment she says she is interested in me and not gaining confidence to take our thing further. whenever I asked about it, she says she is not able to come out of that guy. Kindly advice me how to pull her back from that guy. He doesn't deserve her, we are in touch on chats these days
first women to give real advice
Can you make a video about how to flip the script and have the girl chasing you/investing more in the INITIAL interaction.
I thought I just did.
Well, I looked at this video as more of a way to get a woman whose number you have gotten, or possibly a woman who you have hung out with numerous times, to chase you. What I am referring to is getting a woman to chase you in the initial interaction, so she feels invested and may even want to number close you. So, what I am talking about is what can be done before the phone number is even exchanged to get her more invested/chasing
danny5460 OIC. You mean like this: ua-cam.com/video/URLK1a4y7eM/v-deo.html
There you go
Tripp advice i already got these skills and but im struggeling whithe going further plz help me whithe this
You don't have to play games to get women. In fact they will respect you more if you are direct. Tell them straight up what your intentions are for talking to them, and reject their games.
When does one start to transition to long term goals?
I don't get one thing. If I determine that I want to date a girl for long term...
I find her personality almost like mine or that we tune, then it's all good.
But if it's very different from what I like and need, no point faking it in the beginning.
Won't she discover it finally, in the long run that had acted the way I wasn't?
She was lying sooo hard!!!! She doesn't even know what she wants! Soo funny!
Just one question I have approached a couple of women in Barbados so far and they just don't want to talk. And I'm just wondering how to loosen up a woman into talking with you and get more in tune into the conversation.
chad alleyne Try going to one of those bar shacks on the beach and talk to the women there. They love to chat with guys. Or the hotel bars.
lol the face he puts when she says 'five to six dates of getting to know her' lol
What's the camera this video was being taken with?
if I do all those tips and get a ugly girl or in other word not what I want chasing on me, how to deal with it?
I get kinda annoyed how some girls I know don't respond to me quickly. It makes me hard to try to connect. Any help?
Hey, i am a good listener and give a lot of time ! I am always available, and i think thats the reason i get friendzoned. But my question is being nice and being available is bad? I mean any body will feel nice if we give them time but in case of relationships it doesnt work. This is what annoys me.
2:15 my man Tripp was like :,, woah hold on wait a minute. ''
Hey I might need help here! Definitely. So this girl thats pretty I think likes me. She gives me lots of hints and tried to involve herself in my life a lot. But I just cant get anything to click between us now. We don't talk that often now and Should I just move on from this?
So, there's this girl that I'm pretty sure likes me, but she seems to shy to say so. She's usually shy around people, because of something that happened to her when she was younger, but she seems full of life whenever I'm around her, and laughs at my jokes (which aren't usually that funny). So, I'm confused about this. She's about 13, so is that usually behavior for a girl that age? BTW, I kinda like her too, but I'm confused before I make a move, so could someone PLEASE help me figure this out? I'm SOOOOOO confused...............
Tripp love your work , I got a big question here ok in my past I had a girlfriend but she was really never in the relationship and turned sour , reasons for her not in the relationship was basically in a nice way she was a addict. Now during the time we were together I loved her deeply and her kids was there for her always but wasn't happy she wasn't living her life to the fullest, if you know what I mean. We broke up and have been apart for months now. Not talking at all she recently contacted me and said she just wants to be friends she's doing what she needs to do now and is on the right track . We've talked about it and she says she loves me but not in that way still she really doesn't know if she had something for me or if it was her using me , we have been friends for two weeks now and I'm being careful not to fall into any trap but I'm still seeing that person or personality I loved in her in the first time around . Is there hope for a second time ? What should I do? I'm at a loss cause I don't know if anything was real the first time ? I'd like to make a try at it when she's ready but atm she isn't so how do I go about this???
What does she mean by "long term" and "short term" ??
you can only play this game when shes into u.if shes not she'll just leave and find attention sumwhere else...but how do u know if shes interested anyways??since she'll always be playing hot & cold..
great video helped a lot
What should i do every day when I'm with her, like how often should I flirt, how often do I talk about what's been going on in our lives, etc.?
Is Francoise from New Zealand?
You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman!!
how long should stop message and call her? what the time frame?
Great advice ! by the is she from North East England? she got the geordie accent coming through lol
Rohanildo Definitely Northern.
Was guessing Mancunian.
Very helpful. Thanks 🙏
what if its someone you've known for awhile ?
Thank you Trip. you are awesome👏👏👏👏
@Tripp Advice i think i might have scared of a girl at work and i dont know how to get her back, She was into me and then i showed i was into her and she started ignoring me how should i turn it around do you have any advice for me ?