I realised that I became happier when I stopped comparing with others. I now just focus on myself, do things at my own pace and I expect less from myself and other people. I also cut off people who are toxic from my life and I only have 2-3 close friends. I don't need all that drama and unnecessary stress cos life is already stressful as it is. I am also not bothered by other people having bigger salary than myself. As long as I can pay bills, feed my family and me I'm happy already. So pls stop COMPARING yourself to other people.
Yassss 👏👏👏👏👏 say it louder Actually uk wat I'm the opposite All my life Ive been the "happy-go-lucky" type of person, and nvr knew how to compare myself to others And although I was happy most of the time, there were times where I would be upset due to how little I knew abt the world, since it crashes with my personality Anyway I realised this because I met some1 with the exact opposite mentality, and we are somehow shift to the other side of our spectram
First! "If you're neglecting your mental health, physical health, would you be able to enjoy those results when you actually reach it" oof the content from this episode was so relatable!
Really enjoyed this episode. But honestly, too short of a video. This episode involves such an important topic, especially during these tough times and I wish it was longer
hope this convo was longer 😶 i feel so comforted at the fact that its okay to not know what i want to do or acheive in my 20s 😩 .. the society we living in rn is too pressurising!
Just as I needed it. Just as my mind were running through deep thoughts about life. This video came at the right time, very very wise speech. I do agree with it.
I failed Alevels twice. Was looked upon as a failure in life. But I stop comparing w my peers who are in Uni now. I’m in a much better place and so much happier now :)
A lot of people don’t know what they want, what’s their goals and dreams even in their 30s or older - it’s okay❤️. It’s hard in SG context because societal norms forced us to take up a job and compare yourself with peers right after you graduate. Most of them are caught in the corporate rat race, holding onto titles, climbing the career ladder without stopping to think about what they really want - resulting in them feeling unfulfilled despite having a seemingly good and decent job. At the end of the day, outside of your job, WHO are you? What makes you happy and glow? Don’t join the race blindly. It’s okay to take a step back and take your time to think. You only have one life, live it being happy. 😌
Thank you guys for this video, I agree 100%!! I believe more Singaporeans need to hear this, especially with our rat race culture. Chill out everyone, take this life to live, not just survive. At your deathbed, will you be thinking about the money you have or the memories you've made?
5:28 Everyone has a hard life experience. I think how to overcome it and move forward is a very important point. As it is said that failure is the mother of success, I believe that a bright day will come someday if you focus on what you want to do and make an effort..! I have a question, are you familiar with Korean culture, clothing, and music in Singapore?
But on a flip side to Nicole's idea of mental health, there are also people like me, who don't see the money flowing in, get even more hard up and agitated. While I'm not in the best state working, I'm even worse not working.
Better work hard when you are young.When older more commitments and your energy level not the same.Also do what you like and passionate about, the rest will fall into place.
Stay strong 💪 everyone in this show and I like your show and u guys is very funny and cute.do not give up and stay safe and I hope everyone will be successful.Aamiin 🤲❤️😘
In summary if you don't take care of yourself when you're young, then you'll become the pay master of your medical doctor when you're old. What's the point of earning lots of money when you cant enjoy it in old age?
I realised that I became happier when I stopped comparing with others. I now just focus on myself, do things at my own pace and I expect less from myself and other people. I also cut off people who are toxic from my life and I only have 2-3 close friends. I don't need all that drama and unnecessary stress cos life is already stressful as it is. I am also not bothered by other people having bigger salary than myself. As long as I can pay bills, feed my family and me I'm happy already. So pls stop COMPARING yourself to other people.
Yassss 👏👏👏👏👏 say it louder
Actually uk wat I'm the opposite
All my life Ive been the "happy-go-lucky" type of person, and nvr knew how to compare myself to others
And although I was happy most of the time, there were times where I would be upset due to how little I knew abt the world, since it crashes with my personality
Anyway I realised this because I met some1 with the exact opposite mentality, and we are somehow shift to the other side of our spectram
@@f.p1758Ignorance is bliss. Its a blessing
u made me feel better, thank u :)
First! "If you're neglecting your mental health, physical health, would you be able to enjoy those results when you actually reach it" oof the content from this episode was so relatable!
as a uni student i appreciate this alot ;-;
Why are the videos getting shorter? We really enjoy Real Talk would be nice if you guys talk for longer. Doing a good job though guys keep it up!😊👍🏾
Really enjoyed this episode. But honestly, too short of a video. This episode involves such an important topic, especially during these tough times and I wish it was longer
This episode is sooo good! Thanks for sharing this especially Kishan
Yes!! Really good episode
hope this convo was longer 😶 i feel so comforted at the fact that its okay to not know what i want to do or acheive in my 20s 😩 .. the society we living in rn is too pressurising!
A really good episode guys. Thank you Kishan for sharing. Super wholesome and real.
Love the crew... very empathetic towards each other's sharing ... and all good listeners!!!
Just as I needed it. Just as my mind were running through deep thoughts about life. This video came at the right time, very very wise speech. I do agree with it.
I failed Alevels twice. Was looked upon as a failure in life. But I stop comparing w my peers who are in Uni now. I’m in a much better place and so much happier now :)
Proud of you!!!! :)
A lot of people don’t know what they want, what’s their goals and dreams even in their 30s or older - it’s okay❤️. It’s hard in SG context because societal norms forced us to take up a job and compare yourself with peers right after you graduate. Most of them are caught in the corporate rat race, holding onto titles, climbing the career ladder without stopping to think about what they really want - resulting in them feeling unfulfilled despite having a seemingly good and decent job. At the end of the day, outside of your job, WHO are you? What makes you happy and glow? Don’t join the race blindly. It’s okay to take a step back and take your time to think. You only have one life, live it being happy. 😌
Aww first time seeing Nicole speaking so softly and seriously 😂😂
loved this episode 😭 thank u so much for sharing :)!
omg. this is good! thanks guys for sharing! it kind of reminded me of my past struggles and how I overcome them. LIKED!
Thank you guys for this video, I agree 100%!! I believe more Singaporeans need to hear this, especially with our rat race culture. Chill out everyone, take this life to live, not just survive. At your deathbed, will you be thinking about the money you have or the memories you've made?
Lowkey needed this 🥺👉🏻👈🏻
Please get Kishan and Ellena on every episode, they are the only reason I watch Real Talk 😂
Yes kishan is back
5:28 Everyone has a hard life experience. I think how to overcome it and move forward is a very important point. As it is said that failure is the mother of success, I believe that a bright day will come someday if you focus on what you want to do and make an effort..! I have a question, are you familiar with Korean culture, clothing, and music in Singapore?
But on a flip side to Nicole's idea of mental health, there are also people like me, who don't see the money flowing in, get even more hard up and agitated. While I'm not in the best state working, I'm even worse not working.
Better work hard when you are young.When older more commitments and your energy level not the same.Also do what you like and passionate about, the rest will fall into place.
Stay strong 💪 everyone in this show and I like your show and u guys is very funny and cute.do not give up and stay safe and I hope everyone will be successful.Aamiin 🤲❤️😘
Just what I needed
Thank you.
Geez the episodes need to be longer than this
Love this eps!!!
Thank you
try doing zoom sessions, since there are new covid restrictions now
Keep on hustling guys!
In summary if you don't take care of yourself when you're young, then you'll become the pay master of your medical doctor when you're old. What's the point of earning lots of money when you cant enjoy it in old age?
I swear I got something going on with my hands.... I don’t get it
if only someone told me this a few years ago
Can i talk to Kishan, he got a lot of life experiences.
DAMN what nicole said at 4:46
real just isn't the same anymore
namaste!
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