from not wanting babies to a mom of 2

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 4 лис 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 156

  • @Mari_tuts
    @Mari_tuts Рік тому +51

    It would be awesome if Blanca would have an episode on spill the beans with her dad. Because a lot of ua can relate to her story. Or even with her mom

  • @mayrab7636
    @mayrab7636 Рік тому +127

    I think many of us grow up not having a passion for being a mother Bc everything expected from society and what we saw our mothers go through. 🤍
    Oldest daughter here too

  • @marinaabad9499
    @marinaabad9499 Рік тому +34

    This video came up at a perfect time, I think most us struggle with older daughter syndrome in different ways and we need to understand that our feelings are valid and we cannot let trauma continue to affect us but rather motivate us to do better for our family 💗

  • @elizabethayala5156
    @elizabethayala5156 Рік тому +8

    Am I the only one who got the chills for witnessing this beautiful friendship? I felt the vibe. I love this duo, the most genuine and beautiful girls inside&out! 😭😭😭 The big sisters I never had! 🫶🏼

  • @aleay7779
    @aleay7779 Рік тому +4

    Blanca, you inspire me. My mom is the one who is always willing to help her sisters. And I have seen her sisters talk so bad about her and treat her badly. But she always helps them. So I grew up very bitter and mad. Thinking, I would never be that nice. Listening to the way you and your mom are, has inspired me to start healing from that anger.
    I love you, ladies. Both are much younger than me and are wise beyond your years.

  • @more2her92
    @more2her92 Рік тому +39

    I usually wait til the end to comment but I’m literally so emotional watching this. Firstttt of all Stacey you are so underrated. You are such a gem and deserve so much successful for all the good you send out to us with your advice and being so vulnerable to always share your life with us. 💖 Blanca I’m crying girl..your reasoning behind not wanting kids was so valid. Your childhood was robbed from you for sure. Nothing selfish about you feelings. & to your mama God bless her..the sacrifice she made and the mom guilt she must of felt literally me hace un nudo en la garganta. I love both Stacey & Blanca’s content. My new favorite UA-camrs. I’m a mom of a 10 month old and two year old and watching you guys is like my little dose of medicine my mind needs to put all my worries and anxiety at ease. Lol I love being a mom even tho it is the toughest thing I have done. I love that you both share the ups and the downs of your mom good journey to help us relate. 💖 sorry for the essay! You guys inspire me as I have a little UA-cam channel myself. Keep being so genuine and never forget the big impact you guys are making for so many women. 💖

  • @MIRANDA92
    @MIRANDA92 Рік тому +4

    Stoppp in just like Blanca as far as my thoughts. But I’m so intrigued in tapping into my life timeline like Stacey. Cause that’s so beautiful that you get confirmation from your future self

  • @carinaruiz4386
    @carinaruiz4386 Рік тому +11

    Wow Stacey! You have a gift! You are truly a spiritual healer. Great interview! You are both legit my fave girls and I was excited to listen to this ❤️

  • @solsosaaa
    @solsosaaa Рік тому +13

    I cried watching this! I love Blanca, it makes me think of the person I used to be and I want to be that sweet, loving caring person again!

  • @MultiLatina95
    @MultiLatina95 Рік тому +21

    Omg thank you for this podcast!!!!!! I don’t think people realize this topic is a lot more common. Currently 30 and now debating on having my first baby. So thank you ladies love watching and truly support you guys both.

  • @giselareyes6148
    @giselareyes6148 Рік тому +2

    Oldest daughter too. Thank you Blanca for sharing and thank you Stacey for having her. ✨🫶🏼

  • @j.ennifera
    @j.ennifera Рік тому +4

    Wow. This topic made me cry 😢 I think a lot of us first generation people resonate with these same feelings. All feelings are valid and our parents did the best they could for us with what they had ❤

  • @isabelchavez248
    @isabelchavez248 Рік тому +2

    I genuinely love listening to you two have conversations. As a young women listening to both of you share your experiences and advice it so comforting. ♥️

  • @RosaLopez-cw9ux
    @RosaLopez-cw9ux Рік тому +9

    You guys made cry!! I never cry but this touch home. I’m the oldest sister of 8 and I had to do everything for my siblings and now they don’t even talk to me. 2 of them I basically raised the like my own they don’t even call me on my birthday or never. Growing up I wanted the best for them I always gave them everything and it hurts that now they don’t need me I don’t exist. It really hurts!!!😢

  • @edithdelgado3638
    @edithdelgado3638 Рік тому +4

    I think that we as moms do so much and we have to always make up for the husband’s not doing enough. Being a mom is so beautiful and hard at the same time. I grew up almost raised my little brother and having to help my mom with the house and even working at the fields with my dad. All of that made me be a stronger woman, and a great daughter to my mom. Cuz my mom did it all, she didn’t have it easy. ❤❤ you both. What I learned from my life growing up is that I would never put my kids through anything like I was, growing up. But I will not have my kids not help, clean or anything like that.

  • @luzbanos5812
    @luzbanos5812 Рік тому +2

    Staceyyyy third podcast + my third cry sesh watching wow I love Blanca as I known her from her channel but even more now I love both of you! This is like friends I wish I had in my life and I’m just pretending like we’re all here getting genuine girl advice 🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yuriarmas6193
    @yuriarmas6193 Рік тому +12

    I feel that no matter how much Blanca says she struggled and grew up with traumas, her mom did an amazing job raising her & all those struggles that she went through made her the person that she is now. Great episode 💛💛💛

    • @johanapulido3821
      @johanapulido3821 Рік тому +4

      We all had struggles and traumas!! Some people resent and grudge more than others but WE ALL HAD struggles!!! It's the typical Mexican household traumas

  • @Jess_I688
    @Jess_I688 Рік тому +29

    I can totally relate to this topic. I did not want to have kids, I was ok being an aunt. I met my husband and that changed at 27. I am a mom to a beautiful 6 year old girl and soon to be... growing my family isn't what I thought it would be and I can't imagine life without my child ❤

  • @karinaflores1785
    @karinaflores1785 Рік тому +1

    Instantly became my Fav Episode 💖

  • @dulcebereniceguerrero5514
    @dulcebereniceguerrero5514 Рік тому +3

    This whole episode was a therapy session for me! First time I’ve seen the podcast and I’ve subscribed already! ❤ much love

  • @sylviDRojo
    @sylviDRojo Рік тому +1

    Omg the two of you are so amazing. I wish I had such amazing friends.

  • @mdanino001
    @mdanino001 Рік тому +2

    I was just stressing out about not knowing how to make pozole too so this is hilarious. Loved the episode! ❤

  • @danielaruiz9052
    @danielaruiz9052 Рік тому +3

    I can totally relate to all of this. I did not expect to cry 😢

  • @mariasalazar4131
    @mariasalazar4131 Рік тому +3

    Blanca is literally my comfort person💗 such a beautiful heart. I loved every second of this podcast. Literally so relatable, me pusieron sentimental. Love you girls ❤️

  • @savannah5404
    @savannah5404 Рік тому +2

    Y’all are literally my favorite UA-camrs. Stacey literally gives such good advice & Blanca seems like a genuine person.

  • @0livia_
    @0livia_ Рік тому +1

    I love Blanca j 🥹 she’s such an inspiration as a big sister, first daughter, mom and wife! 🤍

  • @prttymama6
    @prttymama6 Рік тому +9

    I’ve been following Stacey for a while now especially after becoming a mom ❤️ but Blanca seems very genuine

  • @mrodri4692
    @mrodri4692 Рік тому +4

    We need a folding video from Blanca’s mom now lol named all the essentials to have an aesthetic home hahaha

  • @Prettyprincess350
    @Prettyprincess350 Рік тому +1

    I needed this podcast I feel exactly what Blanca feels about being the oldest

  • @Zels101
    @Zels101 Рік тому +2

    I relate with this so much! 😢 I feel understood thanks to your convo with Blanca. Also Ive always wanted to try life progression, I’m going to look into this now for sure. Ty beautiful mamas

  • @Kianajayleen21
    @Kianajayleen21 Рік тому +1

    I love both of y’all, y’all are seriously so genuine and I feel like I really can relate to the both of you. Never change 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @Loreee__
    @Loreee__ Рік тому +4

    Blanca, you definitely inspired me to give back to my mom and retiring her. 💙 She’s definitely a superhero and a strong woman. Que Dios nos las preste por mucho más tiempo 🙏

  • @nubiasalazar4250
    @nubiasalazar4250 Рік тому +9

    Stacey I would of loved if you had included lulu in this podcast she has such a motherly touch on subjects and a big heart we love her ❤

  • @ayocindyloo21
    @ayocindyloo21 Рік тому +27

    It’s going to be so sad when la generación de nuestras tías, abuelitas and moms are gone😥

  • @stephaniee6848
    @stephaniee6848 Рік тому +2

    I love this one! I’m an oldest daughter of the family and it’s definitely tough but we got this. Such a relatable episode 🥹 I love both of you ❤️ y’all are so good with words. 🙏🏼

  • @KB-zb2he
    @KB-zb2he Рік тому +2

    Learned so much about Blanca! ❤such a beautiful soul

  • @miryperez2141
    @miryperez2141 Рік тому +7

    I loved this podcast, I relate SOOOO much to Blanca & I love how spiritual Stacey is, I also find so much comfort talking to the older version of myself 🥹💗

  • @yesenia1424
    @yesenia1424 Рік тому +6

    I loved this podcast 🥹 your so sweet and loving even after the trauma you carried glad you turned to therapy and changed your thoughts of not having kids your a great mom to Franco & you will be the same to your baby girl 🥰🥰 Blanca please do a podcast with your mom ❤️❤️

  • @bmartinez0650
    @bmartinez0650 Рік тому +1

    Im glad u guys have eachother as friends 😭🩷

  • @jenniromo7182
    @jenniromo7182 Рік тому +4

    Bianca u had nothing to fear because you broke that cycle of fear

  • @mira7640ify
    @mira7640ify Рік тому +1

    I absolutely love hearing you both speak wisdom & knowledge of life! I'm older 58yrs, and you Stacey remind me of my younger version of myself! Totally feel ya on this topic! Go girls! Much love!❤

  • @daiseybanuelos1
    @daiseybanuelos1 Рік тому +1

    This was such an amazing podcast!! Absolutely relatable!! Thank you!! 🩷

  • @porrassisters1687
    @porrassisters1687 Рік тому +3

    I grew up just like Blanca I had to take care of my siblings at 27 I moved out and moved out of state and I go back maybe twice a year literally everything Blanca said is me I felt it and it’s like the universe wanted me to hear this because this topic has been heavy on my heart thank your for talking about this ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @karinamorales9845
    @karinamorales9845 Рік тому +1

    I loved this episode 🩷😭 I’m in tears!

  • @Rociomota_29
    @Rociomota_29 Рік тому +1

    Not me and Blanca mind blown 🤯 about older “us “ bless you guys for this podcast 💗

  • @marinaabad9499
    @marinaabad9499 Рік тому +4

    This made cry 🥹💗

  • @FranciscaBrown-n8u
    @FranciscaBrown-n8u Рік тому +2

    Such a heartfelt podcast ladies! 💕🥰🫶🏽

  • @sandynavarro4278
    @sandynavarro4278 Рік тому +3

    Waiting for my therapy session to start & watching and already 😭😭😭😭 thank you for this poddy

  • @AmiriMelara-Gutierrez
    @AmiriMelara-Gutierrez Рік тому +2

    Yes Stacy, I listened to the Viola David audio book. And she says the younger you got you to where you are now. She’s a survivor. Stop worrying about her. Now focus on making the older version of yourself proud. 😢

  • @marianamarroquin2107
    @marianamarroquin2107 Рік тому +1

    I love you both so much thank you for being so inspiring!! Both of you are literally gems! You both are like big sister to me. I am self am an older Mexican daughter and I 100% agree with you guys. I 100% don’t feel alone anymore or feel bad for feeling the way I feel gracias beautiful girls.

  • @babylioncub13
    @babylioncub13 Рік тому +1

    This podcast brought up some feelings in me

  • @Jessicag777
    @Jessicag777 Рік тому +7

    You two have became my FAVORITE Influencers! Las quiero a las dos I look up to every advice you both give. Specially being a first time mom of my baby boy I look up to any advice you two give in parenting, being a wife etc . Nunca cambien! Dios Las Bendiga cada día 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @stephanieluna7602
    @stephanieluna7602 Рік тому

    Two of my favorites!❤ you just give out the best vibes and have the most beautiful personalities and hearts ❤

  • @mayratraslavinaruiz297
    @mayratraslavinaruiz297 Рік тому +1

    Stacey” I can’t make arros menos con leche “ hahaha such a sweet bond. I think Blanca holds back so much she’s a great human and I feel she holds back alot and idk why. Hopefully one day she can get interview and get all the goodness out of her!

  • @evelynalfaro5767
    @evelynalfaro5767 Рік тому +2

    I’m hooked on this podcast now 😭😭😭🤍 last episode I cried

  • @abigailyaslin
    @abigailyaslin Рік тому +1

    Haven’t finished listening to the podcast but y’all are such an inspiration and I truly admire and relate to y’all so much! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @denisezavala7580
    @denisezavala7580 Рік тому +1

    Woooo, I cried lol, loved this episode 🫶🏼 I love you and Blanca! ❤️

  • @cynthiacastro5192
    @cynthiacastro5192 Рік тому +3

    Literally felt the part about loving your baby so much. I’m driving an hour to buy my 10 month old baby a Halloween costume 😅

  • @Twin185
    @Twin185 Рік тому +1

    Blanca, I relate to her so much! my step dad came into my life when I was 2 and so i was daddy’s girl but then my mom got pregnant and I felt that detachment from real daughter vs step daughter and I seriously did not like my sister for a long time. My dad always did what she wanted and i also never wanted kids for the same reason but here I am with my 3 month old and I love him so much🥹.

  • @roxie4199
    @roxie4199 Рік тому +1

    This was a good one the older or first daughter hit the love you feel towards ur children real is like thT❤ i feel the same about time like am here today now

  • @RelaxationStationASMR1
    @RelaxationStationASMR1 Рік тому

    You both are my Favorite UA-camrs. I love how you both love your moms so much. Blanca your so sweet and genuine and Stacey I love your soft voice brings so much peace.

  • @MyCecil23
    @MyCecil23 Рік тому

    This was soooooo relatable, listening to this was good for my soul! 💗💗💗 LOOOOVED every minute of it!

  • @kimaa365
    @kimaa365 11 місяців тому

    I love it!!!!! She said “idek how to make a caldo” 😂👌

  • @Rammmseydd
    @Rammmseydd Рік тому +3

    Never say never situations change all the time be careful thinking certain situations are not going to happen in your life

  • @jesss7473
    @jesss7473 Рік тому

    So relatable! I was an emotional wreck through out this podcast! I hope you continue covering these types of topics ❤

  • @celinatorres6686
    @celinatorres6686 Рік тому

    I’m 1 min in and I’m subscribed! This is my first video I’ve never watched your videos but you two have an amazing feeling! I’m a mom of 2 I have a 1 and 2 year old and I’ve been looking for some amazing moms to follow. For inspiration because I am home with all day with my babies. And needing people like this! I can’t wait to catch up on you two. Thank you!

  • @LorenaGonzalez-mu5no
    @LorenaGonzalez-mu5no Рік тому +1

    I’m with Blanca J on this one I can watch Stacey and Amy talk forevahhhh!! I’m 48 and not near as deep as u both and you both are amazing. This one made me cry smile all the things but, I am the mom who passed on her generational trauma to my older daughter and since I lost my mom she’s the one I tell ALL too and she too doesn’t want children 😔 devastated selfishly. I need therapy as well.

  • @GL.528
    @GL.528 Рік тому

    I loved this episode!! So happy to see Blanca on here she’s one of my fav UA-camrs as well! Love you both! 🫶🏼🩷

  • @yolandagonzalez6258
    @yolandagonzalez6258 Рік тому +1

    Such inspirations love you girls 🥺🥺💗💗

  • @marianaquinonez1871
    @marianaquinonez1871 Рік тому

    Looooooooove this podcast, can’t get better with two amazing, good vibes mommys!!♥️🙏🏻👏🏻

  • @stephaniegonzalez7954
    @stephaniegonzalez7954 Рік тому

    I’ve been following you Stacey since you would upload advice vids on tik tok! Quarantine days😭 and Blanca has always been my comfort UA-camr so this feels like the best of both worldsss

  • @nathalyeramirez9138
    @nathalyeramirez9138 Рік тому +2

    I never realized that Blanca and Lulu are bigger UA-camr than Stacey . Like Blanca said you have a big impact like I would’ve never noticed!

  • @rebeccaesparza1435
    @rebeccaesparza1435 Рік тому

    Amazing episode ❤
    The time travel concept is awesome. I would have never thought of it.

  • @JennyNarvaez98
    @JennyNarvaez98 8 місяців тому

    As the oldest this really spoke to me 🤍 and seriously… I can’t believe I was going to miss out on a mother’s love! There’s NOTHING like it on this earth! 🥹🥹🥹

    • @JennyNarvaez98
      @JennyNarvaez98 8 місяців тому

      I CRYYY when I listen to yellow, I dedicate to my daughter and ocean by karol g 🥹🥹🥹

  • @stephaniegonzalez7954
    @stephaniegonzalez7954 Рік тому

    I love this duo soooo much!!💗💗💗💗

  • @marielaortiz8451
    @marielaortiz8451 Рік тому

    Honestly i didn't know i needed this podcast of you both ❤️💘 this was the best colab ❤️

  • @CorinaSierraMUA
    @CorinaSierraMUA Рік тому +1

    The UA-cam video: Meet your radiant self quantum leap into your dream reality: was my first experience with seeing into my ideal future but I haven’t done it in so long I’m going to try it again soon! Something about anxiety especially as a new mom is so overwhelming that I have to remind myself to take a second and live in the moment and when I do have time for myself I imagine what I would like my families outcome to be and think about what it would take to get there! I think that’s great you mentioned it for people to open their minds to new ways of meditation and just a way to cope with whatever is going on in their life and ease their mind.

  • @ericamartinez16
    @ericamartinez16 Рік тому

    Middle child here and I agree. I was grown enough to see my older sisters go through it, and my younger siblings not have a care in the world. I was too old to hang with the little ones and too young to help. I felt helpless and I felt that having kids was helpless too. I pray to god that he gives me the desire to have kids one day also because like Blanca, it’s my boyfriends dream.

  • @conniearciniega1268
    @conniearciniega1268 Рік тому

    I just love them both ❤❤ very mature.

  • @natloves27
    @natloves27 Рік тому +1

    ugh I wish I had friends like this 😢

  • @alexandraamaya9973
    @alexandraamaya9973 Рік тому

    This podcast really hit home for me, im the oldest daughter and i can relate to this soo much. As an older daughter I always help my mom out in any way I can because I know im her backbone. Even though sometimes i wish all i had to focus on was university thats not realistic for me because I know she needs me doing stuff around the house, and like a typical hispanic household the boys don’t have the same expectations. I have a brother and even though he’s old enough the same isn’t expected from him and I’ve talked to my mom about this but nothing changes, he does chores here and there but we practically have to beg. It’s frustrating but I know our moms do their best and sometimes i feel guilty if i don’t help.

  • @brisaaguirre2124
    @brisaaguirre2124 Рік тому

    2:49 Same found Stacey because of her nails 😂❤. The growth. Both of you are amazing woman and mothers 🫶🏻

  • @perlaaperlaa
    @perlaaperlaa Рік тому +2

    When it said 2 weeks ago I was like NO WAY I missed out 😩 then I realized 😂Mis 2 favoritas !!!! 💝

  • @lauraserafin133
    @lauraserafin133 Рік тому +1

    Stacy and Blanca thank you so much for sharing . I look up to you both ! I wish I had sister like both of you . Stacy each podcast you uploaded has resonated with me. Its like a little therapy listening to you. Your mom words has reached me in a tough time in my life. I wish I could tell you how all 3 of you podcast has made me fell but just know that God is using you in an amazing way Stacy. He has big and wonderful plan for you I can see it 😊. Que dios las bendiga y sus familias ❤ las deseo lo mejor con todo mi corazón

  • @veronicarios567
    @veronicarios567 11 місяців тому

    I love her hair

  • @Jaszgggg
    @Jaszgggg Рік тому

    This was beautiful 🥹♥️🫶🏼

  • @rubyruiz8144
    @rubyruiz8144 Рік тому +1

    Ahhh another podcast with my two favorite girls to watch ❤

  • @stephaniegonzalez7954
    @stephaniegonzalez7954 Рік тому

    I agree with everyone saying they felt emotional watching this, something about your bond literally seeps through the screen y se siente el amor🥹!!

  • @SelaLucero
    @SelaLucero Рік тому +4

    As a 37 year old watching this I definitely don’t think you guys are or were babies at 22 or even now… could be because I look younger than both of yall. My kids are 19, and 17 I also had my first at 19 and second at 21 I was grown AF making responsible mature decisions at that age so I just don’t see people as “young” as I expect everyone to have a level head

  • @mayrabustos967
    @mayrabustos967 Рік тому

    I relate to you so much blanca 😢 i am currently struggling with this topic, thanks Stacey for bringing her on to speak on this ❤❤❤❤

  • @sm_t8262
    @sm_t8262 Рік тому +1

    Aww love the vibe between you both ❤ I also found you from the nail videos 😂

  • @carmenalmaraz5386
    @carmenalmaraz5386 Рік тому

    I loved this podcast! ❤️ beautiful job to the both of you!

  • @Rociomota_29
    @Rociomota_29 Рік тому

    Literally my Favs 👯‍♀️

  • @1love4bizzybone
    @1love4bizzybone Рік тому +6

    Blanca you can't just let everyone walk all over you... you have to put your foot down and set your boundaries and make it be known kindness needs to be mutual between family or friends.

  • @bgz1348
    @bgz1348 Рік тому +1

    Love this ❤ me talking to my 60 year old self 🙏🙏🙏

  • @victoriabriseno7946
    @victoriabriseno7946 Рік тому

    What awesome young women you and Blanca are, as I was listening to you this morning tears were streaming down my face. You both are very mature and sweet. I am much older than the two of you, I have grown children. They are my life and I was lucky that I grew up as the eldest of two and I had the best childhood. My mom worked nights so we didn't have babysitters, my dad came home at 5:00 and my mom left for work until 2:00 am. My mom died 19 years ago and she would introduce me as her daughter and caregiver. She talked to me like her best friend and told me things that I carry in my heart. My mom grew up in a family of 12 and was expected to help with her younger sisters. Talk about trauma, but it didn't carry over to my sister and I. I miss her more than anything. I live in the moment, but as I've gotten older, I see my younger self. I think about the future because I would love to be able to hold and care for my grandchildren, I have none yet. Thank you for your perspective of your lives, you show a great deal of maturity. Life goes by much too quickly and poof your children grow up with their own issues. Enjoy each moment for what it's worth. Blessings

  • @Doseofliz
    @Doseofliz Рік тому +3

    Me the 40 yo watching 😂❤

  • @roxannegallegos3088
    @roxannegallegos3088 Рік тому

    I seen blancas podcast when she had stacey and the way they spoke to each other and vibe was beautiful! Her sweet voice makes me feel like i belong if that makes sense! Lol I could listen to you guys all day ❤❤❤

  • @vanessamorales3427
    @vanessamorales3427 Рік тому

    came from the broadcast, aghhhh loooove Blaca!!! 💗🫶🏼 love this!!

  • @gracielabautista5971
    @gracielabautista5971 Рік тому

    I admire you and Blanca J.😍 I really love watching your guys vlogs. You guys inspired me so much in your guys unique ways. Continue to grow and film for the people who truly love to see you guys.🫶 God blessed the both of you guys.🙏❤️