I am a board certified therapist and a consultant in the field of advanced communication. I can honestly say that I have never heard anyone speak on these issues in a way that I agree with more. Throughout this entire video, I found myself agreeing with every point you made, having reached the very same conclusions, myself. Great job, laying it all out there!
@@toniarouxhe665 I made aswell. I wish I would have learned this sooner. Had to pay the price of a broken heart for this :/ But it makes sense. If your life is structured and you are structured (not easily moved), that brings a lot of safety. Woman are more emotional and their minds can change often. If you always swing along, they can't depend on you. Then you're more like a child.
No, you make God your priority. Also, God's grace of protection (Divine Economy/Provenance/Governance) flows through the man. That's why when she leaves your authority, she is no longer protected under the umbrella of grace that the man has for his family (from God).
Woman will only leave you if they know it will absolutely break you. 1. Make yourself a man by having a "life setup" 2. Check the boxes off that are universally attractive to all woman(finances, status, future, skill, fitness[v taper]) 3. Never make woman your number 1 priority in life 4. Never lose your vision, and your masculine creativity 5. Remove all spectator sports and leisure activities( which were created to keep you in sedation and deprive you of your masculine competence) 6. Wipe away limiting beliefs and limiting sense of identity. STAYED WITH YOU TO THE END
@@Karll541Hypergamy and female emotions are mostly subconscious. Done mostly by instinct. Sometimes under bad advice or influence from social media or "friend". At times people know is wrong and proceed anyway. In the long run They can regret these decisions. Is important for both men and women to learn about themselves. See the signs. Know when you might be self sabotaging
@@truthtelleranon no you don’t get what I’m after either. Maybe my question is worded poorly but both you and the person replied to me stated the extremely obvious part that I’ve heard an obnoxious amount of times. Ffs the explanation of female nature/instinct has been repeated in bp channels over and over again ad fucking nauseam. What I mean is, if someone becomes aware of their nature does that mean it can be tempered? How might their behavior change if they’re aware of their own nature? And how much potentially? And if they’re not aware does that mean a complete separation of conscious thought at times or most of the time? Just saying women don’t know what they want to me is a cop out for deeper analysis
@@Karll541 being aware of one’s nature especially for women does change things. Most of us don’t want to be manipulative or conniving. It’s subconscious, sure, but it’s a learned social behavior to avoid being too assertive or needy. It’s a lot easier to be direct once you know what’s up.
I am fifty-four and a father of four. I have been married to my wife coming up on eighteen years. I have been through a lot with my first marriage ending due to my first wife's infidelity. I had to learn all of the things you are sharing on my own through trail and error and a lot of introspection. Your advice to men is excellent. It is refreshing to see someone put out this positive information.
The key is to be indifferent with women and focus on prioritizing whats truly important, you're job your fitness and hobbies and God should be your number 1 priority over women
As a creative person, I agree that being in a commitment with a woman will only drain you of all your imagination and drive. Keep your creativity as your #1 priority always.
True love. A man can love MORE THAN ONE WOMAN just as a woman can love more than one child. You can have 2 or more wives that are devoted to you alone and harmoniously cooperate to keep you happy.
So sad i pissed away the greatest relationships of my life just because I didn't understand this at the time. I destroyed love by simple loving too much and now it's too late.
That depends on you actually. Take 6 months and go monk mode. Become a new you. Go absolutely no contact. She we contact you and if not you will attract another.
Casey, I stayed to the end... your point 6 is solid gold. Men MUST avoid attaching too strong of an "identity" to their present selves in order to allow themselves to grow into the new identity of the better man they want to become.
I can’t even tell you how broken I have been in 39 years of life.. I am finally learning how to fix myself listening to you as I’m sobbing like a goddamn baby and then shutting it off like a goddamn man…. Everyone listening to this is…. if you actually hear it like I do, you will finally be able to live your life the way God wanted you to. This is truly the only podcast that is helping me survive and I only learned about it four hours ago. When I make it, #Zander… I’m coming to give you retribution.
I know man, I'm 2 yrs out after 13 yr being a step dad etc. Recently was talking w a real pretty chick and seemed to go well for a month. She got a second job said she couldn't offer me anything maybe someone else can. That one hurt worse than the 13 yr relationship did for some reason. That was couple months ago. Definitely feel ur pain man. U have to be like iron and steel out here brotha. 💪🔥
@@daviedood2503 fuck that bitch. They never say what they mean. Basically she said "I wasn't that interested in you from the start but I was bored so I tried you out. The more I saw the more I didn't like about you. You mean nothing to me and I want to end this quick and simple because I'm not attracted to you... but I met this other guy I am going to put some time into". That is exactly what that bitch said to you without saying it honestly. That's when you say fuck her. If it bothers you think of times with her and realize that it was her lying to you and being fake. She probably was trying to figure out if you had money and would spend it on her. When answer was no not really... she cut the act real quick. By her saying she has nothing to offer you.... she was projecting. She actually was saying you had nothing to offer HER! Pay close attention to what people say. They always bring things up even in small ways that tell you how they feel about you. And often they will Revere and project onto you what is actually going on with them in regards to you. Also watch people's eyes. It all adds up and you can read them like a book. It gets uncomfortable alot because you will find that almost everyone is a piece of crap and will fuck you over in an instant. It's depression
You have to be in a position to leave a woman without feeling lost or broken. You leave those feelings up to her, when you leave, on your own terms. Never, ever commit to a woman so deeply, such that you can't quit the relationship without feeling vulnerable. Always have backup options. Remain stoic and in control.
Your right Women will leave You if they think it will absolutely break You My Ex did that to Me and she was feeling Pretty Good about herself, that was until she saw Me the following week out and Happy with another Woman who looks 10 times better than her, I don’t know I think that might have broke her, oh the irony.
Stayed with you until the end. This was the best self development video I have seen. I realized 3 years ago that it wasn't the woman's fault that I couldn't keep a relationship together. I have been watching and reading for 3 years and I have made many improvements, but this is the best I've seen.
Stayed till the end!!! It’s mind blowing how much bullshit we have been fed especially about women the things even my own mother would say about loving them and making them happy and all that’s got me was pain my girlfriend of 5 years the first year was amazing lots of sex and love from her the last 4 years were brutal and energy consuming, trying to please her and make her happy, gained like 70 pounds because I made her my priority I wish I knew about you back in 2014 😫😫 barely now I’m starting to get myself back together from that darkness
Stayed till the end. Point six hits hard. You showed up in my feed a couple of days ago, ironically at the height of my pretty brutal divorce. Your insight had been extremely helpful with my current situation, and it has opened my eyes to where I went wrong in my marriage. I wish I had your insight years ago.
Perfect video Zander. My GF, we about 4 months of breakup, actually this gave me the "gas" I needed, I as most man after 3yrs I started getting confortable. She left my in my worst moment, lost my job too. She knows I'm a red pill awareness, and teach guys this, so is more reason to her try to break me 😂
“The number one of fight club is you don’t talk about fight club” you shouldn’t let her know your insight she’ll think your playing a character. They want some one to just get it
Watched till the end and currently have a gf. I agree with a lot of what you said although I want to comment how men, including women, have been put in these economic situations (lack of money, unemployed, etc...). The #1 reason is that money is being hyperinflated by central banks. I have been doing as much as possible from a day to day basis for over 5 years now, to prepare for when the financial environment gets worse than what it currently is. My gf still complains although with some understanding
Never make her ur number one priority. Never show all ur cards early on and go all in, dont stick to the same routine with her. Keep her guessing and dont sacrifice ur wants n needs to give her ehat she wants. Dont ask her where she wants to eat or go do this weekend, you tell her you're picking her up at 7pm tomorrow that u made plans for u two. Take charge and make all the decisions for date nights she will respect you. Keep that woman curious she will chase u
How are you only at 1.8k likes… Casey Zander explains women better than any other man, woman human being, that I have ever heard in person on video on podcast on any social media…. The wavelengths that I have been feeling since about four hours ago, listening to him has surpassed anything I have ever lived or felt or believed in in my entire life..
Excellent excellent video, watched til the end. One thing I disagree. We are all going to face rare cards like setbacks from birth and life events later on throughout which greatly influence/ change how our lives turn out, so it’s not just an excuse. But let it be the fuel for your fire and discipline for starting today to make the sacrifice. Lots of things aren’t too late. You can get super fit even starting at 50. Eat clean like as if you were in nature. Lift weights, cardio, calisthenics. Start taking classes in college even though you’re older for the right profession. Going for my doctorate now after 13 years.. Got 4 years to go. No television or games. Only media for a short time that helps you grow: fitness, psychology, motivation, this video! No more negativity because we will die one day so fight til the end and finally let go of all that is killing us. I been through some of the worst life had to offer and grew up in a shit hole. I still made major sacrifices and got a lot accomplished. It’s never gonna stop, but it seemed like it wouldn’t happen. Accomplished a lot and still a lot to accomplish. Start right now 💪🏼
This spoke to me man , because it understands having to overcome that which is specific to you and your circumstances, it also recognises we are not all created equal and some of us were dealt a bad hand which needs even more skill to play
Stayed to the end ... Im older man...& What you're saying is so true..... They want a man that knows who he is----- first& foremost. Good job young man...💪👍 N
Before I told my girl that I like her, I did an exercise all by myself. I imagined the whole thing fall apart after reaching its greatest height and I asked myself, "can you survive that?" Only and only when my answer was absolutely firm, that I'd not only survive but emerge stronger (if it were to happen), that I finally decided to approach her. Also, I told her straight up about my inner dialogue. So the very beginning she knows that I will not only be alive if she leaves but alive and kicking harder. Thank you, Casey. So much valuable than the "Top G" non sense going around in the manosphere at the moment.
Casey, what a powerful message! I cannot thank you enough and how spot on you are. I wish I would have known this powerful mesage before, being an MBP student has changed my whole view on life. In the end no one is coming to the rescue and us as men need to take full responsibility and empower ourselves rather than weaken ourselves with so much vice and distraction out there. We all get 24 hours and it is up to you what you do with those hours. It all starts and ends with you not your chosen companion!!!
i agree with all points buzt i think its not bad having interest in sports and following it, cause you can still hustle most of day and then enjoy 2 hours of watching football once a week instead of drinking, going party or whatever
I agree with mostly everything but I'm not quite there on giving up sports and video games. Those can be good ways to build comrarderie with friends and family if they enjoy the same. Can also be relaxing especially if you've spent the whole day grinding to build up your life. I've mostly cut TV out of my life aside from a couple hours of sports/games/movies here or there. If a woman can't handle that then oh, well.
During my separation and now divorce, I went into full on self development physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually I’ve never felt so awesome in such a long time. I’ve survived divorce real well due to the fact that my ex was NOT my priority but only GOD JESUS was and will always be my priority. This Bro is right on! By the way, I quit watching football after high school which was long time ago cause it’s just vain.
You changed my life with this video Casey I wish I had the money to Inroll in mbt but I will eventually I'm a recovering addict living in sober living and my entire life I've felt something missing as a man this information is priceless my father was didn't teach me anything about being a man I'm 34 and for the first time I'm hopeful for my future I can't put into the comments all the things I want to say just know you changed my life I watch all your videos thank you for what you do
Adaptation is indeed just a way of life. But it is as Casey said a learned skill. One thing I have learned through the wisdom of others and experience is the importance of vision. The more powerful your vision is with regard to any one aspect of your pursuit in life, the easier it is to maintain focus and overcome the inevitable obstacles. Excellent work.
Love this video. I'd just add "get help when you need it but make sure the therapist knows you want to be stronger in masculine virtues". Its hard to find a therapist but if you dealt with tons of early abuse it might be a game changer.
Then I must have a special woman. We both work on ourselves and try to help each others goals. We cheer each other on. Were not living together yet, but have been talking about it for a year or so. However, I can see her reluctance to "set up shop" with me is that I'm not completely set up yet. So this is a great reminder where I need to be.
Facts bro! Avoiding feelings for a chick cuz you're afraid of what may happen is cowardice to the max. Go all in if it's worth it, just never sell yourself out. Haven't made it to the end of the vid yet but I definitely fkn will! Let's gooooo 🤙
Made it to the end. Wish I would have had this when I was younger. I'm old by society's standards. However, this is MY life. I will do the best I am able from here. Thank you Casey for your wisdom and inspiring guidance sir. Time to put in some work. Let's go!
As a man who has been from juvenile hall, county jail, and twice to prison. I am happy just to be free. Its hard to meet women when you are locked up for 13 years. I struggle and am akward with women because I was locked up all through my 20's and some of my 30's. When all my friends were settling down and getting married, I was in prison. So I am way behind in the woman department. I never learned how to communicate properly with anyone let alone women. In prison it's a whole new world here in CA. It's all about survival. Now free I find myself feeling nervous around groups of other people, so I usually just remove myself. I am more comfortable being alone. Conversations with anyone are just akward. I think I stopped growing socially in country jail and prison. I definitely want to get married and fall in love , but I am also happy being alone. I'm 13 years behind socially, financially, and the only thing I've got going for me is I'm 6ft3 and 225 pounds. I had a lot of time to work out on the inside. Really don't know what the future has in store for me.Thanks, Casey. Christian
Thanks bro. I took me this year to realize my self worth and started working on a better body and giving myself goals in live. I spent the most part of my thirties. Just partying and wasting my god given time. I am in a spiritual journey to better myself.
I just don't give a shit any longer. And it shows and women love it! Was taking my dog for a walk in the park on Sunday. This lady came up to me (not bad looking) and tried to strike up a conversation with me. I was focused mostly on my Labrador Retriever - and NOT - on her - to her apparent shock. Finally, when I decided to, I chatted with her. My initial indifference seemed to have worked as she gave me her phone number lol.
BTW IT IS SO GOOD TO SEE THIS UNDERSTANDING, GETTING OUT TO MEN SO THEY CAN ACTUALLY BE MEN FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER FINALLY. BLESSINGS ANGELA IN MT. EXCUSE MY CAPS DYSLEXIC WOMEN HERE
You are absolutely correct. I have had 4 careers in my life and will soon be starting my fifth and final one. I'm 62 and starting another career. I have never been into sports, tv, movies or all the social crap that people just sit and "watch" get out there and "DO". Participate in life. Have a plan and execute. If your woman is worth anything she will follow your lead and take her part in your life. Don't ever think you can't do something. Its your life, take it by the horns and enjoy the ride. Some will be better than others but its only a one time deal. As you get older you'll realize that life is exactly what you make of it. You want a top tier life, make it. You want to succeed in a career, do what others won't and you'll be "the guy". Its your life make the most of it.
Stayed till the end... I must say.. you're definitely an old soul.. and I mean that respectfully... I'm a 48yr old man, divorced and I'm impressed with your wisdom, knowledge and guidance in your delivery for a young man in his 20's it's amazing..no fr.. you're doing God's work Casey....in one of your videos you said your name translates to "Defender of man" i believe you said...and...yes indeed you are!... keep up the great work young man... power to you 💪🏾👊🏾 from your subscriber from Trinidad 🇹🇹
“Stay with me till the end”. Of course bro! This is top notch insider information that every man, especially young men need to know and take notes if necessary. Thank you Casey for telling it like it is.
I stayed to the end!! ❤. I gave up watching basketball many years ago and I can’t watch alt of the slow sports like football, golf and now in Mexico damn if I am going to watch a soccer game which can end with a score of 0 to 0!! That is insanity!! 😮
Congratulations on checking out the real estate. I thank god for having you follow your purpose. I've seen so much value more so now recently. The content has been ideal and spot on. From being divorced and rebuilding one day at a time. It's awesome to learn from my mistakes and pick up strong tools like this channel to move forward on my God-given purpose. Thanks, Casey
I stay to the very end (and beyond) 🚀 ... In the company of all cutting-edge gentlemen who are here watching, commenting and ... 📝💻 through study and mental association, improving themselves and finding solutions to yesterday's 'unsolvable' problems ... 🌎💯 Greetings from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.
Glad I stayed until the end. Number 6 drove it home for me. Very helpful video when I needed it the most. I have had success in my life. And I've had failure as of recent. It's never roo late to fo after new things. And get focused the way I was supposed to. Sometimes we get sidetracked but you have to dig deep. Thank you Casey
It broke me because I thought I had a family not necessarily because I lost her....I told her I'm hurt more for my legacy and children not so much her. If we had no children I would have gladly allowed her to leave with no fight smh
Hi Steve, bro… Even posit when I left the room… Even switch to my cell phone so I can make the comment from my TV… Good words thanks for the bolster💪🏽😎
Very good psychology video; very perceptive. Maybe we men have similar psychology though. You have to admit, when women were overly obsessed with us we found them boring and moved on for a challenge. And when we met a stranger and she immediately offered the one night stand, we already felt we conquered this one and were not excited as we would have been if they played a game.
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I stayed!
Stayed with Casey till the end .
"Modern women are living in a world MEN CREATED...." Damn that's heavy...
I wish I had your amazing insights when I was your age…
Don’t you think that it is sad to never see someone you love again? I think it is.
I am a board certified therapist and a consultant in the field of advanced communication. I can honestly say that I have never heard anyone speak on these issues in a way that I agree with more. Throughout this entire video, I found myself agreeing with every point you made, having reached the very same conclusions, myself. Great job, laying it all out there!
Wow. ❤that’s crazy I thought Casey was just another Rico Sauve opinion. But therapist approved? That’s crazy.
never make a woman your number one priority - words to live by
I make this mistake.
@@toniarouxhe665 I made aswell. I wish I would have learned this sooner. Had to pay the price of a broken heart for this :/ But it makes sense. If your life is structured and you are structured (not easily moved), that brings a lot of safety. Woman are more emotional and their minds can change often. If you always swing along, they can't depend on you. Then you're more like a child.
Also women: why am I not your number one priority?
No, you make God your priority.
Also, God's grace of protection (Divine Economy/Provenance/Governance) flows through the man. That's why when she leaves your authority, she is no longer protected under the umbrella of grace that the man has for his family (from God).
@@harlanhock6486god is B.S.
"Women will leave you ONLY when they know they break you..." Words of absolute wisdom!!!!!!!!!!!
When you say it like that, that's pretty f'd up though lmao.
@@ScrimaGames1what's more fucked up is that its true 😂
That’s how nice they are 😂
If that‘s really true, then every relationship is just a powergame and deep down not real love.
Women are incapable of giving love
To add to that, friendzoning you is also leaving you
Woman will only leave you if they know it will absolutely break you.
1. Make yourself a man by having a "life setup"
2. Check the boxes off that are universally attractive to all woman(finances, status, future, skill, fitness[v taper])
3. Never make woman your number 1 priority in life
4. Never lose your vision, and your masculine creativity
5. Remove all spectator sports and leisure activities( which were created to keep you in sedation and deprive you of your masculine competence)
6. Wipe away limiting beliefs and limiting sense of identity.
STAYED WITH YOU TO THE END
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So why be with a woman when you know they are this evil?
@@janerikpe5852not all women are evil
Thank you for the summary 🤝
Thanks. Didn't need a 24 min vid to state 5 things.
I'm a woman watching and this man is helping me understand my own nature.
That is interesting. Are you saying you don’t understand your actions and why you do them? Like do you have an example?
@@Karll541Hypergamy and female emotions are mostly subconscious. Done mostly by instinct. Sometimes under bad advice or influence from social media or "friend". At times people know is wrong and proceed anyway. In the long run They can regret these decisions. Is important for both men and women to learn about themselves. See the signs. Know when you might be self sabotaging
@@madjunir thanks for the non answer lol 🤣
@@truthtelleranon no you don’t get what I’m after either. Maybe my question is worded poorly but both you and the person replied to me stated the extremely obvious part that I’ve heard an obnoxious amount of times. Ffs the explanation of female nature/instinct has been repeated in bp channels over and over again ad fucking nauseam. What I mean is, if someone becomes aware of their nature does that mean it can be tempered? How might their behavior change if they’re aware of their own nature? And how much potentially? And if they’re not aware does that mean a complete separation of conscious thought at times or most of the time? Just saying women don’t know what they want to me is a cop out for deeper analysis
@@Karll541 being aware of one’s nature especially for women does change things. Most of us don’t want to be manipulative or conniving. It’s subconscious, sure, but it’s a learned social behavior to avoid being too assertive or needy. It’s a lot easier to be direct once you know what’s up.
I am fifty-four and a father of four. I have been married to my wife coming up on eighteen years. I have been through a lot with my first marriage ending due to my first wife's infidelity. I had to learn all of the things you are sharing on my own through trail and error and a lot of introspection. Your advice to men is excellent. It is refreshing to see someone put out this positive information.
What changed with your second marriage? Any tips to a lasting marriage? Do you have to be financially stable in order to even date seriously?
You should listen to Rich Cooper. He’s excellent for the seasoned gent.
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They’re cheating if they have Instagram
You are a great source of inspiration man.
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The key is to be indifferent with women and focus on prioritizing whats truly important, you're job your fitness and hobbies and God should be your number 1 priority over women
You're not allowed to have hobbies. You have to work work work because if a woman sees you doing something for leisure, she loses interest lmao
Cuz you said so, right?
@@pepepez6335work work is ONLY for the poor ones.
I'm kinda wealthy but i go after My hobbies everyday, and i have several girls dating
As a creative person, I agree that being in a commitment with a woman will only drain you of all your imagination and drive. Keep your creativity as your #1 priority always.
true
True love. A man can love MORE THAN ONE WOMAN just as a woman can love more than one child.
You can have 2 or more wives that are devoted to you alone and harmoniously cooperate to keep you happy.
At 65, I’m finally understanding what happened
With my relationships! Thank you Casey
Love and respect from jamaica. Changing men for the better one video at a time. 💪🇯🇲
So sad i pissed away the greatest relationships of my life just because I didn't understand this at the time. I destroyed love by simple loving too much and now it's too late.
My friend it's never too late
It wasn't just you, bro! She knew how to pull the puppet strings!
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That depends on you actually. Take 6 months and go monk mode. Become a new you. Go absolutely no contact. She we contact you and if not you will attract another.
You'll find a something waaaaaaaay better brother... Believe in yourself and be patient... good things happen to good people ‼️👊🏽‼️
Casey, I stayed to the end... your point 6 is solid gold. Men MUST avoid attaching too strong of an "identity" to their present selves in order to allow themselves to grow into the new identity of the better man they want to become.
snort coke and smartass on.
“All of life is work” I love this. Make your work your pride and passion.
I can’t even tell you how broken I have been in 39 years of life.. I am finally learning how to fix myself listening to you as I’m sobbing like a goddamn baby and then shutting it off like a goddamn man….
Everyone listening to this is…. if you actually hear it like I do, you will finally be able to live your life the way God wanted you to.
This is truly the only podcast that is helping me survive and I only learned about it four hours ago.
When I make it, #Zander… I’m coming to give you retribution.
I know man, I'm 2 yrs out after 13 yr being a step dad etc. Recently was talking w a real pretty chick and seemed to go well for a month. She got a second job said she couldn't offer me anything maybe someone else can. That one hurt worse than the 13 yr relationship did for some reason. That was couple months ago. Definitely feel ur pain man. U have to be like iron and steel out here brotha. 💪🔥
@@daviedood2503 fuck that bitch. They never say what they mean. Basically she said "I wasn't that interested in you from the start but I was bored so I tried you out. The more I saw the more I didn't like about you. You mean nothing to me and I want to end this quick and simple because I'm not attracted to you... but I met this other guy I am going to put some time into". That is exactly what that bitch said to you without saying it honestly. That's when you say fuck her. If it bothers you think of times with her and realize that it was her lying to you and being fake. She probably was trying to figure out if you had money and would spend it on her. When answer was no not really... she cut the act real quick. By her saying she has nothing to offer you.... she was projecting. She actually was saying you had nothing to offer HER! Pay close attention to what people say. They always bring things up even in small ways that tell you how they feel about you. And often they will Revere and project onto you what is actually going on with them in regards to you. Also watch people's eyes. It all adds up and you can read them like a book. It gets uncomfortable alot because you will find that almost everyone is a piece of crap and will fuck you over in an instant. It's depression
*It’s eye-opening to see how easily relationships can fall apart when this mistake is made.*
You have to be in a position to leave a woman without feeling lost or broken. You leave those feelings up to her, when you leave, on your own terms. Never, ever commit to a woman so deeply, such that you can't quit the relationship without feeling vulnerable. Always have backup options. Remain stoic and in control.
Your right Women will leave You if they think it will absolutely break You My Ex did that to Me and she was feeling Pretty Good about herself, that was until she saw Me the following week out and Happy with another Woman who looks 10 times better than her, I don’t know I think that might have broke her, oh the irony.
"It's good to love a woman." This is the goal of all this real talk.
Stayed with you until the end. This was the best self development video I have seen. I realized 3 years ago that it wasn't the woman's fault that I couldn't keep a relationship together. I have been watching and reading for 3 years and I have made many improvements, but this is the best I've seen.
Stayed till the end!!! It’s mind blowing how much bullshit we have been fed especially about women the things even my own mother would say about loving them and making them happy and all that’s got me was pain my girlfriend of 5 years the first year was amazing lots of sex and love from her the last 4 years were brutal and energy consuming, trying to please her and make her happy, gained like 70 pounds because I made her my priority I wish I knew about you back in 2014 😫😫 barely now I’m starting to get myself back together from that darkness
Stayed till the end. Point six hits hard. You showed up in my feed a couple of days ago, ironically at the height of my pretty brutal divorce. Your insight had been extremely helpful with my current situation, and it has opened my eyes to where I went wrong in my marriage. I wish I had your insight years ago.
Perfect video Zander. My GF, we about 4 months of breakup, actually this gave me the "gas" I needed, I as most man after 3yrs I started getting confortable. She left my in my worst moment, lost my job too. She knows I'm a red pill awareness, and teach guys this, so is more reason to her try to break me 😂
“The number one of fight club is you don’t talk about fight club” you shouldn’t let her know your insight she’ll think your playing a character. They want some one to just get it
@@thefootballer3664 Facts, actually some girls find it attractive, but if she is your girlfriend, she can use it against you
congrats
This is sooo true - "Women will leave you when they know it will break you"
Great video. I been preaching this stuff my whole life.
Good bc so have I and maybe not my whole life. But women will call you a women hater or that you’re backwards. As tho they want to keep men weak.
Stayed till the end. This resonates heavily with me. I've been such a fool. No more foolishness.
So true, thanks for the insight
Watched till the end and currently have a gf. I agree with a lot of what you said although I want to comment how men, including women, have been put in these economic situations (lack of money, unemployed, etc...). The #1 reason is that money is being hyperinflated by central banks. I have been doing as much as possible from a day to day basis for over 5 years now, to prepare for when the financial environment gets worse than what it currently is. My gf still complains although with some understanding
Never make her ur number one priority. Never show all ur cards early on and go all in, dont stick to the same routine with her. Keep her guessing and dont sacrifice ur wants n needs to give her ehat she wants. Dont ask her where she wants to eat or go do this weekend, you tell her you're picking her up at 7pm tomorrow that u made plans for u two. Take charge and make all the decisions for date nights she will respect you. Keep that woman curious she will chase u
How are you only at 1.8k likes…
Casey Zander explains women better than any other man, woman human being, that I have ever heard in person on video on podcast on any social media…. The wavelengths that I have been feeling since about four hours ago, listening to him has surpassed anything I have ever lived or felt or believed in in my entire life..
My man bashing watching sports. I love it. Create!
That's right.Fix up the house,plant a garden,fish,hunt & preventive maintenance on vehicles etc,etc
Casey, you're a real genius in this department. Well done and please keep on helping.
Stayed till the end. Pure gold.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Stayed with you to the end. Good video straight facts! “Be about it, don’t talk about it!”
Excellent excellent video, watched til the end. One thing I disagree. We are all going to face rare cards like setbacks from birth and life events later on throughout which greatly influence/ change how our lives turn out, so it’s not just an excuse. But let it be the fuel for your fire and discipline for starting today to make the sacrifice. Lots of things aren’t too late. You can get super fit even starting at 50. Eat clean like as if you were in nature. Lift weights, cardio, calisthenics. Start taking classes in college even though you’re older for the right profession. Going for my doctorate now after 13 years.. Got 4 years to go. No television or games. Only media for a short time that helps you grow: fitness, psychology, motivation, this video! No more negativity because we will die one day so fight til the end and finally let go of all that is killing us. I been through some of the worst life had to offer and grew up in a shit hole. I still made major sacrifices and got a lot accomplished. It’s never gonna stop, but it seemed like it wouldn’t happen. Accomplished a lot and still a lot to accomplish. Start right now 💪🏼
This spoke to me man , because it understands having to overcome that which is specific to you and your circumstances, it also recognises we are not all created equal and some of us were dealt a bad hand which needs even more skill to play
“Stayed with you until the end”. Good points - focus and live life like you’re on 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Stayed till the end. At 55 years, U got me completely engrossed with the wisdom you shared. Thank you
Some of the best advice in the manosphere right here.
Great content brother.
Stayed to the end ... Im older man...& What you're saying is so true..... They want a man that knows who he is----- first& foremost. Good job young man...💪👍
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Miss your Uncle C back in the office! intro 💪
Point 6 is solid!!! Thanks, man. God bless you.
Before I told my girl that I like her, I did an exercise all by myself. I imagined the whole thing fall apart after reaching its greatest height and I asked myself, "can you survive that?"
Only and only when my answer was absolutely firm, that I'd not only survive but emerge stronger (if it were to happen), that I finally decided to approach her.
Also, I told her straight up about my inner dialogue. So the very beginning she knows that I will not only be alive if she leaves but alive and kicking harder.
Thank you, Casey. So much valuable than the "Top G" non sense going around in the manosphere at the moment.
dont tell her everything, keep the best to yourself in case everythings wrecks appart. Hey ,just a suggerence.
Stayed till the end. Thanks for the great info.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Casey, what a powerful message! I cannot thank you enough and how spot on you are. I wish I would have known this powerful mesage before, being an MBP student has changed my whole view on life. In the end no one is coming to the rescue and us as men need to take full responsibility and empower ourselves rather than weaken ourselves with so much vice and distraction out there. We all get 24 hours and it is up to you what you do with those hours. It all starts and ends with you not your chosen companion!!!
Your point on sports, and entertainment distractions was eye opening and smart I've never viewed it in such a way well done on the channel
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
nothing can break you, feeling broken is just a feeling ..., see it clearly
Well put!
The Games and ENTERtainment have been around since the Roman Empire to control the masses, great work Casey
i agree with all points buzt i think its not bad having interest in sports and following it, cause you can still hustle most of day and then enjoy 2 hours of watching football once a week instead of drinking, going party or whatever
I agree with mostly everything but I'm not quite there on giving up sports and video games. Those can be good ways to build comrarderie with friends and family if they enjoy the same. Can also be relaxing especially if you've spent the whole day grinding to build up your life. I've mostly cut TV out of my life aside from a couple hours of sports/games/movies here or there. If a woman can't handle that then oh, well.
We need an outlet for spending time with other men. I'm not gearing my entire life to women for god's sake.
During my separation and now divorce, I went into full on self development physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually I’ve never felt so awesome in such a long time. I’ve survived divorce real well due to the fact that my ex was NOT my priority but only GOD JESUS was and will always be my priority. This Bro is right on!
By the way, I quit watching football after high school which was long time ago cause it’s just vain.
Casey, you're spot on. Men have to learn how to be a real man. That's really what a woman wants.
Thanks. Great. I'm from Australia. Queensland. Toowoomba. Fantastic. All best
Made it to the end of your video! Can’t believe you’re under 30 years old and have such knowledge! Thank you!
You changed my life with this video Casey I wish I had the money to Inroll in mbt but I will eventually I'm a recovering addict living in sober living and my entire life I've felt something missing as a man this information is priceless my father was didn't teach me anything about being a man I'm 34 and for the first time I'm hopeful for my future I can't put into the comments all the things I want to say just know you changed my life I watch all your videos thank you for what you do
23:57 That’s some real life changing advice! Thank you!
I already know most of this but you are providing valuable information in this video for most people who don't know this
Adaptation is indeed just a way of life. But it is as Casey said a learned skill. One thing I have learned through the wisdom of others and experience is the importance of vision. The more powerful your vision is with regard to any one aspect of your pursuit in life, the easier it is to maintain focus and overcome the inevitable obstacles. Excellent work.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Bread and. Circuses. Dude I have been SCREAMING THIS for decades! CZ You are my freaking hero in this day… Stayed to to the end.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
All the way to the end. Not missing a word
Love this video. I'd just add "get help when you need it but make sure the therapist knows you want to be stronger in masculine virtues". Its hard to find a therapist but if you dealt with tons of early abuse it might be a game changer.
Evidently my ex misjudged me when she left me with two preteen sons. It didn’t break me, I rose to the challenge and became much stronger.
Stayed to the end. Good points.
I always felt like an older soul in a young body, I get the same feeling about Casey. He is wise beyond his years.
Adaption is an absolute must, it can lead to greater opportunities. This video is absolute gold.
Then I must have a special woman. We both work on ourselves and try to help each others goals. We cheer each other on. Were not living together yet, but have been talking about it for a year or so. However, I can see her reluctance to "set up shop" with me is that I'm not completely set up yet. So this is a great reminder where I need to be.
This channel is a game changer!
Facts bro! Avoiding feelings for a chick cuz you're afraid of what may happen is cowardice to the max. Go all in if it's worth it, just never sell yourself out. Haven't made it to the end of the vid yet but I definitely fkn will! Let's gooooo 🤙
Not always true, but still solid advice.
Made it to the end. Wish I would have had this when I was younger. I'm old by society's standards. However, this is MY life. I will do the best I am able from here. Thank you Casey for your wisdom and inspiring guidance sir. Time to put in some work. Let's go!
As a man who has been from juvenile hall, county jail, and twice to prison. I am happy just to be free. Its hard to meet women when you are locked up for 13 years. I struggle and am akward with women because I was locked up all through my 20's and some of my 30's. When all my friends were settling down and getting married, I was in prison. So I am way behind in the woman department. I never learned how to communicate properly with anyone let alone women. In prison it's a whole new world here in CA. It's all about survival. Now free I find myself feeling nervous around groups of other people, so I usually just remove myself. I am more comfortable being alone. Conversations with anyone are just akward. I think I stopped growing socially in country jail and prison. I definitely want to get married and fall in love , but I am also happy being alone. I'm 13 years behind socially, financially, and the only thing I've got going for me is I'm 6ft3 and 225 pounds. I had a lot of time to work out on the inside. Really don't know what the future has in store for me.Thanks, Casey. Christian
@@MedicIreland Thanks for the kind words.
I lost a smoke right before I found your vids. Now I have a nice rotation. Thank you, Casey! Keep spreading the word.
Your point on spectator sports is on target. I've never been a pro sport fanatic for the very reasons you quoted.
Watching you everyday lets me actually feel 10x better. It all make sense now
this is so true
Casey, stayed until the end. Powerful message and so true. Thank you.
3rd or 4th vid… this dude drops pearls of wisdom everywhere.
Subscribed.
Thx brother!
Thanks bro. I took me this year to realize my self worth and started working on a better body and giving myself goals in live. I spent the most part of my thirties. Just partying and wasting my god given time. I am in a spiritual journey to better myself.
I just don't give a shit any longer. And it shows and women love it! Was taking my dog for a walk in the park on Sunday. This lady came up to me (not bad looking) and tried to strike up a conversation with me. I was focused mostly on my Labrador Retriever - and NOT - on her - to her apparent shock. Finally, when I decided to, I chatted with her. My initial indifference seemed to have worked as she gave me her phone number lol.
Bro you are something else truly the only and best content creator in this area you have given me everything i needed respect
This video is 24k gold!!!! amazing insight a how-too
He’s 100% right
BTW IT IS SO GOOD TO SEE THIS UNDERSTANDING, GETTING OUT TO MEN SO THEY CAN ACTUALLY BE MEN FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER FINALLY. BLESSINGS ANGELA IN MT.
EXCUSE MY CAPS DYSLEXIC WOMEN HERE
You are absolutely correct. I have had 4 careers in my life and will soon be starting my fifth and final one. I'm 62 and starting another career. I have never been into sports, tv, movies or all the social crap that people just sit and "watch" get out there and "DO". Participate in life. Have a plan and execute. If your woman is worth anything she will follow your lead and take her part in your life. Don't ever think you can't do something. Its your life, take it by the horns and enjoy the ride. Some will be better than others but its only a one time deal. As you get older you'll realize that life is exactly what you make of it. You want a top tier life, make it. You want to succeed in a career, do what others won't and you'll be "the guy". Its your life make the most of it.
Stayed till the end... I must say.. you're definitely an old soul.. and I mean that respectfully... I'm a 48yr old man, divorced and I'm impressed with your wisdom, knowledge and guidance in your delivery for a young man in his 20's it's amazing..no fr.. you're doing God's work Casey....in one of your videos you said your name translates to "Defender of man" i believe you said...and...yes indeed you are!... keep up the great work young man... power to you 💪🏾👊🏾 from your subscriber from Trinidad 🇹🇹
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Casey's examples might be extreme sometimes, but you cant miss the points. Great job brother
“Stay with me till the end”. Of course bro! This is top notch insider information that every man, especially young men need to know and take notes if necessary. Thank you Casey for telling it like it is.
I stayed to the end!! ❤. I gave up watching basketball many years ago and I can’t watch alt of the slow sports like football, golf and now in Mexico damn if I am going to watch a soccer game which can end with a score of 0 to 0!! That is insanity!! 😮
Congratulations on checking out the real estate. I thank god for having you follow your purpose. I've seen so much value more so now recently. The content has been ideal and spot on. From being divorced and rebuilding one day at a time. It's awesome to learn from my mistakes and pick up strong tools like this channel to move forward on my God-given purpose. Thanks, Casey
I’m running my log truck listening to the wisdom. Thank u
I stay to the very end (and beyond) 🚀 ... In the company of all cutting-edge gentlemen who are here watching, commenting and ... 📝💻 through study and mental association, improving themselves and finding solutions to yesterday's 'unsolvable' problems ... 🌎💯 Greetings from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.
HELL YEAH I STUCK AROUND TILL THE END
Excellent advice. A very good summary of everything I did wrong first time around.
Stayed with you till the end…Casey My life is changing listening to your podcast..
And I see the difference very quickly.. spot on truth thank you..
Glad I stayed until the end. Number 6 drove it home for me. Very helpful video when I needed it the most. I have had success in my life. And I've had failure as of recent. It's never roo late to fo after new things. And get focused the way I was supposed to. Sometimes we get sidetracked but you have to dig deep. Thank you Casey
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
What you say is truly deep. Stayed with you until the end
Awesome video Casey! Speaking truths, thank you for that.
It broke me because I thought I had a family not necessarily because I lost her....I told her I'm hurt more for my legacy and children not so much her. If we had no children I would have gladly allowed her to leave with no fight smh
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Stayed with you until the end brother. Everything you say resonates with my intuition. Thank you for changing my life.
Hi Steve, bro… Even posit when I left the room…
Even switch to my cell phone so I can make the comment from my TV… Good words thanks for the bolster💪🏽😎
Banger
Very good psychology video; very perceptive.
Maybe we men have similar psychology though.
You have to admit, when women were overly obsessed with us we found them boring and moved on for a challenge.
And when we met a stranger and she immediately offered the one night stand, we already felt we conquered this one and were not excited as we would have been if they played a game.