@J Woods WW, Latinas, and Asians showed me love since middle school. I always knew I'd have a pick of women to choose from; I also knew none would be black 😄
He acted like it was some big revelation lol. If he wasn't an athlete, extremely handsome, or a dope boy then it's common knowledge that you're going to have slim Pickens among our women. That's in or out of college.
@Manny 8677 funny thing is I was an athlete in high school and I've never had an issue attracting BW physically. But i was too proper, straight-laced, nerdy, "white washed" for BW. That's where I "fell short"
Even in death, KS is still proving his point, and a lot of the conscious folks knew he was right but, because we are Black, you didn't want to admit the truth, RIP K.S! You got another one!
R.I.P. 🙏🏾#KS. It was the stress of dealing with all these combative women that really took him out. No man on earth was built to endure that much burden.
@cgmsunnyable Kevin was solid. It was a lucirferian freemason hit job by his so-called youtube friends who set him up to die by that "nurse". She must have spiked the drink. Make no sense the police officer just let her leave without holding her as a suspect. The officer is a freemason too. Most police departments are headed by high level freemasons.
So true!!! I have been saying the same thing 20 years ago , and was told I was wrong!!! And crazy!! Now it all true in the light and they don’t want to hear it!!! THE WALL IS COMING!!! SO GET A DOG AND DIE ALONE!!! and I’m only saying this to the people it fits..
Umar can definitely be a hypocrite and too self righteous. You can tell he never truly listened to KS. I, 😊like many other black people still want to know where all the money people donated to his school idea went.
🤣🤣🤣😂😂 You can only keep circling around the drain before you have to call BW on their BS. This is what Shahrazad Al talks about. BW have never had to be criticized or held accountable by anyone. So they act like spoiled children that can't do no wrong. And you see the backlash when you finally have to admit the truth.
He was pandering that whole interview. One moment he'll say BW play around with player pookies and reject educated men in their youth, then says he don't blame those women for getting pregnant and raising hoodlums as single mothers, he blames the educated black men who left the community eventually after numerous rejections by these women. He says BW need to pull back just a little bit on the independent "I don't need no man" when in fact they need to pull all the way back and out of that feminist BS.
basically, he wanted a army of suckas to be there, when the women got done with pookies and criminals, so those women would have men to help provide and protect all the women and children. He wants educated or productive men to sacrifice themselves to be community suckas for the greater good of the blk communita.
Black women spend their 20"s and 30"s getting ran through by Pookie and RayRay. They then expect a successful bm who has worked hard to come along and clean up the mess, and raise Pookie and RayRay's children. This successful black man was looked over by these same women when he was working his way up. Now she wants to know, 'where are all the good men?"
I seen a woman comment on one of his videos that they wanted a man just like Umar, and I'm thinking no you don't, because when you had a chance to try and get with him in high school and college, before he built a name for himself, you didn't. You probably said he was a educated lame or didn't have "swag".
@@Kimberlyncovington So you just see men as an ATM machine? And how do you know what he owns? You do know he worked was a psychologist for 20 years right? But if he was some pookie, you'd be pumping out kids left and right for him. This is why BW are at the bottom, yall's values and mindsets are warped.
Yup. I remember at one job years ago this little nothing of a female was like, "you have no swag". I was like, nope. But I have a nice bank account and a wife. You're single. Then one day I wore my club colors because I had a meet after work. I use to drive a Ducati S. Then there panties were all wet. SMDH.
Even when Umar was trying to tell the truth, he was still pandering and trying to take the accountability off of women. Tf does he mean it's partially true there are no good Black men? There are plenty. They're already married or these women's expectations are so out of whack, they pass over these men for literally any reason
I never really had a problem with dating women in college and grad school. The lesson I had to learn was not going after the 9’s and 10’s; instead settle with a 7 or preferably an 8. However I’m definitely not surprised at BW rejecting educated BM. That’s still the norm in our community. Hell they reject educated BM that have money, career and resources. This is something that’s very unique to Black women and Black Culture in America. African and Caribbean women value education and professional men
I would gladly deal with a 7 with good personality that brings me peace than deal with a 10 just because she's a 10. A 7 -8 may not be the baddest but she's still a good looking woman.
So many of my Asian friends has 2-3 kids and got their bodies back in shape. What that is not an excuse especially when you have a man to take care of the family financially. Only the Black community use that as an excuse. Having kids does not mean you have to automatically be fat.
Move to a major city my friend. Most Black women are in shape. Maybe not most, but many are. Of course, the attitude and mentality can still be a problem.
@@ericmcmillan2831 I lived in NYC for many years. My statement still stands. When it comes to women having kids, BW in general are less likely to get back into shape.
Dr.. Umar definitely contradicted himself badly in this. Kevin didn't hate bw, he hated sum of their ways. Just like he hated these weak effeminate males & their beta male ways. He challenged us all 2 be better versions of ourselves & I'm accepting said challenge. Now & forever
Kevin definitely probably had some kind of disdain for women in general He seemed to enjoy making fun of them online. Which doesn't help the public at all
While I love BW, they have a chip on their shoulder that they refuse to recognize. Their trauma is often projected on someone who had nothing to do with it, and by doing this, they become their biggest obstacle and continue to nurture a defeatist mindset. This is especially clear with regards to the argument they make about there being no good black men, yet at the end of the day, they remain openly critical of EVERY BM that dates outside of their race - why?!. It's also amazing how they want a tailor-made man, but are fearful of playing the role of the seamstress to help sew together a meaningful relationship.
I love this @Quest1luv we are fearful of willing playing the seamstress. I hate when people say build a brother. That brother is building himself up. If you are there as he is going up the roller coaster /ladder or creating the ladder we can remain of loyal, faithful and being a consistent and inspirational woman. Don’t make the commitment conditionally. I’m sure you will be there when it gets much easier, screaming tears of joy with the successful Black man holding onto you just as the exhilarating ride is on its way down or as he is finished building and enjoying the fruits of his labor. These men were once young Black boys and they are worth the investment.
I like Umar however Umar exposed himself on that podcast because you can tell he watched clips he didn’t watch his show.. Kevin Samuel’s never said high value men want women with money 💰
Like all the other haters of R.I.P. #KS, they never took the time to watch entire shows. They see clips, and judge him. Not even seeing the combative, devaluing acts from the woman. And when I heard Umar said that bs about men caring about women money, I said the same exact thing, this mf watching clips smh😞.
Exactly, KS clearly said ambitious or successful men don’t give a damn about how much money a woman makes. Because we’re not looking for security from women.
They bash Kevin Samuels but now they're using his talking points and have to admit the truth. If you're not going to hold black women accountability, they will just continue to be an out of control kid. Ignoring your house is on fire, doesn't put out the flames.
This reminds me of a very pretty sister I knew from school days in London England. Her name was Rowena. When we all left school, I recall asking her out several times, but she Arrogantly refused me. And trust me I was no scrubs, because I was working in a nice office job, well dressed and respectable looking. She was only interested in the dudes with dread locks, several gold, teeth, handsome and light skinned with pretty curly hair, and a suped up BMW. Guys who were already serial baby father's with plenty of baby mothers. Fast forward to 20 years later and I bump into her in Brixton market one sunny day. Didn't even recognise her at first. There she was walking along with 3 children doing her shopping looking pensive and down beat. Still attractive, but no longer a first choice girl like back in the day. In reality she looked used up. They say that chickens come home to roost!!
I was in London for the Christmas break recently. I had an opportunity to visit the neighborhood of Brixton while I was there. It reminds me of the neighborhood I was raised in...The Flatbush section of Brooklyn. Some BW have similar stories to share as well. I was one of those shy 'bookworms' who rarely stood out. I was considered more 'nerdy' rather than 'desirable.' I was a late bloomer. Fast forward to some of the men who 'friend zoned' me in the past.... They were surprised that I was slim, attractive and had no children, which was rare for them. I never gave them the time of day and never looked back. Life wasn't great for them, and neither were the overweight mother of their children, they deemed 'desirable' when they were younger. Don't sleep on shy nerds. Blossoming occurs at different stages in life.
@@akilahbrooklyn8236 Dear Akilah. Lovely name "Akilah" I am glad you enjoyed your recent trip to London, and visited my birth place of Brixton. Its now completely unlike the Brixton of my youth. Gentrification has changed its Ambience and its vibes. But eh that's life. Because I hear Harlem in New York is also Gentrified now too. I hear you loud and clear, and I now fully understand that the premise of the story happens to black women also. Anyway a Belated happy new year to you ☺
I don’t care for Umar and what he said was mostly true except women still looking great at 35-45. They may look good for their age but they can’t compete with younger women. I am 37 but look young enough to attract women 10-14 years younger than me. Unless women in that 35-45 age range are in the gym keeping it tight which statistically is unlikely it will be tough for them but not impossible.
Likewise, I'm 37 and people tell me I look like im in my 20's. I purposely started to keep some facial hair to look a little more my age. Shit dont work lol. They ask me how I do it, one answer, stay far away from stress as I can. Plus eat healthy and exercise. The latter is a given.
@@teego473 same thing happened to me, iam 35 and i had to grow a beard and they still don't believe me. I go to the gym 3-4 days a week, take care of my skin and hair. Most of the women who try to talk to me are 10-13 years younger.
That's what I said!!! You sound a whole lot like Kevin. 🤔🤦🤣🤣 I can't stand this dude. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 How are you gonna trash talk a dead man and then regurgitate the very same thing he was saying?
The same thing goes for #KendraG and many other new content/podcast creators. Atleast give acknowledgement to what R.I.P. #KS did for the manosphere. You're monetizing his work. People are scared to let others think that they believe in Kevin's beliefs. I'm not in the same financial situation as Mr. Samuels, so I cant agree with him 100%, but I agree with atleast 95% lol.
Umar just pointed out what the problem was, said it happened to him personally….then blamed stand up bm that made something of themselves. And the cycle continues
But Umar won't bring up the fact that the women Kevin was talking to wanted men to make six figures and be six feet tall, Umar knows men are not looking for women 40-100 lbs. overweight with multiple kids. But he can't agree with someone he was jealous of his success, because he wants to be #1. Kevin is gone and Umar is less popular now than when Kevin was alive.
Umar with his pan Africanism is problematic himself about his expectations of BW. On one hand he’s talking about concerns of so many BW being single, I heard 73 percent. He blames it on them playing the field too long until they’ve reached their fifties. One of the reasons a lot of them are single is because they’re waiting on that perfect BM who aren’t choosing them. On the other hand , he’s whining about the BW who open their options and marry WM or other races.
Question: To Dr. Umar if BW are playing the field in their 20s and 30s and BM in their 20s to 50s are looking for wives to start their families what should the BM do who are looking for women to start their families should they wait for BW or shouldn't they find the women that want to be with them and start their families regardless of their race?
There will always be a small group of marriage minded women in every age group. Ignore the noise and look for a wife. They not that hard to see in sea of hot girl summers
Umar would have good and decent BM wait until these 304 get ran through by Pookie’s and Tyrone’s. Then have these men accept these trifling women, their mental health problems, and their bastard children. If you’re a decent BM in the States and you can’t find good BW, I’d say find your BW elsewhere (Africa, Latin America, Caribbean, Europe)
Lost my V card to a Becky. At thay point (17) it really didn't matter lol. Kinda regret it because I barely knew her, but I never saw it as a reason to bash BW. BW way to into the Social media matrix now but this is old news in some parts of the community. It's deeper than most channels actually are willing to go.
Kevin Samuels legacy continues, even in death. Some BW didn't want to listen to KS, but want to blame BM for not dating them!! To the BW out there: You made your bed.......... DEAL!!
Dr Umar told you the KEY if she ain’t sexually attracted to you then you don’t have a chance men understand this your life will be easier. Education, money, being a “good” man does not I repeat DOES NOT make that 🐈 💧 it never will no matter how much you want it to instead of being bitter about it learn from these men and adapt accordingly and you won’t have any problems thank me later 😊
He is telling the truth, I am a black man , I remember in high school and college ,black girls rejected me, and I love those very dark skin girls, But they did not like me. The only girl that like me was the light skin mixed race girls, I was a very smart black man on the honor rolls and completed three Bachelor degree and work toward two master degree, I met my wife, a good black woman and now retired from two jobs, I see the black women that reject me are now homeless and jobless, some are drugs head, having sex for 10 dollars on the streets
@Oshay Duke Jackson - Salute bro. Thank you for taking the time and pointing out Dr. Umar's hypocritical stance. Ordinarily, I rock with Doc and I still respect many of his perspectives, but as it relates to the red-pill community/ manosphere etc., I don't think he really did enough critical and objective research to digest much of the content and subject matter in order to really give a truly informed opinion. That's not to say that him HAVING an opinion is wrong, because he's welcomed to it, but in my opinion, his stance/ comments on the Godfather exhibited a clear lack of familiarity with the content and context, mixed possibly with some good old "red pill rage" and agression...
The good Dr was saying he didn’t like Kevin’s approach, not that he didn’t agree with what Kevin said the good Dr had a problem with the shaming, name calling, looks and financial, status. It wasn’t about righteousness it was about saying things in a respectful manner.
I noticed Dr. Umar quoted K.S. as saying women were too fat too small or too broke. That is a lie. He never said black women were too small or too broke. We know that he said HV men preferred a smaller woman and didn't care about a women's money. So I don't know what Dr. Umar is talking about. And what I LOVED about Mr. Kevin Samuels is that HE TOLD THE TRUTH!!! May he Rest In Peace.
He is totally hypocritical and now is going to act as if he came up with what KS had already laid out clearly! Too late to the party Mr PHD! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 KS was all about tough love and bringing reality to the delusion!!
When I was listening to Dr. Umar's take on the situation, I was thinking, " That sounds almost exactly like Kevin Samuels" - The only slight difference - When woman tell Kevin that what I high earning man, he gets into what those women want and then when the conversation about height, weight, dress size comes into play. But the premise is essentially the same.
And water is wet. That doesn't surprise me at all. Then they have the audacity to have an issue with brothers doing the same to them later on in life. I don't get it. Dr. Umar Johnson went through the same thing Kevin Samuels talked about. But he acted like Kevin Samuels wasn't telling the true.
Umar is talking nonsense about "no woman stays beautiful forever". The point is that she should use her tooth and beauty to secure a good husband and when her looks fade, he will still be there because she's the mother of his kids and the love is there. No man is obligated to have that same level of love for her if she's an older baby momma with someone else's kids.
Black guys o mover looked me in high school and college. It wasn’t until I became older did black guys approach me. I’m married to a black guy now. Thank God I didn’t become bitter because the guy’s I thought were cute didn’t want me.
Growing up a lot of black men even when they are young teens realize black woman don’t like smart black men… when have you ever heard a black woman say she was soo attracted to how intelligent a black man was when they first met?
I don't see any way back for any community in this modern era. It's all well and good saying people need to get serious,but what's the actual route back to that? People from broken homes and single mothers are not going to train their children to become suitable partners, the entire culture is geared towards materialism and sex. The Western world would need some kind of Victorian era, where Moral Authoritarians were in total control, but that's the exact opposite direction to what everyone keeps voting for and demanding. People are surely going to have to start dealing with the reality that the situation is about to get worse, not better. There's no 'come to Jesus' moment coming by itself for young girls and women. You have to be trained to be disciplined by a strong family, a strong society, and a strong culture.
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What? BW rejecting educated BM? You don't say! It's almost like fish swim, birds fly, and fire is hot!
Pretty much the other groups of women snatch those guys up fast. Our people seem to be headed nowhere fast.
@J Woods WW, Latinas, and Asians showed me love since middle school. I always knew I'd have a pick of women to choose from; I also knew none would be black 😄
He acted like it was some big revelation lol. If he wasn't an athlete, extremely handsome, or a dope boy then it's common knowledge that you're going to have slim Pickens among our women. That's in or out of college.
@Manny 8677 funny thing is I was an athlete in high school and I've never had an issue attracting BW physically. But i was too proper, straight-laced, nerdy, "white washed" for BW.
That's where I "fell short"
@@Intelexual u spittn they love us but most of em not for the right reasons they they make it easy for us
Him saying this should let you know that telling the truth isn’t profitable.
Cause he never says this to his followers lol
Yep
@@GETBIG4WARD gotta agree. I like Umar but he doesn't do a good job addressing the delusional women that may be apart of his fan base
That's exactly why Steve Harvey says all that nonsense that he knows isn't true just to profit off single black mothers.
Not at all
Most of KS haters and detractors still use KS logic and ideology 😊
Facts.
They don't even see it.
Shit is amazing!
Umar is obsolete because he wants to be too many places at once. K.S. and his minsitry are more popular than ever in 2023 .
All of them do I notice. Talk a lot about him when he was here but after he died they use mojarity the same talking points
Even in death, KS is still proving his point, and a lot of the conscious folks knew he was right but, because we are Black, you didn't want to admit the truth, RIP K.S! You got another one!
R.I.P. 🙏🏾#KS. It was the stress of dealing with all these combative women that really took him out. No man on earth was built to endure that much burden.
Exactly. Even so called pro blacks love to bicker and tear each other down when we go off the ordained script given to us to expose the matrix.
#KevinwasRight
@cgmsunnyable Kevin was solid. It was a lucirferian freemason hit job by his so-called youtube friends who set him up to die by that "nurse".
She must have spiked the drink.
Make no sense the police officer just let her leave without holding her as a suspect. The officer is a freemason too.
Most police departments are headed by high level freemasons.
So true!!! I have been saying the same thing 20 years ago , and was told I was wrong!!! And crazy!! Now it all true in the light and they don’t want to hear it!!! THE WALL IS COMING!!! SO GET A DOG AND DIE ALONE!!! and I’m only saying this to the people it fits..
Lowkey they rejected all of us UNLESS you were THAT GUY! There is no shame in that. It’s only shameful when it holds you back from succeeding in life
I needed to read this
Y weren’t black male nerds seeking BW nerds?
@cheesewiz7874you’ll be ight champ, get your money up.
You make up for all that high-school nonsense in your 30s. Focus young men, your time is coming.
It is what it iz 🤷, charge it to the game and keep moving.
I always found it hilarious that Kevin Samuels biggest detractors sound exactly like him. Almost as if they were trying to steal his viewpoints.
Yup
Bingo
Facts
Great comment! Exactly!!
Umar can definitely be a hypocrite and too self righteous. You can tell he never truly listened to KS. I, 😊like many other black people still want to know where all the money people donated to his school idea went.
Even the Prince of Pan Africanism is complaining about being a clean up man! 🤣😂🤣🥴🥴
🤣 he been knew
Clean up Pookie.
I love our women!! Black women are thr best!!❤❤😍😍❤❤😍😍
🤣🤣🤣😂😂 You can only keep circling around the drain before you have to call BW on their BS. This is what Shahrazad Al talks about. BW have never had to be criticized or held accountable by anyone. So they act like spoiled children that can't do no wrong. And you see the backlash when you finally have to admit the truth.
Im convinced people just was hating on KS. Its ok because KS will always be a staple in the Black Community. And he was def beloved by a lot of us.
He was just an entertaining dusty in a suit. He was the Congo Dandy of Oklahoma
@@lmusima3275 👀🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@@lmusima3275 Hater spotted
Yes he was 💯. Thank you sista for acknowledging this 🖤
@@lmusima3275 hahahaha
He was pandering that whole interview. One moment he'll say BW play around with player pookies and reject educated men in their youth, then says he don't blame those women for getting pregnant and raising hoodlums as single mothers, he blames the educated black men who left the community eventually after numerous rejections by these women.
He says BW need to pull back just a little bit on the independent "I don't need no man" when in fact they need to pull all the way back and out of that feminist BS.
basically, he wanted a army of suckas to be there, when the women got done with pookies and criminals, so those women would have men to help provide and protect all the women and children. He wants educated or productive men to sacrifice themselves to be community suckas for the greater good of the blk communita.
Fact
That is exactly what Kevin Samuels was saying. I thought he was against that belief???
He trying to cash in on the lowkey re-brand 😂
He didn’t come with the already made babies and past jail experiences
😂 bruh
😂🤣
Cuz he still has to pander to women like he usually does. I was surprised to even hear this 🤷🏿♂️
Don't forget the face tats
If the Lord has mercy on us, he will not let the term Swag Daddy become a thing. Amen
Swag daddy 🤣
Swag Daddy is crazy
From your lips to God’s ears 🤣🤣
Swag daddies been popping ish 😅
I'm I corny if I thought it was funny 🤣
Now let's see if they call him a lame like they do for every other man that says this is the truth
They’re rejecting him because he probably asked for a donation to pay for their first date 😅
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I say, ... let Pookie and RayRay have'em... ☝🏿☝🏿We're off to Thailand! 🙂👍🏿😁👍🏿
KS must be shakin' his head sayin': Jesus...See what this guy's doing ?!!!?
😂😂😂 facts
Black women spend their 20"s and 30"s getting ran through by Pookie and RayRay. They then expect a successful bm who has worked hard to come along and clean up the mess, and raise Pookie and RayRay's children. This successful black man was looked over by these same women when he was working his way up. Now she wants to know, 'where are all the good men?"
What age do bm want to settle down and marry ?
@Babyface Nelson hmmm....So don't you think the same goes for bw?? lol
I seen a woman comment on one of his videos that they wanted a man just like Umar, and I'm thinking no you don't, because when you had a chance to try and get with him in high school and college, before he built a name for himself, you didn't. You probably said he was a educated lame or didn't have "swag".
Umar don't have job, career, or own a home. Who finds that appealing.
@@Kimberlyncovington So you just see men as an ATM machine? And how do you know what he owns? You do know he worked was a psychologist for 20 years right? But if he was some pookie, you'd be pumping out kids left and right for him. This is why BW are at the bottom, yall's values and mindsets are warped.
Yup. I remember at one job years ago this little nothing of a female was like, "you have no swag". I was like, nope. But I have a nice bank account and a wife. You're single. Then one day I wore my club colors because I had a meet after work. I use to drive a Ducati S. Then there panties were all wet. SMDH.
Yep.
@@Kimberlyncovington The ones who has got a knack for hubristophilia and Pookies.
Even when Umar was trying to tell the truth, he was still pandering and trying to take the accountability off of women. Tf does he mean it's partially true there are no good Black men? There are plenty. They're already married or these women's expectations are so out of whack, they pass over these men for literally any reason
They aren't plentiful, but neither are good black women.
I don't think Dr. Umar Johnson contradicted himself. In Dr. Umar Johnson's mind, he believes he can say it better than anyone else!😎
I never really had a problem with dating women in college and grad school. The lesson I had to learn was not going after the 9’s and 10’s; instead settle with a 7 or preferably an 8. However I’m definitely not surprised at BW rejecting educated BM. That’s still the norm in our community. Hell they reject educated BM that have money, career and resources. This is something that’s very unique to Black women and Black Culture in America. African and Caribbean women value education and professional men
I never had problems either but it was 20 years old for me. Six figures and 6 feet was not a standard back then.
Yassss! There is value in a 6-7. Everybody can't drive a Ferrari!
Same for me DC
No its not...the numbers don't line up...
I would gladly deal with a 7 with good personality that brings me peace than deal with a 10 just because she's a 10. A 7 -8 may not be the baddest but she's still a good looking woman.
Ironic how he says this shit, but still will find a way to blame Black men, cause if Umar ain't anything else, he's a panderbear.
Extreme 🐼
So many of my Asian friends has 2-3 kids and got their bodies back in shape. What that is not an excuse especially when you have a man to take care of the family financially. Only the Black community use that as an excuse. Having kids does not mean you have to automatically be fat.
Yep. The guys I know married to asians have skinny wives even after having kids.
Move to a major city my friend. Most Black women are in shape. Maybe not most, but many are. Of course, the attitude and mentality can still be a problem.
@@ericmcmillan2831 I lived in NYC for many years. My statement still stands. When it comes to women having kids, BW in general are less likely to get back into shape.
Yep they use the “I just had a baby” excuse when said “baby” is 13 years old.
89% of them uses sorry excuses.
Dr.. Umar definitely contradicted himself badly in this. Kevin didn't hate bw, he hated sum of their ways. Just like he hated these weak effeminate males & their beta male ways. He challenged us all 2 be better versions of ourselves & I'm accepting said challenge. Now & forever
Kevin definitely probably had some kind of disdain for women in general He seemed to enjoy making fun of them online. Which doesn't help the public at all
@@Achilles645 nah he didn't make fun of them. He simply showed them the same energy they had 4 certain men. Plain & simple
@@truestdude exactly
@@raw5889 💯
While I love BW, they have a chip on their shoulder that they refuse to recognize. Their trauma is often projected on someone who had nothing to do with it, and by doing this, they become their biggest obstacle and continue to nurture a defeatist mindset. This is especially clear with regards to the argument they make about there being no good black men, yet at the end of the day, they remain openly critical of EVERY BM that dates outside of their race - why?!. It's also amazing how they want a tailor-made man, but are fearful of playing the role of the seamstress to help sew together a meaningful relationship.
I love this @Quest1luv we are fearful of willing playing the seamstress. I hate when people say build a brother. That brother is building himself up. If you are there as he is going up the roller coaster /ladder or creating the ladder we can remain of loyal, faithful and being a consistent and inspirational woman. Don’t make the commitment conditionally. I’m sure you will be there when it gets much easier, screaming tears of joy with the successful Black man holding onto you just as the exhilarating ride is on its way down or as he is finished building and enjoying the fruits of his labor. These men were once young Black boys and they are worth the investment.
I like Umar however Umar exposed himself on that podcast because you can tell he watched clips he didn’t watch his show.. Kevin Samuel’s never said high value men want women with money 💰
Like all the other haters of R.I.P. #KS, they never took the time to watch entire shows. They see clips, and judge him. Not even seeing the combative, devaluing acts from the woman. And when I heard Umar said that bs about men caring about women money, I said the same exact thing, this mf watching clips smh😞.
Exactly, KS clearly said ambitious or successful men don’t give a damn about how much money a woman makes. Because we’re not looking for security from women.
It’s very easy to know who have only watched the clips and not a full video 😂
@@carsonrichards5552 exactly
“Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.”
Proverbs 11:22
The Mike Jones of Pan Africanism
😂 They not gonna get this one bruh. 😭.
Who?!
@@3-dreticle826 " Now I'm hot they on me "
RIP KS THE GODFATHER. HATERS ARE USING YOUR TALKING POINTS!!!
Huh no KS stole all his taking from the manosphere LOL y’all found him in 2020…
@@fastingislife3766 but his haters got it from him, so there his talking points. You seem to be one of them.
@@raw5889 you really are a slow troll LOL 😂 When did you start watching him?
Your answer will let me know 👀
😂they rejected a educated man 👨🏾 happened while I was in high school in the 2000s
They bash Kevin Samuels but now they're using his talking points and have to admit the truth. If you're not going to hold black women accountability, they will just continue to be an out of control kid. Ignoring your house is on fire, doesn't put out the flames.
This reminds me of a very pretty sister I knew from school days in London England. Her name was Rowena. When we all left school, I recall asking her out several times, but she Arrogantly refused me. And trust me I was no scrubs, because I was working in a nice office job, well dressed and respectable looking. She was only interested in the dudes with dread locks, several gold, teeth, handsome and light skinned with pretty curly hair, and a suped up BMW. Guys who were already serial baby father's with plenty of baby mothers. Fast forward to 20 years later and I bump into her in Brixton market one sunny day. Didn't even recognise her at first. There she was walking along with 3 children doing her shopping looking pensive and down beat. Still attractive, but no longer a first choice girl like back in the day. In reality she looked used up. They say that chickens come home to roost!!
I was in London for the Christmas break recently.
I had an opportunity to visit the neighborhood of Brixton while I was there.
It reminds me of the neighborhood I was raised in...The Flatbush section of Brooklyn.
Some BW have similar stories to share as well.
I was one of those shy 'bookworms' who rarely stood out.
I was considered more 'nerdy' rather than 'desirable.'
I was a late bloomer.
Fast forward to some of the men who 'friend zoned' me in the past....
They were surprised that I was slim, attractive and had no children, which was rare for them.
I never gave them the time of day and never looked back.
Life wasn't great for them, and neither were the overweight mother of their children, they deemed 'desirable' when they were younger.
Don't sleep on shy nerds. Blossoming occurs at different stages in life.
@@akilahbrooklyn8236 Dear Akilah. Lovely name "Akilah" I am glad you enjoyed your recent trip to London, and visited my birth place of Brixton. Its now completely unlike the Brixton of my youth. Gentrification has changed its Ambience and its vibes. But eh that's life. Because I hear Harlem in New York is also Gentrified now too. I hear you loud and clear, and I now fully understand that the premise of the story happens to black women also.
Anyway a Belated happy new year to you ☺
@@akilahbrooklyn8236 brooklyn college stand up
@@akilahbrooklyn8236 I agree dorky women are the best.
I can already see SWAG DADDY shirts being made, lol!
Last week they didn’t want me now they got hot flashes they all on me lol
They forgot about that #MikeJones lyric😄😄😄. Good one👍🏽
I could have spit out a drink when he called himself husband material... but what he said was on point otherwise.
Two baby mothers, living off handouts at home or in struggle motels. I’m sure those women from college are blowing you up Umar.
I don’t care for Umar and what he said was mostly true except women still looking great at 35-45. They may look good for their age but they can’t compete with younger women. I am 37 but look young enough to attract women 10-14 years younger than me. Unless women in that 35-45 age range are in the gym keeping it tight which statistically is unlikely it will be tough for them but not impossible.
Likewise, I'm 37 and people tell me I look like im in my 20's. I purposely started to keep some facial hair to look a little more my age. Shit dont work lol. They ask me how I do it, one answer, stay far away from stress as I can. Plus eat healthy and exercise. The latter is a given.
@@teego473 same thing happened to me, iam 35 and i had to grow a beard and they still don't believe me. I go to the gym 3-4 days a week, take care of my skin and hair. Most of the women who try to talk to me are 10-13 years younger.
That's what I said!!! You sound a whole lot like Kevin. 🤔🤦🤣🤣 I can't stand this dude. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 How are you gonna trash talk a dead man and then regurgitate the very same thing he was saying?
Kevin Samuels always admitted that dr umar felt the same way that he said it on vlad tv
People just can't handle his Kevin's delivery
Mike Jones: Back they didn't want, now I'm hot.. their all on me.
He confirmed everything that us red pill brothers already know and he uses a lot of Kevin Samuels rhetoric without giving the man credit
The same thing goes for #KendraG and many other new content/podcast creators. Atleast give acknowledgement to what R.I.P. #KS did for the manosphere. You're monetizing his work. People are scared to let others think that they believe in Kevin's beliefs. I'm not in the same financial situation as Mr. Samuels, so I cant agree with him 100%, but I agree with atleast 95% lol.
Umar just pointed out what the problem was, said it happened to him personally….then blamed stand up bm that made something of themselves. And the cycle continues
I’m so tired of this Black Man, Black Woman Mess….it’s only feeds into the myth that we Blacks just can’t get along.
Dr Umar at this point is basically a pan africn troll
But Umar won't bring up the fact that the women Kevin was talking to wanted men to make six figures and be six feet tall, Umar knows men are not looking for women 40-100 lbs. overweight with multiple kids. But he can't agree with someone he was jealous of his success, because he wants to be #1. Kevin is gone and Umar is less popular now than when Kevin was alive.
With all the disagreements he had with Kevin he is repeating his talking points. He reworded the danger zone and no man’s land
Thank you Oshay, I continue to enjoy your content. I have been following you for about a year now.
I used to support my boy Umar until he knocked down KS . Ks is the GOAT
They don't want to hear it from either one of them 🤣
Umar has a saviour complex...however, he cant be taken seriously.
I see Umar is still stealing Kevin Samuels talking points in 2023
Oh so he’s Mr duplicity…
Tell the truth shame the devil yeah man is we don’t have a community anymore
Umar called himself a “husband material” guy back in the day. Doesn’t this guy have 2 kids out wedlock? If I’m not mistaken, he has 2 baby mamas?
Umar with his pan Africanism is problematic himself about his expectations of BW. On one hand he’s talking about concerns of so many BW being single, I heard 73 percent. He blames it on them playing the field too long until they’ve reached their fifties. One of the reasons a lot of them are single is because they’re waiting on that perfect BM who aren’t choosing them. On the other hand , he’s whining about the BW who open their options and marry WM or other races.
Question: To Dr. Umar if BW are playing the field in their 20s and 30s and BM in their 20s to 50s are looking for wives to start their families what should the BM do who are looking for women to start their families should they wait for BW or shouldn't they find the women that want to be with them and start their families regardless of their race?
Umar said there’s no excuse 😂
Get that passport and find a wife....not a harlot or a baby momma
There will always be a small group of marriage minded women in every age group. Ignore the noise and look for a wife. They not that hard to see in sea of hot girl summers
@@souschef4489 You really didn't get the point of the rhetorical question.......
Umar would have good and decent BM wait until these 304 get ran through by Pookie’s and Tyrone’s. Then have these men accept these trifling women, their mental health problems, and their bastard children. If you’re a decent BM in the States and you can’t find good BW, I’d say find your BW elsewhere (Africa, Latin America, Caribbean, Europe)
KS haters can talk all they want, they HAVE NOT been able to get any of his over a MILLION subscribers while he was alive and not even in his demise!
KS was a BW hater.
@@lmusima3275 Have you listened to his content or going by what you have been TOLD?
Lost my V card to a Becky. At thay point (17) it really didn't matter lol. Kinda regret it because I barely knew her, but I never saw it as a reason to bash BW. BW way to into the Social media matrix now but this is old news in some parts of the community. It's deeper than most channels actually are willing to go.
They been doing this well before social media
Why do you regret it? It's not like the act itself turned you White, a coon, or anything, lmao
@@kingozone I barely knew her. That's the regret.
Hm.
@@hasanx8066You’re a cornball. Women are women.
Now I understand why he's scamming black women now
Kevin Samuels legacy continues, even in death. Some BW didn't want to listen to KS, but want to blame BM for not dating them!! To the BW out there: You made your bed.......... DEAL!!
BM have nothing to offer anyway. They’re failed leaders of the community. They always blame women
@@lmusima3275 🌶🌶 take.
They reflect most of us unless you’re a thug or trick
There is an OPTION 3! He's just figuring it out and he's now seeing what was being said is true.
We ain't surprise that's all they do.
He did not want to hold them fully accountable where kevin did. No profit in chasing or getting backlash from too many.
Dr Umar told you the KEY if she ain’t sexually attracted to you then you don’t have a chance men understand this your life will be easier. Education, money, being a “good” man does not I repeat DOES NOT make that 🐈 💧 it never will no matter how much you want it to instead of being bitter about it learn from these men and adapt accordingly and you won’t have any problems thank me later 😊
He is telling the truth, I am a black man , I remember in high school and college ,black girls rejected me, and I love those very dark skin girls, But they did not like me. The only girl that like me was the light skin mixed race girls, I was a very smart black man on the honor rolls and completed three Bachelor degree and work toward two master degree, I met my wife, a good black woman and now retired from two jobs, I see the black women that reject me are now homeless and jobless, some are drugs head, having sex for 10 dollars on the streets
A hypocrite being a hypocrite is not news
That’s why a lot of black men go the conscious route
It's their approach one uses the stick the other uses the carrot
Bruh he criticized Kevin Samuels and is now stealing his talking points
@Oshay Duke Jackson - Salute bro.
Thank you for taking the time and pointing out Dr. Umar's hypocritical stance. Ordinarily, I rock with Doc and I still respect many of his perspectives, but as it relates to the red-pill community/ manosphere etc., I don't think he really did enough critical and objective research to digest much of the content and subject matter in order to really give a truly informed opinion. That's not to say that him HAVING an opinion is wrong, because he's welcomed to it, but in my opinion, his stance/ comments on the Godfather exhibited a clear lack of familiarity with the content and context, mixed possibly with some good old "red pill rage" and agression...
The good Dr was saying he didn’t like Kevin’s approach, not that he didn’t agree with what Kevin said the good Dr had a problem with the shaming, name calling, looks and financial, status. It wasn’t about righteousness it was about saying things in a respectful manner.
Lol why umar got tears dropping in the title picture🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😆
I bought several new pairs of pants, shirts, and shoes for school, but it still hasn't been built...DAMMIT.
LMFAOOOOOO, we gone do a backpack give away in 2086.
@@gravesg I hope i can remember
He dropped some serious gems
Great Points!!
Shout out to the women that did reject dr. Umar he’s a goofy
Lol
💀
😂😂😂😂 oh shit
Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 I'm weak
Maybe if they didn't reject him, he wouldn't be the way he is. He screams pint up aggression from lack of pussy
I noticed Dr. Umar quoted K.S. as saying women were too fat too small or too broke. That is a lie. He never said black women were too small or too broke. We know that he said HV men preferred a smaller woman and didn't care about a women's money. So I don't know what Dr. Umar is talking about. And what I LOVED about Mr. Kevin Samuels is that HE TOLD THE TRUTH!!! May he Rest In Peace.
The Godfather is still undefeated!!!👏👏
What Umar should be telling these women is to don't got involved AT ALL with these guys that they know is not husband material
The good doc dont speak for all Black folk.. He needs to let the covert racism go!.. Date whomever you like or love. Trust me, life is too short!
If you listen without watching, you would assume the person talking is Kevin Samuels. Yet this guy had an issue with KS. KS message will live forever
70% of black women and single and unmarried. I feel like I will never be good enough for a black woman. Especially if they are successful.
KS said the same thing about women's poor choices during their prime years. This is not new.
He is totally hypocritical and now is going to act as if he came up with what KS had already laid out clearly! Too late to the party Mr PHD! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 KS was all about tough love and bringing reality to the delusion!!
I agree with, Dr. Umar. Kevin made some good points whether people liked it or not. 👍🏿
Yes, it's a vicious cycle which I knew started by black women even in my own country in the Caribbean!
Men don't care about how much money women make.
When I was listening to Dr. Umar's take on the situation, I was thinking, " That sounds almost exactly like Kevin Samuels" - The only slight difference - When woman tell Kevin that what I high earning man, he gets into what those women want and then when the conversation about height, weight, dress size comes into play. But the premise is essentially the same.
And water is wet. That doesn't surprise me at all. Then they have the audacity to have an issue with brothers doing the same to them later on in life. I don't get it. Dr. Umar Johnson went through the same thing Kevin Samuels talked about. But he acted like Kevin Samuels wasn't telling the true.
Umar is talking nonsense about "no woman stays beautiful forever". The point is that she should use her tooth and beauty to secure a good husband and when her looks fade, he will still be there because she's the mother of his kids and the love is there. No man is obligated to have that same level of love for her if she's an older baby momma with someone else's kids.
If something else comes along men and women leave, if they have the options. It is what it is.
You said it oshay...self righteous. Either that or bipolar.
Black guys o mover looked me in high school and college. It wasn’t until I became older did black guys approach me. I’m married to a black guy now. Thank God I didn’t become bitter because the guy’s I thought were cute didn’t want me.
That's why he was getting on Kevin Samuels.
Growing up a lot of black men even when they are young teens realize black woman don’t like smart black men… when have you ever heard a black woman say she was soo attracted to how intelligent a black man was when they first met?
But then…he found a strange costume in a dark alley and put it on…granting him extraordinary powers of…..PRO WHACK THE PANDER BEAR 🐻
I don't see any way back for any community in this modern era. It's all well and good saying people need to get serious,but what's the actual route back to that? People from broken homes and single mothers are not going to train their children to become suitable partners, the entire culture is geared towards materialism and sex. The Western world would need some kind of Victorian era, where Moral Authoritarians were in total control, but that's the exact opposite direction to what everyone keeps voting for and demanding. People are surely going to have to start dealing with the reality that the situation is about to get worse, not better. There's no 'come to Jesus' moment coming by itself for young girls and women. You have to be trained to be disciplined by a strong family, a strong society, and a strong culture.
Most likely to succeed? What has Dr. Umar Johnson REALLY done besides ask for money for his "school"? And how is he a doctor?
Kevin never said too broke
He talking bout 40 and 50yr olds,
30 IS WHERE THE WALL AT... he being funny. at 25 it get fishy for me like leanardo.
Yup he was being nice
Damn Dr Umar finally opened his eyes