B. Smith's illness was taking a toll on her husband. Then he found another love.
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- Опубліковано 4 вер 2024
- Dan Gasby and his wife, Barbara Smith, ran a successful media empire centered around her talents until she was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's in 2013. To deal with the increasing stresses associated with caring for his wife, Gasby eventually found companionship in another woman. Subscribe to The Washington Post on UA-cam: wapo.st/2QOdcqK
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Many of B. Smith's fans are upset about her husband's choice to have a girlfriend. Read the story: wapo.st/2G5uZY4
He's been having his girlfriend in his Wife's House....that's why. !
Because he has her living in the house ! That’s not right at all.
Shame on you for posting this story
Uh no this is just WRONG!!!
I’m glad y’all post this, with his trashy azz.. O and y’all some Messy motherfuckers too naw..
If that daughter was A Biological daughter she would feel different..if Ms B had another Man inthe house while her biological DAD was ill she wouldn't be so understanding!..
I totally agree! The money doesn't hurt, either!
I think all hell would break loose🤣🤣🤣
Thank you!
Exactly!!!!
Thank you! She probably figured B. Smith wasn’t her biological mother so that's why she couldn’t care less
B Smith is a millionaire she could afford round the clock care. You Dan are no victim.......
But is she anymore? I think he's stealing her money and funnelling it to side thot.
He has the money. He is going to put her in the nursing home soon!!
Just wait til I'm Dead!
He is a selfish prick.... and most married women have no clue about the mister that they been married to
@@jessybelle Now she's dead🧐
Him, the mistress, and the step daughter are HORRIBLE people. They are just putting on for the camera because they know they are getting all her money... lawd this makes me so mad. RIP Queen 🖤
Even on camera, they don’t seem caring at all.
People accumulate karmic debts doing things like this. So sad. 😔
B Smith was my first cousin. We are decades apart so we weren't close but ,she was very close to my mother. My mother would have been horrified. This is painful to watch.
If B was the stepdaughter's biological mother,she wouldn't be okay with this
Betty Williams EXACTLY!!!!!!!! :-) Chubbo wubbo stepdaughter wants her money too!
Betty Williams i said the same exact thing!
Of course
Wheeeeeewwwww!
Everthing is tough when you get sick ...people use each other so much
Exactly
My husband has Alzheimer’s and he is only 73. I would never do this to him. I repeatNEVER
Thank you! I AIN'T never been married, but I couldn't see me doing that to my spouse! Why not divorce, get his half and move on? Wooio! This makes me so angry I could chew nails!!
Most women wouldn't. But most men do.
I respect you, God bless you on your journey
I know care taking is difficult. Im caring for my 95 yr old grandma with advanced dementia. God Bless you for doing right by your husband. B. Smith's husband is 100% wrong, ultimately his rationale is bs!!!!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I think, Im certain actually, my beloved dad, 74 uears old, has it. Not diagnosed. But pretty obvious...my thoughts r w u, right now as I type this. I know its vey difficult, infuriating maybe, to witness, to engage, to understand. Im thinking of you and your husband, in Houston Texas, this hour, this minute, this second. For your strength, for peace, for calm. And his covering.❤🙏🏾
This situation really bothers me. B Smith was a very proud classy, professional business woman. For her husband to capitalize off B Smith’s illness by moving his mistress into their home, bragging about it, then showing video clips of B Smith with Alzheimers is upsetting to me. There is no one to rescue her because she didn’t have children nor siblings. For him to do this is so tacky and tasteless.
My heart aches for B Smith and I’m praying for her for some type of intervention with professional care.
My mom always told me watch how you treat people because life is a full circle and what goes around comes around.
Oh yes... that new wife will do the same to him. She's much younger. We will see if the daughter will agree at that time. Selfish
@coptic777 and what is HER family saying? Has anyone spoken with them? Nobody is bitter. Why do you have to resort to name calling? Shows just how weak your argument is.
Coptic777, if he treated your mother or sister that way how would you feel.
He was the one that bragged about his new girlfriend and this situation in Facebook. He did this. No one else. I guess he has so much time on his hands because neither he nor girlfriend or daughter are working. They are too busy taking care of B Smith. Really with all those resources he can’t hire anyone.
Actually I’m grateful he exposed himself to the world for who he really is. An opportunist.
I just pray for her.
coptic777 I agree. I see nothing wrong with this and i bet she probably knew before her illness took completely over. People always judge but it’s always different when it’s you in the same boat. I do not disagree with this.
@coptic777 no 1 is bitter, it's just the truth.
When your husband and step daughter are opportunist... Just damn disrespectful
Exactly, all these people have a bidden agenda
L I T E R A L L Y
B smith was dumb for marrying a bum and a fat stepdaughter..
B smith should of stayed with the first husband
I honestly believe there is no such thing as true love anymore. The way he looks at her is with disgust. SMDH
I doubt that. I would be broken to watch my queen slowly disappear.
@@Oracleofcrows B.Smith passed away today😥
@Secret Encounter pssst. Nothing heals Alzheimer's. Not God. Not anything.
@Secret Encounter Please show me an instance when God healed Alzheimer's. Thanks.
@Secret Encounter Please send a news article about God raising people from the dead and cite it in APA format. Chicago format is fine too but I really prefer APA. Thanks.
My husband was diagnosed with vascular dementia (the 2nd cause of dementia after Alzheimer) in 2016. His decline started after he got bedridden on December 23, 2017, his brain just stopped sending the signals for his legs to move. In June 2018 he already had pressure ulcers. He got confused and started calling me by his sister’s name or he would ask me how much I was getting paid for his care, like I was a private nurse taking care of him. Other times he knew my name and that I was his wife. In August 2018 he got hospitalized because his ulcers were necrotic, from there he was in and out of the hospital due to bacterial and urinary tract infections. He died on January 17, 2019 due to a sepsis, renal failure, he got blind and couldn't speak anymore. Even at the moment of his death he knew I was his wife. But since he got bedridden, I felt like I had lost my husband because my life was never the same. I wasn’t expecting him to get better. I knew it was going to be an inevitable health decline and death because that was part of this brain condition or disease. I used to tell my son “wow I am a widow with a living husband.” He was living but he wasn’t aware of everyday things like normal people, that was part of the dementia. So, I don’t agree with Dan Gasby’s decision, but I guess that everyone deals with dementia in different ways. I chose to take care of my husband until he died. I was there for him.
Ma'am. My deepest condolences to you. And my respect to you as well. You took your "vows" to heart ❤. I Bless you🙏
God bless you!! Thank you for sharing your perspective
My deepest condolences,many hugs and kisses,thank you for sharing yr story
Thank you for being there for your husband,be blessed always
Bless you. You did what a good wife should and took care of him the best you could. You loved him through it all and that's how it should be.
I am so sorry for what you have all been through, and for your loss that just happened. I couldn't pretend to have any idea but I would imagine there are mixed feelings and up and down days. I hope you have good support and in time experience happiness and joy again, I would imagine since your husband loved you, he would want that. You gave true love and deserve the best.
Living off her money. This is sick. He listens to his flesh. This is not right where is her lawyer that's over her estate. Where is her family.
I can't even pretend to think this is ok. Got that woman sitting up in her house like everything is normal!!
Exactly. They are living off her wealth.
He will reap what he has sown.
Amen
Eva milsap 100 percent
THANK GOD🙌🏾🙏🏾
Good man. Good karma.
Truth
Lord protect Mrs. B Smith surround her with love and grace in Jesus Name
Juanita Komoro In Jesus Name amen
I pray this prayer, in the precious name of Jesus, thank you God, already. Amen.
That is what I said as well . god protect her.
Juanita Komoro She needs plenty protection cause she's surrounded by🐍🐍🐍
Thank you so much for the prayer
As a woman how can you step into another woman's house while she's ill and be with her husband. I'm do sorry that she is in this state, but that's what you signed up for when you married her. It's not cool at all.
Crystal Roberson Classless and disgusting.
Preach!!!!!!
It’s the most bizarre thing I have ever seen for sure.
Screwing that women's husband in her own dam house.Chile. Denial is a river in , Egypt. The mofo's here. Are drowning in bullshit💩💩💯
Yes so true and if the daughter was her real daughter she would have more concern for B.Smith
I just couldn't sleep at night knowing I'm doing this to my wife. So wrong on so many levels!
Thank you my brother. Unfortunately, most black men seem to support this.
@@mcarthurspark8636 I didn't see any black men on my list supporting this at all.
@@heyitsablackguy9553 That's good to hear because I responded to a few who supported this in the comments. One mentioned being married to a white woman, perhaps that's why.
@@mcarthurspark8636 lol
heyitsablackguy,sir that is because you are a real man who loves his wife. Dan and his Harlot Mistress,noticed their mannerism. Deep down,both of them know that what they are doing is wrong. Dan is angry at his wife for getting ill and his facial mannerism displays that he is angry with her. But,her illness were out of her controlled.
I do not believe Mrs. B.Smith wanted a Sister Wife at this point in her life!!!!!
Please keep speaking out about this wrong doing!!! Maybe someone out there will take action & stop this!!!!
My friend’s mom died of cancer two years ago. Her parents were married for over 50 years and he took care of her until her last breath. He wouldn’t let anyone other than family or medical professionals touch her. He waited on her hand and foot. Many times she couldn’t speak or move. She seemed gone... but he took care of her. She went into hospice and he had a bed put in her room so he can stay by her side. It was beautiful... he loved her so much.
Sorry for your lost but he did the right thing by her not this cheating man and his homewrecker of a mistress
anne Vaughn ty. She was like a mom to me. Let me tell you this was her second battle with breast cancer. She fought 8 years.... he couldn’t see himself without her. B Smith’s husband is in it for selfish reasons. First for a companion and second for someone to assist him.
Real love!
That's 💘
Absolutely! That's the Will of God. He is wrong on all levels.
B Smith is such a beautiful woman. Her smile can light up an unplugged Christmas tree.God bless her. EDIT-Wow ! Thanks for the likes. Love my UA-cam family! God bless you all.
This is messed up. When she is aware she is upset with the flirting. No one is there to stand up for her.
She didn't look upset to me...
@bxcinderella Do you even know what’s Alzheimers ?obviously not; otherwise you would’ve made that statement.
@@bxcinderella Uhhh... it's kinda hard to get upset when you have absolutely no idea what's going on
He thinks hes justified...And now hes comfortable...Just wait...When you do dirt...You wont escape karma... Its coming!!!!!
She doesn't know what's going on.
This was crazy when I first saw it and it’s even crazier now that she passed 🤦🏽♀️ Rest In Peace queen
Right unbelievable...
@Am Dawn wow what a great mind & a great writer well said...totally wrong on so many levels !
Such a sad story, my mom who will be 84 next month got diagnosed early this year , i called this morning to talk she can no longer drive or work a computer..it makes me sad
Facts
Adultery! Period! He's married with a side piece. Adultery! That's what it would be if she wasn't sick, so her being sick doesn't change the definition. Vows dont say in sickness, go get a side piece. Dishonorable, disrespectful, and arrogant.
Why for the life of me does this has to be about a piece. To me it is about his peace of mind...which gives him the strength to continue to do the day to day care for someone who he loves
Makita Andrews I’m thinking 🤔 and I don’t want to think what I’m thinking this man is doing wrong this is wrong she doesn’t know what’s she’s doing .... where is her family wow
Belinda Anderson Thank goodness you and I see this differently
All of this comment and then some. Smh such a disgrace
He will get his just due! Just watch what I tell ya.
He is trash and very selfish. I gurantee if the tables were turned she would not bring another man into the home she built and paid for with her husband. B Smith is alive and no matter how he spins the story , he is breaking his vows.
Totally agree!
Melsey Bonita 💯
Melsey Bonita you cannot guarantee anything because you don't know anything until you are in the situation and you are not.
Freedom S I agree. All these ppl have no idea what they are talking about. But, it’s his life & his decision now.
Carol G from what I read, most of these women think it's a cheating thing when it is not and they just don't get it. They cant see past their insecurities.
He is on here trying to explain why he’s not a horrible man, a despicable husband... I wouldn’t be surprised if this was going on even before B got Ill. Hire a damn nurse don’t disrespect her in her own home. Jerk!
dorothy mccaskill thank you ... hire a nurse and take his trash girl & daughter out and find a life .. this is wrong ☹️
Preach!!!!!!!
Now that I can agree with.
This poor poor woman smh she is surrounded by evil ppl
The daughter is trying to secure a place in the will. If that were her biological mom she wouldn’t respect it.
Ayana R Exactly!!!!
Exactly right.
The stepdaughter is selfish like her daddy. Always had it easy. Just dispictable!!!!
Exactly
I agree.
Their selfishness and disrespect is beyond words, stepdaughter included but Karma is really real.
KARMA NEVER FORGETS
That stepdaughter is the worst.Had a free ride off of Bee and this is how she repay her, Dispictable!!!!!
This is not only sad disrespectful and selfish of the husband and the stepdaughter to invite his mistress with welcoming arms to cheat with him in front of his wife because she is suffering from this illness. This is abuse at its highest level he should be ashamed of himself but he’s not because he has the Washington post backing him his stepdaughter backing him and his adulterous no good female with low standards. Rest assured karma doesn’t miss anyone even if they’re homeless.
Full circle always comes when they least expect it
That Karma & 7 Folds Is Coming... This Is Truly Sad Cause N All Their Minds There Riight.. This Is Sad...
BSmith build an empire while her husband and his side chick enjoys Bsmith's money/lifestyle. Lets see If the same girlfriend will be around for him through sickness and health.
SirWilliam Bryant Karma will get him.
Yeah, I don't like that at all.
She left him. He did an interview.
She chose her husband, you didn't! Stay in your place and lane.
Hmm, my concern is around the ethics of producing a video Ms Smith was clearly unable to consent to ...
This Is Me her husband most likely has a power of attorney, and consents for her.
@@donnacheiter1209 still not ethical
Other people consent for you when you can't. He is her spouse.
MJ she would’ve been mortified to be seen like this. She took great pride in her looks
@@graceg4996 exactly ☹️
You were supposed to ride it out fam. I can't respect you as a man.
Charlesbjtown.. Amen
He isn't a man he's a jerk! Let's just say it like it is-he wanted someone to sleep with plain and simple!
He is a piece of crap, this not about him he was the depressed one
HIS daughter, his mistress, and him are all living high on the hog. What an unfortunate incredibly selfish man.
Dont worry we reap what we sow
Wouldn't it also be appropriate to call out the mistress?
Typical male behavior 🙄
What a Rat Bastard
Ladies be careful who you choose to marry, some men see $ signs
I know Mrs. B. Smith wouldn’t like this. I mean my heart breaks for her. Just very tragic and sad.
Judge the situation for where it is. B.Smith is not in her right mind. She is ok. He is taking care of her. He did not put her to the side. Sure she would be mad if she was here. But her mind is not. She is ok. You are judging his situation and not walking in his shoes. Be careful for God judges your situation that you have going on.
He has only been with that woman for a year and a half. Who knows if it will last? This is not something to share.
darylh3030 I have no situation going on. Everything I do is open. What he is doing to her is wrong. Period.
No he is not doing anything wrong. You view on God maybe wrong. He is still honoring his vows. In sickness and in health through death do ye part. He has not put her away in a home. He is doing a honourable thing. Are you expressing your views through emotion. The bible says study and show thyself approved. I dont think you understand the situation and how God views this. He may bear a crown on his head for how he is doing this situation. You maybe getting caught up in man's world and not God's mercy. God is all over this and I pray he reveals his understanding to you in this matter even though it is none of our business.
darylh3030 if you are speaking the words that you follow from your god I tell you it is very troubling. I’m pretty sure god didn’t say anywhere in the Bible “ if your wife/husband gets sick it’s ok to sleep with another woman in her face and make her look bad.” The fact that he is doing this and his wife has Dementia makes it even worse. Perhaps we follow a different god?
This man is truly evil. He even spoke a curse on those who are against him. He said he wished that one of our family members would gets Alzheimer's so we can "understand" what it's like.
From what I understand when he was sick Bev stuck right by his side. She did not parade around a younger, healthier man around him.
Adult Protection is needed for Mrs.B. She needs a Conservator that will look out for her best interest because her worthless husband is only looking out for his own personal interest not hers! This is disgusting! This is a form of abuse towards Ms.B!
I'm feeling the same. Where's the rest of her family? He could've had his relationship on the side but to bring her around and stay over is sooooo disrespectful and humiliating to advertise it to the public. Seek council, keep girlfriend on the side and stop interviewing.
Yeah like where's her family? where's her sisters or her brothers? where are her friends?
YOU MEAN HIS PEINIS.
It's sad but if she has family, they don't have any say so legally, as he is the next of kin. But I bet it would make them very angry when they came to vist, if he would even allow that being the monster he is.
@@user-xr8co4oi8h I sense the only reason he took those vows; disingenuously, was to secure the bag. He never meant one word. In all my 44 years, I've never witness a betrayal so thoughtless, cloaked as care and concern.
I absolutely do not agree with this but if one does choose to live this disgraceful lifestyle one should not flaunt it for the world to see. That man, his mistress, and even the step daughter have made an embarrassment of this woman’s legacy.
I second that. If you are going to have a mistress THEN AT LEAST BE DISCREET!!! "Becky with the good hair" also has no morals. I doubt she would agree to this "arrangement " had he had a 9 to 5 job making less than 6 figures . Smh
They're embarrassing themselves
Simone Pringle It’s good actually. Helps the wealthy women of the world know that they should plan for these things in their will BEFORE they get sick. Never trust your spouse to be loyal after you age or get sick.
Exactly...keep the relationship on the low out of respect for the woman you promised to stick with in sickness and health until death...this is just so sad maan.
Sad poor B, she was everything...
Then divorce her! See you don’t want to be with her. However, you want the benefit of being financially tied to her. Idc what she (gf) is “doing.” You can hire a nurse to do what the hell she (gf) is “doing.” If you are going to move on then truly move on. Start your life with this women separately.
DreamNcolor... Thats to much like right!!! Plus he wouldn't reap her "BENEFITS" Then!👌🏾
He would still bang the nurse
He wants to maintain access to that money she has, both him and his vile daughter are snakes. B Smith is surrounded by vultures.
A Black women with a beautiful spirit,.Please allow her, her dignity "do your do" but respect her even though, she don't know what the ****you doing, give yourself some dignity man!! too.
@@qmixonline Maybe you're right ... carnal minds break so easily...
He never loved her. His affection towards her was never visible. Dude til at least her death not bring another woman around your wife. He is a Narsacist
Wait til I'm Dead!
Disturbing on soo many levels!
@@Paula-nt2uc can't please everyone, great day!
She is too beautiful for him. God bless her and heal her and may He remove this girlfriend. SMH!
He's not a narcissist.
And the daughter knows that if that was her birth mother she wouldn’t want that... she puts in time... she puts in work
The daughter is some trash with no morals. How does she condone such despicable behavior? No morals just like her trash dad.
deedee nelson step-daughter wants her palms buttered too!!!!
Ms. Smith raised that young lady as her own, thus, I was really expecting more of the daughter. However, I guess in this case blood is thicker than water.
She cares about the money only
deedee nelson all hanging in for the money
This is wholeheartedly disgusting.... the black woman in America is consistently unprotected and disrespectful. And this proves it.
Please take this down.... giving this man, and his rationalized ignorance, a platform only illustrates your solidarity. This is not love.
seems like we must have biological kids to create our own allies
Yea I really try to stay positive and not succumb to how others view us, but this right here really got to me. It’s like we mean nothing to anybody (until they need us of course).
It's a shame this woman is surrounded by devils. All three of them. Sad.
S. THANK YOU!!!
I wish she had had children, 2 or more. At least one of them would have put them in their places.
She was too nice by letting a bum control her money
I agree
Yep. Sickening.
Washington post you guys are watering down this story. They both are disgusting individuals. He should just find proper caregiver for his wife. Divorce her since you are basically saying the chemistry is gone. You and the mistress can go on with your lives away from her with the disrespect. This isn’t a race issue but it is a disrespect issue. Why would you move your mistress in the house with your wife when you know she’s not in her right state of mind.
He probably wont get much from it so he holds her as prisoner.
It is a disgusting thing to do. It's dark and hell is hot. DMX They better think about it.
That's where the lack of integrity comes in.
@@saundragordon-grant6088 Listening to his explanation of what HE THINKS till death do us part disgusts me....Yuck!
Exactly he can burn in hell 😠😠😠
Why couldn't he just get her a caregiver, someone to give him a break every once in a while?
To much like right, besides he needed to give his hoe a cover for moving her into his wife's home..
@Jax Jet who?
Because that would be too much like right.
He doesn't want anyone to witness his wrongs. He is counting the days until she dies. So he can get ALL her money. Remember whn she got in that bus & was found later almost frozen to death? That wasn't a mistake.
The step daughter would have a fit if that was her biological mother. I understand him missing his wife mind but this is so disrespectful. Why can't you see her privately.
100% right.
sharon hillman exactly. Privately!
It's a sister wife situation that is being supported by his wife who is not in his right mind.
He should not have this woman sitting up in B. Smith's face and the step daughter needs to take a back seat and be quiet. He is discracing B. Smith's legacy!
Alex's character is no where near a match to the multifaceted greatness seen in B. Smith's character and personally. B. Smith was able to create original ideas, then follow through to completion with these ideas on magazines, TV shows, commercials, top notch appearances, interviews and products in stores plus much more.
It looks like he hates B Smith her husband this is sick
lillian cohen Yes, He gives her the side eye and a disgusted look when he looks at her😭
I think this is horrible, and my heart breaks for B. Smith. My father had lung cancer that metastasized to his brain. I moved in to help my mother care for him, along with visits from his hospice nurse. His personality completely changed. He became very easily irritated and distant. He eventually stopped recognizing us for the most part, but a small part of him still recognized my mom. He would grab her hand and hold on and look at her, like he knew she was someone important to him but he just couldn't quite figure it out. At the very end, he couldn't speak at all. It was a terribly difficult time and it certainly took its toll on my mother, but she didn't "find another love" like this man did. 52 years together, and she was literally there with him when he took his last breath. Apparently some people think in sickness and in health only applies if their spouse never gets anything worse than a bad case of the flu. It's bad enough that he felt the need to do this in the first place, but what purpose does it serve to publicize his relationship while his wife is still alive?
Yes, it is wrong, but why make it public? Why?
You bring the mistress into the home, you talk about being lonely and that’s fine I’m sure it is.... then she has the nerve to say every time I see her she is happy to see me, she is not aware of what is going on, you two are living In this woman’s home that her money paid for.... and then he states he hopes he outlives her cause he wouldn’t want anyone to have the burden... is it the burden or the money.....?
deedee nelson he pissed me off even MORE when he said that!
This really isn’t it... Having that woman in HER home “helping” her just rubbed me the wrong way. Stepdaughter and Dad, your karma is coming.
It's none of my business but we all must remember this what goes around comes back around Will his girl friend be there for him just asking
Absolutely. God doesn't like ugly and this falls deep in the ugly category.😾
@@msalykat6466 I said to myself how in the world could his daughter be okay with this..... She's going to run into a man that does her the same way and I hope she recall to her mind how her father treated her stepmom TF I am so hurt by this
@Godschild. The daughter is ok with it because it is her stepmom! I bet she wouldn't be commenting the way she is if it was happening to her mother!
Natosha Sutton Exactly what I was thinking. It’s sad they have no respect for her
I lost my Mom to dementia and this cut me to my core. This man is an evil person.
Both of them are evil.
And his daughter to!🤔
Meek Black daughter too
All three of them should be ashamed of themselves and their amoral behavior! The Dimwit daughter doesn't care since it's not her natural mother. I doubt she would be so callous were it her own mother. This entire scenario reeks of disrespect, selfishness & callous behavior. Heartbreaking on so many levels.
@@dianebrown4840 you took the words right out of my mouth!
You're just angry Dan is living his best life with a white woman 😂
In sickness and in health. This dude is a lame.
Lame and faulty AF!
@coptic777Read what you've written out loud to yourself. This is one of the most ignorant comments posted here. NO WOMAN, black or white should be in another woman's home while married. There are many names for that and the fact that his girlfriend smacked him because he paid his wife a compliment, " B is the most kindness, sweetest, woman I know", tells you her intentions are clear. She sees an opportunity and she is going for it...colonizer's daughter. No shocker here.
that white women on the come up plain and simple
Would it make you feel better if it were a BLACK WOMAN INSTEAD? Would that make it more acceptable to you? Gotta love racist comments....you need to realize that people like you are part of the problem. How about the woman is on the come up? Why do you have to be hateful?
Well you are entitle to your opinion just like I am. Not sure why you think I'm racist I just said this white woman is on the come up and I stand by my opinion. Matter of fact I don't agree with him moving on at all and question why he would date and bring a new woman into this situation hell she black, white, Mexican, Asian, or etc. I still think that individual would be on the come up
preach
tiffany pennington It’s not racist. It actually exposes a phenomenon that happens all too often. Many black men see white women as a come up. When they get money or have a successful career, having a white or non-black partner is a reflection of that success. Black women are usually expected to be space fillers until the man has the ability to get what he perceives is better.
@@tiffanypennington1987 Sucks no matter who it was. However, as black women, we have witnessed some black men viewing non black women as more valuable, especially after they reach a level of wealth and success in society. We've seen it happen too often and many of us have become victims of it ourselves despite being faithful to those men. You wouldn't understand this situation personally so don't automatically write it off as racist and hateful. This is why we don't feel safe to have discussions about race with white people.
The step daughter should not have a say so in B's life!
livvytod livvytodd I agree. She's promoting this!
Its 3 against 1 person, horrible
Selfish man, trifling woman! If you have to do this, do you have to do it right up under her nose? Shameful!
Exactly!!! Disgraceful and dispicable!!!
Is easy to judge from the outside..i have seen family members go through this taking care of a loved one who you know is not getting better.
The children are no where to be seen....i would rather have this kind of joy they seem to have instead of him dying a slow death watching his spouse disappear.
@@lizg4034 he can have the side chick if that's what he wants. I think most people are saying...do this somewhere else. Why does that woman have to be in their home?
25 year's of marriage but runs to a woman who looks nothing like what he's use too, got it.
She’s ugly she looks disgusting and sick . How does she have the damn heart to walk around that house acting like her friend ? Mrs B is still beautiful and looks healthy even in her days of sickness.
What did you expect? A beautiful black queen wouldn't have disrespected another beautiful black queen like that!
@@michelle.stephenson spoken so well. This disgraceful crap.....uugh!!
@@claudiamarianidamato9499 She will always be a class act in my eyes.
@WB Sims I can see that!! Damn
This is so hard to watch. It is obvious he doesn't love her and most of the video he showed it in his facial expressions and ways in which he talked to her. This is not love, this is humiliating. This is also a sign that B, unfortunately, doesn't have people around that truly care for her. I'm almost certain that all 3 are living off of her. Of course an affair is going to be great when the wife has Alzheimer's. It is all a lie and each of them, including the step daughter, should be ashamed.
FashionablyNYE Agreed.
This is sad but God is sitting high and looking low..trust me he will issue his judgement in due time.
The daughter is too busy eating everything in sight
The way he looks at her with such contempt and disgust..frightening
Shame on him and her
My biggest concern other than the girlfriend is why is this man permitted to film her with her Alzheimer's I work with this precious Alzheimer's patients and they deserve dignity and respect in their hard journey. Which is something he is violating please stop him from allowing him to be posting videos of her through her disease. So disrespectful 🤬🤬🤬
EXACTLY!! Why would they film this? Preserve B. Smith's dignity. Don't peddle us this we're all in this together bs!!
Because he is a.. hole thru and thru... Hes a ignorant coward.
@@nonya8193 thank you
B Smith didn't wanna be silent about her Alzheimer's. She wanted to share her story with the world.
@@terrencerandall3127 Show it, but respect her legacy and what she worked for. Don't humiliate her by dishonoring your marriage vows of "in sickness and in health til death do you part" right in front of her. If you want to move on because she is not the same person she was before, quietly divorce her while taking care of her. The fact that he still stays married to her clearly shows that he is in it for her cash. His gf is rumored to also be someone who often goes after rich black men. If he is not careful, Karma might hit him badly, and it would be a tragedy if the gf married him after B Smith passed away and then took most or all of the money in a divorce settlement. It would be especially sad because it would be all that one of the most successful black women out there worked for.
Wow, just wow. This is WRONG on so many levels.
It sure is Perry!! "til DEATH do us part" is I believe is the vow. I can't even understand how the dynamics worked with the daughter being OK with it all...all I know is 'that Name....B Smith...is the $$$' … it's sooo SLEAZY maybe it's his daughter from a previous relationship?? I just can't see B's daughter letting this happen before her eyes
So many levels! I'm stunned! It's literally stirring my spirit.
@@MsBizerks that's her stepdaughter
@@MsBizerks that is just dumb. I would rather my partner live a good life. If I don't remember who I am, I am basically dead. Why torture the one I love?
I agree. You never really know what you would do in that situation. For me, marriage is a life committment it's unfortunate that she has Alzheimer's. But you don't go get another mate wouldn't want to be in that situation. Everyone see things differently
This is sickening on so many levels. He doesn't love her, his love is conditional and he's a selfish human being. I wish B could come live with me because she deserves genuine and AUTHENTIC happiness. I see the devil in her husbands eyes, and trust me God will judge him accordingly!!!! As for his live in girlfriend, she's just trash!!!!
I feel the same way... I would love to care for her.
He never loved her 💔, the way he looked at her was just cold even b4 she was sick...he just tolerated her because of money...
Hmmm.... I can't sympathize with him. Nope!
TwinGodesses me neither..when you take vowels it's for sickness and in health
My great grandmother was sick with Alzheimer's for 14 years I completely agree with him moving forward with his life and finding happiness with someone else. Living with someone with Alzheimer's constantly deteriorates the caretaker life. I wouldn't wish that on anyone he is doing the right thing, because she is already gone that's what ppl don't get! It's the equivalent of dying an extremely slow death with absolutely no cure the only thing that's for sure is the person deteriorates more and more each min each day each year. You think she wishes for her husband to deteriorate with her? I HIGHLY doubt it. If he found companionship again so what!! Let it be!! Are all these ppl with huge opinions going to go help him 24/7/365 with her. He's fulfilling his duties to basically a ghost.
@goodbyehoes so you gonna have someone who doesn't remember anything sign divorce papers. That's an easy way for someone with an illness to get robbed blind
Men can be so selfish. If the shoe was on the other foot, I doubt she would have done that to him.
Twayla Elmore absolutely the most compassionate and intelligent comment I have read yet!🤟🏻💯
I completely agree with you.
Unless you have lived it, experienced it...One has no right to judge. Sad most people just don't get that. I'm so sorry about your great grandmother no one deserves pain & suffering especially the ones we ❤️.
He sounds like he would have more relief than grief IF she passes before him. Awful.
Right! I thought he would say he doesn't trust anyone to care for her and love her genuinely... NOPE, just stated that she's a tremendous burden. Smh
marque235 he might die before her...
She’s going to outlive him.
When B Smith was in her right mind she loved him dearly. At that time he was condescending toward her (they had a radio show that I used to listen to and I felt a negative vibe about him). Bringing his girlfriend in their home is just disrespectful.
Yep...This is his payback for being mr. B.Smith all of these years, even though he benefited from it...plus...sorry...Black women..DO NOT TRUST BLACKKK MEN!
Thank you Tracy Lee for letting us know. I bet he was arrogant.
He never had a career he trying to act brand new now trying to shine...he was probably sounding arrogant on the radio show and once again b smith was right there this guy never developed anything on his own
Apparently, this is ALL about Dan. I wish I had never watched this video. He expressed his life was shriveled up; what about B? She didn't ask for this disease and because of B's character, I believe if the shoe was on the other foot, she would have been a faithful, loving, unselfish caregiver to Dan. I'm truly sorry this has happened to this dear, precious, lovely woman. I hurt for her. I'm a nurse and I've worked with Alzherimers/dementia patients for years and treated them with dignity and respect. I'm sorry for her. :(
I bet none of thes moochers have a job.
Queen Ashanti You are absolutely right! If the shoe were on the other foot B Smith was still be picking up his dirty draws I washing his behind. He does not love her he feels obligation because the application comes with the money that is attached to her estate. I’m the daughter and the father are just alike they don’t know what to love us I never will. I don’t blame the girlfriend, She is just joining the gravy train. Where is B Smith immediate family or sisters or brothers they should drag him into court and take the power of attorney. Even if they have to put her in a nursing facility where she can get the care that she needs without this stupid arrogant nasty filthy husband. What a jerk
@@lissafowller3047 I wouldnt be surprised if her immediate family warned her he was trash before her decline sadly I have relatives who cut all of us off because we didnt like their chosen spouses because they showed abusive red flags and then when theyve isolated themselves and their spouse shows their true colors it's pretty hard for us to reach out and help. This is tragic
Why would they? They got B's $300M 😂
Best bet that daughter is getting paid as a care giver.
@@pamzplace1037 She should be getting paid. That's a full time job.
It's Absolutely his choice to move on. Divorce her, and move on, don't flaunt the dirtball you're sleeping with in front of your wife who has memory loss! 🙄 He calls this woman his soulmate now.😧 My heart grieves for B Smith😢. Sir, you have failed the test! Before your life is over you will answer for the embarrassment that you put this sweet spirited woman through and making this nonsense a public embarrassment 😠
Elizabeth Jackson 🙄 People can be so disgusting and heartless sometimes. Smh
Dont care how he.try and makes it sound right it is just disgusting
Luvdaskinurin CD 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Something is serious wrong with you, you're daughter and girlfriend. This is so wrong on so many levels, you trying to make us understand, REALLY..... that is not love, that's so disrespectful and you have control of all her money. Looking in from the outside is hurting my heart but God will deal with you ☹☹☹☹☹☹☹
Omg, I HAVE been a caregiver with a spouse in this way and have dealt with all these feelings!! I know first hand what it's like to watch your spouse deteriorate. It changes everthing, your relationship, your LIFE!! I listened to Dan very carefully. What he doesn't stress is that B is dying!! She doesn't have much time left on this earth! Alzheimer's patient's do not thrive, we are not talking years and years, now that she's in this condition. Very unfortunately, B will die soon, and he will not have to caregive anymore. Yes, it is possible to give her the respect as her husband, put his needs aside during her last days and take care of his wife! After her passing, he is free to live how he pleases. A very selfish man.
You never know she could live a couple more years and dan the pimp dies first
I believe Mrs. Smith had early onset dementia. My sister was also diagnosed with early onset dementia. I first noticed symptoms around 2009. That's thirteen years ago. Now she is in late stages. I visited with her a coupke weeks ago. It was the first time she did not recognize me. She is relatively happy and well taken care of. I hope that Mrs. Smith was also happy and well taken care of. As for her husband, yes it bothers me but I understand. The man needed someone. I don't believe he should have brought her around his wife but I get it.
Facts
I think the there are a couple of reasons why he did not hire professional care for her. 1. He wouldn't have an excuse to move in his mistress. 2. He wants to keep as much money as possible in his pocket. If he hires care that would dip into the money he will get when she dies.
If he doesnt die before her
Exactly!
I do not agree with this at all...this is very pitiful...I can look in that woman's eyes and tell she is an opportunist...not once did I hear him say what HE could do to make his wife's transition easier ..it's all about him. IM lonely ..I don't want MY life to turn in to nothing...How do you think Ms. B feels? She has no idea what is going on...it's supposed to be in sickness and health..not in sickness and until I can't deal with this anymore...if he needs help to care for her HIRE someone and let them go home at night...this is so disrespectful and saddening to me...God Bless you Ms. B.. a beautiful lady.
He tries to justify his actions......but you can see the guilt on his face. If he needs help with his wife....there are many agencies that can provide in-home 24 hr care for loved ones....but your new girlfriend? ....is just wrong.
davielove11 u ain’t lying
Yes he could get help and trying to play the victim when alot of people who cant afford help take care of their loved ones makes me sick old pervert
@OSCAR and EMMY He's acting as if B is dead already... she's not dead, but very much alive...and who can say what she feels and senses at this stage of the disease. She might want her husband to be there for her 💯...not his new girlfriend. If he needs companionship, then he should keep out of sight...away from his wife....she still is his wife.
@OSCAR and EMMY he's not victim he's enjoying a luxury life with his new girlfriend while he's feeding his wife McDonald's.
Soooooo wrong!
Money money money
Wrong on so many levels but God is the final judge. Remember you reap what you sow
Preach!!
Amen!!!
My dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in 2005 when he was about 78. My mother had retired from nursing to take care of him until he passed away, aged 86 on 12/27/13. She NEVER left my dad’s side when he no longer could care for himself. In fact, she loved him until the end. She never had anybody else to take care of him except me, my husband and my children. I miss my dad then, and I miss him now. I just wished I could have done more. My heart goes out to B. Smith and family.
Paula Anne Brown Thats love. He was very lucky to have her.
First Name Last Name Yes! I agree ☝️ 😍! He really and truly was a lucky 🍀 man! I just wished as I’ve said before, that I could have done more.
I’m sorry for your loss and God bless you and your family . A REAL beautiful family does what you have done for your father. I am in tears :( I hope you are doing well these days ❤️✝️
Claudia mariani That’s okay, love ❤️. I feel you on that one. I cry 😭 thinking 🤔 about him. But I know he’s alright now. 😍 I am doing very well. I hope you are too!
if this was the daughters real mom she would never accept it! this mistress is nuts !!!
Yes, they've all lost the morality, discretion and pride of being a supportive family unit.
Facts!!!
I'll bet that HEIFER is wearing B. Smith's jewelry and clothes!!!
Why not?! If old boy is trifling enough to move his concubine into his lawfully wedded wife's house, then you know he probably wouldn't object to her wearing her clothing. "Oh, sure B. won't mind." "She won't remember anyway."
Now why did you have to say that?? I didn't need that image.
I'm going to get off this thread before I end up with high blood pressure.
Prayers for my shero Miss B. God is a healer and there is no secret what he can do!
This made me cry. This is EVIL on a whole different level.
Did the girlfriend just say that B’s husband wishes they met earlier so they could be the best of girlfriends?! So you could date her later? I canNOT
sadeladybug yea she did, smdh
Why is this foolish man making this about him? To his mistress..with all the men in the world, you had to choose one that's married! To the daughter..just because it looks and feels right doesn't make it right! Wrong is never right! You people are delusional!!!
Dionne P that ugly daughter of his is a total b...
She chose a black , married , well off man at that... opportunist much?
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Because B.Smith is a famous...she's an opportunist
I think d daughter is not thinking properly! She's still young and doesn't really realize how wrong this is! She probably just feel safe dat there's another person...in d mix ...to assist in this tragic situation!!!
Shame on Washington post who I will no longer support, making it seem as though hes the victim... this is abusive! This is poor journalism, who was assigned this & who approved this bs
Agreed they are trying to normalize this behavior. Sick!
Agreed!! This is disgusting! Distasteful and disrespectful!!
I feel the sameway
They showed themselves the post just ran the story
@@sonyaberry9805kinda but na, the international edit tries to sway the audience smh
I am utterly disgusted!!!
This is a 3 against one situation!!!
Is washington post trying to justify his actions as the new norm? You are trash for filming something that is so wrong on so many levels!!!
Husband-Selffish Mistress-Golddigger Stepdaughter-Freeloader!!!!
EXACTLY !!!!!
@Cynthia Lewis.....!!!
*PERIOD*
👏👏👏 Well Said
Preach it!!!!
They thought they were going to spin this and make us palatable for us. FAIL!!
RIGHT!!!!
This fool really gonna say “I love my wife, but I can’t let her take away my life.” Smh. I never wanted to beat someone up so bad on behalf of someone I don’t even know personally.
She saw the tiredness in my eyes ..more like the money in your eyes!!
Correct...
How could she see the tiredness in your eyes when she didn't know where she was at, does Ms B have any relatives that can sue this joker?
SIMP
Lol
He has no eyebrows
2:22 did he just tell the nail tech no color on her toes ?? I can't
And they cut her beutiful dreads!
That woman was in his life romantically BEFORE B.Smith was diagnosed. She is way too comfortable.
Yeah, got her A** rooted down in B's chairs. Yeah too comfortable, EXACTLY!
This is complete disrespect to his wife😣
Connie Garrison,so true. Did you noticed the mistress mannerism,while she was speaking. She knows deep down that she is wrong for going into their home and having this Adultery relationship. She looks ill herself and I believe that their affair may be taking a toll on the both of them. I hope that Dan,his daughter and his Mistress read all of the comments on this forum. One word for Dan and his mistress SHAME👿
@@lastdays3148 I totally agree, it's all disrespect to Ms B shame.
Yup I noticed! He managed to turn her suffering into his😔! Karma is REAL he better try thinking about that instead of HIS OWN NEEDS!
Some people will legit convince themselves that anything is alright!!! Sad.
They are all waiting for the money. I thinks its horrible and sick.
And he’s teaching his daughter exactly how a man should treat their wife.
No excuses! This is disgusting! Her husband is despicable trash and I guarantee if the tables were turned she would have never handled his Alzheimers in this fashion!
t t if only she had her own kids...someone to defend her
I just want to know where is her family? I'm a nurse and I work with clients with Alzheimer's and Demetria, I've seen husbands completely abandon their wives and move on in life and I also seen the opposite where the husbands would be by their wives' side everyday and they won't leave till bedtime. This is sad and disgusting. He's a selfish man!
And got his "woman" all up in B's house...MEN!!! Smh
Luvin JoJo How is he a selfish man ?? He has not abandoned her. Maybe what he is doing is unconventional to you but this is not about you. She is being well taken care of and not ignored or abandoned. This is not sad and disgusting
Keisha Evans He has no respect!
Freedom S I never said he abandoned her.... Yes It's disgusting for him to bring his mistress in their home.
Luvin JoJo good question about her family.
Black wealth is so hard to come by, and these black men are so readily willing to put it right back into the white man's hands.
All the hard work this amazing black woman put into building a empire and in her old age she has a Becky, who did nothing but sleep with her trifling husband, living in her house reaping all the benefits.
kandacegunter This makes me both mad and sad
@kandacegunter You at so right!! I have always felt this way. It's like once they become rich the black woman is no longer worthy of their riches. They just always have give it back to the white woman or the white man. IT'S SO SAD!!!
Exactly!
kandacegunter It’s infuriating. 😡
All we black people do is give our wealth right back to the dominant white society. All her hard work is going to end up in white people's hands by his white girlfriend. She will eventually get all of Mrs. B's money when she marries this pathetic black man.
It's about him 😡😡
He thinks this is cute. Parading this foolishness all about. There is no true justification for this. Fortunately, B. Is unaware
Cheater cheater he's a cheater stop glorifying what he's doing
It's so sad that B. Smith had no children. They would not watch and allow their mother to be soooooo DISRESPECTED. Don't you have any shame Dan? Any ounce of decency??. I guess not
None whatsoever!!!
Damn these side chicks have no shame these days
Why did he bring his mistress into his home, he shares with his wife. That is so disrespectful. Plus what kind of woman moves into a sick woman's house, like a vulture and parasite. DISGUSTING 🤢🤮
does his girlfriend works? I can be impartial on things but I cannot go with this. They have already sign and delivery the will. He does not want a divorce because he made not get that much. SHAME
Totally agree!!! Dat woman is shameless!!!
Have mercy! These people are really bold to be doing this and broadcasting it. I could never accept this as a child whether it's my parent or step parent. Words escape me.
God Is Watching Mr. Dan and that side chick!!
I've had family with Alzheimer's took care of them until the end. Apparently he didn't marry her for love just money. The nerve of him trying to justify why he has a wife and girlfriend. The girlfriend is definitely a gold digger. All opportunist even the daughter. But God will deal with all of them. Especially him not honoring his marriage
Pat Lewis Yes God is protecting B. It’s all about money, No Love at all. My Uncle is caring for my Aunt today an he said till death I will be by your side. This man and his daughter is pure evil. If she had a biological daughter no way will he be bringing another woman into her mother’s home.
Pat Lewis
Psalm 101:7
He that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house: he that telleth lies shall not tarry in my sight.
Having a girlfriend and wife is so straight ghetto. Goes to show a cheater will be a cheater. The rules of the ghetto is to find a woman who will put a roof over his head and pay his bills. BSmith believed him and he fooled her. Girlfriend choices limited to another Blackman and husband choices are over too. Karma is a mf.