A Call to Fidelity
Вставка
- Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
- This might not be what you expected...but it's a great opportunity to consider where and what we are... and where we are going. Do you ever think about Fidelity? I do. It's been on my mind. The finest men and women I have ever known were shining examples of Fidelity. I want to share what I have learned from them. Keep up the Good Work.
Music in this video: Second Wind - Northside
The Formsetter Hammer here: www.essentialcraftsman.com/fo...
Free Starter Blacksmithing Tool List bit.ly/blacksmithingtools
Free Guide - 100 Tools Every Craftsman Must Have bit.ly/EC100tools
Enjoy EC? Learn about Essential Craftsman Academy!
essentialcraftsman.com/academy
This is the best way to support Essential Craftsman and you get a LOT of perks as a bonus.
Check it out.
PODCAST👇
Spotify spoti.fi/39ezy3d
Apple apple.co/33dbrJQ
Stitcher bit.ly/3NWy8sY
UA-cam bit.ly/2n4HCLG
Second Channel (Podcast video, family, misc content) bit.ly/2n4HCLG
If you are going to hire a contractor for a big project PLEASE read our ebook first!
amzn.to/2v6qZ6j
T Shirts, Hoodies, and other Merch: bit.ly/2C7JFRv
Instagram / essentialcraftsman
Twitter / ecnatwad
Facebook / essentialcraftsman
Amazon Affiliate Links:
Amazon Store amzn.to/2pcUk8G
Makita 18v Impact amzn.to/2R9uamN
4 ft level amzn.to/389qsQa
Utility Knife amzn.to/2RjVRJL
Palm Nailer amzn.to/2LhvTTd
Spencer Tape amzn.to/2EQWxPy
Carpenter Bags amzn.to/2XeBaC1
Belt bit.ly/3MsdijV
Hammer amzn.to/31y4q66
Tape Measure amzn.to/2WYg23Q
Skil Saw amzn.to/2UcQyLi
Video Equipment and Misc.
Main Camera amzn.to/2WG9qSC
Secondary Camera amzn.to/32tS2Vx
Microphone (for narration from office) amzn.to/2WquPnM
Wireless Microphone amzn.to/2IGpNto
Other Wireless Microphone amzn.to/397VmxJ
Tripod amzn.to/2XOJcOd
GoPro amzn.to/3znHgTA
GoPro Tripod amzn.to/3aL8pFH
Battery Bucket amzn.to/3GVR9cV
ActionPacker amzn.to/2l7Msqv
www.essentialcraftsman.com/
I read a phrase once that I've never been able to forget. "Just because the whole world is having a spiritual crisis doesn't mean I'm compelled to participate in it."
YES
Fantastic!
This is an extraordinarily compelling message, delivered in an extraordinarily compelling way - mindfully, with intellectual rigor, emotionally, earnestly, soulfully, caringly, and selflessly. This is both a warning and a prescription of just how badly - and just how, specifically - we need to "get our shit in order" for the good of our own self care, our care for those we love intimately in a physical way, for family and friends that we love in emotional and spiritual ways, for the way we need to love our neighbors as ourselves, the way we need to love our communities, for the way we need to love our own nations, for the way that we need to love all nations within the family of nations within which we exist and upon whom we depend in countless ways, for the love of this earth that we depend upon for every form of physical sustenance, for the love of our Creator, no matter how someone may define their Creator. Because we are mutually inter-dependent on all of the above and we put all of those things and people that we depend on at risk, and we put our own selves and our cores -and whether or not we even have a core, or not, anymore. We risk all that and as a people we are teetering on the edge of losing all of that. If we do not renew our pledge to and live in faith, to Fidelity. Fidelity is rooted in Gratitude, Gratitude not only to any one person or institution or thing. Fidelity is rooted in a Gratitude that we have the opportunity to exist and Gratitude that we get to live our lives and Gratitude for the blessings which are showered upon us, not because we "earned" any of those blessings - our blessings have been bestowed unto us - blessings bestowed unto us by our Creator's Fidelity and Generosity to us. I give thanks for this video and to Essential Craftsman for making this video, and I give thanks for all of the other past, present, and future blessings that I've been blessed to receive.
That’s for real , when u point the finger 4 are pointing back at you
Those that do nothing in times of need, deserve nothing.
Decades ago my wife and I learned that fidelity to each other also includes having each other's back, not making jokes at each other's expense, speaking well of each other to others. When someone really has your back, it makes all the difference.
Your words are true. A few years ago I met a friend and her new man, we noticed he was making jokes at her expense trying to impress us. A few weeks later he was out on his arse, he'd stolen from her family. Went through their christmas cards for cash. Now that's low, but we don't have to get that low for your words to still call out to us.
i always cringed at the jokes men made about their wives and tried to model better behavior for younger men who were contemplating marriage and dealing with some of the ribbing of other guys. my wife and i did marriage prep for our church which we found helped others but our own marriage as well. having each other's back is critical. in this life, there aren't many people who will affirm you - your spouse doing so will make all the difference in the world.
Fidelity is the foundation of a man with discipline.
It's the foundation of people.
Scott you are an example not just of craftsmanship, musician, but a human being of the highest point of life , Wisdom.
Integrity is doing the right thing, even if no one is watching.
So simple yet it took me 50 years to really understand how important it is.
I spoke this morning on reaching the next milestone in marriage,
You keep on keeping the promises that you made.
- C.S. Lewis
Not what it means.
Think about structural integrity. Is it a morally reliable bridge? Does this building have a strong ethical history? Of course that is nonsense. Because of that quote everybody has now changed the meaning of integrity. Integrity has to do with something being integral to the fiber of a thing to its makeup and construction. Integrity can show itself in a strong ethical person like that quote is describing, but it could even have to do with negative traits... A POS will still be a POS in any given situation - that is actually still integrity. Because it is integral to their behavior. It is what that POS is made of.
I wish more people could think about the words they use, and not just accept the common usage of which many people get incorrect.
Especially when no one is watching.
Watching Scott’s videos is never time wasted. He is a national treasure.
Very simply.....and well said.
Men like you should be leaders of our countries. Wise, hard wokring sensible men.
Seconded
Men and women.
Amen
Wouldn't that be awesome! Unfortunately, the media would villainize him as intolerant, hate-filled and bigoted. That's why we have the worst choices for leadership
I'm pretty sure he had his chance of leading and serving...in a much bigger capacity then POTUS.
Over my life I have heard or read a number of quotes that have resonated and informed my actions going forward. One of the most powerful was “Wrong is wrong, even if everyone is doing it, and right is right, even if no one is doing it”
BTW...This is the EXACT type of video that I come to this channel for.
100%
Agreed
Have you considered that the things accomplished on this channel could be he result of values like fidelity?
Well said. Scott's integrity is why I show up. It's great to be around good people like you who can recognize it.
Amen.
Years ago, as my wife was fighting for her life from cancer, she told me to go find a woman to have relations with because she no longer could. I told her that would never happen because i took our vows as a sacred bond between both of us and God. She lost her fight several years later at the age of 46, but i never broke that oath.
Bless you sir
I dont even know what to say to that. Bless you but also bless her as she knew she was going. She wanted the best for you after she was gone but like me, youd never break those vows. That shows the deep love you had for each other 😊
Till death do us part.
That's a man...
Knowing women’s thinking. This is very hard to believe
I'm not religious at all. My family and my word are everything. I know Right from wrong and you my friend are right and I thank you for the difference you are making in the world.
People that need god-belief to know right from wrong I'm scared of. People that know right from wrong due to proper socialization and philosophical learning I trust far more.
Nor I, but there is truth here.
@@VincentVonDudler The authority to make the determination of right and wrong you describe is ultimately just some other person's definition. Socialization in one society may suggest that some behavior is good while another society may define it as bad. Relative morality is what you should truly fear because it will change. One must have an absolute authority beyond us mere mortals for right and wrong to be defined in a truly meaningful and consistent way. Funny enough, while the solution suggested here is fidelity, it is also the problem. Our society has sold so many on the idea that you need to be true to yourself. That idea doesn't anchor any of us to the same foundation. Fidelity in God is the only way.
@rambosquirrel1208 Morality doesn't exist on its own and never has. Humans created it by necessity in order to have civilization. The God or gods that people appeal to as a basis for their beliefs have also changed many times throughout history. Copping out of our own role in making moral decisions is an insult to our own intelligence, and religious texts leave so much open to interpretation that they also may as well just be someone's opinion.
@@GixxerRider1991 Well said. For almost any two diametrically-opposed beliefs, you can find verses in the bible that suggest both. There is no correlation between religiosity and (a lack of) criminality. I believe that "fidelity" as Scott is defining it is instinctual to all humans (absent maybe some with psychopathy).
When my wife and I made our vows of marriage, we meant it. Many years ago, my kids were in a car with their mama. They came to an intersection and there was a truck nearby that looked exactly like mine. There was a fellow driving and had an attractive woman sitting up close. My oldest girl says, "Hey, is that dad with another woman?" My eight year old son said, " there's no way that's Dad. He's always smooching and hugging Mom and telling he how much he loves her." Fidelity and integrity are taught to our children by our examples. In my 81 years I've learned some wisdom on fidelity to your spouse. Fathers, advise your son's in their youth. "Two things you'll never find behind your zipper: A functioning brain, or a reliable compass. Old Norske
I was watching a UFC fight on UA-cam and thought, people make money beating each other up, that's no inspiration. This post was next. I'm watching and feel inspired. Thank you.
Just imagine men who speak with their fists but nothing left to say.
These are the videos I look forward to the most. Thank you Scott and Essential Craftsman family
Out of the countless videos of great advice this is by far the most valuable on your entire channel. Thank you.
Don‘t worry Sir, your thoughts are always welcome and inspiring! I am a few years your elder (I’m German,76) but listening to this episode I immediately remembered a song from 1965 or 1966 when I was in my senior year of High School in Ft. Lauderdale, FLA on a scholarship that I have probably not heard for a good 50 years. It took me only a few minutes to remember the title and I found it on YT. And I got misty eyes and a feeling that this song was more prophetic than I realized at 17 years old. It‘s „Day for Decision“ by Johnny Sea.
I thank you Scott for sending my brain on a way back memory lane and keep up the good thoughts!
Scott, you are probably too humble to realise what a pillar of strength and hope you are to those around you and the viewers of your channel. So Id like to send a big thank you from Australia.
It is a crying shame that your great country can't come up with a leader that has 1% of your moral fortitude.
Amen to that!
What a topic! This didn’t just happen, this is decades in the making.
Love this. I suspect we wouldn't agree on politics or religion, but your thoughts about fidelity and integrity and the value of our word, we agree 100%. Your videos make the world a better place, Sir.
I do the kind of physical labor many need. House cleaning. I do it with my heart and I do it well. I do often undercharge and give extra help and resources to clients and community members who really need help. I would have more financial resources if I did not do this, but I will never stop.
God bless you! Our Father sees your heart and will reward you
It's sad what shapes the system can force people into. I'm happy you're holding onto a bit of your generosity and empathy. If you can't afford to anymore, just know anyone who understands would forgive you. We're loving creatures just trying to survive in an unloving world.
Thank you
Just make sure you value your own time too
I'd wager most if not all of the folks subbed to your channel already know this, but it never hurts to hear it again once in a while.
*ESSENTIAL CRAFTSMAN FOR PRESIDENT!*
Hey Scott, I think your viewers would agree that it's not just the physical building you do but moral and spiritual as well. Old school is still the best school. That's how we got here as a a society. At the risk of sounding corny...thank you Scott and keep up the good work !!
Mental illness is such a prevalent problem in America because we, as a country and as a people, do a terrible job looking after our most vulnerable. If someone gets sick they might lose their job and if they lose their job they lose their access to quality healthcare and then their problems compound. Many people never recover from that situation through no fault of their own. Even if it was their own fault, isn't that exactly the situation that calls for second chances? Life is precious and we've become all too comfortable with sitting by and doing nothing while our neighbors suffer.
I’ve watched your channel from the start of my apprenticeship to now less then a year out from my ticket. Every video you have posted has a place in my life and work. Now buying my first home with my girlfriend and starting my own life, I look to your advice for the male guidance I did not have growing up. EC is a legacy you should be proud of and one I the we all aspire too
PMFJI - a home is best built with a wife. Houses can be shared but they're not homes.
May I recommend you marry the woman you love before creating some kind of complicated “relationship”. I know it sounds old fashioned, but it really makes a difference. There’s something special about having a wife and creating that lifelong bond. Don’t cheapen it. Good luck to you,sir.
Brandon, a relationship is more of a commitment than a house... why don't you solidify your commitment by marriage.
@@srjackson1611I for one, don’t believe that the state has any right to sanction, or not to as the case may be, any free persons choice to associate with another for any reason whatsoever. If they want to jump a broom together, or go fishing together, that is their business. Their commitment to one another is far more important than any ridiculous sanctioned marriage. You have a hobby that you think others should practice as well. It’s called marriage. Do you see me telling you that you ought to do something silly just because I like it?
Jason, it is a commitment to each other. I got married out of country. It was a promise to my fiancee that I would be true to her and we would be a team. The U.S. doesn't recognize it as official. That hasn't stopped us from being a team for 32 years and building a nice life together as a committed team. I think the current world has talked us out of being tied to another and ro be honest with everyone. That is what Scott is speaking of in this video. I think you may have been talked out of commitment and fidelity, too. Bottom line for me is: As I look back at my life, every time my wife and I ask/ plan for something good, we have received it in ways we could not have imagined. You may call it planning, but at this point in my life, I understand that they have all been prayers. Answered prayers. Some slow , some fast. But when it has been for the many and for good, always answered. Keep looking, and try something new every now and then.
Integrity and Fidelity. Two virtues that I will teach my children. Men like you inspire me to be a better man. Thank you sir
What nonsense are you talking about ....your killing millions every time you fill up your car for CONVINCE !!!!......its getting unlivable all over the world ...oil companies have record profit !!!
A call to peace and faithfulness to not just your wife but to all. I can't say it loud enough -- you are a role model for a generation.
Maybe this isn't the kind of video I've come to this channel for, but it is the kind of video explaining why you are who you are, which is why I enjoy watching this channel and listening to your philosophical discussions from time to time. Keep up the good work.
Fidelity requires a person to be more concerned for others than himself. That is a rare quality these days.
Eleven minutes that left me speechless. Thank you... Greeetings from Poland ❤
Wise words from a good man!
A man’s handshake is his bond. Boy, I wish it was this way again. I live by always doing the right thing, even if it costs me.
This man is the father of carpentry and how men should behave and navigate life in general
I do not have enough “Amens” to add to your comment.
Incorrect on the father of carpentry; that’s Paul Sellers.
@@CausticPuffinbingo! They probably have absolutely no clue whom he is though! He’s a proper craftsman, this guys a proper tradesman there’s a huge difference.
I agree this man is nailing …. Not enough Amens…..!
I try to never miss this type of videos from yours
I just shared this video for my friends on Facebook to see. Scott, I wrote the following: "I love watching this guy. He teaches a lot about craftmanship, but his best videos are when he just imparts wisdom."
Man, I love it. A couple weeks ago, I was struggle with addiction to drugs and pornography and I felt such conviction for living in a lie stuck in bandage of guilt and shame. I finally broke free one night after almost overdosing and told my wife to come to the camp now bc I had something very important to share with her and that if it wasn't now then I never would have worked the courage up to open up and tell the truth. And I told her everything. I've done such terrible things in the past, but she has always been faithful and patient with me and it finally wore on me in a positive way. I am very thankful I had that experience and finally broke free. The truth will set you free. If you lie, you are not only a liar, you are a thief. You rob people of the truth when you lie.
If and when we're wrong and know the right thing to do and do it we've grown in GOD THE FATHER'S sight if we ask for forgiveness in HIS SON'S Name . Bless you brother , walk on and upright in JESUS NAME . Don't beat yourself down , JESUS IS Enough and Way More . The path is narrow , but You Can stay the course .
@hosslane320 thank you sir. I actually felt like God was calling me to pray to him in private as he says in the Bible and I did. I thought I was gonna break down crying like crazy but I just felt so much comfort and peace lifted off of me and I've been sleeping and eating like a baby lately and slowly gaining my weight back.
Essential Craftsman for President, father figure / role model of a lifetime. You are who I want to be when I grow up. (Almost 40)
The strongest most powerful men are the ones who love and care for others.
You, sir, have defined it and demonstrated it without talking about it for years. Well done...
My husband was a SOF guy, and in his 12 years in, even before we met when he was young, single, and “free”… he had this same opinion as you. He puts it “if he can’t be loyal to his wife, and she does a whole lot of stuff for him that I’m never going to do… then he can’t be loyal to me and I don’t want to work with him.”
He left the teams and we uprooted our lives and moved half way across the country to live on the same street as his best friend & his very tight family. No regrets! No sleep lost over not being liked by everybody.
Tennyson wrote that "knowledge comes but wisdom lingers". Your message is full of wisdom. Thank you for having the courage to speak the truth.
Having read all of the comments posted to this moment I have to say that I agree with the vast majority. This is a fantastic commentary that is desperately needed. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts.
It has been said that the eyes are the window to the soul, given that, your eyes and posture towards the end of this video shout of your passion! Pray maintain speed and course!
Always inspiring, need more of you and this type of content in today's media... great truths.
This is EXACTLY he kind of video I want to tune into.
All of the things in our lives are connected. Work, wisdom, knowledge, love. It's all connected!
Keep doing what you do, We all appreciate you!
Thanks for this community!
I literally stopped dealing with people, because honestly, loyalty, integrity and honor have been gone for a long time. Heck, my parents have never had any of these things either. I thank God my grandparents raised me from two weeks old…unfortunately they have been gone for quite some time now. I sure miss them and the way they lived.
You should get out more. There are great people out there. Practice makes perfect.
@@markhoffman 😂😂😂 maybe where you live at where I live at there isn’t anyone worth a shit to speak with! People are only out to take advantage of you and benefit off your suffering! This is my experience in 34 years of life people = shit!
@@lonewolftech that sounds horrible, why continue living there?
I live in Nyssa Oregon, we had the big rain Strom and wind week ago, I was helping people with my chain saws, trees down and neighbors helping neighbors, I got one of my chain saw stolen while helping others, just broke my heart
That hurts! I am so sorry to hear that, I really am! Please, keep serving your neighbors and others and push away any bitter feelings and thoughts! Those neighbors and friends need to see your service!
People huh! The few? I wonder...
Keep fighting the good fight! You will be rewarded some day
As the saying goes, no good deed goes unpunished. It’s hard to sometimes be giving, be helpful to donate when someone can work.
I help my neighbors in town, it is a small town of 3000 people, farms. People in town know my home, have the 20 ft pole with the American flag flying, city people and law enforcement love it with flower and roses and my military emblems too, I was in the usmc years ago
Thank you so much for posting content like this!
My wife and I are two weeks away from expecting our second child and my mentality around work and responsibility has been challenged leading up to this joyous time.
I’d just like to say that your messages are uplifting, challenging and aiding people around the world
Many thanks from Australia.
Here's the thing, Scott. I've been inspired by your work ethic and storytelling for a long time. At some point you carefully and eloquently showed the importance your faith has in your life. While I'm on a different place in the spirituality and religion plane, your words and message are true. Love for family, work, and community. Here's to showing up faithfully!
Well said! Thank you for taking a stand. This is the exact moment in our country's history that we all need to accept no compromises or rationalizations, but demand fidelity and integrity from our elected officials.
BEST 11 MINUTES I HAVE EVER SPENT ON UA-cam !!! Long time subscriber, Thank you .....
I used to work a blue collar stagehand job, and now I work in the corporate world. I have read many NYT best sellers list books about leadership and none of them come as close to this guidance. Thank you for sharing. This hits a much deeper, more beloved places because I am a devout Christian. Thank you again, God bless and be well sir.
Well said, sir. I couldn't agree more. Employees and entrepreneurs with these principles are becoming more and more valuable in such a fast-paced world.
What a great talk. I really appreciate you saying that these values and ideals are not limited only to those that believe the same as we do spiritually. I think we need to understand that there can be good people of all faiths (and no faith) That holding people to their word should be universal, not limited to those we agree with. We should hold ourselves, our family, our neighbours and our politicians to a higher level than we do now. Trust is important. A person’s word is important. The world needs more of that.
I was just talking with my brother last night about mom and dad , how I think of them almost every day, hw strong thy both were for each another to to the family
Watching from the Kingdom of Bahrain this afternoon. Thank you for this type of video. You're a great American. God bless.
Thank you for stepping up on a platform that no one would expect. Fidelity is a two-way street not only with the person you are in relationship with, but our work, our companies, our church, our neighborhood. Well done....well said....Thanks once again.
Fidelity among the untrustworthy = vulnerable. If an environment is perceived as hostile, it can incentivize infidelity as a defense/survival mechanism. I'm not saying that infidelity is the correct self-defense method, just that it does get used that way. I would hope that the more trustworthy the environment, the less likely any one individual is to be unfaithful. Although, there are the few (con artists) that will take advantage of a trustworthy environment.
In game theory, this dynamic can be seen as a version of the Prisoner's Dilemma, where individuals must choose between cooperation (fidelity) and defection (infidelity) based on their perceptions of the trustworthiness of others. A hostile environment can push individuals toward defection, while a more trustworthy environment can encourage cooperation. However, the presence of con artists adds another layer of complexity, as they exploit the cooperative tendencies of others for their own gain.
I'm a regular here but the word itself drew me in today. As much as fidelity is an old word, possibly a lost word, it should not be. As long as there are a few that talk of it and practice it, hope is not lost.
Lying used to be a character flaw, now it is an art form.
Blindly respecting people who have done nothing to deserve it is also a major character flaw!
Did somebody say politician ? All others , BLESS ya'll .
My daughter is struggling with a relationship with a young man right now. This message struck a chord with me and I shared it with her. I hope she finds it inspirational.
I didn't have a dad around, so now that I have a newborn son, I really appreciate the Grandpa wisdom being passed onto me; keep it coming and thank you!
8:00 it’s interesting you bring up Kennedy. He is an example of a great leader. An inspiring leader. And an example of serial infidelity. Can someone like that ever be trusted with anything. Or can people be trusted to compartmentalize? The flipside is, can somebody who is true to their beliefs also be a real jerk? My answer is, I guess I would prefer to deal with somebody who has been untrue in some areas of their lives, but learned from it and tried hard not to do it again, and mostly succeeds. That’s all I can ask.
Pity the candidate sullying the family name right now wasn't better at fidelity to family or country. (not that JFK was very faithful to his wife, but press gave politicians a pass back then on that)
Well said… but perhaps JFK wasn’t the best example of fidelity.
Keep up the good work!
He wasn’t even loyal to the USA being down in Havana partying and doing drugs with the communists…
Came down to comment this! 😂Loved the rest of the video though.
Speechless... That is something that money cannot buy. That's what I see in my dog's eyes. THAT is what will make any country great again. Real men treasure that most. I am born in USSR - just across the globe, but your words touched my hard so deep today. Thank you Sir.
Thank you for this message. I was encouraged and reminded that being faithful in all we do is one of the most important things in our lives. Jesus said that we should let our yes be yes and our no be no (and I'm paraphrasing), and that no other "swearing" should be needed if we are true to our word. God bless you.
One thing we miss in teaching our children about infidelity is that it damages ourselves when we commit infidelity it exposes the mind to greater temptation and addiction ultimately leading to pain, depression-scars. We tend to teach “Don’t do this because it’s a sin” or “Don’t do this because it will hurt your partner” which are all well and good but if people understand the self harm both emotionally and spiritually I think it would go a long way.
Thanks pops. much love from San Antonio.
….and also from Helotes 👍
Live Oak
Southside
NE side
Never forgive or forget and trust no one ! Best advice I've ever been given.
One of your best videos thank you and i give thanks to all the good people out there keep doing the right thing when nobody is looking there's a great awakening coming we need to unite AS A NATION it's time 🙏🇺🇸.
On the contrary Scott, this IS the kind of video I come to this channel for! 8:21
Thank you Scott. You are living out your faith in Jesus. Even though you don’t preach His name per se you are a light on a hill for the rest of us. Keep up the good work!
I used to be a freelance worker. One of the greatest compliments I ever got was from a client who told me that he kept working with me because I always did what I said I was going to do and was accountable. I think that is missing in many areas today. This is a great message, thank you for making it.
This topic is a cornerstone of my business. If I can not trust you to complete your work in a manner that meets or exceeds my quality standards, without me watching over you , you have no business on my job sites . My clients often remark on our quality and " all the guys you send out are so nice " I am blessed with men and women who have worked with me for years who exemplify fidelity.
Thank you Sir for reminding us all about that value and its importance in our craft.
I definitely agree with the if your boss is lying to his wife or shows a lack of honor in another way, it's time to find a new job. I had a boss admit to me that he had covering up for his preacher messing with teenage girls, I should have quit that day.
I remember working for a boss that stepped on them, and stole their ideas. He would ask me to do something and it felt wrong. Never had as much stress and inner turmoil as when I worked for him. I remember one day when I finally reallized what all my internal turmoil and unhappiness was caused by working for him, and holding on to the inner guilt for years. I literally broke down crying.
Men, your inner integrity and peace means walking away from people who have none of either.
Great message. Fidelity and humility.
I appreciate this kind of video. It’s what rises this channel above many similar builder/maker channels that I enjoy. They may also teach me techniques and such but the don’t challenge me to do better with my family, community and coworkers. That’s what a real friend does
Wise words from a wise man. Not preachy at all, but religion aside, a heartfelt testimony more folks out there should take to heart. We are given many opportunities to do the Lord's work, and you have used your platform for just that purpose without being overly religious and remaining apolitical. That is a gift Scott and it was my honor to listen.
We do need videos like these always
I started watching this channel for the work, i love that you also cover the ethics needed to apply the work and these morally wholesome sermons. Im 27 and live near nyc, sometimes it's good to know somewhere someone is trying to do the right thing and it gives me hope that I'm not the only sucker out here trying to make an honest living doing honest work. Keep up the good work EC!
The world is counting on young men like you to maintain our traditions. The traditional values of our country are under fierce attack right now. The fact that you follow Scott speaks volumes about you.
Great words of wisdom Scott - old contractor and Boy Scout here who tried to live and work by your advice - did not always get it right but kept trying - keep on doing what you do so well
@@jpjp3873traditions? What traditions?
Sir,I commend you on speaking wisdom on a subject that so few have the intestional fortitude to speak on. I appreicate men like you more now than ever,you are the delicate stiches that are holding the fabric of society together.
This video gave me pause to consider the areas of my life in which I lack the same commitment to integrity that defines my relationships with family.
It's rare to find that, let alone from a channel ostensibly dedicated to crafting and making. You've a rare gift for words and communication, and the world could do with more people possessing fidelity as you so eloquently describe it.
By the way, Wendell Berry, one of our American literary giants has a beautiful book called "Fidelity". If you have not read this author, please do.
Just got it. Thanks.
@@bobireland1256These are stories that take place in Port William, the fictional rural community a lot of Berry's fiction takes place in. He's also an essayist. I hope you love the book and check out many of his others. I have read and reread most of his books and they inform my life.
@@sevendeadlychinsI think Sir Scott recommended “The Gutenberg Elegies” and after reading it so do I. Although I had to read it with a dictionary close at hand ‘cause some of the words I had never seen, read, or heard. Expanded my brain a bit, it did. Thanks again.
"Art of the common place" is a must read.
Thanks for all the amazing content and great videos!
Now that is how you hold someone’s undivided attention, the way you portray yourself and look straight into the lens, in turn, us. Well it’s rather captivating, it’s been a while.
People are living much longer. This time last century lived 40-45. As people get older they are more and more aware of the troubles among people. Many problems people do not take care of show toward the end of their life. The man who trained me was 55 when I met him and by that time he was aware of poor workmanship. He was trained well and passed onto me what he knew. For over 40 years I did what he taught me and it has served me well. As time went by I continued to learn. Because I gained in skills I was able to do higher and higher levels of work which paid me well. It not only paid me well but it gave me greater satisfaction.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom
This is not the kind of video I come to this channel for. Also, maybe holding up JFK as a paragon of fidelity is a little bonkers. 🙂 I am inspired by your earnestness and your call to keep up the good work. Thank you.
Fidelity is the quality of faithfulness or loyalty. Its original meaning regarded duty in a broader sense than the related concept of fealty.
Thank you Scott. Morality is universal.
You would make a fine President, Sir.
Best wishes from Scotland.
Thank you, Scott. This message is so important and timely. I'll be sharing this video with my adult sons as well as my 14-year-old grandson.
I'm with you!
Fidelity is a super power, tight knit families and communities who still knows it's value, get immensely powerful and successful compared to those who lost theirs. I've been practicing this my whole life. I refuse to give up, even though I've had some setbacks, in the long run it's a net win. And as an added bonus I get to sleep like a baby.
Good little talk……. Thanks for caring enough to point us in the right direction
I hope he gets praise for saying what needs to be said. I’m just a kid out starting his career and find his way and this spoke to me. More people need to learn what trust is and how it feels when it’s broken
Sir you are truly a man of Knowledge and Wisdom!
Judge a person not by their religion but by the content of their character. Sounds good to me.
I absolutely love this channel. Thank you for spreading TRUTH! The world needs to hear your wisdom and take it to heart.
This is one of those lessons that many learn late in life if they learn it at all. It's also one of those lessons that as an old man I am trying to teach my very young children. My prayer is that they listen.
Amen Scott.
One of your best videos yet. And I’ve seen them all.
A much needed well delivered message!
In my contracting business I never ask for up-front money to cover materials because I prefer to bill them after I have something to show for my work, essentially trusting that I will get paid. What I discovered is that my customers trust me back. I have never been stiffed by a customer after 40 years in business.
Every podcast or social media should speak on fidelity what a better word we would have. Thank you for speaking on this