@@jannellej7917 if you did it'd make you chuckle more :) - its a drug from the elder scrolls universe - and to top it off this guy looks like an oblivion npc ( who is addicted to skooma )
Hey dude please stop harassing women. If they ask you to leave them get back to their conversation, don't emotionally manipulate them, don't force your presence on them, don't let your ego get the best of you, just leave them alone. Seriously. It's harassment.
Leave people alone, especially when they ask you to leave in a polite manner. Leave the first time they ask and not the fifth or sixth time. I’m sure you know what most of us in the comments are talking about.
@@XDwfoxface the demo set where the girls were on the park bench and he talked about burning set to the ground? Surprised they hate that one because he talks about how he fucked up and ruined that set
There's a video on Reddit with some weirdo trying to pick up a few women and fails miserably and it's been linked to you. Not sure if it's you or not but if it actually is you... yikes.
Lets gooo you took my idea! Seriously though these videos are absurd value, its almost criminal how they are for free.. And some people still complain..
Guys need to stop taking pics from lower angles...level it out. Eye level please. No hand gestures. Make sure 1st pic is smiling, than serious if you like.
I filled out my profile on tinder with some humor, dhv, qualifiers, and got more matches in past 24 hours than past month. They definitely read the profile.
@@hcantrell10 Like Tommy N said something that is playful and innocuous that let's her know you have expectations and may decline even if she's pretty. Its important to make it fun and not bitter sounding
Should he advertise that he's 40? Is that a leveling behavior? I would imagine a very small percentage of Tinder users are even going to see his profile. He could look like a movie star but the algorithm is going to make him invisible to 90 percent of women. I would love to see the actual statistics on age distribution by gender. It's not the same game at 40 and he needs to adjust his strategy accordingly. Maybe even select a different online dating app that has a different user base and a different algorithm.
I feel like understanding that you don't need to be the best looking to crush online game is the biggest mindset shift most guys need right now in game. Once you understand that, watch a few Todd V videos and let the magic happen;)
I'm short, 4/10 face, weak chin and well you get the point.. And I get chicks on dating apps. Bios are a gift if you're good with words. But here's a thing! Men that are good looking will always have better success than me, either on dating apps or IRL. I got friends who have tons of matches because they simply look good. So no, it is not an end if you're not good looking but you ain't ever gonna fuck as much as the hot dude, even if he is not as interesting or smart as u.
@@someonesomeone6616 Yeah, it all adds up... a hot guy with some game will beat out a less attractive guy with a bit more game... but you can certainly succeed well in excess of your native appearance with a good profile. In terms of photos, if you're not the best looking guy, think about how to by stylish or otherwise high value in ways other than direct appearance.
@@someonesomeone6616 Congratulations man sounds like you're doing better than most guys. I think you can actually out game a lot of good looking dudes, but if your game/other value points are similar in level then yeah for sure looks will probably tip the scales.
@@ToddVDating When it comes to conveying value through photos, why do you think some sports/hobbies convey so much more value than others? For example I used to do great on tinder when I had a few surfing pictures on my profile and that's something girls always responded well to in person as well. Is it all just stereotypes and social connotations a certain thing brings about?
I quit online dating years ago it's too complicated for me once I did that, i felt great like weight came off my shoulders, I leave it for woman and attractive men, sure it may cost me getting a relationships but at least felt better for my health and my esteem, now I can focus on things I enjoy, I don't like jokes im mostly a casual talker kind of man and if woman are not attracted to that then, screw it , I be myself I Gonna stick to it,
I'm a studio photographer. I guarantee I can take a better photo than any selfie. I look at a person's strong and weaker features, I choose a complementary background (whether in studio or on location), know how to compose, and I understand lighting. Were I doing online dating, I'd be glad that so few guys know how to take a good photo because I would have a fellow photographer take mine. This doesn't mean a fake setup with a lot of Photoshop. Just the opposite. Just good photos.
I'm not a professional photographer but I enjoy learning about it and getting better. I literally take the best photos of my mates and in return they take some absolute garbage photos of me. Can't frame at all, can't use different zoom lengths. It's like people think the 1x is the only zoom length available on a phone these days. It's incredible how little people know
Shouldn't I get pictures taken of me in high-value venues? Also what about being photoshopped onto a yacht? Would it be good to have pics with me and other hot chicks?
You can either give up and accept your fate, or you can push yourself, increase your value and be the person your past self wanted to see in the future. This is one thing game has taught me.
@@adityapatel1704 everybody can't be good at calculus, and this is pretty much what it is, do this, don't do that, do it this way, once you cleared the first flight of stairs, you are now faced with 45 more flights, clear that now all of sudden you have 100 flights, each level just gets more impossible.
Todd, what do you think about profiles of girls that have their social media accounts? 50% of girls profiles start with 'hit me up on IG I'm hardly on here'. I know they're trying to get followers. Do you think sending them a DM on their social media is a good idea and how should we go about doing that? Should we put that on our profiles? I usually don't because I'm not on social media and have very few posts/pictures of me and makes me look boring so it wouldn't help me.
Adding 1 picture with a dog made me match about 5-6 times more women and the quality also improved significantly! I don't follow rule n°1 on Tinder btw.
@@aromero9243 to answer to your question no it's not a good idea you should try to get a date or her number on tinder and if she's not there often you should probably think of investing time and energy on an other match
This is what I have observed: the black men seem to photo better & take better care of their manner of dress. Too many of the men are shooting angle photos from below (this is a no-no in photography). The "homeless" beard is a turn-off as is smoking. Who wants bad hygience & particularly bad lungs to deal with. Pitbulls are not impressive & neither are motorbikes. Both are dangerous.
I'm a regular 9-5 guy. My height is 5.7" and I've been crushing it with dating apps. You just got to make your profile look like you're in the top 10 percenter . Be creative with your pictures. Make sure they look good. Women don't even read your bio.
You probably got no matches cuz the algorithm curse! It’s real, y’all ignore it but it’s real. What I mean is that tinder knows every piece of information about you, so if you been banned or shadowbanned, your score is very hurt that you won’t be shown. Getting back into tinder is kinda tricky.
I don't think it's possible to consistently get girls "out of your league" through online dating. Referring to the statement he made about the second guy. Really, the best thing you can do in online dating is level yourself up and make your photos look so high value you almost pseudo cat fish the hotter girls.
I liked the first guy, he looks like a normal down to earth guy, I'd swipe right for that. The 2nd guy looks like he loves himself or is trying too hard to look cool. I'd swipe left for that. Maybe I'm different from other women lol
Need examples of good profiles. I hear Todd say that with good photos and a good bio an average guy can get girls more attractive than them. But where are the bios that accomplish that?
Guys, I've got a huge problem and I could need some help. I am from Berlin, Germany and get no likes at all. I have a good profile, good photos, no selfies. I broke up with my ex around 3 months ago and before that we made some contest from time to time, who will get more likes/ matches. Me with swiping hard everything right or her with just waiting. I guess I have fucked up my score... The funny thing... I switched first to Bogota, Colombia. Tons of matches with beautiful women. I thought "okay... it's a poor country... maybe it's the European look". So I switched to Los Angeles and even there I had good matches with normal, pretty girls. So after one day I went back to Berlin and.... nothing. NOTHING! Do you think I should stay longer at another location to recover my score? I really don't want to reset my account. Thanks in advance and greetings from Berlin.
Todd. I cannot thank you enough. I used to have the spend no money mentality for online dating and would get a few okay matches. I just bought tinder platinum this morning and have gotten over 30 matches today with some incredibly hot girls. I’m guessing the algorithm screws more guys than we think because I’m taking in girls like a fucking prince right now.
Can someone who knows Todd’s content tell me if having girls behind me is bad? I know it’s a sin to pose with only women in your photo, but what if it’s a group photo with guys and girls?
Those are fine and actually recommended. Pic with you and only girls no,no. Pics with you and a bunch of people all mixed in, perfect. But don’t use too many, if anything no more than one unless app allows you 9 or more pics
To make a long story short, i've got a boring life, so i don't have any decent photo's, but in general, my bio on tinder says, what i'm looking for, my standards 'kinda a few things who i am etc some funny/sarcastic thing about woman asking in their bios', i'm not sending first you need to send first, so i've said in my bio, if you ladies, want 'us' man to send first, you need to match first. in a playful way with a crying and facepalming emoji x) 'what is true lmao,
so funny. I am originally from Kiyv (Ukraine) but live now in Germany. And When I am in Kiev I write a bio in ukranian/russian. And get like 10 solid matches a week minimum. And in Germany like 10 matches a month if I´m lucky. Same bio but in german language. Of course Kyiv is a bigger city like 5 times as big as the city I live in Germany. But wtf? Maybe its because some girls just install tinder, use it for like a week, delete it (not the profile) but the app and never come back to it again or I don´t know. Only get like matches with russian speaking girls. Very confusing to me. Same with other dating apps (thought like that maybe in Germany not all girls use Tinder). Installed a bunch of other apps but same issue.
10 matches a week is low if you have a fresher account. I would probably work on improving your profile in general. As for why you get more matches in Ukraine than Germany: Germany is a far more competitive dating market. German men are some of the most sought after in all of Europe (above average height, typically high % of well built guys, incomes are higher relative to other European countries) so German women that are hot have it pretty easy mode. Ukraine has hotter women in general and a lot less high value men on average, so it's easier to stand out.
@@MajesticFerret maybe i didn't write correctly. I meant 10 solid matches ( girls I'm into and she is in to me so a date is coming in the next few day). Of course i get more (like 50 maybe) but I'm kinda picky. Also there might be a mentality issue. I find ukrainian girls more open and ready to meet than german.
Because in Ukraine more men leave to other countries to work and then there's more women than men in the country of Ukraine, probably. Also, in the West girls are so full of themselves because of feminism and because they live such an expensive lifestyle to the point they turn neurotic. In Germany there are also a lot more fat girls than in Ukraine and so the competition is harder because few girls are going to be the only option for a lot of guys. Also, in more traditional countries like Ukraine girls are expected not to be easy for a lot of guys, while in Germany they turn into wh--...--es from a very young age, so their egos are so massive no guy is good enough for them. Also, Ukraine is more traditional and people in general don't move so much within the country, while in Germany people are moving in and out all the time and so hot girls get so much more options with rich or above average looking guys.
First mistake you can make is be on a dating app. Apps are designed to make you pay while women swipe left on you save yourself depression and touch grass.
I mean, if the dude's trying to catch a mexican gril, the taco's one is a must. Everything has to have context. The bragging part should come up in the talk tho, as a woman I like to find out stuff too, and not everything being in the profile. You have to have a nice balance. With the rest, I agree! Perspective as a woman tho.
Ok. So be in a bigger better room. Wear a silk t-shirt. Why do you like tacos? Live in a ski resort. Wear your hair correctly. Look off in the horizon. Check.
I thought all that matters is your physical attractiveness. So you really mean that looking boring and doing these other things can lead to zero matches? I find that really hard to believe
These are the most obvious mistakes. Not making them is important, no doubt, but it is certainly not enough to get decent results, imho. Or may be it's just me, I don't know) Got me some pro photos, a bio that's not boring and not too gamey, learned how to open without cliches - and stil feel frustrated as fuck! I'd say, the more time and energy I put into this, the more frustrated I get... No disrespect, solid content as always.
I started getting results by adding a few inches to my height in my profile. I didn’t change my pictures or bio. If you’re under 5’10 you might as well not even try online dating.
Todd, I appreciate your existance. I like the way you presebt your information. Imo Your content is the best in this field. Thanks. P.s. video editing quality increased noticeably :))
9:05 I personally don't recommend to be funny on bios if you aren't a super funny guy because if you do women will expect you to be funny when you talk to them and if you don't they will lose attraction because you're not like the guys who write the bio. I recommend guys to not be try hard and instead to be just normal in there bios and pics too, that's way they will not have expectation about you and you aren't convey more mystery. Trying hard in any way it'll alway go against you. Show value without trying hard.
But I have 1 problem, i cannot laugh to a joke from others it never comes out of me, also when I do a joke they don't understand it ,but my jokes makes me laugh, so they say I'm wierd if I try to have a laugh with others but if i act natural I'm boring , so I'm screwed
i have someting that i stand out from must of the guys i play guitar ,both of my pictures is god one , 1 i playing with a band ,i usualy put in 3 place on tinder ,1 my main profile good lighting photo and 2 one full body with a funny lock i tried one , my bios i put 3 emotes guitar ,gym and a book i said this the things i do , now is your turn but he sure i need a better bio funny that the first time i got 15 likes in 12 hours i have few photos with girl the problem they are selfies i tend to avoit selfies also i did some test with other photos dint work well
Hey Todd you are like a father to the bunch of us thanks from the bottom of our hearts I personally love learning from you and sharing my thoughts and lessons with my friends who are struggling getting women especially in these awkward times.. So yeah keep up the good work and I would love to know more about this one thing which is, how to get a leverage on girls if you are not financially set and not phisically atractive, and also not that good in game, how can you make things work, and actually keep the girl around if you are actually one of the worse choices for a girl, because most of my friends dont have ambition for these things and even if they wanted to they probably couldnt resolve these issues, for anyone reading this I believe that long term respect and being a man of your word is a good step in the right direction. Thanks in advance
Hi Todd, love your content. This video is also amazing. My problem is often though to imaging how to fix one or another thing. So I think it would be very interesting, to see not only the mistakes but also concrete examples of the issues addressed, especially regarding images.
As a woman myself, what I look at in the profile are: Education (which college what major) Career (money potential?) Picture (looks, the way they dress (if they dress like he has no job, sorry but instant left swipe), do they look like they have life? (Only selfies, bathroom mirror pic are no good)) Answers to the prompt (I’ll see what kind of person you are)
NEED HELP!! What does it mean if I get so many more matches with higher calibre in a different city than the one I’m in?? Same photos and everything...
My complete online dating system, coming soon at: toddoda.com
Tacos without a doubt.
Facts
Maybe a little doubt. Nachos are where it's at cause there's more cheesy deliciousness involved. Makes your knees weak. Tacos, not so much.
This guy looks like a skooma addict
ha!!!!! Amazing!!!!
Don't know what skooma is but this made me chuckle.
@@jannellej7917 if you did it'd make you chuckle more :) - its a drug from the elder scrolls universe - and to top it off this guy looks like an oblivion npc ( who is addicted to skooma )
@@hennerzz3460 I understand now and this is even more hilarious.
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Can you do another video of good profiles and cool Bio examples? Cheers
I don't know if I've cringed harder in my life
Totally agree
I know man
Imagine what it’s like for the women!
We're all here to become better men, not to bring each other down.
Lol nice Polo tee, you're the first middle schooler with grey hair I've ever seen.
@Nicholas H I was born with a genetic disorder that causes me to edit pictures of other people and make their face really small.
"Hes standing in a room with a bad couch wearing a t-shirt". Damn, Todd was cold blooded in this video 🤣😂
Hey dude please stop harassing women. If they ask you to leave them get back to their conversation, don't emotionally manipulate them, don't force your presence on them, don't let your ego get the best of you, just leave them alone. Seriously. It's harassment.
Yeah this guys a nerd
I'm still Todd.
@@noiamhippyman sorry we're having a conversation here
@Nicholas H Crazy sad to see somebody trying to defend this scum bag. But of course, it makes sense that he's not the only scum bag in the world.
@Nicholas H lol you sad sad fella
Leave people alone, especially when they ask you to leave in a polite manner. Leave the first time they ask and not the fifth or sixth time. I’m sure you know what most of us in the comments are talking about.
What happened?
@@davidezaia7331 hes talking about a video of todd being a douche from like ten years ago. Flood of PUA hate in the comments here.
@@XDwfoxface the demo set where the girls were on the park bench and he talked about burning set to the ground? Surprised they hate that one because he talks about how he fucked up and ruined that set
@@TheGImp1214 They don't care of course, this is internet cancel culture behavior
There's a video on Reddit with some weirdo trying to pick up a few women and fails miserably and it's been linked to you. Not sure if it's you or not but if it actually is you... yikes.
*pelvic thrusts intensify*
"My therapist told me to talk to adorable women and you're the first."
Lets gooo you took my idea! Seriously though these videos are absurd value, its almost criminal how they are for free.. And some people still complain..
LMAO so everyone here is using the mother-accountant line XD
Yikes bro, you’re creepy af
Guys need to stop taking pics from lower angles...level it out. Eye level please.
No hand gestures.
Make sure 1st pic is smiling, than serious if you like.
I filled out my profile on tinder with some humor, dhv, qualifiers, and got more matches in past 24 hours than past month. They definitely read the profile.
Could you give an example of a qualifier?
@@hcantrell10 not a picky dater, but if you don’t eat your vegetables we probably won’t work out
@@hcantrell10 Like Tommy N said something that is playful and innocuous that let's her know you have expectations and may decline even if she's pretty. Its important to make it fun and not bitter sounding
whats "dhv"? Department of Homeland Vehicles ?
@@Trump-a-Tron It's a term for something you don't know how to do
Good tips. Need to step out my profile and picture game
Should he advertise that he's 40? Is that a leveling behavior?
I would imagine a very small percentage of Tinder users are even going to see his profile. He could look like a movie star but the algorithm is going to make him invisible to 90 percent of women. I would love to see the actual statistics on age distribution by gender. It's not the same game at 40 and he needs to adjust his strategy accordingly. Maybe even select a different online dating app that has a different user base and a different algorithm.
Girls of all ages swipe on men typically 3-7years older than them.
According to millions of collected stats released by ok-cupid.
7:50 you should be buttoned up when standing in a suit... remember that guys... girls really notice small details...
I feel like understanding that you don't need to be the best looking to crush online game is the biggest mindset shift most guys need right now in game. Once you understand that, watch a few Todd V videos and let the magic happen;)
I'm short, 4/10 face, weak chin and well you get the point.. And I get chicks on dating apps. Bios are a gift if you're good with words. But here's a thing! Men that are good looking will always have better success than me, either on dating apps or IRL. I got friends who have tons of matches because they simply look good. So no, it is not an end if you're not good looking but you ain't ever gonna fuck as much as the hot dude, even if he is not as interesting or smart as u.
@@someonesomeone6616 Yeah, it all adds up... a hot guy with some game will beat out a less attractive guy with a bit more game... but you can certainly succeed well in excess of your native appearance with a good profile. In terms of photos, if you're not the best looking guy, think about how to by stylish or otherwise high value in ways other than direct appearance.
@@someonesomeone6616 Congratulations man sounds like you're doing better than most guys. I think you can actually out game a lot of good looking dudes, but if your game/other value points are similar in level then yeah for sure looks will probably tip the scales.
@@ToddVDating When it comes to conveying value through photos, why do you think some sports/hobbies convey so much more value than others? For example I used to do great on tinder when I had a few surfing pictures on my profile and that's something girls always responded well to in person as well. Is it all just stereotypes and social connotations a certain thing brings about?
dude i look fine but women this days are entitled and a men which was a 6/10 in the past is nowdays a 2-3/10
Love your videos man
I quit online dating years ago it's too complicated for me once I did that, i felt great like weight came off my shoulders, I leave it for woman and attractive men, sure it may cost me getting a relationships but at least felt better for my health and my esteem, now I can focus on things I enjoy, I don't like jokes im mostly a casual talker kind of man and if woman are not attracted to that then, screw it , I be myself I Gonna stick to it,
I'm 33 and so far Im doing great
Coping lnceI in denial
This is what I imagine COVID looks like as a person.
I'm a studio photographer. I guarantee I can take a better photo than any selfie. I look at a person's strong and weaker features, I choose a complementary background (whether in studio or on location), know how to compose, and I understand lighting. Were I doing online dating, I'd be glad that so few guys know how to take a good photo because I would have a fellow photographer take mine. This doesn't mean a fake setup with a lot of Photoshop. Just the opposite. Just good photos.
If I decide to try online dating again I definitely want to get professional photos
what can one expect to pay for a professional photographer to go out and take some dating profile pictures?
I'm not a professional photographer but I enjoy learning about it and getting better. I literally take the best photos of my mates and in return they take some absolute garbage photos of me. Can't frame at all, can't use different zoom lengths.
It's like people think the 1x is the only zoom length available on a phone these days. It's incredible how little people know
Shouldn't I get pictures taken of me in high-value venues? Also what about being photoshopped onto a yacht? Would it be good to have pics with me and other hot chicks?
This stuff is like rocket science, I'm doomed.
You can either give up and accept your fate, or you can push yourself, increase your value and be the person your past self wanted to see in the future. This is one thing game has taught me.
@@adityapatel1704 everybody can't be good at calculus, and this is pretty much what it is, do this, don't do that, do it this way, once you cleared the first flight of stairs, you are now faced with 45 more flights, clear that now all of sudden you have 100 flights, each level just gets more impossible.
If it was easy, everyone would have it.
@@benljeffery it could be easy and everyone still wouldn't have it.
More like a gamble.
2:43 sorry my man I gotta disagree with you there. These days a lotta guys are definitely not into reading. That’s unusual.
Good profile examples pls 🙏🌋
You look like Agatha Harkness stole your magic.
The fact this content is free is insane
Imagine the value in his paid stuff
thats why u gotta show love and buy his couching and to get good faster :)
@@Lightskinlarry Exactly. That's his main strategy for selling and I'll work to buy his programs
I bought “the system” and most of the content just got uploaded to UA-cam eventually 🤔
@@musejames93 but you support him so he could continue doing it, isn't it good?
Time to get specific. Enough theory... let's look at some actual profiles!
Would be interesting if you'd analyze the guy with the most matches on Tinder ever. Stefan-Pierre Tomlin.
Todd, what do you think about profiles of girls that have their social media accounts? 50% of girls profiles start with 'hit me up on IG I'm hardly on here'. I know they're trying to get followers. Do you think sending them a DM on their social media is a good idea and how should we go about doing that? Should we put that on our profiles? I usually don't because I'm not on social media and have very few posts/pictures of me and makes me look boring so it wouldn't help me.
Adding 1 picture with a dog made me match about 5-6 times more women and the quality also improved significantly! I don't follow rule n°1 on Tinder btw.
@@aromero9243 to answer to your question no it's not a good idea you should try to get a date or her number on tinder and if she's not there often you should probably think of investing time and energy on an other match
How embarrassing
This is what I have observed: the black men seem to photo better & take better care of their manner of dress. Too many of the men are shooting angle photos from below (this is a no-no in photography). The "homeless" beard is a turn-off as is smoking. Who wants bad hygience & particularly bad lungs to deal with. Pitbulls are not impressive & neither are motorbikes. Both are dangerous.
I'm a regular 9-5 guy. My height is 5.7" and I've been crushing it with dating apps. You just got to make your profile look like you're in the top 10 percenter . Be creative with your pictures. Make sure they look good. Women don't even read your bio.
That means you have attractive looks dude , nothing more if you got good looks women responds more, it's called the halo effect
You probably got no matches cuz the algorithm curse! It’s real, y’all ignore it but it’s real. What I mean is that tinder knows every piece of information about you, so if you been banned or shadowbanned, your score is very hurt that you won’t be shown. Getting back into tinder is kinda tricky.
If you've been cursed by the algorithm, you have to completely delete the account and wait at least 30 days. It resets it.
I don't think it's possible to consistently get girls "out of your league" through online dating. Referring to the statement he made about the second guy.
Really, the best thing you can do in online dating is level yourself up and make your photos look so high value you almost pseudo cat fish the hotter girls.
1) Get a good photographer for your photos
2)Start going to the gym, lots!
3)Find a good barber for haircuts, beard trim.
When the aliens built the pyramids...
Can you show us an almost perfect profile?
I liked the first guy, he looks like a normal down to earth guy, I'd swipe right for that. The 2nd guy looks like he loves himself or is trying too hard to look cool. I'd swipe left for that. Maybe I'm different from other women lol
Need examples of good profiles. I hear Todd say that with good photos and a good bio an average guy can get girls more attractive than them. But where are the bios that accomplish that?
Guys, I've got a huge problem and I could need some help.
I am from Berlin, Germany and get no likes at all. I have a good profile, good photos, no selfies.
I broke up with my ex around 3 months ago and before that we made some contest from time to time, who will get more likes/ matches. Me with swiping hard everything right or her with just waiting. I guess I have fucked up my score...
The funny thing... I switched first to Bogota, Colombia. Tons of matches with beautiful women. I thought "okay... it's a poor country... maybe it's the European look". So I switched to Los Angeles and even there I had good matches with normal, pretty girls.
So after one day I went back to Berlin and.... nothing. NOTHING!
Do you think I should stay longer at another location to recover my score? I really don't want to reset my account.
Thanks in advance and greetings from Berlin.
Go there in holidays and check it in real life…
Why there are so many dislikes? He's simply spitting facts lol some softy males out there I guess
If you read the comments below, it seems some feminists watched an old video of his...
Todd. I cannot thank you enough. I used to have the spend no money mentality for online dating and would get a few okay matches. I just bought tinder platinum this morning and have gotten over 30 matches today with some incredibly hot girls. I’m guessing the algorithm screws more guys than we think because I’m taking in girls like a fucking prince right now.
interested to know what people's match rate is...
i get 1-3 per day. dunno ifthat's good or normal or bad
Clearly a selfie lol
Im an older alpha guy looking to get back in the game. Any tips
Henley shirts without logos look better
Can someone who knows Todd’s content tell me if having girls behind me is bad? I know it’s a sin to pose with only women in your photo, but what if it’s a group photo with guys and girls?
Those are fine and actually recommended. Pic with you and only girls no,no. Pics with you and a bunch of people all mixed in, perfect. But don’t use too many, if anything no more than one unless app allows you 9 or more pics
@@ngythe1king legend! Thanks
To make a long story short, i've got a boring life, so i don't have any decent photo's, but in general, my bio on tinder says, what i'm looking for, my standards 'kinda a few things who i am etc some funny/sarcastic thing about woman asking in their bios', i'm not sending first you need to send first, so i've said in my bio, if you ladies, want 'us' man to send first, you need to match first. in a playful way with a crying and facepalming emoji x) 'what is true lmao,
Next video could be how to convey high value life style trough photos without leaving the house lol
Excellent content Todd! We could use more of these peer review videos to help us get a visual sense of what mistakes we ought to avoid.
1:13 perfect profile shot for him. He is probably looking for getto girl 🤣🤣🤣
Your programs are the most articulate and specific I've seen. Thanks.
Todd cmon, ua-cam.com/video/JKq1zWEwH5o/v-deo.html that background is the Burj Al Arab in dubai background is good XD
so funny. I am originally from Kiyv (Ukraine) but live now in Germany. And When I am in Kiev I write a bio in ukranian/russian. And get like 10 solid matches a week minimum. And in Germany like 10 matches a month if I´m lucky. Same bio but in german language. Of course Kyiv is a bigger city like 5 times as big as the city I live in Germany. But wtf? Maybe its because some girls just install tinder, use it for like a week, delete it (not the profile) but the app and never come back to it again or I don´t know. Only get like matches with russian speaking girls. Very confusing to me. Same with other dating apps (thought like that maybe in Germany not all girls use Tinder). Installed a bunch of other apps but same issue.
10 matches a week is low if you have a fresher account. I would probably work on improving your profile in general.
As for why you get more matches in Ukraine than Germany: Germany is a far more competitive dating market. German men are some of the most sought after in all of Europe (above average height, typically high % of well built guys, incomes are higher relative to other European countries) so German women that are hot have it pretty easy mode. Ukraine has hotter women in general and a lot less high value men on average, so it's easier to stand out.
@@MajesticFerret maybe i didn't write correctly. I meant 10 solid matches ( girls I'm into and she is in to me so a date is coming in the next few day). Of course i get more (like 50 maybe) but I'm kinda picky.
Also there might be a mentality issue. I find ukrainian girls more open and ready to meet than german.
Because in Ukraine more men leave to other countries to work and then there's more women than men in the country of Ukraine, probably. Also, in the West girls are so full of themselves because of feminism and because they live such an expensive lifestyle to the point they turn neurotic. In Germany there are also a lot more fat girls than in Ukraine and so the competition is harder because few girls are going to be the only option for a lot of guys. Also, in more traditional countries like Ukraine girls are expected not to be easy for a lot of guys, while in Germany they turn into wh--...--es from a very young age, so their egos are so massive no guy is good enough for them. Also, Ukraine is more traditional and people in general don't move so much within the country, while in Germany people are moving in and out all the time and so hot girls get so much more options with rich or above average looking guys.
Come to the real world. It's not about how to. Its about getting over of that stupid trembling and thats it basically.
First mistake you can make is be on a dating app. Apps are designed to make you pay while women swipe left on you save yourself depression and touch grass.
I mean, if the dude's trying to catch a mexican gril, the taco's one is a must. Everything has to have context. The bragging part should come up in the talk tho, as a woman I like to find out stuff too, and not everything being in the profile. You have to have a nice balance. With the rest, I agree! Perspective as a woman tho.
Tacos without a doubt. "tacos", get it?
This was insightful & I hadn't realized some of the subtle things my profile was missing.
Ok. So be in a bigger better room. Wear a silk t-shirt. Why do you like tacos? Live in a ski resort. Wear your hair correctly. Look off in the horizon. Check.
I thought all that matters is your physical attractiveness. So you really mean that looking boring and doing these other things can lead to zero matches? I find that really hard to believe
Can summ this up real short in what we in finance investing many other areas to use one word my brothers: USP Yah check it up.
These are the most obvious mistakes. Not making them is important, no doubt, but it is certainly not enough to get decent results, imho. Or may be it's just me, I don't know) Got me some pro photos, a bio that's not boring and not too gamey, learned how to open without cliches - and stil feel frustrated as fuck! I'd say, the more time and energy I put into this, the more frustrated I get...
No disrespect, solid content as always.
I started getting results by adding a few inches to my height in my profile. I didn’t change my pictures or bio. If you’re under 5’10 you might as well not even try online dating.
Todd is like 5'7-5'8
@@fangsinyourneck3444 for real ?I'm 5'9
@@kennethdzengedza8978 I’m 5’12
Im 5'10 but bio says 5'11, exagerate yes, lie NO
Todd is 5'2. No excuses
If I could travel to any time in the past....
When the first online dating website was created so I could do my best to sabotage its inception.
@ 10:00 ... Did Homeboy in the UK watch ENDGAME 50 times? As in the Documentary by Alex Jones???
Todd, I appreciate your existance. I like the way you presebt your information. Imo Your content is the best in this field. Thanks. P.s. video editing quality increased noticeably :))
9:05 I personally don't recommend to be funny on bios if you aren't a super funny guy because if you do women will expect you to be funny when you talk to them and if you don't they will lose attraction because you're not like the guys who write the bio. I recommend guys to not be try hard and instead to be just normal in there bios and pics too, that's way they will not have expectation about you and you aren't convey more mystery. Trying hard in any way it'll alway go against you. Show value without trying hard.
But I have 1 problem, i cannot laugh to a joke from others it never comes out of me, also when I do a joke they don't understand it ,but my jokes makes me laugh, so they say I'm wierd if I try to have a laugh with others but if i act natural I'm boring , so I'm screwed
He flushes his farts.....
The one with the green background , he is in dubai , Burj al Arab in the Background
Yeah, girls that know Dubai will respect that photo. I'd keep it.
My best tinder advice is be as non sexual as possible in comments, at least until you get her number/date...
The first biggest mistake to make online is being unattractive, if you ugly or average delete the app
What the fuck?
i have someting that i stand out from must of the guys i play guitar ,both of my pictures is god one , 1 i playing with a band ,i usualy put in 3 place on tinder ,1 my main profile good lighting photo and 2 one full body with a funny lock i tried one , my bios i put 3 emotes guitar ,gym and a book i said this the things i do , now is your turn but he sure i need a better bio funny that the first time i got 15 likes in 12 hours i have few photos with girl the problem they are selfies i tend to avoit selfies also i did some test with other photos dint work well
What if you ARE a boring guy? What then? XD
Boring is not an innate attribute like your height or eye color
You can study it it seems ackward first but when you der positive result you automaticly become funnier
Easy. Make sure you are good looking.
It has been shown that women, if they like a guy, will giggle at _anything_ he says. Anything.
Problem solved.
@@Trump-a-Tron It's far easier and cheaper to be more interesting than more attractive
@@DjPyro2010 It's far easier to get friend-zoned when you are more interesting than more attractive
Hey Todd you are like a father to the bunch of us thanks from the bottom of our hearts I personally love learning from you and sharing my thoughts and lessons with my friends who are struggling getting women especially in these awkward times.. So yeah keep up the good work and I would love to know more about this one thing which is, how to get a leverage on girls if you are not financially set and not phisically atractive, and also not that good in game, how can you make things work, and actually keep the girl around if you are actually one of the worse choices for a girl, because most of my friends dont have ambition for these things and even if they wanted to they probably couldnt resolve these issues, for anyone reading this I believe that long term respect and being a man of your word is a good step in the right direction. Thanks in advance
Could you do a video more on profile text?
Man, I like your perspective on this, informational and useful. Thank you, Todd V Dating \m/
Hi Todd, love your content. This video is also amazing. My problem is often though to imaging how to fix one or another thing. So I think it would be very interesting, to see not only the mistakes but also concrete examples of the issues addressed, especially regarding images.
Todd great video mate, i think another thing guys are up against, is dating sites with fake profiles, women that say they are local but arent..
It's great that he is showing feedback about online dating and for those who do online dating good luck.
Robots
Why does she have to brag to her friends about you?
As a woman myself, what I look at in the profile are:
Education (which college what major)
Career (money potential?)
Picture (looks, the way they dress (if they dress like he has no job, sorry but instant left swipe), do they look like they have life? (Only selfies, bathroom mirror pic are no good))
Answers to the prompt (I’ll see what kind of person you are)
Todd, do you do phone consults?
yes. send an email to support@toddvdating.com and we can set something up.
Do you follow red pill theory ?
Is it a bad idea to say you're not looking for a relationship if you're.... not looking for a relationship?
My dating my profile is incredibly lazy lol, but I still get a lot of matches but there’s defo room for improv in my text game
Should’ve said love tossing salads
Step 1: don't use dating apps
Step 2: go outside
that robin williams from jumangi / jack dorsey edit was pure gold
i was laughing my ass off for "when the pyramids were being built"
"Studies history". Which "pyramids"? If you're going to be nerdly, know your stuff.
You should be ashamed of yourself young man
NEED HELP!! What does it mean if I get so many more matches with higher calibre in a different city than the one I’m in?? Same photos and everything...
Move to that city :))
They're bots.
AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA when Todd commented about the beard. So true. Exactly like the bald look with long vs short hair.
16:15 the people at the back is the first guy
I sense new Tinder product coming! 😁
You are so creepy. Just stop, please!
yes, get to the dirt, show us
Harry Potter and reading in general 😂 omg 😂
Really enjoyed this!!