i needed to hear this today. Después de escuchar el poddy completo perdone a mi esposo por las fallas que tuvo y le pedí perdón de corazón por mis fallas. Sentí tanto alivio. con la oración voy a seguir sanando con el favor de Dios. Gracias Stacey y Doña Elisa ♥️
Amen amen amen mama Eliza! Stacey again I love you and I’m straight forward also. You keep denying you don’t do that to your mom and you do exactly the topic of today to your mom. God can’t heal what you pretend is not hurting hermana. This was much needed for everyone. Blessings to you ladies♥️ las amo♥️
I needed this video today. I have found it so hard to forgive my partner for some indiscretions he had a few years ago. I have tried to put it pass me but it’s eating at my soul. This episode brought so much peace to my heart, that I can finally tell him I forgive him for all of it and we can just focus on us, our kids and our future. Thank you from the bottom of my heart
Gracias por continuar las podcasts en español! It helps so much to listen to the pods in Spanish to strengthen my Spanish! Loved this podcast as someone in a relationship for 2 year now and it having been in the most character development relationship I’ve been in as a 26 year old woman. Understanding forgiveness, choosing love, and communication is so necessary!
Stacey pregnant sería… Comentaste q le hablas a la cajita de cenizas a tu Papá. Cuál es tu opinión en el tema de cuánto tiempo es lo correcto en tener una Urna ⚱️ en casa? Tal ves mamá Eliza pueda darnos su opinión tambien gracias.
I think what your mom is trying to say is that she can acknowledge that she has hurt someone in the past and she can validate the person time and time again and apologize but so what she’s just suppose to keep apologizing for the rest of her life ? I don’t think it’s fair to continue to bring it up if you’ve chosen to forgive that person. I understand that everyone heals different but that’s why your mom said that she told her sister to take her time to heal from the situation so that this way they can progress
Yes, I had a similar situation with one of my siblings y igual, I apologized and my sibling said they had forgiven, but as time progressed it was as if they had not... it was sad and disappointing to see that her "I forgive you" was not from the heart, so no de Dientes para afuera because like la señora Elisa said, it takes A LOT to ask for forgiveness when we mess up (acknowledging our mistakes.) I guess from this podcast nd what God has revealed to me, is that she wasn't ready to forgive. Like I was ready to ask for forgiveness and move on from it, but she was not and a lot of factors can come in to play as to why she wasn't there yet. So a mi, at this point, me ah quedado pray and leave it to God. I feel the more we learn about God's forgiveness, we start to be free and liberated and honestly no busco su perdon, solo oro por su sanacion bc that is something that only God can bring to us. Knowing about God's forgiveness has allowed me to move fwd. And fun fact I learned that when you genuinely apologize to someone desde el fondo de tu corazon y la persona te niega el perdon for whatever reason, Jesus forgives you and in reality, it is what we all need-Jesus' forgiveness to live and keep going! Well just my humble opinion speaking from my personal experience. God bless!❤
Que bonito que tengan este podcast madre e hija xq you guys by talking about things you heal ❤ and we heal with you guys too because we can also have these types of talks with our loved ones 😊
I truly believe forgiveness should be within you w/o person present bc it’s for you and no one else. Yes its important but some ppl don’t deserve or understand forgiveness and you will hurt yourself more.
Wow que hermoso podcast. Creo que todos en algún momento hemos tenido que perdonar de corazón. Que Dios nos ayude a perdonar a todas las personas que nos han herido y que nos de la manera de perdonar también. Este año he ido aprendiendo a perdonar a mis padres y tratar de comprender que solo me están dando lo mejor que ellos saben y pueden darme emocionalmente. Que paz me da escucharlas hablar semana tras semana. Gracias por compartir estas pláticas ❤️
Oh man this hit home! Osea porque me hacen llorar! Primero a risa y risa porque escuchaba a SJ pero ya después nomas moquiando. Este año me comproto a trabajar en mi relación con mi mamá y poder pedir perdón y perdonarla aunque ella no me lo sepa pedir
No sabes lo que me encanta escuchar el testimonio de tu mamá. 💗 I’m in the same boat as your mom, I forgave but sometimes people just don’t change. 😭 can’t wait to finish this episode
I love this! I think what doesn’t help is that we always want to be like before with that person that hurt us and that’s wrong. It’ll will never be the same. It doesn’t have to be bad but it will not be the same. We humans love to be the victims as well which is so wrong. We have to focus on the good of people and let go of that one time they hurt you.
I really want to forgive even tho I now I’ll never get a sorry for it because that person thinks they never did nothing wrong. Forgive and forget that’s all I want 😢
Staci, or your mom …have you ever been through a friendship breakup or betrayal? If you can talk about this topic. I know you spoke forgiving this episode
I was super into the podcast and like 4 min I thought I heard my baby cry (he is napping) and I ran and he is KO then but it was your baby Santiago lollll
I humbly disagree with you Stacy. Cuando alguien trae algo al presente es porque no lo a sanado y porque los hábitos de esa persona que los dañó aún no an cambiado. Not because they want to be the victim o pobrecita de mi. Which they were the victim in the first place.
I believe when someone accepts an apology and then they continue to bring it up, and the other person has shown change, then the “victim” is not doing the necessary work within themselves to see the change in the “ofender”. I understand reassuring but at some point if the “victim” continues to bring the past up, perhaps a relationship is not possible. Forgiving doesn’t always mean continuing a relationship. No matter who it is.
Mi mama era y sigue siendo de las personas que pegan cuando se desesperan y tengo 26 años. Sigo viviendo con ella porque sigo sanando y desaprendiendo la manera en la que fui creada. Yo me informe, lei, fui a terapia y cambie mi forma de ser porque no me gustaba la persona que fui por culpa del trauma que pase y sigo pasando. Me canse de hacerme la víctima me canse de gastar mi energia con su negatividad y toxicidad en la que maneja los problemas. Yo le e dicho a mi mama yo ya no te echo la culpa de nada mama porque entiendo que tu a mi edad talvez no tuviste las mismas herramientas que yo. Pues ya nimodo fue el pasado pero lo que no entiendo es porque sigues siendo de esa manera. Porque no puedes cambiar? el tu decirme perdon y no cambiar no me ayuda de nada. Estoy viviendo en constante depresion y ansiedad que esta afectando mi salud física y mi trabajo no tengo trabajo desde octubre porque todo me esta afectando. Hable en terapia sobre esto y le dije a la psiquiatra porfavor ayudeme a decirle a mi mama que me quiero ir a quedar con mi abuela unos meses para desestresarme y enfocarme en estudiar para poder volver a la escuela. Porque mi mama entra en modo victima diciendo que ella es la de la culpa de todo. Es algo que me duele pero es algo que tengo que hacer por mi es una forma de poner un limite. Espero algun dia mi mama se de cuenta y pida perdon y cambie de verdad.
Wow! This podcast has been the one that hit the most. Me encantó! Mándale saludos a Tu mami, Stacey! Se le quiere mucho Hermanas!
i needed to hear this today. Después de escuchar el poddy completo perdone a mi esposo por las fallas que tuvo y le pedí perdón de corazón por mis fallas. Sentí tanto alivio. con la oración voy a seguir sanando con el favor de Dios. Gracias Stacey y Doña Elisa ♥️
Thank you Stacey and Mom for this topic it helped a lot of us. ❤
Amen amen amen mama Eliza! Stacey again I love you and I’m straight forward also. You keep denying you don’t do that to your mom and you do exactly the topic of today to your mom. God can’t heal what you pretend is not hurting hermana. This was much needed for everyone. Blessings to you ladies♥️ las amo♥️
Never cried so much in a podcast. I really needed this. Thank you so much ladies. It truly touched me.
This really touched my heart! 😭😭❤️🤲🤲🤲
I needed this video today. I have found it so hard to forgive my partner for some indiscretions he had a few years ago. I have tried to put it pass me but it’s eating at my soul. This episode brought so much peace to my heart, that I can finally tell him I forgive him for all of it and we can just focus on us, our kids and our future. Thank you from the bottom of my heart
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It's easy as an agresor to say forgive me and get over it, but when things mark you forever, it's a battle of love and hurt.
Buenas tardes!! Gracias por Otro como se dise.. AmAZing video 😅💛
Thank you so much for this. God is speaking to me through you and you mom ❤ may god bless you for ever
Gracias por continuar las podcasts en español!
It helps so much to listen to the pods in Spanish to strengthen my Spanish!
Loved this podcast as someone in a relationship for 2 year now and it having been in the most character development relationship I’ve been in as a 26 year old woman. Understanding forgiveness, choosing love, and communication is so necessary!
Las amo! Ya’ll are my favorite wisdom queens.
LOVE IT IN SPANISH
Stacey pregnant sería…
Comentaste q le hablas a la cajita de cenizas a tu Papá.
Cuál es tu opinión en el tema de cuánto tiempo es lo correcto en tener una Urna ⚱️ en casa?
Tal ves mamá Eliza pueda darnos su opinión tambien gracias.
I love this so much. You girls are helping me on my healing journey.
I lost my dad 2 years ago.
This podcast has quickly become one of my favorites. Me encanta su relacion de mama e hija, and all the wisdom you both share. ❤
Y que si nunca te piden perdón… como se perdona sin tener el rencor.. y tener que seguir viendolos x ser familia
I think what your mom is trying to say is that she can acknowledge that she has hurt someone in the past and she can validate the person time and time again and apologize but so what she’s just suppose to keep apologizing for the rest of her life ? I don’t think it’s fair to continue to bring it up if you’ve chosen to forgive that person. I understand that everyone heals different but that’s why your mom said that she told her sister to take her time to heal from the situation so that this way they can progress
Yes, I had a similar situation with one of my siblings y igual, I apologized and my sibling said they had forgiven, but as time progressed it was as if they had not... it was sad and disappointing to see that her "I forgive you" was not from the heart, so no de Dientes para afuera because like la señora Elisa said, it takes A LOT to ask for forgiveness when we mess up (acknowledging our mistakes.) I guess from this podcast nd what God has revealed to me, is that she wasn't ready to forgive. Like I was ready to ask for forgiveness and move on from it, but she was not and a lot of factors can come in to play as to why she wasn't there yet. So a mi, at this point, me ah quedado pray and leave it to God. I feel the more we learn about God's forgiveness, we start to be free and liberated and honestly no busco su perdon, solo oro por su sanacion bc that is something that only God can bring to us. Knowing about God's forgiveness has allowed me to move fwd. And fun fact I learned that when you genuinely apologize to someone desde el fondo de tu corazon y la persona te niega el perdon for whatever reason, Jesus forgives you and in reality, it is what we all need-Jesus' forgiveness to live and keep going! Well just my humble opinion speaking from my personal experience. God bless!❤
Que bonito que tengan este podcast madre e hija xq you guys by talking about things you heal ❤ and we heal with you guys too because we can also have these types of talks with our loved ones 😊
❤ ahora me estaban llamando a mi! Y tengo mucho q ablar con Dios 🙏🏼
I love to see your mom enjoy doing this podcast! I really enjoy listening to your platicas💕
I truly believe forgiveness should be within you w/o person present bc it’s for you and no one else. Yes its important but some ppl don’t deserve or understand forgiveness and you will hurt yourself more.
Wow que hermoso podcast. Creo que todos en algún momento hemos tenido que perdonar de corazón. Que Dios nos ayude a perdonar a todas las personas que nos han herido y que nos de la manera de perdonar también.
Este año he ido aprendiendo a perdonar a mis padres y tratar de comprender que solo me están dando lo mejor que ellos saben y pueden darme emocionalmente.
Que paz me da escucharlas hablar semana tras semana. Gracias por compartir estas pláticas ❤️
un video que no Sabia que Necesitaba ❤
Oh man this hit home! Osea porque me hacen llorar! Primero a risa y risa porque escuchaba a SJ pero ya después nomas moquiando. Este año me comproto a trabajar en mi relación con mi mamá y poder pedir perdón y perdonarla aunque ella no me lo sepa pedir
No sabes lo que me encanta escuchar el testimonio de tu mamá. 💗 I’m in the same boat as your mom, I forgave but sometimes people just don’t change. 😭 can’t wait to finish this episode
Really needed this
I love this!
I think what doesn’t help is that we always want to be like before with that person that hurt us and that’s wrong. It’ll will never be the same. It doesn’t have to be bad but it will not be the same. We humans love to be the victims as well which is so wrong. We have to focus on the good of people and let go of that one time they hurt you.
Woowww ameeee este episodio que barbaroo❤
Very powerful podcast! ❤
I really want to forgive even tho I now I’ll never get a sorry for it because that person thinks they never did nothing wrong. Forgive and forget that’s all I want 😢
Staci, or your mom …have you ever been through a friendship breakup or betrayal? If you can talk about this topic. I know you spoke forgiving this episode
LOVEEE❤ YAY
We need you and your moms thoughts on the who tf did I marry TikTok thread for the next pod. 🙏🏻
I genuinely enjoy seeing your perspectives
Next episode! I’m gonna try to tell her about it. Theres just sm episodes to remember !
@@StaceyDiazApodaca send her the thread so she can catch up on her free time and she’ll be up to speed for the next pod 🫶🏼
Stacey y Doña Elisa, Please watch the movie fireproof and let us know your thoughts. ❤
I was super into the podcast and like 4 min I thought I heard my baby cry (he is napping) and I ran and he is KO then but it was your baby Santiago lollll
I humbly disagree with you Stacy. Cuando alguien trae algo al presente es porque no lo a sanado y porque los hábitos de esa persona que los dañó aún no an cambiado. Not because they want to be the victim o pobrecita de mi. Which they were the victim in the first place.
Same 😅
I believe when someone accepts an apology and then they continue to bring it up, and the other person has shown change, then the “victim” is not doing the necessary work within themselves to see the change in the “ofender”. I understand reassuring but at some point if the “victim” continues to bring the past up, perhaps a relationship is not possible. Forgiving doesn’t always mean continuing a relationship. No matter who it is.
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Mi mama era y sigue siendo de las personas que pegan cuando se desesperan y tengo 26 años. Sigo viviendo con ella porque sigo sanando y desaprendiendo la manera en la que fui creada. Yo me informe, lei, fui a terapia y cambie mi forma de ser porque no me gustaba la persona que fui por culpa del trauma que pase y sigo pasando. Me canse de hacerme la víctima me canse de gastar mi energia con su negatividad y toxicidad en la que maneja los problemas. Yo le e dicho a mi mama yo ya no te echo la culpa de nada mama porque entiendo que tu a mi edad talvez no tuviste las mismas herramientas que yo. Pues ya nimodo fue el pasado pero lo que no entiendo es porque sigues siendo de esa manera. Porque no puedes cambiar? el tu decirme perdon y no cambiar no me ayuda de nada. Estoy viviendo en constante depresion y ansiedad que esta afectando mi salud física y mi trabajo no tengo trabajo desde octubre porque todo me esta afectando. Hable en terapia sobre esto y le dije a la psiquiatra porfavor ayudeme a decirle a mi mama que me quiero ir a quedar con mi abuela unos meses para desestresarme y enfocarme en estudiar para poder volver a la escuela. Porque mi mama entra en modo victima diciendo que ella es la de la culpa de todo. Es algo que me duele pero es algo que tengo que hacer por mi es una forma de poner un limite. Espero algun dia mi mama se de cuenta y pida perdon y cambie de verdad.
La sangre si se divide y más cuando abusan de ti cuando no deben arruinan a sus hijos al hacer cosas así 😭