The Monster that Followed Jill Home

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  • @BoxOKittens
    @BoxOKittens Рік тому +462

    The husband's interview at the start of this video broke my heart. His nervous jittering and wavering voice shows how hard he was trying to hold it all in and not fall apart. Wherever he is in the world right now, I hope he's okay and surrounded by people who love him.

    • @jenperdsmonlapin6953
      @jenperdsmonlapin6953 Рік тому +8

      😢

    • @intrepidtomato
      @intrepidtomato Рік тому +18

      Yeah he seems lovely! It must be horrible. Added to everything else, you're grieving and the police would look at you like a murderer.

    • @tami.1111
      @tami.1111 Рік тому +1

      💔🙏

    • @anneperry9014
      @anneperry9014 Рік тому +12

      Poor guy. He was in a right state,bless him. I hope he's getting on ok, if that's possible!!🙏

    • @alexf9381
      @alexf9381 3 місяці тому +3

      What's horrible is that during this time, a bunch of the posts on the Facebook groups dedicated to finding the then missing Jill Meagher were from people declaring him, the husband, guilty and responsible for the disappearance. A bunch of wannabe detectives calling him a wife murderer and saying the way he behaved in his press conference showed guilt. Then, when the actual killer was caught and Tom was proven innocent, all of those people suddenly went quiet.

  • @chriskelly9476
    @chriskelly9476 Рік тому +362

    The Australian justice system routinely baffles me and I've been an employee of the Department of Justice for years. I've sat in on parole hearings where a judge has said to the offender "you're a danger to society" but then proceeds to grant his release simply because "we don't have room to keep idiots like you locked up." Time and time again. I've said previously and I'll say it again - judges should be charged as accessories when the person they've released from prison commits another serious offence. Hold them accountable for the consequences of their decisions. You'd be shocked at how many dangerous sex offenders that I've witnessed being granted parole or an early release despite the judge acknowledging the risk to the public.

    • @EugeneSSmith
      @EugeneSSmith Рік тому

      The judge should be abandoned in the outback

    • @p.peacock7403
      @p.peacock7403 Рік тому +17

      I completely agree! Our system is a laughing stock and no one (except maybe the public) seems to realise just how dire the situation is 🤯 we need much harsher punishments for all criminals of course but this vulgar specimen should NEVER had been let out! Like you said, part of the responsibility for Jill’s murder lies with the judge who granted him parole!

    • @stratosphere94
      @stratosphere94 Рік тому +6

      Watching Samantha Melanie's channel made me realise just how often our justice system gives out light sentences :/

    • @mauricedavis2160
      @mauricedavis2160 Рік тому +4

      It's a broken system at best!!!🙏😢⚖️🤔

    • @AltaMirage
      @AltaMirage Рік тому +32

      Repeat violent sex offenders are incurable. They should not be in public at all.

  • @brandonperry857
    @brandonperry857 Рік тому +1113

    It's creepy how the justice system takes sexual assault so lightly. These people deserve much longer sentences.

    • @GoodestKitty
      @GoodestKitty Рік тому +140

      People get more for drug possession or unpaid taxes than this guy. Unbelievable.

    • @TheHikeChoseMe
      @TheHikeChoseMe Рік тому

      male privilege

    • @Cuteusernamestaken
      @Cuteusernamestaken Рік тому +55

      Same story over and over again. I don't understand it frankly.

    • @louiselill1528
      @louiselill1528 Рік тому +90

      This is why so many women and men do not report sexual assault

    • @AC-ln9ry
      @AC-ln9ry Рік тому +15

      @@louiselill1528 good point and 😢, it’s true

  • @AdamCKA
    @AdamCKA Рік тому +519

    A thought for the husband who did his best while being accused of being the killer. His words on the incompetence of the justice system were spot on too.

    • @erinmaree1987
      @erinmaree1987 Рік тому +32

      The way he conducted himself during and after the investigation was nothing short of heroic. A genuinely decent man.

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 Рік тому +13

      I'm glad that he was cleared early on; it paved the for the damning footage to surface. 'Cause we all know how it goes when investigators put all their eggs in one basket.

    • @rockstarofredondo
      @rockstarofredondo Рік тому +15

      I could tell it wasn’t him right away. He was on the verge of tears from the start and genuinely afraid of what he thought could have happened to her.

    • @gbecks3672
      @gbecks3672 Рік тому +2

      @@rockstarofredondoright. You could tell he was really trying to stop himself from crying. Those were real.

  • @ellanes77
    @ellanes77 Рік тому +98

    Poor husband. He was barely holding it together in the interviews. I almost cried listening to him myself

  • @nunya3461
    @nunya3461 Рік тому +1922

    Dude shoulda been locked up a lot longer & a lot sooner! The fact that his own MOTHER did all she could to keep him locked up is infuriating that he wasn’t. It’s incredible how so many ppls incompetence can have such life changing effects on others is also very discouraging to mankind.

    • @mad8598
      @mad8598 Рік тому +95

      The St Kilda attacks were on sex workers. There was a lot of talk at the time about how if crimes against sex workers were treated more seriously Bayley wouldn’t have been out and about free to escalate to murder. Jill’s husband himself has said he doubts Bayley’s earlier sentence would have been so lenient if he’d targeted women society regards more valuable and sympathetic, like his wife.

    • @ironwolf56
      @ironwolf56 Рік тому +89

      People always complain about the US prison system, and granted, there are ways it needs to improve, but European and especially Commonwealth countries (UK, Canada, Australia) are the other extreme. They give these laughable slap on the wrist sentences even to habitual dangerous offenders.

    • @littleblackpistol
      @littleblackpistol Рік тому +49

      @@mad8598 100%. I recall the Yorkshire Ripper case, and how the victims were basically shamed as prostitutes even when many of them were not such thing, just ordinary working class women walking home from their jobs etc, and how this attitude was a factor in how slow the Ripper was apprehended. The police got obsessed with what turned out to be a hoax letter (guy was prosecuted for it and imprisoned decades later) whining about hating prostitutes. It made SENSE to them, see. Like, it's 'normal' to hate prostitutes and if you hate them, OBVIOUSLY you will mutilate and kill them, even if you are the same guy who pays them for sex regularly. Except the men who kill them only kill them because they are WOMEN. They are simply the easiest targets as they will get into cars etc with strange men, and are less likely to be taken seriously as victims because of the stigma When you kill a 'beloved mother' (like prossies aren't mothers often) or whatever, they moved hell and earth to find the killer. Not, until very recently, did they do this for sex workers.

    • @Paul-yq2ls
      @Paul-yq2ls Рік тому

      @@ironwolf56 when a person or should I say "preditor" like this red-faced hot blooded prick is involved, most definitely our government should have life as actual life without a chance of parol. However in America so many innocent people face life or the death penalty 🙄.

    • @danny12788
      @danny12788 Рік тому +37

      And this case proves that the Australian law is weak and wishy-washy and a joke. When will the Australians make tougher laws against these monsters in your complacent society?

  • @wonderllama4368
    @wonderllama4368 Рік тому +438

    As a Melbourne local, this story really was so distressing for the whole city.
    Tom Meagher is an outstanding man.

    • @thisiscait
      @thisiscait Рік тому +25

      The whole country was holding its breath for this one, I remember it like it was yesterday. Took a little while to click on it honestly I saw her face and just got so sad.

    • @chosimbaone
      @chosimbaone Рік тому +22

      I studied at the ACU in East Melb at the time, and it was so upsetting. She just did what so many of us women did and do, and should be able to EXPECT to do SAFELY. I definitely looked over my shoulder around that area for a very long time. Her family are incredible, and our hearts are still with them ❤

    • @SerenityChaos1975
      @SerenityChaos1975 Рік тому +1

      We were in Cairns and spent a lot of time thinking about her and hoping she would be found alive. The shocked the entire country.

    • @scummymummy2548
      @scummymummy2548 Рік тому +9

      As a Melbourne native I remember walking down this same street wondering why this POS did what he did

    • @megatherion2695
      @megatherion2695 Рік тому

      Watchs mee peench aye cahcuh

  • @julietigermoon9572
    @julietigermoon9572 Рік тому +85

    This case was heartbreaking and unfortunately nothing much in our judicial system has changed . My sister was murdered this year by a man that was given bail after committing several violent offences. It’s disgusting and apalling that violent perpetrators are given the revolving door. Jill and my sister should still be with us now .

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster Рік тому +669

    I feel so bad for Bailey's poor mother. The pain in her voice is absolutely heartbreaking. She tried to stop his freedom and save women. She tried to save Jill against her own son. That takes strength.

    • @Lil_lioness
      @Lil_lioness Рік тому +16

      Right?! She's his mother and knew what he was capable of. It takes a lot for a mother to tell law enforcement that their son is dangerous and shouldn't be allowed to walk the streets.

    • @wends81
      @wends81 9 місяців тому

      AaÀàwàw​@@Lil_lioness

  • @morgan8274
    @morgan8274 Рік тому +250

    The fact that we can’t even walk 10 mins home. Is truly sad. Prayers to her family and may she rip

    • @judybrown7601
      @judybrown7601 Рік тому +7

      Amen

    • @knowsmebyname
      @knowsmebyname Рік тому +12

      It's sad and not right but don't walk home alone. This is awful.

    • @debradowner8761
      @debradowner8761 Рік тому +6

      I would never walk home alone late at night, in any location, no matter how close. That's super sad.

    • @rubykearns3536
      @rubykearns3536 Рік тому +21

      A guy the other day, that I met at a friend's funeral, later that day said to me that, as we all have a 'duty' to protect ourselves, the onus is on the victim.. He was specifically talking about rape. I ran away from him there and then, mainly because I felt in instant danger - it was only the two of left at the end of the afters of the funeral. The term 'duty' didn't make sense to me either. Its one of our most basic fundamental instincts to want to protect ourselves. I wish evolution and natural selection could somehow manage to find a way to rid humans of their evil and destructive qualities but it's a tall order..

    • @MissDraiha
      @MissDraiha Рік тому +6

      @@knowsmebyname Melbourne/many parts of Melbourne were safe to walk home. There were dodgy areas, of course, but for the most part we felt safe. This event (and later Eurydice Dixon and Aya Maasarwe) changed the landscape

  • @phoeberaymond8781
    @phoeberaymond8781 Рік тому +634

    The husband had the most genuine display of anxiety and worry I've ever seen on any of these episodes. I hope he's doing okay

    • @thisiscait
      @thisiscait Рік тому +106

      His interviews are used as a comparison against interviews of guilty partners because his is such a genuine, heartbroken display of honesty. My heart goes out to him.

    • @margaretlumley1648
      @margaretlumley1648 Рік тому +31

      He's such a sweetheart. This was such a heart breaking case 😢 💔

    • @dizzymindy6024
      @dizzymindy6024 Рік тому +14

      My thoughts exactly, poor guy.

    • @selina211088
      @selina211088 Рік тому +35

      He moved back to ireland. It was to painful

    • @sarvolkskaya
      @sarvolkskaya Рік тому +23

      @@selina211088 I don’t blame him, that poor guy. I hope he’s able to move on and find as much peace as he can. :(

  • @natalier7204
    @natalier7204 Рік тому +84

    Adrian Bayly said to the police that “he was only trying to be a nice guy” when he first approached her. Most self-proclaimed nice guys are not “nice guys”.

  • @AmberKelly82
    @AmberKelly82 Рік тому +461

    Not only could Jill have been saved, but I'm sure many young girls/women would've been spared a lot of pain if he had been sentenced more harshly. It's really tragic and infuriating.

    • @DM.TE.LEGRAM.MRmikeOh
      @DM.TE.LEGRAM.MRmikeOh Рік тому

      Let's talk👆📩/

    • @mad8598
      @mad8598 Рік тому +45

      Are you familiar with the case? The St Kilda attacks he served 8 of an 11 year sentence for were on sex workers. A lot of people, including Jill’s husband, have said that if crimes against sex workers were treated more seriously he wouldn’t have been out and free to escalate to murder. But unfortunately society regards women like Jill as more valuable and deserving of protection. ☹️

    • @AmberKelly82
      @AmberKelly82 Рік тому +41

      @@mad8598 he mentioned those and you are absolutely right about crimes against sex workers not being treated appropriately. It's a big problem everywhere. As soon as he showed the pattern he should've been locked away for good and/or castrated. He was let out over and over and ruined dozens of lives before he murdered Jill. It pisses me tf off

    • @AmberKelly82
      @AmberKelly82 Рік тому

      @Jamal Johnson and you men buy sex work so who's really the problem?

    • @morgan8274
      @morgan8274 Рік тому +23

      Crimes like that shouldn’t be offered plea deals

  • @whydidmyhandlechangefromAlice
    @whydidmyhandlechangefromAlice Рік тому +155

    “Walking home as we all do everyday” - not me, after years of That Chapter I’m too terrified to ever leave my house. Also to be in my house. I’m actually watching this from under the bed.

    • @joearnold6881
      @joearnold6881 Рік тому +19

      No don’t!
      Monsters live there,

    • @imnewhere8482
      @imnewhere8482 Рік тому +1

      @@joearnold6881 monsters don't live under the bed, they live in your head

    • @hollyberry2752
      @hollyberry2752 Рік тому

      🤣😅😂

    • @mentalasylumescapee6389
      @mentalasylumescapee6389 Рік тому

      YOUR house is the most dangerous place to be! come to my house, i have a nice nightgown you can wear

    • @peenyyt4921
      @peenyyt4921 Рік тому

      ​@@imnewhere8482there's lots of monsters In my head, they tell me to kill people

  • @babybluecheeks
    @babybluecheeks Рік тому +904

    In cases like this, I always think that the people who kept letting this evil POS out should be held responsible because they most definitely do have some responsibility for Jill's murder, maybe then they will stop letting P-words, R-words and killers out on parole.

    • @HumanimalChannel
      @HumanimalChannel Рік тому +34

      It happens all too often :(

    • @TheLollygirl69
      @TheLollygirl69 Рік тому +29

      Yep totally agree 👍💯.

    • @shannon222ish
      @shannon222ish Рік тому +20

      Such a good statement so true

    • @SuperBIGGY84
      @SuperBIGGY84 Рік тому +16

      Agreed

    • @babybluecheeks
      @babybluecheeks Рік тому +17

      @Humanimal it does, I actually feel like crying for Jill and her loved ones, but im trying not to as it will spike my anxiety.
      This could have been prevented. There are so many victims of this monster that didn't have to be.
      I need to try and take my mind off of this. It's one of those cases that will stick with me forever. Poor Jill.

  • @Rettequetette
    @Rettequetette Рік тому +18

    Jill sounds like an awesome person to me. That, and the fact that she had such a lovely husband who loved her so much, makes this case even more heartbreaking.

  • @bullfrogkaiju1431
    @bullfrogkaiju1431 Рік тому +233

    I cannot believe his own mother tried warning them along with there being a huge list of victims and yet still nothing was done.

    • @dogwhistle8836
      @dogwhistle8836 Рік тому

      It's Australia and only thought crimes and saying that you don't want the vax wil the state lock you up for the good of society

    • @christinechristine1531
      @christinechristine1531 Рік тому +4

      His mother is a victim in a different way too, bless her.

    • @gomahklawm4446
      @gomahklawm4446 Рік тому +6

      They have to make room for non-violent "drug" users. Are you new to this?? It's about making money, not keeping the public safe.

  • @LuckySpinster.
    @LuckySpinster. Рік тому +508

    This case was sickening. Brunswick was my regular place to go for drinks and live music. Our judges have a lot to answer for, letting women killers out on bail. No one I knew thought it was Tom. My heart goes out to him

    • @janetpendlebury6808
      @janetpendlebury6808 Рік тому +6

      Judges did not let him out of jail, plus he was not a killer before this one.

    • @WhitneyDahlin
      @WhitneyDahlin Рік тому +14

      Yep I'm the only parent who DOESN'T want their kid to go to university ‼️ with all these violent murders of students it scares me. My kid can live in my house for the rest of their life if they want, at least they will be alive. They can have a successful career without going to a party town

    • @WhitneyDahlin
      @WhitneyDahlin Рік тому +13

      @@janetpendlebury6808 isn't the max sentence ANY criminal can get in Australia is 25 years? This is why you guys need the death penalty.

    • @dgerwuuu20943
      @dgerwuuu20943 Рік тому +21

      @@WhitneyDahlin Australia has a terrible justice system but there are people who have received life sentences without parole... Katherine Knight for example.

    • @WhitneyDahlin
      @WhitneyDahlin Рік тому +4

      @@dgerwuuu20943 oh I didn't know that! I'm glad they at least have that option! I hope the prisons are not the cushy "let's rehabilitate them" prisons for the lifers. They deserve a terrible prison

  • @RosieWilliamOlivia
    @RosieWilliamOlivia Рік тому +306

    Wow. The judge giving him leniency is mind blowing.
    His poor mum, what an awful situation for her. To have a child you must have love for or loved and try to do what's right and protect society from your child then see women hurt and one, that we know of, eventually killed while you were warning people and getting totally ignored must be horrific to go through.
    What a painful case all around.

    • @blockhartinabox
      @blockhartinabox Рік тому +20

      You are so right. Anyone who doesn't take all those things you just mentioned into consideration when talking to someone's mother (who's telling you their own child is dangerous) is being grossly negligent in their decision making process.
      I feel so deeply for that woman 💙

    • @ketipap686
      @ketipap686 Рік тому +15

      You can still hear her agony in her voice...

    • @msenglish8382
      @msenglish8382 Рік тому +1

      Mom had a choice. Wether to reproduce or not. Consequences on her

    • @blutoactual230
      @blutoactual230 Рік тому +33

      @@msenglish8382 I hope you made the right choice...

    • @boobookittyfuck789
      @boobookittyfuck789 Рік тому

      @@msenglish8382 by that mentality then no one should have babies and humanity should go extinct bcuz there might b a small chance your baby might be a psychopath. You’re not v smart huh

  • @Autumnpearly
    @Autumnpearly Рік тому +22

    Whoever drew that police sketch did an amazing job. Holy shit.

  • @jainmelbourne
    @jainmelbourne Рік тому +232

    As a Melbourne resident, this still haunts me. It was completely avoidable as this POS should never have been out of prison

    • @weareeverywhere6677
      @weareeverywhere6677 Рік тому

      Now all of you understand how we in America feel about our dipshit judicial system that rewards SUPER VIOLENT CONVICTED CRIMINALS for good behavior in jail, only to let them out after only 1/20th of their sentences served, only to commit again the moment they get out! Meanwhile, all of our Democrat and Republican party members call each other names all day long and nothing worthwhile ever gets done to protect our citizens from these crime loving degenerates, then something like THIS VERY THING happens... Again and again and again and... well, YOU get the picture.

    • @johayes7529
      @johayes7529 Рік тому +7

      This haunts us as much as the little one who was thrown off the Westgate bridge in peak hour traffic! Some things you can never unsee

    • @giiness508
      @giiness508 Рік тому +1

      Same

    • @bobby_D
      @bobby_D Рік тому +1

      Sounds like America.

    • @HeadNtheClouds
      @HeadNtheClouds Рік тому

      They need to bring back the Lion , crocodile & poisonous snake pit & let them get eaten in front of an audience!

  • @MissFost
    @MissFost Рік тому +247

    I remember this. I'm Australian and from Melboune. Women were so scared to go out and walk at night, we used a buddy system and made sure no one walked alone. Melbourne is actually a pretty safe place, so this sent shock waves through the city. RIP Jill, you are not forgotten.

    • @gayleosborne7072
      @gayleosborne7072 Рік тому +4

      Used to be safe, not any more.

    • @themudpit621
      @themudpit621 Рік тому +8

      @@gayleosborne7072 hasn't changed, it's always been a dice roll. Violent crimes are dropping actually, but the murder rate stays around 1 per hundred thousand... always, in our country.

    • @Audrey-s5t
      @Audrey-s5t Рік тому +2

      @@gayleosborne7072 it's unsafe for young men - the new gang situation - But they generally leave adults alone

    • @MissFost
      @MissFost Рік тому +1

      @@gayleosborne7072 Yeah, I should have said 'was a safe place'. Truth be told, I have been living out of the country for almost ten years now, so don't really know.

    • @JC-zv3cv
      @JC-zv3cv Рік тому +4

      @@MissFost yeah nah..its changed so much in those ten years..every second person is bludgeoned to death these days now in Melbourne..it's horrendous.

  • @elle_rose_xx
    @elle_rose_xx Рік тому +340

    I’m from the uk and I think the terror of walking home alone as a woman is universal. I’ve been followed, harassed, assaulted in daylight and at night. Jill deserved to be able to be safe. It breaks my heart that’s not the world we live in

    • @AC-ln9ry
      @AC-ln9ry Рік тому +5

      @_MIKE_CHAPTERstop trolling people

    • @Nikolizky
      @Nikolizky Рік тому +3

      Move to Doha, Abu Dhabi or Dubai, you’re gonna go for a jog at the promenade at midnight.

    • @AC-ln9ry
      @AC-ln9ry Рік тому

      @@Nikolizky What ? , oh you mean Ike not smart too, gotcha

    • @Nikolizky
      @Nikolizky Рік тому +5

      @@AC-ln9ry What?

    • @AC-ln9ry
      @AC-ln9ry Рік тому

      @@Nikolizky I was just trying to understand your comment and sorry I was just thinking yes not to go jogging at midnight 🕛. I’m guessing that’s what you were referring to,

  • @jeremylamovsky3669
    @jeremylamovsky3669 Рік тому +72

    Cases like these are wild. Even here in the US with privatized prisons that basically encourage locking people up for nothing, you're always hearing cases of someone serving little to no time over something serious and as a result committing some heinous act. Meanwhile people will serve double digits for nonviolent drug offenses.

    • @commonsense571
      @commonsense571 Рік тому +5

      It is disgusting

    • @gomahklawm4446
      @gomahklawm4446 Рік тому +4

      Because it's about making money, ot protecting the public. There's a lot of money in messing drug people. Easy money for them.

    • @Kaigirl27
      @Kaigirl27 Рік тому +3

      One famous case Donald Smith. In and out of prison for sexual assault to minors. Ended up killing a little girl he kidnapped from Walmart. it was so bad that even the autopsy doctor was crying.

  • @jofranco238
    @jofranco238 Рік тому +65

    Poor Tom 🥺if you look at his interviews before and after the trial his eyes are completely different. That's a man who has felt grief and cried oceans. Poor guy :(

  • @mcnuggets2011
    @mcnuggets2011 Рік тому +213

    I feel so bad for Tom. You can tell that he's barely keeping it together for the interviews that he's doing, and as a man I can only understand what it could feel like to lose someone that you absolutely love in such a heartbreaking way, and have the justice system also failing you at the same time. I hope he's in the better state of mind right now.

    • @richt7525
      @richt7525 Рік тому +6

      As well as having to deal with masses of idiotic true-crime parasites online accusing him of the same heartbreaking tragedy. Bc men are inherently evil, right? And the closer they are to the victim, the more people are convinced that they're guilty.
      The whole justice system shenanigans thing is mind boggling. I can understand the 'Take Back the Night' response, but where's the "Take Back the Gavel" marches in Australia? Some serious reform is clearly needed. Honestly criminal charges should be considered when it comes to the parole office- in my eyes they are partly responsible for every S.A. this man did after they dropped the ball, not to mention the murder. Good grief how bleak.

    • @damienluxford4480
      @damienluxford4480 Рік тому

      I think perhaps Tom did it. The silly mug named in this video would have been easy for the cops to frame.

    • @richt7525
      @richt7525 Рік тому +5

      Speak of the devil, am I right? Heavy eye-roll.

    • @xx-wp3mq
      @xx-wp3mq Рік тому +2

      @@damienluxford4480 Did you miss the part were he admitted it on Camera?

    • @damienluxford4480
      @damienluxford4480 Рік тому

      @@xx-wp3mq I'm just trolling mate. Sorry.

  • @autopilotlevel7296
    @autopilotlevel7296 Рік тому +178

    A few months earlier my brother and I had began attending a local gym nearby. That guy made chitchat and was by all accounts very friendly. He said he had noticed us over a few weeks and saw how we were getting stronger. I said thanks. Some people are very good at portraying a friendly happy character and we don’t see the vile heart and mind ; he’s where he belongs.
    RIP Jill

    • @bearclaus2676
      @bearclaus2676 Рік тому +60

      Too many men that are known to their friends as being "rough with his wife" are known as "good blokes".
      Sickens me to my core.

    • @melpunks5797
      @melpunks5797 Рік тому +17

      ​@@bearclaus2676 so true mate. It's bloody bullshit ain't it.

    • @amityislandchum
      @amityislandchum Рік тому +27

      Well, you're a man. He actually saw you as human, unlike how he saw women. He even used the "Nice Guy" routine to prey on women, by lying about them being followed and offering to protect them.

    • @chele-chele
      @chele-chele Рік тому +21

      Most sociopaths are charismatic, never let your guard down.

    • @Kosmopoli
      @Kosmopoli Рік тому +2

      @@bearclaus2676 naint herd somthin more true than a blokes got knockers innit

  • @sare2007
    @sare2007 Рік тому +36

    I can't believe you're covering this story. I live in Melbourne, Aus and grew up going to The Brunswick Green with all of my friends living that way. This sort of thing NEVER happens here so it was all over the news and my friends and I were all investigating it and watching the footage trying to figure it out and praying she would be found safe. She was found right near my friends place and it was heart breaking 🥺💔

    • @Scratchingforcash
      @Scratchingforcash 9 місяців тому +1

      It apparently does happen In your neck of the woods. Stay safe friend.

  • @mollylouise7950
    @mollylouise7950 Рік тому +37

    What’s interesting is her husband wrote an article called ‘the monster myth’ on why we shouldn’t call these people monsters.. very good read.

  • @aparnawtf
    @aparnawtf Рік тому +227

    The best part of my week, Mike. You’re more reliable than my mother’s disappointment in me.

  • @ashleigh4729
    @ashleigh4729 Рік тому +242

    This case still brings tears to my eyes. In my opinion not enough justice was done for Jill. Thank you covering her case.

    • @MicovskiMC
      @MicovskiMC Рік тому +6

      The killer is in prison for life with no parole. What more justice is there? Death penalty?

    • @ashleigh4729
      @ashleigh4729 Рік тому +18

      @@MicovskiMC if it's life it's typically 25 years in Australia

    • @shannon222ish
      @shannon222ish Рік тому +6

      Mike really does pick such great cases he really shines a light on stories that aren't always getting a ton of attention. I live in US & would've likely ever heard of this case. One of the many reasons I ❤️ TC

    • @MicovskiMC
      @MicovskiMC Рік тому +11

      @@ashleigh4729 yes, sorry about that. I thought he got life plus 40 years but at the end of the video Mike said 35 years. I agree that is not enough justice for Jill.

    • @okisoba
      @okisoba Рік тому +9

      Australian justice system seems like a joke based on the sentencing of the dirtbag featured in this video

  • @thankyouforincorrectingme
    @thankyouforincorrectingme Рік тому +62

    It’s exhausting and terrifying as a woman. I battle regularly whether or not I am being over dramatic or it’s a legit fear I have when I walk my little dog at night, or to my car, when a man approaches me in public on my hikes, etc… When we met, my fiance admitted he never considered the impact predatory men have on our daily lives. He used to run miles every night through our old town, there's no way I would do that. Just walking our little dog at night so he can potty is questionable anymore. I've been a victim once, I refuse to be one again. No, I don't stop living, but, I really wish our living didn't consist of pepper spray, self defense knowledge & tricks, always being on guard and having to tell men to fu€k all the way off…regularly.

    • @xmiunax4385
      @xmiunax4385 Рік тому +6

      One day sister ❤

    • @brittanybarr3631
      @brittanybarr3631 Рік тому +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @chrislong8559
      @chrislong8559 Рік тому

      You do realize men on men violent crimes happen more than men on women?

    • @BiologyBabe
      @BiologyBabe Рік тому +8

      Self defense saved me after two men grabbed me in Las Vegas. I’m tiny, 5’4 and 110 soaking wet so I’m sure they thought it would be easy. This was 24 years ago, and I still shudder at the thought of what could have happened, what my husband would have gone through, not to mention my parents. It might be the most important knowledge a person can have. On a side note, I have 2 black belts, I guarantee they were sorry they tried me. That’s my gift to you girls, a can of whoop-ass. I hope it made them think twice before trying that again. They were never caught.

    • @Flip86x
      @Flip86x 11 місяців тому

      Men are 75% more likely to be murdered than women. Give me a break.

  • @martinhealy2902
    @martinhealy2902 Рік тому +69

    This was so huge in Australia. It's still quite upsetting to hear about it again. I feel massively sad for her husband.

    • @pommiebears
      @pommiebears Рік тому +3

      Yes. It’s incredibly upsetting still.

  • @FK-lq8zf
    @FK-lq8zf Рік тому +19

    The email Tom sent is absolutely SCATHING and written with the precision of a scalpel. God damn. I need a minute with that.

  • @karencooper3428
    @karencooper3428 Рік тому +217

    Just listening to the criminal's mum, poor woman, feels so guilty, tried so hard under the circumstances, to stop this from happening, it's heartbreaking for Jill's family, but, for his mum too 🥺

    • @shannon222ish
      @shannon222ish Рік тому +26

      Right!!! All I could think was finally a good mother! She really did try.

    • @jeanny4204
      @jeanny4204 Рік тому +16

      fr i wonder what those parole officer had in their mind when granting this dude a freedom..

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Рік тому +9

      @@jeanny4204 That's what I'd like to know. We never get to hear from people who make these decisions - judges and other legal authorities.

    • @athelwulfgalland
      @athelwulfgalland Рік тому +1

      I know what you're saying! I can't even imagine how I would feel if one of my children grew to be a sexual predator. I would constantly question where I went wrong, how I could've stopped them from becoming like that & I may have even thought to take matters into my own hands. (If I had done the last, I don't think I could've lived with myself after, so ...) In a way then I guess I really do have to admire his mother.

  • @Ozvideo1959
    @Ozvideo1959 Рік тому +53

    A couple of weeks ago I watched a vlog from a very attractive American girl who was visiting Sydney. In her video she was walking alone through a park late at night and she was commenting on how safe Sydney was. I posted a comment warning her that it was not safe to walk alone at night, especially in a dimly lit area like a park. When I scrolled down the comments I saw a lot of other Australians had posted warnings too. Melbourne is not riddled with crime but, as I cautioned her, it's better not to put yourself in a vulnerable position. Male or female, you never know what could happen, it only takes a group of guys who've been drinking, or someone who sees you as an easy mark and you'll be in trouble.

    • @marinothegreatsan
      @marinothegreatsan Рік тому

      So Sydney or Melbourne?

    • @Ozvideo1959
      @Ozvideo1959 Рік тому +1

      @@marinothegreatsan It's not safe to walk through a park alone in either city.

    • @Scratchingforcash
      @Scratchingforcash 9 місяців тому +2

      It’s not safe in any city in any park in any part of the world. Please don’t kid yourself, the world is filled with freaks and weirdos. Stay safe

  • @lizbennett1905
    @lizbennett1905 Рік тому +35

    I actually live in the suburb where this happened, and remember the huge rallies from the public afterwards. Geographically, she could see her apartment and the police station from where she was abducted and that breaks my heart.

  • @2passportsandpostcards
    @2passportsandpostcards Рік тому +183

    Tom’s interviews are a great showcase of how an innocent victim’s husband SHOULD act, IMO 😢

    • @fcukugimmeausername
      @fcukugimmeausername Рік тому +17

      Now men grieving have to act a certain way? What is it with modern women, lol.

    • @serenacelestine
      @serenacelestine Рік тому +65

      @@fcukugimmeausernameCalm down, they just mean in comparison to the cases where the partner is guilty and you can see they are clearly acting off, or making the interviews all about themselves.

    • @fcukugimmeausername
      @fcukugimmeausername Рік тому +6

      @@serenacelestine I see. Can't be too careful these days.

    • @Bradonkey99
      @Bradonkey99 Рік тому +3

      @@fcukugimmeausername ain't that the truth

    • @mes1220
      @mes1220 Рік тому +5

      @@serenacelestine ple@se do not tell her to c@lm down:-Shes entitled to her own unique opinions+she's got her own Mind God bless her
      Do not ptronise just when you do not concur
      She's been kind to you,,, responded to your putdown+you just ignore her??

  • @rubyruby1847
    @rubyruby1847 Рік тому +190

    Thank you for doing this story Mike. As a Melburnian this story horrified us all at the time. RIP Jill and much love to her family.

    • @Zhana808
      @Zhana808 Рік тому +8

      I agree and appreciate the fact that he pronounces it correctly as MEL-BEN and not MEL-BURN as most here in America do.

    • @davechristian7543
      @davechristian7543 Рік тому +4

      Sorry but it's 'Melbinian' just like Dapdiodian lol.

    • @paulwoodford1984
      @paulwoodford1984 Рік тому

      She’s probably in hell

    • @drunkpaulocosta
      @drunkpaulocosta Рік тому +2

      @@davechristian7543 well you only say burn if you are saying Melbournian. Thats the only time you actually do say it how its said.
      Every other use the Bourne is pronnounced Bin on like a Kiwin Ben

    • @DeepSoulUnit
      @DeepSoulUnit Рік тому

      Definitely well remember this (i live in Adelaide) I still think of her I’ve been told by people who are in the know that the violence she suffered was indescribable I hope he burns in hell

  • @This_RuthIsOnFire
    @This_RuthIsOnFire Рік тому +23

    Oh, Melbournians know this one well 😢
    In fact last night I was out on a date in Richmond, and went to walk back to my car, just a block away. Thought of Jill, said to my date “Looks pretty dark down there, mind walking me back to my car?”
    And of course, he had no problem. It’s sad that we don’t feel safe like that. We should be able to walk on our own.

    • @LorettoKennedy-sr9yn
      @LorettoKennedy-sr9yn Рік тому +2

      He was a monster and the justice system failed all of you in Melbourne by allowing him to walk the streets

    • @This_RuthIsOnFire
      @This_RuthIsOnFire Рік тому +3

      @@LorettoKennedy-sr9yn I wish more people (including the justice system) took SA and r*pe of Sex Workers more seriously.

    • @LorettoKennedy-sr9yn
      @LorettoKennedy-sr9yn Рік тому

      @@This_RuthIsOnFire exactly, why does it have to go as far as a murder to have the justice system react

    • @LorettoKennedy-sr9yn
      @LorettoKennedy-sr9yn Рік тому

      @@This_RuthIsOnFire and he could be out on parole in 10 years to reoffend

    • @This_RuthIsOnFire
      @This_RuthIsOnFire Рік тому +3

      @@LorettoKennedy-sr9yn that would be a really unpopular decision in the community. I was pleased to see Paul Denyer was denied parole this week, I’m sure it will be the same for Adrian Bailey.

  • @soupbiznis
    @soupbiznis Рік тому +52

    seeing tom in the interveiws doing his best to hold it together is honestly heartbreaking

  • @a.evelyn5498
    @a.evelyn5498 Рік тому +33

    Her husband is so well-spoken. That letter was incredibly well-written & hit so hard.

  • @mollymarsh8082
    @mollymarsh8082 Рік тому +225

    That many assaults & then free to commit more after ONLY 22 Months is sooo beyond disturbing!! I wonder how much time he would've gotten if it was the judge's daughter who was assaulted?! 💔

    • @TheRealBatCave
      @TheRealBatCave Рік тому +6

      Agreed, violent crimes, especially serious violent crimes not just a fist fight between 2 neighbors or a slap fest between 2 Karen's but serious violent offenders need to have far more stiff sentences its ridiculous it seems like in all developed nations they seem 2 b very soft on these types of criminals ill never understand this

    • @gossipandgrigio7200
      @gossipandgrigio7200 Рік тому

      Probably no different. The judges to the proceuters clearly hate women. I would be less surprised if the judge gave him a pat on the back.

    • @sunnyday1275
      @sunnyday1275 Рік тому +3

      It was the parole board that was at fault by releasing him early.
      That said i'm quite sure people can feign remorse & in this instance, in my view the Judge should have made a judgement based on the guys' actions & not his words so that this bloke will never have another opportunity.

    • @jasonbyrd7360
      @jasonbyrd7360 Рік тому

      🎚

    • @war32mec
      @war32mec Рік тому +2

      Oh he'd had been locked up for life immediately and even possibly had the death penalty brought back. If it effects government officials oh they'll burn you to the ground. But if it's just some sex worker or some women here or there our fearless leaders officials honestly most of them anyway don't care they are just going through motions checking boxes here and there. They don't care until it happens to them which is so fucked up because they are intrusted to equally apply the law effectively not just when law breaking effects them. This murder was very preventable and it just shows there's classes and the law ain't applied appropriately and equally

  • @Banuna
    @Banuna Рік тому +100

    The poor husband’s going to be blaming himself for not going with her that night for the rest of his life… and the friends too, I’m sure, feel immense guilt for not doing more to get her home. Awful, awful crime and I hope they all know this isn’t on them, it’s on the monster who hurt an innocent woman just for the sake of causing pain 💜

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 Рік тому +1

      I think he's sensible enough to put the blame exactly where it belongs.

    • @SerenaTsukino-SailorMoon
      @SerenaTsukino-SailorMoon Рік тому +1

      ​@@cdes1776 on himself? Really? He had no idea his would happen.

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 Рік тому +3

      @@SerenaTsukino-SailorMoon ? I meant the exact opposite....?

    • @madisonlewe1057
      @madisonlewe1057 Рік тому +4

      @@cdes1776Maybe but survivor’s guilt is a very powerful thing, especially when the victim is a loved one

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 Рік тому

      @@madisonlewe1057 I understand, you are right. :)

  • @strangergoat
    @strangergoat Рік тому +286

    As a woman living in Brunswick, and originally from the Gisborne area, this is one of those cases that was and still is tragic and terrifying. The justice system failed Jill. I remember the days where she was still missing, the news media and social media were so often saying "why was she alone? Why didn't she call her partner?" as though she or her friends did something wrong.
    RIP, Jill.

    • @alfonsorafael007
      @alfonsorafael007 Рік тому +8

      Half of the equation is what she doing taking shortcuts at 2 in the morning drunk?

    • @strangergoat
      @strangergoat Рік тому +33

      @@alfonsorafael007 no.

    • @alfonsorafael007
      @alfonsorafael007 Рік тому

      @@strangergoat the city was so safe she forgot to take care for the anomalous rapist lurking around lol and she paid for her mistake with her life.. I hope this doesnt happen to you lovely, dont get drunk and take shortcuts at 2, OK? I worry about you sometimes Stranger

    • @mollkatless
      @mollkatless Рік тому +20

      @@alfonsorafael007 Wrong!

    • @CatScreenTime
      @CatScreenTime Рік тому +37

      @@alfonsorafael007 She took her normal short cut home in the early morning after being out. Women are also abducted in daylight in crowded places such as universities, taken away and killed. So what’s your point? Are you victim blaming one woman but not the other because of the time of day?

  • @thisiscait
    @thisiscait Рік тому +134

    Took a little while to click on this one, I saw her face and just got a wave of sadness. I remember this like it was yesterday, the whole country held its breath in hope for Jill being found. I'm so glad to say to this day people speak of Jill and don't remember that worthless man's name. Thanks for doing her justice 💜

    • @tats7859
      @tats7859 Рік тому

      You can't call someone like that a man, I myself refer them as piles of shit and I don't even give it a 2nd thought because even am a man I don't consider them to even be as the same species... stay safe.

  • @popartpistol
    @popartpistol Рік тому +129

    That footage of him chasing her is seared into my brain. And probably most women who watched this all happen. Absolutely terrifying.
    And this whole thing just shows how horrifically sex crimes are treated by our police. They call rape kits "free pap smears" if that gives people any idea of what we're dealing with.

    • @ImperfectionGuaranteed
      @ImperfectionGuaranteed Рік тому +21

      That is appalling!

    • @gomahklawm4446
      @gomahklawm4446 Рік тому

      Early release is to make room for idiot drug users. Part of the blame is on society for insisting they are locked up. So actual dangerous people are released early. Fact.

    • @samanthalandry2296
      @samanthalandry2296 Рік тому +13

      I was watching another video a couple days ago abd it briefly mentioned “a detective was going through all the rape kits that had never been tested, for years” I was appalled

  • @petitmeowmeow
    @petitmeowmeow Рік тому +52

    Thinking about all the times I've waved off my friends at the end of a night and said "I'll be FINE! It's not even 10 minutes away!"
    My thoughts go to her friends from that night, this can't be an easy thing to live with.

  • @bel_down_under
    @bel_down_under Рік тому +97

    Thanks for bringing the tragic loss of Jill back into the spotlight Mike. I'm a Melbourne girl and live a suburb away from where Jill lived and was taken from so this is a story that's close to my heart. I'd walked home alone along Sydney Rd after a night out many times but never again after this happened to Jill. The monster Adrian B was a member of the same gym in Coburg as me... it's so terrifying and shameful that our justice system allowed such a monster to exist freely amongst us. Had the system done what we trust it to do, Jill would still be alive and thriving, it's just so sad.

    • @grahamwatts8836
      @grahamwatts8836 Рік тому +3

      Monsters can live amongst us.

    • @gomahklawm4446
      @gomahklawm4446 Рік тому +1

      He was released early(as are MANY) to make room for non-violent "drug" users. Part of the blame lies on society for insisting drug using idiots are locked up.

  • @elkay8390
    @elkay8390 Рік тому +132

    Cases like this hurt so much, because it could happen to any of us. It’s not unreasonable to feel scared simply walking home. It angers me to the core that I’ve always felt this, and that it’s always been normal.

    • @hazelbasil6451
      @hazelbasil6451 Рік тому

      @Jamal Johnson People have to work dummy!

    • @mykamcgane6726
      @mykamcgane6726 Рік тому

      Sounds great. All women can just stay in our homes and not participate in aspects of society because men keep attacking us. Clown.

    • @michellelittle9184
      @michellelittle9184 Рік тому +9

      It shouldn’t be ‘normal’ - I feel the same way.

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Рік тому +3

      It's also not wise for anyone to go walking at 2:00am, whether male or female. She unfortunately paid the ultimate price for that decision. 💔

    • @Moonpoints
      @Moonpoints Рік тому +1

      The world is a scary place, nothing you can do about it besides stay vigilant and be your own protector. More than likely, no one is going to save you except you.

  • @acciosimmer6470
    @acciosimmer6470 Рік тому +8

    This still haunts Melbourne to this day. I still remember the day it all went down! Rest easy Jill! 💜

  • @GastedFlabber
    @GastedFlabber Рік тому +50

    We love our Irish investigator!! Thanks for all you do!

  • @OTHisLOVEforEVER
    @OTHisLOVEforEVER Рік тому +34

    “A story of a woman who was walking home as we all do everyday”. Mike, it’s bold of you to assume I leave my house everyday!
    Thanks for another great video!

  • @CourtneyTunbridge79
    @CourtneyTunbridge79 Рік тому +92

    I live in Australia and can tell you this case was MASSIVE.
    All I can say is that Jill, not only absolutely stunning was by all accounts an amazing human being and her loss is a tragedy to everyone.
    The anger felt for was happened to Jill is still felt now as it should.
    R.I.P Jill, you are sorely missed 🕊

  • @maryanneperry5716
    @maryanneperry5716 7 місяців тому +1

    Mike, you are an absolute delight. You are not only very talented but you are hysterical as well. Keep up the good work.

  • @flej01
    @flej01 Рік тому +28

    It horrified Australia and really effected my twin girls who were living in Melbourne. A few of my nieces knew Jill said; she was the most beautiful woman., you're right Mike this should never have happened that prick should not have been out. R.I.P Jill

  • @malcolm3790
    @malcolm3790 Рік тому +30

    Tom was obviously a man in pain. The way he reacted and answered the reporters questions is used as an example of how a truthful person reacts to a loved one missing by those who study behavior.

  • @21Weeksy
    @21Weeksy 9 місяців тому +2

    I remember this murder. Was living in Sydney and now call a Melb home. Heartbreaking our system continues to fail us where it matters most.
    You should do one on Stephanie Scott. Truly heartbreaking story.

  • @koalabear3427
    @koalabear3427 Рік тому +119

    I was living in Tasmania when this happened. It deeply affected me as it did many people. Our hearts broke for poor Tom and her family. Australia's justice system is a joke.

    • @flyme2009
      @flyme2009 Рік тому +4

      same as canada it is a comedy show

    • @isabella8208
      @isabella8208 Рік тому

      @jamiemorgan2178 Liberals in control. They love criminals.

    • @Mr_Meowingtons
      @Mr_Meowingtons Рік тому

      that's the typical WOKE Bull crap the DA's wont charge people accordingly. there doing the same thing here in the US they keep arresting people and letting them go early till they murder some one..

    • @JustDeLuca
      @JustDeLuca Рік тому

      Same. Still in Tassie. I was so mad an upset that this man was on the streets. He should have been behind bars. Jill should have been able to make it home. Was and still is truly heartbreaking.

    • @bigpun7916
      @bigpun7916 Рік тому

      Same here in Canada .

  • @kimhoang679
    @kimhoang679 Рік тому +26

    Very sad case, I remember following the news when this happened 😢Thank you Mike for covering her story..
    Sorry, I just wanted to point out that in Australia, we dial 000 for emergency services not 911 11:40
    For anyone that travels to Australia and needs emergency services assistance.

  • @guardmommad5084
    @guardmommad5084 Рік тому +43

    I'm so sorry for Jill's family. She looks like a lovely person. Rest in peace beautiful Jill.

    • @guardmommad5084
      @guardmommad5084 Рік тому

      @Jamal Johnson Don't be disrespectful. This young woman's family is heartbroken. If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't speak. Have a wonderful day.

  • @831mrscardoso
    @831mrscardoso Рік тому +13

    He should never have been released, no bail and no parole. Sick how these repeat offenders always get out because of overcrowding or good behavior. Condolences to the young lady's family, friends, and colleagues,

  • @poisonivy1985
    @poisonivy1985 Рік тому +38

    As an Aussie thank you for covering this!
    We won’t ever forget you, Jill ⭐️

    • @WatchtheWaters12
      @WatchtheWaters12 Рік тому +2

      @Tara Mcgavan yes, cause Australia clearly is the only country in the world with a broken justice system 🙄 it’s one of the safest places to be.

    • @westernslav6453
      @westernslav6453 Рік тому

      @taramcgavan7654 Australia is a safe country compared with Europe. You can come and visit.

  • @brokentoast378
    @brokentoast378 Рік тому +95

    I’m from Sydney and the entire nation was affected by this. Especially after hearing about his priors and the piss poor justice system failing to protect Jill and many of his victims. This is a man that should never have been on the streets and she was collateral damage to a weak system allowing monsters like this to hunt, hurt and kill.
    Poor Tom, he had to deal with so much. I can only imagine the anguish, torture and pain he felt. Even today.
    This is one of those cases in Oz that sparked so much outrage and a cry for change. And after all that, the magistrate still gave him a sentence which included parole. Who gives a shit about the minimum sentence, the prospect of parole should not be on the table for this parasite at all!
    Rest in Paradise Jill 🕊️
    Wishing Tom and her family strength to try and heal from this although I can’t imagine they ever will. I’m so sorry this happened to her 💔😢

  • @lisahinton9682
    @lisahinton9682 Рік тому +196

    Mike wearing his snazzy Polaroid shirt and doing cheezy Aussie accents. What more could I want on a Tuesday afternoon? Luv ya, Mike!

  • @rebeccaraymond3779
    @rebeccaraymond3779 7 місяців тому +1

    I just love the way you tell these stories. You truly have a gift!

  • @someoneout-there2165
    @someoneout-there2165 Рік тому +32

    He's going to make me tear up. I feel so bad for him, you can tell he's a genuine, nice guy who truly loved his partner. Rare these days.

    • @Kthb80
      @Kthb80 Рік тому

      I don’t think it’s that rare these days that two people love each other. This wasn’t that long ago. It’s just normally when you see a husband pleading for his wife’s safe return he’s responsible for her disappearance.

    • @LASupreme1k
      @LASupreme1k Рік тому

      @@Kthb80nah in the first video u can genuinely tell he had nothing to do with it. trust me many people think they’re good actors or have really good poker faces when they don’t

  • @nobeansplease7160
    @nobeansplease7160 Рік тому +53

    As a person living in Australia, I followed this case, it is one of the most tragic I've heard. I really felt for her husband

  • @grantwing4942
    @grantwing4942 Рік тому +275

    This was huge news in Melbourne 10 years ago. It was quite shocking we thought it relatively safe here. There were protests and many public meetings to see how this could be prevented and how women can feel safe everywhere in our state. Unfortunately about 7 years later the same thing happened again with Eurydice Dixon not far from where Jill Meagher was taken. Then shortly after Aiia Maasarwe suffered the same in Bundoora a few miles away. It is sad that after the marches and vigils women are still at risk from these heinous crimes.

    • @kaltkalt2083
      @kaltkalt2083 Рік тому +20

      Nobody is ever safe and nobody has some fundamental right to "feel safe". If you want to feel safe learn how to use a gun and carry one at all times. If you live in a place where you can’t, then you’re NEVER safe and you should move to texas. I live in texas and I feel as safe as is reasonably possible. My gun is within reach right now. Hopefully I never have to use it. I certainly don’t want to have to shoot anyone. But not everyone feels that way. But which weapon a bad person uses isn’t what interests me. Gun, baseball bat, knives, chainsaw, poison, it’s not the most important question. When where who and why are the important questions. How is totally irrelevant except possibly for sentencing with deadly weapon enhancements (but in texas it’s legally impossible to kill somebody without using a deadly weapon).

    • @micktaylor9332
      @micktaylor9332 Рік тому +24

      Marches and vigils don't really achieve anything though. It certainly doesn't stop killers.

    • @MsJazbren
      @MsJazbren Рік тому

      Men are actually at a higher risk of "street/stranger" violence than women.
      And there will always be predators out there.

    • @silviapedro8085
      @silviapedro8085 Рік тому

      @@kaltkalt2083 an obvious response from an american. No you do not have to have a gun to feel safe, women shouldn't be afraid to go out at night, just beacause men think they own them. if the polive had done their job this would not have happened. and as we clearly see from just what happened a few days in the EUA, guns aren't the answer to every problem, because now we wouldn't have a child that tried do kill his teacher.

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 Рік тому +5

      Satan is the god of this world- the spirit of it
      It started in the garden of Eden

  • @sammy-mz4jh
    @sammy-mz4jh Рік тому +10

    I live in Brunswick and was living here at the time around the same age as Jill when it happened, working in bars on Sydney Rd, drinking at those same places and walking the same route home most nights of the week. It really effected the entire community. We were too scared to walk the short distance home after work and taxis were reluctant to pick us up for such a short trip. Absolutely tragic and infuriating that it could have been avoided had the justice system taken it more seriously at early stages of his offences. RIP Jill and I hope Tom is doing OK

  • @seandelap8587
    @seandelap8587 Рік тому +63

    The scary thing is we could all be followed home and not even realise it

    • @devincorns409
      @devincorns409 Рік тому +3

      I walk home from work almost every night, I live like 2.5 miles away. I’m a 33 year old male so I don’t worry nearly as much as women do, but I do live a pretty rough city Tacoma, WA.
      Just be aware of your surroundings. I don’t carry weapons on me but it was pretty bad a few months ago, it’s starting to make me reconsider.

    • @shannon222ish
      @shannon222ish Рік тому +3

      @@devincorns409 There are MANY instances of ppl being murdered with their own firearm so I think you're better off without it. As a female I do have to worry so I always Skype, live chat/ have my phone connected with someone & make sure they know what street I'm at & where I'm heading. Stay safe.

    • @shannon222ish
      @shannon222ish Рік тому

      @jamaljohnson6411 Right Bruh

    • @ColonelSandersLite
      @ColonelSandersLite Рік тому +2

      @@shannon222ish "There are MANY instances of ppl being murdered with their own firearm so I think you're better off without it." That's *definitely* statistically untrue. Firearms are known to be successfully used defensively at a higher rate than they are used to commit crimes. To the degree that it's not even close. The exact number varies by study but it's approximately 2 to 1. If what you where saying was true, that would have to be a 25%-75% split, minimum, instead of the 66%-33% split that actually exists. And that's putting aside the fact that the percentage of those crimes that where committed with the victim's own firearm is definitely on the low end.
      The only thing that you need to keep in mind here is that you may feel that you, personally, have a higher risk factor because owning a firearm would give somebody in your life with the will to use it on you access to it. That being said, if you happen to be have a boyfriend/girlfriend who is an abusive psychopath, you should probably just split. If you watch these sorts of channels, you know they don't even really need one.

    • @ColonelSandersLite
      @ColonelSandersLite Рік тому +1

      @@devincorns409 I seriously hope you do buddy. If I was gonna give you one piece of advice, it would be that you shouldn't screw around with half measures. The kind of guy that gets one of those pressure point pens or whatever and thinks they're taken care of is just going to get his ass kicked. At best.

  • @ThEjOkErIsWiLd00
    @ThEjOkErIsWiLd00 Рік тому +24

    When you said he got stabbed, I literally threw up my hands and went "YAY!" because holy shit was that catharsis sorely needed after listening to just how badly the AU parole system failed its citizens.

    • @Stevelives13
      @Stevelives13 Рік тому

      Most likely nothing to do with his crimes.

  • @lukehayes6095
    @lukehayes6095 Рік тому +10

    I am an Australian and this is one story I have never ever stop thinking about I was hoping one day you would tell this young lady story

  • @AbominableAngel1
    @AbominableAngel1 Рік тому +8

    I remember doing an assignment on this case back in high school and it impacted me so much. The parole board really screwed up and it’s so frustrating how avoidable this could have been. I can’t imagine how terrified Jill must have been in those final moments

  • @mauramcmahon8785
    @mauramcmahon8785 Рік тому +96

    Outrageous and heartbreaking. Why do courts all over the world not realize sexual predators will offend again? Jill and Tom suffered the consequences of the courts ignorance.

    • @debradowner8761
      @debradowner8761 Рік тому +11

      I honestly don't understand, repeated aggravated sexual assault should be sentenced the same as attempted murder. 11 years after 6 sexual assaults? Wwwtttffff

    • @chuckschillingvideos
      @chuckschillingvideos Рік тому +4

      Because they are more concerned with the "rights" of violent offenders than the rights of the rest of us to be free from the criminals' predations.

    • @megatherion2695
      @megatherion2695 Рік тому

      Yew wannt aye peench

    • @anneloving8405
      @anneloving8405 Рік тому +4

      Because the lawmakers live in their safe little bubbles and it does not effect them.

  • @davidhutchinson5233
    @davidhutchinson5233 Рік тому +38

    It's wonderful that people remember her so fondly. She certainly sounds like she was one beautiful person. Inside and out. And whoever stabbed that bastard in prison should get early parole IMO

    • @MandyRRAh
      @MandyRRAh Рік тому

      Maybe not. More violence. Someone trying to win points from fellow prisoners. More ugliness.

  • @jessaa444
    @jessaa444 Рік тому +22

    The husband during the interviews… I feel so bad for him. You can tell how broken he is.

  • @Liquorice_Monster
    @Liquorice_Monster Рік тому +8

    The kind of situation Tom woke up to is one of my worst nightmares. I always have a creeping fear that I'm gonna wake up one morning and realize one of my family members isn't in the house when they should be and there's no trace of them, and they aren't answering the phone.

  • @chandrabrown1622
    @chandrabrown1622 Рік тому +47

    I feel so sad and sorry for her husband... Just imagining his panic as he initially searched for his wife is so heartbreaking and I don't think I will ever get over that. I pray that his heart is one day healed as well as all of her family and friends... The husband should have been able to sue those incompetent mofos for every single penny that they had!!! OAN: I can't wait to find out what you have coming Mike!!!! ❣️❣️❣️

  • @emmajvb
    @emmajvb Рік тому +30

    This case shook everyone. I frequented Melbourne as a teenager and adolescent and often walked around alone at night, that stopped after this. This is when I was also taught not to fight back, that it lowers my chance, and I need to scream 'fire' and run - if I can... which is insane that I had to even be coached on this. We all started to walk with our keys hanging out of our knuckles whenever we were walking around. She won't be forgotten.

  • @julielevinge266
    @julielevinge266 Рік тому +133

    This monster is a serial offender who’s gone through all the rehabilitation possible??
    How on earth they let him out??
    Just so 💔 this poor young woman lost her life,but it could have been totally avoidable!!
    What a tragedy

    • @lainiwakura1776
      @lainiwakura1776 Рік тому +17

      There is no rehabilitating someone like him.

    • @karaamundson3964
      @karaamundson3964 Рік тому +17

      Also, sexual offenders are really almost impossible to 'rehabilitate.' Just lock 'm away once they've been really, truly been found guilty.

    • @EdurtreG
      @EdurtreG Рік тому

      21 convicted rapes, 3 not brought before judge yet.

    • @greendragon4058
      @greendragon4058 Рік тому +5

      He got out and that was it nobody checked in on him? Predators like this do not change their stripes. There's always some excuse of why they're let go I hate it

    • @herbthompson8937
      @herbthompson8937 Рік тому +1

      you really dont understand why they let him out??????????????

  • @RoRoQuartz
    @RoRoQuartz Рік тому +3

    Just another Aussie here saying thanks. I often have to unsubscribe to channels for the way they talk about victims especially women - but you matey are solid gold. You genuinely make a difference each day by telling these stories in a respectful and honest way and I appreciate you heaps.

  • @brucemibus9523
    @brucemibus9523 Рік тому +84

    Remember this case. Was really sad that Jill had to end life like that. Was pretty heavy press coverage at the time. You have done her justice, thanks.

    • @Misssssysparkles
      @Misssssysparkles Рік тому +3

      It was really really sad she was so beautiful -He was a killer waiting for an opportunity

    • @jayltee
      @jayltee Рік тому +1

      It was awful. Her poor husband and family. Knowing what that piece of shit did to her…

    • @karaamundson3964
      @karaamundson3964 Рік тому +2

      100

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie Рік тому

      @@jayltee Her husband should have him killed. I would. There ARE people that handle such tasks.

  • @davidb3156
    @davidb3156 Рік тому +37

    Sad, sad story. Being a Melburnian this story shook us all. It should have been avoided. Feel for her husband and family. Love your work Mike keep it up

    • @jakecode103
      @jakecode103 Рік тому

      Are yall pronounced melbinians?

    • @jakecode103
      @jakecode103 Рік тому

      Cause the city is pronounced melBIN instead of melBOURN correct?

    • @davidb3156
      @davidb3156 Рік тому +1

      It's melbourne. But we are melburnians

    • @davidb3156
      @davidb3156 Рік тому +1

      Melburnians bro

    • @JustDeLuca
      @JustDeLuca Рік тому

      @@jakecode103So you know, it's not pronounced MelBIN. It's not pronounced MelBORN (which a lot of Americans say) it's pronounced MelBURN.

  • @frenchys_prospecting
    @frenchys_prospecting Рік тому +10

    Didn’t expect to see Jill here. This was especially close to home because I worked with her. She and her hubby were a delight.

  • @lt1459
    @lt1459 Рік тому +2

    Have to say man, watched a TON of your videos and I'm 300% sure you're the best content creator on YT.
    Keep it up!

  • @sharonnichols8285
    @sharonnichols8285 Рік тому +50

    I live in Melbourne and this story was everywhere at the time. Poor Jill's face was on every news channel and billboards everywhere. At first everyone was whispering about Tom and suspected him. This was a tragedy that could so easily have been avoided if the parole board had done their job correctly. Ask any Melburnian about this case and they will remember it . BTW Mike, the accent was pretty good, I have heard much, much worse lol.

  • @RadicalValkyrie
    @RadicalValkyrie Рік тому +20

    I was living in Melbourne at that time and I still can't get over the handbag being put back into the alleyway by the shopkeeper after finding out who the owner was...like WHY?
    Id be straight down to the copshop.

  • @michaelahalinabianchini7944
    @michaelahalinabianchini7944 Рік тому +177

    I am Aussie and this story really impacted me when it occurred. I was 19, at university, going out to bars and clubs, walking home from the bus stop in the dark after work. I remember crying silent tears one day at work when they discussed the case on the radio. I felt such grief and anger - for Jill, her family, myself and the women in this country. My innocence was lost as I realised it could have been me, or one of my friends. It could be my daughter one day. It sparked an important conversation in Australia about violence against women and the country seemed to feel the grief and outrage collectively. It shouldn’t have happened to her, it shouldn’t happen to any women. We deserve to feel safe and the system fails us miserably time and time again.
    I often still think of Jill - when I hear a similar story, or when I’m walking alone at night. I hope the public doesn’t forget her. Thank you for sharing her story.

    • @bradleyjackson7168
      @bradleyjackson7168 Рік тому

      I would bring to your attention. You ladies vote for gun control and confiscation. Then you cry about getting hurt. Maybe just maybe stupid socialist policies cause criminals to hunt you ladies like a sport. Any woman around me, I teach to shoot and encourage to own weapons.

    • @bradleyjackson7168
      @bradleyjackson7168 Рік тому

      Also you deserve what you vote for. Nobody deserves anything.

    • @bradleyjackson7168
      @bradleyjackson7168 Рік тому

      Oh also, men are attacked and killed every day. Ladies want equality, and you got it

    • @tami.1111
      @tami.1111 Рік тому +7

      Beautiful comment💗🙏

    • @Janellabelle
      @Janellabelle Рік тому

      The system has failed us since the beginning of time and it's going to keep failing us no matter what we do. All over the world. Less in Australia (and the USA) if you can believe it. There's really nothing we can do about it but try to raise our sons with an emphasis on nonviolence. We throw the book at them in the USA when it comes to long ass prison sentences and harsh penalties (such as DEATH) and yet we have worse violence against women here than in Australia (at least I THINK we do). We see no results, except the largest prison population in the world. It's really nice to know they're suffering with their victims and their victim's families though...but we will never be able to walk alone in the dark without looking over our shoulder. We aren't ever rehabilitating a dude like this. He'll ALWAYS be a threat until he's taken out back and put down humanely. I walk home in the dark with my right hand in my pocket gripping a 9mm handgun with one in the chamber ready to go ASAP, because my life literally depends on it, and I STILL look over my shoulder. But I do walk a LOT easier. The way I imagine a man walks. But, I gave up long ago on any safety for women walking alone. I live in one of the most dangerous cities in the USA. And the world too, I guess. I should move, but I watch too much true crime and I know there is no place women are safe. I'll always be looking over my shoulder until I get lucky and die of natural causes at 85 or lose the game and die by some mad AH's hand that was, "just trying to get her home safe ya know until she pissed me off when she wouldn't let me rape her". 🙄

  • @JaniceLarsen-r2p
    @JaniceLarsen-r2p 3 місяці тому +1

    I feel so sorry for the husband absolutely heart-wrenching. I hope he's doing well today. Prayers for the family

  • @GigiRulesTheRoost
    @GigiRulesTheRoost Рік тому +10

    her poor husband coming out of the church service all disheveled is heartbreaking. God bless him. I hope his life got better at some point and was able to find some peace and happiness.

  • @nikkipetrovsky5570
    @nikkipetrovsky5570 Рік тому +75

    The way she stops walking w him right in front of the bridal shop and she keeps looking back like she doesn't really want to walk forward w him is chilling. U can tell she was hesitant to go further....

    • @yunglynda1326
      @yunglynda1326 Рік тому +3

      i wished she would just go inside the shop🙏🏾

    • @gailmiler2797
      @gailmiler2797 Рік тому +8

      @@yunglynda1326 She would have had to break in... I guess that would have been a good idea, I'm sure an alarm would have gone off.

    • @yunglynda1326
      @yunglynda1326 Рік тому +6

      @@gailmiler2797 ahh, i thought it was open cause of the lights 😔

    • @MoA-Reload...
      @MoA-Reload... Рік тому +8

      @@gailmiler2797 Not actually a bad idea. Sound of breaking glass never mind a burglar alarm popping off would be the last thing a scum bag like that would want so yeah, definitely an option. Cuts from the glass, awkward conversation with police and cost of a new window would be a small price to pay. In this case though you can see the uncertainty in her but I don't think she realised just how much trouble she was in until they were out of frame. It is heart breaking to watch

    • @tillitsdone
      @tillitsdone Рік тому +7

      @@MoA-Reload... A good idea in theory, I agree. However, these kind of shop windows are plate glass, which is shatter resistant. Think of trying to break a car windshield by hand, which is also plate glass.
      I think pepper spray or mace might have possibly served her better.

  • @Voodoorai
    @Voodoorai Рік тому +13

    It's so unfortunate that we always focus on the mate (for good reason). It must be so hard for them going thru the disappearance or murder of a loved one while also being put under the microscope for it and being hounded by the media. As if they don't have enough to worry about. 😢The husband just seems so heartbroken. I can't imagine how he feels...

  • @mgal6234
    @mgal6234 Рік тому +5

    “More Mike” sounds fantastic! Keep ‘em coming, Mike…superb work! 😊

  • @Acewithplants
    @Acewithplants Рік тому +96

    I absolutely wept for Jill, her family and Tom. I’m about an hour drive away from where this happened. It was and still is unbelievable. I swear it is almost impossible to get jail time in Australia. Everyone was in shock when learning about what Jill’s killer had previously gotten away with.
    Also, in 2018 Eurydice Jane Dixon was found murdered at Princes Park in Melbourne. She was walking home from a bar when she was sexually assault and murdered. The guy handed himself into police after they released the CCTV footage of him. So eerily similar and it brought back so many memories of what happened to Jill.
    Great video man, I’m very glad this one was covered.

    • @lucym322
      @lucym322 Рік тому +7

      Watching this made me think of Eurydice too. Two women who deserved so much more and should still be here

    • @popartpistol
      @popartpistol Рік тому

      And then Eurydice's memorial was vandalised by a men's rights activist days after her rape and murder. He felt that her MURDER was making men look bad 🙄We have some terrifying people wandering around.

    • @natesmith2408
      @natesmith2408 Рік тому

      Hard unless you refuse the covid jabs then you get to go to fun camp.

    • @Ontheroxxwithsalt
      @Ontheroxxwithsalt Рік тому

      The jails are full up with people who refused to wear a paper mask during Covid.

  • @danrodrigues3531
    @danrodrigues3531 Рік тому +71

    You should be proud of yourself Mike because you just uploaded this video about 7 minutes ago and within those 7 minutes, you had 4.4k views and 763 upvotes (and both increasing rapidly) already logged. At 16 minutes I refreshed the page and by that time you had 11k views and 1.4k upvotes. That is a hell of a lot of heavy activity for a channel. Give yourself a well earned pat on the back for building this channel from nothing to what it is today. I'm not sure why I posted this but I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate this channel keep doing what you're doing...cheers...

    • @BossInVegas
      @BossInVegas Рік тому +8

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    • @therealwilfreddierkes9980
      @therealwilfreddierkes9980 Рік тому +9

      He’s been consistently pumping two a week out, including holidays, as far as I know, for 4 years. That’s insane. And awesome. Great guy.

    • @jessperry386
      @jessperry386 Рік тому +3

      Hes amazing! 🤩🙆‍♀️

    • @Zhana808
      @Zhana808 Рік тому +2

      Love him and all his videos!

    • @Rup869
      @Rup869 Рік тому +3

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  • @heatherstephens9295
    @heatherstephens9295 Рік тому +6

    I remember this case really well, my daughter was living in Melbourne at the time. It was big news here in New Zealand. It absolutely broke my heart, she was so beautiful. I do hope her husband is doing well these days. RIP Jill ❤❤

  • @frankkilama5974
    @frankkilama5974 Рік тому +8

    43k views in 60 minutes. Mike deserves an award. Thank you Mike for all your hard work

  • @csh43166
    @csh43166 Рік тому +46

    I've said it before; I'll say it again - these guys are rarely rehab-able and the only thing they learn is to not leave witnesses behind. Legislators, LE and courts all over the world need to start taking SA and DV claims much more seriously, and tighten up the laws and sentences. RIP, beautiful Jill... 🌹

    • @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353
      @littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353 Рік тому +8

      Completely agree with you. These perverts are wired wrong. And not to sound like a cliche they should just be culled.

    • @bbe3034
      @bbe3034 Рік тому

      Yes, I read an article that rapists and pedophiles have only a 1 % chance of rehabilitation.

  • @kidflash2fan
    @kidflash2fan Рік тому +10

    On the 18th of December down my road, some poor 22 year old young man was murdered. Walking home late at night.
    Its stories like this one. And the one that happened in my neighborhood. That has made me pretty determined to never walk by myself at night.