Sad truth. We shouldn't torelate parasitic behavioral patterns of our family, relatives & friends. Sometimes we become a villain in their eyes when we didn't give them what they want.
It's the crab mentality, they will really find a way to destroy you in the workplace abroad or Philippines. 😪 When you appreciate their beauty, they'll say because we have Spanish blood instead of saying because we are Filipinos. Even a drop of European blood is like royalty badge to Filipinos 🤣
I agree, not to bash our culture pero tama ka. I am proud to be Pilipino. However, we should acknowledge yung flaws natin. This topic is "always the elephant in the room." Minsan if I mention ito sa mga relatives at friends ko, most of them becomes defensive, they response na "Akala mo kung sino kang perfect". I live in California, and I can see sa mga anak ko (3) na iba ang diciplina nila. Pero they are still proud of being Pilipino-American. We need to change so that Philippines can be a better country.
The problem with Filipinos is they do not know how to graciously handle criticism. They’re too quick to get emotional. Self reflection and resolving internal issues is not your strong suit. It’s a huge toxic part of Filipino culture
Ginawa akong bank at retirement fund ng parents ko. Still am. Wala nman kc choice kc old na sila na walang pension or savings and stuff. They put me through school until 1st year college. So, parang ayun, I have to pay it back. 😬 So, my sweldo still goes to the family expenses and I don't have savings myself. At I'm 35 now and pretty much caregiver mode to my parents while also still working to put food on the table and buy medicine. I promised myself I would never settle down and have my own family until I'm financially stable, and at this point, I'll probably just die alone. I won't ever want to put a kid in this world na gagawin ko lng sa kanila ginawa sakin ng magulang ko.
same huhu!! ginawa na ako retirement fund ng nanay ko! kahit mataas sahod ko wla napupunta sakin kse binigay ko na lahat. sobrang guilt trip and manipulation ginawa sakin kse naaawa ako. katagalan after years of working wla naman ako napundar . inadvance nya na 5 years ng sahod ko tpos mnghihingi pa , then sasabihin kuripot dw ako at wla utang na loob. kaya d ako makapag settle down kse ung sahod ko kakapiranggot nlng.
Na overuse Ang word na gaslighting. Gaslighting is a very specific form of mental manipulation wherein you convince the victim that something happened when it really didn't or vice versa where you convince the victim that an event didn't happen when in fact it did.
Yep. Lalo na mga filipino sa online games napaka toxic nila puro sila mura tas puro discriminate at ang racist lalo na sa roblox napka toxic talaga ng mga pilipino hahahh
Of all the countries with Iberian colonized pasts the Philippines is a standout for wearing it's emotions on its sleeves because unlike our Spanish colonized cousins in Latin America we endured a period were we also experienced early American Imperialism forced onto us when we thought we broke free of the yoke of the spanish...so some of those toxic traits also come from a place of misguided reverence and inferiority towards our American colonizers mix that with some of the worst habits we got from the Spanish and of course there will be generations that will have experienced high levels of trauma and psychological horrors.
UA-cam is not the media for praying just go to church and pray no need to pray in UA-cam cause God cannot read are comments from the sky but does God really have access to media like UA-cam
Sad truth. We shouldn't torelate parasitic behavioral patterns of our family, relatives & friends. Sometimes we become a villain in their eyes when we didn't give them what they want.
It's the crab mentality, they will really find a way to destroy you in the workplace abroad or Philippines. 😪 When you appreciate their beauty, they'll say because we have Spanish blood instead of saying because we are Filipinos. Even a drop of European blood is like royalty badge to Filipinos 🤣
Preach it! Worked with one! Lazy and unmotivated. Bahala na Mentality.
I agree, not to bash our culture pero tama ka. I am proud to be Pilipino. However, we should acknowledge yung flaws natin. This topic is "always the elephant in the room." Minsan if I mention ito sa mga relatives at friends ko, most of them becomes defensive, they response na "Akala mo kung sino kang perfect". I live in California, and I can see sa mga anak ko (3) na iba ang diciplina nila. Pero they are still proud of being Pilipino-American. We need to change so that Philippines can be a better country.
The problem with Filipinos is they do not know how to graciously handle criticism. They’re too quick to get emotional. Self reflection and resolving internal issues is not your strong suit. It’s a huge toxic part of Filipino culture
Filipinos are toxic especially online in a Filipino but i know how to respect other people
Fun fact: I decided to forego all of this culture and do my own thing. It worked for me.
Ginawa akong bank at retirement fund ng parents ko. Still am. Wala nman kc choice kc old na sila na walang pension or savings and stuff. They put me through school until 1st year college. So, parang ayun, I have to pay it back. 😬 So, my sweldo still goes to the family expenses and I don't have savings myself. At I'm 35 now and pretty much caregiver mode to my parents while also still working to put food on the table and buy medicine. I promised myself I would never settle down and have my own family until I'm financially stable, and at this point, I'll probably just die alone. I won't ever want to put a kid in this world na gagawin ko lng sa kanila ginawa sakin ng magulang ko.
same huhu!! ginawa na ako retirement fund ng nanay ko! kahit mataas sahod ko wla napupunta sakin kse binigay ko na lahat. sobrang guilt trip and manipulation ginawa sakin kse naaawa ako. katagalan after years of working wla naman ako napundar . inadvance nya na 5 years ng sahod ko tpos mnghihingi pa , then sasabihin kuripot dw ako at wla utang na loob. kaya d ako makapag settle down kse ung sahod ko kakapiranggot nlng.
Yung gusto mong mag ON ng bluetooth speaker, tapos lagay mo sa maximum volume tapos iplay itong video na to para marinig ng lahat at madurog sila 😂
Those people need get a job stop be a toxic stop be lazy
Well said
Subscribed! Nice content! I'm looking forward to your videos po. More power. 😊
filipino always cry about racism or being looked down
but filipino boxing fan always use toxic word for other country's boxer like a inoue japan
Noice Video Pre!
Hope your channel grows even further👍
Thanks man! Thanks for the support! Likewise!
Na overuse Ang word na gaslighting. Gaslighting is a very specific form of mental manipulation wherein you convince the victim that something happened when it really didn't or vice versa where you convince the victim that an event didn't happen when in fact it did.
Good stuff, the next Word of the Lourd.
We're way too far from that yet, haha. But yeah I am inspired by Lourd de Veyra
Very relating to carlos yulo situation
Yep. Lalo na mga filipino sa online games napaka toxic nila puro sila mura tas puro discriminate at ang racist lalo na sa roblox napka toxic talaga ng mga pilipino hahahh
But it's way worse in MLB or mobile legends bang bang because there Filipinos are really aggressive in trashtalking
Salamat sa content nyo.Mabuti yung topic
very insightful!
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truest po kaya ang sarap na umalis dito
Oo nga migrate nalang pa europe or pa america
@@restartedv69 tol wag kang pumanta sa usa ung ang pinaka delikadong bansa na putahan ng mga pinoy
@@restartedv69 maging muslim filipino ka hindi sila toxic
Of all the countries with Iberian colonized pasts the Philippines is a standout for wearing it's emotions on its sleeves because unlike our Spanish colonized cousins in Latin America we endured a period were we also experienced early American Imperialism forced onto us when we thought we broke free of the yoke of the spanish...so some of those toxic traits also come from a place of misguided reverence and inferiority towards our American colonizers mix that with some of the worst habits we got from the Spanish and of course there will be generations that will have experienced high levels of trauma and psychological horrors.
Lord they are so toxic online 😭
Nice effort on the editing!
I think before the Spaniards went to the Philippines. were already like this but got worst
No because of American colonization
Contributor din sa voting practices ng mga "well-mannered" kaya trapped pa rin tayo sa basurahan under boy ngiwi.
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i dont have any problem on my family, everyday and mostly on my co workers!
Narcissistic family dynamics
kay pala lowest iq tayo sa southeast asia
True :|
sandwich culture should stop. di retirement fund ang anak
Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior with all your heart before it is too late.
Don't spam or comment na hindi topic sa video
UA-cam is not the media for praying just go to church and pray no need to pray in UA-cam cause God cannot read are comments from the sky but does God really have access to media like UA-cam
I know, thank you, but you might want to respect other beliefs too.
Religious fanatics is also a toxic filipino trait. We are a democratic country not a theocratic dictatorship.So stop forcing your belief on others.