Trans Allies vs Conservative Nigerians: “Trans men and women in this country are confusing everyone”
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- What does it mean to be a trans woman or trans man? Also, what’s the difference between a trans persons, a cross dresser and a drag queen? And what’s the difference between sex, sexuality and gender?
Does identity trump biology? Are trans identities unfair to biological men and women? Is it fair to call it ‘trans ideology’? Is this the reality of the world that you have to accept? These are questions and realities the world and Nigerians are dealing with, reacting to, wrapping their heads around.
And today, on #ChudeExplains, we dive in DEEP.
On the show, we have a trans woman, we have a trans man, we have people who are allies of trans people, and we have people who are skeptical of trans identities.
We have a robust, insightful debate - and I hope this brings more light than heat ❤️.
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Can we agree that we now have a 3rd and 4th gender....Trans-woman and Trans-man.
Also, can we advocate that the forces behind this movement also recommend a level play ground for trans-women and trans-men...such that they compete against themselves exclusively as opposed to matching them against people who are biologically who they are; male and female.
I have been through this argument before. They want to gaslight you till you don't see this need
I cant believe we are even having this conversation. Becareful of what you advocate for, just look at the Western countries. This has become a scourge in their societies.
I tell you!
Nothing wrong with having the conversation
Everything wrong with accepting it
We can have the conversation like Uganda did in the 'why are you gay' interview
Chude, be wise. Remember how you pushed the Buhari agenda that turned out disastrous for Nigerians till today. Now you are using your platform to accommodate voice promoting abominable acts. It is well o, I come in peace. Again I say, BE WISE!!!
He who pays the piper dictates the tunes. Who are the people sponsoring him? Once you find out, you have your answer.
I agree
Wowwwww@@aperturetv6421
Your extremism exists because people like you only like to see things from a single perspective. Regardless of whether you agree or disagree with them, it’s important to have an open mind and listen.
@@co6429 there's nothing extreme about applying common sense. What has the alphabet community achieved in the US? Confusion and chaos. You just need to look at their fruits...high rates of mental illness and regret especially among the unfortunate misled youths, invasion of women's sports and privacy, indoctrination of kids etc. Nipping abhorrent practices in the bud is in the best interest of society at large.
The most confusing thing for me is trans woman dating trans man.
That's why I still see it as an Identity crisis hence, the confusion
Life is too vain for one to attach importance to disparities in gender
alas! we are buying/have bought into this ridiculous gender spectrum nonsense.
Surely, you don't think this is a modern or Western thing? Advances in human rights, the result of positive evolution of our civilisation, is what has allowed for expression without retribution which wasn't the case in more oppressive olden days.
@@fromthefountofyouthwhat olden days do you speak of?
@@A.F.U-A a century, half a century ago?
The girl on orange can’t even defend her choice.
I am not here to judge but with the shortness of life filled with uncertainty, people will just pop from somewhere and begin to change the biological make up ordained by God just to give their own explanation.
People who do this are definitely not accepting the work of the creator. These sins we glorify happened even in the days of old but I bet that God didn't see you all coming to disrupt the original biological make up.
All these big English just to confuse us into accepting these group will just make me more confused.
Do you...You have a God to answer to and not me. I won't judge you.
May God help me to grow my male child as a male and vice versa.
I come in peace ✌️
Seriously what's with all these gender identification 🙄🙄 pleassss
Why is this even up for debate ejoor...God was specific about what he created and his creation... every other thing is man made...
inviting non-trans to discuss trans is dvnnb
Marris lives in Pluto.
That Chude's question at 21:52 is too deep for the trans community to decipher. No one can live in isolation. Before you know who you truly are, you've as a result of no choice of yours but nature, become a part of a bloodline, family, society, ethnic group and culture that has been in existence thousands of years ago. You wanna build your world? Move to Mars!
Confusion and more confusion. God have mercy
The issue for me is categorizing trans women as women and trans men as men. If gender is a spectrum then why're you trying to conform to the binary? You equate your masculine expression to you being a man and your feminine expression to you being a woman and that just feeds more into patriarchal norms.
Exactly bobrisky and James brown have made themselves jokes.
And when you have the game that they have and choose to not be taken seriously, people that don’t see people like that most times will think that everyone like them or even close to them in terms of mannerism is a joke too. Which is definitely not the case.
Be like say una fuel cheap for una. Nonsense
I was looking forward to reading a comment like this. LOL. Wit plenty wahala wey dey country. Keep an eye on folks like Chude. He's got a big platform which is a perfect spot to promote this weird lifestyle. Do not trust any of these so-called celebrities. Naija get wahala plenty wey pass this subject.
Good conversation 💯💯💯👌🏾
It was a bit hard and painful watching the first group of ladies speak on the issue. They were unfortunately not well informed on the characteristics of trans people and this made them to box them into people who just force things down peoples throat. Yeah such trans people exist but that is not a unique trait of trans people in general at all.
See how then they take English confused themselves. Simply put personality struggle.
I need an explanation of how a partner in same sex relationship appear like a woman when the claim is been attracted to fellow man.?
That's the stereotype. Not all same-sex relationships have fixed roles and not all gays are femme. Ever heard of verse-men?
@@fromthefountofyoutham here f or learning, unlearning and re- learning. Can you explain verse - man?
@@ndidiamakaakpunonu1232 A man in a homosexual relationship who can both top and bottom.
@@fromthefountofyouth bio-sexual man going both ways?
@@ndidiamakaakpunonu1232 Nope. A homosexual man capable of giving as well as receiving.
Make government banned the ladies panel 😂😂😂 when they invite you to a podcast with a topic you know nothing about, please stay and home. Nobody will beat you if you say no.
How much una de buy fuel abeg? This discussion is soo left field giving the pressing issues at hand in this country.
I think you need to invite a psychologist or psychiatrist to talk on the subject of Gender dysphoria.
I think a good point was made that most times these things are impressed on women, it is not a thing of educating & asking for some acceptance. Womanhood has complexities.
I think at times men have mother issues which caused this
18:44 - even the men I'm sure are silently saying this has gone too far
How do you feel like a man or a woman?
When President Obama came to Africa to advance this alphabet idea and got a forceful pushback and so had to strategize by use social media and social influencers to propagate this evil, particularly on the GEN Zs. Because of distance between the West and Africa, we do not see the havoc that this idea is causing in the America for instance we think it is okay and we are pushing the lie.
Because he is one of them. Kamala also came to Ghana to promote this nonsense. Why Africa? Why can't they go to their so-called allies in the middle east or Asia?
Oga chude are you guys trying so hard to push this on us??
Cause this is an offence in the country,why have the conversation
11:10 please there’re some people that just have that in them, they act feminine. This made me sad for that little boy, he couldn’t help it. I listened to someone who said he was su!c!dal as a child.
Are these people really allies or they are here to make jokes about sexuality and identity
Please the men had better to say. 💯
And contribute
The women especially the long braids was just rambling from a place of bias and wasn’t even willing to listen. Very naśty lady.
The men didn't say anything better. They just said what you wanted to hear.
The lady with the braids wasn't rambling. She made good points too, because what in the world is "chest feed"?
We all have biases, especially as Africans. The fact that you've dealt with your biases on this topic doesn't make you a better person and the fact that the lady still seems to have some bias regarding this topic doesn't make her a "nasty lady".
i'm not surprised......Unsubscribed sharperly
Chude has always been weird to me. I'm not surprised.
Rest
What exactly is going on here? What is the benefit of this episode?🤦
'We' the beast
pure nonsense!!!
Chude, what is going on with all this your inquest into ppl that live this other life!
I thought I was the only one who noticed recent trends in his videos and community polls.
Very disappointing.
I don't just get him anymore.
Please invite @amarathelesbian
Please invite @amarion