I also call BS on this... She's likely conflating a situation into this... She then ranted and sounded like the stereotype of what everyone is tired of from her cohort. She's an 8 SMV and can easily pair up with the next brother who comes along. Sisters burn the world when they don't get their way.
She didn't get rejected because she was black, she got rejected because she the kind of woman that will throw a tiktok tantrum whenever she don't get her way
Stop it,he straight up told her that he didn't date BW! And that's fine,but he obviously WANTED to hurt her with that information because he could have simply let her know that he wasn't interested!
@@trinathompson8587boohoo she got turned down (nicely). Some men can get disrespected as well as turned down without them complaining. Thats all, you guys are equal right? So you guys can handle rejection like most men😂😂
@@trinathompson8587 you can tell from the video she's obviously an unhinged person. Despite her looks, her personality just off those few minutes any man with a lick of since will keep their distance from that trainwreck
@@akin242002 Oh shit that all that ain't shit damn I might be in the game. Besides I need me a break from white supremacist anyway. I need to check some shit out in Ethiopia. I seen that video of my man on UA-cam and he looked like he had the time of his life. And this no disrespect to black women because I love my sistas in America. But do a nigga need to see something new yes I'm long overdue.
She’s mad pressed about this - I really don’t know how she asked him, he responded with an answer, and she got mad. Now she’s saying he shoulda kept his mouth shut? If he did, she woulda jumped to conclusions and said the same thing! Just can’t win with people that argue like this
Middy in my experience White Women are just more Submissive so what she was rejected us brothers were rejected by sistas in high school for not having swag and being a lame smh I date white women
Tell' em sis!!! How dare he think for himself and not reciprocate your desire for him? I mean, what self respecting man wouldn't want a funny, brilliant narcissist 🤦
Yes and no. Most women prefer taller men but it's weird that I typically only hear black men more so then all the only men combine have a preference for someone outside their tribe that happens to be our historical oppressors. In addition, these interracial unions are not accomplishing much for all the attention they get. In fact, most black men prefer white women not because of financial gain but because they want their children to come out looking ambiguous, and they know their dating preferences infuriates most black women. For me, black people are simply embarrassing and giving the global population another reason to look at us with astonishment.
Black women have NO issue saying they don't like men who aren't tall enough, swagged out enough, rich enough, cool enough, hood enough, ect. In fact black women are the most picky when it comes to choosing partners and aren't shy about telling you why they don't want you. I really have no empathy when black women get rejected. Sorry. Affinity? Black women have spent the last 45 years going on national TV shouting "niggas ain't shit." Is she serious?
I don't even pay women no mind. They can have all the preferences, requirements, and dreams of a high value man they want, but when they are on the end of it, they complain
Same. I generally just move around without a care in the world about what a woman likes and doesn't like. It's too draining of a task. Only give your attention to the people and things that matter the most to you.
yep. what you have reaped now you have sown and its biting them very well. also consider that they are the least desirable from non black men as most brothers are exercising their options to date other races, its starting to look bleak for them
Exactly. People get rejected daily, so what`s her problem? She should accept what he said and move on. A woman told me to stay in my lane. And another black woman told me she has standards. I was like ok cool. I`m a black man and I have standards too. So hey, it`s all good.
Exactly! The inability to accept rejection is ridiculous! But then again, they have been called “Queens & Goddesses”, so her rejection-depression may be understandable! 🤣😂🤣
It's not that she got rejected. It's that she got rejected in favor of a white woman...by her own race. That's gotta kill her self-esteem and confidence. She may have Level 10 insecurity after that diss.
@@1969Makaveli INDEED! They can dish it out, but can’t take it. lord forbid someone give em a taste of there own medicine.. 😂 you know how many times i’ve heard..i don’t date Blk guys or..Ugh your light skinned, or *I hate lightskin n*kkas* 1 time i got (i don’t do lightbrites) but Awwww ur cute tho.. a few times I was even shoved/pushed away..by a cockblockinfriend..
@@thebighousencaaattendancer478 But she a “strong independent black girl magic black woman, so I’d expect for her skin to be a little bit thicker than that!
Not all of us think like that. I wasn't raised in an environment like that Thank God. Don't get me wrong, I'm not helpless, but I believe in gender roles and and happily submissive to my husband. Lol
@@indiashante1560 most western, american bIack women do think like this though. they've been totally brainwashed by feminism & men want no parts of it.
I was raised in the south, I’m a light skinned black man, I was told many times during my school days, and early dating years by many different shades of black women that…. I don’t date “high yella” men or I don’t like “red men” 😮 when I was younger it used to bother me, but as I got older and started to understand that ppl have preferences and so do I, I started to not let it bother me as much, I’m much older now and married, but I still hear SOME black women make these same comments. Funny thing though when I was dating and would state my preferences to women on dating sites and in person, they would say I was “shallow”…. Imagine that 😊
I won't use the word "colorism" since by definition it doesn't go both ways. Instead I'll say "colorist" so it's more inclusive to all shades in our community. Colorist people should be avoided like the plague. It's a shame there are still people that think like this in 2023.
A man is called shallow, misogynistic, dusty etc for having standards and a preference but women have no issues expressing their preference and it isn’t an issue. 🤯🤯
He didn't think it was a compliment at all. He just stated his preference. Yes you're all those things and he's not obligated to like you. Everyone grows up in different environments. I love how they say like what you like quietly but they sit back and bash black men daily. As soon as she sees him with a non black women she'll call him all types of names from sell out to coon. If he wouldn't have said anything she would have assumed it or called him gay anyway.
@@marvl6472 facts bro people always try to police us black men for having a preference and we choose to date out people are quite when everyone else date out
indeed.. it’s one of the reasons why i started dating out lowkey it’s only sooo many times you can hear bw around you say BM are trash/ain’t ish etc..before you’re like f*ck it. and try something different..
Lol, when the black nappy headed demon wytch.See black men with non black woman. It's not that they are jealous and want to be with you. They hate your guts. See it as a flex, feel that dating out should be exclusive to them. From observation and experience.
Exactly, damned if you do, Damned if you don’t I simply don’t waist my time and I know plenty of brothers on the same sshhh. We cannot bring y’all around our families our aunts would run us away
exactly they can dish out rejections all day everyday but, lord forbid someone give em a taste of there own medicine.. 😂 you know how many times i’ve heard..i don’t date Blkmen or..Ugh your light skinned, or *I hate lightskin n*kkas* 1 time i got (i don’t do lightbrites) but Awwww ur cute tho.. like wtf.. so i’ve got little to no sympathy for her type!
Lmao she gave whole essay about being rejected 🤣! All I heard was her feelings getting shattered. It was probably her 1st time getting rejected by any man.
I wished she had Stfu. You didn't see BM cuss out Alice Walker when she wrote The Color Purple. BW curb short brothers all the time. The only black guys under 6ft, that the community likes are Prince (RIP) and Kevin Hart.
The kind of black women jamie foxx rejects should tell you how bad the situation is. Even the top tier black women cant compete when i black man has a chance with better women
Some of us black men just can’t win these days. There are still many beautiful black marriages out there too, don’t forget that. Thank God I have been happily married for 17 years. Tough times and all 🙏🏾
July will be 6 years for me and I pray to God I’ll stay happily married for 100 more years! Modern Women today honestly traumatize me with these ridiculous takes, fake victim cards and other bs!!!
I'm going on 13 years this year. These people wouldn't know what to do with themselves if WE ALL uploaded videos about our happy Black marriages.They definitely be outnumbered. Social media for "single" folks. 🤣🤣🤣
I love how other people try to tell YOU about yourself😂…”He should have just kept it to himself”…. I also love when other try to tell a GROWN man what to do…
I cannot Blain black women for rejecting some black men, because today Black men are mama boys and fags, 35 year old men walking around with their paint sagging begging for a beer, no woman in her right mind want this piece of s#^&T, This black man is worthless than two dead flies, I am a Black man and not a woman, I been married 50 years to the same woman, IT sad a African man can control 4 wives while living in a grass hut, but American black man cannot control one girlfriend, this should tell how weak black men are in America, and they are always running
"Benefit from the support and affinity"? I don't think that I've felt any support or affinity in my life from black women that I'm not directly related to, or who wanted to get with me. I've seen FAR more "affinity" and interest from non-black women than any black woman. I'm attracted to black women physically, but I've only met a few who act right (and that I'm attracted to) and who don't wear fake nails, weave, fake eyelashes, and are not overweight.
Majority of BM with WW,...the WW are overweight, fake nails eyelashes and weave too.. TUPAC prophesize this in a song:... ""we'll have a race of babies, that will hate the ladies, that make the babies.""
@@saltlife6635 most of the BM with WW like that are usually only with them bc they can’t get a BW, it’s a certain type of BM that BW don’t like and this is commonly known.
Same here most of the black women who support me are either family or older than me and most that I’m attracted to don’t even look my way but go for the guy with 3 baby mommas or drug dealers. Most of the attention I get from attractive women is from non-black women especially now that I’m in law school but even before non-black women pursed me just off potential alone. I wish black women were more open to look at character first because they could then pick guys with potential. After I become successful it will be very hard to trust them because I know what it is like to get that attention before success from non-black women and I would know that the only reason black women are giving me the time of day is because I have money.
When I was growing up all those superficial traits I was told white women do, just to grow up and noticed that non BW were down to earth and actually talk to you like a person and never had one even ask about income. They truly do build up their men. I see non BM at the just that would easily get passed up if in our community but he show us videos of fine azz women he mess with and or want to marry him. We claim “keeping it real” turns out are some of the fakest caricature you’d ever met. May be not all but far too many to make you avoid them. Crazy because it was not like this at all growing up or at least not this bad
I call cap. I don't believe he said those exact words. She probably projected this onto him because its a convenient victim shield. Also, you aren't entitled to another person because you like them. Her feelings got hurt so she wanted to put him on blast.
I can see why he said "nah, I'm good." Racism is fake and used to control. The fact she said he needs to be quiet shows how controlling she is. God is Love. 🙏🏿
Fellas just get your passport and avoid this crap. If you're nice to them, they hate you. You tell them that you don't want to date them, they hate you. Forget what these women want. So just do what makes you happy. #SYSBM
"Why can't you like what you like quietly?" Man does she have a lot of nerve for saying that statement. Women can openly and proudly say that they don't want no scrub, that they want a man that's tall, wealthy, good looking etc; yet she wants him to like what he likes privately. Lady you're not gonna be everyone's cup of tea, quit bellyaching and move on, you're embarrassing yourself getting on social media and throwing a temper tantrum.
There are so many other Black men who exclusively pursue, date, court, and marry. Why is she tripping over one Black man she encountered who chose someone else.
The first woman's reaction to being turned down by that black guy has likely just further cemented his views on bw. Just imagine if he woke up day thinking 'maybe I should date bw again' and then sees her video going viral on social media 😅
Black Man get rejected from all sides. It doesn't matter who we pick, there will be something negative to discuss I'd rather make money, then be concerned about any woman's happiness
Perhaps it's more than the skin color. It can also be the ring in the nose, the light-dyed hair with extensive black roots, the heavy make-up, the dramatic personality, etc. But it also indicates self-hatred if a person prefers a mate of a different race.
BLACKMEN DON'T HAVE TO SHUT AND BE QUIET FOR NO DAMN BODY. WE DO WHAT WE WANT TO DO, AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT....... TOO FUCKING BAD!!!..........✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🖤🖤🖤💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Remember that guy you showed on here a while back? He was a young black kid, in shape, good-looking, on some sort of dating show, something about him being excited to start his new career being a nuclear physicist/engineer or something like that. And the sister rejected him even though he checked off every prerequisite she asked for (Young, 6 foot +,six figures, and handsome) because he didn't have "swag" or something along those lines. My question is, why is it ok for a woman of any race to say he's "not my type" and that is somehow socially acceptable, but when the reverse happens it is treated as some sort of war crime?
Swag can be taught/developed... What that brother was offering was God given. A nuclear physicist/engineer, over 6 ft, good looking, in shape, and making 6 figures? That woman is a plum dumb fool! But these are the same woman that will be using "Ciara's prayer" looking for a Russell Wilson type later down the line. 🤦🏽♀️ I gotta look for that video cuz I didn't see that one.
Not having swag is not the same as being or not being black. A woman telling she doesn't like a man because he doesn't have swag is not the same as a woman saving she doesn't like You because you're black. Black people who doesn't feel atracted to other black people are damaged. Not saying You can't like or fall in love with non black people. But if You reject your own you're damaged.
It’s so interesting to hear a woman speak and come to understand their feelings are being expressed. Just sad if you hear that women operating in fear scarcity and lack
How do you speak to the pain of black men when No one listens?? Black men are responding by not caring anymore and leaving for their happiness. Our race will die out.
In the United States black American females who are pretty, attractive, cooperative, and in very good shape are rare. Even Kevin Samuels admitted that single, childless black women under age 30 who are 8's, 9's, or 10's are rare. This exclusivity normally goes to benefit black men. However, instead of accolades, we got Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, Keeping Up With The Kardashians, 'I don't want no scrubs,' and 'I can do bad all by myself.'
exactly! it’s why a moderately attractive chick that’s not overweight often doesn’t even have to try to compete for a guy..cuz 4:5 chicks out here are either built bad or overweight..that’s until a really 7,8,9 shows up then that 5.5 with a nice shape looks like what she is fr a 5
Boy she mad😂😂 she not his flavor. I bet she got in the car and started crying. I can’t imagine how that brother look for her to come on the internet and act a fool.😢😢😮😮😅😅
The best compliment I received from a black woman was “I bet you only dare white women”… she really said that I’m way out of her league and shows success and dapperness.. I stay away from them… my preference is natural black women, Darkskinned first and any shade afterwards.. I love locs, natural hair. Good skin (shows me she eats well and takes care of herself) soft voice, great smile. I’ve seen many, they’re of course taken.. EARLY! The leftovers after 25? There are VERY few who slipped through the cracks. If I can’t find a black woman, then a dark Asian or a latina, I want my children’s complexion to be close to mines, simple for me.
This story sounds like Ducktales. It sounds like she made it up in her head to go on her little rant. Social media really have created a lot of mental illness
“She makes some interesting points.” No O’Shea, she didn’t make a single point. She sounded like a spoiled brat throwing a tantrum because she didn’t get her way.
She's absolutely correct. It goes both ways. We as BM have been disgustingly and heavily critiqued by the "System" and BW for YEARS, and BM have simply grown tired.
I'll never forget this one time I was doing deliveries driving and this woman had tripped in the street. I stopped and asked if she was ok and she replied "not in that car". I just kept driving in awe.
If you are a regular guy, every race of women is your type, some don't have the luxury to pick and choose. You have people out here telling you what race you need to date, why would you even listen to that. You date the person who will date you, getting a yes from any woman today is hard, now people are telling you who to date and lowering your chances of getting someone.
A while back I had a Spanish chic but she can go for white Im from Miami so it's different flavors 😂 everytime we went on dates black Fe's hated it to one time I was holding my chic had and there were three black chics and they tried to separate me from holding my girl hand in the mall 😂😂 they hate it that we date out our race
I do feel a little bad for the Sistahood. They've been delusional for 65 years but keep drinking the kool-aid served to them Luke warm in a Solo cup 🤦🏾♂️
Fellas, the time for having dialogue with these toxic women is over. Don't be concerned with how they feel. They had their chance to have civil discourse with us for the last 30 years. Nothing productive will come of it and it will only lead to your frustration. The WALL OF SILENCE is HERE.
I had a sister tell me the exact same thing oh I was I was nice and cool and we are so compatible the only thing was that I was too dark skin for her and yes she was black too.
Um......she has a poor woman's mentality. Colorism is what keeps crippling blacks and whites. If he don't like black women then he don't like them. I haven't dated a black woman in years. The only color that matters is green.
Yikes, the lady went hard for something that wasn't that deep. For some brother, who only said black women aren't his preference, I think she exaggerated it. It sucks, but if that's how he feels, what can you do about it? Stomp the ground like a toddler, in anger? C'mon now. I believe she really liked this guy and thought she could bag him, but failed. Her ego got hurt, and here she is on TikTok ranting about it.
He didn't say black women are bad, he just doesn't want them and kept it 100%, she allowed her feelings to be hurt, then injected a lot of her own bs trying to figure out why. Sounds like she couldn't handle rejection.
It’s only “we need to stick together” when it’s a BM dating non black but the moment Tasha gets a Brian it’s “you go girl”. I literally now, look at how they judge other BW… if it’s cool to date a Brian when she big up other BW then I’ll be dam I have anything to say when I see BM date out or speak out why he don’t date in
The man spoke his mind. She needs to learn how to accept rejection. Life’s hard.
Exactly
Na nih. That was a feminine move.
@@eman3414 exactly 💯
I also call BS on this... She's likely conflating a situation into this... She then ranted and sounded like the stereotype of what everyone is tired of from her cohort. She's an 8 SMV and can easily pair up with the next brother who comes along. Sisters burn the world when they don't get their way.
Exactly
She didn't get rejected because she was black, she got rejected because she the kind of woman that will throw a tiktok tantrum whenever she don't get her way
🎯 He gave her the male version of “I have a boyfriend” 🤣🤣
Stop it,he straight up told her that he didn't date BW! And that's fine,but he obviously WANTED to hurt her with that information because he could have simply let her know that he wasn't interested!
@@trinathompson8587boohoo she got turned down (nicely). Some men can get disrespected as well as turned down without them complaining. Thats all, you guys are equal right? So you guys can handle rejection like most men😂😂
Facts
@@trinathompson8587 you can tell from the video she's obviously an unhinged person. Despite her looks, her personality just off those few minutes any man with a lick of since will keep their distance from that trainwreck
I don't believe her story...This is just a way for her to low key attack a man's preference.
You may be right
Believe NO women until you see the proof
Exactly 💯
🎯💯
@@jayeverything amen
⭐ Get ya passports and leave this type of women alone. nothing but victim hood and just plain annoying
Type that again brother!!
How much is a passport.
@@traviscarter1023 $160 for the book & card.
@@akin242002 Oh shit that all that ain't shit damn I might be in the game. Besides I need me a break from white supremacist anyway. I need to check some shit out in Ethiopia. I seen that video of my man on UA-cam and he looked like he had the time of his life. And this no disrespect to black women because I love my sistas in America. But do a nigga need to see something new yes I'm long overdue.
I’m leaving the country for good In 9 days
She asked him and he answered. TF was he supposed to do?
She want him to lie
Sometimes, they forget that the world doesn't owe them understanding.
This needs to be top comment 😂
@@jeremiahhudson302 They want the truth but just like Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men .... YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!
@@darklordbruce6593 Nope.
She’s mad pressed about this - I really don’t know how she asked him, he responded with an answer, and she got mad. Now she’s saying he shoulda kept his mouth shut? If he did, she woulda jumped to conclusions and said the same thing! Just can’t win with people that argue like this
Middy in my experience White Women are just more Submissive so what she was rejected us brothers were rejected by sistas in high school for not having swag and being a lame smh I date white women
She just MAAAD! 😂 He got her all up in her feelings! Don’t get your panties up in a bunch! WOMEN CAN’T HANDLE REJECTION!
Can’t EVER Win with females Bro
Tell' em sis!!! How dare he think for himself and not reciprocate your desire for him? I mean, what self respecting man wouldn't want a funny, brilliant narcissist 🤦
Good one Lol 😂
Exactly Bro 😂
Truth LOL 😂!
This shows women can’t handle rejection. She went all the way out in left field 😂
@@smitht1988 She doesn't represent all women. Cause with your logic, rapist represent all men.
It's no different from when women say they don't like short men
💯% agree!
It’s no fun when the rabbit gots the gun😂
@@marvl6472 loool it's True it's my type of LightsQueen
Yes and no. Most women prefer taller men but it's weird that I typically only hear black men more so then all the only men combine have a preference for someone outside their tribe that happens to be our historical oppressors. In addition, these interracial unions are not accomplishing much for all the attention they get. In fact, most black men prefer white women not because of financial gain but because they want their children to come out looking ambiguous, and they know their dating preferences infuriates most black women. For me, black people are simply embarrassing and giving the global population another reason to look at us with astonishment.
Exactly women shit on short men all the time
Black women have NO issue saying they don't like men who aren't tall enough, swagged out enough, rich enough, cool enough, hood enough, ect. In fact black women are the most picky when it comes to choosing partners and aren't shy about telling you why they don't want you. I really have no empathy when black women get rejected. Sorry.
Affinity? Black women have spent the last 45 years going on national TV shouting "niggas ain't shit." Is she serious?
Preach preacher📢.
The crazy part is he said it far more respectfully than most ABW would have said it in a reverse situation.
Exactly 💯.. they have been putting black men down for years
Big facts!!!💯🎯
Preach 🗣
I don't even pay women no mind. They can have all the preferences, requirements, and dreams of a high value man they want, but when they are on the end of it, they complain
Same. I generally just move around without a care in the world about what a woman likes and doesn't like. It's too draining of a task. Only give your attention to the people and things that matter the most to you.
It's a problem when YOU don't want them. But not a problem when THEY don't want you
Yep
All he said was, “I WANT NO PIGEONS!” Seems fair to me.
💀😭🤣
Shout out to the sporty thieves rap group
CHUUUCH 🔈 !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now yall know how black men have felt for years, now black men are dishing out the energy you gave us, *now take it* GOODBYE.
yep. what you have reaped now you have sown and its biting them very well. also consider that they are the least desirable from non black men as most brothers are exercising their options to date other races, its starting to look bleak for them
I got rejected many times by black women too. But life goes on. Keep toasting until you find your preferences.
Exactly. People get rejected daily, so what`s her problem? She should accept what he said and move on. A woman told me to stay in my lane. And another black woman told me she has standards. I was like ok cool. I`m a black man and I have standards too. So hey, it`s all good.
Exactly! The inability to accept rejection is ridiculous! But then again, they have been called “Queens & Goddesses”, so her rejection-depression may be understandable! 🤣😂🤣
It's not that she got rejected. It's that she got rejected in favor of a white woman...by her own race. That's gotta kill her self-esteem and confidence. She may have Level 10 insecurity after that diss.
@@1969Makaveli INDEED!
They can dish it out, but can’t take it.
lord forbid someone give em a taste of there own medicine..
😂
you know how many times i’ve heard..i don’t date Blk guys or..Ugh your light skinned, or
*I hate lightskin n*kkas*
1 time i got (i don’t do lightbrites) but Awwww ur cute tho.. a few times I was even shoved/pushed away..by a cockblockinfriend..
@@thebighousencaaattendancer478 But she a “strong independent black girl magic black woman, so I’d expect for her skin to be a little bit thicker than that!
What happened to being strong and independent and don’t need no man???
Not all of us think like that. I wasn't raised in an environment like that Thank God. Don't get me wrong, I'm not helpless, but I believe in gender roles and and happily submissive to my husband. Lol
@@indiashante1560 most western, american bIack women do think like this though. they've been totally brainwashed by feminism & men want no parts of it.
Right!
Her pretty privileged can't take rejection!
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She is only pretty when she is standing next to LaQuita !
I was raised in the south, I’m a light skinned black man, I was told many times during my school days, and early dating years by many different shades of black women that…. I don’t date “high yella” men or I don’t like “red men” 😮 when I was younger it used to bother me, but as I got older and started to understand that ppl have preferences and so do I, I started to not let it bother me as much, I’m much older now and married, but I still hear SOME black women make these same comments. Funny thing though when I was dating and would state my preferences to women on dating sites and in person, they would say I was “shallow”…. Imagine that 😊
I won't use the word "colorism" since by definition it doesn't go both ways. Instead I'll say "colorist" so it's more inclusive to all shades in our community. Colorist people should be avoided like the plague. It's a shame there are still people that think like this in 2023.
A man is called shallow, misogynistic, dusty etc for having standards and a preference but women have no issues expressing their preference and it isn’t an issue. 🤯🤯
At least you didnt adopt a thug persona to compensate
The double standards are crazy with women 🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
You can tell the first sister turned down Alot of good brothers that was 5'11, No kids, and a Good job, making 50,000 k a year🎯💯
He didn't think it was a compliment at all. He just stated his preference. Yes you're all those things and he's not obligated to like you. Everyone grows up in different environments. I love how they say like what you like quietly but they sit back and bash black men daily. As soon as she sees him with a non black women she'll call him all types of names from sell out to coon. If he wouldn't have said anything she would have assumed it or called him gay anyway.
@@marvl6472 facts bro people always try to police us black men for having a preference and we choose to date out people are quite when everyone else date out
She just MAAAD! 😂 He got her all up in her feelings! Don’t get your panties up in a bunch! WOMEN CAN’T HANDLE REJECTION!
indeed.. it’s one of the reasons why i started dating out lowkey it’s only sooo many times you can hear bw around you say BM are trash/ain’t ish etc..before you’re like f*ck it. and try something different..
Lol, when the black nappy headed demon wytch.See black men with non black woman. It's not that they are jealous and want to be with you. They hate your guts. See it as a flex, feel that dating out should be exclusive to them. From observation and experience.
Exactly, damned if you do, Damned if you don’t I simply don’t waist my time and I know plenty of brothers on the same sshhh. We cannot bring y’all around our families our aunts would run us away
For a group of people who constantly say they don't like BM, these Divestors can't seem to keep BM names out of their mouths.😂
The attitude she’s displaying is exactly why he hit her with the…skrttttttt 🛑 ✋🏾!!
Facts
exactly they can dish out rejections all day everyday but, lord forbid someone give em a taste of there own medicine..
😂
you know how many times i’ve heard..i don’t date Blkmen or..Ugh your light skinned, or
*I hate lightskin n*kkas*
1 time i got (i don’t do lightbrites) but Awwww ur cute tho.. like wtf.. so i’ve got little to no sympathy for her type!
🤣😂
Exactly.
Yep
Lmao she gave whole essay about being rejected 🤣! All I heard was her feelings getting shattered. It was probably her 1st time getting rejected by any man.
I wished she had Stfu. You didn't see BM cuss out Alice Walker when she wrote The Color Purple. BW curb short brothers all the time. The only black guys under 6ft, that the community likes are Prince (RIP) and Kevin Hart.
Facts
She blamed everybody instead of taking a L (well she took the L regardless 😆)smh.
@@bigreggie396 100% true
Didn't Jamie fox liked what he liked quietly, and they still talked about him.
The kind of black women jamie foxx rejects should tell you how bad the situation is. Even the top tier black women cant compete when i black man has a chance with better women
Some of us black men just can’t win these days. There are still many beautiful black marriages out there too, don’t forget that. Thank God I have been happily married for 17 years. Tough times and all 🙏🏾
Seem like a win to me lol she really wanted that guy😆
July will be 6 years for me and I pray to God I’ll stay happily married for 100 more years! Modern Women today honestly traumatize me with these ridiculous takes, fake victim cards and other bs!!!
I'm going on 13 years this year. These people wouldn't know what to do with themselves if WE ALL uploaded videos about our happy Black marriages.They definitely be outnumbered. Social media for "single" folks. 🤣🤣🤣
Approaching 18 years in September
Celebrating 22-1/2 years🎉
self hatred is a hell of a drug.....
I love how other people try to tell YOU about yourself😂…”He should have just kept it to himself”…. I also love when other try to tell a GROWN man what to do…
Great video and 100% correct. As a black man you got to navigate through both type of black women so there is no winner because they'll never change.
I cannot Blain black women for rejecting some black men, because today Black men are mama boys and fags, 35 year old men walking around with their paint sagging begging for a beer, no woman in her right mind want this piece of s#^&T, This black man is worthless than two dead flies, I am a Black man and not a woman, I been married 50 years to the same woman, IT sad a African man can control 4 wives while living in a grass hut, but American black man cannot control one girlfriend, this should tell how weak black men are in America, and they are always running
Why do men have to be quiet, but she can go on and on and on.
"Benefit from the support and affinity"? I don't think that I've felt any support or affinity in my life from black women that I'm not directly related to, or who wanted to get with me. I've seen FAR more "affinity" and interest from non-black women than any black woman. I'm attracted to black women physically, but I've only met a few who act right (and that I'm attracted to) and who don't wear fake nails, weave, fake eyelashes, and are not overweight.
Majority of BM with WW,...the WW are overweight, fake nails eyelashes and weave too.. TUPAC prophesize this in a song:... ""we'll have a race of babies, that will hate the ladies, that make the babies.""
@@saltlife6635 most of the BM with WW like that are usually only with them bc they can’t get a BW, it’s a certain type of BM that BW don’t like and this is commonly known.
Same here most of the black women who support me are either family or older than me and most that I’m attracted to don’t even look my way but go for the guy with 3 baby mommas or drug dealers. Most of the attention I get from attractive women is from non-black women especially now that I’m in law school but even before non-black women pursed me just off potential alone. I wish black women were more open to look at character first because they could then pick guys with potential. After I become successful it will be very hard to trust them because I know what it is like to get that attention before success from non-black women and I would know that the only reason black women are giving me the time of day is because I have money.
@@saltlife6635cope
When I was growing up all those superficial traits I was told white women do, just to grow up and noticed that non BW were down to earth and actually talk to you like a person and never had one even ask about income. They truly do build up their men. I see non BM at the just that would easily get passed up if in our community but he show us videos of fine azz women he mess with and or want to marry him. We claim “keeping it real” turns out are some of the fakest caricature you’d ever met. May be not all but far too many to make you avoid them. Crazy because it was not like this at all growing up or at least not this bad
I call cap. I don't believe he said those exact words. She probably projected this onto him because its a convenient victim shield. Also, you aren't entitled to another person because you like them. Her feelings got hurt so she wanted to put him on blast.
I can see why he said "nah, I'm good."
Racism is fake and used to control.
The fact she said he needs to be quiet shows how controlling she is.
God is Love. 🙏🏿
With whiskers she would look like one of the ThunderCats or an extra for the musical "Cats".
Or the cowardly lion from the wizard of oz
Thunder Thunder Thunder Cat 🐈 hoooooooooooooo
It's giving... You're proving his point. And let's keep it real. If he rejected her with no explanation he would be gay
The fact that she came to the internet with it, shows that she is unstable.
Yep
Fellas just get your passport and avoid this crap. If you're nice to them, they hate you. You tell them that you don't want to date them, they hate you. Forget what these women want. So just do what makes you happy. #SYSBM
Amen 🙏🏾♥️💗
The ones out there are also getting poisoned by this. It's spreading like wildfire.
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It's tough. A good black women is more precious than rubies and may not be easy to find.
"Why can't you like what you like quietly?" Man does she have a lot of nerve for saying that statement. Women can openly and proudly say that they don't want no scrub, that they want a man that's tall, wealthy, good looking etc; yet she wants him to like what he likes privately. Lady you're not gonna be everyone's cup of tea, quit bellyaching and move on, you're embarrassing yourself getting on social media and throwing a temper tantrum.
There are so many other Black men who exclusively pursue, date, court, and marry. Why is she tripping over one Black man she encountered who chose someone else.
Women don’t take rejection well, this is an example of that. 😂
She was butt hurt😂
"Like what you like quietly". All while she just sat there and verbalized all her dislikes on said situation. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
She is upset the guy who waited for at the finish line has a lot of different colors to pick from
She showed exactly why he passed on her.✌🏿
The first woman's reaction to being turned down by that black guy has likely just further cemented his views on bw. Just imagine if he woke up day thinking 'maybe I should date bw again' and then sees her video going viral on social media 😅
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So basically what you saying is black women are doing a good job advertising to us black men why we should walk away from them
And this is how other Countries went from DARK MELANIN PEOPLE TO NONE.. Now it's time for America...Divide, Conquer and go Extinct... PAY ATTENTION
@@iamiz3825 I mean to be fair, a majority of them talk mad trash about men and don’t realize how bad they look.
That dude must have been BALLIN OUT ON SNO BUNNIES..$$$.. an she BIG MAD!
Black Man get rejected from all sides. It doesn't matter who we pick, there will be something negative to discuss
I'd rather make money, then be concerned about any woman's happiness
Perhaps it's more than the skin color. It can also be the ring in the nose, the light-dyed hair with extensive black roots, the heavy make-up, the dramatic personality, etc. But it also indicates self-hatred if a person prefers a mate of a different race.
Where are all these people telling black people they are not good enough? Are they hiding? Seems like a her problem.
BLACKMEN DON'T HAVE TO SHUT AND BE QUIET FOR NO DAMN BODY.
WE DO WHAT WE WANT TO DO, AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT....... TOO FUCKING BAD!!!..........✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️!
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🖤🖤🖤💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Never ever worship the ground anyone human walk on. Screw that.
NEVER
She proved in that tik tok video why she was not his preference 🥴
These same women don't care when they reject good guys for thugs but feel some type of way when they get rejected.
Rejection To women:😭
Rejection To Men:🤷🏽♂️
Meanwhile it’s men killing women left and right over rejection
@@fancymocha3555 lol Cap
Facts
Ahh, Mocha, the faithful troll
I feel sorry for black American women. Their own men don't even want them. You can't say that about any other demographic of women. SMDH
Remember that guy you showed on here a while back? He was a young black kid, in shape, good-looking, on some sort of dating show, something about him being excited to start his new career being a nuclear physicist/engineer or something like that. And the sister rejected him even though he checked off every prerequisite she asked for (Young, 6 foot +,six figures, and handsome) because he didn't have "swag" or something along those lines. My question is, why is it ok for a woman of any race to say he's "not my type" and that is somehow socially acceptable, but when the reverse happens it is treated as some sort of war crime?
Swag can be taught/developed... What that brother was offering was God given. A nuclear physicist/engineer, over 6 ft, good looking, in shape, and making 6 figures? That woman is a plum dumb fool! But these are the same woman that will be using "Ciara's prayer" looking for a Russell Wilson type later down the line. 🤦🏽♀️ I gotta look for that video cuz I didn't see that one.
Not having swag is not the same as being or not being black. A woman telling she doesn't like a man because he doesn't have swag is not the same as a woman saving she doesn't like You because you're black. Black people who doesn't feel atracted to other black people are damaged. Not saying You can't like or fall in love with non black people. But if You reject your own you're damaged.
Years ago it was game, not hood enough, Flava....same bs different generation. Let them keep looking for the unicorn brotha
The divestor girl.... Rofl....
“Look how many mixed kids are in foster care” black women have 1.2million biracial children. You literally can’t win either way.
The competition is REAL!!!
It’s so interesting to hear a woman speak and come to understand their feelings are being expressed. Just sad if you hear that women operating in fear scarcity and lack
THEYRE REAPING WHAT THEY SOWED FOR YEARS.. BTW DID SHE SAY "SUPPORT". LOL 😂😂.
Black women don't love black men. Black women love TikTok and Instagram!
So Now , She's going to be a "Divestor" , And start "Trashing" Black Men now. ?🤷💃🤷💃
She TALKS TOO DAMN MUCH he was just being nice She absolutely PRESSED 💯 😆 🤣
She big big mad
How do you speak to the pain of black men when No one listens?? Black men are responding by not caring anymore and leaving for their happiness. Our race will die out.
Seems like the guy made the better choice after hearing her talk
In the United States black American females who are pretty, attractive, cooperative, and in very good shape are rare. Even Kevin Samuels admitted that single, childless black women under age 30 who are 8's, 9's, or 10's are rare. This exclusivity normally goes to benefit black men. However, instead of accolades, we got Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, Keeping Up With The Kardashians, 'I don't want no scrubs,' and 'I can do bad all by myself.'
The average weight for black women in America is 187. Fitness is not a priority for the majority. Thats not even taking femininity into account
exactly! it’s why a moderately attractive chick that’s not overweight often doesn’t even have to try to compete for a guy..cuz 4:5 chicks out here are either built bad or overweight..that’s until a really 7,8,9 shows up then that 5.5 with a nice shape looks like what she is fr a 5
And when there pretty slim...they always date wm
@jojores180 they're very interested in bw....for easy casual sex without any attachment and to keep division going in the black community
@@okthen5566
Or pookies. Completely bypass average black men but will get with average men of any other race.
If he said that about a White Women and rejected her, she wouldn’t have a problem
I only have one thing to say to her:
Cyn G.
So he is suppose to like her and marry her just because she's black??? absurd
Boy she mad😂😂 she not his flavor. I bet she got in the car and started crying. I can’t imagine how that brother look for her to come on the internet and act a fool.😢😢😮😮😅😅
Real question can a preference ever turn into racism?
I was told in ‘09 by a BW that she only date Dominican Men. You better catch up
He hurt he feelings.
Bo, hoo, women doesn't mind and brag how they degrade men.
The whole video you made is why you were not his preference. You've demonstrated it brilliantly
Ong
Exactly. And she probably still doesn't see it. Sad 😔.
People on the internet just be talking that's why I don't take the internet serious.
Bro, she waaaayyy too pressed about it. Just take the L and move on sis.
Smart man.....he already know how it's gon go....he'll probably end up on child support, can't see his kid and in deep debt
I mean avoiding black woman increases his chances of avoiding it, but not by much. He's better of giving up on it or going out of country to search.
Damn the fall of BW is here. We really walking away. And they mad? Why? y’all can do bad.. or how ever you finish that bs.
It’s only going to get worse for american women especially black women its 2023 brothers let these women fall in a rabbit hole
Smh, the truth will always bring offense.
The best compliment I received from a black woman was “I bet you only dare white women”… she really said that I’m way out of her league and shows success and dapperness.. I stay away from them… my preference is natural black women, Darkskinned first and any shade afterwards.. I love locs, natural hair. Good skin (shows me she eats well and takes care of herself) soft voice, great smile. I’ve seen many, they’re of course taken.. EARLY! The leftovers after 25? There are VERY few who slipped through the cracks. If I can’t find a black woman, then a dark Asian or a latina, I want my children’s complexion to be close to mines, simple for me.
BM dont owe you quiet when you are NEVER quiet about divesting.
I feel her 100%. I just know she wouldn't empathize with me the same.
The ancestor lady is clearly hurt. 😆
This story sounds like Ducktales. It sounds like she made it up in her head to go on her little rant. Social media really have created a lot of mental illness
Lol, not Ducktales.
“She makes some interesting points.” No O’Shea, she didn’t make a single point. She sounded like a spoiled brat throwing a tantrum because she didn’t get her way.
Bw divest all on tiktok men don’t care. So why she so pressed? Take that energy to the divest group
Maybe she wasn't his 'type'. Something a lot of black men have grown accustomed to hearing from black women
She’s mad mad
She's absolutely correct. It goes both ways. We as BM have been disgustingly and heavily critiqued by the "System" and BW for YEARS, and BM have simply grown tired.
I'll never forget this one time I was doing deliveries driving and this woman had tripped in the street. I stopped and asked if she was ok and she replied "not in that car". I just kept driving in awe.
If you are a regular guy, every race of women is your type, some don't have the luxury to pick and choose. You have people out here telling you what race you need to date, why would you even listen to that. You date the person who will date you, getting a yes from any woman today is hard, now people are telling you who to date and lowering your chances of getting someone.
Boy I'm proud of you, you didn't Simp out this time.
That's crazy because I put my black wife in the suburbs and love on our son
Salute King
Would it have hurt less if he had said that "you are not his type?"
A while back I had a Spanish chic but she can go for white Im from Miami so it's different flavors 😂 everytime we went on dates black Fe's hated it to one time I was holding my chic had and there were three black chics and they tried to separate me from holding my girl hand in the mall 😂😂 they hate it that we date out our race
That divestor is just mad no BM wants her.
I do feel a little bad for the Sistahood. They've been delusional for 65 years but keep drinking the kool-aid served to them Luke warm in a Solo cup 🤦🏾♂️
Basically, you hate yo self if you don't CHOOSE ME ninja! 😡🤬
Fellas, the time for having dialogue with these toxic women is over. Don't be concerned with how they feel. They had their chance to have civil discourse with us for the last 30 years. Nothing productive will come of it and it will only lead to your frustration. The WALL OF SILENCE is HERE.
I had a sister tell me the exact same thing oh I was I was nice and cool and we are so compatible the only thing was that I was too dark skin for her and yes she was black too.
Um......she has a poor woman's mentality. Colorism is what keeps crippling blacks and whites. If he don't like black women then he don't like them. I haven't dated a black woman in years. The only color that matters is green.
Yikes, the lady went hard for something that wasn't that deep. For some brother, who only said black women aren't his preference, I think she exaggerated it. It sucks, but if that's how he feels, what can you do about it? Stomp the ground like a toddler, in anger? C'mon now.
I believe she really liked this guy and thought she could bag him, but failed. Her ego got hurt, and here she is on TikTok ranting about it.
He didn't say black women are bad, he just doesn't want them and kept it 100%, she allowed her feelings to be hurt, then injected a lot of her own bs trying to figure out why.
Sounds like she couldn't handle rejection.
We all know there's mainly one gender complaining about interracial dating. And if you ask someone a question don't be mad about how it is answered.
They are complaining about bm interracial dating but they all desire a brad deep down. He brings out their conditional feminity.
It’s only “we need to stick together” when it’s a BM dating non black but the moment Tasha gets a Brian it’s “you go girl”. I literally now, look at how they judge other BW… if it’s cool to date a Brian when she big up other BW then I’ll be dam I have anything to say when I see BM date out or speak out why he don’t date in