Thanks so much everyone for your kind words and showering loads of concern. We have a responsibility to spread awareness among us that’s the main motive of speaking up. Please take care of your love ones. Your time and protection will nurture them. Once again, thank you all.🙏
Hello sister, Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother or father or parents should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them. Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂
Feels like being a boy is a cursed in this generation Everyone looking around and says stay away from boys you don't know what they'll do because there Boys
It takes tons of courage to confess about it on this big platform. If people judge you for this then they are the cheap minds. Thank you for being open minded and i wish you good luck!
She have sex with him several times n how can u say that it's a rape? And yes I'm sure she might be already in class 8 or 9. Only boys have to be the victim?
Hello sister, Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother and parents who loves their sister should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them. Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂
People commenting why you slept on the same bed and that you should have screamed are so ridiculous. She was clearly very young plus no prior knowledge about this subject, also most of the kids during those times had no one to teach them about bad touch. Hence, scared, confused, shocked and ashamed were among the emotions she was probably experiencing during that unimaginable time. Why share this now some asked? Well, she is a grown up now with a lot more knowledge and courage. She can fully comprehend what she went through as a child in her own grandparent’s house!!! I am so sorry you went through this trauma, but applaud you for being the bravest among all. Stay strong. ❤❤❤❤❤
She was enjoying too maybe or she fell for money ... because speaking in youtube infront of the world n can't shout/scream at that time ... don't do for fame sisters it's a shame go to police station n report.
It literally boils my blood to even hear how he being ur cousin have the audacity thick skin monster , disgusting Disgusting… stay strong u ain’t in fault u were young, so so proud of you for being vocal ❤
On that time I was your teacher at your school. I couldn’t imagine such incidents happening to you on that time. You are best student in your class, I still recall your achievement in school. I am so sorry for you. Take care 🎉
You are not alone. Many of us are involved with being raped.i am happy you speak up. There are many who still not able to face themselves from the bad experiences they had. I am glad you could take it out from your chest. Hoping you will heal with time. And much respect for you . 🙏🏻 your speaking up would open up eyes for many parents and spread awareness for young girls and women too. Love you and huge respect 🫡
I have never seen any girls talking about this kind of situation in youtube..honestly I have been through the same thing from my closest one .its not easy to be a women but I fought back and so my relationship with both my parents side are not good but Im very proud of myself to how I handled those situations and I still tell my sister and my close ones to be strong enough to handle such situations,I consider myself very very strong women.learn to fight back learn to stand for yourself thats how you're gonna teach or aware your children and people around you .
Bringing the two family to the opposite polar is not good. You should have stop the situation at first place and safe your families that's how you will be called strong.
Most of girls face this kind situation in their young age, i think parents are responsible for this , they should take care of theirs kids and understand , i hope after watching this video upcoming parents will understand well and take care of it
@@Hingnaeatandvlog and u r also a video creator You didn't learn how to talk with strangers i thought video creators will know about such things but u are spoiling reputation of youtubers bro just go and get some education of manner and decipline i hope u understood what i mean
Never ever trust anyone if it’s comes with kids. I never trust cousins & relatives. Humans mind made the world so dirty. Parents should take responsibility on this.
I hope this wont happened to anyone.u r brave enough to explain the incident to those who have been through n rise their voices to get the justice.stay strong
Feeling sorry for u dear😔that's the bitter truth of our society. From the inner core of my heart I appreciate for ur brave and courageous step👏. I hope that each Individuals specially girls, parents will gain good awareness knowledge from this video.May God bless you each single day dear sister. Whenever I see this kinda videos, my eyes are filled wid tears automatically.😭. My prayers will always be wid u. Tc sister , lots of love from ITANAGAR.⭐⭐💫💫💫✨💛WISH U AllTHE VERY BEST FOR UR FUTURE AHEAD.
I know it’s a really bad thing what happened to you as a kid, that’s the age where kids are the most vulnerable. As a kids many of us has been molested by the people who we know very well within our relatives. It’s our elders responsibility to understand who they leave their kids. This world is never safe for kids, girls, women and even boys and men these days. Parents or our guardians shouldn’t trust their kids with anybody. I understand and I very happy that you are able to speak even if it after many years. I’m with you. You should really expose his name too. Go on, I’m with you
Even if you tell your mom she won't take it seriously , they are older generation so they won't show how sorry they felt and won't hug u with guilt and anger , they will be like ' yea what can be done they are dead already why didn't you tell us earlier '. But while we are growing there is so much happening in our mind ..our focus is only when we can go out and play and studies occupies our mind too so we tend to forget but as u grow u learn about good touch and bad touch and by 20s all those incident comes to ur mind it flashes right infront of ur eyes ..clear pictures even of those times when u're very young 3-8 Its like all the memories coming back after long time memory loss.
What had happened to you was unacceptable. I am sorry you couldn’t speak up yourself when you are little. Thanks for sharing your story. I will watch for our loves ones closely.
You are so brave. Thank you for sharing. Those of us who have been through this feel less alone because we've spent years internalizing the shame and guilt which wasn't even our fault
I should say you are brave woman because you have shared the feeling of what actually happened. Since, many of the people don't even have a guts to come up and they are having depression all of their life's.. New subscriber my sister ❣️❣️❣️❣️
i wish i can give you a hug 🫂 it takes so much courage to speak about your trauma.you’re so strong.i hope you heal from this incident soon even if it’s pretty hard to forget . people wonder why we choose bear over a boy this is the reason!! sending you positive vibes and energy. ❤❤
I am so sorry to hear what you went through… I hope you get justice and I pray the perpetrator be punished for his hideous crime… it takes a lot of courage for anyone esp women to speak the unimaginable that’s happened to them… I pray you heal from this horror 😢
I was 9 years old when I was raped several times by two cousin brothers individual at that time I didn't even know what intimate thing was called I had no idea what they were doing to me I was just a helpless kid that time only after years later I realized what they hv done to me and I felt so disgusted and very Hurtbroken I was detached with everyone nobody in my family knows about this nor any of my friends knows about this I hv never shared this thing since I'm afraid they will take me in a disgusting way but seeing this video I felt like telling it.
Thank you so much for sharing with us and believing on us. You are courageous and I really appreciate your bravery. It is not too late to share. The perpetrators will face the consequences. May they realise their crimes and rest god is there to punish them.
My god 😞. I couldn’t believe such bad things happened to u my dear old friend zompa, god how could a cousin who shares same blood line can do that to u , I pray may karma hit him badly, may god give him wisdom to understand the grave mistake he made . U are and was one of the bravest n strongest girl I kno zompa . Fighting don’t forget what ever happens ur frends are here for u
Tashi Delek to Karma Zompa lak. You look’s so simple and really kind hearted. Its so difficult time in school going time. Cousin so bad. He is Bhuddisium and he knows all the Gewa Ten and megewa sixteen. He is soo sinful. Really he should be alive in the Tibetan community. I never heard like this happened in Tibetan community. Your cousin is really sinful person. Actually your cousin has not aloud to merry to any girl. Why he has a bad manner, nobody knows. Now the his bad actions sure get punishment. Please take good care of yourself. You are educated and try to further studies and try help girls child of future advisor needs. Thank you so. much. And now all the parents and grandparents try to save girl child innocent please.
I am sorry you had to go through this and this incident has scarred your life. But this video will be a slap on his face. Also I see lots of insensitive comments here by people. They are asking you to speak in Tibetan while themselves commenting in English. Rather than focusing on the topic, these idiots are focusing elsewhere. 🤦♂️
Our society is full of pedophile & womanizer but you will often find their picture with H.H. Many of us don’t practice the true meaning and teachings Buddha dharma. It’s really heart wrenching to witness & hearing these her plea & stories. Some people feel proud doing such as if they did something great when they themselves have daughter at home. Human ignorance & lust blinded their moral. Thanks for sharing your story , I hope you don’t get PTSD or stuck in past but if possible do FIR if you are in India. Such culprit shouldn’t be spared. I have heard so many stories like yours. Our Society is not white as we believe.
So sorry for you. I Can't imagine how cruel and suffocating it was. But i appreciate your courage to go vocal on the incident.. I Hope he get his KARMA served. Stay strong Sister, Keep Growing.
I feel so sorry for you for what happened to you and I really wished that you will heal from this and be free from this trauma. I really wished you the best for Ur future
You're truly a bold person inspite of all the incidents but with the audacity you could share in this kind of platform are very rare yet truly inspiring. You're a woman of courage Be not intimidated Be of heart And move on You have a better days coming ahead of you You deserve the best God bless!
I feel very sorry for u dear i also suffer at my young age one man sice he was not happy with his wife ...he approach me i was young he gives me food and give a good talk i dont know how he just molested me easily that way.....i was suffering inside i never share anyone coz i thought that it would be shame 😢😢be brave n move forward in life
I know in our community so many Tsseeekyo, molester, rapist are there. So sorry for this horrible incident. Good that you spoke out. You have no lump feeling in your heart. I know you still have difficulties. Dear try to be pray mantras. Actially i still see siblings, to father, son they are hugging and kissing like lovers do. Thats why within family such incident happens
Brave girl, so sorry to hear that .i can feel the trauma you had so far ' the darkest years of life'...but knowingly why did you go when your cousin invited at his place on the third time aside 😞 anyways thanks for disclosing your testimony to the world its very educative.... God has given us the power of forgiveness 🙏 i wish your cousin a good luck deserve his own KARMA😢 kindly expose him to satisfy the pain you had then & now. praying for you dear🙏
Man this is so sad she carried this burden all this year without able to shared to anyone Poor soul I pray God that u heal from all those horrible past ❤
Sister were all with you...we love you and never back down or never feel low on yourself coz the world is with you and we're against that monster and we'd like you to expose his identity and disclose this incident more to your loved ones dear ones far and near ones💪🏻♥️
Expressing your infant misconduct still lies in your heart makes him too feel at this maturity stage of regression as I believed . Your sharing will eventually educate younger generations and particularly parents and grand parents if they are watching your video.
We should teach our young girls to speak up when something like this happens and teach them good touch bad touch from young age. Let’s not hesitate to teach them about sex or sexual abuse from young age. Let’s teach our young boys to treat women with respect and how they should behave with them. It’s our responsibility as a parent. I feel sorry for u but sharing this needs even more strength so kudos to u.
Wow... some are even saying it's not rape since she didn't scream or stop her cousin. She was a small child!!!!! Any physical relationship with a child is called a RAPE!
it's very important to let your kids know about bad touch. educating them is very important. we can't trust anyone. please educate your kids and protect them
i wish this will never happen to any others ever and i specially pay you a gratitude to stepping forward with such a courage which will help to change many unfold real incident of of an innocents who still carry such a weight in their hearts .thank you and i humbly wants to wish you carry on the message for the many others and GOOD LUCK
Thank you for ur bravery... This will encourage many other NE women to come out n save our girls.... There's sooo many such cases existing.. even parents turn their heads on their own daughter in the name of having a good relation with kins and shame to society..... It creates a big trauma for the girls n it the worst thing that can happen.. u r sooo brave god bless u
You had turn into such a strong and courages woman now. So, its never late to fight against with your cousin. Don't feel low and keep your head high. Good wishes from Bhutan 🇧🇹
That is why you should never leave your children with grandparents, uncles, cousins and guests, especially if they are men. And parents should always keep their children close to them and never leave their children with other people and never ever separate in the early parts of their lives. I’m so sorry that you were a victim of this heinous thing called sexual assault in the early part of your life.. The only fault goes to the perpetrator and you are a survivor sis.. Shame on those on the comment sections who said it was consensual and all that disgusting and victim-blaming BS, I bet they had committed such acts themselves to others including minors. Lastly, thank you for spreading awareness regarding this very important issue that is prevalent everywhere around the world even in our community. I hope metoo movement is back in our community to make sure these disgusting crimes never happen and educate the boys and men. Again, I’m deeply sorry that it had happened to you and pray that it never happens to anybody else. With love and prayers … 🥺🙏🏽📿
Your cousin is arrogant he even treat you like this 😢 you should upload your cousin photo you don't have to be scared of upload his photo stay strong be brave.. he wìll get what he did later.. full support sister💪💪
😢😢no words to express how i feel after watching ur video😢u have gone through lots..God bless u...Sister u can even register an FIR now 🙏 please do it 😢 please 🥺🥺 im from Sikkim gangtok i feel so bad 😞... please don't let him go please 😭 i know u have lots of social barriers... don't consider him just because he is ur Cousin
Oh my dear, I am sorry you went through this horrible act at a very young age, still a child. I could not imagine how scared and alone you must have felt. You seemed to have found some kind of peace within you and found strength to share your bad experiences in order to help others. Only people with pure hearts and courages can speak up and make awareness. I really hope you will be loved truelly by the people in your life. Wish you a wonderful life . A lot of love and well wishes from Denmark ❤❤❤
I wish you love and healing. And appreciate you for your courage. It may not be easy to share your story with the world. This will encourage more girls to be brave.
Ohhh my poor child😂, l am so sorry to hear your story, but am impressed with your courage. I can imagine how hard it myst have been to decide sharing this story, by doing this, you are helping, supporting and inspiring many other victims. Much love❤❤❤
My heart felt concern and appreciations of your compassion for everyone. May lord Buddha bless you ever more. And give you more confidence to overcome this big hurdle in your life. ❤
You fool ! Don't you know she has the biggest family members globally now. You hypocrite, instead of encouraging and helping her, you did this to her. Shit !? We ought to support one another, especially the poor and weak victims. No ?
One thing, obviously if you deny that moment am sure that your cousin won't able to make a physical relationship between you and him. But' you allow him to contact body to body . Definitely, sleeping together on one bed next to your grandparents room it will not easy to involved physical relationship between you ' unless and until you deserved. but' it was not happened like that, incase if you warnt him to scream and shout he might not forced you. Directly or indirectly. But, you also concerned on him.... anyway I apologise if my words hurts you and thank you sis and God be bless you with more knowledge and wisdom in the mere future to come 🙏
First time she didn't understand what happened with her but twice thrice time Nowu blamed own person u didn't say I were wrong so 50-50 partnership there was ur message gud but don't blames directly own attention own safety
Sharing beds with cousins, brothers, sisters and even sometimes distant relatives is one of the worst practices that our tribals people followed. I hope people will be aware of all such things and they'll be more careful.
You’re so brave to share your story over here, this kind of thing happens to most of children and young girls so i request please dear parents and family member to takecare and talk with your children about bad touch and bad things🙏🏼 there are lots of children who are being sexually harassed and being a girl its hard to speak up but still take your stand and talk to your parents or family to punish the victim so that they will never do it again ❤ please be safe everyone 🤍
First of all appreciating you for your kindness and honesty words speaking, sharing all this frankly words in social media for awareness neither to motivate all the women who can follow your motivational thoughts and words or to avoid all this incidents which can be approached to them. Apart from that I have one suggestion although it already a decade or maybe a years ago. On that day of the incident what had happened to you was twice, well you was once done by force which you can't avoid as you was a young girl on those days but then you can refuse to slept twice with him in same room or on a bed that's your fault as of my observation because I can feel you how you'd feel once it was done in that situation but I can't blame you at the same time it's all about your grand parents fault they don't have brains and feelings to think or to feel, inside their brain might be there's a cow dung,what a ridiculous... whatever happens it has already happened we can't go back twice in the past so just let it go from your mind as it has been past away so you don't get stressed nor exhausted. Sister hopefully you're doing well right now and you got heal by the words of publics who supported and feel for you lastly thanking you for your kindness and honesty..stay strong stay bless 💓🙏
It’s not ur fault at all n it’s very brave enough to speak up. So don’t listen to negative comments. Ur story might inspire and helpful to someone. So thank you and god bless u
May the almighty heal your broken heart and soul..and Give you power to overcome all your horrible experience in the past...we will be with you in our prayers
It happen with me also .... He was my cousin too (but auncle) I couldn't even speak up .....I've told my family...but I'm not close with my uncle .......... Those traumas kept me silent
Girl you are so amazing, just the way you are…. So sad. Good luck next time, be alert every moment. Thanks God, that you are alive. Take care urself. 🫸🏻🥴
Thankyou sister for sharing you are such a strong woman. And yeah don't be worry not you but God see everything and he will really punish him for his sin
If you think this is bad than you should not go to his room to watch movie . But actually you did and you are thr still 11 or 12 at night. So it is simple that you are giving chance to do again sis.
Don't you know Tibetan language? The one who did wrong to you is a Tibetan.... Many Tibetans think that such incidents happen only in other communities but not in Tibetan community.. ...Since it is happening in the Tibetan community also, it is important to spread the awareness on this issue to the Tibetan people too...But, it could be possible only if you speak in their language...
You are a brave girl , rarest of rare , a girl / women of present generation , today's society need you to educate innocent girl childs keeping aware of situation for security of all women and girls 👍🙏
Sister sorry to hear your painful ancident but anyway thank you so much for sharing all those things happened to you bad people never left unpunished you knew very well that every dog had has day 🎉
@@nervy7823 lol barking to yourself _ r u getting invay? Or did I done any sentiment which goona hurt you? Shame on u_ don't judge other for no reason. Teach that to ur father or mother
M sorry for the bad experience you have experienced but you should muster courage to expose his name so as to give justice to yourself. Be bold my dear sister.
It's very sad and ashamed to hear being asulted by your own cousin what a mindset he has to do this dirty things with his own sister I'm very happy that u speak out in front of the whole w world don't fear to stand on your own rights be bold and courage may hold help you sis 🙏
She might loss her voice at that time.... Who knows she might have some kind of feelings towards him too... This can't be called rape... Seeking for support behind 🤪
I know how it feels to be vulnerable without knowing a knowledge of bad touch feeling not helpful whn bad things is happening with us I hope i could share tht things but hiding those things from many years its hunting within me 😓
Thanks so much everyone for your kind words and showering loads of concern. We have a responsibility to spread awareness among us that’s the main motive of speaking up. Please take care of your love ones. Your time and protection will nurture them. Once again, thank you all.🙏
Hello sister,
Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother or father or parents should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them.
Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂
Sis You are from Arunachal Pradesh?😢😢God give you thousand strength.
Feels like being a boy is a cursed in this generation
Everyone looking around and says stay away from boys you don't know what they'll do because there
Boys
Great awareness Sister I appreciate you.
N I love you❤👍
Strong girl, very strong 👏
It takes tons of courage to confess about it on this big platform.
If people judge you for this then they are the cheap minds.
Thank you for being open minded and i wish you good luck!
You are one brave young woman. I hope you find a peace with your past. Sending you lots of healing power. ❤
She have sex with him several times n how can u say that it's a rape? And yes I'm sure she might be already in class 8 or 9. Only boys have to be the victim?
Hello sister,
Thanks for sharing your story. People used to think that rape are only from strangers. But it's not. I am a lawyer and i read lot of cases related to rape and i find that many of the rape cases happen within the family and relatives... Because in most cases the uncles or uncles friend or cousins cousins friend Or those people we know as friends are the perpetrators. That's why we need to be extra careful about young girls who don't know yet. Every brother and parents who loves their sister should be aware of this and protect their sister. Once it happens the shame and hurt will break them.
Sister you are such a strong girl, you didn't do anything wrong. You have speak up on behalf of many victims like you. I fully support you. I will remember you in my prayer. I hope you will find peace and love. Your message will bring lot of awareness. Really thanks for sharing. 🙂🙂
it can be ur own brother also
People commenting why you slept on the same bed and that you should have screamed are so ridiculous. She was clearly very young plus no prior knowledge about this subject, also most of the kids during those times had no one to teach them about bad touch. Hence, scared, confused, shocked and ashamed were among the emotions she was probably experiencing during that unimaginable time. Why share this now some asked? Well, she is a grown up now with a lot more knowledge and courage. She can fully comprehend what she went through as a child in her own grandparent’s house!!! I am so sorry you went through this trauma, but applaud you for being the bravest among all. Stay strong. ❤❤❤❤❤
Yep😮
Ladies sharing same bed with gents is very risky' naturally 90% chance of happening 'so be strong don't worry carry on your life.
Yeah but I didn’t watched it fully
Is it harassment or actual rape?
Nope I'm a male i do share bed bet I don't do stuff like this@@dangjungsalnang8190
She was enjoying too maybe or she fell for money ... because speaking in youtube infront of the world n can't shout/scream at that time ... don't do for fame sisters it's a shame go to police station n report.
It literally boils my blood to even hear how he being ur cousin have the audacity thick skin monster , disgusting Disgusting… stay strong u ain’t in fault u were young, so so proud of you for being vocal ❤
Sound good
On that time I was your teacher at your school. I couldn’t imagine such incidents happening to you on that time. You are best student in your class, I still recall your achievement in school. I am so sorry for you. Take care 🎉
Are you in China occupied Tibet
This is so painful.... I request to each and every parents kindly enlightened your children....
I’m sorry that you had to go through this pain. I’m hoping and praying for you that you get justice and heal 🙏🏻 Love from 🇳🇵🇺🇸❤️
You are not alone. Many of us are involved with being raped.i am happy you speak up. There are many who still not able to face themselves from the bad experiences they had. I am glad you could take it out from your chest. Hoping you will heal with time. And much respect for you . 🙏🏻 your speaking up would open up eyes for many parents and spread awareness for young girls and women too. Love you and huge respect 🫡
U r not alone… there’s many incidents Tibetan child who are raped by Indian caretakers… and sadly even our own Tibetan hostel pala …
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I guess u also have the same incident like her
@@Hii..Masumch ua-cam.com/video/-RYi-wiH6UY/v-deo.htmlsi=LVE52_n7bn1aUeLe 🙏🏻
I have never seen any girls talking about this kind of situation in youtube..honestly I have been through the same thing from my closest one .its not easy to be a women but I fought back and so my relationship with both my parents side are not good but Im very proud of myself to how I handled those situations and I still tell my sister and my close ones to be strong enough to handle such situations,I consider myself very very strong women.learn to fight back learn to stand for yourself thats how you're gonna teach or aware your children and people around you .
Bringing the two family to the opposite polar is not good. You should have stop the situation at first place and safe your families that's how you will be called strong.
Most of girls face this kind situation in their young age, i think parents are responsible for this , they should take care of theirs kids and understand , i hope after watching this video upcoming parents will understand well and take care of it
You are meitei i hope u know what i mean
@@Hingnaeatandvlog and u r also a video creator You didn't learn how to talk with strangers i thought video creators will know about such things but u are spoiling reputation of youtubers bro just go and get some education of manner and decipline i hope u understood what i mean
@@Josen-nabam-officials why so butthurt dear ?
@@Hingnaeatandvlog why did u called me meitei ? Without knowing me ??
@@Hingnaeatandvlog shut up your mouth nonsense people
sorry to hear. thanks for this awareness...from Rhuben, Malaysia
Never ever trust anyone if it’s comes with kids. I never trust cousins & relatives. Humans mind made the world so dirty. Parents should take responsibility on this.
True💀
I hope this wont happened to anyone.u r brave enough to explain the incident to those who have been through n rise their voices to get the justice.stay strong
Feeling sorry for u dear😔that's the bitter truth of our society. From the inner core of my heart I appreciate for ur brave and courageous step👏. I hope that each Individuals specially girls, parents will gain good awareness knowledge from this video.May God bless you each single day dear sister. Whenever I see this kinda videos, my eyes are filled wid tears automatically.😭. My prayers will always be wid u.
Tc sister , lots of love from ITANAGAR.⭐⭐💫💫💫✨💛WISH U AllTHE VERY BEST FOR UR FUTURE AHEAD.
Be courageous. This can help many to come up and speak out. Cheers to your courage and keep encouraging others 🌸🙏🏼
I know it’s a really bad thing what happened to you as a kid, that’s the age where kids are the most vulnerable. As a kids many of us has been molested by the people who we know very well within our relatives. It’s our elders responsibility to understand who they leave their kids. This world is never safe for kids, girls, women and even boys and men these days. Parents or our guardians shouldn’t trust their kids with anybody. I understand and I very happy that you are able to speak even if it after many years. I’m with you. You should really expose his name too. Go on, I’m with you
Even if you tell your mom she won't take it seriously , they are older generation so they won't show how sorry they felt and won't hug u with guilt and anger , they will be like ' yea what can be done they are dead already why didn't you tell us earlier '. But while we are growing there is so much happening in our mind ..our focus is only when we can go out and play and studies occupies our mind too so we tend to forget but as u grow u learn about good touch and bad touch and by 20s all those incident comes to ur mind it flashes right infront of ur eyes ..clear pictures even of those times when u're very young 3-8 Its like all the memories coming back after long time memory loss.
What had happened to you was unacceptable. I am sorry you couldn’t speak up yourself when you are little. Thanks for sharing your story. I will watch for our loves ones closely.
You are so brave. Thank you for sharing. Those of us who have been through this feel less alone because we've spent years internalizing the shame and guilt which wasn't even our fault
I should say you are brave woman because you have shared the feeling of what actually happened. Since, many of the people don't even have a guts to come up and they are having depression all of their life's.. New subscriber my sister ❣️❣️❣️❣️
i wish i can give you a hug 🫂
it takes so much courage to speak about your trauma.you’re so strong.i hope you heal from this incident soon even if it’s pretty hard to forget . people wonder why we choose bear over a boy this is the reason!! sending you positive vibes and energy. ❤❤
I am so sorry to hear what you went through… I hope you get justice and I pray the perpetrator be punished for his hideous crime… it takes a lot of courage for anyone esp women to speak the unimaginable that’s happened to them… I pray you heal from this horror 😢
Screaming is first step to save.
Wow! Hats off to you...only courage girl can share and confess in the social media....Sis forget the past and look forward for the bright future 😢
I was 9 years old when I was raped several times by two cousin brothers individual at that time I didn't even know what intimate thing was called I had no idea what they were doing to me I was just a helpless kid that time only after years later I realized what they hv done to me and I felt so disgusted and very Hurtbroken I was detached with everyone nobody in my family knows about this nor any of my friends knows about this I hv never shared this thing since I'm afraid they will take me in a disgusting way but seeing this video I felt like telling it.
Thank you so much for sharing with us and believing on us. You are courageous and I really appreciate your bravery. It is not too late to share. The perpetrators will face the consequences. May they realise their crimes and rest god is there to punish them.
Good on you that you are strong enough to share it and to educate others. Know that you are not to be blamed…. Take care.
My god 😞. I couldn’t believe such bad things happened to u my dear old friend zompa, god how could a cousin who shares same blood line can do that to u , I pray may karma hit him badly, may god give him wisdom to understand the grave mistake he made .
U are and was one of the bravest n strongest girl I kno zompa . Fighting don’t forget what ever happens ur frends are here for u
Tashi Delek to Karma Zompa lak. You look’s so simple and really kind hearted. Its so difficult time in school going time. Cousin so bad. He is Bhuddisium and he knows all the Gewa Ten and megewa sixteen. He is soo sinful. Really he should be alive in the Tibetan community. I never heard like this happened in Tibetan community. Your cousin is really sinful person. Actually your cousin has not aloud to merry to any girl. Why he has a bad manner, nobody knows. Now the his bad actions sure get punishment. Please take good care of yourself. You are educated and try to further studies and try help girls child of future advisor needs. Thank you so. much. And now all the parents and grandparents try to save girl child innocent please.
I am sorry you had to go through this and this incident has scarred your life. But this video will be a slap on his face. Also I see lots of insensitive comments here by people. They are asking you to speak in Tibetan while themselves commenting in English. Rather than focusing on the topic, these idiots are focusing elsewhere. 🤦♂️
Absolutely right. She is being honest and making awareness to young girls. No one in allowed touch young girls . Shame on this kind of people.
Everyone should scream scream scream loudly 😢in such situations 😢and let everyone hear it…
Yep😢
Our society is full of pedophile & womanizer but you will often find their picture with H.H. Many of us don’t practice the true meaning and teachings Buddha dharma. It’s really heart wrenching to witness & hearing these her plea & stories. Some people feel proud doing such as if they did something great when they themselves have daughter at home. Human ignorance & lust blinded their moral. Thanks for sharing your story , I hope you don’t get PTSD or stuck in past but if possible do FIR if you are in India. Such culprit shouldn’t be spared. I have heard so many stories like yours. Our Society is not white as we believe.
We can feel ur pain sis..ur braveness will lead ur way... have faith in the lord ..ask god anything u deserve.
You are incredibly brave for sharing your story. Your strength and courage are truly inspiring. Sending you love and support always.
So sorry for you. I Can't imagine how cruel and suffocating it was.
But i appreciate your courage to go vocal on the incident.. I Hope he get his KARMA
served. Stay strong Sister, Keep Growing.
I feel so sorry for you for what happened to you and I really wished that you will heal from this and be free from this trauma. I really wished you the best for Ur future
You're truly a bold person inspite of all the incidents but with the audacity you could share in this kind of platform are very rare yet truly inspiring.
You're a woman of courage
Be not intimidated
Be of heart
And move on
You have a better days coming ahead of you
You deserve the best
God bless!
I feel so sorry for you, may god bless you.
More power to you!
I feel very sorry for u dear i also suffer at my young age one man sice he was not happy with his wife ...he approach me i was young he gives me food and give a good talk i dont know how he just molested me easily that way.....i was suffering inside i never share anyone coz i thought that it would be shame 😢😢be brave n move forward in life
We understand your feeling & we are with you !
I know in our community so many Tsseeekyo, molester, rapist are there. So sorry for this horrible incident. Good that you spoke out. You have no lump feeling in your heart. I know you still have difficulties. Dear try to be pray mantras.
Actially i still see siblings, to father, son they are hugging and kissing like lovers do. Thats why within family such incident happens
Brave girl, so sorry to hear that .i can feel the trauma you had so far ' the darkest years of life'...but knowingly why did you go when your cousin invited at his place on the third time aside 😞 anyways thanks for disclosing your testimony to the world its very educative.... God has given us the power of forgiveness 🙏 i wish your cousin a good luck deserve his own KARMA😢 kindly expose him to satisfy the pain you had then & now. praying for you dear🙏
I'm so sorry sister. Even in our places such things happen a lot.
Man this is so sad she carried this burden all this year without able to shared to anyone Poor soul I pray God that u heal from all those horrible past ❤
Sister were all with you...we love you and never back down or never feel low on yourself coz the world is with you and we're against that monster and we'd like you to expose his identity and disclose this incident more to your loved ones dear ones far and near ones💪🏻♥️
Expressing your infant misconduct still lies in your heart makes him too feel at this maturity stage of regression as I believed .
Your sharing will eventually educate younger generations and particularly parents and grand parents if they are watching your video.
You are one strong girl 💪🏼 It's gud tht u showed ur bravery..Well done and Tc sister..
I am sure there are many who faced the same in our society but they don’t speak up.
We should teach our young girls to speak up when something like this happens and teach them good touch bad touch from young age. Let’s not hesitate to teach them about sex or sexual abuse from young age. Let’s teach our young boys to treat women with respect and how they should behave with them. It’s our responsibility as a parent. I feel sorry for u but sharing this needs even more strength so kudos to u.
Wow... some are even saying it's not rape since she didn't scream or stop her cousin. She was a small child!!!!! Any physical relationship with a child is called a RAPE!
it's very important to let your kids know about bad touch. educating them is very important. we can't trust anyone. please educate your kids and protect them
Thank you for the courageous to speak out the incident. God bless you my child.
i wish this will never happen to any others ever and i specially pay you a gratitude to stepping forward with such a courage which will help to change many unfold real incident of of an innocents who still carry such a weight in their hearts .thank you and i humbly wants to wish you carry on the message for the many others and GOOD LUCK
Thank you for ur bravery... This will encourage many other NE women to come out n save our girls.... There's sooo many such cases existing.. even parents turn their heads on their own daughter in the name of having a good relation with kins and shame to society..... It creates a big trauma for the girls n it the worst thing that can happen.. u r sooo brave god bless u
You are one of the strongest lady to speak up about your horrible past
You had turn into such a strong and courages woman now. So, its never late to fight against with your cousin. Don't feel low and keep your head high. Good wishes from Bhutan 🇧🇹
That is why you should never leave your children with grandparents, uncles, cousins and guests, especially if they are men. And parents should always keep their children close to them and never leave their children with other people and never ever separate in the early parts of their lives. I’m so sorry that you were a victim of this heinous thing called sexual assault in the early part of your life.. The only fault goes to the perpetrator and you are a survivor sis.. Shame on those on the comment sections who said it was consensual and all that disgusting and victim-blaming BS, I bet they had committed such acts themselves to others including minors. Lastly, thank you for spreading awareness regarding this very important issue that is prevalent everywhere around the world even in our community. I hope metoo movement is back in our community to make sure these disgusting crimes never happen and educate the boys and men. Again, I’m deeply sorry that it had happened to you and pray that it never happens to anybody else. With love and prayers … 🥺🙏🏽📿
You are strong enough to share it now... The culprit must be horrified now.. he should be pleaded guilty and should be punished.
Your cousin is arrogant he even treat you like this 😢 you should upload your cousin photo you don't have to be scared of upload his photo stay strong be brave.. he wìll get what he did later.. full support sister💪💪
😢😢no words to express how i feel after watching ur video😢u have gone through lots..God bless u...Sister u can even register an FIR now 🙏 please do it 😢 please 🥺🥺 im from Sikkim gangtok i feel so bad 😞... please don't let him go please 😭 i know u have lots of social barriers... don't consider him just because he is ur Cousin
Oh my dear, I am sorry you went through this horrible act at a very young age, still a child. I could not imagine how scared and alone you must have felt.
You seemed to have found some kind of peace within you and found strength to share your bad experiences in order to help others. Only people with pure hearts and courages can speak up and make awareness. I really hope you will be loved truelly by the people in your life. Wish you a wonderful life . A lot of love and well wishes from Denmark ❤❤❤
I wish you love and healing. And appreciate you for your courage. It may not be easy to share your story with the world. This will encourage more girls to be brave.
Ohhh my poor child😂, l am so sorry to hear your story, but am impressed with your courage. I can imagine how hard it myst have been to decide sharing this story, by doing this, you are helping, supporting and inspiring many other victims.
Much love❤❤❤
Why that laughing emoji
💀
She looks someone not used to emojis 💀@@Dang_it_99999
So true that laughing emoji looks insulting to her trauma telling...better learn how and where to use emoji first
Please stand strong. My gratitude with you. Love from Indian from UK 💗
You are brave and honest. May God forgive you.
Feeling so sad for this but I know u r so brave nd my support is always with u dea❤
My heart felt concern and appreciations of your compassion for everyone. May lord Buddha bless you ever more. And give you more confidence to overcome this big hurdle in your life. ❤
Brave girl, we are proud of you. Hope your life goes well forever. Tashi Delek🙏
You should talk about this with your family. Not social media.
You fool ! Don't you know she has the biggest family members globally now. You hypocrite, instead of encouraging and helping her, you did this to her. Shit !?
We ought to support one another, especially the poor and weak victims. No ?
😢look first ,she took a decision ,thats a bif deal ,and she wants to let the culprit know that she stills remember, first understand then reply
@@Peniba yes, 💯I agree with you
@@Peniba what a shameless family!
It happened years back so it doesn’t matter any way now family won’t do anything but blame it on you
M so sorry for such incidence and be strong my dear sas
One thing, obviously if you deny that moment am sure that your cousin won't able to make a physical relationship between you and him.
But' you allow him to contact body to body .
Definitely, sleeping together on one bed next to your grandparents room it will not easy to involved physical relationship between you ' unless and until you deserved.
but' it was not happened like that, incase if you warnt him to scream and shout he might not forced you. Directly or indirectly.
But, you also concerned on him.... anyway I apologise if my words hurts you and thank you sis and God be bless you with more knowledge and wisdom in the mere future to come 🙏
True
Same thought....
First time she didn't understand what happened with her but twice thrice time
Nowu blamed own person u didn't say I were wrong so 50-50 partnership there was ur message gud but don't blames directly own attention own safety
I don't think it was a rape act....
That absolutely true
Sharing beds with cousins, brothers, sisters and even sometimes distant relatives is one of the worst practices that our tribals people followed. I hope people will be aware of all such things and they'll be more careful.
You’re so brave to share your story over here, this kind of thing happens to most of children and young girls so i request please dear parents and family member to takecare and talk with your children about bad touch and bad things🙏🏼 there are lots of children who are being sexually harassed and being a girl its hard to speak up but still take your stand and talk to your parents or family to punish the victim so that they will never do it again ❤ please be safe everyone 🤍
First of all appreciating you for your kindness and honesty words speaking, sharing all this frankly words in social media for awareness neither to motivate all the women who can follow your motivational thoughts and words or to avoid all this incidents which can be approached to them. Apart from that I have one suggestion although it already a decade or maybe a years ago. On that day of the incident what had happened to you was twice, well you was once done by force which you can't avoid as you was a young girl on those days but then you can refuse to slept twice with him in same room or on a bed that's your fault as of my observation because I can feel you how you'd feel once it was done in that situation but I can't blame you at the same time it's all about your grand parents fault they don't have brains and feelings to think or to feel, inside their brain might be there's a cow dung,what a ridiculous... whatever happens it has already happened we can't go back twice in the past so just let it go from your mind as it has been past away so you don't get stressed nor exhausted. Sister hopefully you're doing well right now and you got heal by the words of publics who supported and feel for you lastly thanking you for your kindness and honesty..stay strong stay bless 💓🙏
It’s not ur fault at all n it’s very brave enough to speak up. So don’t listen to negative comments. Ur story might inspire and helpful to someone. So thank you and god bless u
Now you are strong and courageous so express everything that is on your mind, whatever it maybe bad or gud u should share with the peoples
It is sad to read the comments of people with poor conscience.
May the almighty heal your broken heart and soul..and Give you power to overcome all your horrible experience in the past...we will be with you in our prayers
U r really strong Women with good heart…I can‘t imagine to forgive someone who does such hurtful, disgusting things….
It happen with me also ....
He was my cousin too (but auncle)
I couldn't even speak up .....I've told my family...but I'm not close with my uncle ..........
Those traumas kept me silent
Girl you are so amazing, just the way you are…. So sad. Good luck next time, be alert every moment. Thanks God, that you are alive. Take care urself. 🫸🏻🥴
Thankyou sister for sharing you are such a strong woman. And yeah don't be worry not you but God see everything and he will really punish him for his sin
If you think this is bad than you should not go to his room to watch movie . But actually you did and you are thr still 11 or 12 at night. So it is simple that you are giving chance to do again sis.
Don't you know Tibetan language? The one who did wrong to you is a Tibetan.... Many Tibetans think that such incidents happen only in other communities but not in Tibetan community..
...Since it is happening in the Tibetan community also, it is important to spread the awareness on this issue to the Tibetan people too...But, it could be possible only if you speak in their language...
Some Pakla people thinking like that toward innocents women..
But to much lesser then other country
You are a brave girl , rarest of rare , a girl / women of present generation , today's society need you to educate innocent girl childs keeping aware of situation for security of all women and girls 👍🙏
After the first incident u could have realised and not share the bed after all so that the second time won't happened
You are right I agree with you
Right, she also finding chance to close him. Sorry, its my opinion.
True he invited her to watch movie why did she went if she knew he will try to raped again
100℅ right
Yes very true.
Sister sorry to hear your painful ancident but anyway thank you so much for sharing all those things happened to you bad people never left unpunished you knew very well that every dog had has day 🎉
Gal you must know him how u felt at that time.
You must confront him eye to eye and ask a question.
Stay strong sister we're with you.
Im shocked by seeing ur honest,, anyway new subscriber from nagaland
Bro please improve your English
@@nervy7823 lol barking to yourself _ r u getting invay? Or did I done any sentiment which goona hurt you? Shame on u_ don't judge other for no reason. Teach that to ur father or mother
@@Penkaiofficial wahaha youtuber who cant take criticism
@@Penkaiofficial backward laura toila ama
@@nervy7823 haha
Iwill pray for you... you will get through this...😊😊
M sorry for the bad experience you have experienced but you should muster courage to expose his name so as to give justice to yourself. Be bold my dear sister.
It's very sad and ashamed to hear being asulted by your own cousin what a mindset he has to do this dirty things with his own sister I'm very happy that u speak out in front of the whole w world don't fear to stand on your own rights be bold and courage may hold help you sis 🙏
If it is authentic, it's punishable.. God bless you sister...
U are so strong achhaa stay strong u inspire each and every women 💖
Proud of you that you can speak up
If Everyone is Against You, Remember I Will Be Always There 🇧🇹⚜️🕊
Can't blame only the boy 😢😢😢
Exactly
She might loss her voice at that time.... Who knows she might have some kind of feelings towards him too... This can't be called rape... Seeking for support behind 🤪
Ya, why she excepted second time. According to me both are agreed n plan 😊
Ya and now called it a rape 😂 n why telling in youtube instead go and complaint to police..
Hmm.. proprietor is him and has his full right😂
I know how it feels to be vulnerable without knowing a knowledge of bad touch feeling not helpful whn bad things is happening with us I hope i could share tht things but hiding those things from many years its hunting within me 😓
Show your cousin face infront of social media.
Yea ....
Game Over! Better best forgotten! But, learn from mistake some of the girls. 🙅🏻♀️
Yes@@Tenzinkollegal
Expose him
Right bro